Scenario Of A Bad Comment, How They Occur And Why

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  • @harveyyarbrough2830
    @harveyyarbrough28307 жыл бұрын

    Lady Stokes, This is Harvey Yarbrough. I replied to your recipe of homemade dinner rolls. I drive a transit bus for Chicago and come into all sorts of people on a daily basis. I say that to say this, Do not waste your time with haters!!!! I love, love your recipes as well as wisdom. Keep up the great work and you and Mr. Buckey continue to enjoy your life!!!! May the Lord continue to bless and keep you real good!!!!

  • @maryannsilverman5218

    @maryannsilverman5218

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dear Phyllis, honey when I'm in an uprising all I have to do is go to your channel. You have the most relaxing voice and demeanor. I can listen to you all day long. I adore you, I wish we were neighbors. I'm sure I'm older than you ! I'm listening to you about negative messages. In my opinion they never have anything good in their lives so they try to irritate everyone else. I'm glad you don't let it get to you. God Bless you and Mr. Bucky too. I am from CONNECTICUT and a huge fan of yours. I pray for you with you're illness hopefully it will go into remission. Keep telling us you're wonderful stories. I just finished listening to your story about the deer hitting your new car. You certainly are a smart cookie to act angry instead of showing how really terrified you really were !! God Bless and keep you safe. MaryAnn

  • @judyupdyke500

    @judyupdyke500

    4 жыл бұрын

    Harvey Yarbrough ?^53., Hjfh

  • @huneebunee

    @huneebunee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis your beautiful .. thanks for the information.. I gonna do that in my KZread channel.

  • @user-zy6sx2iv2k

    @user-zy6sx2iv2k

    Ай бұрын

    Me too sweet lady rip

  • @auemmjee
    @auemmjee7 жыл бұрын

    Personally, I like it when you get a little sassy. Keep doing your thing and pay no mind to the malcontent.

  • @ellerybragdon5392

    @ellerybragdon5392

    6 жыл бұрын

    I love this lady.

  • @patriciaryan3232

    @patriciaryan3232

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @bobbienicley13

    @bobbienicley13

    5 жыл бұрын

    Is the ulna on the thumb side or pinkie side?

  • @coralbishop7031

    @coralbishop7031

    5 жыл бұрын

    Don’t answer these negative bums

  • @fancysfolly554

    @fancysfolly554

    5 жыл бұрын

    I like when she puts people in their place if they’re disrespectful to her..

  • @sandranevins2144
    @sandranevins21447 жыл бұрын

    Here's my two cents: just because I'm a Christian doesn't mean I'm a door mat. Also don't mistake my kindness for weakness!!

  • @tundrawomansays5067

    @tundrawomansays5067

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sandra Nevins Read the book decades ago when it first came out-I was maybe 7 at the time. Just goes to show some people may increase in size-and clearly increase exponentially in density. ;--) (Thanks for the Heads Up about a movie-hope it's as good as the book!)

  • @joannhopkins1396

    @joannhopkins1396

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sandra Nevins , late to the game on this , but you go girl ! Totally AGREE with you !

  • @janashockley8263

    @janashockley8263

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sandra Nevins exactly

  • @huneebunee

    @huneebunee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sandra Nevins Sandra Nevins your right....that’s just exactly what And Phyllis is just a sweet heart ❤️

  • @Beentherebefore1

    @Beentherebefore1

    7 ай бұрын

    Sorry people are soooo ugly sometimes. Please know I just found you and I cannot stop watching your videos. I have only seen a portion of your great work. I am 68 and have cooked most of my life but I just love your recipes, your calm voice and clear instructions. I especially love how you keep it simple. The recipes I have tried are wonderful. How so very kind of you to produce these videos and we get such a benefit for FREEEE! I really appreciate your talent, ideas, methods just everything. If some people can't appreciate you wholly then they may just be off their rocker. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are a JOY to follow.

  • @mariclar53
    @mariclar537 жыл бұрын

    You are such a gracious and thoughtful lady, please don't waste your time on these losers.

  • @doccreed658
    @doccreed6587 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis, KZread is full of miserable people and fault finders who hide behind their computers and spew out negativity. Many of them are passive-aggressive and spiteful. Furthermore, there are cowardly people who try to get under your skin simply because you are successful and a Christian. I love your channel and think highly of you and Mr. Bucky. May God continue to shield you and prosper you. I can't tell you how many times your videos (testimony, devotions, edification, recipes) have brought me through dark times. Thank you.

  • @SparrowStockwell

    @SparrowStockwell

    6 жыл бұрын

    Doc Creed I like how you said that Phyllis’ videos have brought you through dark times. She has helped my sister in the same way, and she is helping me.

  • @joeywilson7549

    @joeywilson7549

    5 жыл бұрын

    AMEN!

  • @phyllispartonmarks8912
    @phyllispartonmarks89127 жыл бұрын

    I was raised old school..."If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all"...nobody has time for trolls!...Way to go Phyllis!

  • @peggyhavard1126

    @peggyhavard1126

    4 жыл бұрын

    AMEN🙏🏻, our parents also🇺🇸

  • @barbaracrawford8079
    @barbaracrawford80797 жыл бұрын

    The only time I get disappointed are the days you don't have a new video.The person who had a problem with your celery washing,apparently never got a mouthful of grit from a veggie that wasn't washed enough. And so what if you and Mr. Bucky have a decent lifestyle,you earned it through years of hard work.I have learned so much from you. Thank you>

  • @mrbottomfeeder
    @mrbottomfeeder7 жыл бұрын

    Folks its her channel. She can't please every one so enjoy Mrs. Stokes content. If you don't have something nice so say then don't say anything. Have a nice day.

  • @deborahjellenburg4939

    @deborahjellenburg4939

    7 жыл бұрын

    Richard That's what my mama always said. She had a good point there too. Have a great day.

