Well, said my friend Toni 👏👏👏👏 I couldn’t have said it better. It happens to a lot of families and they should be ashamed of themselves. It was a good video.👍 you are right someone had to say it thank you for sharing. Stay safe take care and God bless everyone God‘s watching.🙏💕✝️👍🌍

@BettyElaineHall

Ай бұрын

Ty you too,be blessed and take of your self 🙏🏽💕.

She telling the whole truth. And im so glad she specifically called out the parents who put their final arrangements in the people's name who was too busy to come see them because the parents also low key believe that the kids who grew up & LEFT THEM are the ones who are the most reliable & responsible. And that's backwards as hell.

@LatreseMagee-hu2oo

Ай бұрын

That’s what happened with my grandpa, if I went down there I think they would have killed me , that’s how thirsty they were not to mention they hated me for being a favorite

@phyniseconner2011

Ай бұрын

@@LatreseMagee-hu2oo sorry to hear that.

If one or two parents care for five children, five children should be able to care for their parents in their old age. 😳

@59564

Ай бұрын

You would think it would be this way. As long as they don’t have to take care of the parent, then everything is fine. I have siblings that wouldn’t even bring my mama a slice of bread if she was hungry. SMH

@temosho_m

Ай бұрын

Genuinely , how hard can it be ?

@dianabailey9673

Ай бұрын

Took care of both my parents and one brother who was autistic, no way would I put them in a home for elderly or autistic, mentally challenged!

@aprilm4423

Ай бұрын

Trust me, honey 🍯. That almost never happens. I work in home health and I see it....🙉🙈🙊

@temosho_m

Ай бұрын

@@aprilm4423 it’s really sad , disgusting even .

That’s crazy! Shame on the parent(s) for not leaving everything to the one who took care of them, or at least dividing everything equally. Smh..

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

Very very hurtful 💔 😢

@ladyedraven

Ай бұрын

Sometimes that stuff has decided before they know who's gonna take care of them when they get sick.

@Katya-zj7ni

Ай бұрын

Always make a Will, even if you think you have nothing. In UK the State can take everything if you die Intestate ( no Will) and family aren’t around. There could be old pensions you don’t know about. Wills can be bought easily and witnessed by two people who are not beneficiaries. Always make a Will while you have your mental faculties.

@vanillapudding9471

Ай бұрын

It ALWAYS happens like this…I’m so happy I learned recently that some people that don’t appreciate anything!!!!

@kriswilldoo6042

Ай бұрын

Typical black parents.. sad to say

She's preaching the truth today. My mom hasn't passed but, when she was first diagnosed with Alzheimer's, my oldest sister went down to MS...she never called or went home, got an attorney, got power of attorney, sold all my mom's things...clothes and shoes included....we don't know what she did with the money, took the house, and the car and this all while one of my other sisters was living there taking care of our mother, and great care of her...and told my sister she needed to get out or pay her rent. Once she put the house in her name, that meant she had to pay property taxes and higher property taxes...she lives in GA...and wanted everyone to chip in and help her pay the property taxes. After a few years of paying the property taxes by herself, she turned the house back over. All of this while my mom is still living. Just like before, she doesn't call to check on mom or goes to see her. The rest of us go home to see her, called to check on her, help financially with supplies, and I go and spend two months at a time each year to give my sister a break or when my sister is sick or something. Non of us want anything, we all agree that the sister who lives there in MS taking care of our mother should get everything except the oldest..she want to sell the house our mother always said she wants to stay in the family. And the thing is she's not struggling, she doesn't need the money, she already owns 4 homes. My mother was a single woman raising 6 children, a domestic worker with a ninth grade education, sometimes working 3 jobs...we never went without, the first on both sides of her family to own a home, a brand new 4 sided brick home, 4 bedroom house, and up until this day she's still the only one of her sisters, brothers, and immediate relatives on both sides of her family that owns a home.

@BettyElaineHall

Ай бұрын

Kudos to your mother she's a remarkable woman 👏🏽🙌🏽 🥿👑👜.

