Another tip to add: When Ragnar speaks, he does so in concrete and precise language. He does not flaunt, he does not stammer, he does not hesitate. Ragnar expresses his ideas clearly and with conviction, which you can also achieve by creating strong mindsets and fully commiting to whatever you start to say.

@bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945

3 жыл бұрын

True and show that you mean it and will not let them move you

@BlackDeath1973

3 жыл бұрын

Wasn't their some tip from Odin's wisdom which said speak no more than necessary and never speak when you would not gain from doing so?

@RatomirFilipovic

3 жыл бұрын

That is the only reason why one should speak, every story you tell needs to be lesson to someone.

@soloscriptura7451

3 жыл бұрын

He is also patient. He doesn’t speak unless he has something to say, that is why he doesn’t stammer.

@JStrange13

3 жыл бұрын

It helps to have a script to follow. People don't really talk like that in real life.

How to command respect in medieval times: 1) hit them with a giant axe 2) laugh

@ayoubalharchal1074

3 жыл бұрын

hhhhhh

@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan

3 жыл бұрын

Hit them with my success

@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan

3 жыл бұрын

And slient

@Dentropolis

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha

@rofavilla

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha, that's the viking way alright! laughin' till 2035!

1. Have ambitious goals that others want to follow 2. Speak in “you and “we” 3. Project calm in the face of conflict 4. Lead from the front 5. See through other people’s eyes You’re welcome

@lucasheijdeman2581

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@xanty_3513

3 жыл бұрын

Poor people: *lay in normal wooden coffin* Rich people: *lay in normal wooden coffin* People in the YT comments telling you everything summarized: *lay in golden Egyptian coffin*

@toxic_narcissist

3 жыл бұрын

thanks for your work, but FYI it's always in the description

@ChrisCrossFilms.

3 жыл бұрын

It's literally in the description but okay

@dresnio1363

3 жыл бұрын

No thank you

“If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.” ― Michael Bassey Johnson

@reggiebrown7549

2 жыл бұрын

This is very deep

@schwartzweisse1011

8 ай бұрын

Definitely. How my life would have been different if 15 years ago, I had decided to stay home to fight for my own professional project and eat "à la sueur de mon front". No way, no way ever our home could be occupied and taken over and shown as the " world known parasistic ones".

Albert Einstein said this: _“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”_ I think that is the best way to earn respect 🙌

@MisterPol

3 жыл бұрын

btw thank you for inspiring me for creating videos about self development and productivity too!!

@MisterPol

3 жыл бұрын

@A C isn't the quote good though?

@Kaidantonio333

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like something Henry Higgins would say, not that he really followed his own advice.

@toxic_narcissist

3 жыл бұрын

@A C imagine being jealous over likes on a KZread comment LUL

@MisterPol

3 жыл бұрын

@@RanchDressingPop-Tarts ❤️

Ragnar has the best poker face I've seen. He always smiles, even when he's angry. Which shows that you can never know what he's thinking by looking at his face.

@TheoSlaps

3 жыл бұрын

Even when he's angry he's smiling :D xd

@RVmaestro24

2 жыл бұрын

He would be a perfect character for the witcher world

@Youbeentagged

2 жыл бұрын

@@RVmaestro24 Gaunter O'Dimm whisle theme intensifies*

@MrEysox

2 жыл бұрын

Well, his smile is a nervous one when he's angry, and you can see it.

@deliastefanescu1908

2 жыл бұрын

Unforeseeable

I like how you pointed out Ragnars faults too. Just goes to show that everyone doesn’t work in absolutes.

@grisly-bear585

3 жыл бұрын

When?

@Peaslepuff

3 жыл бұрын

I like that he straight up says "you don't have to do all these things."

@newheights4782

3 жыл бұрын

Do the people that make this videos watch Netflix all day long to get video ideas

@crowsnap1

3 жыл бұрын

Only the sith

@petedawson5875

3 жыл бұрын

Reina Suwa when trying to win his wife back. First few minutes I think

Never demand respect. That is also one of the quickest way to lose it.

@savagenature1

3 жыл бұрын

"Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king." -Tywin Lannister Notice how in Vikings, Ragnar only reminded his people that he is king one time and it was in a moment of anger and frustration with them and their arguing and how all of their ideas had failed. Every other time, no one needed to be reminded of anything.

