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It doesn’t matter if he does “make love” to you. He can still not love you

@isabellathepinkpoodle639

8 ай бұрын

Huh? Nope

@mellmiyatowikromo84

8 ай бұрын

Woohw 🤯

Time doesn't heal, doing the work does. He's absolutely right.

@knuckleheadreviews

Ай бұрын

What is the work that needs to be done?

Leave ladies never get treated like a doormat

@trice615

Жыл бұрын

I’m not going back 🙏

@sharonbenson8120

11 ай бұрын

​@@trice615How's it going?

@thekingofallblondes47

11 күн бұрын

​@@trice615I'm going back 😢

It's so hard because he is so great otherwise... but seeing the pain cross his face when thinking about her... knowing I will never take that place in his heart hurts... I am worth more than being someone's second choice...

if the ex is in the picture AT ALL except normal contact about kids - DON’T EVEN GIVE YOUR TIME OR YOUR HEART!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@user-oi1ot8bv2f

2 ай бұрын

This hits hard ❤

@candacestone2211

Ай бұрын

Wĥat if she isn't in contact with him, but his best friend and family?

I just Cut him loose today “Thankfully” wished him & his ex good luck. I was SAVED… Ty great video

@oweunuffin2252

Жыл бұрын

Congrats

@TheSolitary1

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@lanaw7304

Жыл бұрын

Update

@dimplesp4046

9 ай бұрын

Good for you 👏🏾

@edturner3615

9 ай бұрын

I did yesterday!

Time doesn't heal, ur right the work does

@latashahumphrey769

Жыл бұрын

That is how I heal the work does I have moved on

@latashahumphrey769

Жыл бұрын

I move tomorrow and this time I won't be found

@knuckleheadreviews

Ай бұрын

What is the work that needs to be done?

@latashahumphrey769

Ай бұрын

@@knuckleheadreviews just have to take it one day at a time staying busy and focused

I’m crying so hard right now. . This is exactly what just happened to me and I just found out he went back to his ex baby mom. .

@rmel2843

6 ай бұрын

I hope you heal, focus on your healing

@vaibhavisharma2733

3 ай бұрын

😔

@knuckleheadreviews

Ай бұрын

​@@rmel2843How do you heal?

Yes I went through that with my ex husband. He told me flat out he loves his kids mother no matter what she does. I said really! Even at the expense of our marriage. I am glad I’m divorced he still had her name tattooed on her the whole entire marriage. Removed after we was divorced. I just laughed because if he would have did that sooner Maybe we would have still been married.

@lanaw7304

Жыл бұрын

Update

Once I find that out I’m out🖕🏾✌🏽 Never let nobody play you 💯

I love my ex oceans wide but it's a dangerous voyage, no promise making it back to shore alive and in one peice/peace. Time means nothing, absolutely...

@shantalbarbot5801

Жыл бұрын

I love how you articulate this

Why don’t men divorce their ex before getting into a relationship with another woman??????

@asill.6668

5 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!!

Spot on. My intuition said so from the beginning and I chose to pretend all was kosher while all the points mentioned were occurring. What a spiral.

His ex is still obsessed with him after 14 years. It strikes his ego and drives me nuts

@monicaserrato7388

3 ай бұрын

The phone doesn’t keep ringing if no one ever answers.

My husband of 5 years, Looked up his ex and family and left the history on his phone . I don’t feel safe . He says he was just being nosey

@thatssonikki626

Жыл бұрын

Nope!!! My ex from almost 10 years ago who is married just tried contacting on Facebook. Please be careful with that.

@elasticheart1245

Жыл бұрын

Mines kept old belongings from his ex, such as valentine day cards, jewelry, pictures and in his phone and video's. Also would try to encourage me to dress and look at certain way in a resembles of her.

@lanaw7304

Жыл бұрын

update ladies

@malvega3123

11 ай бұрын

I dislike social media you can get in contact so fast and to search people just to look and refresh the memory of the person.

@orls9068

10 ай бұрын

Found his secret instagram liking all his exs photos, except the ones with her fiancé 😅

Im in this situation now. Im dumping him.