  • @noellebailey688

    @noellebailey688

    7 жыл бұрын

    Richard. that's how trolls get their jollies...by harassing people. It's how they live and breathe. A good thing to remember is for someone to truly insult you, you must first have to respect them. A person leaving bullying comments to an obviously lovely woman who is taking the time to share her expertise obviously does not deserve respect; therefore, it means nothing. Phyllis, the pile--on you speak of is what I refer to as 'mob mentality' and it is for weak minded people. Keep on keeping on, Phyllis!

  • @noellebailey688

    @noellebailey688

    6 жыл бұрын

    S Colter. Kapusta gwova

  • @scolter4273

    @scolter4273

    6 жыл бұрын

    Noelle BAILEY - Sorry, that was a typo!!😣😣 Sometimes my phone will act up when it is exposed to extreme sunlight.

  • @brendastolecki4755

    @brendastolecki4755

    6 жыл бұрын

    +Noelle BAILEY Polish? lol

  • @denisebissell5875
    @denisebissell58757 жыл бұрын

    I love you. And respect you even more now that you said it like it is! You go girl!

  • @CarolynsRVLife
    @CarolynsRVLife7 жыл бұрын

    A viewer told me she found my channel because of this video - so, first thank you so much for watching and being a Friendly!!! (yay). and second, for mentioning me in this video. finally, - thank you for this important video. The types of comments you read are exactly what I've experienced. Isn't it amazing what people will find to criticize and complain about? (you wasting the apple and water and being told you're not a good Christian is just ridiculous). I just had a 'well meaning' commenter go through a 10 minute video and count how many times I said 'um' and then write a long comment about how distracting it is. LOL. I've learned to feel sad that their lives are so small and empty that all they have is their anger to hold on to, because that's what it is , internal anger, self-hate or jealousy they don't recognize and so much lash out at those who trigger some complex within them. Anyway.. this is too long of a comment. You rock lady.. Love your channel and subbed. Keep on being YOU!

  • @PhyllisStokes

    @PhyllisStokes

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Carolyn - what a nice comment. You are the one who inspired me to have the courage to make the video when you said "tough", I was so happy you did that I had to run the video back several times just to hear you say it again and again. You are just very pleasant to listen to on KZread and I love the way you are always smiling and laughing when you talk. It's hard to believe how far some folks will go just to make an ugly comment. I greatly admire what you've been able to do with your channel in just a short period of time. Keep safe on your way to Florida.

  • @grandmablue131

    @grandmablue131

    6 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!! Two of my Favorite u tube people, so over joyed with you Both!! (I wish to sincerely apologize for ill-mannered ill thinking Debbie Downer downers out there :( it's really not about who you are, because you're both wonderful..no it's the reflection on them needing being Prayed for, as they're miserable) I Love You Both!!!!

  • @freddybarneburg6056

    @freddybarneburg6056

    6 жыл бұрын

    Carolyn's RV Life 🐈🐈

  • @lizasilomar8545

    @lizasilomar8545

    6 жыл бұрын

    Carolyn's RV Life Carolyn, are you the Carolyn who stayed with Jax the cat while Eric got his teeth fixed?

  • @janetbrowning9089

    @janetbrowning9089

    6 жыл бұрын

    It might be a long comment, but it's a great one, Carolyn!! I don't know what it is wrong with these people today...i really don't...but, it needs to stop...I love watching all the cooking and baking and homesteading videos on KZread, as well as some others too and it is depressing to see so many people nitpicking!! They just need to change the channel if they don't like something they are seeing. I know a few people were complaining about Phyllis using a spoon one time on here...I didn't say anything, but I thought, how petty can a person be...if it bothers you, change the channel...it's just that simple. Yall do a great job on here and I thoroughly enjoy all of yall's videos...keep on posting these videos, for those of us out here who are 100% behind you!!

  • @jo-anndigennaro9137
    @jo-anndigennaro91377 жыл бұрын

    you go girl. I'm glad you let them have it. you keep doing what you do. you are definitely loved.

  • @kimbibbs5700
    @kimbibbs57004 жыл бұрын

    I am sad to say, I didn’t see this video until now, after Miss Phyllis passed away. I’m binge watching them now. I wish I had seen this video when she made it, so that I could have told her how much I LOVE watching her! Mr. Bucky too! The absolute LOVE they have for one another, is palpable!!! Miss Phyllis is so adorable!! I love the way she speaks, I love her wisdom and her sense of humor!! And it just cracks me up when she gets sassy😊😁😜when listening to her speak, she reminds me of my Mother-in-law, who passed away in 2005. She was a Southern Beauty also from Arkansas. Anyway, I’m so glad she did this video, she called the offenders out, and told them TOUGH COOKIES! and then BLOCKED THEM!!! I know she is right, and they are still watching!! Oh to be a fly on the wall!! Miss Phyllis, RIP, you EARNED your spot in Heaven!! God Bless you, You are the true definition of a Lady!!!👩🏻‍🦳👑🌹you are already missed by so many, we are heartbroken that you are gone.💔but we rejoice, knowing you are in Heaven!!

  • @chrissttiiee

    @chrissttiiee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very eloquently stated. I'm binge watching these videos too. A very dear woman.

  • @still-jlynn
    @still-jlynn7 жыл бұрын

    You nailed it sister! God bless you & Mr. Bucky

  • @fayharper6267

    @fayharper6267

    5 жыл бұрын

    Phillis, I say " YOU GO GIRL" . I watched this video , and laughed, and agreed all way through. I really like the way you think. In most of your videos you say ,this the way I do it. I really enjoy ALl the ones I see. Especially the old ones your Mother made , the product you buy and recommend. I've learned so much from you . I love the little extra things you tell about yourselves. Please don't let the nasty things these LITTLE people say influence you in any way. PLEASE don't change. If they don't like your comments , they can do as I do. If I see someone I don't like, I just delete them. I don't little myself by adding bad comments, after all ,that's your opinion, and you are entitled to it . I've been watching you for years, and hope to watch for many more .

