How are you having a 7th child when you don’t even have a home to raise your 6 children. Insane.

@yobabycolin2933

6 ай бұрын

She gets 3/5 buttholes honestly.

@bibigamer502

6 ай бұрын

I think their plans were to have so many kids that OP would just move out and give them the place

@starquaked

6 ай бұрын

Disgusting really

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

It's worse when you remember that the daughter's family moved in while she was in the early stages of pregnancy with kid #6.

@javaman7199

6 ай бұрын

If you want to go to the court, this could start to violate zoning laws about how many people you can have in a single family residence.

Half Sister: Hard disagree with rSlash here. OP was accused of doing a thing she didn't do, and now the step sibling won't be in the same room as her. OP has every right to tell her father. It's literally a sitaution that involves her. It's not like OP knows something private about the step sibling, the step siblings partner did something wrong to OP. OP has every right to tell whomever she wants. The step siblings horrible partner told OP he had a crush on her. That's inappropriate and it's OPs right to talk about it to literally anyone she wants. The step sibling is making it out like there is a mutual issue, and there isn't. This isn't a spat between step siblings.

@avagrasty6532

6 ай бұрын

This!!! Plus how uncomfortable and gross op must have felt when her brother in law said he had a crush on her to her face. I'd say at that point it definitely involves her. She has a right to talk about something like that that happened to her.

@hmspretender

6 ай бұрын

They're actually half-sisters, but I still agree with you. 😊

@ChasenBrandstone

6 ай бұрын

Exactly. RSlash has a bad habit of supporting abusers on this channel and victim blaming.

@hmspretender

6 ай бұрын

And she did everything right! She and her husband discussed it and agreed to never allow that guy back into their house and left it at that. They weren't going to say anything, until half-sister made a big thing over it and blamed OP for her own husband's feelings.

@dinlupus3196

6 ай бұрын

the sister said that she and her husband won't be in the same room as her for "what she has done", it makes me wonder if the husband told her that it was Op who "confess her feeling" or something of sorts

Story 1: That daughter needs a new damned hobby. Kids aren't Pokémon, you shouldn't keep trying to collect them all.

@ratchetandclankfan2

6 ай бұрын

i feel awful for laughing but couldnt help it

@shaereub4450

6 ай бұрын

​@@ratchetandclankfan2 Gotta Catch them all.

@zacharyjackson1829

6 ай бұрын

More like palworld. She's gonna get those kids workin

@cicerothenekoknightplaysall

6 ай бұрын

​​@@shaereub4450 crotch goblins gota catch them all poor parenting

@Brians2019

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like my one cousin. She married into a catholic Italian family and she is currently working on baby number 6 and news from my great aunt is they are going to have one more and then stop. I don’t believe it. I try not to judge people and if they want kids that’s their choice, but this story really reminds me of it.

Story 1 *Op lets her daughter, daughters bf and their 6 CHILDREN live rent free for months* Daughter: How can you be so selfish!!! The entitlement is OFF THE CHARTS HERE. NTA Op, i also LOVE how the daughter tried to play the “courts” card and Op immediately shot it down

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

It gets worse when you remember they've been living there for the last year & a half and the youngest child is _11 months._ Which means that the daughter was in the early stages of her pregnancy with kid #6 when she moved in.

@1musamune

6 ай бұрын

the entitlement make me think once these kids are of age she's going to constantly extort them for money 'she's owed' for doing what the law requires.

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

@@1musamune Don't forget about parentification!

@raarasunai4896

6 ай бұрын

@@1musamune Yup, I had a grandma like that. She’s still alive(unless she died this morning and my family has yet to inform me) but she isn’t part of my life anymore. I will not miss her

@CSKaras

6 ай бұрын

@@danielbrant6740 It gets even worse. Her first child was born when she was around 17, meaning she got pregnant around 16. That means OP and hubby have been supporting her and her babies on and off since then.

Imo, having a 7th kid when you can't even take care of the ones you already have is the actual selfish move here.

