SHE'S just not that in to you!

Happy new week! We discussed signs that HE'S not ready to settle down, with the guys a couple of weeks back. And today we're turning the tables!
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  • @annmunyi901
    @annmunyi9012 жыл бұрын

    Mrs. Gatabaki never dresses down. She's always shinning like the diamond she is.

  • @carolinenjoroge1195

    @carolinenjoroge1195

    2 жыл бұрын

    😍😍

  • @angel.lately
    @angel.lately2 жыл бұрын

    Inti-macy flashbacks will have you staring at nothing for ten minutes straight 😅 but I’m a virgin pls, y’all stay safe!

  • @gathonimwangi5949

    @gathonimwangi5949

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you insist 😂😂

  • @dianaodero4667

    @dianaodero4667

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @sherahmumbitipsvlogs660
    @sherahmumbitipsvlogs6602 жыл бұрын

    Ivy is here giving complements to everyone, ebu lets tell her how pretty her top is.

  • @BeautySecretsWithFlash

    @BeautySecretsWithFlash

    2 жыл бұрын

    How about her face and that hair being a match made in beauty heaven

  • @lisakigenda1859

    @lisakigenda1859

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeeesss Ivy looks so gorgeouuussss

  • @annalisekathomi2336

    @annalisekathomi2336

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally the reason I clicked on the video,❤😍

  • @Habibtay

    @Habibtay

    2 жыл бұрын

    Even her hair as usual has never disappointed

  • @christinewasike

    @christinewasike

    2 жыл бұрын

    So freaking pretty!! 🥰

  • @ithankgod5733
    @ithankgod57332 жыл бұрын

    Ivy complimenting Lornzies creativity and empathizing with Julez by saying the best is coming….I love this! Women lifting women up!

  • @NorahMut
    @NorahMut2 жыл бұрын

    I just love how excited Ivy is😂😂

  • @miannegoro8006

    @miannegoro8006

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @iamkennypk

    @iamkennypk

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@miannegoro8006 true kzread.info/dash/bejne/oodnpcOhXbnKgNI.html

  • @MtotowaNjuru
    @MtotowaNjuru2 жыл бұрын

    I love th vulnerability of Ivy,I feel like she doesn’t really open up often Jules hair is goals The attire that Lornzie is 👌🏾

  • @mitchellmaina83
    @mitchellmaina832 жыл бұрын

    Not saying Ivy was in a bad place but she seems to be in a better place than she was for sometime and i love that for her❤️

  • @eunicekombe9235
    @eunicekombe92352 жыл бұрын

    I am an avoidant!!! I can shut my emotions and ignore you like you never existed. Protects you from so much heartbreaks.

  • @lizkathuri2040
    @lizkathuri20402 жыл бұрын

    Great conversation. I am an avoidant female and have spent nearly 40 years of my life being stone cold. I am doing the work of healing my traumas at the moment and I can tell you that being an avoidant is hard. You not only hurt others but yourself. I think working towards healing, and developing a secure attachment style will help us become resilient, love freely, avoid hurting others and basically build healthier relationships with ourselves and others. Keep up the good work.

  • @kevinasoilamarona9222

    @kevinasoilamarona9222

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am too babe I don't even know where to start

  • @koeywangui
    @koeywangui2 жыл бұрын

    I'm with lornzie, the word 'WE' personally scares me but I'm slowly learning to embrace it

  • @carolwarui2292
    @carolwarui22922 жыл бұрын

    Ivy's energy is 🥰🥰🥰

  • @iamkennypk

    @iamkennypk

    2 жыл бұрын

    she's the best kzread.info/dash/bejne/oodnpcOhXbnKgNI.html

  • @Unknown-tu7wv
    @Unknown-tu7wv2 жыл бұрын

    im very happy yo see IVY laugh again.

  • @mercylynnkwamboka7820
    @mercylynnkwamboka78202 жыл бұрын

    Whew! I relate to that Ick part. I once went out with a guy who I wasn't really sure I was into and I remember we took a cab while changing locations. The man reached out to hold my hand, the intertwining hands thingy they do. When I tell you that I looked towards the window the WHOLE TIME, I was just wondering when we would get to where we were going. Safe to say that was the confirmation I needed.😂😂😂

  • @gregorymurunga8046
    @gregorymurunga80462 жыл бұрын

    what are these ladies high on i need that syke and energy like this to get started on a monday🤣🤣🤣

  • @misslinnah3772
    @misslinnah37722 жыл бұрын

    Here again so nice to see you,the glow can be seen clearly,lets keep growing

  • @samueln6590
    @samueln65902 жыл бұрын

    Learned so many things in one lesson. Very informative

  • @anneodida
    @anneodida2 жыл бұрын

    I've smiled all through. !! Loved ittt

  • @stella1886
    @stella18862 жыл бұрын

    Mkaayyy consistency🙌🏾🙌🏾 love it here ladies.

