SECRETLY Want More Than Friends With Benefits | 3 Steps To Get Out of "Friend Zone"

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  • @AbsoluteKnowledgeSeekers
    @AbsoluteKnowledgeSeekers4 жыл бұрын

    Major point to know: You’re not her only friend with benefit

  • @TAILSORANGEs
    @TAILSORANGEs4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for letting us know how to make the best out of our relationships!

  • @TonyVega123
    @TonyVega1234 жыл бұрын

    I fell in love with my benefit woman. Now we are engaged and expecting our first child.

  • @moisesbeyond

    @moisesbeyond

    4 жыл бұрын

    remember she is not yours is just your turn

  • @AnonymousJ99

    @AnonymousJ99

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@moisesbeyond what an awful thing to say lmao. That normally applies to young couples not people that have kids and are engaged.

  • @moisesmontanez5101

    @moisesmontanez5101

    3 жыл бұрын

    WOW AWESOMEEEEEEE GOD BLESSSSSSS THE FAMILY AMEN GOD IS LOVEEEE❤️

  • @orionanderson6719
    @orionanderson67194 жыл бұрын

    Apollonia, thank you very much for this. I like how you mentioned how a man should have options and have things that he is doing along with not dropping everything that he is doing just for her. Very important to prioritize, thank you again and have a great day

  • @danielagbaniyaka6196
    @danielagbaniyaka61964 жыл бұрын

    I just love Apollonia Ponti. I love you. You are one of the finest out there,helping men and women to become better.

  • @darlingtonvelandzie5750
    @darlingtonvelandzie57504 жыл бұрын

    Thiss content is absolutely relevant... Thank you Miss Ponti

  • @roorooadventures4771
    @roorooadventures47714 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video. I will work on them and take my time. I want to have fun with my own wellbeing and boundaries and enjoy lifestyle in new ways.

  • @fudeezyrogers1297
    @fudeezyrogers12974 жыл бұрын

    I cant even get to friends with benefits 😂😭

  • @innocentmapindu6352
    @innocentmapindu63524 жыл бұрын

    thank you Apollonia for the useful tips

  • @bigdogmack8692
    @bigdogmack86924 жыл бұрын

    This is awesome content. The ponti brand works. This is what gemini brain power is all about

  • @leonvarin8979
    @leonvarin89794 жыл бұрын

    I missed your more recent videos. KZread wasn't giving notifications like before. After a forced update, I now see you again. I got some catching up to do LOL

  • @BB-uz4tc
    @BB-uz4tc4 жыл бұрын

    Interesting topic Dona

  • @khumbuzampono8494
    @khumbuzampono84944 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much. You've given me something to meditate on.

  • @johnfiveash6733
    @johnfiveash67334 жыл бұрын

    Apollina your videos are awesome.

  • @FiereZero
    @FiereZero4 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to say thank you for these free videos I’ve been following your steps fairly well sometimes my Aspergers causes me to get overly excited. Thankfully the woman I’m talking with understands that’s part of me and I make effort to show I can quell the excitement. I am keeping my options open, but I do enjoy who I’m talking with hoping once I knock out a few bills this month I’ll be able to purchase your guides. I love it please keep this up you are helping

  • @ApolloniaPonti

    @ApolloniaPonti

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're so welcome! Thank you for your message.

  • @waudicas

    @waudicas

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m Aspie too. Greetz from Sweden 🇸🇪

  • @waudicas

    @waudicas

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t forget to check her blog too, there’s tons of stuff there.

  • @andywhite8944
    @andywhite89444 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate your time..

  • @jaimerios461
    @jaimerios4614 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for helping me be a better person and giving the secret's of a women so I can learn what are women are about not what a man thinks how women are

  • @willharper8346
    @willharper83464 жыл бұрын

    Came at the right time! Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @musajallow2718
    @musajallow27184 жыл бұрын

    Hi I really appreciate you, You morals lessons, my god bless you long life and good health.. Am greeting from Gambia west Africa...

  • @bigdogmack8692
    @bigdogmack86924 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh and might i say " you look marvelous".

