Story 1: Here's what he did: - Being cheap and refused to pay $200. - Complains about the $40 taxi. - Forces OP to walk the day after. - Made fun of OP. - Refuses to comfort OP. - Ignores OP'S pleas for help. - Walks with another girl instead. - Argues with OP when she says she's scared. If these aren't massive red flags, I don't know what is. Dump this guy ASAP. He is an uncaring AH.

@klocugh12

10 ай бұрын

Those are NOT even red flags anymore. Those are immediate "ABORT SHIP!" flashing lights. There is NO coming back from such disrespect and disregard whatsoever.

@thetruth1223

10 ай бұрын

So many redflags he makes the USSR blush...

@grymhunter2849

10 ай бұрын

In my honest opinion, I wouldn't be surprised if the boyfriend was the one that drugged her by the way he was acting

@yearls

10 ай бұрын

@@grymhunter2849 Exactly what I'm thinking.

@GrifoStelle

10 ай бұрын

Not the day after. Within an hour of being roofied. While fading in and out of consciousness collapsing... *repeatedly* along the road (collecting injuries) to the point that the police found her *splayed out on the ground* with him standing over her like a fed up parent. THE POLICE took her to the ER.

I think the craziest part of the last story is that the mistress has the audacity to call OP a gold digger right after admitting to being the husband’s sugar baby.

@Juju2927

10 ай бұрын

Definitely a case of Projection, or maybe she thought that OP worked 'for' him, not 'with' him'.

@grymhunter2849

10 ай бұрын

Seriously, that woman is the kind that give women the bad name we have. The lying, manipulative, and narsasistic women that are willing to stab people in the back because the man has money to spend

@akl2k7

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, she's one to talk, since she's knowingly with a married man, which shows her terrible standards. Remember ladies (and gentlemen), if there's a ring on it, you do NOT want it. If you find out the guy or girl you're dating is married, break up, no matter what.

@kaylawoodbury2308

10 ай бұрын

​@@Juju2927I'm leaning more towards projection, the rest of that gloating reeked of insecurity rather than actual pride. Like deep down she already knew she was just the side piece but saw this as an opportunity to finally fully "earn" her man. I've actually seen similar attitudes from other housewife types, where they actually feel very insecure about their choices and now feel trapped by expectations and low education and work expectations, fearing the unknown of life not being housewife, so they bend over backwards and go crazy trying to justify it all. For her it was "stealing" a married man so she could feel superior to a working woman. For others it's mommy vlogs or MLM's or Etsy stores and diy projects, anything to make them feel like they have value outside of being a mom and homemaker. Obviously I'm not saying being a housewife is bad but some women even in this day and age go into it thinking they have to for one reason or another rather than it being what they genuinely want.

@lokhiwilder

10 ай бұрын

Reminds me of my step-mom thinking that my mom and me would have to move into with my grandparents (who lived in a 1 bedroom one living room apartment), while she and my dad would live in our three room apartment. Yea... Little did she know all those apartments have been bought by my maternal grand-dad, and all my dad had was his car, constantly failing business and a house in a countryside that is still (like 30 years later) isn't finished! I'm not even mad at her, she was young and stupid.

10:24 I actually gasped out loud. That woman is the real monster. I commend Op for putting his daughter first and immediately filing for divorce. Emma may forgive Sam for what she said because she’s a genuinely kind person, which is admirable, but I agree with Op that I could never look at Sam the same way ever again.

@peeberton

10 ай бұрын

My eyes bulged, that was insane. No going back after saying that.

@jurgenvonjessica4656

10 ай бұрын

Also, OP helped raised a very good son in Tom. Tom was grateful for what was offered and also did not try to justify his Mom's insanity. Good head on his shoulders and that is likely due to OP's balancing influence growing up, in light of his Mom's favoritism of him.

@abiean222

10 ай бұрын

i honestly think emma forgave sam because sam has been emotionally abusing emma and emma is now being a doormat when it comes to sam.

@ladyphantom792

10 ай бұрын

Same

@ostlandr

10 ай бұрын

@@jurgenvonjessica4656 There is IMHO a non-zero chance of Tom going no contact with Sam at some point, if she doesn't get her entitled vicious head out of her posterior. OP and Emma are 100% family to Tom, blood or no blood.

So, are we just not gonna talk about the fact that the daughter in the third story forgave her stepmom after she accused her of murdering her mother? OP needs to get that girl into therapy because if she's willing to forgive something like that, that is very worrying. She's not only on the path to being in an abusive relationship in the future, she's practically sprinting down that path at ludicrous speed.

@Ikajo

10 ай бұрын

It was probably not the first time Sam was abusive towards Emma. Just the fact that she favoured her own child means she emotionally neglected her stepdaughter.

@columbiajames1606

10 ай бұрын

thank you, that part really unnerved me too

@anagonzalez8972

10 ай бұрын

OP said in a comment that Emma is getting therapy.

