I hate that I'm Saturn in Libra most my relationships since childhood have been obstacles....I'm now 34 years old and very I'm really tired of dealing with this placement. you are right lots of shitty relationships romantically....family and friends.... I'm tired of being dragged through the mud and stabbed in the back. was I that horrible in a previous life to deserve all this turm oil. I'm just tired of it all and it's actually making me anti social and have extreme trust issues. it's not a great placement Alyssa I really do resent it at this point.

@reflectionprogression2210

8 жыл бұрын

I meant its not a fun placement lol.....it sucks

@longbui1642

8 жыл бұрын

oh hell yes! i agree. no matter how diplomatic and fair you all you attract with this placement are assholes. I don't think I learn much from these relationships except the original knowledge that ppl are assholes!

@myqueenimagivemydumassopin6841

7 жыл бұрын

Lakia Crawford WOW!!!! YOU SOUND JUST LIKE ME!!! can't stand these disloyal relationships and fake friendships...fake family...they all has been nothing but a disappointment and downfall...ALL OF THEM!!

@reflectionprogression2210

7 жыл бұрын

Long But I have actually learned a great deal and I suppose thats the point of it all....but that growth and wisdom comes with a heavy price tag.

@r.k.g2518

5 жыл бұрын

@@reflectionprogression2210 I was blessed with greats friends, terrible family, and almost laughably tragic love life. I have Saturn in the 7th in Libra. Now at 36, tons of therapy and am fully the person I am, I have great friends, mended bridges with my family and still LAUGHABLY TRAGIC love life. I have no solution. It's exhausting, painful and no matter how much growth you feel you have internally, you're somehow always meant to seek a partner but are suppose to be happy alone. Its greek tragedy. I feel ya. thats all i can say.

This is amazing...just broke up with a guy who has this. Could not get him to really listen to me whe i was talking abt myself. Only listned well if i was talking abt him. I knewso much abt him while he knew vry little abt me. Didnt even pay attention to my needs. His Saturn was in 5th house as well....charming at first but an ass in the end. I felt so bad breaking up with him bc he cldnt see what he was lacking as he was just going through the motions trying to create this superficial harmony. Everything was so fake.

Now, I listen to people and what they need and want in their life. I think I become diplomatic. I know myself better than anyone and I love people, but they hurt me a lot in my life because I didn’t understand them. I loved people more than myself, and most of them let me down because I have an ideal figure for my parents, friends and co-workers. I understand that they are human and they make mistakes as I do. Sometimes I get mad because I want to fix them, but they don’t listen to me and they turned to be haters! Then I realize that they know it’s not good like smoking but they want and sadly I can’t change them! They leave me because they hate me pointing to their flaws and I come cross as an ideal person! At the first time they see me very caring because I’m Cancer rising but when they know me that I’m a Leo they see me very selfish and arrogant! Well I give up the ideals. I see now we are equal no one is better than others and no one is worse than others. We all have goodness and badness.

I hate how right you are about the entire relationship part.

Totally right on, Alyssa! My Saturn in Libra return SUCKED! So happens I did almost marry a psycho a few years ago. That sucked too. You rock, Alyssa.

I give soo much that all partners and let my partner get away with shit... That in the end they tend to take me for granted, then bam Mine Saturn , south node and Pluto conjunction in the 1st comes out and I leave ... Set boundaries people... They always come back writing to me and apologizing for not appreciating what they had...

Saturn here. Making us mature minded and teaching us lessons to have healthy boundaries and self love habits

I've always been attracted to older guys. My Leo husband is ten years older than me.

''Relation-shits''

@NDGOCHYLD

7 жыл бұрын

Gemeral dis 😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂

I have four planets in Libra, Saturn included, but can't really understand relationships. Almost have no friends, reclusive introvert. Every video on relationships is a mystery to me

@natasia64

4 жыл бұрын

Me too sun sat jup Pluto

@smegg9676

3 жыл бұрын

Saturn is the most fair and strict teacher youll ever run across. Saturn in libra means the lessons being taught to you are of how to relate to others. Balance in terms of the relationship dynamics. What did you do to help create the horribleness of these relationships?

