As a Black Woman, I wish everyone would just leave us alone

@hinatasbff8

2 жыл бұрын

like how we get into it lol we just trying to live

@natalee6654

2 жыл бұрын

I hear that

@matttate920

2 жыл бұрын

At 25% marriage rate ... They are.

@matttate920

2 жыл бұрын

And an 80% divorce filing rate ... You will be.

@theclumsycrafter6159

2 жыл бұрын

@@matttate920 Go to sleep. Your racism and misogyny are showing.

saying you don't date black girls is fine, but calling them "Shaniquas" and saying " we're not night riders" and all the other sht is just unecessary

@abbeyadeyemi6866

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly and I don't think anyone raised that point in the video

@danschumacher5427

2 жыл бұрын

Night rides that funny

@cpolt1192

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it was the shaniqua and jaquesha for me. So disrespectful

@Jess-yp9fo

2 жыл бұрын

Not dating any race is literally stupid they’re girls good and bad in ALL races.

@ThugNasty1337

2 жыл бұрын

No that shit was funny

Being a black woman and constantly hearing black men publicly degrade us while simultaneously hearing non black men commentate on it with very surface level perspectives is extremely annoying.

@rambam3871

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ariesphunk okay 😭 they get it

@zammymynakersnackstbmoth

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously

@hardlessons9732

2 жыл бұрын

Are you suggesting BW don’t degrade black men on a large scale?

@mistyeye6198

2 жыл бұрын

@@hardlessons9732 I barely see bw “degrade” bm as much as bm degrade bw. Maybe the divesters are an exception. But where do you see plenty of bw degrade bm? in real life, internet or both even? I’m curious

@jadew9177

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ariesphunk You said it too much lol

They were the black dudes that got called ugly in high school and cried about why women pick the thugs over me 😭😭😭😭

@christophervibe7430

2 жыл бұрын

Why is that everyone’s assumption?

@EmauniSimone

Жыл бұрын

@@christophervibe7430look at them… they aren’t attractive and they’re corny… as a pretty black girl we ran from those types in high school

The fact that a room full of non black men had more sense in this conversation than those two black men on that podcast is crazy but I love to see it

@Goldenxbih

2 жыл бұрын

I love it

@mgm8075

2 жыл бұрын

I mean let's be honest. Every single channel of men(asian, black, white etc) that I've seen that commented on this has said the same thing. This isn't really a race thing, those 2 guys are just assholes.

@latoyatrytosilenceus4760

2 жыл бұрын

I don't understand why you'd be surprised, BM have been proving how they feel about BW for years. Yet you still have some BW, that worship these men and called them kangs.

@mgm8075

2 жыл бұрын

​@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 What you're doing by generalizing BM is the same thing Fresh and Fit do. This is what I tell Black men who say the same thing you said but about black women, and how some black men call them "queens" when they aren't. Black community likes to pretend it's 1-sided when the truth is both sides talk crap about each other b/c both sides have real issues.

@latoyatrytosilenceus4760

2 жыл бұрын

@@mgm8075 bitter single talk? As usual women are always shamed for being single or if they have an opinion, they're bitter. As if there aren't single bitter men out here. I don't under how my opinion, would make me bitter and single, but typical. It never fails, especially coming from lack men. All that other stuff you spoke of, means nothing to me. Bm are men, and you further prove how they are feminine, and love to go back and forth with females.. which is why you all depend on another group of men for jobs etc. Good day!!

Black women this & black women that … the world is fckin OBSESSED with us. Yawn

@lavonnealexander6936

2 жыл бұрын

Let them be obsessed with us , I will make good money .

@PrincessYonna1

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t wait until the day bw take away all support and worship from bm they don’t deserve it. Let their preferences protest for them and fight for them

@yxs131

2 жыл бұрын

@@PrincessYonna1 honestly, I’m here for divestment. Love yourself & find peace in another who will literally worship your blackness. Go where you’re appreciated, bc unfortunately it’s not always within our own community

@oncode7735

2 жыл бұрын

Bm have been degrading bw for years to make us look bad, and undesirable to other races of men. They are doing it on purpose, and it’s not because of being simply bitter.

@finewomanhood

2 жыл бұрын

@@matttate920 are you saying that only 16% of the black male population are fathers?? If so you are completely wrong. Idk why people keep getting that pew study wrong but it was a study showing how many solo parents there are, not about who’s having kids with who. 89% of blk mothers are parenting solo. Meaning the father is no where to be found. Meanwhile, 11% of blk fathers parent solo because those mothers are not around. What that study actually tells you is a significant amount of men that have children with bw (majority of which are blk) are either deceased, in jail, or abandoned the family. Btw, overall the solo parent rate for ALL women regardless of race is 80% in the U.S. yall clearly cannot read data & enjoy bringing bw down for whatever reason. Also that 50% childless is WRONG. It’s only for bm ages 18-24.

It’s so satisfying to know how high the divorce rate and single mother rates are among white and Latina women who date BM. Numbers don’t lie. It’s clear who the problem is and it’s NOT black women. “Night Riders” was also a term used by the KKK so the fact that they’re using it for BW tells us everything they need to know. Neither one of those men are attractive or kind so allow BW to take a collective sigh of relief they don’t want BW. It’s very odd because they’re always talking about BW every other show.

@usadrones

2 жыл бұрын

🎯

@londonkhareem6515

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t worry sis, the police will get them we don’t have to commit any sin.

@hakeemstewart1519

2 жыл бұрын

The divorce rate is high regardless, you using that to bash BM was shitty because 50% of marriage end in divorce.

@sofiaguerrero0969

2 жыл бұрын

You know, it’s usually the women that end marriages, not the men. If anything, blame the Latina and white women. But that means you have to blame black women too because we’re all, after all, women. lol. But you wouldn’t do that ofc. Accountability is another thing 🤷‍♀️

@thefalcon7512

2 жыл бұрын

The stats for divorce rates between BM and BW are the highest there are.

As a black women when I hear rhetoric like this I just I roll my eyes and keep it pushing. There’s no need in trying to argue or get upset because the self hate is loud enough. Black women live in y’all mind rent free. We could care less about these men with mommy issues.

@mrackz5694

2 жыл бұрын

Bro I don’t why people get mad tho I don’t like black women cuz I don’t find them attractive

@chenanigans

2 жыл бұрын

"The self hate is loud enough". Amen, sis. These dudes are corny af. They have all this popularity and money yet are sad souls who feel the need to put others down. Imagine being that miserable in life.

@epiphany3862

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrackz5694 I don’t think we asked

@mrackz5694

2 жыл бұрын

@@epiphany3862 you guys make it a big thing cuz you black females aren’t as good looking as white females stay mad!

@okcoolshades2203

2 жыл бұрын

Not living in our minds rent free we just wanna talk shit on an uneducated lower class of women

"As a black and Spanish man" Spanish is not a race it's a nationality and a language.

@nvgtr.

2 жыл бұрын

I think he meant as in Hispanic

@Audie1228

2 жыл бұрын

Right, he is still a black Puerto Rican and he presents a black man culturally. He said that to justify his “diverse” dating past. Lol

@DBryan-vu6ec

2 жыл бұрын

@LHU Pigeon non New Yorkers don’t get it. They don’t know even Latinos call themselves Spanish.

@JojieCerteza

2 жыл бұрын

I think you meant Hispanics -- there's a lot of us hispanics -- be it through genes or "inherited"

@RDCFemmes

2 жыл бұрын

@@nvgtr. you can be Hispanic and black

Black on Black racism IS a thing, don’t know why people automatically think there’s no racism within.

@incognitoalister

2 жыл бұрын

It aint racism. Youre soft. Google tinder study of these women being the least desirable group of pple. That aint a coincidence. They messy as hell and its time pple start calling it out. And im black too.

@D3vious38

2 жыл бұрын

Whaa whaa whaa. Hurt my wittle feelings. I dont date gorrrrditas either. 😂

2 жыл бұрын

@@incognitoalister Yep Im black and totally agree. Most black woman don't have maternal skills or qualities I look for in a woman. What man in they're right mind wants to work a 9-5 to come home to a combative, masculine, overweight, unladylike spouse with attitude issues? Not me thats for sure!

@mervinettienne8763

2 жыл бұрын

@@incognitoalister tinder study? Lmao..😂 y'all really out here saying all sorts,the truth is that most black men even in America actually marry or date within their race,all this black women bad etc is just a media pushed narrative, especially that of interracial marriages and relationships,it's over exaggerated to bring down black women and speak of how they're not desirable and ratchet etc. The black family is the most attacked in America, time to open your eyes and see this for what it truly is? From all the LGBT push in the black community etc,all of these things are connected and meant to dismantle the black family but so much of y'all feed into the narrative!