  • @huneebunee

    @huneebunee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Great video

  • @eddydianne
    @eddydianne7 жыл бұрын

    lose one gain two, I am a new subscriber, you have me, love to you and yours

  • @roseyriver3921

    @roseyriver3921

    7 жыл бұрын

    Me too! Subscribed after watching this video x

  • @owaitress
    @owaitress7 жыл бұрын

    Girl, you are frugal. You are frugal enough with things that you were able to save enough for that copper chef...High five! Keep up the great videos .

  • @patcox6945

    @patcox6945

    6 жыл бұрын

    owaitress 0

  • @mollysmith6055
    @mollysmith60557 жыл бұрын

    Oh goodness, how awful that you have to deal with issues like this. You are so kind to take all the time and trouble to make a video to share with us that bad comments should never be tolerated. I'm sorry that you have to but glad that you delete them. Wow, how crazy that you have had to block so many people! Why do they all have the time to go and bother perfectly nice people like you? I don't know this reference personally but I've seen it plenty around the internet...you say, "Bye, Felicia!!"

  • @jakejames5639
    @jakejames56397 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with Internet trolls. Please don't let it get to your heart. One tip might be to deal with this responsibility ( Which everyone faces that has a channel and post videos) would be not to mention their name. Which you did, so proud of you and keep up the great work. Remember, they don't always mean what they say, they just take their anger out the wrong way. May God bless you warmly and often, Jacob

  • @michellecloonanballinakill3449

    @michellecloonanballinakill3449

    5 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree

  • @Webefree59
    @Webefree594 жыл бұрын

    I miss you Miss Phyllis so much. You and Mr. Bucky. Without even knowing it you’ve taught me to be brave. Thank you. I know you and Mr. Bucky are enjoying being with the Lord. Bless you

  • @madebyaprilanne
    @madebyaprilanne7 жыл бұрын

    I have learned so much from you! It's because you're frugal, I save money on groceries and food (because I freeze a lot more), that I can save money to buy better cooking vessels etc. I love watching you and Mr. Bucky :) I'm glad you are able to brush off the negativity. Don't change :)

  • @jennifervinson2688
    @jennifervinson26887 жыл бұрын

    "well..bye bye" bahahaha... she made me laugh so hard!

  • @elizabethmiles7733
    @elizabethmiles77337 жыл бұрын

    God bless you andMr Buckie

  • @maryjemisonMaryjay1936

    @maryjemisonMaryjay1936

    7 жыл бұрын

    Amen🙏

  • @phyllisgriffith3782

    @phyllisgriffith3782

    6 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Phyllis

  • @donsheerman4239
    @donsheerman42397 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis, More power to you. I stand behind you all the way. God bless you and Mr. Bucky. Don and Carol.

  • @roselanemable3141
    @roselanemable31416 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis you look beautiful no matter if you have makeup on, or with your hair in a ponytail. true beauty comes from within, and you are beautiful inside and outside. I love you miss Phyllis. may God bless you and Mr Bucky.

  • @gj9736
    @gj97363 жыл бұрын

    Some people are just miserable and can’t help but leave negative, nasty comments which is sad in my opinion. Phyllis was very gracious in how she responded to those negative posts, much more so than the way I would have responded. However, there are no haters, bullies or trolls in heaven, so Miss Phyllis doesn’t have to deal with any of that anymore.❤️😊

  • @lindawood6404
    @lindawood64047 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos and look forward to them. I have learned so many great tips & recipes. I enjoy listening to you talk because you're always so calm and explain things so well. I feel like I know you even though we've never met because you're so open & honest about your life with us. So, thank you for all your videos! :)

  • @dimitylong792

    @dimitylong792

    7 жыл бұрын

    Linda Wood I totally agree just the way she showed how to peel a hard boiled egg was so helpful, I made 12 of the best looking deviled eggs and got so many complaints about them, all the thanks goes to her.

  • @joannhopkins1396
    @joannhopkins13965 жыл бұрын

    I would have loved to have had a mother like you, was adopted into a abusive situation! Nothing gets me down now ! Great husband 3 wonderful kids overcame it all......God Bless You and your family !

  • @PhyllisStokes

    @PhyllisStokes

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am so glad you overcame the bad situation when you were young. The Lord has blessed you. He caught your every tear in a bottle and marked you for his own. What a great God we have.

  • @teresajudy7232
    @teresajudy72327 жыл бұрын

    I thought you looked pretty in the video on Sunday. Your make up was perfect. I wish mine turned out as well! But, my mirror is haunted. Everytime I look in it, there's this old gal looking back at me. LOL and remember - Hater's gonna Hate. Stay true to you!

  • @PhyllisStokes

    @PhyllisStokes

    7 жыл бұрын

    I know what you mean about that old girl in the mirror - I try really hard in the mornings to avoid all mirror I'm afraid of that puffy eyed person looking back at me. Oh and by the way I sometimes think I can feel those wrinkles growing on my face especially when I'm tired.

  • @teresajudy7232

    @teresajudy7232

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nice to know I am not alone in that! I don't put on my spare eyes until I've splashed my face with cold water.

  • @pam_jackson

    @pam_jackson

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ladies your not looking at it right. When I look in the mirror I figure I earned every one of these wrinkles. Some of them from laughing, some from frowning, but not one of them is exactly like the next. Yes even my wrinkles show my uniqueness. Aside from the fact that I've lived long enough to acquire them in the first place.

