As a vocal coach I really enjoy the way you use your voice. Don’t change a thing!

@ForrestHanson

Жыл бұрын

😅😂

@darkcrystalmagik3369

Жыл бұрын

Wow, that critic person had some SERIOUS issues, wtf...😆 You really do have a lovely, very pleasant voice to listen to! That's the truth. And honestly, I don't know if I could listen otherwise, LOL. I'd DEFINITELY notice at least.... I'm very sensitive to annoying voices, even of ppl whose content, thoughts & POV I enjoy!

@dublingirl1691

Жыл бұрын

Stay just the way you are! I love all of your presentations. Just stay being YOU ❤👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I really appreciate the synergistic dynamic between the two of you. This is a consistent site that I go to for both learning and comfort, simultaneously, and that is gold! Thank you!

This channel makes my day. I thank God for you both. I glean so much.

The depth, contents, and insight that you contribute to humanity…. Thank you so much for what you do and what you offer to the world. I am very grateful

Stay just the way you are! I love all of your presentations. Just stay being YOU ❤👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I think you both respectfully present topics. I like how you share your own experiences. I never feel that either of you force opinions or facts. I feel sincerity from you both. I hope you two will continue sharing and helping us(me) to grow in compassion and understanding. I think that Forrest is an exceptional host who researches the topic, and who lets his guests share completely without interrupting. 💙

Lol. Forrest, i love when you talk, it is the perfect amount! Thank you so much for this wholesome podcast. Not just this episode. The whole project is incredibly helpful to me. Very best.

I couldn’t concentrate for the first part of the podcast, I was so annoyed and upset about the criticisms of you Forrest, 😱😤😂. Good thing I could go back to the beginning and learn not to get so upset about the fact that sometimes people feel the need to criticise the KZreadrs I really like 😂 (completely undeserved IMHO, but they can just not watch if they can’t appreciate the value of the content on this channel)

It's funny how Rick says "I did poorly or I could do better" cause I never felt either of you did poorly! You two are my favourite. Thank you so much a special thanks to Rick's empathic demenour and Hansson's aware one. You two are so beautiful.

I find Forrest a brillant dovetail to his fathers experience You two are both unique in yourself The space that is created between you is clear open and vital Thank you💖

Certainly one of the most nourishing offerings on KZread. Thanks once again.

Thank you for this. Omg sometimes it can be so hard, people can be brutal! The best advice I've heard is to take what you can from it but also trust reliable, trustworthy sources.

Forrest… you were sweet to choose the criticisms directed toward you. ❤️‍🩹 People love to complain especially when it’s not in person… you can’t please all the people all the time. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Sometimes other people want us to accept their performance 🎭 and deny our reality. I refuse to be an enabler.

I've seen so often that people use criticism to try and confirm their very existence. "I complain, therefore I AM! " And that is so sad.

Love this conversation.

Thank you for sharing that daily regret is okay.

I really enjoy both of you and I have learned so much! I’m grateful for you both!!❤

What an intelligent contribution you are both making. Your passion for psychology is contagious. It's my go-to podcast of the moment. I am really into somatics and have loved the ones with Elizabeth!! When i receive criticism or ask for feedback, I try to tell myself "In a world of 8 billion people there will always be 8 billion opinions!". Someone's "your voice is annoying" is another person's "speak louder for the people in the back!" ❤❤

I think I love you guys! I do, I do love you!

I just love listening to you guys...I started in the hot weather of this summer, exercising, and now I'm sitting by a fire equally enjoying your conversations. I'm fascinated by your kindness and clarity. I've been attending Al-anon meetings daily and the message is similar. I also love to see the wonderful relationship between father and son. So inspiring!

Dear Rick and Forest. Would you consider providing a list of counselors by state who are trauma informed and compassionate listeners, like you both are. We need to be able to find counseling like you provide. Thank you.

16:42 people can argue for ever about facts and values, but cannot argue an experience you are having.

start by joining! similar to David Burns' warmth and respect "you are so important to me"

Always nice to hear your deep dives. One time in my life I could do that, before the 1980s, actually. Its nice to find it again. That it can still happen ...and in a father-son relationship, wow not even in the 1970s (especially not then). Quite a measure of possible growth.

This was super helpful for me in the moment today. I appreciate the candid approach to this subject, especially the vulnerability. Gave me a lot of fodder for journaling. Hope you guys know how valuable your work is. Thanks again.

You are both so awesome 👌 don't change a thing you are both great listeners and speakers your program started popping up on my you tube recommendation Glad you do what you do I currently subscribe to your channel Love how you covered so much about criticism By the way this the complaints is about people's self critics That can become chronic This is why I like to study about boundaries as well especially when dealing with that dreadful dance feeling negative feedback 😮🎉🕺💃

Beat episode I’ve watched yet!

Thanks a lot, it was a very useful talk for me and enjoyed the dialog too!

Truly brilliant of you both

I really enjoyed the opening to this video, and the little "bubbles". Nice touch!

Keep up the great job!

Omg and here I am LOVING you so much in every show! My critique of folks- they miss out on things (I’m sure they have many blind spots) and linger on one side of the spectrum aka not dynamic. ❤ Your Goldie Locks analogy is amazing. I relate to that spot on. Thank you for the insight there.

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Hey ! This is really really helpful =) THANKYOU =)

Thank you💟

Thanks!

Loved this conversation Forrest and Rick....and I am tagging it as a Recommended Resource in my latest blog post on empathy. You shared so many relatable experiences in this episode that many will benefit from hearing. Thank you!

YES to all favorable comments!!!

I loved this topic and I’m so glad I came across your channel. I he to subscribe. This is all valuable information and the conversation format works because it’s not someone telling me what I should be doing but rather sitting in and listening and taking what resonates for me

@ForrestHanson

Жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thank you!

I think Forrest is so cute he can get away with a lot of throaty humor!

Can you please explain your use of the term heternormative?

I am so sorry you have been criticized with ridiculous comments in the beginning of the video. ❤️ You guys are GREAT! My therapist taught me a phrase: "Useless Commentary" Only thing I could think of is, you guys are gushy and lovey to each other... and that is MY problem LOL. Seriously though, yours and your fathers relationship and positive, loving, upbuilding comments are good examples for all.

Most complaints arise from emotional dissatisfaction. That is profound. But it only applies to non sociopaths and non manipulators in general.

@morbly

11 ай бұрын

The kind of people you’re talking about are possibly the most emotionally dissatisfied people out there.

Hey just found your channel, would love if you could do more videos on how to become securely attached

Pam Parker 0 seconds ago I looped back to this episode - there’s a lot of constructive advice here! Lean in and get at the deeper matter and unravel the emotional solution if you will. Question: If the complaint uses loaded language like ‘you always treat me like and child’ and ‘I am a moron in your view’ is that deserving of a reply other than addressing the impact of that kind of communication? Or, in other words, does moving to the solution when someone is creating a hostile tone condoning their approach that makes you feel like you are being attacked unfairly? This is a workplace context and feels like what Forest calls ‘establishing power over the other’ but wrapped up in personal criticism (you do this, I am in charge that, etc).

Ohh how cute 😀

joining the other is not in Marshall ROSenberg's excellent but incomplete OFNR formula

Why do you care about whether you get a positive or negative review? You need to be yourself and have a purpose, you were not born to be a slave to other people's opinions... to be some insect that feeds on approval.

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