  • @noelinejepchirchir5809
    @noelinejepchirchir58092 жыл бұрын

    What a great way to begin my morning 😌❤️, love you girls

  • @owenkariuki4438
    @owenkariuki44382 жыл бұрын

    Get well soon Shikie! Took A LOT of notes girls lol. Loved the video

  • @yvonneivyyvette9231
    @yvonneivyyvette92312 жыл бұрын

    The energy. It can be felt at the people at the back🥰🥰

  • @leslie7974
    @leslie79742 жыл бұрын

    This episode was so airy and has good flow...luv it

  • @faithkariithi5614
    @faithkariithi56142 жыл бұрын

    This just made my week🤎 what a great way to start a Monday ....I can literally feel the vibe and it's contagious ☺️it's definitely worth sharing 😂

  • @joycegichana3213
    @joycegichana32132 жыл бұрын

    Literally on the floor when Jules said “Me I’ll sort myself,cause (that gesture)🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Dr.Emporieum
    @Dr.Emporieum2 жыл бұрын

    Hey ladies.. Si happy to be here.I love your content.🙂

  • @apindeowuoth8041
    @apindeowuoth80412 жыл бұрын

    Thank you touching on attachment styles I've never thought on mine but after some research and a test found out I'm a fearful avoidant which really shed light on why i view relationships a certain way

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz28212 жыл бұрын

    Warembo glowing✨😍. This was such a fun topic🔥. Not me relating and laughing by myself in the office, Jules hair😘.

  • @lorrainekojay
    @lorrainekojay2 жыл бұрын

    This episode is so lit!! I love your energies ladies!!

  • @fridahkirmi5955
    @fridahkirmi59552 жыл бұрын

    I love your friendship, its so evident....Keep rocking

  • @Habibtay
    @Habibtay2 жыл бұрын

    I dont have a "lost and found" box, what I have is a "discard that sht" box. So I always make sure that for every gift I get I can equally afford it so that when we're done I trash it and if it's something I could really use, I replace it with my money after I burn yours.

  • @emmiemson7599

    @emmiemson7599

    2 жыл бұрын

    I like this!

  • @alisonlyezire9951
    @alisonlyezire99512 жыл бұрын

    Context is very important when looking at these "signs" in the gentlemen's episode, a fair amount of it was given and that is why it was so impactful. This just felt like a list that was neither here nor there.

  • @thadigitalguru7078
    @thadigitalguru70782 жыл бұрын

    Loving the energy on this, whoah💥💯

  • @NyacuisCakeHouse
    @NyacuisCakeHouse2 жыл бұрын

    Ivy you are so bomb moderating. Loved your energy. You ladies are glowing.

  • @lilywhite8029
    @lilywhite80292 жыл бұрын

    Jules!!My gal. She is so real, full of vibes. Thanks for this video

  • @HillaryTowett
    @HillaryTowett2 жыл бұрын

    thanks so much gorgeous ladies, i have learnt soooooo much !!!! i will be on the lookout for those signs beginning today! especially my government name😊😊😊

  • @catherinewangui8215
    @catherinewangui82152 жыл бұрын

    Ivy is back! You look lovely ladies. Best wishes to Shikie

  • @zaynahrash
    @zaynahrash2 жыл бұрын

    This episode was vibey! Loved it❤️ Also, as Ivy said, Julia's hair😍😍😍😍 In love with it👌🏽

  • @misskanyared
    @misskanyared2 жыл бұрын

    Is it just me enjoying the "mmmhhhms" in unison to agree with a point 😂😂

  • @esperanzanyiraneza9126
    @esperanzanyiraneza91262 жыл бұрын

    This is my favorite space. I learn aloot having mad fun at the same time , laughter all the way yaaani can't thank you enough . God 🙏 you ladies 😘😘😘😘

  • @jbutinde5551
    @jbutinde55512 жыл бұрын

    Caught a reflection of myself just grinning 😁😁 because this Monday dose of dopamine.