@LookHereMars

3 жыл бұрын

An Emperor that must remind his soldiers and his people that he is Emperor is no Emperor at all - Napoleon Bonaparte.

@TheaDragonSpirit

3 жыл бұрын

I demand respect.

@michaeldiekmann6494

3 жыл бұрын

"Who wants respect, gives respect" -Tony Soprano

@trevormcmanus6670

3 жыл бұрын

He tells people when he comes back to kill him, WHO WANTS TO BE KING?! He doesn’t demand that he retake the thrown but he asks for someone to have the courage to take the thrown from him. Unbelievable.

Mom: "Why is your room so dirty?" *Me, speaking calmly and concisely* "We are focused on larger goals."

@AruwakEM

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

@@AruwakEM what movie at 1:43n?

@AruwakEM

2 жыл бұрын

@@stevethea5250 limitless

@marioskomnos4661

2 жыл бұрын

@@AruwakEM 😂😂😂

@carolinesmith3631

2 жыл бұрын

*immediately dies*

Ragnar has other qualities that command his respect. He thinks outside the box and does whatever it takes to win. People love to follow winners because they feel like theyre on the right path. He forgives those close to him but not after theyve felt his wrath. This works both ways though since it made an enemy out of Rollo but a close friend and extremely loyal follower in Floki. I think the show did a great job in portraying Ragnar. They showed him as a human who has feelings. He was devestated and still thought of his daughter seasons after his daughter died. He made mistakes. He is very relatable

@stefdiazdiaz7067

3 жыл бұрын

you mean: not until after..."they have felt his wrath..."

@Sal3600

3 жыл бұрын

The show ended after Ragnar.

@latelate1000

3 жыл бұрын

He is also a very good fighter, which was an important thing at the time.

@vinaypalwe

3 жыл бұрын

Hey does anyone have any updates on the show Will the new season happen??

@vinaypalwe

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sal3600 I think they confirmed a final season of the show?

This was fun to watch. Ragnar is by far one of my favorite historical tv characters of all time. You dissected him well. You should do Uhtred of Bebbanburg next.

@yassir6359

3 жыл бұрын

Brooo , happy to see u here

@Pelipear

3 жыл бұрын

You!

@yoelicon7283

3 жыл бұрын

You're the guy who.....Well you don't see this everyday.....

@parol23

2 жыл бұрын

historical :D :D :D :D fiction fictiin fiction

@ilmerkil9038

2 жыл бұрын

Loved both of the shows as well. Looking forward to the next season of the last kingdom. (Ragnars a great great......grandfather of mine)

Have genuine respect for yourself and people will respect you. How you get that genuine respect for yourself is by self-improvement. And whoever is reading this, I wish you the very best! :)

@valarykawega9651

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

@chrisgould101

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks bro. Still working on it

@deliastefanescu1908

2 жыл бұрын

And I too wish you the same ! All the best !

@mullaoslo

2 жыл бұрын

36 years and I've never been able to respect myself.. Idk know how or where to start

The eye contact and low clam voice does magic. I learned along time ago that I don't have to like you, but if we have to work together we work, have made some friends that way.

@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan

3 жыл бұрын

I learned it a hard way , lots of slav girls gave me signs 🥰

And yet by the end, Ragnar seems like he wished he would've stayed a simple farmer.

@Nick-us6se

3 жыл бұрын

First three seasons of Vikings are the best example of a main character arc I’ve ever seen.

@OrlanLupogan

3 жыл бұрын

the irony of life :)

@reycesarcarino4653

3 жыл бұрын

He ended where he started the Ground

@savagenature1

3 жыл бұрын

"Power is always dangerous. It attracts the worst and corrupts the best. I never asked for power. Power is only given to those who are prepared to lower themselves to pick it up." -Ragnar Lothbrok, "Vikings" Season 3, Episode 1

@chaotics5395

3 жыл бұрын

The price of ambition is high, the sacrifices are high, and ragnar lost a lot in the pursue of his ambition. And I think in the end it really paid off, since the living state of the vikings is better then ever before

I'm a simple man. I see" viking" in the title, I click on the video.

@vindymadavi4732

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 🙌

@BoereViking

3 жыл бұрын

Just watched s06e11 and 12...Damn!