@royalnubian62

Ай бұрын

T.M.H.saw it all. 🙏🏿 Respectfully, your sister is a 👹emon! That was so hard to believe. That your own daughter, sister could be so callous? Remain strong, sis. Your still here 🙏🏿😌Mom too.Sending you love and light and more strength🙏🏿❤️🖤💚I lost my beloved from Alzheimer's. 3yrs. I appreciate What your going through.🙏🏿💯

@MaLiArtworks186

Ай бұрын

Your mama has not died? Wow!

@cocolyndon4604

Ай бұрын

@@MaLiArtworks186 No, she hasn't, my sister takes great care of her. She's had Alzheimer's since 2012. I think if she hadn't been home instead of the home my sister wanted to put her in, she may have passed already.

@cocolyndon4604

Ай бұрын

@@royalnubian62 My condolences and many blessings to you and your family.

Ma'am your feelings are valid.

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

They stole my grandmas house,my uncle’s laundry, car in my name. They even tried to steal my property. Stole my son’s inheritance as well. And it hasn’t stopped yet. But God. You speak the truth how did you know. Bless you 💚🙏🏾

This generation is too selfish to even comprehend what she’s saying!

The one that was taken care of her mother, is going to get blessed to the fullest, and a Well done from God. That's more than what "FOR SHOW" sibling is going to get.

This is why parents need to fix this issue PRIOR TO passing... get a Will(s), Power of Attorney(s), Medical Directive(s) taken care of immediately. Stop relying on the survivors to figure out your wants and wishes after your passing.

Say it! It needs to be said! 💯

I like Shirley.. She’s speaking all kinds of truths❤.. Also; when said family members make the occasional stop by.. It’s a strong possibility, you may be looked down upon and pushed aside by the very people you’re helping. Because you don’t have the so-called accomplishments as them. All because you’ve spent the majority of your life, putting others first.

What goes around will come back around it is done ✅.

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

It better! Because this is one of the most painful things to ever go through, and coming to terms with it is a battle in itself.

@Confessions089

Ай бұрын

Depends on the situation.

That's called a Narcissist family members. Sounds like the family escape goat. Damn I knew she was talking about my stories

@ummmummm563

Ай бұрын

*scapegoat

She said what she said ❤

GIRL,I AM SPEECHLESS,YOU ARE TELLING NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH ❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️ALL FACTS❗️

Finally someone can speak on this. The ones that are not the nurturing souls need to understand that the nurturing ones were given that gift from God and it is a God given trait/skill which as needed in the scope of things as a mother to a baby. Or elders revert back to the “infant stages” and loving care is as priceless and as needed as a mothers loving care. It’s PRICELESS!!! There is no substitute for a care giver. A phone call and a holiday visit does not compare.

Woooo Family can be something else Gotta leave it all I'm God's hands

@rondasmith4037

Ай бұрын

NOPE! FAMILY IS SOMETHING ELSE BECAUSE THEY AIN'T FAMILY!

@user-lv9my6zf3v

Ай бұрын

sometimes skin does not want to act like kin.

It is amazing to watch these kinds of scenario's play out. The amount of disgust and vitriol families can pour onto so called loved ones is crazy.

@robinknowles4013

Ай бұрын

Just shows to go ya, you never really know a person until a situation like this. Not easy to see the true colors coming out!

Oh, yes!! The one who has no time is the first to criticize. Front row at the home going....YOU speak TRUTH!!

@59564

Ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯

Jus cus its blood dont mean love

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

😂yeah that's the one!

That’s LITERALLY my mama she is the child that literally sacrifices NON STOP!! ❤❤ Prayers to the sacrificial child!

I have siblings that not only did this, but they kept me from not one but both parents funeral. I have stayed away from my family as I have learned they are toxic. I was experiencing life threatening illnesses and Mom said to take care of me. I have not heard from either sibling. Children were brainwashed into not being there for me. It's all good though, they are getting back in life what they gave me. I laugh now because they needed to hold onto things to remember my parents. I by giving up on all of it smile knowing the memories I have of them cannot be taken. Loved ones do not die, they just move on to guide you where humans can no longer interfere. This is my life, and it is truly a message from beyond the veil. It would be there 52 wedding anniversaries. So, the only ones to grieve by shedding tears it is guilt, you are a reminder of what they did not do. Your tears are of joy, memories you made they do not want to hear about. Love them. Pray for them. forgive them. Everything your parents taught you in life will now be your companion. I live my life as too blessed to be stressed to be caught up in anyone's mess. let go, let God for he is good.