  • @stevestyles138
    @stevestyles1384 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful.. good morning, Ladies, gentlemen good morning. Rules.. Guidelines to the Game! Always... always on Point! Thank you 😊. Styles

  • @eddymasoud5335
    @eddymasoud53354 жыл бұрын

    Nice video

  • @jasperjohnson83
    @jasperjohnson834 жыл бұрын

    Hi, thank you for the content. Please, where is the download link to friendzone no more?

  • @dexdagamer2887
    @dexdagamer28874 жыл бұрын

    I've tried most of that . Stuck up city round here .

  • @S1MPLECAVEMAN
    @S1MPLECAVEMAN4 жыл бұрын

    You've given better advice than this before.

  • @edgardelacruz6601
    @edgardelacruz66014 жыл бұрын

    Hey love your videos . Can you do a video on how to act on a separation but we still have to focus on our kids. Oh and want to save my marriage.

  • @MohamedSaid-ww7fx
    @MohamedSaid-ww7fx4 жыл бұрын

    I like Appolonia Ponte

  • @benalexender3046
    @benalexender30464 жыл бұрын

    Thanks from Egypt 🇪🇬

  • @helderabraham682
    @helderabraham6824 жыл бұрын

    Hi Apollonia this is what is happening to me, can you grieve more advise on the issue and what is the best plan .

  • @gillarsh1411
    @gillarsh14114 жыл бұрын

    Nice topic 😅👌👌

  • @ApolloniaPonti

    @ApolloniaPonti

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 😀

  • @SuperQdaddy
    @SuperQdaddy4 жыл бұрын

    If you have money and balls to control the benefits...that's it !!

  • @k.venkatarao2164
    @k.venkatarao21644 жыл бұрын

    Mam 1st view

  • @alanwalker6877
    @alanwalker68774 жыл бұрын

    Hello alan i love this video wise you did this last next i have friend with benfes she is in england i am in lreland doing this back and forward over the last to year i told her i what more she what nutes i do not know how to charge this i still talk to her put have not see or travel since i sad that

  • @PMMagro
    @PMMagro4 жыл бұрын

    This is the problem with "freinds with benefits" Does both only want that now and later? It might be a way to start out but...

  • @tracyvanover9638
    @tracyvanover96382 жыл бұрын

    I always say take your time, do your own thing, if he comes around then let it flow if he doesn't then let him go!! Most men that don't respect you enough to date, hang out, meet friends, or mom. then there is a very high chance he has a few FWB! Bet!!

  • @sammonsterenergy1982
    @sammonsterenergy19824 жыл бұрын

    I want to get to that stage however currently she’s not getting back to me about when she’s free next to hangout, even thou we’ve chatted for 16weeks and the date went well we went on. Suppose lockdown isn’t helping many things right now with dating

  • @nellynel6141
    @nellynel61414 жыл бұрын

    Nice tips to prolong the agony in the “ friend zone” mess the beta guy got himself in the first place. Just cut to the chase and tell her what you want. It’ll take less than 30 seconds, game over!

  • @zilalaq574
    @zilalaq5744 жыл бұрын

    I came to take tips and I have watched ur most of the videos and now I felt love 🤣🤣

  • @djalfredstein1049
    @djalfredstein10494 жыл бұрын

    Hey Apollonia, what if I don’t have friends with benefit yet I want to learn to get out of the friend zone. Does your product help with this? Thanks in advance!

  • @narutovskiba88

    @narutovskiba88

    4 жыл бұрын

    ask her out

  • @nokonice9088
    @nokonice90884 жыл бұрын

    Hi ponti. Anytime I call my girlfriend and I hear ca waiting I start to think about plenty things. How can I get rid of such thing

  • @nealpnkflyd
    @nealpnkflyd4 жыл бұрын

    what if we have been friends for 14 years and she;s been frirtatious but i was too scared of rejection to go for it.

  • @marksyb957
    @marksyb9574 жыл бұрын

    Hi Apollonia (I love your name), how to move from "friends" to "Friends with benefits" would be good.