@incognitoalister

2 жыл бұрын

@@mervinettienne8763 nah bro. you got a victim mindset big time. Nobody gives a fuck about your race. Its the nuclear family in general that is under attack of *every* race in america. With all due respect; im not even tryna talk down to you just w/you but you dont know what youre talking about. Like you thinking you seeing the bigger picture but you are still stuck on the race shit. Your mindset is why all blacks vote blue no matter who. REAL racist people have been exiled from society and mainstream media for so long now; you forgot what a real racist looks like. Now Yall consider regular people racist. Victim narcisistic mindset.

The Indian guy is on point! He gets it! Trust me black women as a collective aren’t checking for Bert & Ernie . Like come on

@TatyanaBuie

2 жыл бұрын

Okay Bert and Ernie got me 🤣

@Allhoney33

2 жыл бұрын

The Irish guy got it too. Most men, including African black men would get it. The only ones who don't get it are younger African American males. Gotta give prompts to older African American males though....they wouldn't dare publicly degrade black women. You might have one or two like Quincy Jones but you've never heard Smokey Robinson, Niles Rodger, Prince, or even Ike Turner publicly trash African American women the way these younger, rap loving African American males do! Clearly their self hate and mommy issues are unfounded!

@goldenovaries

Жыл бұрын

@@Allhoney33 hit the nail on the head

@SuccessRendering-hc6ht

Жыл бұрын

Black women in general are not getting looked for. They are the least likely to get married in the country.

@nicholasmccune7949

Жыл бұрын

​@@Allhoney33so those that think exactly like you are good people who "get it" while anyone that doesnt just automatically hate themselves and thier mothers? Facts and stats dont care about how u feel. This is a self reflection problem its not even like ur calling them liars ur just mad they admit it publicly now...

I appreciate the Indian guy saying he wants to pass on his culture and he admitted that non white people would take an average mediocre white person but would pass up someone of their own race who may be much more attractive. This seems to be how a lot of black men think.

@deanwinchester6654

2 жыл бұрын

You can still pass on your culture to your child who is mixed. They will just have multiple cultures.

@scorpionoir4952

2 жыл бұрын

@@deanwinchester6654 A lot of parents drop the ball in this area. Interracial children suffer the most especially if one of their parents don't find it necessary to educate their child on the ways of the world and their culture. Black parent's need to feel this is important because the American school system does a lousy job teaching our children their history and they basically brush over a few key figures and neglect to talk about the many others who have contributed to the history of this world and this country. I didn't really learn the history of my people until I went to college and minored in African Studies. One of the first things I learned was to question where the history we are being taught is coming from. Is that person even black. It's a major factor to be critical of anything concerning black history that comes from non black people and it's even more important to read black history that comes from an Afrocentric point of view. No offense but people of European descent have a long history of rewriting history to suit the narrative that they feel comfortable with aka whitewashing.

@Mimi-mq2wj

2 жыл бұрын

@@deanwinchester6654 interracial children are the most DETACHED from the culture.

It’s really telling when it’s the non black men defending black women. The one black guy, had no support for black women. It shows how much hate is in the black community!

@stringybeanss

2 жыл бұрын

oh wait no no no! he had to also make it known he's not black. he's black and latino.

@MozeleyTribe

2 жыл бұрын

Damn ya’ll using Alex and Fnf as a way to talk down about black men. What about the majority of us who don’t talk bad about bw?

@ElPresidenteMargz

2 жыл бұрын

Alex is a fkn clown 🤡

@MozeleyTribe

2 жыл бұрын

@Jordan Kelly dont talk down on black men because of a few bad apples. Thats not right

@MozeleyTribe

2 жыл бұрын

@Jordan Kelly You sound hella racist. Im a black men. So are my brother and most of my friends. I think youre racist

“I personally don’t date black women” would’ve been fine. But then they kept going 😂😂😂.

@hbb7528

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah they were disrespectful as fuck

@Juanired13

2 жыл бұрын

@@hbb7528 It’s kind of expected from them at this point

@freedy1696

2 жыл бұрын

even thats odd tho becasue your saying of the hundred of millions of black woman you wouldn't date even one of them which definetley feels racist, just say what you prefer and leave it at that, beacause I guarentee unless you are a KKK member there is a black women that you would date.

@Juanired13

2 жыл бұрын

@@freedy1696 they definitely made it racist by saying they don’t hang around Shaniquas and also said all black women are generally ghetto and ratchet.

@hbb7528

2 жыл бұрын

@@Juanired13 💯

The white beauty standards being celebrated really hits home. It's a universal thing. As an arab girl, I've always been bashed and rejected by the men of my community simply for not being (or looking) white. We'd constantly hear how white women are much better than us and how they'd settle for any woman as long as she fits the white beauty standards. They'd even make memes comparing the two communities to prove that one is much better and refined than the other one. Now I am in no way trying to talk down on white women, but this whole "white is better" mindset is definitely something that non-white men all across the world had (or still have) at some point.

@MegaSlimgoody1

2 жыл бұрын

White men started it, but our men keep it going

@gg.6633

2 жыл бұрын

Hmm weird that you say that, I’m a white woman and I’ve always found Arab men to act like they’re superior to me and not really be respectful.

@MegaSlimgoody1

2 жыл бұрын

Next time compare them to white men, and see how they like that.

@wishtty9753

2 жыл бұрын

@@gg.6633 I'm sorry you had to go through that. Unfortunately, someone who downgrades a community to uplift another one is going to be disrespectful to all of them anyway. I spoke from my own experiences (and from what I've seen and heard and been told living with those men), but that doesn't invalidate yours.

@wishtty9753

2 жыл бұрын

@@MegaSlimgoody1 we just can't win either way

As a black gay man I'm disgusted. You can have a "preference" but there's no need to put them down and degrade them. THEY WAS DAMN NEAR DEHUMANIZING BLACK WOMEN AMD IM SORRY YALL GO THROUGH THIS FROM YOUR OWN PEOPLE. THAT'S THE DIFFERENCE YOU DONT NEED TO INSULT ANYONE JUST KEEP THEM OUT YOUR MOUTH.

@wacko37

2 жыл бұрын

R u kidding

@erowry22

2 жыл бұрын

@@wacko37 I didn't see not one "lol" they are speaking facts.

@Mamamoonie

2 жыл бұрын

I feel bad that these idiots tarnish your reputation but guys like him are the majority!

@jonsmitherson6692

2 жыл бұрын

Grow up snowflake ❄

@LoganLS0

2 жыл бұрын

How you going to be gay and still simping?

As a black woman, I am so tired of people discussing Black Women.. Its so degrading, I mean just leave us alone. If you prefer another race then date them and STFU about it, I promise you, 99.999% of us simply do not care. Please stop, seriously! It should not be a conversation topic, like at ALL!. I have plenty to say about Black men, white men, etc.. but I don't say it because well I don't date them so 🤷🏾‍♀🤷🏾‍♀

@Iluvmuneey

2 жыл бұрын

Black women OBVIOUSLY CARE if tall aint car yall wouldnt be mad and in myron dm tryna cancel him

@liggmabawls5634

2 жыл бұрын

If they said we don’t date white women there wouldn’t be any controversy

@jessicaalvarez2314

2 жыл бұрын

i have to disagree even if they just said they prefer non black women they would get criticized. however if i as a latina prefer brown skin hispanic men over white skin no one would care.

@Mmjacksom

2 жыл бұрын

You clearly care

@prettynerd4779

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mmjacksom I care about people getting on KZread and dragging black women through the MUD, YES. I dont care if you don't like black women and prefer another race.. Its the 21st century, who gives AF.. If you like another race, just date the other race, you don't have to get on a public forum and say how HORRIBLE black women are, etc.. You don't think black women have negative things to say about black men? Difference is we dont go on KZread and make videos about it. Be with whom you want to be with but you don't have to attack others in your quest to do it.

It's ok to have preferences it's not ok to bash and disrespect those you are not interested in.

@basicLife7721

2 жыл бұрын

They don't care. No one owes you respect until you gain it. Tighten up. World is a rough place. People call young Muslim guys *t3rr0rists* all the time, no one cries on shaderoom about it. Open your eyes. Your own rappers, athletes, actors, stay away from blkwmn. Resist the victim mindset Edit: Download the dating app they made fun of. Swipe for 30 seconds. You will see what they are talking about. They made fun of an app, NOT an entire race

@landonhernandez8529

2 жыл бұрын

@@basicLife7721 I agree but there’s a need to pRoTEcT bLaCk wAMen

@GreggEddwards

2 жыл бұрын

@@basicLife7721 true but u gotta be careful and not talk urself out of future pussy

@eddydeathwishe4638

2 жыл бұрын

y'all sound like bitches

@niaedmonds3342

2 жыл бұрын

@@eddydeathwishe4638 you sound ignorant.

