Bro I been watching your videos since the start of this year and I can assure you that what you say is true. She came back with even more intent then I could have ever imagined. I thought she would never come back and against all odds she did.

@vincentcoleman2116

11 ай бұрын

How long did it take if u don’t mind me asking and was it a bad breakup ?

@christephercervantez5174

11 ай бұрын

It took me around 4 months tops to really focus on myself and I mean focus I moved states and moved tax brackets so enough change. But once you really stop caring it goes so fast thats why it took me so long. But pretty bad breakup like we both thought we was never ganna talk again@@vincentcoleman2116

@sashaharvey1963

11 ай бұрын

I’m so happy for the both of you ❤

@bigplb2133

11 ай бұрын

Was it worth it tho bro

@christephercervantez5174

11 ай бұрын

Na bro to much pain to handle thats some real depressing shit even for a grown man, but love has me blind right now @@bigplb2133

42 years on this earth and have had plenty of women in my adult life. Believe me, they ALWAYS come back. Some just put out feelers, others want that one last “fun time”, some are curious as to why it never worked out. Haven’t had any I wanted to keep for a long period of time after the reconnect.

@MasculineEnergy

11 ай бұрын

🔥

My ex is a fearful avoidant. So we just ain't meant for each other cuz i have an anxious attachment style. I have to work on myself. No room for a woman right now. As much as i love her

@lasvegasplease

11 ай бұрын

Your strong enough to realise that, you have strength.

@walidsiam1522

11 ай бұрын

Same bro, my FA rebounded with someone after 12 years together and two kids. It’s painful bro but I need to work on myself. The push pull cycle takes it out of you. I feel sorry for my kids.

Good job coach 💪💪👏

yhp "it is your choice "this are the most powerful words I've head this year....i repeat \letting go is a choice...i choose to let go today

I kept saying to myself "she'll be back" then this video popped up with the same title, amazing!

Binged on your stuff about 2 years ago exactly…. Maybe 1.5 …. Guess who just unblocked. You are awesome bro 💯 ----- And yes eye used to want to see comments like mine but truth is now that’s it’s actually happened eye been so locked in being me … trust me you don’t care to do anything extra. This is just a reminder to make the YOU-turn in your path always.

@fireblade8905

11 ай бұрын

Lol

Men just stay on your grind.

i left her in february, she kept coming back every month then leaving again (Fearful avoidant ex) we tried again in june and it didnt work, a month later shes on vacation with some new guy?!

@MasculineEnergy

11 ай бұрын

Not worth your time bro.

I’m so confused. Towards the end she had no time for me. She was getting mad at the tiniest things. Sex was chore to her. She still said she loved me and I don’t think she was seeing anyone else. She just broke up with me because she can’t deal with my trust issues. I know I have problems but it wasn’t like I was stalking her or telling her she can’t hang out. Apparently she still loves me but we’re not compatible. I’m not sure I believe her. I think she hasn’t loved me in a while. 2 years down the drain.

Out of curiosity whats the longest youve heard of an ex coming back

@MasculineEnergy

11 ай бұрын

like 2 years later. One of my long-term students focused on making money had this happen to him. Its really only because im his mentor that i knew about it. Normally people just forget about comments they've made on channels like mine and just move on with their lives. Im sure it happens but i would say its rare.

@lasvegasplease

11 ай бұрын

Hi, what's rare? Them coming back if they are women? Or rare that people come back to there comments to say they have actually come back? I'm 5 month NC as if yesterday 😢

So I was with a girl for 4 months straight honeymoon phase sparks quick … I believe she is dismissive and started to fall back and tried to tell me continue to still lead me on but I start moving faster than she wanted … then started to think I was clinging because I felt her being different than before … I begged a day then had no contact but broke it a month later .. she blocked me then and I been in no contact again for 2 months now just wondering should I remain patient … we ain’t cheat we ain’t argue a ton just moved to fast but I’ve been learning and trying to switch my anxious tendencies

@LeeChrissy

11 ай бұрын

As a woman who has avoidant tendencies, I'd stay no contact honestly. I block for 3 reasons. One if I feel I'm in danger (obviously not in your case). Two if seeing him on my social media is too hard because I love him (even if I walked away) and I need to step back and heal myself. Three if he is too anxious and moves too fast and isn't getting the hint. I hope the 3rd isn't the case with you, but if it is I'd definitely leave it alone and do some healing on your attachment style. Just work on yourself whether it's physical, mental, spiritual...whatever. I've given anxious ex's a second chance but it was maybe 10 years later and it still didn't work because the same exact thing happened. Personally the only thing I'd say is if she ever unblocks you, give it a couple more months and if she doesn't reach out then you can try. Most people stay on my block list indefinitely so unblocking is a good sign. Good luck.

@vincentcoleman2116

11 ай бұрын

Thank you helps much for your insight

@LeeChrissy

11 ай бұрын

@@vincentcoleman2116 honestly it depends on the ex and how it ended. If they got funny then no, but when a couple of them reached out years later I was warm and treated them kindly. I even accepted dinner invites. The one thing about anxious leaning men that I appreciate is they are eager to please and do lots of nice things. Not all men do that so it's a treat. The thing is, I'm more attracted to men who give me a ton of space when I ask them and I don't want to have to ask multiple times. That's more important to me. So if there are any men I miss it's the more avoidant ones. I know how you feel though. My ex was pretty avoidant and it brought out more of my anxious side and I didn't like that. Luckily I keep that side more to myself because I feel like it's kind of a repellent, so he mostly only saw me in an avoidant side. I did soften for him of course, it's just hard for me. I joined a personal development school and started working on myself so I can be more balanced. If people aren't healing themselves and bringing their baggage into every new relationship then it's a disaster waiting to happen in my opinion.

We saw each other on a dating app. She swiped right on me. I swiped left on her. I was notified I missed a potential match. I contacted her and she said it was highly unlikely we will meet in person. I shot her a farewell message. She showed up at my job 2 hours later. She didn't come alone. She came with her brothers and father. She did reach back out on text. I did try to plan another date. She said she had her daughter which is understandable. She replies late. What was the point of coming to my job and seeing me?

@michaelpease6211

11 ай бұрын

I was the one that broke it off. We weren't a couple yet. I did like her, though.

She never came back 🤣 although i moved on long ago

@MasculineEnergy

11 ай бұрын

NICE lol