  • @tracythriving
    @tracythriving2 жыл бұрын

    I love your inside jokes y’all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @stephaniesteph3068
    @stephaniesteph30682 жыл бұрын

    Being an avoidant makes me feel like I'm missing out on the beauty of romantic relationships .....like yu know yu like this person but yu keep pushing them away..... And then when they finally leave.... It makes yu feel sooooooo baaaaadddddd

  • @itsme_Andi

    @itsme_Andi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Story of my life. I treat what secure people would acknowledge to be healthy levels of communication as a sign of emotional neediness. As soon as we label the relationship I lose interest because I attach it with predictability. Every partner I have been with says I'm confusing. Been trying to heal but I keep falling back to my old habits to the point that I have almost given up. Funny how anxiously attached people envy us, they don't how we wish we had their vulnerability.

  • @stephaniesteph3068

    @stephaniesteph3068

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@itsme_Andi yyyeeessss... So truueee

  • @dorothykanana2623

    @dorothykanana2623

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Stephanie steph @Andie Aki am so triggered. Broke up with a guy with avoidant attachment style aki Kama am alive ni God😂😂 The way you guys are COLD

  • @itsme_Andi

    @itsme_Andi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dorothykanana2623 sorry hon, you did the right thing. We pretend not to care but we really do. It's just that we don't believe in showing it or accepting unconditional love. Takes one to know one.

  • @puritybundi8204

    @puritybundi8204

    2 жыл бұрын

    heyyyy ...another avoidant here..just stopped by to meet my people😂..that part of pushing away and giving mixed signals

  • @carenchebet8580
    @carenchebet85802 жыл бұрын

    Julia's haaiiiirrrr. Also Ivy's energy today is on point bruh!

  • @michellemayuba7348
    @michellemayuba73482 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 I related with so much. Y'all spilling the secrets.

  • @innocentwanyama5468
    @innocentwanyama54682 жыл бұрын

    Don't know why I always gotta stop by... U guys are never boring....

  • @brendarutto
    @brendarutto2 жыл бұрын

    Julia, you look soo pretty! It's definitely the pisces season glow.

  • @dinarwanjiru6882
    @dinarwanjiru68822 жыл бұрын

    Julesss!!! We need a hair tutorial!! Looking fabulous

  • @olivekabisa2914
    @olivekabisa29142 жыл бұрын

    Yep! Jules' hair is everything!

  • @joyzjazzy
    @joyzjazzy2 жыл бұрын

    Ivy your energy is contagious 🙌🏿🔥

  • @annienyambura2547
    @annienyambura25472 жыл бұрын

    I look forward to your episodes every week....I would really love you ladies to do a video about fidelity in relationships and marriages; is it overrated? Is it a deal breaker? Do you forgive and forget? 😊

  • @bethy8332
    @bethy83322 жыл бұрын

    Lornzie you're not the only one who had an issue with WE. I still do!!!

  • @norahkatunga
    @norahkatunga2 жыл бұрын

    I love Ivy’s energy!!!! I’m here for it! Lornzie looks beautiful and Juls!!!girl your hair is goals! I really loved this episode.

  • @evelynesyombua6071
    @evelynesyombua60712 жыл бұрын

    Always ama amazing time with these ladies 🥳🥳🥳👏👏

  • @Tireito24
    @Tireito242 жыл бұрын

    You guys teach me a lot and am here for it...

  • @thelifecode_ke1601
    @thelifecode_ke16012 жыл бұрын

    This is just the video for me. I relate so muuuuch.

  • @WANGARINJOROGE
    @WANGARINJOROGE2 жыл бұрын

    An episode I've related with from A-Z😃😃😃 Thanks for this.

  • @aokookello5564
    @aokookello55642 жыл бұрын

    She will never walk with you freely. Some kadistance, ama they only walk with you at night. Dude, run for your life.