Oh god ur so right. One of my many Libran planets is Saturn. Mine is retrograde, but i don't understand ppl &i don't like to get too close. Yes,my flaws but the ppl around me are too selfish & don't care about me personally. They want new to be wrapped up in their shit ¬ be involved in anything in my life. #loner

@timeforcommonsense.3136

5 жыл бұрын

Facts and more facts

This describes my ex perfectly. Plus, he was a Leo. So, imagine how selfish he was! By the end, he knew nothing about me, and I knew everything about him. He always complained about not understanding why his exes had all dumped him. I eventually noticed why, and gladly added myself to that collection. It feels great to feel like a human again, and not like a mother towards a grown man.

I gained sooo much clarity from this. Thanks!!! Keep shining that light! 💚🌱💜

Awesome info. Thanks! Also, the look of your son when he stares at the camera is hilarious and cute, LOL!

So in other words it actually is about relating to people, not exactly having relationship for the sake of relationship , but to relate To people in a sense

This was absolute gold ! Great vid i had my first saturn return in october this year im 29 xx very on point ☺

I can't even... This is so damn accurate to my experience. Thank you Alyssa.

I’m a Capricorn rising with Saturn in libra and i find this so relating to my reality. Thanks Alyssa 👍🏻

You're so dope! I kept coming back to your page for refreshers. Happy New year's!

You are awesome! I had a lot of horrible relationships which prepared me for my current one. Its been hard work looking at myself but its all worth it.

That is so me!!! Thank you for the video!!!

One of the best, if not the best Saturn in Libra video, kudos!

Cancer ascendant with Chiron in Libra. This helped me so much, I don't just have problems with intimate relationships but relationships in general. And now I know how to fix them! THANK YOU SO MUCH ALYSSA

Saturn in Libra here....my Saturn return was horrible and very unlucky....I have no friends and have had no relationship in 8 years......I am learning to make friends realistically..... and choose my partner very carefully ( I am looking for a partner much older and they have to be a Capricorn lol )......I understand why I attracted the turmoil thru relationships and friendships...I am a moon in Aries oppose my Saturn and Jupiter in Libra...Venus in Pisces inconjunct my Jupiter and Saturn as well...that explains a lot..I attracted the wrong ppl in my life.....I've started over....and I am just glad to know how to balance all of this to attract what's destined for me now.....my next Saturn return will be a heaven.....

Wasnt able to fully grasp the concept of my saturn in libra til this vid. Thanks :)

Absolutely true!!! I’m Saturn in libra. It could be my life story that you’re telling. Thank you very much for this video.

I have Saturn in libra placement in my natal chart. 🙂 My best friend has a libra sun. She is my role model in relationships. I strive to achieve the balance she achieves so well in her relationships. This is a great video! The ending was precious. Your son is a little sweetheart!💖

I am single, but SHIT!!! That being broke part because of trying to be loved.....shit struck a nerve because I have goals!!!😡

That was so fabulous! Thank you :-)

Beautiful as always ;) My Saturn is in Libra, Very informative video, thank you Alyssa. -Pisces; Asc. Capricorn; Moon Sagittarius

Wow, the fear of the world and father thing is spot on.

This is insane. I have Saturn in Scorpio, but I am a libra and I have Saturn, sun and libra in my 3rd house. I experienced everything you spoke about in this video and all I could do was laugh. Great video!

Thank you Alyssa!! I have some Saturn, but Mars dominates it and am a Libra. I am a No 9 in Numerology with combination of 8 and 1 as well. Therfore, I have lots of complexity. However, I learned some bitter truth from your video. As little as Saturn affects me, I certainly try too hard to create harmony/teaching/beautifying my surroundings and others I come in contact also. I appreciate your insight and feedback as I am all about self improvement and self growth. I had tried too hard for last couple of months to bring balance and insight to someone and they misunderstood me. And, then there is Karmic and reincarnation mess also involved, which I am trying to learn more about and clear up. I hope many people benefit from your gift!!! Thank you again.

Yes Saturn in Taurus would be interesting! :D

Fantastic explanation!

