Don’t feel so bad for missing the walk-through. It will only be a better surprise when you actually move in! ❤️

@jonasflynn.7389

5 жыл бұрын

And there’s nothing as normal expectations of couples

It's frustrating, when you're looking forward to something and then because of health issues you can't go. I can relate Jaquie, I know this all too well.... hang in there. The most important thing is that even though you will not see the house finished now, you WILL see it eventually and you're gonna LIVE there! Just hold on, taking care of your health is the most important thing now. Feel better soon! :)

You are so strong. I would be crying. I know we've never met but I have love and compassion for you. I wish I lived in FL to help.

I’m keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. All the best to you and Judd for a blessed Easter.

You are strong, I have an illness too that has me missed some milestones too, Life goes on, and It's okay to cry, You will be in my prayers, All the best,

Praying for a rapid recovery. I hope you are out of the hospital before Monday so you can see your house Monday!

Don't worry Jaquie, you are so brave. You are my inspiration. Whenever I do stuff that's hard (like sirtthrough school when I am in extreme pain) I always do it for you. Thank you for filming. You brave person!

Sending prayers your way for a speedy recovery!

Continued prayers for recovery from the infection. Easter blessings to you, Judd, Harlow, and your families. 🤗❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

You got this Jaquie girl!! You been through worse! Happy to see how far you have come and treatment plans that got you to a great accommodation. It was crazy seeing how far you come. You got thisssssss

I really pray you get out fast. Your outlook on life is great

You handle this with so much more grace than I would have. I wish my POTS pity parties looked like this.

Bless your heart. It will all work out the way it’s supposed to. Have faith and stay strong. ❤️🙏🏼

Hey Jaquie I hope you’re surgery goes/ went well. This video reminded me of the time I had to have a plate removed from my leg, due to an infection. I wish I had a dog like Harlow to snuggle with while I was recovering. I love you all and send hugs your way, ps there is no such thing as a small surgery

Sorry your going to miss the final walk through really hope you get better and get out of the hospidal soon love you Jacquie

I have been in the same place so many times and it’s so hard to feel like your life is being stolen from you. It’s unfortunate but you will get back to your brand new home and it’ll still be your first home together and experience it together

I understand your frustration. Your health is more important, and you’re excited to move into your first home. But it will be all worth it when you get out of the hospital feeling so much better and you Move.

yay! this is such an exciting time in your life! I'm so sorry that right now your not where you hoped to be. but I have full confidence in you and your medical team that you will be able to go to closing! sending lots of healing prayers!

Lol sometimes I move my feet a bit like that before falling asleep. It’s good to hear the walk through went well! I hope you recover quickly!

Love you girl! You make me feel like I can be stronger, I appreciate your example.....but I’m so sorry you are so sick and feel so very crummy!! Praying for you sweetheart ♥️🔆😊

Your house was finished pretty quickly. It looks beautiful. I can't wait to see it when you move in. It's something for you to look forward to. Wishing you the best possible outcome with your surgery. I'm so sorry you're in a rough patch right now. Judd is the most wonderful husband though I'm sure you know that. I'm looking forward to seeing you out of the hospital and in your new home. (hopefully soon). Love to all of you.

Keep on keeping on! I hate when I get antsy at the hospital too, but you are focusing in the good! Sending my prayers and thoughts to you and yours! 🤗💜🐾🦛

Hey hun, so sorry you couldn't do the first walk through and I'm sorry that it seems like a house of cards with all that is not quite going to plan as yet. You're doing SOOOO well to focus on the blessings when you have every reason to wallow. I'm proud of you for that! I'll be thinking of and praying for you and I really hope you can get out of hospital by like friday or saturday morning etc. Hugs and love xoxo

I think I have it bad until I watch you, you are my inspiration. Hope all is well with the surgery and a speedy recovery. I cant wait to see you, Harlow and Judd walk though the door of your new home together, maybe you go straight there when you get out of the hospital. Get Well Soon...💞

Imagine how exciting it's going to be when you finally see the house and everything's perfect and taken care of! Chronic illness really kicks you in the butt, and you've got to do everything a bit differently. Just remember, you're in the hospital for a reason and you wouldn't want to be home dealing with such a severe flare by yourself! You're the strongest chick I've ever seen, you got this and you make it look easy! Keep on fighting girl!

I'm sorry your going through this! I have a couple of autoimmune diseases and it's seems hard to plan anything because you never know when you'll end up in flare! Keeping you in my prayers.