@HobieInTheBox

6 ай бұрын

It's abusive tbh

@fdm2155

6 ай бұрын

Not only that but expecting your parents to be thrilled when your family of 7 has been freeloading off them for years! 🤣🤣

@orchidoxs126

6 ай бұрын

​@@HobieInTheBoxRight. Basically neglect because they can't take care of their kids due to their poor choices Like if you want a big family, have a big family. But only if you can take care of them all. You're living with your mom to help save on rent, so you can save to buy a house. Guess who didn't save up the money, YOU! Guess who made irresponsible choices, YOU! You wanna sit here and cry because... you took your parents kindness for granted and kept making more terrible decisions? I feel horrible for those kids. Also how do they find the time to make more babies? Like 6 kids.

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

Even worse, the daughter moved in when she was expecting kid #6.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

She could qualify for free birth control depending where she lives. She opt to make herself a baby factory instead.

Gotta disagree with the half sister post. The half sister was causing all of the drama there, starting with blaming everyone except her husband for his emotional cheating. The half sister should be living the consequences of her actions, not OP and OP was more than kind and gracious for dealing with it so long.

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

TBH, it feels more like she’s blaming everyone except herself. The read I got from this story was that the half sister is so nasty her own husband couldn’t stand to be around her.

@hmspretender

6 ай бұрын

Agreed, but I wouldn't call it emotionally cheating. Developing a crush on someone, even when you're married, is normal. And he crossed the line by confessing it to OP because he was hoping to cheat. However, it's still only one-sided so he didn't actually cheat, this time.

@Tustin2121

6 ай бұрын

@@RealCoolstriker64- Agreed. Sounds like a “we must stay together for the kids” situation that only causes everything to get worse.

@SonLuffa

6 ай бұрын

5x-14

@user-ut3jk7it6c

6 ай бұрын

I disagree with you, it was op's fault her sister's husband wanted to f^ck op

Brother-in-law crush: R slash. What did OP do wrong? She didn't flirt, was willing to forgive, AND keep her mouth shut until the father pressured her to tell. 0/5

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

And it really wasn’t her business to tell daddy that sister was being a meanie!

@Lu13s

6 ай бұрын

​@@lorilancaster5917 it was. Everyone was barking up the wrong tree and Op had to tell them so.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

@@Lu13sI was referring to the other sister but I can definitely see how it was lost in translation

@survivedandthriving

6 ай бұрын

This. Also, it's really creepy that rSlash thinks this ought to be a secret at all, especially one to be kept by OP. Essentially he's saying 'hey women, when a guy gives you unwanted advances, yeah, that a shameful thing FOR YOU and you should keep it a secret, especially because saying something will make a problem FOR HIM.' I hope he isn't teach this BS idea to his daughter.

@MetaDragoon

6 ай бұрын

​@@survivedandthrivinghe is super big on most generalized material except household matters... very much on the "house matters should be kept private" kinda side which is literally how you get "oh didn't anyone tell you we don't leave kids along at Uncle Malik's house? He has... control issues" said to someone newly married into a family... After the kids are in danger :/

I'm religious but I've thrown away many a religious pamphlet that's been shoved into my hand over the years. Some of them just say terrible things and it contradicts the teachings of Christ. There's one pamphlet that flat out said 'you are not unique and you're not special without God' and I nearly screamed at the woman who gave it to me. I then went on a Bible quote rampage on her before I stomped off because I was going through a really tough point in my life and that pamphlet really triggered me. Op is NTA EDIT: For crying out loud, what's this the fighting in the comments?

@karlaboerger3619

6 ай бұрын

The whole bible is contradiction.

@gilded_lady

6 ай бұрын

While in college had someone try to convert me (I was agnostic then, I'm athiest now) by saying we were nothing but mud and it was God's love that made us into worthy beings or some shit. I just remembered looking at him and telling him that is dumbest way to try and convince someone. Just made them look so brainwashed and dependent on others for validation!

@autisticwitch7581

6 ай бұрын

So many "religious" people have lost the plot and are just using it as an excuse to be bad people. It really is a shame because it can do such great good but it's so easily corruptable.