I’m a black woman. When I was single my thinking was, “let the best man win”. No judgment based on color or ethnicity. I was more concerned with someone with similar education/interests/values. I think a lot of black women think this way.

@AleXelerate8

2 жыл бұрын

Youre too beautiful and worthy to let these broken bad apples hurt or change you.

@ThatGuyFerny

2 жыл бұрын

I’m a Hispanic man and when I was single my thinking was “let the best women win” I still think the same. Also I tell my girl that if she lets go of herself and gets fat I’m out 😌

@Holden-C.

2 жыл бұрын

@@AleXelerate8 you don't know what she looks like.

@AleXelerate8

2 жыл бұрын

@@Holden-C. you dont know what i did.

@hottstepher

2 жыл бұрын

@Five o’clock pervert you don’t know me & you’re not a BW (according to u), so I don’t really see your point

Luckily I know the hue of my skin is to be marveled after. Black women are trendsetters, which sets the trends for the world. I haven't mate a race that didn't adore me. We have classy, ratchet, educate, hood, and all still beautiful. Ghetto is a place, not an attitude. Black women, you ARE the shit!!! We're no black women available to discuss thus issue?

@rulerofkripsy9143

2 жыл бұрын

why would bw be needed for a talk on men preferences. it end up being a debate

The fact he said 'night rider' said everything you needed to know

@lg206

2 жыл бұрын

Especially considering that one of them is as dark as the Mic

@ItsGooseIsland

2 жыл бұрын

Do you even know what a night rider is?

@vanthachhim

2 жыл бұрын

People are so offended by “night rider” and don’t even know what it is 😂

@jayburnham3994

2 жыл бұрын

Thats a term thats used for white women who date black men thus the rider part, but he tried to flip it. So understood what he meant but it didn't make sense.

@ItsGooseIsland

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayburnham3994 It's not just used for White women, it's used for anybody who prefers to have sex with, date, or marry Black people

They didn’t just say they don’t date black women they berated then called them foolish names and basically called them ghetto !

@Accountability24_7

2 жыл бұрын

Alot of them are

@bundydachosen1

2 жыл бұрын

@@Accountability24_7 what’s ghetto ? Because it isn’t a race

@bundydachosen1

2 жыл бұрын

@@Akronkangaroo what does simpin have to do wit this ? I hate when u niggaz learn new words 😒

@lg206

2 жыл бұрын

It’s because non black women are generalized. Case in point, Teen Mom on MTV where white women have the same number of felonies as baby daddies yet the whole race isn’t painted with the same brush

@aquasqua

2 жыл бұрын

@@lg206 you mean non white women?

It’s crazy because I have a cousin just like them. When we were kids I recognized early that he had a lot of self hatred and as an adult I realize that no self respecting black woman would want to date my cousin either, he’s not a catch and he can only date white women who are not wanted by their own kind.

It’s self hate… pure and simple.

That Indian man has the right idea no wonder their culture is so strong

@Omar-jk8ny

2 жыл бұрын

You don’t know Indian culture lol

@itsonlyfair

2 жыл бұрын

@@Omar-jk8ny I know Indian men are respectful towards their women, they provide and build. Unlike u black boy

@itsonlyfair

2 жыл бұрын

@@Omar-jk8ny I live in Brampton Ontario Canada. Google it then tell me I don't know anything about Indian culture. Such a goofball u blk males smh. I'm surrounded by Indian culture fool.

@Omar-jk8ny

2 жыл бұрын

@@itsonlyfair ok lol since you know so much you do realize that Indian culture it’s ok for men to beat their women you also know that in Indian culture you can’t marry anyone who is not in your caste system which is assigned based off you predecessors ‘s I.e similar to what fresh and fit are doing you have a western idea about Indian culture you don’t what it really is hence why I said you don’t know the culture I’m Muslim I’m surrounded by Indian culture as well ik what I’m talking about as well Laquisha

@vignesh540

2 жыл бұрын

@@Omar-jk8ny you are so misinformed, it's not okay to beat anyone you idiot. The marriage thing is true, it is like how muslim women are not allowed to marry non muslim men and majority don't care about it in present day. There are so many cultures in India don't put everything in single pot.

“Shaniqua, laquisha” - cringe

@benten1453

2 жыл бұрын

Pookie and ray ray - no one cares...lol ironic much

@TmcJordan

2 жыл бұрын

@@benten1453 facts mfs weird I’m black asfc but lets not cap like we don’t call and still love our cousins lil RayRay daquan n dem lets be real G😂

@shenellrichardson4936

2 жыл бұрын

So cringe

@Echochco

2 жыл бұрын

Lashonda 😂😂

@Flex4LX

2 жыл бұрын

Don't forget Tanisha, Laronda, and the infamous Sharkesha! Feel free to clown Latina gorrrditas too. Im not a sensitive single mother raised 🐈.

As a black woman, I love Indian men.

Two words: Self. Hate.

It would be nice if black women could be included in all these conversations about black women

@adequatequality

2 жыл бұрын

I mean it's not like they have a readily available supply of black women ready to come on the podcast...it's just their opinion on this unnecessary shade that Fresh and Fit threw toward black women.

@missqt48

2 жыл бұрын

Oh shut up and enjoy the show! Why do you need to see a BW there? Please explain because some of us, women, are just too emotional and not logical!

@linonator

2 жыл бұрын

@@missqt48 yea, gotta agree with your. Her argument here isn’t sound. That would mean, If anyone somewhere in the world is taking about whatever race/gender, they’ll need to have who their speaking about there. And as if a black girl can represent all black girls

@jhoniikemp

2 жыл бұрын

@@linonator I dnt believe that’s the point of OP original commentary. It’s the fact that literally everyone is always getting headlines off of BW consistently in almost every facet but none of these platforms ever seem to want to reach out to BW and get answers, solutions, personal experiences etc. and when they do get BW it’s to use them as a scapegoat to get even more clicks. Why does everyone have so much say about BW is the question??? Seems like people are obsessed

@linonator

2 жыл бұрын

@@jhoniikemp so Oprah, Monique , Wendy, Whoopi etc don’t have a platform either ? And “everyone” isn’t talking about black women. Maybe a few shows here and there but it’s not a majority.

The Asian guy has self respect and cultured that’s why he raises Indian women up. It’s ashame so many Black Men in America/Western world hate themselves and project onto black women. Edit: Thanks for the likes, to any non-black man or woman reading this, please raise your voice and protect bw, the men of our communities have failed us.

@lovelydae7455

2 жыл бұрын

No other race of men does this to their women smh

@FlowerTower

2 жыл бұрын

Fresh and are Sudanese and carribbean (i forger where specifically). Dont being ADOS into this musty conversation.

@Liltoxicfoo

2 жыл бұрын

@@FlowerTower that falls under black

@FlowerTower

2 жыл бұрын

@@Liltoxicfoo Uh... this person said black American, not black. As I said, these men are not ADOS. You do know not all black people are the same ethnicity, right? Cuz it don't sound like you know that.

@DeborahWalkerXOXO

2 жыл бұрын

@@FlowerTower you sound like a WS. They are Americans. Their heritage is not African American Mitch.

This is so fucking depressing, leave Black women alone

I like how they cropped the black guy out. He didn’t contribute anything meaningful. He was definitely a waste of space.

You can totally be transparent about your preferences without dumping on a group of people using extreme stereotypes for clout. I’m a mixed black dude who had Korean homies growing up. I’ve dated Korean chicks before but the family dynamics made for cultural incompatibility. I think marrying an Asian woman would be difficult because of these experiences. That’s a true story, but for me to get on my Podcast and say “I dont do that yellow fever, ya know, with all the math and the karate and stuff…nah.” That’s just lame and corny. But then again this is Fresh and Fit we’re talking about.

@tambamthankyoumaam1437

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry but the math and Karate part was hilarious😂. Valid point nonetheless

@NickM_FirstofHisName

2 жыл бұрын

It's F and F. They can't disappoint you if you know what to expect from them. The guy was Weinsteining the W wanting to appear on his show.

@wokefromhome7389

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's when people hit on black women then say "oh I don't date black girls" or invite black women on podcast to tell them they aren't their preference culturally. Life for what.

@ply155

2 жыл бұрын

You clearly didn’t grow up with Korean homies. They do taekwondo, not karate.

@chefcurry787

2 жыл бұрын

@Dayne EXACTLY...., WELL SAID 👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

The Indian guy added the most value to this whole conversation

@john-tr8jy

2 жыл бұрын

when your world is bigger than a few blocks or just one city, you'll always have more to add to a convo

@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997

2 жыл бұрын

No he didn't...he said he don't fuck with white girls...I'm SURE there's a reason why he don't but he's scared to say it...the guys on Fresh and Fit podcast just has the balls to say it!