@spxrkl3s

3 ай бұрын

I want to dump him too. But I'm too attached

People may not like Derrick but that doesn't make him wrong. It's the "message" and not the "messenger."

He is ungrateful point blank period!!!

Bro your message are so accurate I noticed a lot of people just want to ignore the truth

My fiancé was looking at his ex’s nudes and old hookers nudes for nearly half of our relationship. He only stopped because I found them and deleted them. He told me he just looked at them once when he was getting rid of them, but I just found out the truth a few days ago.

@claudia3539

7 ай бұрын

How did you find out?

DERRICK NEVER FAILS,!!!!

@ms.traycee2947

Жыл бұрын

Yes he does ijs 🤔

@MommaGriffin1

20 күн бұрын

Truth! Some people can’t handle the truth though! Facts 💯

I got to move on

@mimirosen1601

Жыл бұрын

I just did. If you’re questioning it, you need to move on. ❤

This video popped up right on time .

@claraht.6999

2 ай бұрын

Sincerely appreciate it 🙏🏽

This describes him perfectly 😢

This seems to apply to widows & deceased lovers too

Woah! That was real deeeep. Where do you find your words from? They hit one straight, bulls- eye, painfully clear shot at the area necessary, in a way one can no more choose to be in denial. I love it. It's raw, real and one ricochets from its impact.

Time means nothing for women too. When people say time heals. No it doesnt

@sheenaxoxo5787

Жыл бұрын

The only thing that heals is getting the help you need! Heal your tramas so you don't wound others with them!

@Branaymolly

Жыл бұрын

Yes it does it's at your own pace it takes some people longer to do things and analyze things

@staygold1285

Жыл бұрын

@@Branaymolly it doesn’t . Time doesn’t heal. It’s a myth.

@Branaymolly

Жыл бұрын

@@staygold1285 it's a myth according to you

@staygold1285

Жыл бұрын

@@Branaymolly lot of people who wud agree to me so one less agreement doesn’t matter but thanks for trying

What about when he loves her but sat he is not in love with her? No matter what, I am not sharing. I walked away

This is one of the most insightful videos on this topic I have ever seen. Thank you for the specific examples.

All those things you’ve mentioned have happened to me. I agree with you.

Been in this and was so hurt, till this day he still talk about what she did to him, they have kids together 10yr relationship he aint going no where he is all hers, and thats fine

Your exteriors screams "Emotionally Stable" ❤

This message is deep! Thanks for sharing!

Straight facts!!

I loved what you had to say in this video, very eye opening.

I agree he's not available

I agree 💯 with everything you said.

Derrick be preaching

Thank 👑You! 💪🏽

He is soo open minded. I really like people like him who love to tell you the truth so you don’t make unnecessary mistakes in picking a partner. Keep up with the good work.

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Thank you you are so right I walked away

I wish I’d have seen this video two years ago 🥲

Thank you for this. Retrospectively I can see the signs.

@robinbeard5467

7 ай бұрын

Me too. It's happening right now....

Thank you for your honesty

That may do much sense, thank you ❤

Thank you again Derrick 😊

This is so scary😌

Ask yourself if theres someone else on tbis mans heart 💔

On point!

Wow, thank you!

Excellent video 👍🏻

I learn so much from you thank you thank you thank you

I feel like my husband still loves me and is going through the grieving and nostalgic stage of our separation. He monkey branched to the coworker within 15wks of us separating. He is currently moving in with her but they are flaunting their relationship to try and making me jealous. She is insecure and they are playing games and taking actions to make me think this. He is also looking at music videos i used to listen to. Everything he is doing is out of character for him. She is along for the ride. Their relationship is moving fast but i think he regretting it and she is playing games to rub it in my face. She is putting him up to these actions because it's out of character for him that began after i left. It's only happening in his fb page because they know it will get back to me. Only insecure people do that because deep down she knows he is hung up on me. He hasn't processed or healed.