@izae_lifestyle

6 ай бұрын

@@karlaboerger3619no it’s not

@izae_lifestyle

6 ай бұрын

Dang ya these people are going about it the wrong way. Makes us look dumb :/

Hella disagree on the half sister situation. Its the fact that her half sister didnt tell anyone that lead op to telling her dad. Plus it was her secret to tell because it directly involved her.

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Yea

"Oh you were sexually assaulted? Well you shouldve kept your mouth shut because now youre only causing hurt to this other person and its not your story to tell because the person who hurt you has a wife" This is how you sound in story 3 RSlash.

@Robin93k

6 ай бұрын

Exactly! If you tell someone to keep their mouth shut about the truth, 9/10 times, it's the abuser talking!

@reuben3077

5 ай бұрын

Facts

Story 3: screw that, she tried to blame you because she didn't want to blame her husband, all you did was exist and she's blowing up your phone yelling about it somehow something her husband did is your fault. Now you have your father up your butt thinking you did something because she's so damn Petty she refused to be in the same room as you, it became your business when her actions ended up affecting you, she had more than enough time to explain what was going on or even lie about it.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

Or discuss in counseling so she could move on

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Yep

Story 3: Sorry, rSlash, gonna have to disagree with you about OP keeping her mouth shut. She took the heat for something *Tom* did. OP didn't develop a crush on Tom, Tom developed a crush on OP and Ellen still blamed OP. So, I don't think OP should've kept her mouth shut about what really happened

@razorone7923

6 ай бұрын

Totally agree on this

@reuben3077

5 ай бұрын

Exactly sometimes rslash takes are extremely wrong 😂I’m like did we hear the same story

OP's sister: "You don't have a real job" Also OP's sister: "Give me money" What delusional logic do you have to have- You know what? Never mind. I don't want to know.

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

All she has to do is apologize and stop cracking jokes about OP’s career. But she can’t, because she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

@It-is-me...Melsie

6 ай бұрын

The sister sounds very much the drama queen too. The "you ruined my wedding" is ridiculous. No persons wedding is ruined because they cannot get what they consider to be the idea dress. She's got heaps of time to sort something.

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

Choosing Beggar logic.

As the oldest of 7 kids, I feel bad for her oldest child. They’re gonna be taking care of all of those kids by themselves and gaslit when they say no.

Dabney Dabney Dabney.... *groan* Half sister - She didn't say anything... for an effing year. FINALLY, after a jab form her dad, FINALLY, she says what has been happening because half sister would not explain. Dabney, get a grip

Story 3: Not her "secret" to tell?! Seriously?! It's literally her issue to tell because her half-sister(HS) MADE it her issue by blaming OP for HS's HUSBAND'S feelings. OP had every right to finally defend herself after possibly months of taking the blame for something she never caused. OP is definitely not an AH in this what's so ever. Based on the post alone she did everything right and never overreacted, she shouldn't have to be punished for something she didn't do. It's not like she told their father something that her HS confided in her about.

@LilDevyl17

6 ай бұрын

I'm starting to wonder what the hell is going on with Rslash? Lately, his comments on the posts have been more "Miss" than "Hits" and I'm actually starting to wonder if he's doing it on purpose to get the Agorythym going by literally having some of these "Comments" in the Video that way people will Comment and next thing you know. The video is going around.

@survivedandthriving

6 ай бұрын

Agreed. The husband made it OP's issue the moment he girlfriend-zoned OP.

Story 1: people need to learn that you shouldn't have kids if it's unsustainable. If you can't fee's 3 kids, it makes no sense to have a 4th, ya know

@bibigamer502

6 ай бұрын

I think they either ignored that entirely or (hopefully but not likely) they were just not aware of it

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

I know "fee's" was a typo, but it's weirdly appropriate for this context. 🤣

@broski89

6 ай бұрын

5th story op taking Jeremiah 15 verse 16 literally. "I found the word and I ate it."