  • @teresajudy7232

    @teresajudy7232

    7 жыл бұрын

    Definitely a better way to look at it.

  • @kskeber

    @kskeber

    7 жыл бұрын

    My grandmother always said you never feel any different inside, you just wake up one day and wonder who that old person is staring back at you! Age is just a number and way better than the alternative!

  • @amyhawkins7140
    @amyhawkins71407 жыл бұрын

    ♡I Love your channel♡ The evidence is in my freezer with all my frozen smoothies;)

  • @gracielee4561
    @gracielee45617 жыл бұрын

    I wonder at these "Christians" who are after you about judging other people. What exactly are they doing?

  • @nancyspringer5178

    @nancyspringer5178

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love your show .unfortunately I didn't get to see you very long. I hope your family continues on U.tube. You will be surely missed.Love to your family.

  • @michigan1291

    @michigan1291

    4 жыл бұрын

    They are just taking cheap shots....hypocritically judging Phyllis and feeling very self-righteous! They must think a "Christian " is someone who meekly accepts any behavior from others...WRONG...go find others victims you can take cheap shorts at you keyboard warriors !

  • @gracielee4561

    @gracielee4561

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@michigan1291 I miss her! First Mr. Buckey then Phyllis. We lost two great people!

  • @jillyincali8480
    @jillyincali84807 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis, please don't let these losers get to you. They are certainly not worth your time. I love all your videos and have learned so much. Keep up the fabulous work!

  • @cindyn8196
    @cindyn81967 жыл бұрын

    Don't listen to negativity! You are genuine and a great cook!

  • @Moonstorm0551
    @Moonstorm05517 жыл бұрын

    I wholeheartedly agree and BRAVO!!! DO NOT feed the trolls by responding directly to their venomous comments. Instead, make a brand new comment of your own. "Replying" to these haters only increases their status on you tube. Also, Mrs. Phyllis, I recognize frugality when I see it since I can squeeze a penny so hard as to make Lincoln himself cry tears. After watching your RV restoration, I am convinced ......you make him sob bucketfuls!!! I appreciate your videos!

  • @granmarene
    @granmarene7 жыл бұрын

    Keep up the good work you know the devil has to work his way to discourage you , laugh 😂 and delete and block those people and go on doing the videos and blessing us that ❤️ you. God bless

  • @alexandra_9818

    @alexandra_9818

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lorene Padgett Amen, and, Phyllis darling, you're always one stunning silver fox & beauty queen inside and out!! I'm praying that God will give you, Mr. Bucky, and your family all the grace, love, and blessings, and I wish those nothing but those three and the best for your channel, husband, and family for years to come!! ❤️❤️

  • @dian-yd5ud

    @dian-yd5ud

    7 жыл бұрын

    +bandlovergirl98 Your a sweetheart🌹

  • @meatlady22
    @meatlady227 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness, Phyllis! I don't think you have a mean or bad bone in your body! I think the world of you, wish you were my neighbor, and my best friend. You and your husband teach and help me, and so many people with your videos, it is just beyond me that some people are so mean. I think ignorance is bliss, because they love to revel in their own stupidity. I work in a grocery store, and have for 30 years. I have seen all of those things you spoke about and so much more. I love you and keep up the lovely videos, and you did look beautiful on Sunday. Just beautiful!

  • @gailgregg9133

    @gailgregg9133

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are as sweet as pie

  • @RedKittieKat
    @RedKittieKat7 жыл бұрын

    Miss Phyllis you are a riot. I was cracking up toward the end thinking of certain people tuning in LOL. I've often called social media comment sections a cesspool. I really try to avoid them most times. If I do get compelled to read I am always astounded at the amount of downright hatred typed out. You hit the nail on the head with this video. It has always perplexed me as to why some are so driven to be so darn mean and nasty. And it can happen to anyone. Once I commented on a news article on Facebook... it was literally " this makes me so sad" and someone from left field replied directly to me that they hoped I was sterile and couldn't produce more children like me. Well, needless to say that stung quite a bit. Probably from the fact that I never was blessed with being able to have children. I was so very upset .. then I got really mad. I know there is no way they could have known that. But, that's the problem .. you have no idea how badly you can hurt someone with your little keyboard tirade. It took every ounce of strength I had not to reply. I knew that would be giving them exactly what they were looking for. I've been a moderator and admin on many forums over the years. They all lost their popularity once Facebook, KZread and Twitter took hold. But, our number one rule on all of them was "Don't Feed The Trolls" It's hard to do sometimes .. but well worth it ;) As for the rest .... Well, I had no idea there were as many ''experts'' in this big old world until comment sections. Some folks just seem to know it all from what to feed your cat, to what to dress your child in, to what medicine you put on your sore toe and if you don't do it their way .. you are wrong lol ... well okie dokie. Anyhoo ... sending a big thank you for all you do. I don't know if you get told this enough but, you have taught me so much. I can now at 53 finally make a decent pie crust! LOL and I just love reminiscing with you about the days gone by. As you said about Carolyn's videos I say about yours. I love to just listen to you. Your calming spirit and cheerful outlook are very soothing and your humor makes my day ♥ Be well dear Phyllis ♥ and keep on doing what you do :)

  • @PhyllisStokes

    @PhyllisStokes

    7 жыл бұрын

    Your comment brought tears to my eyes - thank you so much. I think people who make nasty comments on the internet are just plain cowards and would never make those kinds of comment to a person's face - they'd be too afraid.

  • @shopkinslpskidsplay8677

    @shopkinslpskidsplay8677

    7 жыл бұрын

    I've had MANY mean comments sent my way, and sometimes sadly I dished them back. I make sure not to reveal much about myself online because it is used against me when I express particularly political opinions. I have learned it is just the culture on the internet. It is water off the duck's back. It cracks me up sometimes because I use a pseudonym and they call me by the wrong gender, lol.