  • @Para_Noia_

    @Para_Noia_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seek out other women

  • @alvinsolezi6164
    @alvinsolezi61644 жыл бұрын

    Hi apollonia See i was dating this girl for a month now but one day she told me that she wants space and she wants us to be friends... and i gave space and sometimes i go no contact but after 3-4 days she reaches out to me and she says she's just greeting me, she's just checking on me. But i don't understand this what does she really mean actually cause i really love her

  • @macona7318
    @macona73183 жыл бұрын

    thaks once a gine

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr4 жыл бұрын

    I like being in that position

  • @alstonfernandez
    @alstonfernandez4 жыл бұрын

    fuck im exactly in this spot. right video at the right time

  • @yorsamore
    @yorsamore4 жыл бұрын

    I have friend she shows good interest but sometimes she acting Weird she doesn’t reply my text message can you give me your Suggestion please thanks?

  • @DEMediaDrive
    @DEMediaDrive4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like too much work for me. Back to stocks and real estate. I'll depend on that gravitional pull. Good luck single people! 👍

  • @smoothdesire9203
    @smoothdesire92034 жыл бұрын

    Aren't all relationship for her these days "friends with benefits" oh and a free meal

  • @karlosgray8874
    @karlosgray88744 жыл бұрын

    Apollonia, Do young women who are 35 or older like older man?. I am 60 years old. Am I too old? Please advise what is the best age range I should be looking for. Thank you.🌹

  • @razorramone63139
    @razorramone631394 жыл бұрын

    Could've used this one before Covid. 😒 What about if they suddenly end up in a relationship with someone else? Do you wait around to be FWB again?

  • @pascalleblanc43

    @pascalleblanc43

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Where does it stop this FWB? I met this woman and I made it clear that I only want FWB. I think that she wants full time relationship. How to make sure that you are free to go at anytime without hurting here? I probably made a mistake

  • @troyharper6967
    @troyharper69674 жыл бұрын

    I needed this it came just in time I'm dating a co worker & we are doing FWB thing but she gets jealous but says she isn't is she lying or does she really like me ? Much love to you & your family 🌹

  • @ApolloniaPonti

    @ApolloniaPonti

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Tony, I'm not sure. I would have to know more about the relationship between you two. I would advise to give this time and see how she continues to react. :)

  • @troyharper6967

    @troyharper6967

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ApolloniaPonti Thank you Ms. Appollonia 🌹

  • @moisesbeyond

    @moisesbeyond

    4 жыл бұрын

    Never date a coworker if things go south and they eventually will you will loose your Job...remember she is not yours is just your turn

  • @SOneGodoneintentionS
    @SOneGodoneintentionS4 жыл бұрын

    I know she is using me. but I'm loving caring about her I hope I can change her mind?

  • @Trace7173
    @Trace71734 жыл бұрын

    I find it so hard to believe that FOB is real..Why would a woman agree to something that completely benefits the guy..I can't even find any relationship much less a FOB situation

  • @archstanton3763

    @archstanton3763

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh it’s most definitely a real thing. In my experience it’s been the woman who’s initiated the idea. However it can go south when feelings rear their head, as they will do at some point. Women are emotional creatures and no matter how high her defences or her attitude to being just FWB it often comes to a point of pain. It goes two ways, they run because they develop feelings they thought they wouldn’t or they say they’ve changed their mind and want more. Just my two cents from my experiences from being in FWB situations.

  • @leavemealone5242
    @leavemealone52422 жыл бұрын

    I want much more than friends. They like I like you only as friend

  • @telmeme4405
    @telmeme44054 жыл бұрын

    I have a girl i craze to date , I know she what’s too but she like oh I can’t make my mind up , I would love to be friends with benefits with her but at the same time I don’t want to scare her away! What should I do ? I have had so many dreams about her even kissing her and all but don’t know if I should just tell her how I feel inside

  • @thyson4luv
    @thyson4luv4 жыл бұрын

    Are you speaking based on past experiences and if so how many people did you actually dated and what makes you an expert?

  • @VerisimilitudeFilms1
    @VerisimilitudeFilms14 жыл бұрын

    Screw "More". How do you get to have "friends with benefits" to begin with!?!? I thought that stuff only happens in the movies.

  • @vonDega
    @vonDega4 жыл бұрын

    LOL...this came up on my home page...Bruh, don't put to much thought into it. Don't put YOURSELF in the friend zone. Stop being soft!! Charisma and Confidence. Look her in her eyes and speak on it. All else will fall into place. Good info Apollonia. But this info is elementary and should be already known and acted on. Dudes be thinking too much.