@weareallbronies9031

10 ай бұрын

@@anagonzalez8972 good

@gamerraider889

10 ай бұрын

​@@anagonzalez8972This is it. Thank you. You've calmed the minds of myself and maybe dozens of others who see your comment.

The boyfriend in story 1 sounds like he's the one who drugged her, the fact that he was unconcerned that his girlfriend was drugged but would follow a different girl to make sure SHE was safe is very suspicious

@softntired7082

10 ай бұрын

i had the same thought! its like he knows who drugged her- whether it be him or one of his buddies

@nyxthemagpie

9 ай бұрын

Or he drugged a girl and the drink got mixed up with gf. He was following that girl. Not accompanying.

@user-sp3km6ob3c

9 ай бұрын

Sounds like he might of meant to drug the girl he followed. Or he tried to drug both so his girlfriend wouldn't know what he did and failed with the other girl.

@oliviaroseink

8 ай бұрын

I think it’s more likely that he just has no idea how serious the situation was and has never had to fear for his safety in the way women have to on a day-to-day basis. He is cruel and abusive, but I don’t see any motive to drug his girlfriend while out with her. If that was the case, it wouldn’t make sense to drug her while out in public. The men who lace drinks know very well exactly how incapacitated the victim will be and, as her boyfriend, the risk of being caught doing so is significantly lower if he did it at home. To me. It sounds like he had previously taken measures to help female friends but when faced with the reality of his own girlfriend being drugged, he didn’t care about her life enough to provide anything more than superficial assistance. He is cheap, mean, and doesn’t value her life but I don’t think he drugged her. He’s just a loser. Edit to add that I can see why you guys think that, but in my opinion, there is a lack of motive for doing this in public if that makes sense.

@oliviajeanne7709

4 ай бұрын

@@oliviaroseink I see why honestly and to me it seems like he does not care about his girlfriend enough to actually love and protect her.

Story 3: Wow, it took Tom not having a scholarship and Emma wanting to at least help a bit for everything to fall apart. Sam should be glad that Emma is helping at all instead of demanding that Tom's expenses be entirely Emma's responsibility and then bringing up Emma's dead mom, which is a seriously low blow. Yeah, divorce that b**ch. There's no point in continuing the relationship

@BadassHater1

10 ай бұрын

Looks like in Tom's case the apple has fallen FAR from the tree

@SilentSakura-

10 ай бұрын

@@BadassHater1Definitely. OP’s definitely rubbed off on him. Probably his sister as well.

@Iflie

10 ай бұрын

There is no way she didn't abuse Emma emotionally in the meantime, she thinks that way about her now and probably always did, he even said she favored her son. Luckily Tom loved his sweet sister so I'm sure he would have been a factor in protecting her.

@OneEyeShadow

10 ай бұрын

If I was Emma, I'd retract my offer to help after this little scene.

@SilentSakura-

10 ай бұрын

@@OneEyeShadow Tom’s mom’s actions are not his actions. Honestly glad Emma knew that.

Story 3 : OP did raised his daughter right, but he also definitely had a huge positive influence on Tom. He seems like a well collected guy who could have easily been manipulated to side with his mother at this instant, but did not. Sam, on the other hand, just did something that she can't take back, and for that, there's no blame in OP to be stern on this decision.

@RealCoolstriker64

10 ай бұрын

She’s willing to excuse Sam’s abuse. He failed at raising his daughter completely.

@guywholikesgoodmusic

9 ай бұрын

​@@RealCoolstriker64You don't have the context to say that.

@jenniferann7212

9 ай бұрын

I would have respected Tom more if he'd turned down the money, saying he couldn't accept it in good conscience after all that.

Story 1: when people tell you who they are, believe them.

@fishcity5844

10 ай бұрын

If that's the case then I'm Batman 😂.

@Rainb0W0

10 ай бұрын

Felix Cipher 😳

@Cman04092

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, definitely. This guy has more red flags than the entire history of communist countries, lol.

@starquaked

10 ай бұрын

The first time !

@klocugh12

10 ай бұрын

I think you meant SHOW who they are

To blame a baby, a child, a literal infant for their own mother's death in childbirth is straight up so , so cruel. Thank goodness Tom had OPs good influence on him, he sounds like a great step father which is heartwarming. I'd say dump Sam. To stay with a woman who would easily say something so incredibly cruel does not deserve anything from this man.

1st story is typical unhealthy relationship: "he does this bad thing, this bad thing, neglects me, belittles my feelings, etc...but appart from that, he's a great person and we have good moments too!" I've heard this way too many times. You tell them to get out and they don't listen 😔

First Story: I would instantly break up. I could not feel safe around this man anymore. this is not a "kind man who doesn't wanna hurt people", he's an enabler of rape culture.

@Robin93k

10 ай бұрын

potentially even worse than just an enabler...

@wickedxmela

10 ай бұрын

@@Robin93k I had the exact same thought.