@sexyscorpio8087

Ай бұрын

I Didn't Go to My Mom Funeral. Didn't Have Time for the BS. IT is What it Is ❤😮❤

@Lostgenerationdegenerates

Ай бұрын

I have a similar story, I’m number 10 amongst my siblings my younger brother is number 11, our fathers last voicemail the night he died was to look after me because he felt I would take it the worst since I took him home from the hospital, his request, he died overnight. Have not talk with any of my siblings in three years although I make sure their children have what they need. I now feel that if something were to happen to our mom I wouldn’t feel comfortable attending with them there. Luckily my mom has written a side will to me, not for money because my sister is the beneficiary 🙄and she and I know how that can turn out. She will give me my grandmothers 2 lamps and that’s worth more than gold sentimentally.

@kendellforest5641

Ай бұрын

They were never toxic the insurance check had them toxic😂Unfortunately money will change anyone

@slicedice577

Ай бұрын

How could your siblings STOP you from attending your PARENTS funeral🤔

@user-lv9my6zf3v

Ай бұрын

The law was involved because they drew weapons on me. no contact order, could have been lifted for one day but it was my blessing.

I’m the youngest of 6 kids. My father had Dementia and I knew he wouldn’t be long for this world. I saw a tear in his eye and I held his hand as I was laying beside him on the bed . I told him, Daddy, you don’t have to worry about Momma, I promise I will make sure she is taken care of and I kept that promise. He died in 2004 and my Mom who was 92 died July 3, 2023. I held her hand for 14 hours until she took her last breath. I had gotten her affairs in order 8 years before she passed away. I made sure that the things she wanted to give away to her kids was taken care of years before she passed. She asked all of us what would we like to have if the time came, all 5 of them came to get her furniture pieces and whatever Knick knacks that they wanted. Everything else went to a Thrift store. I got her desk that my Dad bought for her on Valentine’s Day a long time ago. I didn’t get it until the day she passed because that’s the one thing she wanted to take with her when she left her home and moved up my way. I went through whatever she had left which wasn’t much and packed it up and took it to the funeral. I told my siblings that they could double check what was left and gave them a few small boxes to look over. I made sure I got her Bible. They might have gotten the majority of her things, but I got to be with her and that was priceless. I only get along with one of my siblings and he is the best brother a sister could ever ask for. I truly LOVE my parents and I miss them like crazy. I looked up towards Heaven and told my father that I kept my promise.

@ToniToniKitchen

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

Yea, most of the time the parents are at fault. I’ve witnessed them prefer the one who doesn’t care for them over the one who does. Still leave them an inheritance. It’s all true and sad.

I remember this video from a while back, its refreshing to see it again, she's speaking the truth tho.

I’m going to save this video for someone I know,great job

Just one more comment here. I experienced that very thing. I was the one who cared for my Mom. My only other sibling stated 'he didn't have time, because he was going through a divorce.' Well, I did it all, and it was a privilege. I grieved all through taking care of her. He, pretty much put on this big show when she passed. I was okay, because she and I had had all of our moments. Everything you said is true. My Mom did divide the little that she had evenly, that was not the issue. Not much has worked out for him as I understand it, he doesn't communicate with me and that is just fine. I've never had much, BUT GOD HAS PROVIDED EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE NEEDED. I BELIEVE GOD HONORED MY SACRIFICE FOR ONE OF HIS OWN.🤔🙏🙏❤️❤️💃💃

@lifeinpodunkville543

Ай бұрын

You obeyed the 3rd commandment, and your reward will be great.

I thank God for my sister who stayed. I am the one that left SC and if needed I will assist in family affairs when required but my sister has the say over everything. She can have everything. She deserves everything. She did everything.

Preach on it!

35 years I lived in that house with my mother, took care of my mother, clean the house and at the very end got her back from the brink of death. They came down sold the house picked up my mom up. She said I don’t know I can’t take care of mom in my house and she put her in a home and killed her literally killed her.

Ma'am I truly respect how you brought everything to the table concerning this family feud that happens nine times out of ten when our loves pass; you stepped up to the plate thank you so very much for sharing may the Lord forever bless and keep you in his care.❤

She speaks the truth.