Don't feel bad about missing the walkthrough. It's more about learning about your house (appliances, furnace, gas cutoff, etc) and there are a few things that will go on your punch list from the walkthrough, but most new houses comes with a one year warranty so don't worry if you miss things or find things a few months later. I'm still finding little things six months later on my new house.

Sending love and prayers. I’m on the career side now....from another country 😞. I can’t really do anything even if i was there, i just told him think good things and try to stay positive. Even though it’s not nice, i’m glad your surgeon is so proactive. Hopefully you are out by Sunday if not then Monday🙏❤️

I was crying when you were in pain. Im so sorry. We all love you!!!

Sorry jaq.😢what a bummer chronic illness strikes again! Prayers you get out of the hospital by Monday!! Feel better 😊

Thank you for letting us see your life of Cronic illness ❤️ praying for you and your new home 🏡

U GOT THIS Jaquie!!! We are cheering for you!!! We are praying your leg is sorted as quickly & as painlessly as possible, & that the surgery goes without any hitches!! I have to say, when you showed us your leg the other day (as a nurse) it looked to me like a mosquito bite that got infected-could that be a possibility? Either way, I really do hope all goes to plan, & well, for your surgery!!!

Get well soon. Since I have been watching you I have managed to do more every day because of you. I don’t have what you have but I do have high anxiety and autism.

Good luck on the surgery Jaquie. All will work out. 👍🏻❤️

I'm so glad that you were able to participate in an alternate way! Technology is awesome for that. I'm hoping you are well enough to go home soon.

Congratulations on your new househaquie and praying for a Miracle and also praying for health course I’m always praying for you again I always tell my Bible study or my ladies Bible study about you and how great you are and how amazing you are and what’s your model keep moving forward forward keep moving forward

I'm so sorry Jaquie. You got this. Just keep swimming girl. It's okay that you don't get to see the house on the first day. You'll have the rest of your life there!

Can’t wait to see the new house! Congratulations

Prayers your way

I cannot wait to see your new home! So excited for you guys!!

Please rest and get better soon. Things will get better soon. Lots of hugs and prayers

Hang in there. It will be special when you all 3 walk into your home. Good luck feel better.

You are in my prayers and thoughts. Wishing you get well soon 💗

I hope the surgery went well wishing you luck to get out of the hospital for the final walk though

Couldn't Judd have video'd the walk through live, so you could communicate and see things? Oh it looks like It's happening, great! So excited for you Jacquie, new home to look forward to in the future. Incentive to get better quickly.

I hope you start feeling better soon, sorry you're having a hard time.

You are a very strong person I probably would have given up. I envy you and your husband you both strong and I see the love you have for each other. Love you guys

I live with lupus and hospital feels like a defeat but know this , your home is forever . Chin up sweety . Good things comes to those who wait .

It's still the first walk through when you both walk through it together. X

Hi Jaquie! I know your disappointed that you couldn't be there for the walk through. In a few days, you will be signing the papers and the house will be yours. How exciting.

You have EVERY right to have a pity party Jacquie!! That’s why we’re here for you! You’ll be in your gorgeous house before you know it. Praying that all surgery goes really well. Be kind to your sweet self and gets lots of love from Hippo. ❤️🙏🏻

Stay strong. I’m sending prayers your way so very sorry you are feeling so badly.

Oh sweet girl... I'm so sorry! Praying for you... may the Lord give you peace and place His healing hand upon you so that you and Judd can begin your life together in your new home!

Judd must have been slightly hungry after the walkthrough 😅

My money is on the infection point originating from a bug bite of sorts, as a fellow floridian I've been bit while sleeping without noticing until I had a big lump on my leg.

Jaquie, take it from an Old Warrior, in a few months, missing thesis once-in-a-lifetime moment, will be a very distant memory. It truly won’t matter, I PROMISE. I’m watching this on a Thursday so I’m not aware of what else went down on Wednesday. You’re truly inspiring Jaquie. Don’t let things like this affect you. Wishes for all the best for you three!❣️

Praying for you Jaquie 💜

I hope everything works as planned and you be able to make the final walk threw and the move in date

Hey Jaquie, I've been going through something similar. It's not my first home and it's not with a partner, but I'm buying a new place and selling my current place right now. I placed the offer on my new place from a bed in the ER! The open house on my current place was 2 days after I had major surgery to remove part of my stomach (NOT weight loss surgery, actually more difficult as the bit that needed removing was on the back - it was actually something a lot rarer than EDS, major teaching hospital and noone had done the surgery before). It's actually taken some of the stress away because I'm not focusing on it so much, though after the easter bank holidays (I'm in the UK) I'm going to have to get on to things. You are blessed to be going through this with Judd, you may feel you are missing something exciting - but you still get to do it, you are going to own your first home with Judd - I've also not seen inside the place I am buying yet. Hope everything goes well for you.

