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Perfect timing. I agree that relationship focused men can be seen as desperate. A relationship shouldn’t be your main and only priority.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

It’s so easily to get distracted and start focusing on the relationship. I always tell myself that I must always “get back to the original mission” which is focusing on me, myself and I. Which basically is what I want to achieve, and getting back to achieving that goal in life

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it is. That's what women want...they want all your attention on them, but only until they get it. Then they don't care about your attention. But they will fight for it & try to get you to submit. However, it's more like a giant test to see if she has that power of you.

You've literally changed my point of view on relationships. A year ago I couldn't even keep a girl for more then 3 months now that I've been watching your videos I'm with my current girlfriend for 7 months and were still going strong 💪🏾

@triplehsheartattack8515

Жыл бұрын

The fact shes ur gf shows us you are a weak simp. Real masculine men string along a woman for 2 years without giving her a commitment.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome! I'm so happy to hear that! Keep going strong!

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

@@triplehsheartattack8515 I hope you're joking.

A woman coming out from a relationship, specifically from a toxic one is a clear sign she is not emotionally available; she needs to deal with all the breakup phases or go to therapy, so she can be emotionally and mentally healthy for a new person. And as Erik says, if you're relationship focused, you'll definitely get rejected (I've been through that) even if the girl is healthy as I mentioned above.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yes, you're exactly right. An unhealed, emotionally unavailable woman will make your relationship extra difficult. Relationships are difficult as it is...no one needs the extra struggle.

@CochoAntonio

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction you can say that again coach 🍻

Glad I found this channel, I love that you're not arrogant about this stuff. Just matter of fact and pretty open minded.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! I appreciate that! Thanks for watching!

Thanks!

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

You're welcome! The Super Thanks is much appreciated!

I don't know...I am struggling with this one. I have gotten rejected twice for not taking the 'whatever we had' in the casual stage seriously enough and the women rejected me, thinking I was not interested or invested in them. Confused. They told me they assumed I was just looking for casual/fwb situation.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

It can be tricky to find the balance sometimes. I don't know your situations well enough to tell you where you went wrong, but usually where most men screw up in these situations is that they're not leading the relationship & leaving it up to her. If you really want to get into it you can come over to the website SOA.FM (you can remain anonymous) & post your situations there & get feedback.

@kylehackett162

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Thanks. She broke it off last night with me. Said she was getting more serious with another guy. Ultimately she was connecting better with him I think.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

@@kylehackett162 That happens sometimes unfortunately. Just about all of us have been through it at one time or another. Women always choose their best option based on what she perceives to be her best option...it doesn't necessarily make logical sense.

Yes. Women do prefer sexual pleasures first. Then possibly dating. And then after a long time maybe become friends It is true Yet opposite of what seems sensible.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yup...they have to be sexually attracted first.

i am the 1000th view

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

👍🏻 Thanks for watching!

Also true that women attracted to you more if you say “I just want you for casual sex” Even if you love her. Don’t say it. And no talking of future plans Let HER bring that up. When she is ready. You are only interested in casual sex with her. Using her in this way. While you also go on your life purpose. You love her. But don’t let her know. You would protect her. But imply that you don’t care much either way. Be aloof. Using her. Let her gradually be ready for long term with you. And she works to obtain your interest. This is truth. Women love this

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! She's just a little fun for you until she tries to lock YOU down.

@Florida_gyrl

11 ай бұрын

It doesn’t turn me on or make me more interested in any man that tells me something stupid like “I only want you for casual sex”.

More game....means another for men to cater to womens emotions....so she is still your God

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

Nope. It means being more focused on yourself & your mission in life. Where are you getting these warped ideas?

Came in handy. There is a girl who I had interest in, we were good for a while, but then she just blocked me after we had sex? What do you think, coach?

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You didn't watch the video, did you?

@adekunlefajana2037

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Def, I did. I have taken the lessons, I appreciate. Have to keep it moving.

God I wish I knew about you sooner

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

This is probably the most common comment I get. I get it though! I wish I knew this stuff when I was much younger.

When a man invests more into a woman than she deserves she subconsciously loses respect for him. When a woman feels that she is out of a man’s league she loses interest.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yup! Women date, mate & marry UP in terms of sexual market value.

Just sleep with them and move on to the next, relationship not needed

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

If that's what you prefer...

Dont beg for sex, guess what 8 years with out, my wife does not think i an worthy…. This guy talk is bullshit

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

If you were begging for it, that's why she believes you're not worthy. High value men do not beg for sex. Perhaps this video will help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/n6x6mtVuYNSzZrw.html