  • @davidsdinero
    @davidsdinero4 жыл бұрын

    Learning to become a man is one of the best skills a man can learn💯👍💯

  • @alexik7356

    @alexik7356

    4 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate that you didn't flat out insult Professor Finance keep it up

  • @smithgeorge5429
    @smithgeorge54294 жыл бұрын

    Are those flowers real or are they fake

  • @glenlobo
    @glenlobo2 жыл бұрын

    I came here to get out man

  • @wamblirobideau9225
    @wamblirobideau92254 жыл бұрын

    I love u

  • @howtointroverts9718
    @howtointroverts97184 жыл бұрын

    First comment

  • @MoreisMor
    @MoreisMor4 жыл бұрын

    Can I have a conversation with you?

  • @DennyBlade2001
    @DennyBlade20014 жыл бұрын

    I can't even get a friend with benefits. How to get find or turn someone into? Needs advice!!!

  • @thatswhatisaidhoe9649
    @thatswhatisaidhoe96494 жыл бұрын

    I wish I was you're friend

  • @narutovskiba88
    @narutovskiba884 жыл бұрын

    this is the best place to be u are the sexy girl. it will naturally grow into a friendship

  • @outlawstarr5209
    @outlawstarr52094 жыл бұрын

    Good morning Apollonia. I like the tip on the confidence level of saying "you may get a kiss to night". I say if you dont behave yourself I spank you. To she what action she takes.

  • @rachelmorrison362

    @rachelmorrison362

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s too abrupt. I honestly have so much respect for men but what you’re talking about is playing games. Just be yourself

  • @johnskyes8091
    @johnskyes80913 жыл бұрын

    If women has a man but yet she’s always friendly when we are out is that lady like... not saying don’t speak that’s just crazy but at times I think it’s not lady like.. ????

  • @Billyguns82
    @Billyguns824 жыл бұрын

    I am a friend with benefits with this lady but we are both in a crazy situation I'm going through a divorce she never got married but she has a child with her boyfriend and that's with him we both hang around the same groups of people and no one knows about us she talks about leaving but I don't see it happening I'm pretty much open everybody knows about my situation I don't know if she's just using me for sex or an escape and I have a feeling she might be doing it with other men she's pretty honest and she tells me she doesn't have time but I don't think she's completely honest with me my gut tells me she's keeping something when my divorce is final I am willing take the next step with her and have a real relationship but I don't think she's ready or wants it

  • @macona7318
    @macona73183 жыл бұрын

    nic3 earings

  • @chrysromeo
    @chrysromeo4 жыл бұрын

    attraction must be intense enough or isn't enough from the start: usually, this situation of "friends" means the attraction is not at the right level and turning it around may not be worth the effort, because the problem is that she's already got a frame in her mind (conscious and subconscious) of what it's about: "friends with benefits"= settling for less than, which is never the best situation... the man might think attraction can increase by changing his attitude, but the fact remains that she's got it figured out already (even if she doesn't know it, she already knows), sooner or later she's going to meet another man that she has no doubt about and who she won't ever consider just a "friend", and that's where her interest and priorities will shift... once an option, always an option... it's better to move on and find something genuine and right, because hanging around waiting isn't going to bring results, better understand the truth and move on, find someone who feels the feeling and doesn't have any doubts... unless, of course, you don't mind settling for less as well

  • @emilymarie.333

    @emilymarie.333

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your message

  • @dannyarnold4201
    @dannyarnold42014 жыл бұрын

    I want to find FWB's. *_(F)ilipinas (W)ith (B)enefits_* 💪😎

  • @kcleach9312
    @kcleach93124 жыл бұрын

    #2 will slap you into the friend zone if your not careful!!

  • @paulprince1364
    @paulprince13644 жыл бұрын

    What is your ethnicity

  • @puffy_vegas7610
    @puffy_vegas76103 жыл бұрын

    II am a 46 year old man this is not what with FWB means to men. So let me clear this up. Your are in the friend zone ladies and you will never ever ever ever coming out. But my friend married her husband they started out as FWB. I told you the truth do what you want.