@speedermine3001

3 жыл бұрын

you are a great man

@carvsh

2 жыл бұрын

Same

1. Do something out of your comfort zone 2. show them interest and they will eventually show interest in you 3. Being clam and control makes you look more confident 4. "A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way." John C. Maxwell 5. Trying to see through others' eyes, makes it easier to apologize. An apology goes a long way to maintaining peace every day.

@davidbaigorria5847

2 жыл бұрын

Clam voice made me laugh so hard LMAO regardless, good tips

Indeed, seek Respect, not Attention; Respect lasts longer 🖖

@elizabethayres1062

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Very true, love that 🧡

@X-Prime123

3 жыл бұрын

Or you could just not give a crap about the opinions of others and stop seeking their approval.

@luddent7505

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kal-El_was_taken yes

I started watching your channel because I wanted to learn to negotiate better salaries, but I ended up using these skills to deal with emotional customers, conflict deescalation, and literary analasys.

@benjaminaltman4895

3 жыл бұрын

That's awesome!

Ragnar is the best example on how to earn respect. I cried so much when he faked his death and the second time when he actually died. It is like I know him as a real person not just as character.

@deliastefanescu1908

2 жыл бұрын

Me too.

Ragnar Lothbrok shall always remain one of the greatest characters in television, and with his death, the show just lost me.

@nobody-fp5is

3 жыл бұрын

I guess i wont watch the show

@ragnarlodbrok1233

3 жыл бұрын

@@nobody-fp5is it's beyond worth it, he dies old...so it won't bother you much although the death is a tear jerker...in a way it's beautiful, watch it you've never seen a more charasmatic character on film I guarantee it!

@nobody-fp5is

3 жыл бұрын

@@ragnarlodbrok1233 He dies old, is there a time skip? Perhaps i will give it a try.

@Mahmood.23

3 жыл бұрын

They killed him too soon. After his death the show was practically unwatchable

@Jelgurt

3 жыл бұрын

I still watch the show.. But I agree Ragnar was one of the best characters. Not my only favorite characters.. There were many great actors actresses who made the show great..

Sitting silently with a friend who is hurting may be the best gift we can give.

@anmolpatel793

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it is better to leave people alone give them their space

@pyschologygeek

3 жыл бұрын

@@anmolpatel793 sometimes yeah . But sometimes people need to feel there are others who truly care about them

Watching ragnar succeed, and as an inspiration, the feeling is so overwhelming putting him as an example, One of my fav shows ❤

@deliastefanescu1908

2 жыл бұрын

Mine too !

#1. Be what others want to be. #2 Play off others wants and desires. #3. Stay calm and grounded in stressful situations. #4 Don't ask others to do what you wouldn't do yourself. #5 Show compassion to those whom deserve it.

Bens getting a record for breaking down some badass shows and characters, LOVE IT

I’d love to see a similar analysis of Jax from Sons of Anarchy. Maybe even address the other brothers and their traits as well.

The fastest way to gain respect? Learn to wield sharp steel like a god

@AxxLAfriku

3 жыл бұрын

I could cry when looking at my like dislike ratio. I have so many jealous people that my videos always get way more dislikes than likes. Please don't be jealous, dear gaw

@CH1PP3NDAL3

3 жыл бұрын

@@AxxLAfriku Orrrrr....they are just that bad

i love that you do the best movie characters and analyze them. Ragnar is my favourite tv-show character ever because he represents what it means to be human with both his flaws and good traits. Love the work and keep it up.

I love hereing about other people's careers benefiting from these videos as I've used these skills to improve myself as a manager and a leader

This video: Go Viking mode - get respect. Me: Goes Viking mode - gets restraining order.

@adammcallister3293

3 жыл бұрын

only survivors get restraining orders

@irishboi2411

3 жыл бұрын

Lol...did you at least yell while holding dual axes "Valhalla"!!!!!!!!

@shadmanhasan4205

2 жыл бұрын

Hah.... police? Sorry bro.... them "Anglo-Saxon Officers" (not race, culture) will never enter Valhalla 😊

@tomeofslyev

2 жыл бұрын

Well, going Viking isn't the same as going barbaric.

