Im trying to save my marriage. I became fully focused on saving it when I gave up my life to Jesus Christ. I truly believe that it's his plan. Thank you I'm experiencing all of these stuff.

I moved out back in June of ‘23 and it’s been so peaceful ever since. I still play and active role in my kids lives and openly communicate I’d like things to work out. I’m doing the work to improve, heal and grow.

Why is marriage hard? Life is hard and relationships take skills. Do you truly value your spouse? Remember you can only control you. Two wrongs don't make a right. Be safe, be healthy. No excuses. Confusion is of the adversary. Be strong in the L-rd. 🙏

Could you please do a video about in-home separation, especially with kids in the picture? @Marriagehelper

Thank you Kimberly for this video, as this is near and dear to my heart. Separation is hard, but we can do hard things. We are strong, and separation does not mean my life is over. Thankful for the community I have found in marriage helper. You all are a real blessing. Thank you sweet Kimberly for all you do!😊🫶🏼

I had to put my husband out because he was meeting up with a younger woman over months and I just couldn’t put up with his behaviour. I love my husband of 36 years and I don’t want to let him go. He seems to think the grass is greener on the other side and I just feel heartbroken. 💔

@hennore

5 ай бұрын

Keep fighting! Praying for you sister 🙏🏾

@Rob-ru3ht

2 ай бұрын

We all know the grass isn't green. Be calm and fight for what you believe in!

@user-zh6rw2xp2z

Ай бұрын

I am trying too but it’s very nerve wracking 😟

“Do not be anxious…” - aka: calm down. PREACH!!!! ✨🧡✋😭🤚🧡✨

My husband just left a month ago, be huh each other every time we see each other, no fights but I don't feel his love for me. I want to save my marriage.

@ronblakeofficial

5 ай бұрын

@amarilis71 I feel your pain. My wife moved out two months ago. This is so painful. I will pray for you for restoration. God bless you!

@hennore

5 ай бұрын

There’s always hope 🙏🏾

@kellyhanson4462

4 ай бұрын

I'm in a similar boat. My husband left a year ago.

@gsdkid182

3 ай бұрын

@@kellyhanson4462 This sucks but we are all in this boat together. Hope all of get what we deserve.

@JasminePeteetArocha-ug5bm

2 ай бұрын

Am separate yes we want save the marriage.

I love listening to your story

I left my wife a week ago..... its literally been the best week of my life.... no regrets...

I feel that this implies to conflict in general. I am not in separation bur felt I learnt a lot; support your partner i her fallen state.

Can I get an advise?

Every video you do, after 3or4 minutes, you talk about your relationship for the remainder of the video, I’ve heard that story countless times, you’ve spent the last however many years making the same exact video.

I don’t know he has found someone else or not. After a small argument he left me 2.5 months ago. I reached out a few times to sort out. He said he needs to cool down. Now he on vacation and doesn’t want me to know where he goes and who he goes with. I am having bad anxiety, broken and fears for my relationship over. Please guide me what my next steps ❤

well, my wife separated from my (packed her things and took the dog) from my house last November. Our court date is set for February. it seems like the end. I tried everything you guys suggested. followed the self improvement(PIES), gave her space. let time do its thing, did my own thing for a little bit, but nothing worked. I don’t know what this means and am currently lost to be honest. I want to fix things and I want to give it time but I fear that it’s dead and gone. I don’t know what to do anymore.

@wyattearp2032

5 ай бұрын

Focus on you, not saving your marriage. Love is a falling action, not something that is forced. It’s like trying to fall asleep by thinking about falling asleep. Let go and be your best self. That’s how to save it.

@Originalman360

4 ай бұрын

Focus on self…maybe u pushed her away even more by doing all of that work FOR HER & not for you!

My husband said to me he is fall out of love with me and wer on Separation i want to save my marriage

how about deperation due to wife emotional affair (with colleague)? i have ask for seperation, she doesnt want seperation but she doesnt see what she is doing is wrong and continue to see each other even after work even after i set the boundary.

@alexr6470

5 ай бұрын

She doesn't care about your feelings anymore. How do you know her affair was only emotional if she explicitly continue seeing her AP!? Get a devorce lawyer and respect yourself

My wife of 21 years and I had a rough couple of years and need some help. We had lost the connection and we were arguing. So she chose to have an emotional affair, moved out and last October and started having a physical affair and know her affair partner is living with her. I did Marriage Helper Save My Marriage, but I think my wife is in too deep. I know that her affair relationship won't last, but its really disturbing watching her act like this guy is her forever after and how fast the affair relationship is moving. Hope and pray.