  • @shopkinslpskidsplay8677

    @shopkinslpskidsplay8677

    7 жыл бұрын

    I've had MANY mean comments sent my way, and sometimes sadly I dished them back. I make sure not to reveal much about myself online because it is used against me when I express particularly political opinions. I have learned it is just the culture on the internet. It is water off the duck's back. It cracks me up sometimes because I use a pseudonym and they call me by the wrong gender, lol.

  • @adamharris5520
    @adamharris55207 жыл бұрын

    Been watching you for years

  • @pastorflaps6819
    @pastorflaps68197 жыл бұрын

    Please don't let the complainers put you down you and Mr Bucky have so many people who enjoy your wonderful programme's don't believe any of the sad People who have nothing of worth to say thay are just looking for a response to give them a feeling of power all of us in my army unit love your output and look forward to your new programs and we enjoy Mr Bucky very very much we even have a Mr Bucky fan club please continue to be your wonderful self

  • @harveyyarbrough2830
    @harveyyarbrough28307 жыл бұрын

    This is Harvey again, I just watched your reply to the Haters!!! Job well done!!

  • @beccalopez3710
    @beccalopez37107 жыл бұрын

    Oh Phyllis... we love you!! There's waaay more for you than against you. Those same people who are so "opinionated" behind the safety of their computer would never say things like your describing face to face. I believe there is a name for them.... the name is coward.

  • @cynthiaesquibel3191

    @cynthiaesquibel3191

    7 жыл бұрын

    Too true! These "keyboard warriors" are a menace! They don't contribute anything to the discussion section except spite and poison. The modern take on the rumor spreaders we had to put up with before the Internet existed. I enjoy your videos, Miss Phyllis, you keep on making them, you bring so much to so many.

  • @gdowe1393

    @gdowe1393

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cynthia Esquibel y777

  • @yescandles
    @yescandles7 жыл бұрын

    I know that You Tube Celebrities have to develop a thick skin.....they shouldn't have to, but people are SO jealous, they just can't stand other people's popularity and success. Good thing you are wise enough to see through their shenanigans. I have to admit I made a negative comment on someone's channel the other day. I couldn't help it, he just got my goat so bad I couldn't help myself. It is a very popular channel where his little girl is very rapidly becoming a star! She has been on Ellen's show and several other places. Well this Dad ADORES his daughter. We all do. She is precious and talented. What got to me is he recently was gone on a trip. He brought his precious daughter back 3 gifts and his younger son 1 gift. I noticed, but it was not until his son tried to kiss him and he turned his face away from that child THREE times ! I replied that he should let that child kiss him and talked about my father kissing all his boys. It was none of my business, but it made me sad to see that little boy keep trying three times to kiss his Dad kept turning his face away. Of course one of his "fans" jumped on me and said "some men are not comfortable kissing anyone but their spouse, including their children". I said "well we wouldn't want anything to make Dad "uncomfortable". AND, it has gone on and on. I really dont care. I am not a troll, and it is very rare I leave anything but very nice comments, but this time I just lost my cool, and I am not sorry I did. He needs to know his playing favoritism is not OK, and you just dont reject a child's kisses! There may just come a day he would give anything in the world for them, and they might not be available. Sorry about the rant. I am losing it again just thinking about it.

  • @tundrawomansays5067

    @tundrawomansays5067

    7 жыл бұрын

    Oh honey, how I wish I had the gift of a parent like you when I was a little one/growing up. Maybe those other people didn't like your observation, but truth is too many of us come from horrible backgrounds. This may seem like a "small thing" yet to a child, our parents are our world. Thanks from a now old lady who will bear the scars of a cold, rejecting, skin-blistering critical parent to my death. That Legacy stops with us and how we treat our own children-in fact, *all* children. Bruises fade. Broken bones mend. Burns scar over. It is the psychological/emotional neglect and abuse that leaves the longest demands. Thank you for speaking up.

  • @yescandles

    @yescandles

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank YOU for this comment. I am so sorry you had to endure the things you did.....and miss out on a love that has been my rock through many years. I would have been lost without it. There is really no excuse....ever..in my opinion. Peace be with you~

  • @mjkt00
    @mjkt007 жыл бұрын

    I have not commented before on your videos but this is one really made so happy to see you stand up for yourself and say what needs to be said. Good job! Thank you for being yourself!

  • @lovingatlanta
    @lovingatlanta4 жыл бұрын

    👍Just reminiscing. Cracking up. Yes, she nailed. I remember that Mr “Parsnip Burger” channel fella. 😂 ☝️BTW with all of his causing drama his channel still doesn’t have 2K subscribers in all of these years. Meanwhile, this channel has grown more than 50K additional subscribers in the time since Mrs. Phyllis posted her last video months ago. 😂 This was a good lesson. 💞

  • @cecillegravelle2590

    @cecillegravelle2590

    4 жыл бұрын

    same. I can't stop watching her videos. rip. sweet lady.

  • @ednawarren1421
    @ednawarren14216 жыл бұрын

    Just because you are Christian doesn't mean you are a doormat....delete them as you please. Praying for strength and I do love you and Mr. Bucky!

  • @judyblackman4468
    @judyblackman44685 жыл бұрын

    Hi Phyllis, I do hope you & Mr. Bucky are both well. Today is only the third day since I discovered your channel, as I watch a little bit from time to time. However, I soon came to realise that you not only do cooking & smoothies videos. All I will say to you, Phyllis, is ignore the naysayers! They are just in the world to take up space. Doing nothing with their lives but being a nuisance. That's one reason I don't listen to radio talk shows, where ppl call in to give their opinions on a particular subject. Many of them is like they have nothing better to do when the day comes! The amount of bs that comes out the their mouths the moment they open it is unbelievable, to say the least. I am appalled that ppl were so rude and unkind to someone such as you. Don't be bothered by them, dear lady. You keep deleting them! I would have been glad to have had you as my Boss Lady, back-in-the-days, when I was working. I would've gleaned so much wisdom & knowledge from your life experiences. As your other commenter so rightly stated; You Rock lady! You continue being comfortable in who you are! Do what your blessed heart wants. My regards to Mr. Bucky too. Love always. Bless up. Caribbean Girl.