A note to that dude who sent that last email that he read at the end: be nervous or bad around people doesn’t make you and introvert, and being good with people doesn’t make you an extravert. It’s the fact that you get energize or tired from being with people. I’m an introvert but enjoy hanging out with people and tend to be good at social situations

Love how you take peoples characters and are able to break it down making it easier for us to digest

I naturally avoid eye contact. There is odd discomfort when I attempt eye contact. Possibly either a fear of connecting with people or a reluctance. Most times I am in a social mood because I had a few drinks. I am constantly on the fence when it comes to what I want in my life when it comes to social interaction: do I want friends, do I want a romantic relationship, do I want to be alone? I have no idea.

3:37 one of the most emotional conflicts in Vikings, wow

Ragnar has the same qualities as Askeladd: ambitious, won for the team, stayed calm in all conflict, led from the front, and he saw through his men's eyes with compassion. lol he was also a viking

I thought you have to perform a blood eagle on your boss but I guess this works too.

@aminazt3499

3 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀💀😂

When you are calm in a space where people are worried they will automatically respect you and consider you the leader

Ragnar really is a great example to draw from for commanding respect. Awesome video!

Would love to see an episode on Daryl Davis. The black musician who speaks to KKK members and got 200 of them to renounce their membership, some giving him their robes.

@AllForgottenMemories

3 жыл бұрын

This, dude is a badass and mean piano player

@benjamingeorge8241

3 жыл бұрын

What do you think the topic would be though? Empathy?

@AllForgottenMemories

3 жыл бұрын

@@benjamingeorge8241 probably empathy and self control in very hostile situations.

@thefnaffan2

3 жыл бұрын

They need to make a movie about him. His story is awesome

@philcooper9225

2 жыл бұрын

@@benjamingeorge8241 that's one thing us black people are lacking in greatly, empathy

Easily one of the best videos you guys have made. Super informative.

This channel is a gold mine and has been for a very long time!

You've helped me grow as a person and as a channel! Thank you so much for sharing your valuable insights! And to the person reading this, you have an amazing future ahead! Just believe. ❤️

Travis fimmel is the most underrated actor. IMO, HE ACTS BETTER THAN LEONARDO DICAPRIO.

@ajmalsafi13

3 жыл бұрын

Seems like everyone agree....

@vijiraju6238

3 жыл бұрын

@Alex Leblanc Actually, no Hey, it is just my opinion.

@shompurnagunjan

3 жыл бұрын

I am a huge fan of both. And I would say, he hasn’t played enough role to be equal or better than Leo.

Dude I love your timing,I just started watching Vikings!!

I like the breakdown. Thanks! I needed this to specify some things for me to work on.

I used to find myself (woman in hijab) in situations where i am not heard and need to repeat myself. especially in group discussions. i started developing self-taught technics, and most of them i found here in your videos which boosts my confidence a bit and also, now, helps me develop technics faster. I overcame my issue of not being heard by speaking in an engaging slow tone and eye contact throughout the discussion. Now 2 or 3 years into practice I started noticing that people ask me to speak and love listening to what ideas i have. Got to say thank you, a lot of developing was throughout your channel on youtube.

i loved floki, rollo, lagertha, ivar and many more characters from the show. but RAGNAR made it legendary

@deliastefanescu1908

2 жыл бұрын

So true !

@ineednochannelyoutube2651

2 жыл бұрын

I would put Ragnar and ekbert as some of my favorite fictional characters of all time.

These 2 guys are killing it with these videos. Both so good

This is the best channel on youtube every second spent here is worth a lot

1. Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join. 2. Speak in you and we. 3. Project calm in the face of conflict. 4. Lead from the front. 5. See through other people’s eyes.

Thanks for making videos like this. I feel like I'm losing my communication skills from being in quarantine.

@8:34 THATS how you lead, everyone wants respect. Ensuring respect in common goals while drudging through the muck is how the real leaders do it. Great clip

These videos are going to help me go past my goals in sales. I needed this! Thank you

That "I & MY" scene in the bed is exactly how you get women to instantly lose attraction to you even if you've been together for years.

@elarvo7363

3 жыл бұрын

Impregnating another woman is one of the fastest ways to encourage your lady to leave you

@MrDeano-eu9rg

3 жыл бұрын

@@elarvo7363 yea that's the main reason here. I think his statement has been over analysed.