@agentmaryland1239

6 ай бұрын

If they live in the US, I can guarantee you that she's probably abusing it for foodstamps/assisted care. No one has that many kids in the US unless they're trying to abuse the programs meant to help those actually struggling with 1 or 2 kids.

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Yea really

7 kids and she has the balls to whinge lol

@TheDarkLink7

6 ай бұрын

Seems like in that relationship....... they both have balls

@LLandS18

6 ай бұрын

​@@TheDarkLink7😂

@joimumu

6 ай бұрын

She has more children than 3 families can normally handle

@Nerobyrne

6 ай бұрын

Seems like her hubby has enough balls for three men 😂

@kagome1000o

6 ай бұрын

lol whinge

"It's not your secret to share." WTH! It directly involves her, which makes it even more her secret!

If OP is taking flak for problems she ain't causing it's absolutely her right to say the truth she did nothing wrong

Ah yes: The victim of unwanted infatuation needs to just shut up and never reveal what happened to her. Hey RSlash - here's an idea, what if that were Lily? What if it were your daughter and say - the husband of one of her cousins, or something, who had a crush on her. Should your daughter just be quiet and not tell you what's happening? This is a pretty victim-blamey mentality. It was absolutely OP's right to tell her Dad.

@cheshire0772

6 ай бұрын

Super glad someone said first. I wonder what his take would be if a woman had confessed feelings instead? Or if the BIL had tried to kiss her or touch her in his drunken and brazen state? Very obtuse thinking, R Slash. 😢

@AngelJohnson66

6 ай бұрын

Yeah some of his comments have been WAY out there and are making me heavily reconsider supporting his content

@survivedandthriving

6 ай бұрын

This! So totally this! I responding both because I agree and because the original comment should be higher in the feed.

@KaveonMatthews

6 ай бұрын

Just another example of rslash being bad at his job

@andreasbernardi3654

6 ай бұрын

yo... rslash's getting roasted 😁

Story 2: everyone has their insecurities, even if it is true you don't get to decide what makes people angry/sad and what doesn't, before you make a joke like that you should know the person better, know if they are comfortable enough with their insecurities being made fun of. I hate when people make fun on my face because I lost half of it on the parking lot in a "bullying" incident Edit: in addition, this is real body shaming, you should be ashamed of yourself for insulting this guy with "you got a 1.5" donger" rslash, nothing is wrong with having that, you shouldn't use that as an insult and make people be ashamed of having that

@Cloudisy

6 ай бұрын

It may be because of my upbringing, but I think the son should’ve been told off too, since from the start it was inappropriate and was just a lead up to some inappropriate joke and in my family your kids do *not* make those jokes🤷‍♀️

@Smlchungus

6 ай бұрын

Thank you, I I've been thinking about and if man comments on a woman's a vagina everyone get uncomfortable but it's perfectly acceptable to talk about a mans penis size

@grizzly_manbanimation8436

6 ай бұрын

@@Cloudisy I think a stern talking to wouldve been good because he’s only nine and the daughter/niece is 16 and should know better.

@bladerunner3314

4 ай бұрын

@@Smlchungus Usually it's the tits.

@scorchinganimationsstudios8450

4 ай бұрын

The child is a child a kid is not going to know that some jokes just aren't ok I didn't I made a pretty insensitive joke when I was a teen it wasn't to be malicious it was just to try and make people laugh You know what happened to me? I had a Stern talking to they didn't threaten me they didn't get pissy they simply told me why the joke hurt people and why it was wrong to joke about and wanted me to apologize and after the explanation I did and do feel really guilty about it and I apologized Sometimes if you give a child means to grow they will surprise you

Knowing Rslash if it was a boy making fun of their mom's breast size, it would be a very different story.

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

“It’s only a joke if everyone’s laughing” until it’s about dick-size. THEN “you’re only mad because it’s true.” Until it’s about height or hair color when suddenly “it’s wrong to body shame people for things out of their control.”

@dragonriderabens9761

6 ай бұрын

@@RealCoolstriker64 ah, double standards and misandry Is it any wonder the alt-f4 rate among men is so high?