@louisa5342

10 ай бұрын

Hell yeah "kind" my ass, a trully kind man would NEVER do the things that her bf did

@Mewse1203

10 ай бұрын

​@@wickedxmelaI was thinking the same thing. He drugged her because of his reaction to her having fun at the bar. Even if not, he could have *called an ambulance.*

@be.A.b

10 ай бұрын

@@Mewse1203He definitely drugged her. He just didn’t expect her body to react that way. He’s way too nonchalant about the whole thing

Story 3: it sounds like everyone was down to blend the families EXCEPT Sam, because she’s a trash monster. I’m now convinced OP just tapped himself into believing his gold digger of a wife and he were on the same page about the “marriage of convenience”. It’s sucks that she never let her kid or step kid have a normal life all to feed her second wife complex.

@lacko623

10 ай бұрын

Right, OP treated both kids as his own as much as possible, while Sam only cared for her son. OP is a great father and a stand up guy, and Emma is a real Saint. And kudos to Tom as well for being genuinely grateful and not entitled at all. Hopefully, OP keeps his doors open for him, if needed.

@SoldierSpiderx

10 ай бұрын

agree and I love how OP and Emma never blame Tom who was on their side and OP better not take her back cause what she said about Emma mother was her true feeling and I have no doubt that if OP take her back, she going said more fuck up shit

@Mewse1203

10 ай бұрын

He is a giant idiot and asshole too. The fact that he was able to recognize Sam treating Emma the way she did and did nothing is already bad enough. He rationalized that behavior which is fucking bullshit. My biggest thing is: if he was able to recognize what she did in front of him, how bad do you think it was when he wasn't around? This is the first time he's seen Sam hurl this level of abuse at Emma, but I can practically guarantee you this is not the first time Emma has faced that level of abuse. OP let his daughter be a second-class citizen in her own home her whole life. Step Monster gave her zero emotional support, and dad split hus support equally. That means Emma got shorted on the support. And OP let it all happen.

@marshawargo7238

10 ай бұрын

He shared His income equally between the children but she Didn't share her love! The whole reason for the marriage! Sam should have gotten nothing more than was in the prenup! OP should adult adopt Tom! All three should go NC with mommy dearest!😂

First Story: "Kind man"?! What is kind about a man not taking his gf's condition seriously enough to be willing to spend that $200 just to get her to the hospital. To add insult to injury, OP's boyfriend complained about $40...like seriously? Also, the fact he would be willing to walk with a female friend at night instead of his own gf speaks volumes about how little he cares about his own partner's wellbeing Second Story: This sounds like OP lost trust in his wife and understandably so. OP seens to be worried about the unknown. I think OP needs to communicate his feelings with his wife and go from there Third Story: I’m almost done with this story but I have to say Sam is an entitled b*tch and a heartless monster. Crazy how her own son is more grateful to Emma's decision than his bitch of a mother. Then, what she said to Emma was downright heartless and honestly warrants a divorce. Sam is an entitled pos and I hope Tom doesn’t take after his mother. OP is an amazing father and is great with raising Emma. I get wanting Emma to make her own choices but I don’t ever see that being easily forgivable, hell I’m surprised Emma forgave Sam for that heartless statement Fourth Story: If I was OP in this situation, I’d tell the other woman what he is doing and then divorce this scumbag. This reminds me of a Family Guy cutaway where Peter had a second family and was the mom of said family. OP's husband is a prick for cheating on OP for 3 years and the other woman (if she went from him and knew he was married) is trash for going after a married man (if she knew he was married). Update: Wow the mistress is more of a bitch than I expected. She has the nerve to call OP a gold digger when she was bragging about all the things he bought her, thats hilarious. This man used the typical tricks to try to save his own ass: he tried gaslighting, he tried lying, he tried crying, he tried going off on the mistress, and he tried begging. I love that mic drop moment OP had in the end

@AdaireKrickets

10 ай бұрын

He's kind because he doesn't go around killing people I guess 😅

@cg1370

10 ай бұрын

He's not kind, he's a coward. He doesn't offend out of fear of the consequences not out of any kind of character.

@audreym3908

10 ай бұрын

You wrote second story twice

@xKCAZxLEADER

10 ай бұрын

@@audreym3908I messed up with the labeling lol. I fixed it

@Mewse1203

10 ай бұрын

Other than the fact that he completely invalidates my feelings when I'm scared, is more concerned about $40 then my well-being, and was too stupid or selfish to call me an ambulance, he's a super kind person."

Story 4: Just the cheating alone is already that bad, but straight up starting a second family behind OP's back is even worse! And the gloating from the mistress, she's completely unapologetic about the whole situation. Honestly, I'm surprised that the whole reason OP knows about this is because of a single TikTok. Like, did he forget that OP could see that?

@lacko623

10 ай бұрын

When the mistress posted that hubby will be back from the work trip, I initially gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought that she was also in the dark. But I lost all sympathy for her when she started stupidly gloating to OP.

@akl2k7

10 ай бұрын

I get the feeling mistress homewrecker knew what she was doing and wanted OP to find her.

@fangirl3086

10 ай бұрын

​@@ItsMeBarnabylife is strange my dude.