Helps that the actor was amazing

I love how he acts scared when conversing in the beginning of meeting a new important person then he changes and starts to control the conversation.

Being ambitious and Seeing through the eyes of other’s are A MUST! No judgement + developing new perspectives. Great video

This is the channel I will recommend to my children and grand kids!! It turned me into a beast at work and in life!!!

You guys are actually really good. Your psychology skills is the best. I want to tell you a little story how I took what I learned from you & ruined my life. This is no fault of you guys as I learned & implemented the skills you teach for my total selfish gain & I hurt everyone around me. I was & am a extreme introvert. I did not want to speak to anybody in public, I did not want anyone to speak to me whether I knew them and especially strangers. I had a girlfriend for 15 years who I turned into my wife & we were married for 5 yrs. I was very well-off working by myself, at home, my own business & my only friends were my wife's friends, their husband & their children. Maybe 14 people altogether. I knew I had this issue with being an extreme introvert which I did not like because you cannot avoid all social gatherings for your entire life. I started watching your videos about mid 2017. It was very basic how to talk to people in Social settings. I would view your videos 4 or 5 times & then I would implement 1 or 2 of the aspects of the video into my life. I would do this over the next couple months & everybody I interacted with was really liking me instantly for a lack of a better term. I realized this & I unknowingly started to manipulate people to do what I want. I'm told I'm a good-looking guy so it all spiraled out of control for the next 1- 1/2 years. Long story short, I had countless drop dead gorgeous models want to be with me & older women that wanted to give me stuff & do things for me to be around them. In the end my wife of 20 years divorced me. I started drinking heavily & I realize I didn't want anything else besides my wife. I deserve everything that has befallen me over the past year & I have reverted to being the introvert that I was before viewing your videos. Like Uncle Ben said, with great Power comes great responsibility...

The part about eye contact and low voice is probably the most valuable bit of info in this vid. Works for me at work (construction field), all the time, and usually results with de-escalation of a potentially violent circumstance between men.

You guys are amazing real people. I Just bought Emotional Mastery partly to support you guys besides wanting it's content. Just so yall know, the podcast was a big reason I got it because it kept me listening to the amazing content. Keep it up yall!!!!!

I started watching this show last week and when i saw Ragnar was literally like: Charisma on Command need to do a video on him🤣 nice job guys!

@ChristosMourelas

3 жыл бұрын

enjoy it till mid season 4, its all getting worse after that

@jasonvelasquez6438

3 жыл бұрын

Ragnar carried hard

@ineednochannelyoutube2651

2 жыл бұрын

I would watch until the end of season 4 and then just stop. The latter half has incredible writing when it comes to Ragnar and Eckbert among other weird and bizarre storylines. Lagertha has some good stuff too. But just stop there YOU ARE DONE! No need to watch anymore!

Hey man, love your channel are really like all your videos. If I may suggest, I would like you to examine Christain Bale's Batman and his personality as both Batman and Bruce Wayne.

Brother you got some really good advices here. I swear I’ve watched this video few times just to memorize as much as I can.

Great video, learned some good points and now I want to watch Vikings from the beginning again.

That 'calm in the face of conflict' one seems to depend on who you're dealing with though. Sometimes remaining calm can just get the other person more riled up because they think you're ignoring them or not taking them seriously. It reminds me of the advice when you're confronted by a big cat, to make yourself look bigger and louder to dissuade them from attacking, sometimes acting more psycho than they do is better than lying down and offering them your jugular.

What I also like about the scene with Tostig (the old warrior) is that Ragnar could have said "Yes" and be done with it...but he rather let all people around him to say that, showing the warrior that all around him want him there

that " I WIN" in paris gives me goosebump everytime,, look how his voice changes there

BIG respect for you about the spoiler alert through s04. I just begin watch it till s02. Keep up the good work.

This was a really good one. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Would love to see more videos involving period pieces. Perhaps a character from Downton Abbey or Boardwalk Empire!

I'll just roll quick....+7 respect points. Alright, let's get these TPS reports done!

I was searching for this video 2 months ago but didn’t find any. Finally Ragnar's charisma 😎

The performance of ragnar is so good it's inspired me to stop holding back, and really increase my confidence.