I have Mars, Pluto and Saturn in my 12th house and I feel absolutely f*cked with this placements. Its feels like a burden to me. I'm now 41 years old and the last 10 years I've been backstabbed my close friends, left by lovers and best friends and met 2 narcisists that really f*cked me up. Still recovering after almost 3 years. I'm learning. Your video is very helpful. Thank you

I'm a Capricorn sun, venus Aquarius, mars and saturn libra. My ex was a gemini who was verbally and emotionally abusive at the end. I think I'm just screwed. I'd probably be better off not bothering than ending up in that crap again.

Saturn in Taurus!!! Pleeasse soon

saturn retrograde is worst...you are born into shitty relationships until your 40s...smh! I was lucky to meet an Aquarius whose sun and venus trine my jupiter and saturn...i wasted and phucked over him...was the best I ever had..but I know the heavens is going to bring another one to me...its been 8 years since a real relationship...

This explains my late teens and early 20's, I had a rough time relationally, ugh, I thought my love life was doomed, it was hard to take.

Woo that was funking heavy man, thanks for spotting my flaws. How long will Saturn hang around to teach me?

My Pluto Saturn and Mars are in Libra. With the moon and the Sun opposite in Aries. I live a troubled life. I love this video btw. Thank you Alyssa

@kimberleykooijman5848

5 ай бұрын

I have the exact placements so we are from the same Year I guess? July 1982. I have these placements in my 12th house and this Stellium feels like an absolute burden to me

Hi Alyssa, 1st of all...love your videos. Now I was wondering if you'd like to do a video on sometime I came across unless it's not true, but I'm curious to Know about horoscopes old dates Vs new dates.

So true.

I can totally tune with youuu

Thank you Alyssa for reading me to the filth of no return ‼️😁😘

I have Saturn in Libra and also Cancer Ascendant. Is this a one-two double punch? Sure feels like it :) Also, love the depth and clarity your vids are growing into. Keep it up!

@Emmenimaliste

3 жыл бұрын

Same positioning here

I have saturn in aries RETROGRADE and therefore I needed to look deeper at libra saturn. I have to say, I relate to saturn in libra a lot more than saturn in aries.

Such a cute child!

Even though you don't like aries much lol I think you're histerical and you're really awesome at what you do!! this video was great thank you

This has nothing to do with the video but in the house I grew up in my grandma had a Libra sun my grandpa had a Leo sun and my uncle and sister had a Scorpio sun but I'm my chart I have a Leo sun Scorpio moon and Libra rising does that mean anything or is it just a coincidence.

Hi Alyssa. I have Saturn in Libra, but with Mars (both retro). This conjunction (2 degrees apart) happens in my 3rd house, as I'm a leo ascendant. What do you think about this. How doomed am I in relationships on a scale of 10?

Im a libra sun, mercury, and rising and i can relate to this video so much tho.

I love ur baby at the end!😂😍🤗

So true.

That's my saturn over there

Yes resonate.i have this placement and all my relationships were trash not worth 2 minute conversation.wow single is my best options.

I got with who is now my husband at 20 and I'm a Libra Saturn.. lol. But... we have grown and evolved yet have still been on the same path this whole time... it's been a struggle. So it was like having multiple relationships with 1 person to find myself. But I truly belief the Creator had meant for us to be for each other. I know a lot now that I didn't know back then that I'm now able to look at and say... we were meant to be together

Saturn in Libra, Jupiter in Libra, Sun in Libra, Pluto in Libra, Mercury in Libra retro, Am I sensing a pattern here?

@Crvenaaaful

5 жыл бұрын

Where your ascendants lays?

I’ve met men w/ this placement & Libra in Pluto who struggle to divest from the patriarchy. Their partners have to be more dominating due to the mental and emotional load she carries bc he’s imbalanced in his duties or emotionally detached. Any thoughts on that?

Ah, your son is so cute! > So rather than look for what I lack in someone else, I should be it? And then I will have learnt my lesson? But Isn't it good to be with someone who has traits that are different to your own, to complement them?

So true

Thank you Alyssa 💖😕 Saturn 29° Pluto28° ♎

I have Ascendant/Rising sign in Cancer. I can see how this factors in with me, I do have a rough time with romance especially because like you mention "create whims out of the air...you need to learn about other people first", I do this. I have a question: how does Cancer Ascendant/Rising sign fit along with Saturn in Libra? Is it because Saturn is ruled by Capricorn; so look at the opposite sign which is Cancer?Thank you for posting. :)

@blackamericanlesbianprofes4357

10 жыл бұрын

Thank you. :)

'nifeelreallybadforthem' hahahaha

Brilliant! Hehe Remy

So I just got divorced after 11 years this October. Now I'm entering dating world at 33 years old. This is good to know... This is me... Lesson being learned

Lol! I have Saturn & Mars in Libra 6th house. I'm 30+ single and I looks more sadistic than romantic.