@robertc.9503

10 ай бұрын

@@ItsMeBarnaby I can see it happening, depending on how TikTok's algorithm is set up. It sounds like she was into cooking videos, so TikTok is going to show her those more often than other types of videos, so that narrows it down to one out of however many cooking videos there are, instead of the billions of other clips. It also sounds like they were in the same geographic area, and TikTok's algorithm may also prioritize creators who are in your same region, so that narrows it down again from millions of cooking videos to potentially only thousands. That's a lot better odds, and that's only going with two variables, region and genre. Add in other variables, and it could potentially make a match much more likely.

Story 2: As soon as those words came out of Sam's mouth, the relationship died. How can someone say that? There's no way anyone could come back from that.

@xeedflarian9748

10 ай бұрын

Facts!

@cosmicminun59

10 ай бұрын

That's an absolutely vile thing to say to someone whose mother died giving birth to them

@thundermothstudio5446

10 ай бұрын

What's worse, this all happened because Sam didn't want to pay for her own son's tuition because she's a sh*tty deadbeat mom and when someone else doesn't take up the job of parenting for her, she says some of the most evil words you can say to a child. Sam is DISNEY VILLAIN evil and OP and Emma are so much better off without her. MASSIVE kudos to Tom, though, for being a much better person than his AWFUL mother. Sam is already a terrible person for saying such cruel things to a child but the fact that she's doing it because she's a cheap deadbeat who doesn't want to help out her own son makes it SO MUCH WORSE! Sam is like a rotten onion: the more you learn about her, the worse it gets.

@Commanderbones

10 ай бұрын

Story 3*

Story 1: not only did he risk your life because he didn't want to risk paying 200 bucks, he also made you walk the way home after getting out of the hospital. And complain about how slow it would taking, the $40 he spent, I'm trying to make himself a victim so you wouldn't get understandably pissed. Honey I shouldn't have to tell you the dump his sorry ass, in fact maybe she's a gold digger. He doesn't give a crap about you but we'll come then we bring up money, while letting people make jokes about what sounds like an incredibly terrifying event, leave him now

@lancerevell5979

10 ай бұрын

Agreed, this guy is a huge loser! OP deserves better than him.

Cheating spouses are the scum of the earth but what also burns me up is when the other woman/man know that person is married yet still continue with the affair. My first husband cheated on me a lot and after all these years, I’ve forgiven most of the women…except the one who knew about me.

Story 3: How can such a sweet, sincere guy like Tom come from such a frankly _ghastly_ woman like Sam? Oh my God what an absolute monstrous thing for her to say to Emma-

@WraythSkitzofrenik

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, that was a pleasant surprise. You read so many stories where kids get preferential treatment and become spoiled and entitled. Good for Tom for falling FAR from the tree.

@boobertthefoolish3309

10 ай бұрын

@@saatvikkalra6061its definitely the kind of thing my own father said and has done to me :/

@WraythSkitzofrenik

10 ай бұрын

@@saatvikkalra6061 you'd be surprised what toxic people say.

The circumstances of the marriage are irrelevant. The moment Sam called Emma a monster and blamed her for her mother's death, she stepped into unforgivable, bridge-nuking territory. Divorce her and don't look back.

What the boyfriend did in story 1 is actually very dangerous. Getting spiked on a night out has the potential to kill you if it affects you badly. So the boyfriend clearly didnt care whether she lived or died. Whether he knew or not. What a POS. The tuition story is sad because of the mum saying those awful things but omg emma and tom are the most wonderful kids ive ever heard of. It just shows how good OP was at raising them.

Boyfriend in story 1 isn't exactly kind if he can't even be bothered to care about your safety...

Only $200??? I’d pay that and more to get my girl to the hospital faster and safely. That honestly got me really pissed.

Last story: hope op gets everything in that divorce, damn cheaters dont deserve an ounce of sympathy or anything at all

Last story: please let there be another update in the future because I want to hear all the details about how she went scorched-earth on both of them. It sounds like she's a toxic housewife type, and she has no right calling you a gold-digger if your husband pays for everything she has. I only wish I could have seen the look on her face after she talked all that crap only for his husband to defended you and confirm she was nothing more than very expensive Make-Believe. Your husband wanted the best of both worlds, and thought you weren't smart enough to figure him out given he didn't apologize first he tried to gaslight you in a pathetic attempt to make it seem like you're wrong for being mad.

@johannaleopold2612

10 ай бұрын

I bet the husband gloated how it was his business and the wife was only doing some secretary work or something - I hope they got the rude awakening they deserve.

@flippedoutkyrii

10 ай бұрын

In the Military-Sphere, they tend to call those types of spouses "Dependa's", living frivolously off naive Enlisted men in their early 20's who don't know they are being swindled out of their cash. I would LOVE to see an update because holy hell, she just admitted everything in her house came from OP's husband so half that shit will go to OP in the divorce proceedings lol.

Story 2: Umm no actually, anyone who thinks Op should forgive Sam DOESNT care about what she said. This vile woman told Op’s daughter that she KILLED HER MOTHER…ya theres no coming back from that. Op throw the gold digger out and focus on helping your daughter.

