Another tip: DON'T POST YOUR SERIAL DATING STORIES ONLINE TO THE WORLD! Post your man on your wedding day/after the marriage lol.

@miabarnett2452

20 күн бұрын

Emphasis on DON’T😂

@ajh.4131

20 күн бұрын

Exactly!!! All of this!!! When I get into a relationship, people will never know about my man on social media. Or at the very least, I won’t be posting him much until he’s my husband.

@KushQueen9

20 күн бұрын

Even after my wedding, these people will not hear much🤷🏿‍♀️

@MeMyself984

19 күн бұрын

Just what Issa Raye said. Don’t post your man until y’all Married. I totally believe her. Nobody knows I be dating. Lol

@TiggysTC

19 күн бұрын

This! 🎯

Serial dating was so much fun to me. I didn’t take ppl too seriously. (Just block and move on ladies) It made it easier to “compare” for compatibility, likability, and so on. Once I made my decision to date one guy exclusively, I politely ended communication with the others. Now I’m an official member of the “my man, my man, my man” club 😂 he’s amazing and I can’t fit my hand in my new purse 😉❤

@tessy28

20 күн бұрын

I love hearing stories like this.❤😂😂 welcome to the "my man, my man" club😁

@miabarnett2452

20 күн бұрын

@@tessy28 😀 thank you!

@LilEshu808

20 күн бұрын

Ghosting is fucked up, at minimal give a closure text before you block.

@Maya__Mia___

20 күн бұрын

@@LilEshu808 I’m guessing that’s probably what she meant when she said *I politely ended communication.*

@miabarnett2452

20 күн бұрын

@@Maya__Mia___ ty and can you really ghost somebody that you don’t even know? Dating? Sure. A couple messages exchanged? No notice necessary.

I live in the south. I recently went to Boston for a different vibe and LADIES!!!!!! They are allll out there!! I met many generous and wealthy men. Ya girl will be back in Boston in no time

@ev6564

21 күн бұрын

Yes Boston is heaven for sugar babies (or women looking for a romantic relationship). I need to get out there more

@Alyssaj1236

20 күн бұрын

Boston? Really? That kind of surprises me.

@BradsBabygirl2024

20 күн бұрын

A dating coach, or whatever he calls himself on TikTok, said Black women should date the “Is” = Irish and Italian men. There are lots of Irish men in Boston. Maybe he’s onto something!🥰

@chamham6734

20 күн бұрын

NOOOO YALL GIVING OUT SECRETS!!

@SweetEssie

11 күн бұрын

​@@Alyssaj1236 Very good Ivy Leagues and prestigious higher education in Boston, so the men earn more than in most US cities

I agree with moving around to expand your options. I’m from the south and realized that I attract more men I’m actually interested in when I’m on the east coast for work. Crazy how that works😂

@TreasureLove333

18 күн бұрын

Do you see yourself relocated east? I’m struggling with that now. I’m from the east coast but meet men I prefer in the south and west coast but idk if I’d want to live there.

@Bellahsimone

18 күн бұрын

@@TreasureLove333 I’m fortunate to be able to work on the east coast and keep my home base in the south but I would be open to relocating permanently if I meet someone and got serious. Honestly the only way I would relocate though!

Your A.I game been super strong sis ❤

No matter how many men I date they all pissing me tf off I take breaks often🤣

@duckman2480

21 күн бұрын

It’s because your not attractive

@tessy28

20 күн бұрын

Men are just annoying asf in general. Just have to get the one that annoys you the LEAST!😂😂😂

@babygurll7

20 күн бұрын

Right!! they're sooo aggy! And most times, it's more stress to deal with and less reward. These men are horrid

@KushQueen9

20 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@MayaMoorish

9 күн бұрын

Honestly this. She really was right that most men are just trash. I put my dating profile on a pause and thinking of going places where I'm sure more masculine types are around once I have the energy to get back in

I used some of these tips to find my hubby. Chrissie is right girls move around!