@wm7929

21 күн бұрын

I'm curious how long has it been? Most of us guys after discovering our wives cheating end up divorcing after 3-5 years. We try, and we pray, like you are, but we just give up. I'll pray for you.

My husband is in a mid life crisis and felt the urge to leave us. What to do during a spouses MLC? Is it the same?

@sushirabbit167

5 ай бұрын

Same boat here, and it's the worst. Mines been in his MLC for over a year now and wants to leave too.

After my wife's adultery there was turmoil in the house, obviously. She suggested that we have a healing separation and I was convinced, and still am, that she just wanted a vacation from dealing with her cheating. I was offended and moved to divorce not long after. If she's not doing the work, I'm not doing a separation. Total joke. And I would say that divorce ends the marriage, but it doesn't end the relationship. You can still marry each other again.

This sounded like codependency. But at least she wasn't abusive like my wife became.

Sarah and I are already separated, so although I will want to watch this video once the Lord has reconciled us, it's not for me, now.

@OlgaSmirnova1

5 ай бұрын

I am trying to cling to my savior throughout this excruciating separation for my beloved husband and I can’t find peace, I think I am the only one going through this kind of pain. I am amazed of how many of us are going through the same.

@wolfsden

5 ай бұрын

@@OlgaSmirnova1 I watch marriage reconciliation testimonies and videos, I watch Steven Furtick with Elevation Church and other Pastors, and I watch and listen to modern Christian music, which is more hopeful than older Christian music and most other music, period. I pray a LOT... something like fourteen hours per day, and I have the Lord's peace, the Lord's endurance, and the Lord's strength so I can continue to stand. This is not easy, it's not meant to be, but you can do this. God bless and keep you in His holy embrace and give you all you need to stand for your marriage. Amen.

@OlgaSmirnova1

5 ай бұрын

@@wolfsden thank you brother! Listen to this beautiful Hymn, “ Great is thy faithfulness” I trust that this separation will make me change to the woman the Lord wants me to be. I haven’t been a good wife.

@wolfsden

5 ай бұрын

@@OlgaSmirnova1 Find out how blessed you are in God, who HE says you are, not who you or anyone else says you are. You are a daughter of God and so many other awesome things! Once you know WHO YOU ARE in God's eyes, the rest of your world will begin to change.

Currently I am separated from my husband! He became verbal and emotionally abusive! Tried talking With him for us to get help he never listens to me! We don’t communicate! I was forced to leave with the kids due to my health started failing, I was diagnosed of Anxiety! It’s been month we left not a word from him. Now the kids are always crying and asking after thier father They want us to go back. It’s dragging my emotions. What do I do?

@sbg4ever120

5 ай бұрын

Why would you want a man who hasn’t spoken to you all for a month? Please go work on yourself and be the best Mom you can be. Help your kids accept the truth of your situation and get them counseling as well. I pray you’re part of a faith community and have family and friends around you all as well. You’re better off living in truth and free from abuse. 💜🙏

@NPPD16

5 ай бұрын

"Why would you want a man who hasn't spoken to you in a month?" The answer should be obvious! And you're missing a huge piece of the puzzle here; he's hurting, too. In a different way, but he is. No contact is typically a defense mechanism to cover the guilt and/or shame of what they are doing or, it's a way to keep their resolve, because if they were to face their spouse they may begin to second guess their decisions.

@nicholesidla6233

5 ай бұрын

The best thing you can do is focus on you and your kids. You cannot control what he is doing but you don't have to put up with abuse of any nature. It may be a defense mechanism (while my H was in his affair he got abusive a few times too and it got bad, he was NEVER like that before) when he came out of limerance things got much better as he started working on us and past his guilt. You cannot MAKE your husband come home nor can you make him be a better person, the good news is you can do better for you. Work on your PIES and Smart contact with your husband and shine bright! It is hard but it will be okay. So sorry for your pain

@Laissez_Faire

5 ай бұрын

That sounds horrible. Seek out help for the kid’s sake

@OlgaSmirnova1

5 ай бұрын

@@sbg4ever120terrible counsel!! Go back to your husband if he repents, marriage is a sacred institution and God hates divorce!

any guy going back after a separation is needy and in most cases it only gets worse down the road not better, females dont respect you and i see guys all the time being puppy dogs because that is their status in the relationship

Imo your wife wants separation so she can try out another relationship to see if it sticks. If not, she may come back. Definitely sucks.