Hang in there darling! Hoping all has gone well today xxxxxxxxx

Jaquie I feel you! I just got out of the hospital last friday I was there for a week. (doctors dont know what was wrong I just got really sick really fast) And with that I missed all my final exams and of course it was boring and scary and depressing. You really help me though so please let that bring you joy!

Get well soon. I hope that your are able to go to see your house soon. God bless you always.

Jacque I hope you feel better!!

Oh no Jaquie! Surgery again! You will get through this . I just know it. You are a strong woman. Hang in there!

Praying for you I know what pain is like last hospital stay 57 days hope you get better soon

You are so thorough in your videos, but have you ever covered the human-to-dog (and vice versa) MRSA contagious cycle? How do you know if Harlow is a silent carrier?

@teremertz

5 жыл бұрын

Brenda Shelonko whoa! Didn’t know this was a thing.

@yogabirds

5 жыл бұрын

Brenda Shelonko when I was inpatient at National Jewish in Denver as a child, I had mrsa. I also have a primary immune deficiency and MCAS. Once , the mrsa showed up a 2nd time, they tested and treated the whole family and pets for 6 weeks. Seems extreme, but that was over 26 years ago and I’ve not had it since. I have 2 parrots(23&7yrs old), an old cat, and a service dog. An added cost of living with animals and immune deficiency must be factored in if you are living with these diseases. I get fungal and bacterial cultures done on mine 2 times a year. Nothing zoonotic has ever come up but I can’t afford to risk it. The most common source of the place Jaquies current infection is comes from shaving your legs. My docs don’t recommend shaving at all with a razor. If razors must be used they recommend using a disposable razor once and throwing it away. Unfortunately, we sometimes never know what the source of the infection is. It also sucks strong emotions and stress of any kind are mast cell triggers. We have a lot to deal with and despite all efforts to avoid issues MCAS rears it’s nasty head at the worst possible times.

@brendashelonko2149

5 жыл бұрын

@@yogabirds Thanks for sharing your experience. And even good stress, like excitement over a first house purchase, can be a factor in triggering negative physical responses. Just moving domiciles is stressful. I posted my concerns a few months ago when Jacquie shared about her part time social media job, multiple college courses, AND building their first home. And running her KZread channel, merchandise, and Patreon is a job as well. As a caregiver to my adult 27 yo daughter, disabled by chronic Lyme since age 12, I totally get how exciting any of these activities are to someone sidetracked by chronic illness. I think Jaquie is a phenomenal person to have been able to accomplish so much at her age, ill or well. But I was alarmed at how much she was trying to do after having had such a tough year with multiple hospitalizations in 2018.

@MommyCassReborns

5 жыл бұрын

OMG WHAT?! can you get mrsa from a dog? can they get it from us? I sleep with my service dog nightly...I don't have MRSA but that is interesting.

Love you. Feel better soon.

Keeping you in my prayers!💜💚💛💙🧡❤

You truly are a warrior Jaquie 😘 I would have surrendered long long ago 😩

Prayers Jaquie

0:28 Then again, I believe it's intended as a wish to others. Having said that, I do understand what you mean. 5:39 That would be ideal. 10:48 Agreed! 10:53 I'm not surprised. 11:49 That's too bad. 14:15 This reminded me of the day when you were in the hospital and your mom pushed you in a wheelchair. You were going by the exit and you said something like, "Mom! Here's our chance! Let's make a run for it!" :-)

I hope that you get well soon and can get out of the hospital

Stay strong. 💛

I've had that happen before. Most of my abscess are like that. I've had several happen on my butt since 2015 after I had a bone marrow biopsies. After I had the area heal fully about a month later I got an abscess near the spot and not I have to be careful as I've had several more since then. Though knock on wood, I haven't had one in about a year! Prayers that you are better quickly!

It may not be the last house you buy. We are in our third house and each house was bought in a different state. You will have way more important things for you and Judd to do together. Pushing paperwork is what is done at this point in the process, making the house your own tis the most fun and important things in the process. Just keep moving forward, one step or crawl at a time.

You got this!!

I hope the surgery goes well today, Thursday.