@itsonlyfair

2 жыл бұрын

Yes he did. He's very intelligent.

@AC-mp7cx

2 жыл бұрын

im a brown man, and this topic touches my soul, cuz white men and white women and sometimes black men, seem to be the standard..... and it seems that no one cares about us

@bushidobrown9996

2 жыл бұрын

@@AC-mp7cx black men are not the standard. I’m a black man saying this ….

What's weird is they have this idea BW are interested in them in the first place. Plus I've seen their preferences call them repulsive. How embarrassing

All the gentlemen in this video have my respect. Why? Because even though none of them said their preference was black girls they didn’t disrespect us either. And YES, when black men go around saying they don’t date black women it’s probably because of self-hate or the black women they tried to push up on weren’t interested.

As a black man I’ve seen some of my friends treat white women as some type of status symbol and say some of these same dumb things such as I don’t date black women they’re too aggressive, they’re annoying, etc. Which is bullshit because how can you take a few females you dated and apply their features to the whole race. It’s sad but since the beginning of time we’ve been brainwashed to believe that white is beautiful/better and its so sad because these people act like their mom isn’t black. “And when he get on leave your ass for a white girl” - Kanye West I know he’s crazy now but this is College Dropout time when he was semi conscious. Some people look at a white girl like I made it, I’m different, and doing better smh

@AMan-xy3lx

2 жыл бұрын

And sometimes a white girl went and treated homey in a way nobody ever has and he fell in love... balance it out otherwise you sound like a hypocrite.

@lilliekeisha

2 жыл бұрын

why can’t it be just a girl did and she just happened to be white. All women aren’t the same no matter the race. why do white women have just as many issues in relationships as a black woman? we have to stop that and we are the only race that does that

@arriibacon531

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilliekeisha that just because it can't

@mabel1187

2 жыл бұрын

Speaking straight facts fam.

@superwarbuckz9618

2 жыл бұрын

@@AMan-xy3lx your oblivious. Has nothing to do with white woman because they are human just like black woman. My best friend marrying a white girl and I have no problem with somebody loving who they love. My problem comes when people start downing black queens based off their limited experiences or their preference. You can enjoy what you enjoy without insulting others. Doesn’t have to be a competition

"I have a type" is much different than, "We ain't 'night riders'" and "We're not down with the brown." and "We don't dabble in the dark"

@thirdeyeprofit7659

2 жыл бұрын

It's called a joke get over it. ❄

@whaleshark4457

2 жыл бұрын

They are obviously joking, not defending what they said but it is not like they are pitchfork racists.

@kmariamv

2 жыл бұрын

You ever hear the saying - there is truth in jest

@Vikkadinho

2 жыл бұрын

Lolll, its unbelievable how so many people can't read between the lines and see those comments as jokes. What's more surprising is that members of this comedy podcast fail to recognise it as well and would rather virtue signal 🤦‍♂️

@ThomasFoolery8

2 жыл бұрын

@@Vikkadinho oh they fully recognize it as a joke. They just understand the rules of political correctness in 2022 and don’t want to risk getting cancelled.

Just imagine, they gave black men a platform to speak on and the first thing they do is turn on their own people publicly. It’s embarrassing and pathetic.

@rb6gg954

2 жыл бұрын

They weren't given the platform they built it. Not too many things are given to anyone in this world

@xgullafter9590

2 жыл бұрын

Idk man despite how bad fresh n fit are, this comment seems off.

@SashaA004

2 жыл бұрын

@@rb6gg954 I’m simply basing it off the fact that there was a point in time where black mens voices weren’t being heard. Now they opened up platform for people to voice their opinions and this is the first thing that comes out of their mouths. It’s crazy..

@Princetonian4eva

Ай бұрын

@@rb6gg954They didn’t build KZread, which is why they can’t make money from it now 😂

This subject is so exhausting...no other race of men does this to their women ...it's disgusting and sad and tiring... The Indian dude got it down though

@kitejohnson515

2 жыл бұрын

Then why are you giving birth to them ?

@serious7179

2 жыл бұрын

@@kitejohnson515 do I know you? I'm not giving birth to anybody.

Being racist, being disrespectful, stereotyping, and being biased ain’t got nothing to do with having a preference so they need to stop making it seem like it’s about men not being able to have a preference. I think the main focus of anyone discussing this topic is to showcase that there is a difference with having a preference and sh*tting on an entire race for the color of their skin. There is a difference.

@diandriasmith889

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. It would even be understandable if you said, "I don't date X race because they're never in my space/where I live, work, etc." I heard somebody give the definition of preference, which is liking more than one thing, but liking one a little better. But if you have completely written off a group based on the few interactions you've had, you've LITERALLY prejudged it. You have a prejudice.

@xanjey17

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Well said.

@josephjackson8631

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely and very well said. No one cares who dates who, if they had just said I don't date black girls...no problem, they were trying to be cheeky and disrespectful by dumbing it down to color, and that makes it racist.

@cherrynoire13

2 жыл бұрын

This is the comment right here

@sagnikmondal4058

2 жыл бұрын

Say what you will. It's racist, no two ways about it.

the problem is that they said “redbones” implying they date black girls, but not dark black girls. which is pretty messed up to say. even if you prefer that keep it to yourself.

@makaisonn7030

2 жыл бұрын

It's like no one caught that. A lightee and a redbone is fine. Just dont come dark. Madness.

@emergence8217

2 жыл бұрын

I think secretly everyone prefer that.

@FlickMobb

2 жыл бұрын

@@emergence8217 not me I love dark skin girls

@emergence8217

2 жыл бұрын

@@FlickMobb What if you got to choose one.

@makaisonn7030

2 жыл бұрын

@@emergence8217 it's the programming. Even I as a young man was guilty of it

Wow wow.. this podcast is full of actual dialogue and thought provoking topics without slander . Much better than fresh and fit . Great job

many Sudanese who see themselves as Arabs, rather than Africans, routinely use the word "slave", and other derogatory words, to describe black people.

As a black woman I am excited to know low value black men such as fresh and fit do not want to date women like me. They don't have the following: masculine energy ( which never begs a woman to submit it comes naturally), providers, intelligent, and kind. We are good over here. Black men with this mentality treat there preferences the same or worse. Next !!!!

@bdiva101

2 жыл бұрын

✅✅✅✅✅

@noirfit9721

2 жыл бұрын

Say it louder for the black men that can’t read in the back!

@chikoo.chinon1497

2 жыл бұрын

Decent men would not want a woman to submit anyway… to be soft, gentle and respectful YES, but not a hecking doormat.

@AleXelerate8

2 жыл бұрын

Youre too beautiful and worthy to let these broken bad apples hurt or change you.

@azeemahnakhoda1869

2 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yessssss

People be so quick to call people “sensitive” nowadays just bc they won’t tolerate disrespect. If you aren’t the type to correct somebody when they disrespect you that’s fine but the people who won’t tolerate have every right to correct it.

@timmytang7965

2 жыл бұрын

@Druwop like I said, it’s okay if you let people disrespect you, bud. Not everyone works that way tho.

@shenellrichardson4936

2 жыл бұрын

Yep

@jormungandr4690

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you but the main focus is again go on any female dating "coach" channel they do the same thing and women praise them for it. It just pure hypocricy. It is either nothing is tolerated or everything is.

@KingTata

2 жыл бұрын

Not wanting you is not disrespectful "bud"

@KingTata

2 жыл бұрын

95% of man are found to be Unattractive to women in dating apps. I dont see man acting as if women have disrespected you. I dont see man doint shit. Soo this point is just weak

The way people make fun of Black women, does not make sense lol. Ok buddy. Black womens are diverse and all beautiful, you’re tripping

The one thing I notice with certain dudes is that it's not enough that they don't find a certain person attractive... Skin color, weight, race etc.... They'll go out of their way to make you feel bad for not being the type they like. Like you shouldn't exist cause I don't find you attractive. Like why are you so bothered? If you don't like them just move on... Why this vengeance to shit on people who did nothing to you 🤣

@Luka-DanteGodofMischief

Жыл бұрын

Simply because those losers aren't attracted to them (BW)

As a black woman, I think its fine to have a type. As far as I know, everybody has one, I do. Preference isn’t the problem, tearing people down and insulting the people who aren’t what you want is the problem. Calling us ghetto and insulting our complexions is unnecessary and childish. How does that help improve the quality of ones life? What is that supposed to do?

@matttate920

2 жыл бұрын

When was the 1st amendment abolished, just turn the KZread off. Where's your dad?