  • @juliawarren574

    @juliawarren574

    2 жыл бұрын

    Never ever ever ever coming out ? .. but your friend did! .. you just gave an opposite example. Make it make sense

  • @darrickbrisco5016
    @darrickbrisco50164 жыл бұрын

    Why buy the milk when u already have the cow

  • @briar35981
    @briar359814 жыл бұрын

    Friends with benefits never works. One of them will ruin it with feelings.

  • @79800955
    @798009554 жыл бұрын

    Tbh I would rather have a friend with benefits than a girlfriend No disgusting talk about the future such as Marriage and pregnancy Can go on more fun dates Less standards on making an impression

  • @VampiraVonGhoulscout
    @VampiraVonGhoulscout3 жыл бұрын

    Sigh. So I'm polyamorous. I had no intention of finding a serious secondary partner, just casual encounters and FWB. So that's what I agreed to with this new guy. I'd only spoken to him online because of lockdown until a couple of days ago when we met in person. We went over the whole FWB thing again just to be sure of what we were looking for. But he is really sweet and I find it *very* difficult to find people I am into, let alone someone who I feel is a match. I just have this gut feeling about him and on the train home I was like, aww crap here come the butterflies. I'm not saying I want to jump into anything right away but I guess I'd be open to it developing into something more a few months down the line. We'll see where it goes. But now I gotta have that talk with him to ask if it's on the table on Monday and I feel like it's ending before we've even made it to the bedroom >.> I can never find people like him as well, it's so hard.

  • @Fire91ful

    @Fire91ful

    3 жыл бұрын

    What happened?

  • @rayromo7222
    @rayromo72224 жыл бұрын

    To late for me

  • @rachelmorrison362
    @rachelmorrison3624 жыл бұрын

    This advice only works with really confident women who are financially secure like the woman who is speaking in this video

  • @leonelmateus
    @leonelmateus4 жыл бұрын

    My comment got deleted. lol.

  • @abhishekkumarmandalmea-4145
    @abhishekkumarmandalmea-41454 жыл бұрын

    😍

  • @ltmoods4182
    @ltmoods41824 жыл бұрын

    Not sure why you would want more.

  • @sundayaito4366

    @sundayaito4366

    4 жыл бұрын

    LT Moods, because people develop feelings over time. Have you seen the movie pretty woman? If you have not, I suggest you see it. The situation in that movie talks of a story of someone who ended up wanting more than just a fling with an individual they encountered, kinda similar, I will say, to what is being said here. Lead characters in that movie is Richard gere and Juliet Roberts.

  • @DRGUANE
    @DRGUANE4 жыл бұрын

    🙏👍

  • @coolyeh6305
    @coolyeh63054 жыл бұрын

    Beta guys and girls are the best. Alpha male or female is gone all complied to the lockdowns believes me cause i m damn🔥🔥🔥

  • @eddymasoud5335
    @eddymasoud53354 жыл бұрын

    I need to speak to you

  • @moisesbeyond
    @moisesbeyond4 жыл бұрын

    With the Laws biased against men...the only relationship men Should have is Friends With Benefits , no Long term relationship and no kids at all

  • @EssentialMedia11
    @EssentialMedia114 жыл бұрын

    Irresponsible advice: affirming a fuck buddy then trying to train them out of a situation like many wont have already made of mess of things. Particularly women who can remain hurt for many years after not realizing emotions can consume & cripple.

  • @TomFox1
    @TomFox14 жыл бұрын

    Never be in the friend zone with a girl that you like or are attracted too. No.2 Never be a friend with a girl who has many guy friends.

  • @yawessilfie1724
    @yawessilfie17244 жыл бұрын

    Next video. How to keep Friends with Benefit when you want nothing more.

  • @panduwobbles2419
    @panduwobbles24194 жыл бұрын

    Stop saying "button" please lol...

  • @TomFox1

    @TomFox1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Never!

  • @robertrichards6459
    @robertrichards64594 жыл бұрын

    High-value male

  • @macona7318
    @macona73183 жыл бұрын

    r3all3 your sumthing 3als

  • @TheAtxathlete
    @TheAtxathlete4 жыл бұрын

    That’s a bunch of bad advice and beta male behavior