  • @pendoabulitsa1184
    @pendoabulitsa11842 жыл бұрын

    this episode Lornzie was sooo active 🕺🕺🕺i love it😍😚😚

  • @patrickmunyi2761
    @patrickmunyi27612 жыл бұрын

    Another Monday morning with good vibes from over25

  • @Bilhagitonga
    @Bilhagitonga2 жыл бұрын

    Wisdom and beauty combined

  • @KINGANNEvlogs
    @KINGANNEvlogs2 жыл бұрын

    Lol this was so funny😂 Everyone was happy Love jule’s hair😭

  • @terrybouko8961
    @terrybouko89612 жыл бұрын

    I thought would be the first only to find 1000 plus in less than 40 min ,is everyone misbehaving in the office 🤣

  • @infoenkanasa3592

    @infoenkanasa3592

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why are you shouting? Hahahaha

  • @faithkaranja4033
    @faithkaranja40332 жыл бұрын

    Ivy your energy is on another level.. keep it up. Love you guys.

  • @nicholastoo858
    @nicholastoo8582 жыл бұрын

    Do a video on what it takes to have a good relationship / marriage.

  • @millicentmagadi6634
    @millicentmagadi66342 жыл бұрын

    I swear there are so many things you guys are mentioning and I can't believe it coz am like...I do that. This was an eye opener I feel like I just learnt so much about myself😂😂. Am not into all these niggas. Lit episode🔥

  • @driptv2746
    @driptv27462 жыл бұрын

    This one is awesome! But that one of bringing someone to your home doesn't apply to ladies with kids. You want to protect your kids until you are 100% certain they are there to stay....not necessarily because you're not into them.

  • @chicwithchrist5117
    @chicwithchrist51172 жыл бұрын

    Julz you've changed girl. So much more composed. In a good way

  • @florencemuia1511
    @florencemuia15112 жыл бұрын

    The Sex Lives of African Women..is the book! A book! Every book! Every woman should read this book😊

  • @carenmwambodze2710
    @carenmwambodze27102 жыл бұрын

    This has been such a fun episode 😍😍🤣🤣wiuuuu wiuuu...🤣🤣🤣love ittt🔥🔥

  • @valentinejebet5603
    @valentinejebet56032 жыл бұрын

    The way I chill on the KZread every Monday waiting for these🥺🥺🥺 OBSESSED!!!! Welcome to another channel?🤣🤣😭

  • @evangelnjeri1096

    @evangelnjeri1096

    2 жыл бұрын

    Vaaall... We're here together 😂😂😂❤️

  • @moshiriandrew5929

    @moshiriandrew5929

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just like I do gal... 😂😂😂

  • @moshiriandrew5929

    @moshiriandrew5929

    2 жыл бұрын

    Where is my favorite❤ gal shikie ...Damn!! this podcast will not be so fine without her anywhay thanks guys for your consistent content

  • @hopejune2576
    @hopejune25762 жыл бұрын

    Avoidant here transitioning into the secure attachment style, I think it comes from being told that you are too much so you reduce and in contrast the anxious have been told they are not enough so they try to over compensate. For me when I'm into you I avoid pda, I never initiate communication, never call, never text and I leave no paper trail. I'm always ready to dip anytime, anywhere 365 days of the year. And if I stay around someone for too long like 2 nights I get an itch to leave, it's as though I have overstayed at a hotel. So I always make sure I have plans so that I don't morph into a person who wants to stay and chill and be vulnerable. In contrast when I'm not interested I will hold your hand in public, grind you at the club and call you pet names which is just weird and the opposite of what I should be doing cause I am not into this individual at all. I guess it's because if I don't like you there really isn't any risk of hurt and I also don't want to smother someone to a point that they leave or let them in and then the mystery is over and there's nothing more to learn or find. And the same goes with my other relationships and friendships. But as I said I'm transitioning into secure attachment, because aloofness and coldness does drive people away and I'm learning that people who like you and want you will feel loved and wanted if you show it and will reciprocate it while those who don't like, want or love you will feel smothered and suffocated and will go away anyway.

  • @amazinglyclare2313

    @amazinglyclare2313

    2 жыл бұрын

    Interesting

  • @atieno_rommel
    @atieno_rommel2 жыл бұрын

    the INTI-MACYYYY 😂😂😂😂

  • @waigumoess9089
    @waigumoess90892 жыл бұрын

    It’s the Ivy’s energy for me🍀😌

  • @mskarani630
    @mskarani6302 жыл бұрын

    In love with Jules spirit and character!