One other tip to girls and women, and maybe be careful of the guys who want to know all your business or manipulate you into telling them. Well, really, any type of manipulation is a time to RUN AWAY. 😂

@201stars

19 күн бұрын

I just lie 🤷🏾‍♀️

@queenlthrives

19 күн бұрын

@@201stars Smart but Girl, AT THE TIME, I was trying to be the good and fair type of girlfriend.. GIRRRLL... What a LIE and stupid thing to do that was. 😂 He wasn't fair in the SLIGHTEST. 😂 Lesson learned. 😒

love the imagery!

Saw the thumbnail and was glad to see Tyrone in the back... let the real men step forward.

@Igbobabexoxo

21 күн бұрын

Say it louder!! I definitely heard you though lol

@ChrissiesWay

21 күн бұрын

Lmfao😂

@haryel5058

21 күн бұрын

You’re so funny 😂

@frenchgirl5878

21 күн бұрын

I definitely think that with the way way black men are treating us and encouraging others to mistreat us in the same way, they do not deserve our attention.

@tessy28

20 күн бұрын

Lmaaooo😂

Clicked so fast

It’s very important to master the art of walking away from

@miabarnett2452

20 күн бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 bc you deserve what you deserve! Builds confidence too.

I live on the West Coast and am sure that I'll never be able to date if I stay here. I need to relocate to a place with men who are actually interested in dating and relationships. I love that picture, thanks for covering this topic. 😊

@munaali840

21 күн бұрын

Midwest and South have more relationship/marriage minded men, mainly because most of their friends will settle down young so they look to get out of the game quicker

@IAMHERE486

21 күн бұрын

@@munaali840Men overall aren’t wanting relationships or marriage like that.

@IAMHERE486

21 күн бұрын

Maybe try a smaller city/town and see what happens.

@tiredoftheworld4834

21 күн бұрын

East Coast baby!

@duckman2480

21 күн бұрын

@@munaali840 yeah but the men you want from the Midwest and south also don’t like black women… because they are racist

5:48 this is really important - setting a time limit there are many guys who will leach off of your energy and conversation “picking your brain” on topics to improve their business or their lifestyle. be aware of this activity

Thank you for sharing these great dating tips!! I'm considering sticking my feet into the dating pool.

Always appreciate your content Christie.I’m in my early 20s and have never dated or been approached. I think there’s something wrong with me. This type of content helps me evaluate myself

@Otherwise88

21 күн бұрын

You may need to occupy different spaces. Since you're inexperienced, it may also be that you're not recognizing the subte signs. If men, even coworkers or neighbors, men who are married or elderly are spending time just shooting the breeze with you, it's possible that they like you. Which is not to say you need to regard them as genuine options, but you could be getting more interest than you realize.

@Coco_xoxo

21 күн бұрын

Hi, I just turned 20. I’ve been approached by men but I don’t like lots of attention so it’s never panned out to anything so far. Bottom line, don’t judge yourself too much, you’re not alone. Move at a comfortable pace. Also, as someone who is very introverted, I’m usually approached when out and about, so also allow yourself to be seen by others. 😊

@abbym1214

21 күн бұрын

Which country are you in?

@sibusisiwenyathi6331

21 күн бұрын

@@abbym1214 Denmark … a country where 0.05% of the population is black 😅

@miabarnett2452

20 күн бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with you. When you do start dating make sure you know what YOU want. That’ll make it super easy to weed out ppl trying to waste your time. Have fun, learn, and never waiver on your standards ❤

I don’t think serial dating is for me . I fall in love fast 😅. (I also de-fall in love fast ). I’d rather date one and quickly move on if it doesn’t work . But I support bw in whatever makes them happy ❤❤❤

@LetThereBeLight1111

19 күн бұрын

Yeah I’m this way too. My cut off game strong though. They’re heads be spinning when the red flags show up and I bounce 😵‍💫 😵‍💫🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️

@sydlaw2941

18 күн бұрын

Funny thing is when it comes to people who do that it is recommended that they serial date. Lol it slows things down, forces you to divide your attention so it may help you not fall so quickly, and it also helps identify red flags quicker.