It's time for the truth Ruth! It's time 4 da truth✨👌👍💃

Thank ya! You Betta Preach Mother Shirley!!!👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Come on auntie tell it auntie

Great sharing maam

Thisis almost a year old. If not older.....Still wise words😳😡

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

While there's humans on this earth this message will always be required. Bad seeds come in all disguises and in all different types of families. Quite shocking when it's you're own. So hurtful 💔

@robinknowles4013

Ай бұрын

I don't care how old it is! My first time seeing it and I am grateful for it!

Tell the TRUTH, and shame the DEVIL.

EXACTLY why I cut off my only sibling. She & other relatives simply refused to help me take care of mama. I learned: "I no longer hold you responsible for meeting my expectations. If I never see or hear from you again, I'm okay with that & I wish you well".👌🏼❤🙏🏼 I'm done.

@thatbemefool

Ай бұрын

They didn’t have to help. Why was the expectation that YOU take care of your Mother? Are you a medical professional? Were certain insurances set up to sustain you and your financial obligations in order to take care of your Mom? You had expectations of others they probably couldn’t afford to commit to or simply lacked the desire. You’re in the wrong here. You need to call your sibling and apologize for imposing YOUR expectations on them. It’s very arrogant.

I'm glad I do things from the HEART...MY REWARD IS IN HEAVEN...

Facts!! Tell it Sis!!!

😢 This video has me in tears because this is EXACTLY what I'm going thru right now. Even the siblings who still live in the same city only come visit a few times a YEAR! But whenever a decision has to be made they want to supervise my actions even though I'm the only one taking care of mom and her business. Thank you for this! Maybe some of these entitled hypocrites will see it.

@lifeinpodunkville543

Ай бұрын

You definitely should text this video to them! They are counting on you being distracted and tired from all of the responsibilities you've taken on. It would be helpful to keep a dated journal with your signature on each entry. If you know someone who is a notary, and there's anything that could cause an unfair divide, you can help your mother to write out her final wishes. I did this when my mother was dying, and although it was hand written, I made sure to have it notorized which made it a legal document. There was nothing my siblings (who lived in town, but rarely came around because they were so busy) could do. Yes I had to be stern with my mother about a few things, but I reminded her that I was the only child who took her to every appointment 90 miles away twice a week, and left my family to stay with her when she was too weak to be alone, and she agreed. One thing I didn't think about was the flowers and plants that were sent by extended family & friends. They (my siblings & their spouses) swooped in and made sure that I didn't get even one plant or flower! I'm laughing about it as I tap this out because my mother had 12 beautiful plants in her house, and they are here with me! Do you think any of those funeral plants they swiped up have survived? Nope!

@peaceandlove33

Ай бұрын

❤

Well, I know from experience that what you're saying is true - I am that child that gave up EVERYTHING to give care on behalf of my mother, father, oldest sister and an emotionally challenge sister who were living in deplorable conditions when I arrived. My oldest sister could no longer walk and was lying in her waste. The house reeked of bodily waste and non of my siblings/family did anything. All I got from my siblings and other family was ridicule, mocked, laughed at, I was physically, verbally, and emotionally abused and after all was done lived in a domestic violence shelter for a few months before I was rehoused. I was with my father when he died and they came in like a flood. I didn't go to the funeral, I stayed with my mother while they put themselves on display. I was the only one with my oldest sister when she died. It was heartbreaking. I had a prepaid preneed in place and while the funeral home was working on the obituary, my siblings called the judge multiple times and took the body and again put themselves on display. I did not attend the foolery because I was with my sister, holding her hand and praying with her as she took her last breath. My oldest brother, the one who assaulted me the last time, took my mother and placed her in a nursing home away from her home, (which belonged to my father's sister who sold it from under my mother who had lived there for almost 70 years) and outside of my knowledge, those were not my father's wishes. There is more to this dreadful story but I will stop. I am healing, and I hold no bitterness, but I am no longer in that toxic relationship. Apparently this behavior is not uncommon. God always has a ram in the bush and if I am that scapegoated ram, Lord, the pleasure of suffering for your sake is all mine. It did not turn out the way I expected, but I was obedient to the call of God. His plans and rewards prevail. Amen.