  • @cynthiamwiti5610
    @cynthiamwiti56102 жыл бұрын

    I have been brutally attacked today😂😂😂

  • @wangaritecla6108
    @wangaritecla61082 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ladies for an awesome video kama kawa. ❤️ I'm with you Julia: I'm a one-person-at-a-time thing and this is when I'm trying to teach myself to diversify and have options. It's so hard but oh well. 😁

  • @mercyndunda6471
    @mercyndunda64712 жыл бұрын

    Wesonga was just chilling😂😂😂

  • @funnyplace8681
    @funnyplace86812 жыл бұрын

    My big sis dragged me to watch u guys coz I said I love the free intimacy that comes with u know And here I am now I know why she tagged me in this one. Beautiful work beautiful work😍😍🤣🤣🤣

  • @khqweiymutant3808
    @khqweiymutant38082 жыл бұрын

    I'm loving the consistency! And hoping that by pointing it out i didn't jinx it

  • @MiriamSagini
    @MiriamSagini2 жыл бұрын

    While everything you beautiful girls have said is true, remember, some things are influenced by how a lady was brought up, and not doing them doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a sign she’s not into you. Everyone’s journey is different, but I think you’ll know as a guy if a lady isn’t into you. The one I agree with and think is global, is the communication bit. That’s a glaring sign that she ain’t into you. 😁

  • @justmeE.V.E

    @justmeE.V.E

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree.... esp the comment about eating..... hmmmm.... unless we're eating together or hooking up to eat, I never ask if he's eating and I get kinda irritated if he asks. Coz I just don't gerrit

  • @irenekavata9063
    @irenekavata90632 жыл бұрын

    Ivy's vibe today is just 🎉🎉

  • @malkiawaalego2552
    @malkiawaalego25522 жыл бұрын

    Inti-maseee 😂 Repercussions or ramifications is the word you were looking for Jules

  • @dorcasnjuguna8455
    @dorcasnjuguna84552 жыл бұрын

    State of their fedness😂😂😂Jules😂

  • @wanjiraschannel6931
    @wanjiraschannel69312 жыл бұрын

    My attachment style is fearful avoidant. It saves me most times but it sucks sometimes I have to say..

  • @calphystylez5976
    @calphystylez59762 жыл бұрын

    I love the vibe.

  • @moreenmurunga7428
    @moreenmurunga74282 жыл бұрын

    This episode confirmed we all have the same life 😂😂😂😂.

  • @emmamwanza2138
    @emmamwanza21382 жыл бұрын

    I think my attachment style has transitioned from anxious to avoidant

  • @christinenyathirakanga3464
    @christinenyathirakanga34642 жыл бұрын

    That new intro is IT!

  • @njokigrace1131
    @njokigrace11318 ай бұрын

    Ivy and Jules expressions for me 😩 always

  • @Blurrybianca
    @Blurrybianca2 жыл бұрын

    INTIMESSY is thee most correctest of terms.

  • @sheerowwachira3408
    @sheerowwachira34082 жыл бұрын

    A very good topic and alot of truth there. You ladies are looking good. Always a fan of Ivy 💕 the red top💯🔥😍

  • @joycheruto7388
    @joycheruto73882 жыл бұрын

    Aki you guys I love you too 🤗 much....... You have yaani enlighten me from the way you guys dress to everything....

  • @ericmacharia7859
    @ericmacharia78592 жыл бұрын

    The fact that y'all guys articulate AF makes this channel super saucy. Jules be my fave.

  • @wanjah.374
    @wanjah.3742 жыл бұрын

    Good content ladies 💕💕. Ivy’s energy on this episode is soo bubbly, yummy and contagious 🤩.

  • @peterngugi6428
    @peterngugi64282 жыл бұрын

    i like the conversation ,pretty much matured talk...from this other side of masculinity' ; just subscribed

  • @linetmutheu
    @linetmutheu2 жыл бұрын

    One more thing, if she doesn't send you selfies for no reason, she doesn't like you.

  • @joyzjazzy

    @joyzjazzy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts!!!!!!

  • @stephaniesteph3068
    @stephaniesteph30682 жыл бұрын

    Here it's just goood vibes.... I love it ❤️❤️

  • @Kiptuibrenda
    @Kiptuibrenda2 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to another channel?😂😂😂 Love you guys!!♥️♥️

  • @kevinasoilamarona9222
    @kevinasoilamarona92222 жыл бұрын

    You should do a meet and greet in Mombasa honestly. We feel left out shaaa

  • @gracejohnson3048
    @gracejohnson30482 жыл бұрын

    you all look stunning! Also LORNZIE , si you please plug us on the fit cause wheeeeeeeew!