@LetThereBeLight1111

18 күн бұрын

I love both approaches. As long as you know when to choose yourself and end a courtship, both approaches are great 😊

This came at the most PERFECT time!!! I've been researching having a "date bracket" or as it's been called historically a "dance card". I've been out of the dating market for almost two years growing and learning myself. This is definitely the sign to start

I love the thumbnail !!!!❤❤❤❤

Wait on God ask him if it’s his will for you to get married and if so seek him concerning the plans he has for your life. If you’ve never accepted Jesus as your lord and savior please do so he loves you

Hi Chrissie! Do you advise that we do not let the other men know that we are serially dating. Or we should make them aware

@tiredoftheworld4834

21 күн бұрын

I’ve heard incidents of them becoming very jealous and mad about it. I think it’s best to leave it private…! But if they know there is competition, those who are willing to step up regardless and compete for your hand will show themselves 🙂 pros and cons

@ChrissiesWay

21 күн бұрын

I wouldn’t let them know you are serially dating per se but just that you are “dating” until you find someone special. That way they know they aren’t the only one but still don’t know how many. Personally, I don’t give specific details to anyone I’m dating.

@PrettyyAngell

20 күн бұрын

@@ChrissiesWay okay thank you soo muchh!! 💕

Chrissie! Can you please make a video or video series for the women between the ages 19 18 20 and 21? Not trying to be cocky at all but I’ve been getting hit on by older established men since I was 15(I am now 20) and don’t know how to go about dating. I’m in college and in a relationship of 3 years with a man my age but wonder if I should just be single and figure my self out and date around. Not trying to be cocky but I got hit on all the time and I model and the men that hit on me are older established men but I’m really stuck between a rock in a hard place. I value your opinion and really look forward to your response!

@bevs9995

21 күн бұрын

Protip: older men are for hustling. Especially if they are any older than 6-8 yrs to you

@britneyt9253

21 күн бұрын

@@bevs9995 what do you mean by hustling?

@chocolatitac9365

21 күн бұрын

@@britneyt9253 maybe sugar daddy idk I think thats what hustling is ??

@glamglam8347

21 күн бұрын

Ngl getting older men as a young woman is not a flex. Youre a creep magnet more than anything. Most of these men are emotionally stuck at 19/20 and that's why they can attract them. Most of them also can't get women his age to save his life bc he severely lacks any real value (money, status, and looks).

@bevs9995

21 күн бұрын

@@britneyt9253 Hustling means getting money/gifts/generosity/your rent paid without outright being an escort.

This channel is a goldmine.

I plan to do Seasonal dating☀️🍁❄️🌸 Date a man for 3 months of the year then move onto a new guy. After 1 year has passed, decide 1 guy out of the 4 that you want to be with.

Thank youuu Chrissie 🥰

Great tips! and I love this thumbnail! 💜💜💜💜

Thank You Chrissie. I love the video ❤❤.

I love you Chrissie great advice as always you are changing lives keep doing what your doing ❤️😊🎉🎉🎉

3:27 THIS 😍😍😍 Thank u dear Chrissie !

I was really looking forward to watching the gemini astrology video but it was taken down before i had the chance 😢 I thought you were only taking down colorism and female strategy videos 😢😢😢💔💔💔💔

Chrissie, how do I watch the finesse video without becoming a member. Is there a link to that particular video?

@ChrissiesWay

20 күн бұрын

It’s a Neptunian member/patron exclusive so you have to join youtube memberships or Patreon to see it. Join KZread Memberships: bit.ly/JoinChrissieYT Join Patreon: www.patreon.com/chrissiesway

I'm a 33 year old virgin woman , and I do not know if I could handle serial dating .