@Commanderbones

10 ай бұрын

Story 3*

Story 3: OP your daughter it sound like a very kind, forgiving young lady that will grow up to be an amazing woman where heart as big as hers. But what Sam said is past the point of negotiation. I don't care if the world was burning around her, you never ever tell a young girl she is responsible for her mother's death and was a monster. Everyone was happy with the situation why couldn't she just be proud that she's willing to pay for half of it tuition? It's amazing you're willing to do that much for her, my guess is Emma has also been receiving calls from family members trying to appeal to her gentle nature. Sam's own son is even understanding of why you can't be with her anymore, enough said.

Funny how Sam felt the need to lie about her actions to others. Almost like she KNEW she was wrong and no one would side with her if she was honest about what she did!! OP blast her and expose her completely to any flying monkeys saying “give her a chance 🥺”

“He’s a kind man who doesn’t want to hurt people” Girl, what?? No!!

Story 3 - OP did EVERYTHING right. He did not make a single wrong decision here. Sam should be ashamed of herself. Those were the single most cruel words she could have said to Emma.

@RealCoolstriker64

10 ай бұрын

… except being ok that sam favored her son.

Sam called emma a monster for being BORN. She can get gone. She should be glad that someone is willing to even pay half of Toms tuition. Just shame. Shame on her. OH THAT LAST STORY! I HOPE THERE'S ANOTHER UPDATE

Imagine calling someone else a gold digger when you had the same man buy you a house. Hope karma gets her and she loses the house when OP goes through with the divorce.

The level of delusion from that affair partner is off the charts.

The one rule I think everyone should agree on when they enter a contract of convenience is; DO NOT ATAGONIZE THE ONE WHO KEEPS THE SHIP AFLOAT. Do not bite the hand that feeds you, do not piss off your landlords letting you live rent free, do not ask for more comforts from your boss who gives you little work when its clear your presence annoys your coworkers. I can make more analogies.

@rentheseer190

10 ай бұрын

@@katiebroderick3498 I would concede to that point yes, however, holding over a person's head the "I took care of you for your entire childhood, you owe me your dead mother's money to help take care of my son, who has been a brother to you", is unfitting of a homemaker.

Story 1 is a good example of why everyone needs to develop healthy self esteem. There will always be people like OP's (hopefully soon to be ex) boyfriend and asking them to be nicer isn't going to work. All that works is if you become a person who can walk away from abusive relationships, but that starts with believing you are worth more than this.

Third story: OP's wife is an ungrateful controlling monster. Tom was grateful enough to thank his sister for paying for halp his tuition, but Sam not just thinks that wasn't enough, she also had the f*cking audacity to blame Emma of the death of her own mother. I'm with OP on this one 100%, she killed the marriage when she said Emma was to blame for her mother's death. And I hope Tom goes no contact with her when he is 18.

Story 3 OP says it was a marriage of convenience but it doesn't really sound convenient for his daughter. His wife gets money. The son gets a dad and a stable family. OP got childcare and in time, a son. But the daughter just got a babysitter. Compared to her brother, she ended up worse off. Feel like the daughter has lost out in a whole heap of ways here

Story 2: You ain't feeling it, dude. She at least emotionally cheated on you and you may very well feel betrayed. As the Slash said, you can change your mind and you seem on the fence. Maybe try counseling if you're really on the fence, but if you really aren't feeling it (and no kids are mentioned here), call it quits.

@klocugh12

10 ай бұрын

This is the bitter truth about reconciliation. BOTH parties can put their absolute 100% to make it work... and it still may not. There can be a fundamental inner disdain/disrespect harbored that for some people just cannot be rooted out as it would go against their very core to do so.

@BronzeDragon133

10 ай бұрын

@@klocugh12 (Shrug) And there's no problem with that. She's a cheater. If he's not cool with that, he's simply not cool with a cheater. I'm putting words in his mouth, but that's the way I'd feel. No thanks, there's the door. That's just the time I found out about. Bye.

Tom is a saint but holy shit that mom , holy shït . Im so glad that op didn’t take out his anger with Sam at Tom and that Tom and Sam has such a genuine sibling relationship. Op is a better parent to Tom than Sam is

I can't be the only one who imagined OP literally throwing the evident at her husband 😂😂😂

I NEEEEED a prorevenge update on the last story! That wife should take that cheating husband and his mistress to the cleaners!

Can we talk about how Tom somehow grew into a sweet, respectful guy, despite his mother???

The first story about op who was drugged just doesn't add up and makes sense and she just needs to dump this spineless boyfriend

@JimLambier

10 ай бұрын

It sounds like there was a lot of drinking going on at this party and the boyfriend's judgment may also have been severely impaired. Perhaps he couldn't afford $200 and didn't appreciate her medical situation. The sober taxi driver didn't. The next day when she was released from the hospital, she must have been okay so why was the boyfriend responsible for paying for her taxi home? Why on earth would she go out drinking the next weekend with the same group of people when she knows that one of them drugged her?