@adilnaik2217

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry you have to face this shit and can’t believe you still do. Don’t let cultural disrespect get to your head. It always comes from losers. People who are advancing in life, even if they come from discriminating backgrounds, tend to break out of such backward mindsets. If it’s worth anything, I’m a south Asian dude that moved to the West and believe me, for the limited representation I’ve seen of beautiful black women on TV growing up, I’ll see WAY prettier (and I mean drop dead gorgeous) black women at a random Walmart in the middle of nowhere, here in the West.

@PrincessYonna1

2 жыл бұрын

@@matttate920 are you saying that majority of bm lack being fathers?

@anelisabidla6994

2 жыл бұрын

@@PrincessYonna1 clearly they are lacking something very fundamental.

@dehvoo3655

2 жыл бұрын

@@adilnaik2217 this is Americans Black people for you, I pray you don’t group all of us together those of us of Nigerian, Ghanaian and African direct descent would never and could never talk about our women like this. It’s just crazy the things I’m witnessing

A long time ago a group of black co-workers invited me to dinner with their extended friends, a mix of men and women, just starting their professional careers. Because I'm hispanic I think they were comfortable being themselves. At some point they talked about a black guy who wasn't there and was starting to date a pudgy white girl. They all laughed and one of the girls said something I'll never forget - "He probably thinking 'I finally made it!'". Later that girl explained to me that there are black men that see white women as status symbols. Like if you have money, and an expensive car, and designer stuff, and a white woman, you da man. I'm not saying that this is what these guys are feeling but I think there's an element of truth somewhere in there.

@thaneros

2 жыл бұрын

I've never heard any dudes saying that they want a white girl for a status symbol. HOWEVER I've heard the people outside the relationship make a judge. When it comes to these FnF dudes I assume that they are like this due to not being accepted by black woman and now they are angry....again just assuming but this is more common in the community.

@Chris-ti3gq

2 жыл бұрын

Nah this isn’t true the women were just being bitter

@jaydo7860

2 жыл бұрын

@@Chris-ti3gq excatly otherwise they wouldn’t care who the black guy was dating?

@Chris-ti3gq

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaydo7860 exactly lol they really try to shame us & use reverse psychology to get us to do what they want us to do

@NoName-oe4gm

2 жыл бұрын

It’s true! The Indian guy on this podcast just said it! Smfh Most of them are just delusional or In denial!

You can absolutely have a type. It’s when you TEAR down people who are not your type is when it’s a problem.

As a divested black woman I fully support their decision. Just leave us alone

Andrew legit asked the right question, What is it that makes your preference in the first place?

@jhjklgiutuitui890

2 жыл бұрын

regardless to their preference, In Myron ( Amru Fudle ) justification in why he joined HLS, he said "after 9/11 , I was tired of being associated with terror-ism, and white ppl telling me we got your uncle Saddam'' , so he wanted to proved them wrong by enrolling in serves of Home Land Security , by which he admitted that he has engaged in some counter-terrorism operations in some of the poorest countries in the world ''Afghanistan.'' If that dose not scream to you that he suffers from an identity complex than I don't know what to say...

@4pfcarti792

2 жыл бұрын

@@jhjklgiutuitui890 yea def a self hater some people either grow from white people being racist to them or they let it break them and what they think of there selves

@jtw.9410

2 жыл бұрын

@@thefilmessentials655 Honestly, I don’t think they probably like black men, as far as a platonic relationship either. They give me my social circle is very white.

@tiffanywatson8316

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Plus, before they were famous, they probably couldn't get a black girl no matter how hard they tried. But for a white chick, their skin tones being darker was enough to draw them.

@tiffanywatson8316

2 жыл бұрын

But here's the interesting thing, they say no Shaniquas but, they brag about living the very life that attracts a Shaniqua: living in Miami, going to the club, spending money on bs, acting all raunchy and reckless, talking smack. That's the very life the girls they say the DON'T want go for.

You're masking the racist rhetoric that was spewed out. They literally used a racist slur, I don't dabble in the dark, I am not down with the brown. That is not stating preference it's declaring classism on a racial basis.

@richcohen5936

2 жыл бұрын

Freedom of speech doesn't have an asterisk to anyone's or group's feelings!! You can't have freedom of speech and then shut people down for how they feel or express. If you don't like it move on!

@shaniceshipp8677

2 жыл бұрын

They think just because they have first world problems they aren't "black" anymore. It doesn't matter how rich you are some white men have a no minority code.

Dirt and Sand remind me of a roommate I had whose preference was yt girls bc he was never rejected by them, he made out with several of them in a club and loved retelling the experiences, when he’d shoot his shot with a bw, more often than not he was rejected promptly, and had a best friend bw would easily gravitate towards and the guy had mad game. His preference just became avoid embarrassment and go where it’s easiest, but that ended up being a problem bc the few black women had more of the traits he wanted in a long term partner.

What they meant was "they can't date black women." You can tell black women never picked them all through middle school and high school. You can tell they both dated an Ashley at some point

'I'm not really in to black women' would have been enough. It's the disrespect after that. All races have beauty

@inoclasism

2 жыл бұрын

You people call anyone with dark-skin black.

@Nazim909

2 жыл бұрын

@@inoclasism Myron said he’s black

@AlekBarbour

2 жыл бұрын

@@inoclasism the fuck are you talking about

@rjpompa2678

2 жыл бұрын

Nah you’ll have that group come out and say you hate them and that you’re racist.

@Xenlacasa45

2 жыл бұрын

They can say whatever the fuck that want

It’s not about them not dating black women it’s about the horrible things they said about women.

@basicLife7721

2 жыл бұрын

Like there said Asians are ling lings , white girls are Becky's and called that Russian girl in the podcast *mother Russia* and made fun of her accent. Which disrespect are we talking about?

@missachol24

2 жыл бұрын

@@basicLife7721 are you saying because they disrespected other races it’s OK for them to speak like that about black women? None of what they said and what you just wrote was remotely OK or acceptable.

@basicLife7721

2 жыл бұрын

@@missachol24 yes it's not. They disrespect every race equally. But it's only one race who gets their panties in a bunch. Because we mUsT pRotECt blAck wOMen Bs. Only one race wanna hijack the media narrative and cancel you. Go figure 🤷🏽‍♂️

@missachol24

2 жыл бұрын

@@basicLife7721 just because other people take disrespect does not mean black women have to.

@basicLife7721

2 жыл бұрын

@@missachol24 everyone else is mature enough to understand , you can't control people's mouths. How you react to anything is in your control. Young Muslim guys are called terr0r!sts all the time, and I don't see any shaderoom or Western media blog standing up for them. BLK is the only community that wanna silence anyone that says anything against them. Cancel culture. Dictatorship. It doesn't work like that. You have to have a thicker skin I'm sorry

Yeah black men saying that is racist af. Thank you for calling them out.

To the guy in the white shirt…. “SHOOT YOUR SHOT!!!” You never know what women like. The worst you can get is a no.

As a black woman I can say that I don't date black guys either....married white...becky's brothers are just as good as her....works both ways...

@LeratoM98

2 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm with you, girl

@aleafe5069

2 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

@alecgurney9305

2 жыл бұрын

Ayy❤😂

@raesully2615

2 жыл бұрын

Same!!👏🤣

As a Nigerian man.. It would be difficult to not get married to a Nigerian woman, despite their madness.. Can't imagine being with someone that doesn't match my level of craze.

@mizkarib

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@adedapodacosta4228

2 жыл бұрын

Comrade you be werey o🤣🤣🤣

@BobbyHiII

2 жыл бұрын

That level of “craze” is why you need to stay in Nigeria …..

@lifeofameji

2 жыл бұрын

@@BobbyHiII pls come to the airport when I'm about to migrate to personally stop me from entering America. Pls drop your address also and contact details so i can message you ahead of time.

@vicentesanchezjr.3877

2 жыл бұрын

Best of luck to you with that life man 😂😂

I went on a date with Myron I never in my life felt so uncomfortable with this guy, he Uber me to go on a date with him at brickell Miami he was so hated with the black women that he told me to change you hair for him. Yes I’ve met him on a unusual dating site

“It’s sad when someone’s racist against their own.” That’s it right there…..yup

Adam is the first guest to read the show and integrate seamlessly into it.

@AdamRoweComedy

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏼

@DNYGdj

2 жыл бұрын

This is racist

@Stranger_In_The_Alps

2 жыл бұрын

Adam who?

@jimdoe6697

2 жыл бұрын

Yess lad doin bits

@MassEveNova

2 жыл бұрын

@@AdamRoweComedy Respect!

Asian guy gets it. Hats off to him 👏🏾

@J040PL7

2 жыл бұрын

Wait, I though he disagreed.

@ashlouw5350

2 жыл бұрын

The white British guy got it. He explained FNF mentality on being the rejects who want to reject women who would not look at them once anyways. The one I didn't expect it to ..Colorism is rife in the Asian community too so he would agree with FNF

@kdology5760

2 жыл бұрын

This is why the Asian culture is so strong and fortified. If only black males understood this.