  • @annaadkins5377
    @annaadkins53777 жыл бұрын

    Do you think the man was hoping you would have hit him for insurance money?

  • @vickig.

    @vickig.

    7 жыл бұрын

    Anna Adkins I think so!

  • @carolecook1116

    @carolecook1116

    4 жыл бұрын

    A recognized technique. Junker cuts you off, slams brakes, you rear-end & he collects. Repeat. Junk car never fixed. It's what it's for.

  • @carlenevasseur
    @carlenevasseur7 жыл бұрын

    Pile ons ! Haha Love that phrase. I love your channel & can relate to lots of things you video since I was born in 1950.........today is my birthday. Blessings to you & Mr. Buckie.

  • @PhyllisStokes

    @PhyllisStokes

    7 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday to you and many more to come, you're just getting started on your life.

  • @jillbaxter8312
    @jillbaxter83127 жыл бұрын

    Tuning in from Nottingham, England, love watching you cook, love the stories of your momma and how it was in the 50's, thank you x

  • @nursekaren63
    @nursekaren637 жыл бұрын

    Love your channel Phyllis, I found some of the stories very funny about your grocery store mishaps!! God Bless You!!

  • @AnthonyReichardt
    @AnthonyReichardt7 жыл бұрын

    BRAVO, Phyllis, for always tellin' it like it is. Anthony Reichardt Santa Ana, California

  • @natali9881
    @natali98817 жыл бұрын

    I watch many KZread videos but I love watching yours. You seem like my family and I feel so calm watching you cook or do projects. If I'm anxious I spend some time with Phyllis and Mr. Bucky.

  • @jf9488

    @jf9488

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yes, I love watching these videos because they're very calm, informative and her cooking reminds me of my mother's cooking. Phyllis is full of great information.

  • @CashAndSpanglish
    @CashAndSpanglish7 жыл бұрын

    There are too many people that think that us christians have to allow people to trample over us and abuse us, and that is VERY wrong. My Pastor says "you are a christian, but you need to stand up for yourself and defend yourself!" I am glad that you made this video, and that you have the courage to stand up for yourself.

  • @FoolyLiving
    @FoolyLiving6 жыл бұрын

    So, so, so right. They get progressively worse and worse. They get 'too' familiar and think they can say whatever they want to you like it's their right to make you understand all their opinions about you. Lord, have mercy.

  • @JaeNiece55
    @JaeNiece557 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Phyllis! I agree with you! There's other you tube channels I like to watch, and they too block negative people. And I like that! It's a bummer to read a negative comment under somebody's video! I really love positive people and that's what we all want in life, is positive not negative energies around us! 👍💖🙋🏻

  • @dapage5
    @dapage57 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like they're judging you. Just ignore them.

  • @cdjj5404
    @cdjj54045 жыл бұрын

    Hi Ms. Phyllis I am a new subscriber I found your channel just a few weeks ago. First of all my condolences to you. I wrote a comment on that sad news video about Mr. Bucky😞. I am watching all your videos and love them all. Just watched this one. You are right those haters are still watching you under burner accounts and there is a good chance that many of those mean comments were made by just a few people with burner accounts to make it look like different people. You are an amazing person and you are a 100% right in everything you said. Be encouraged that your YT family loves you and we will be here when you are ready to come back on. I know there is a lot you have to deal with for now. Much prayer and love. 🙏😘😇

  • @goddessrenee
    @goddessrenee7 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic video Phyllis!!! I wanted to compliment your hair and makeup in the other video but you're always healthy and happy 😍. I also wanted to share that you e inspired us to travel in an RV when we retire in a few years. Keep up the great work of deleting the haters!!!

  • @sunnyhill2250
    @sunnyhill22505 жыл бұрын

    I'm praying for your full recovery and that you and your husband may have many more happy, productive years!

  • @rennierad
    @rennierad4 жыл бұрын

    She was a wise strong beautiful women and I simply adored her,Rip. ❤

  • @lyndathreat1650
    @lyndathreat16505 жыл бұрын

    Mrs. Phylis I truly enjoy your channel. I found it by happenstance. I’m learning to bake cakes especially pound cakes. Don’t let trolls and haters ruin your day. Keep on posting recipes. Thank you!

  • @onenessbaycity
    @onenessbaycity7 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis Stokes- I want to say that after viewing this video, I watched your video on "Grocery Store Mishaps" and I have to say that I did not see anything wrong. There was nothing unchristian or rude... Keep on positing. Many of your viewers appreciate and enjoy your videos... God Bless

  • @cathyslaton9998

    @cathyslaton9998

    7 жыл бұрын

    onenessbaycity ,she said she deleted bad comments

  • @katburgess8533

    @katburgess8533

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@cathyslaton9998 I believe this commenter was complimenting Miss Phyllis, as to say SHE was not being unChristian or rude in the video itself,not speaking of any rude comments not being there. I can be wrong, of course, but maybe you could read it again with that perspective. Naturally, the commenter should clarify it for you themself, but just giving my 2 cents. 😁

  • @lena5669
    @lena56697 жыл бұрын

    Good for you standing up to people's nonsense!

  • @danaholland6391
    @danaholland63917 жыл бұрын

    I love you Phyllis! Your cooking, tips, humor, and stories are helpful and entertaining. I have talked about you so much that some of my friends have started watching you! Just delete those crazy people!