@KattoTang

10 ай бұрын

@@JimLambier He could've just called an ambulance. The taxi driver doesn't have to care about strangers, but her boyfriend should care. She obviously wasn't okay the next day, all the ER did was stabilize her, the drugs would've still been getting worked out of her system. And it didn't say she went out drinking the next weekend, just that she went out. If you think any of the boyfriend's behavior is normal or justifiable, then I worry for any women in your life.

From BF's reactions in the first story I'd almost be wondering if HE was the one who drugged OP. Using her as a guinea pig before he tried it on himself, or someone else?

@Robin93k

10 ай бұрын

Esspeccially with the information that he'll follow every of his female friends home, but not her, his own girlfriend... Sounds like he's the biggest danger to them.

Shoutout to Tom for not siding with his mom and being a great person, cuz it's clear he didn't take after his b***h of a mom. And seeing that Emma is also a great person, makes me think that OP is the bigger influence on both of them. I'm honestly surprised that OP didn't kick Sam out the minute she made the comment about Emma's birth.

First story: You can't convince me he wasn't the person who drugged her without video proof.

S1: "my bf risked my life over 200 dollars and continues to complain about 40 dollars spent on me while i was drugged, tried to force me to walk to the ER while i was falling in and out of consciousness, made fun of my traumatic experience, and doesnt show the same level of concern for my safety as he does for other women. But you know other than that He'S sO nIcE!" Girl...who tf hurt you so bad you think this is acceptable

Listening to your videos while I get ready always starts my day off right. Thnx for the content!

@JuniperDenn

10 ай бұрын

I love how everyone just has their own little routine for listening to these videos, I do it during cooking dinner or chores!

@softntired7082

10 ай бұрын

​@Elfling89 i watch em while i cook too lmao!

The life insurance/college fund story... I watch these while getting ready for college and hearing what the [soon to be ex]wife said to the daughter hit during brushing my teeth and I just had to stop and stand there. What in the sam hell??? Who says that to someone that's lost their mother??

Second family: when are these other women going to learn that the man always wants his first family not her.

I love how people on Reddit describe how their partners are absolute scum, and then say but aside from that "they're the kindest person I've ever met" C'mon people.

Story 3 - Cyndi Lauper said it best "I see your true colors shining through". No love lost there, though. Even without this meltdown, they probably would not have lasted much longer anyway. The reason for the convenience was gone, and the kids can still call themselves brother and sister if they want. Sounds like a good enough outcome to me.

Glad the OP in the last story didn't eat the breakfast her stbx made after they argued, since its the perfect opportunity to poison her. Never trust cooking by someone you're breaking up or after you've told them you're planning to disclose a truth that may destroy the other person's life.

Story 3, the dad is simply amazing

Story 1: Wow. What a cheapskate. If i were you girl i would've taken it as an instant break-up line.

@candlequeen8471

10 ай бұрын

If it were me, that alone would be enough to make him my enemy.

3rd story: Tom sounds like he grew up to be a decent young man. And Emma being able to forgive her is something OP should be proud of her for. But as far as everyone asking him to reconsider, in reality that has nothing to do with Emma or anyone else. It’s between them 2 and his feelings on the matter between them. He needs to leave.

Last story: Mistress: He bought me this house! Wife: As his wife, I own half of that house. See you in court.

Emma and Tom are such awesome young people!

Story 1: I hope the OP breaks up with her boyfriend because he’s showing his true colors and you could have been dead Story 2: when someone cheat once they’ll do it again so i don’t blame op for changing his mind Story 3: The OP is definitely a good dad and raised a wonderful daughter for helping her stepbrother The stepmother is definitely only interested in money and she’s mean why would you say that to a kid. And i don’t blame op for his decision because ya you’re daughter forgave her but the op doesn’t have to Story 4: RUN OP RUN this man isn’t fateful especially if he thinks juggling two family’s is a game and he’s been doing it for 3 years Ya leave op with your 2 kids and I’m sorry for you a lot Now the man wants back that’s rich because that man fucked up

What sam yelled at Emma was completely uncalled for and is something I would NEVER forgive a person for saying. Op definitely needs to get her out of his life and away from his daughter.

Developed countries who aren’t the USA reading story 1: “why not get an ambulance?” Seriously USA: get your shit together

Genuinely don't understand how people can afford to have 2 families, I can't even afford to have one.

"The next weekend I had to be with his friends again and …” *THE NEXT WEEKEND SHE STILL HADN’T DUMPED HIM?!?!* 😱

“You were always a monster, you killed your mother while coming into this world” And that right there is divorce worthy all by itself.

@thetruth1223

10 ай бұрын

Not just divorce worthy that's a right hand to the nose worthy...

Story 1: Why do I get the feeling the hopefully Ex BF was the one who drugged OP? Considering his disrespect, I honestly think he might have done that just to take advantage of OP but he screwed up the dosage and this happened. Considering his behavior, I wouldn't put it past him.