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

I'm not a believer in God but I was with you throughout your message. Just awful what they do to us, they're so cold hearted 💔 putting themselves on display is exactly what they do. You're a great soul a diamond in the family and they know it, they could never be like you so they walk all over you. 💎

Who ever said don’t make this video might feel some guilt. This needs 20 million views.

@robinknowles4013

Ай бұрын

I do believe that you have hit the nail on the head!!

Thanks for sharing.

Thanks for sharing this

Thank you for your boldness.

Sis, preach the truth.. ❤

Your so right sister. But you know they can't take nothing with them. No matter what they think they deserve want to claim what not theirs.shame.

Much love & respect for the TRUTH!! Been there, I was him...& much Blessed by being him❤

EEEEWWWW CHIIIIIIIIIIILDDDD!!! You better preach. We just lived this in December 2023. 4 siblings; 2 in SC & 2 in NYC - now, my mother’s children are forever split. Don’t think I could EVER take care of someone to this level again. We had to BEG them to visit including while on her death bed. We shared EVERY detail. Play by play updates. SC family was not allowed to make any decisions, obituary, clothes, funeral date & even the time of death- told the doctor that she saw her breathing but SHE HAD NO HEARTBEAT 🤯🤯. Made the hospital wait 3 hours.

Boy this the Real Shirley 💯 😂 telling all the truth

It happens more than you would want to believe. You that somebody had to say something. Well said. 👍

I don’t know why this ain’t got millions of views! 👏🏽👏🏽. She speaking truth

I am the youngest of 4. I’ve stepped up to the plate for my parents. Family is all we’ve got, good, bad, indifferent. Some people are strong, many are weak. Thank you for speaking the truth.

Not a lie told. Thank you for sharing this video.

I felt every single word she said💯💯💯💯💯

Going through it right now. Thank you. The Lord is in charge. Going to watch it all play out as you say. Truth.

Nice video my friend enjoy watching)😁🙏🥰🥰❤

Yep, very true

BRAVO BRAVO YOU DEFINITELY MADE A TRUE STATEMENT, AND I KNOW IT HIT HOME FOR ALOT OF PPL… EVERYTHING YOU SAID WAS ON POINT.. THANK YOU FOR SHARING 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️💯

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

Absolutely agree. 🇬🇧

Well, said, Toni. You've said what I've felt towards my sisters for 15 years. 😢

I feel like you had a camera on my life. What happened to me? You hit the hammer on top of the nail❤

Listen to this Shirley, my ex husband left my name on the insurance policy where he worked over 40yrs. Before he passed our daughter (youngest) became Power of Attorney and took my name off that policy and put hers on it. That was just a small portion of what happened. She had her sister planned that. I’m 75 and have to rub my pennies together to make it work. It’s sad how your own blood will cross you for a couple of dollars that wasn’t theirs in the first place. What you’re saying happens all the time. Thanks for bringing this to light. ❤❤❤

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

Yeah it's shocking what our own is actually capable of. Wish I knew some things before I had children. I have four and if I hadn't gone through labour each time I'd swear these ain't mine.

OHHHHH SNAAAPPPP.....TELLL IT....HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH...BUT GOD.....#GRANDMAMA🙏💜🙏

You spoke my story that I have just been able to heal from. God bless all that have endured this from family. There is light and the end of the tunnel . Trust God is all in it.

Speaking nothing but the truth...got them in my family too, but I thank them from the bottom of my heart...they showed me the difference between being family and being a relative

My parents told me multiple times when i was younger that when it comes down to it they do not want me to put my life on pause and do not want it to be my responsibility because i have my own life to live . Even though i would have absolutely no problem doing it they don't want to be a burden on me as they say .

Great dear friend good work stay blessed keep in touch sweet friend join u wd bl

Watching done

Bless this woman!!! she said it all bless her once again!!! meanwhile death awaits us all

Thank you for sharing and speaking the reality of things. ❤

Thank you for caring and speaking the greed is sickin and I pray we all stand up and help where we know we should I pray for your family and all you love stay strong! Shalom from Valery🗣📯💪🌻💙🌶💙

Thank you. Ms. Shirley well said.

You ain't never lied🙏

You never really know your family until someone dies and leaves behind money or property, that's when the claws come out

@robinknowles4013

Ай бұрын

Amen!