🌸👸🏿💜💫🌟✨Yes, .…💜💜💜👸🏿💫🌟🌸🎇I love and agree with this message 💬 which is so inspirational for all girls and even older women can take and make not only leveling up but practice in their daily life for generations and generations to come in the future….. thank you Chrissie for this once again!!!!….. very liberating and exciting!!!!💜❤️‍🔥💜👸🏿🌟👸🏿👸🏿👸🏿🌌🙌🏿🌟🌟🔥💜

Are the membership videos only for the highest tier? I didn't see any videos available for the two lower tiers. 🙁

@ChrissiesWay

16 күн бұрын

Yes, the videos are under the Neptunians tier. The Venusians tier is for donation only and Lunarians is for website discounts. You can read the tier benefits here: bit.ly/JoinChrissieYT

@GoaWay...

16 күн бұрын

@@ChrissiesWay okay.

I've been thinking of serial dating for a while now. There's a couple men I've been keeping my eye on. So this was a good time to see this video. The bad part is I grew up kinda religious so I grew up thinking doing stuff like this was very much "hoe" behavior. I need to detach from this idea foreal because I feel like om limiting myself

@joyandbeauty2024

18 күн бұрын

Well u don’t have to sleep with multiple men ur dating at the same time, just date them until u find who u want

@val6189

17 күн бұрын

This may be actually more traditional

@roma5809

16 күн бұрын

Just don’t sleep with them. It’s simple. Just date and go out. The reason religious ppl are against it is because they assume you sleep with every person you date. This is not true.

@chonmonlon2728

21 сағат бұрын

The entire point of religion is to limit women's options, so there's that. I've heard of "Christian dating" so maybe that's an option for you.

Yes yes yes 🎉😂

I have to work on my looks. I live in NY and i cannot pull anytype of man unless he is older and international. No thank you 😂

@TennisBarbie119

21 күн бұрын

It’s also the men in New York. Move around and you’ll see

@bevs9995

21 күн бұрын

NYC? there are too many women

@islandgirl8067

21 күн бұрын

I lived in NY at my fittest & I can tell you there's a shortage of eligible men there who are relationship minded.

@TIAOFNEBULA

21 күн бұрын

I live in NYC, the dating pool is rough here… lot of these men are looking for a warm hole.

@lauren6509

21 күн бұрын

Down south too. Lee, Punjab, Jose and Brad be wanting the 🍪 way too fast. I don't even get a Hello most times. I'm not scantily clad​ and I don't have a build a thot look . Imma sound like a hotep rq but I think black bodies are inherently sexualized. I tell them I'm not on that typa time.@@TIAOFNEBULA

I say 5 boyfriends and eryone, men and women, get tight They say, no man will be with it. Should I let the man know he's not the only one *if asked? Lmk, cuz idgaflip honestly. I don't want marriage, i just want decent seasonal counterparts, bc I'll NEVER TRUST A MAN WITH MY EVERYDAY LIFE AND BEING. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@miabarnett2452

20 күн бұрын

You deserve the lifestyle you want in peace. If I was interested in you and looking for a serious relationship, I would want to know. Not immediately after “hello” but nobody’s time should be wasted.

This is the video that caused so much trouble? Whomever doesn't like it could just not do this. Goodness. Keep up the good work Chrissie. People just love to hate.

Would love an advice video catered to ladies in their early 20s!

I'ma be honest. I grew up during a time when dating meant trying on different people and seeing how they fit. "Roster" dating just sounds like dating to me. Maybe times have changed.

Just become a high dollar escort ladies 🤑😂😂😂 get the bag 🎒 Queens

Love is about surrender, not strategy. You have strategy in games and war, not in love. If you view love this way, you will never have a successful or pleasant relationship.

@Honeyflowerrr

18 күн бұрын

Does love even exist?

@canesugar911

18 күн бұрын

Is your tactic about love?

@chonmonlon2728

21 сағат бұрын

Lies. Ladies you had better approach your romantic relationships with men with strategy because men are certainly doing it with you.