All I gotta say for the last story is a quote from Major Payne: “YOU WANT MY SYMPATHY? IT’S IN THE DICTIONARY BETWEEN SHIT AND SYPHILYS!”

Story 3: let's give a shout out to Tom. He was birthed by a narcissist but didn't become a narcissist

Story 3: I would ask Emma if Sam had ever said anything horrible like that before. Maybe it was just a one off thing in anger. But it’s also possible that Sam has been throwing horrible lines like that at Emma all her life, and it makes me sick to think that poor girl has had to hear that.

OP in the third story is a father 100%: not only was he supportive of his daughter, he was also supportive of his spouse's son, who he didn't have any blood connection. Kindness is not about being nice with everyone, kindness is about giving an opportunity to everyone. But if someone misses that opportunity like Sam, then there's no kindness to have there.

Story 1: "he refuses to protect me" Gurl, RUN. Of course there are more reasons to run, like him being so cheap that he bitches over money in a very dangerous situation, and that he makes fun of her for her situation, and has the gall to say "maybe I was drugged too Idk" But when you say "he refuses to protect me" excuse me, what? This isn't the first time? This wasn't a (very) stupid mistake? Run girl, run! You deserve better

Story 3: marriage often has tax implications, a married couple will pay less in tax than two individuals. Marriage purely for convenience can make sense, if both involved agree and know what they're signing up for.

First story: Op needs to leave NOW. They were DRUGGED and the boyfriend isn't even concerned about them. If ANYONE did something like that to someone I care about it would be ON SIGHT.

The son in that third story is lucky he had OP as a dad because it is CLEAR that both of those kids got their heads and hearts from their father.

I get that it’s the BF’s money, but to NOT be a human being and not ONLY failed to help OP out, but ALSO disrespected her, forced her to walk to the hospital, IGNORED OP’s please for help, LAUGHED/MADE FUN of OP *AND* was with ANOTHER GIRL! *RED FLAGS, OP! TRUST THE COMMENTERS!* Also, “He’s a KIND MAN*” HOW IS HE A KIND MAN WHEN HE KICKED YOU OUT OF THE CAR, MADE FUN OF YOU WITH HIS FRIENDS AND BRUSHED YOU OFF WHEN YOU FET LIKE BEING STALKED OR WAS SUFFERING FROM BEING DRUGGED?! Give me ONE THING that makes him a “kind man” in your eyes! You can’t, you ALREADY pointed out what he did AGAINST you, and he’s NOT even regretful or remorseful of his actions ONE BIT. His overall toxic attitude makes him sound like he’ll have NO problem with leaving you to suffer if you were severely injured. “Sorry, OP, I’d LOVE to help you out… BUT my money AND pride are MORE important to me than a pathetic and useless weakling like YOU. Hope you get better though, SEE YA!” OP, GTFO OF THAT RELATIONSHIP! And get a lawsuit against him! What he did are CLEAR evidences of NEGLECT AND ABANDONMENT, not to mention ENDANGERMENT when you were DRUGGED UP! The police can back you up, and I’m VERY certain that the BS BF’s dash cams can prove that as well! Gather any evidence you can throw against this monster scumbag, including texts! And make a post on your socials, warning others about what the BF did! He’s a danger to you AND to others in the near future! I hope to GOD that his parents hears about this and PUNISHES him for his selfish and toxic behavior!

*First OP:* So, OP's boyfriend 1. Walked to the hospital so he wouldn't have to spend an extra $200; 2. Complained about the $40 he did pay for the taxi ride; 3. Made OP walk from the emergency room while OP was still sick; 4. Joked with his friends about OP getting drugged; and 5. Is more protective toward his female friend than OP? Yeah, he's just not into OP. She should cut him loose. *Second OP:* I agree with rSlash. OP has a right to change his mind. His wife cheated on him, thus breaking his trust. It sounds like OP hasn't been able to trust his wife again, so he should consider divorce. *Third OP:* OP made the right choice. Sam crossed a lime, and there's no going back to that even if she apologized. Side note: OP sounds like a great dad who raised a great daughter and stepson. I'm glad Tom took more after OP than his mom. *Fourth OP:* WTAF?! I hope OP takes her ex's a$$ to the cleaners.

The moment Sam said that to the girl about her mother is the moment she lost any moral argument. That is monstrous and disgusting. There's a special place in Hell for people like that.

Once a cheater always a cheater, there is no such thing as reconciliation. The second you cheat your relationship will never be the same again.

It's 2:00pm here....always look forward to RSlash every afternoon....watch this on my afternoon break.

story 3 honestly blaming a child for their parents death should be a one ticket to prison

@TeasyLove

10 ай бұрын

or asylum more like xD

@sophietremblay3795

9 ай бұрын

@@TeasyLove yup

In the story about the college fund the fact that the kid that was the actual biological son of the entitled mom didn't turn out to be entitled like her is very lucky because lots of these stories that's usually what ends up happening.