@i.i1215

2 жыл бұрын

Asian men would never disrespect asian women.

@ashlouw5350

2 жыл бұрын

@@i.i1215 No other race of men will sit on very visible platforms qand target their own race of women and degrade them. And the manor the way these manosphere men go at bw is the way hardcore r@cist will behave.

Regardless of what anybody wants, I will always know that I'm cream of the crop and an amazing woman. Probably even more so because of my race and what we have to put up with in this society. But it's just made me more self focused and love myself even more. I'm just tired of this being a topic. If you don't want to date black women, then don't. Just leave us out of it and be with what you want. We don't care so why share?🙄

Leave black women alone. The over emphasis of negativity on us creates an environment of violence and extremism.

@kitejohnson515

2 жыл бұрын

That’s what they want they want the world desensitized to your abuse black men are the enemy of blacknprogress

“If you wanna date a bunch of Shaniqua’s go for it…LAQUESHA!” The sad part is If you didn’t know them and just heard this, you would think it was two white fraternity dudes in Alabama, not two black men that constantly invite black women on their show to belittle and embarrass them. Ladies if you see dudes that are a fan of these two or any of these other red pill weirdos, STAY CLEAR OF THEM🚨 Edit: I want you ladies to peep the type of replies i’m getting from Black Men and realize the absolute hatred many of them have for Black women. This is why the black femicide rate is so high. Do NOT catch yourself in places where there are large groups of them (I.e. Rap concerts, BLM protests, Urban clubs, near one of their barbershops, etc) they will not think twice about harming, assaulting, and harassing you as a BW because they believe we are not worthy of protection. Sending love to all the beautiful educated Black Women rising above these Swiffer dustys❤️❤️❤️

@J040PL7

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, is that what people are descending down to? Shaming other people blatantly? Specially trying to guide others I to who should/should not be dated?

@theezenriarinze9203

2 жыл бұрын

Do you say that when ppl say ray ray and pookie? Tyrone?

@theezenriarinze9203

2 жыл бұрын

@Dusty Free Too bad I could careless that you're a blk women how about you make me shut up?

@JamesTheSecond01

2 жыл бұрын

@BwStopBirthingYourKangz oh look another masculine bw

@kitejohnson515

2 жыл бұрын

@@theezenriarinze9203 BM created those names to seperare themselves

People come in all shapes , sizes and colors and have all types of personalities. Trying to use skin color to determine other characteristics is the basis of racism. This is the weakest grift.

@viralt487

2 жыл бұрын

most men accept that women have racial preferences, while they do not. so you talking shit about women?

@alien1862

2 жыл бұрын

Damn. People can't have a preference on who they fuck.... But women can berate men left and right and get high fives. Not even sure how they betrated black women. I wouldn't date a broke ratchet unemployed woman with kids either. Especially one that hangs out at the liquor store for more then 5 minutes. That's not racist. I'm black and I fucking lived in the hood. I'll have my preference just like the women who need a rich 6ft guy.

@urkcin9385

2 жыл бұрын

@@alien1862 well that's not what they said tho. They said they and made it seem like all black women act like that....and all black women don't. I've lived in trailer parks back in my younger days and there are a lot of white women that do exactly what you stated above.

@autumnrichelle1097

2 жыл бұрын

@@alien1862 soooo there aren’t white women in the hood like that? Clown 🤡

@KingTata

2 жыл бұрын

Ohh yeah that sounds very nice of paper but we all do it all the time on conscious level and subconscious

Very profound observations. I’ve never seen a mixed-race group of men have such a perspective of a race that is not their own. Amazing how you all are not just buying into the stereotypes and negativity and actually taking a logical look into why someone would feel that way about individuals in their own race group. Literally gained a subscriber because I love the level of logic and critical thinking.

When I was a teenager looking for hair magazines, I didn’t see anybody who looked like me or had hair like me till I got to the end of the aisle. Or walking down the hair dye aisle and only seeing white girls on the box till I got to the end of the aisle. I watched it go from the end of the aisle, to having a whole endcap, to now I can walk into a store and see a whole aisle with girls on dye boxes who look like me and have my hair type. When everything is already catered to you, you don’t even notice, but when things are not, you notice everything.

People don’t know what the word preference means and it shows lol. A preference is to like one thing more than you like another. It’s not to have disdain for one thing and like the other. So if you dislike black women as a whole don’t use the word preference to try and make it sound better. Preference would mean you like all women (who are attractive to you) but you like one group more than you like the rest. Those fools don’t like black women at all.

@PharezTV

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯. Speaking with disdain for one is definitely not “preference” behavior.

@user-ur4io5lh5s

2 жыл бұрын

Preference is misused the way "Spanish" is used in place of Hispanic or Latino which is an ethnicity not literal race

@honibee6145

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@emergence8217

2 жыл бұрын

I think women don't get it.. it's like how when women feels the need to date someone taller than them. It's not hate based on race. It's Instinct.

@TheBree910

2 жыл бұрын

@@emergence8217 A woman dating a man based on stature which may be a perceived marker of strength or dominance (the instinct you speak of), is not equivalent to black men insulting and belittling black women. There’s nothing instinctual about that at all.

I remember throwing a house party in college with my roommates and there was a group of black guys in a circle, talking about how they would never date a black girl. I could’ve made a scene and kicked them out but I just took a mental note and kept my distance since. It’s just embarrassing. Keep in mind, no girls were even talking to them but I had a lot of white guys talking to me sooooo 🤷🏿‍♀️ LMAO funny how that works

@BrayBray78

2 жыл бұрын

@@rootbrr5288 who’s tripping? I’m happy these guys are dating out bc I would never want my sister or cousins with any of these clowns.

@wherebeautymeetswellness

2 жыл бұрын

@@rootbrr5288 no you’re embarrassing! A Buck not a king with no resources, no ownership no nothing! Y’all are the only group of men who think it’s ok to disrespect/devalue your women. We don’t want you! Your time is up! There’s a spiritual debt that must be paid . As a collective blk men have done nothing to move forward and our communities is a reflection of that! All you do is whine and complain about the Yt man instead fighting and competing with other groups of men. So you disrespect blk women to boost your ego! There’s a awakening finally happening for blk women to close their purses bec you all are the only group of who use their women to exploit and make money off of and for blk women to see the collective for who you all really are.

@Bella_Noire

2 жыл бұрын

@@wherebeautymeetswellness This☝🏾

@johnnyoldenjr.

2 жыл бұрын

@@wherebeautymeetswellness Tell me you fuck with broke hood dudes without telling me.🤣🤣🤣

@LOVELYC20

2 жыл бұрын

@@wherebeautymeetswellness very well said👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

respect to andrew, akaash, and the gang for facilitating a place where these ,uncomfortable but much needed conversations can take place.

The fact that this podcast had many types of cultural inputs made it amazing and informative

me as a mexican, I love my women, every race should love their own kind, like they came from a black mother, so basically he dissed his own mom, which is crazy if u think about it but aii man, I love my mexican females🤞🏽

@acococure6398

2 жыл бұрын

Its fucking embarrassing.

@elcartier4402

2 жыл бұрын

@Vane Moralez never said, im saying, I love my own kind of women

@richcohen5936

2 жыл бұрын

i don't understand how can you like your race more than other race. It's like incest. Why would any man be attracted to someone like his mom?? Makes no sense. Diversity is the key. World is great when it is diverse. mixed kids do 100 times better than white or black kids. genetically and biologically it better to date from other race than your country, tribe, family etc. The furthest the best kids..

@klove5974

2 жыл бұрын

@@elcartier4402 What man on planet Earth in his right mind is trying to date his mother??

@elcartier4402

2 жыл бұрын

@@richcohen5936 fresh and fit said they don't like shadow dark side women, idiot

having a preference is different then insulting your own women….and calling them “shaniquas” and “nightriders” ….which is beyond self hate …like how are you a “alpha”man and u can’t control your emotions or talk shit about women in your own community ….and Myron never claimed being black until he got backlash either

@christophervibe7430

Жыл бұрын

Do you know what the term night rider means? U call white people night riders that referee to yt ppl dating black ppl. Blk ppl who date yt ppl are called day riders know ur history

@c45177

11 ай бұрын

@@christophervibe7430 where did the term come from dummy? The KKK. How's that for some history.

These men were well raised and probably love their sisters and mother.. you can always tell good men from Douchebags. I don’t date Indian men because it genuinely feels like I’m dating my own brother. It’s nothing to do with them being better or worse than other nationalities I just prefer someone from different cultures

@sahilmehta7732

2 жыл бұрын

Rascist

@caps900

2 жыл бұрын

omg l feel the same way too 🙈

@misha5600

2 жыл бұрын

As an Indian woman my preference has always been men of my own culture that is Indian guys 😳 but if they're willing to respect & take time to understand my culture, religion and values than I'd date outside men too for sure, given that my family agrees lol 🤣 No one is more imp to me other than my parents and their blessings!