  • @marieince3239
    @marieince32397 жыл бұрын

    why are people so awful you are so inspiring kick those nasty trolls of your a lovely lady look forward to your videos love from the uk .

  • @annahorton650
    @annahorton6507 жыл бұрын

    listen I watch this sweet lady that crafts beautiful books and I just loved watching her . One day she came on with her team of crafters live and she was crying. Apparently she and her teammates had some haters that tried to ruin them. I was in shock. I couldn't believe that there were people that did this sort of thing. It was like adult bullies. I had no idea how ugly people could be. I don't understand why they don't just move along if they don't like what they are viewing. Anyway...thank you for spotlighting this problem. Hey I also follow Carolyn. She's great and now her and Bob are coming to Florida. Yeah.

  • @cindyh8841
    @cindyh88417 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos. I don't comment much but do click the "like" button a lot!. :) Take care.

  • @1943ofour

    @1943ofour

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cindy H I hit thumbs up as soon as I load the video.

  • @jackiefrance3720

    @jackiefrance3720

    5 жыл бұрын

    Miss Phyllis I just want to say you are such a sweet lady and I live your channel and watch every day but I didn't gear what had happened when apoluceman pulled you over or had his lights flashing I want to tell you what happened to a cousin if a friend she saw in her rear view nuerie that a vehicle wurh a fkasgung light was behind her she pulled over unfortunately he was not a police officer but a person that had the light on his dash and was harrasin her she is a blonde young and cure well come to find out this dude was just out of prison and bought this flashing light on line or somewhere but she did call 911 and thus guy has stopped other girls and got them in his vehicle took them out if her area has been arrested for misleading a n iffucer and rape so she was lucky he didn't take her out of her vehicle and take her out somewhere I guess he is back in prison for trying to be a policeman and bdilt harn with rape

  • @jackiefrance3720

    @jackiefrance3720

    5 жыл бұрын

    True story was in her towns newspaper and she put her scary inceudent on face book and went viral

  • @jackiefrance3720

    @jackiefrance3720

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just wanted you to gear this true story about this young man

  • @jackiefrance3720

    @jackiefrance3720

    5 жыл бұрын

    God bless you I keep thinking of you when you were so sick I wish you all the best of luck and glad you are are better well best if luck with all these negative people I love your channel ❤️ so glad you are handling all these miserable people with a grain of salt. Take care

  • @vickielane7387
    @vickielane73877 жыл бұрын

    You tell 'em Phyillis! ....Got my coconut cream pie ingredients and looking forward to making . GOD Bless you and Mr Bucky

  • @drugtrader3933
    @drugtrader39337 жыл бұрын

    It has taken me 52 years to learn what you just said. Thank you for the confirmation.

  • @sharonnunn2572
    @sharonnunn25727 жыл бұрын

    Love you, Phyllis! I've learned so much from you. I'll admit, I was a little taken back by the apology thing, but my first thought was not that you were being mean or unChristian, but that there must be more to the story. Being a Christian doesn't mean being a doormat and letting people step all over you. Forgiving someone doesn't mean excusing their behavior. I'm thankful that God put Mr. Big Guy behind you to keep you safe! Carry on, and don't let the haters get you down!

  • @jeanniefero7473
    @jeanniefero74737 жыл бұрын

    Clever way to deal with bullies. Take a stand and delete them. I had "friends" like that too. Thanks for sharing.

  • @angelinekeopuhiwa3253
    @angelinekeopuhiwa32537 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos, love your soothing and calm voice, I'm a fan, you are too kind, ignore the mean folks.

  • @klhlloyd
    @klhlloyd6 жыл бұрын

    Mrs., Phyllis You are a joy in my life, my mom passed when I was 7 and you have a kind heart and soul. I learn so much from you. Be blessed. All the best to you and all you love.

  • @maryannejordan6227
    @maryannejordan62275 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been binge watching you for about a month now. All I can say Ms Phyllis is you really ROCK girl! I was born in 51. Grew up and still live in So. Calif., but my folks were Okies so I totally relate to you in a million ways. GREAT food always! Bye bye bow-tie to all those negative commenters! Keep all that Southern goodness coming my dear. xoxoxoxo

  • @roselanemable3141
    @roselanemable31416 жыл бұрын

    Well put miss Phyllis. I couldn't said it any better myself. I agree with you, I'm a Christian too, and yes, Christians do need to stand up for themselves. I did enjoy your video. I enjoy all your videos. you and Mr. Bucky are a true blessing to me. thank you so very much for being on KZread and sharing all your recipes, and opinions on your videos. May God bless you and Mr Bucky continuously.

  • @pnckell123
    @pnckell1237 жыл бұрын

    two thumbs up! So enjoy watching your videos!

  • @arliegage1380
    @arliegage13806 ай бұрын

    It's been 6 years since you left us!😢 I still watch your reruns, and feel close to you, and am delighted in your cooking and love your comments🎉

  • @judilindsey5325
    @judilindsey53254 жыл бұрын

    I just plain LOVE you! I am so disappointed that I did not get to meet you. I think we would have been best friends. You are one of the kindest, compassionate people I know. You are missed every day from all of us who loved you. Thankful for your son who is keeping the tradition going. You raised him right!

  • @carmentrueheart3687
    @carmentrueheart36875 жыл бұрын

    Phyliss I really enjoyed this video as you calmly explained the way of the rude world these days. So much of it in our lives, and all so unnecessary and silly. You make that meringue, ladybug!