Im literally going through story 2 right now, Fiance cheated on me 2 years ago and it hasn't been the same since. Definitely tough when the trust vanishes from the relationship

Story 1 Maybe the bf drugged her and was trying to drag her off alone to take advantage of drugging her? His behavior is either atrocious cause he doesn't care or suspicious, either way dump him and stay safe in case he gets violent

Wow. How can anyone actually say something that horrible as what Sam said? That's beyond words not okay. She's lucky the other people involved didn't straighten her out right then and there. If i heard my mom talk like that you'd better believe words would be the only thing flying.

Tom is more mature than his mother. OP should adopt him and officially become his father.

I can’t imagine trying to juggle two families. One is hard enough, and I have two full time staff to help.

Story 3 That father sounds like an amazing guy. He not only dealt with the death of his wife in a very responsible way but managed to raise what sounds like an extremely polite and generous young woman. The fact that she made the decision to help her brother get into a great university shows a level of maturity and kindness that is rarely seen in anyone. OP also seems to be a great father to his (soon to be) ex-wife's son. There is no violence shown from OP's side, only domestic and financial abuse from the ex-wife to both OP and his daughter. If I were reborn, I wish it would be to his family because he might just be the father of the century (unless the story is fake or skewed in his favor)

Story 4: Damn Queen Cersei, take it down a peg. I'd divorce after that, too. Saying that is unforgivable.

Story 1: the boyfriend drugged her. I think it's safe to say he didn't expect her to get as messed up as she did, so he panicked and took her to the hospital. This is why he is hinting that she owes him, was more concerned about money than her dying, mentioned he could have been drugged, etc. He's way more protective of female friends and not OP, because he knows she's not "in danger."

rSlash is the best thing to listen to/watch while I am working on crocheting or knitting projects

Story 1: Nah, bf is a genius. He knew the cops patrol route and just waited for them to roll by and saved a ton on cab fare! . . . /s Story 3: Well that went from 0-100 REAL fast. Holy sh!t. Tom's a good kid, though. I think OP and his daughter probably played a big role judging by his mother's behavior, so props for OP being a good influence and to Emma for being so kind-hearted. Last story: My theory is that they did not, in fact, really work through the loss of their son. Or rather, the husband didn't... or rather starting a second family was his twisted way of working through it. Can't be sure without knowing the exact timeline of events, but if they lost the son 10 years ago, that's plenty of time for him to lose it and start a new family. DOesn't excuse it, but it might explain it.

Its crazy that OP said tom is the pushy one. Dude was so happy and appreciative of emma. Its the wife thats pushy. Toms great!

Story 1: For some reason I'm questioning if the BF drugged OP. Cause his behavior of protecting his female friends and not her feels off. Story 2: This has a simple explanation, it's the 'reconciliation delay' that can happen when the person has an affair, immediately regrets it, and tries to shower the betrayed partner in affection. They literally love bomb their spouse for some period of time, then like a year or 2 later when the cheater feels like everything should have gotten back to normal, they dial back. As a result the spouse actually gets a chance to "think" over what happened. Story 3: OP needs to reread the line he wrote about his daughter, where he says "She would rather be hurt then to see someone else hurt" and realize the so called 'apology' from Sam is likely filled with thinly veiled backhanded remarks that she would be destroying a 'happy family'. And yes I'd leave over this, this kind of treatment over _money_ is completely unacceptable. Especially because the only reason the money is there is because Emma's Mother is *DEAD.* Story 4: Oh I remember this story, OP going scorched earth was exactly what she needed to do. He deserves to suffer for this.

About Divorce territory. If Emma's mother didn't die, Sam would maybe never ever get in their life and her son maybe won't be able to pay the half of the college.

I always want your videos to be longer when we get to the end. But then I realized it's almost 20 minutes long. You're just really good at engaging people

Story 3: anyone else catch that OP is going to pay alimony and for a 1 bedroom apartment for Sam, which he doesn't have to do? Maybe OP should instead use HIS money to pay for Tom's college instead of expecting his daughter to do it.

If someone insulted my daughter like that I'd quite literally throw them out of the house.

Story 1: BF probably drugged OP, had to get a taxi because people were watching, pretended that the taxi driver kicked them out, then the police showed and foiled his plans. Gets what revenge he can by making OP walk home, and later has everyone make fun of her. RUN!

On 4th story - the fact that Sam could raise Emma for 17 years and not think of her as her daughter is outrageous to me. My brother is adopting his gf's son because he's raised him for the past two years and sees him as his own child. I see him as my little nephew, too. How can you spend that much time with a child and not see them as your own.

story 3: Good on OP for NOT selling his soul to a "Demon in the Sack" when it was clear the Demon was being a jerk to Emma.

Story 3: The only reason Sam wants to get back together is because she knows she's well past her prime and she won't be able to find someone else to take care of her. Her quality of life is about to take a huge hit because of her actions and she knows it. She wouldn't even bother to apologize if it wasn't for that.

story 3: the way that i audibly gasped when sam pinned the mother's death on her daughter? what an absolutely horrific thing to say to someone. the fact that her son went with op says everything