This was very informative! It's too bad we're not taught any of this as young adults. What do you do if you're now 40 in a loveless marriage with kids? Do you just stay until Saturn returns in 2041???

love the baby...adorable

I wish this was posted last year around this same time. I just had my first Saturn return or karmic return and I messed up REEEAAAL GOOOOOOD!!! (in my Oprah voice). I'm not going through that again. I'm still trying to get over the results of that relationship. Heartbreak is a BAMF! SCREW YOU SATURN IN LIBRA! Thanks for the video btw #GeminiSun #GeminiAscendant #AquariusMoon. Yeah...I'm Screwed. 😞

@mybeautifuljourney7540

5 жыл бұрын

TrumpetSAE Future is better..

I'm a bit confused... in the beggining you say that Saturn in Libra marry later in life and after in the video you say they marry earlier in life... can you explain... May be I missed something :-(

@VeraiLynn

10 жыл бұрын

She means that it takes a lot of time for Saturn in Libras to really connect with their partners. Some just go through relationships and get married because they always wanted to make it work even though its a shitty relationship. Others might have been left by their partners because they "try so hard". Thats why others divorced realising that they are not meant for each other after all

Appreciate the info and FU 1 dislike

Hi Alyssa I have Saturn in Libra in the 5th house Retrograde.. Cancer rising and had a really hard time conceiving.. But my venus in Taurus and sun in Taurus are in the 11th house so Im loved.. But youre right.. Relationships end so drastically.. Its so painful when does it end? Im 33

@petrabozic79

5 жыл бұрын

Did you manage to conceive

1:00 Beautiful…

What if i have saturn in aries but in 7th house?

I was watching this cause someone I loved has Saturn in libra... But my ex has Saturn in Scorpio haha. 3 people have attempted murder on her, she escaped death thrice :) three times.

cancer rising, saturn in cap in 7th house, south node in 3rd house :(

The end 😅

There's a part in your video where you sound like Debra lol caught it through second play thru.

@Ravenzero81

10 жыл бұрын

" I know me but do you know me" ;)

I have Saturn in the 7th House Aquarius...

I have Saturn in my 7th Pisces

You said Saturn in Aries is bad.. But what about Saturn in libra in 1st house 😒

My son has Libra Moon with Saturn in the house. Does that mean I'm a damn good Mom lol

Really great stuff Alyssa. 11th house Saturn in Libra here conjunct Pluto and Mercury retrograde, also a 10th house Libra Sun. You are spot on, thank you for your insights.

Saturn & Jupiter in Libra rising :)

@candy3156

10 жыл бұрын

Yes, my most powerful lessons are through relationships/partnerships...both personal & work-wise.

hmm saturn in libra here western and saturn in virgo in vedic

relationships makes me very unhappy.an after 5 yrs alone this 10/04 libra is happy alone.funny women have started hitting me up and r like u dont like me?an i am like nope dont need friendships dont need love...its hard at first be alone as a libra but when u break through the last thing you want is some loser fucking up ur life.loves not real down here people arent real...ther give me give me...

I have Saturn in Aries in 7th house. Opposite Mars in libra in the 1st house. 😩🙃

@HannieCharlie

4 жыл бұрын

Captain Ford same

Lol. I have mars-saturn-vertex-sn in 7th... all makes sense. and yeah I realized that, I was fucking up by choosing the wrong men, im already divorced and single parent at 25... whats funny 😂 is my cousin has Saturn in 1st & aries moon in 12th - and she is impatient and shy

Hhhhhhh I think I graduated I have Saturn in 7th house

Wow she looks like Bella Hadid, Why do all Libra's have that sort of look? So interesting

Well fuck. And now remind us how that’s exalted… 😹

oh and ftw cause it blows too.

STOP BEING SO FUCKING HOT DAMN

Doesn't she look like Megan fox idk