This needed to be said. I know of 4 different families going through this at the moment😢 One of em just lost they momma in a house fire last month 😢😢 beautiful lady she was🙏🏾 fighting for those 3 houses. My momma still here and i know im that one child thats going to have to take care of her.May the good Lord not rush the day but keep me strong when🤦🏾‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️💪🏾🙏🏾

Thanks for speaking out about this.

🗣️ Betta say it, it happens mo than folks like to admit. Horrible cycles that need to fxking end ‼️

Great info. Thanks for the share 👍

My God, my God, Mrs. first let me say you are a profound speaker!!👏👏 I'm a nurse, believe me just like she stated I've seen this type of situation occurr all to many, many, many times.

You are so right. Much love from Covington La. ❤❤❤❤

Amen Ms Shirley

I’ve got too much to say still grieving 20+ years for my dad tried to do the same thing mum tok sides strangers helped hurried my dad 😢

@Sheba8.

Ай бұрын

Family Hurts are so awful. 💔 😢

Sending prayers and hugs. God bless you.

Girl you said it! You be me! Lord❤

The truth will always be the truth. Continue to speak it. You are 💯 percent correct. We all have them in our families. Umm, umm, umm, I felt that. Speak up and speak out family members that all of a certain becomes not good enough to be over things after you did all the work. Speak up.

I'm that child 😊right here wit mama in sc 💜✨️✨️♊️

This needs to be a viral video!!!

I done my part as a Son…… Da son they though would never be shit. My lil sister got married and to busy as a mother to help out and my lil brother married and to busy to help. I drop wat I had going to help out with my mother house she left to her divorce husband who didn’t want to pay mortgage on the house my mother left behind. I kelp the house from foreclosure the first time which my mother moved back to SC to help my grand parents. But she never had my back in nothing. So when I realized I went back to ATL and started from having nothing and now got my own place on da north side…. Before that I was homeless in the beginning Now I’m blessed after me doing all that and didn’t look back I forgave her and still love her!!! Just not gan believe she would have my back in nothing no more

Children don’t owe their parents anything as a parent you should be proud that your child goes and makes their own life like you made your own life you made your life you made your bed you lay in it. As parents y’all need to get your affairs in order that includes your funeral arrangements so after you pass your children, don’t have to run around stressing out about it. They are able to come together celebrate your life and help you pass over that’s it they don’t owe you to forgo what future they could have to not get an education so stick around stagnant wiping your butt.

@user-dr7nm5jq6h

Ай бұрын

Best comment. Truth!!

@user-dr7nm5jq6h

Ай бұрын

I would never expect my children to halt their life to take care of me. How selfish! They supposed to leave and make they own life! C'mon now.

@judithharper6731

Ай бұрын

Children, honor your mother and father that YOUR days may be longer. Just sayin’

@thatbemefool

Ай бұрын

Thank You OMG! I just left a similar comment. People are delusional as hell in their thinking. What happened to Roots & Wings? As parents, you have a moral obligation to provide for your children, keep yourself well (physically/mentally) and have your affairs in order. NO ONE should intentionally be a burden on their children BEFORE and AFTER death. WTH?

@thatbemefool

Ай бұрын

@@judithharper6731- Yes! Don’t forget the scripture about not provoking your child(ren) to anger. Funny how no one ever mentions that one. Children don’t owe their parents. They made the choice to bring forth life and have a moral obligation to see it through.

Supernatural Spiritual facts and Truth 💯🎯❤️❤️❤️

Love this lady 😊 your so right. Everything you said ❤❤❤❤❤

Gots to be more careful... Cause I'm living that TRUTH right now. 😮

Thanks For Sharing This Topic !!!!!!!!!!!! I Appreciate It Alot !!!!!!!!!!!!! 👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈👈

Amen couldn’t have said it better

Everything you said. 💯💯 Love your personality. You favor my mother a lot.

💚✌🏽Wow got a warm feeling all over. Over worked,under paired,under appreciated. God is love. Your so right breaks my heart.🙏🏾Thank you.

Yep. I didn't move til my mother past. A night person waking up at 5am. My oldest brother moved back in with her, still don't spend time with her. Youngest brother told me I was lieing when I called with the news. Mom didn't have anything, but all three of my older brothers had to pick through everything before baby sister got anything. Including the things I was told by the blessed woman were to be my. I feel your pain and Sending love