@alecgurney9305

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like self hatred. That ain't cool. How can you publicly say that? Its 2022

@anonymous-yq4wc

Жыл бұрын

Some fucked up mentality you have there

“Sometimes if they’re redbone”. *That’s the sentence that solidifies the issue* It’s not about personality, culture, behavior, etc. It’s literally about skin color. *They only want someone who has white skin.* And hey, have your preferences. But that’s not a preference. They literally do not want women who look like them/the women in their family because they have an issue with Blackness/dark skin.

They not just said they got preference they were dragging black women

@qaaronrodgers2479

2 жыл бұрын

Everybody gets dragged. Get out that snowflake mindset.

@teflonthedon5213

2 жыл бұрын

@@qaaronrodgers2479 Dissing any race of women simply for being that race is just stupidity. Calling out said stupidity aint snowflake behavior, its just being rational.

@Boi1derrr

2 жыл бұрын

​@@teflonthedon5213 Facts. Hes calling him a snowflake because his daddy Fresh told him complaining or calling one out isn't alpha lmao

@redmatrixx

2 жыл бұрын

@@teflonthedon5213 you are actually acting like a pu$$y. They make joke about every race. They have both dated blacks before. One of them was even alleged to have gotten a black girl pregnant which turned out to be a lie on the lady's part. So they don't hate black women but in terms of preference they said they don't like black women and passed a joke about the stereotypic black rachet women, Shaniqua. And let's not pretend we all don't have that stereotype of rachet black women in our mind. It's a joke.gosh.

@Ihateopp

2 жыл бұрын

Wahhhhhh wahhhhhh

It's a shame that Akaash gets it over Alex saying bullshit about preferences.

@moer2489

2 жыл бұрын

alex also doesnt date black women

@TB-wm1hv

2 жыл бұрын

Akaash is about his culture.

@SpartanHoplite360

2 жыл бұрын

Akaash was spot on with his point on internalised racism tbh

@Flex4LX

2 жыл бұрын

Akassh will call u tr @n sph0bic for not wanting to date a trans.

@KneeJerkReactions13

2 жыл бұрын

Akaash is woke af, like all these democrat pussies.

White guy here. Dated white girls, black girls, Latina girls and east Asian girls and half the time you don’t know what your type is until you’ve tried it. When you starting mixing with people outside your own group you start to realise how many options are out there. Pretty is pretty to me I jut appreciate how many different types of pretty there are. Not trying to sound like a stud (my dating numbers are very average) but I just don’t get narrowing one’s field like that, my best dating experiences have all been outside my own demographic but I wouldn’t be opposed to staying within either.

Lololol he said uhhh about 5’7” you hear me?? Lmaoooo

hit the nail on the head when yall were talking about standards. White girls are and have been the standard for the longest time so women of color have to do a lot more to be even seen on the same level as an average "basic" white girl. that's why as Akaash said, many people would take an average white girl over a gorgeous woc. Their whiteness, by default, adds 100 pts to their worth, regardless of what the look like. they ARE the standard, so they don't have to try and match up to it like other women.

@josephjackson8631

2 жыл бұрын

if white women were the standard then they wouldn't Tan. If they were the standard then they wouldn't inject anything into their lips. Who do you think they are trying to mimmick? When Bo Derek was in the movie "10", everyone thought she was soooo beautiful. Here was a thin white women running along the beach, with her blonde hair braided and in beads. Who do you think, again she is trying to mimmick. Almost all cultures have an issue with skin tone. Asian have an issue, The Spanish also have issues with color and it comes from Colonialism. Again if white women were the standard they wouldn't do anything to their looks, but that is not the case. Don't Fall for the Banana in the Tail Pipe...think deeper.

@angelbbyblue

2 жыл бұрын

@@josephjackson8631 yeah, in recent years it's become a trend for white women to co-opt certain features from other races just enough to appear exotic and distinct, but they're still.... white... Also, it's a common issue that the features that you mentioned such as big lips, darker skin etc. are seen as undesirable when they're in women of colour, but applauded when copied by white women. You contradicted yourself when you said "almost all cultures have an issue with skin tone... it comes from colonialism" yeah I agree, beauty standards set by colonialism are still rampant in many cultures today but dude... who do you think the colonizers were? lmaoo Beauty standards have become slightly broader when compared to past decades due to more inclusivity especially in the media (thus explaining "trends" like bigger lips, darker tan, etc. that many white women partake in), but in general whiteness still holds a lot of weight when it comes to judging one's desirability in society. I do want to clarify that I'm not trying to say that white women don't feel pressure from the beauty standards set by society. I'm just saying that even if they might not look like the societal "ideal", by being white, they do automatically fit into a large part of that standard.

@josephjackson8631

2 жыл бұрын

@@angelbbyblue False, you're missing the point. Immatation is the most sincere form of flattery. Why would you take on feature from another race if you are the standard. Also this just didn't start happening. How long have Tanning beds been around? A pretty long time. The truth is there is beauty in all races, all skin tones, thats the truth. The lie is when Hollywood cast a white women to play Cleopatra and people applaud it rather than being outraged, so people think a lie is the standard for beauty. Just because White society is empowered (they control Hollwood and Most media outlet) people believe what they see, but again I look deeper. If they were the standard they wouldn't do any and everything to covet the features found in the Black women. If you look thru history there are examples that show the insecurity of white women. Did you know in slavery times, in Louisiana what is now New Orleans the Malado women ( black women mixed with black and something else) had to cover their hair because it was said to be so beautiful that it attracted too much attention from white men. So they passed a law that said all black women had to cover their hair in public. Again, white is not the standard of beauty, Beauty is the standard of beauty and it comes in all different ethnicities and shades. 2 thinks can be True, Fresh and Fit are spewing racist insults and just because Fresh is Black does not mean he can't be racist. I get it. U think white women are more attractive to you...then say that and leave it at that. Stop with the Racist insults.

@angelbbyblue

2 жыл бұрын

@MeS. I actually agree with you there. You articulated it better then I could, the part about white women being put on a pedestal. I also agree that ww or non black woc can't be the yardstick for measuring black women - but think of black women growing up in predominantly white areas with little to no positive representation of themselves around them - it's not unusual to see them comparing themselves to white standards of beauty since that's all that they see being desired.

@athenasuperheldin1017

2 жыл бұрын

White women are even the standard in NONwhite countries. In South Korea for example….you see white models everywhere on posters eventhough it is a Asian Majority country. Secondly, basic white girls who are not even considered beautiful…..automatically are preferred in the dating scene….whereas even above than average gorgeous black women have a hard time in the dating scene. Whiteness being the standard is something that is prevalent in nonwhite countries too.

Dude there's hot chicks in every single color out there and I do not discriminate

@neon-astronaut

2 жыл бұрын

🙌

@GrimmsHouseofHorror

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah it’s the inside that’s ugly

@R3dsk1n2123

2 жыл бұрын

This I there personal preference. Has nothing to do with anyone elses

@kai8865

2 жыл бұрын

This is the thing though you can not discriminate at all and still have a preference. These new dudes seem to think having a preference means you only date one type and that’s not the case.

@dismisswillcorrupt84

2 жыл бұрын

exactly even if you don't like a particular type (say Asians) if you live in Korea for a few years you're going to eventually see that you are attracted to some of them. Most people are obsessed with how they are perceived by society.

So here’s the thing. Patrice O’ Neal did this bit on a podcast about being with a black girl vs white and he had this cooking metaphor that actually made sense saying that the black girl’s love runs so deep so it’s like the food takes longer to cook and it’s delicious as suppose to western girls is like a comparison to TV dinners and it only takes 2 mins in the microwave. I agree in some levels that being Asian and dating within your tribe promotes longevity so F&F won’t admit that they’re just in it for a casual encounter but society promotes monogamy so there’s definitely a backlash on belief systems and preference which is different for everybody.

Mans crossed his legs so hard it was hurting me

Personally, having read and studied Psychology for a few years now, I think this starts in childhood. Here's something interesting that people rarely talk about: the black community has it's own social hierarchy. In our culture, the gangstas and the men with that hood "edge" are on top. Especially in grade school/adolescents. So the well-spoken and better behaved black boys are not only seen as low value, but they're often times the target of joking and teasing. In their formative years, black girls deem these boys as invalids for dating. So as a reaction, these young black boys that are on the fringes of black culture will respond in kind... they say "I'm an invalid? I'm a joke?... No! YOU'RE INVALID! YOU'RE A JOKE". It's not a coincidence that we usually hear this opinion from the black men that are more eccentric than the one's glorified in rap music and depicted in black demographic targeted media. I believe it's return fire. The shunned now doing the shunning. The root cause is the fact that from a very young age we disenfranchise our own (i.e he's well-spoken and reads, which means he's white so he's not one of us) which causes them to disown us back once they're adults (i.e these girls are hoodrats who are loud and ghetto, **** the lot of them). I could write more, but I'll finish with this. All in all, this is just a symptom of a bigger problem. The black community has been at odds with itself for a long time and this is just the newest incident of an old, long-standing problem.