One more thing I've noticed, Mr lothbrok does and says what you least expect him to do or say. He literally does the exact opposite of what you expect

I have said this before and am gonna say it again. Please do one on Frank Castle. I know he probably isn't that popular but he's character breakdown would be awesome, considering how complex it is.

@savagenature1

3 жыл бұрын

Hell Yes!!! Easily one of my Top 3 Favorite Comicbook Heroes I'm sure you're specifically talking about Jon Bernthal's Punisher, but there are important things that can be discussed with just about every version

1:00 I like how Ragnar ignores them instead of saying thank you. He is saying, without actually saying it, that it is normal for him and nothing special.

Thanks for covering Ragnar. Such a great character. Lot to learn.

“Ragnar has compassion” * shows a scene where Ragnar strangles an old man to death *

I'd like to point out how leaving a shield wall will break the entire wall and cause harm to everyone in it.. nvm keep talking charlie love you k bye xx

@bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945

3 жыл бұрын

😶for real? Even if it's a large wall

@00g99

3 жыл бұрын

BKhunga It takes time and effort to repair the hole caused by someone leaving the shield wall, plenty of time for the opposing force to strike.

@chaotics5395

3 жыл бұрын

In shield wall, ragnar tended to stay in the back of the shield wall anyway, so it's not really cause harm especially when he's needed more at the front of the shield wall. He usually did this when the wall start to break or a new formation is needed

@x099534

3 жыл бұрын

Part of what they trained for was replacing people who died. They were plenty adept at replacing people in the wall.

@OkurkaBinLadin

3 жыл бұрын

@@x099534 Dying on the spot is not the same as simply leaving the formation ;) There is reason riot cops NEVER EVER do that and old Romans punished such behavior with capital punishment.

Lot of useful informations which I will use in my life. Thanks man!

thank you very much, i have learned today something. i gonna write this down

10:07 Engineer without a bachelor's degree seems interesting. I wonder which world he is living in.

@joecrypto2459

2 жыл бұрын

especially one living in the Netherlands.

You can decode IVAR THE BONELESS . HE'S ALSO A MAN FROM WHICH WE CAN LEARN.

@Rubymoon82

3 жыл бұрын

Ohhh yesss.

@akshitamehta-rashid6401

3 жыл бұрын

Aye aye!!

ragnar is literally immortal, even 1100 years after his death his stories are still told in the form of a series

Would love to hear a conversation between Ragnar & Miyamoto Musashi over a mead or tea. Would be full of life lessons

5:17 I'm confused if he's Ragnar or Ubbe

With a name like Ragnar, he's already got skills.

LOVE THAT SHOW!!! Thanks for sharing this. We can all command respect, right? :)

Always so interesting and fun to watch 👌

i was waiting for when youd make a video about ragnar!!! TOP 2 after TOMMY SHELBY

Great vid could you plz break down Hugh Jackman in a vid plz thx xx

I have been waiting for that video for 2 years.

I have always wanted to lead a Viking army and now i have the tools. thank you ✌🏼

I’m just curious, Charisma university is $99.50 a month for 6 months, that adds up to approximately $600. I have seen many links and ads saying “pay here and change your life” How is one certain this is a real deal

@blackcat3585

3 жыл бұрын

Such a good question!

Great video ... I struggle with prolonged eye contact for whatever reason but I will work on that now knowing that’s viewed as weak

@clairewillow6475

3 жыл бұрын

Ya when I lived in a rough area and some stranger gives me a dirty look or starts something with me I make sure to look them in the eye until they look away first

i have been waiting for years for this video in your channel...

Thank you, for this video.

"Cut my bonds and give me the sword." "Would you deny me the right to enter Valhalla?"

“Most of what you think of as your need to express yourself is to merely offset your insecurity. Here you realize that everything you say has value or should have value. Even when you are being light hearted, you want it to be a meaningful experience without trying to create the meaning. Here you become more natural. You become more like the natural world, which is silent and still except when things are happening. The person who is still and silent has great depth and often evokes respect from others, particularly if his or her silence is born of Wisdom.” A quote from a book titled Wisdom from the Greater Community, Volume II. I strongly suggest both volumes of this book to all who wish to gain a greater perspective and wisdom in life. To read them online for free, visit *NewMessage org*

I have waited for this for years

Your advices are just marvelous.