@Bluepearl187

2 ай бұрын

I feel this is my ex too. He also monkey branched to a coworker and moved in with her within days of the breakup. He hasn’t healed. He called me yesterday just to argue and finally admitted to being with her.

Wow....This hit me hard...

😢 So true. All of it

This goes for women to

TRUTH!

So true sir

Thanks derrick

They will always be attached to their X

@Tatiana-oz2fn

3 ай бұрын

Not true

He was very attentive to me. We had that for sure. I can admit I wasn't ready for commitment

All facts.

This the one 😮‍💨

Ive heard all of this. . And Ive been there. Theyre projects. Undatable .

Thanks

Truth

Exactly.

Yes truth

Not sure you have addressed this, great video. What about a deceased ex, everything applies...as in more than a decade ago. Appreciate your reply.

So true

Amen 😊

My ex would yell and scream that he missed his ex and that he'd rather be spending time with his children than me! When I would question after when he was calmer He would later say he "didn't mean those things" Completely heartbreaking, wasted 7 years of my life!

@LuckiestStarByFar

Жыл бұрын

What a dirtbag!

@lanaw7304

Жыл бұрын

Update

@debbrenneman3407

7 ай бұрын

I NEVER would have stayed

Thank you for keeping it💯REAL😉LOTS INFO NOW THAT IM SINGLE 👌

Facts

Yea..he is prolly on the DL....

starting to doubt if he still has feelings for his ex or not. he brought up the other day during an argument that “if he wanted to be disrespected, he’d still be with his ex” it was very hurtful to hear. he likes instagram posts joking about his ex being an awful person. and the music he puts on his stories are related to ex relationship pain. i’m not sure how to feel, since he said he broke up with her, was pretty apathetic in the beginning. but he puts his relationship trauma on me at times so i am not sure what this means.

@AmericanDreamer

9 ай бұрын

leave him please for Your own sake 💛

@oanamunteanu4744

4 ай бұрын

You deserve better, he is a idiot 😒😬☺️

True

The real

Not only men women too.😢

This is a lot🙀

Thanks absolutely truth on poy Can't Have Cak And @Eat No

💯💯💯💯💯❤

I have heard that

❤❤

This thing called being and fallen in love ! Who can know it????!! Most people are with people they are not in love. With, but then knowing that the one you are in love with may not be in love with you , and that person, although you are in love with them may not be the best person for them Again who can know it “ Are you going to stay with the one who loves you are you going back to the one you love!!!!!!!????????!

Hi Derrick, How do I dm you a question?

💯💯💯

He is vague about how they divorced and they have a good relationship as they co-parent- and he is best friends with her new husband.

@kellymcnabb3693

5 ай бұрын

BS

Sounds like you talking about you? Your own experience

❤❤❤

What is the correct work that he needs to do?

👑👑👑

Mine calls ,texts and still buys gifts for his ex girlfriend. And she buys gifts for him AND his grown kids. Possibly even grandkids. His kids love her. They don’t like me. He and his ex girlfriend have no kids together. We’ve been together 6 years .2 years living together full time.

@seizuregirlllll

3 ай бұрын

Time to leave and realize you’re disrespecting yourself by saying with him, leave, someone better is out there.

Smh...

Mine has been talking to his ex’s sister and daughter. Hmmm…

@niaedmonds3342

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, I feel as tho when men still wanna talk to their ex's family it's just a way to keep the ex close, and a need to still talk to the ex. Sorry that would be a red flag for me

@dimplesp4046

9 ай бұрын

Yikes 😬

Speaking from experience?

Im sure he’s still attached, but I gracefully told him I’m willing to break up our family amicably with a co parenting plan and move out if he still loves her and wants to work things out. He was 19 years married with her and only 3 years with me. He refuses to and says he does not want to, but talks to her friendly all hours of the night about the “kids” which has caused issues for us because why is she calling at 11pm about an 18 year old getting picked up tomorrow…. I am halfway moved out but not sure if I am valid to break up our family if he is saying he won’t be with her even if I leave??? What do I do

Omg… ✔️