@Ducedaily

2 жыл бұрын

The person who wrote this sounds like they sit down when they piss, and bleeds once a month🤷🏿

@D3vious38

2 жыл бұрын

Sharkeishas dont like educated BM. They like Pookies & Rayrays. Until they grow up and NEED the educated BM they mad cuz he dates other women.

@austinjrb

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ducedaily I am an author, I published my first book last year. Anyway your comment is rude and unproductive. I can't understand why you wrote it.

@alien1862

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ducedaily what he says makes a lot of sense. None of it has anything to do with social media. But alright duce lol

@paulishta

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ducedaily your reaction is proving his point :)

the issue isnt about them having a preference but its about them having to insult and berate black women as a reason for said preference

@turdferguson7105

2 жыл бұрын

The crap BW say to anyone they want and nobody comes up saying "you don't need to be insulting" this is bs.

@eliwoods5683

2 жыл бұрын

You just can’t take a joke cause you’re unattractive.

@nawbeech4789

2 жыл бұрын

Of course they could have easily said that they prefer to date non-black women, but you guys have to realize that they said what they said for shock value. And clearly it worked because lot's of people are talking about them and their channel and profile are growing because of it.

@AfroDevil

2 жыл бұрын

@@turdferguson7105 exactly! all this rage just show that bw are insecure tbh

@TheAlizwa

2 жыл бұрын

@@turdferguson7105 you are generalizing Sir , because you have no leg to stand on, no matter who does it , it is foul to berate and insult a race of ppl in order to give validity to your preference.

What Akaash says at 4:35 really spoke to my heart. Thank you for speaking the truth!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Great video and conversation! Very diverse thinking and perspective. Thanks!!

“Do it privately like Alex” bingo! 😂 Btw its very normal to want to marry someone who looks like you and comes from your culture. It gets weird when you totally exclude your own race as a option to date/marry

@jessicaalvarez2314

2 жыл бұрын

i have to disagree even if they just said i prefer non black women they would get criticized. however if i as a latina prefer brown skin hispanic men over white skin no one would care.

@notlookinforahug

2 жыл бұрын

I think black men should proudly reject every single non-traditional loud mouth black woman. Get in order get your men…..

@septemberdreamer2651

2 жыл бұрын

@@notlookinforahug amen

@TT-kb2le

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaalvarez2314 but they started coming up with rude stereotypes about bw, calling them shaniquas, ratchet & nightriders. They could have just said I like so and so & kept it at that. They are so dense for a 'dating coach'.

@jessicaalvarez2314

2 жыл бұрын

@@TT-kb2le those arent stereotypes they are true ive experienced myself, yeah there are some good apples but most are rotton

Tbh a lot of valid points were made in this podcast and I always find it interesting when non black ppl are able to explain anti blackness within the black community so simply. It just goes to show it’s really that simple and black men who act like they don’t get what’s wrong with them making these statements are just in pure denial. Even Andrew stated how bizzare it is to see black men acting like that and he’s not even black bro. What would make someone unattracted to their own kind? I think it’s very obvious that this is a direct result of the history that black ppl have had in America as well as the media’s role in pumping out anti black stereotypes. This would also explain why this way of thinking is prevalent more in the black community vs other minority communities who tend to prefer their own more often. Also What aakash said about minorities uplifting white women is true , as the dominant culture people tend to put them on a pedestal for being white. I just think these things have always been obvious to a lot of black ppl but I wasn’t sure if other racial groups were this aware

@theezenriarinze9203

2 жыл бұрын

Are you obligated to find you're own attractive?

@nnamnotplayin

2 жыл бұрын

@@theezenriarinze9203 not necessarily but don’t u think it’s strange to demonstrate a lack of interest in ur own ppl? What does that say about what u think of urself ? No other cultures demonstrate a mass issue with their own ppl, and it kinda forces u to wonder what happened to black ppl that didn’t happen to other groups? and I think it’s pretty obvious that this is a direct result of some of the psychological effects of slavery/ colonialism . There’s nothing wrong with dating Outside ur race but opening ur mouth to talk down on ur own ppl is strange no other group of ppl are known to do that

@theezenriarinze9203

2 жыл бұрын

@@nnamnotplayin No I don't because you're not obligated to do so, heck you're not obligated to like anyone for that matter. But you said "not necessarily" so on some level you do believe you're supposed to. And no you're forgetting Indians and native Americans. Even Akassh said himself that he knows Indians men and women who won't date each other.

@BB-qk8on

2 жыл бұрын

@@theezenriarinze9203 it’s strange and points to a lack of self love… I find myself really attractive and I find people who look like me to be beautiful as well. My best friend is blonde with blue eyes and she only dates blond men because she wants her kids to look like her. It’s normal…

@theezenriarinze9203

2 жыл бұрын

@@BB-qk8on So by your logic it would be abnormal and a lack of self love to find beauty outside of your race? All of you keep tap dancing around the fact that as much you ppl keep saying it ok to date outside your race you don't really believe that lol.

I personally don't see how not dating a certain race is a preference. Like, there's not a particular pinpoint in black women to not be attracted to. Or a pinpoint in white women or Indian women. Black women aren't all the same color or aren't all from the same area or whatever. It's deeper than just not being attracted to a particular race.

This was the most agreeable conversation I've heard on this topic 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I didn't care that they had a type and from the comments I seen having a preference is nothing wrong. It's disrespecting black women that's corny to me.

@em3sis

2 жыл бұрын

While I think they are clowns 100%, do you really think they would be allowed to say "I date white, Asian, and Latino women" and there would ZERO people asking why black women were left out?

@maxis2778

2 жыл бұрын

@@em3sis it wouldn't be posted on shade room or on headlines. It's very plausible to say they were just rambling off races and black just happened to get left out

@em3sis

2 жыл бұрын

@@maxis2778 bro idk where you been living the past year but there would be Twitter threads ripping these guys up and down if they even just "left black women out"

@mantrell502

2 жыл бұрын

They explained the comments. They said it was a joke because they joke on every race. They aren't a politically correct podcast. They made fun of asian, hispanic, Russian, native american women. Also they have black women on the show every night

@maxis2778

2 жыл бұрын

@@mantrell502 that wasn't a joke Myron stated "I don't date black girls most black women are annoying,rachet, and undeserved but your different" How is this comical in anyway. Feels like there back pedaling hard. Again having a preference is fine but if you think black women as a whole or as a majority are this stereotype your perception is very small and biased. And them sneak dissing is wild to me.

The problem is they are combining preferences of 2 completely different criteria and treating them as inseparable. 1.) They don't date black girls (Race preference) 2.) They don't date ghetto and low class girls (Class/culture preference) To start with Preference 1, to each their own but this isn't a preference so much as something they're not interested in women of a certain skin color. They could have just said what they preferred instead of saying what they didn't like as if it were something they detested. As far as Preference 2, what they don't want to date are low class, ghetto, poorly educated, low value women who have unrealistic views of the world. HERE'S THE PROBLEM. 1 is a preference of race whereas 2 is a preference of class and culture. The problem is that they make those inseparable. They combine both criteria to give the message "We don't date black women because they are low class and ghetto". This is what's fucked up. There are black girls who aren't ghetto at all. But when you tag on that you don't date black girls because they are generally this caliber of woman, it's fucked.

@BrandonHeat243

2 жыл бұрын

I think you're putting a bit too much thought into it buddy. It's well established at this point that Fresh and Fit are clowns, grifters and fakes. Their stupid comments don't even deserve the time you gave them tbqh.

@KnicksNYanks84

2 жыл бұрын

Great comment I think you nailed it. It seems like they’re saying the majority of 1 is also 2.

@dragoooon9561

2 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely correct and to add on to it is the context of why they said it. A question was posed about a dating app so they could only really reference black women, and also the night rider comment...

@richierich7098

2 жыл бұрын

AMEN AMEN AMEN

@williampowell3378

2 жыл бұрын

Well written

Everyone has a preference. However, they didn’t have to bash black women in order to explain their preference. I also agree with you guys. I do feel like the reason that they have such negative things to say about black women is based on their history with them.

The black and “Spanish” guy was definitely going to leave it at the they have a type and it shouldn’t matter part of the conversation . I also enjoyed the commentary from the Indian guy. He added the most value to the conversation.