  • @sebrinaleepayne-biscardi4113
    @sebrinaleepayne-biscardi41137 жыл бұрын

    I do not put up with bullying, I REPORT AND BLOCK those nasty comments. I'm a Christian as well and I agree with you, ma'am!! God bless you!! ☺xo

  • @Diana-yr8wp
    @Diana-yr8wp5 жыл бұрын

    I hope your now feeling much better after being so unwell. Best wishes and hugs from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 xxx

  • @DonnaJoshi
    @DonnaJoshi6 жыл бұрын

    I found your channel a few weeks ago and thoroughly enjoy it. It is a beautiful reminded of a time I miss. I haven't found anyone with the simplicity and love you put into your channel. I love also u use a lot of garden items and that is another interest of mine. U r such a sweet couple and may God bless your channel abundantly. 💖

  • @mommyj6745
    @mommyj67457 жыл бұрын

    I love watching all of your videos, and I cook many of your recipes. Don't let internet trolls with a negative agenda create drama in your life.

  • @LisaStAndre-zb3pw
    @LisaStAndre-zb3pw7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all that you do!

  • @cherylmeredith2248
    @cherylmeredith22484 жыл бұрын

    Missing you and praying for you every day. I took a quote from this video and posted it over on your latest video, for those who do not understand why your family, friends, church members, neighbors, and even KZread itself, have not given updates on how you are doing. I know how you are doing...you are wrapped in God's arms, and that's enough for me to know until we hear from you again. Thank you Phyllis. We have 7 years of videos to watch and rewatch!

  • @cshockley10
    @cshockley107 жыл бұрын

    My children (22 year old son and 16 year old daughter) have watched several of your videos over the past few weeks. We have enjoyed EVERY video. However, this video in particular prompted me to SUBSCRIBE to your channel. Thank you for sharing your genteel personality, kind-hearted conversations, and fun-loving day to day living. We appreciate and long for more people like you in our lives. All smiles ... Chadwick, Efrain, & Rosa.

  • @LuisRodriguez-ig2me
    @LuisRodriguez-ig2me7 жыл бұрын

    First time watching your videos the food looks awesome. Keep up the great work!

  • @karenhighley7597
    @karenhighley75977 жыл бұрын

    There are some very mean people out there, and I really try to stay away from them. And, yes I do love your channel. It is obvious that you are a good, kind, Christian lady.

  • @emilyreno5562
    @emilyreno55627 жыл бұрын

    I made a comment about a singer, it was just my opinion, but I had people say awful things to me.... I had a person tell me I needed to lose another son, and they hoped I had another tornado blow my house away... it was so hurtful. I respect your opinion, and I love your channel. God Bless

  • @Zombie-adventures
    @Zombie-adventures6 жыл бұрын

    Love your channel! Many days I come home from work with a pounding headache...and wish I had someone to talk to and learn from. My Mama has passed and it helps so much to watch you and learn to cook! I really thought I could never cook anything but now I am slowly learning. Thank you. :)

  • @denisebissell5875
    @denisebissell58757 жыл бұрын

    Ha ha ha just delete the nut jobs

  • @jessicadailey6817
    @jessicadailey68177 жыл бұрын

    I hate that people are so mean..

  • @normaaustin9171
    @normaaustin91715 жыл бұрын

    You have a big heart. I love listening to you. I needed this advice.

  • @theothermrs.randle3416
    @theothermrs.randle34167 жыл бұрын

    My wife and I have been watching you for months! Before I go to work I watch. On my lunch break I watch you. Before we go to sleep we watch you. We love you, Mr. Buckey and the dogs. I've mentioned before in comments that you remind me of my Momma and her sisters. We watch because of your wisdom and knowledge. Because of you we've started drinking smoothies, learned we could freeze ANYTHING, we've bought kitchen gadgets that you've suggested. We are currently are preparing to purchase an upright freezer. We've even purchased a sheepskin duster❤. I say all of this to saw WE LOVE MS. PHYLLIS!!! The few times I've read a not so nice message I tell my wife "I would fight somebody for Ms. Phyllis and Mr. Buckey!!" I could go on and on but just know we love you, support you and look forward to many many more videos. Peace and blessings🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @HomesteadTessie
    @HomesteadTessie7 жыл бұрын

    this was a good video, I totally understand what you are saying happened to me as well !

  • @austinjenkins572
    @austinjenkins5727 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Ms. Phyllis...I applaud you for your courage, your conviction, and for standing up for yourself against the negative trolls who were commenting on your channel. You are absolutely right about people becoming bullies when they think they are anonymous online...it seems to be even worse on Facebook. Don't take the negative comments personally...you are awesome and so is your channel! :-)

  • @sherylmcleroy7290
    @sherylmcleroy72904 жыл бұрын

    Thinking of you and rewatching just to see you. I miss you.

  • @cynthiastanislas6719
    @cynthiastanislas67197 жыл бұрын

    "He has about 4 subscribers------bless his heart-------he's trying." I love it & I'm going yo use this. Hilarious. You're the best. Not just saying it but the way you said it.

  • @southerngirlsimplyme1522
    @southerngirlsimplyme15227 жыл бұрын

    I love you and Mr.Bucky so much. Such an amazing couple. Keep up the good work.

  • @LisaErvine
    @LisaErvine7 жыл бұрын

    You just keep being who you are!!! God bless.

  • @lovingatlanta
    @lovingatlanta4 жыл бұрын

    👍😍@27:43-30:43 I loved her spirit and spunk!! She started moving her head honey in “a-that-matter-of-fact” kind of way and meant what she said!!! Mrs. Phyllis didn’t mince her words. She said “call a spade a spade” and she said “Christians have the right to stand up for themselves”. She meant what she said and said what she meant!! Gone but not forgotten. RIP Mrs. Phyllis. 🙏🤗💞🤗🙏

  • @tehaleks
    @tehaleks7 жыл бұрын

    Phyllis I just found you today and I love every single video I've watched so far. I love how thorough you are and how nice you are. You're a wonderful person. Those people are not worth our time. Please keep up with the good work, we love you!

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