So sorry Jacque, You are getting your new home, try picture living there 🙂 You will be in Your new home soon out of Hospital, sooner than later! Sending Blessings your way, I totally get pain part, stage 4 cirrhosis, from Hep c from working in Dialysis many years ago. Hep C gone. 3 back surgeries from lifting during my career. It’s always work, Hang in there, Feel better soon, keep positive thoughts. Luv you guys Picturing you out by Monday in your new home closing, then moving in 🙂😜🤪❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

It will still be the first time YOU see your new home. maybe not together with Judd or the official one but it will be the first time you go into Your first home, and that can be something to look forward to(:

I love all your videos and the second I see you posted I click on it. Love from Colorado.

@wacorbetts

5 жыл бұрын

It would be awesome if they could give you a "day pass" so you could go to the walk-through next week even if you're still in the hospital.

Jackie, I understand totally. I also deal with chronic illnesses & I have a HUGE occasion coming up the end of May. Our grandson graduates high school in North Carolina & I live in south Alabama & I've been really sick for two months this time but as May gets closer I worry more. A graduation isn't something that you can do later too but I wanted to tell you that I try my best to have faith in Jesus. I have no idea how you feel about that but I just wanted to tell you how I'm dealing with it. Prayer & more prayer sweet girl. God knows our needs & our desires before we do. Does that mean I don't have pity parties too? Nope it doesn't. I cried this morning if fact. It's my anniversary & I want to go out to eat with my amazing husband but I'm sick. I'm nauseous, can't keep food down so it's just not happening. My husband is like yours, he's my chronic caregiver like Judd is. I count my blessings Jackie. I got a Blessing Jar from my secret sister at church for an anniversary gift. I drew my first blessing out this morning & it said "count your blessings every day". How appropriate huh? I decided to put a blessing in each day so next year I'll have 365 blessings. I hope this helps you somehow sweetie.

Think of it this way: instead of walking through and finding all the flaws, that will all be done when you get out. And when you go to your finished house the first time, it won't be to check for problems. It will just be happy 💖💝

Dr. Pimple Popper would have taken care of your leg cyst easily!

I had an abscess near my private’s that had ruptured, had to have it cleaned out and packed a few times a week. Very painful and was on 2 antibiotics, that made me get sick, so I had to take anti nausea medications.

Bummer you have to have surgery to get rid of the infection, but you will feel so much better afterwards. Prayers that everything goes smoothly.

Sorry. You will get through it! Kind of weird all around Easter also. Things usually seem to go wrong all at once ( here also). Hugs!

Get control of your pain and stay on top of it_

So sorry you're in so much pain. Hope you're out by Monday!

About MRSA: I originally got it from shaving. I got some hairs by the root, the bacteria got in, and since 2014, I've had abscesses pop up anywhere they want. Once that bacteria is in your body, a MRSA abscess flare is pretty random. Granted I don't have all the health issues that you do, though I am type II diabetic, which is also a chronic illness. It does mean my immune system is a bit weakened. I imagine treating your abscess symptoms are probably different than how I've been instructed to treat them... I wish you luck though...

Here in Australia we say Nill by mouth for no food before surgery and when I get infections they take forever and I'm a t-1 diabetic and even infections or illness can place me in Hospital too.

Do you ever run into people who think you are faking your illnesses or just being lazy? That happens to me but I haven’t been formally diagnosed. I don’t know how to deal with people who think I’m faking it. It happens too often and people start to doubt me. What do I do?

@catyalilly4928

5 жыл бұрын

I have almost had to get a wheelchair because of the symptoms. But I don’t because people don’t think a teenager could need a wheelchair.

That's lame ,but I'm just glad your getting better. Hope you are up and out soon.

I hope u are okay

I had my baby the day we were supposed to move but it worked out great for me they had everything moved and I was able to go there from the hospital with the baby. I don't know if you thought about it but you can easily get a infection from shaving and it just takes a tiny little nick.

Strongest person I know

OMG Jaquie, you go for that pity party! You're allowed.....this was something VERY special, not only in your life, but for you, Judd and Harlow too. So wallow in it, soak in it, and trust me, by ALLOWING yourself to FEEL all those emotions, you WILL feel better! I'm not saying you're still not disappointed, but have that pity-party and rock it. But next time, invite all of us to join you....I'll bring the balloons!

I keep wondering where Janice is and why they arent celebrating the house with you guys. Is she okay? I hope you get out before the new home move in! Good luck jaquie!!

@melaniemcaulay9748

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I wonder about janiece as well

I had a similar infection behind my ear. It was smaller and it was an infected gland is what the doctor said but I also do you have a poor me and system.

Buying a house is stressful. Having Judd do all the boring stuff and moving everything in without you having to do any work is ideal 😛

Good times are coming ... remember that ! 😁