@Altoryu

6 ай бұрын

@@dragonriderabens9761 I think Rslash either needs to take another break or just quit doing aita posts for a while cause he has been making more shit takes of late

@destinysphinx27

6 ай бұрын

Rslash - A misogynist bully supporter, I really hope your daughter say something like his to you at 16 and you feel just as humiliated as OP maybe than you'll know 'It’s only a joke if everyone’s laughing'

@Smlchungus

6 ай бұрын

For real he's becoming a white knight

Story 5 cracked me up. She shows her hypocrisy by stalking OP and then calling her "unhinged"

@lancerevell5979

6 ай бұрын

Agreed, that fool needs to look in the mirror. Anyone claiming to "be called to lead people to The Light..." is so pushy and rude. 🤨

@bluestreaker9242

6 ай бұрын

@@lancerevell5979 Lol, right? I'd have hit her with "Mattthew 7:15: Do not be led astray by false prophets who disguise themselves as sheep, but are inwardly as ravenous wolves." Also an intriguingly relevant one being "Why do you notice the splinter in your brother's eye, yet fail to acknowledge the wooden beam in your own?" And, of course, there's my eternal favorite: "Do unto others as you would have done to you." So lady should take heed: if she be stalking others to preach empty words, she's inviting that same treatment onto herself. Like, seriously, it's creepy enough as it is, but if she were a dude, it'd be WAAAAY creepier. O.o

@sailorstar3148

6 ай бұрын

@@lancerevell5979And pretty creepy

@_Fizel_

5 ай бұрын

Seriously why can I only find TWO comments about the lady being a psycho stalker? LIKE WTF!!!

This is the first time rslash has gotten two wrong in a row. You think it’s okay to let a child publicly disrespect your body in front of everyone and no punishment? And the half sister one was obvious… “all she did wrong was blame you for her husband’s emotional cheating”.. yeah that’s psychotic… let the dad know before she changes the narrative.

@dimariahgunnemann3729

6 ай бұрын

This!

@FlashQuatsch

6 ай бұрын

He also body shamed OP himself, that rubbed me the wrong way

@jariccacierra8445

6 ай бұрын

This is an insanely bad take. It's not body shaming, it was a joke. And that reaction was insane. Add that to the fact OP called this literal child names and said she's "not real family" and 'not their real daughter" when she was abused and abandoned by her bio parents? Yeah no, no way that little girl is the AH. And they weren't in public

@this_is_a_tiny_town

6 ай бұрын

@@FlashQuatsch Yeah, it was all a big joke to him, what an asshole.

@lilicat9687

6 ай бұрын

Why was the mom discussing this with her daughter in the first place??? I’m assuming that the 16 year old who’s not blood related to the OP doesn’t know what his genitalia looks like!

The pushy lady in story 5 needs bare minimum 2/5 score. If she would have given her a bible verse on the plane and left it at that .5 but since she followed her and made a choice to act all weird about it she deserves more.

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

Yeah. She got on a tram going the wrong way just so she could corner OP when she was alone.

@autisticwitch7581

6 ай бұрын

​@@RealCoolstriker64man, it sounds so much worse when you put it like that. That lady was so creepy.

@stevenandcarminabeedle9089

6 ай бұрын

Yep she judged her, stalked her to “minister to her” or whatever she called herself doing. But her intent. Had she had kind words after OP responded the way she did, I’d think she meant well, although crossed the line. But she immediately called her names and said she was unworthy of grace. She needed to remind herself how much better than OP she thinks she is. That has nothing to do with God. These people don’t understand millions have been hurt by the church. Such a strong response is clearly indicative of that, but there are none so blind as those who will not see, I guess. I bet if she removed that gigantic plank from her eye she might see a little better.

@1musamune

6 ай бұрын

add on hypocrisy, or has she forgotten 'May he who is without Sin cast the first stone.'

@BVBGirl-3313

6 ай бұрын

Lmao "are you ignoring the light" WTF I grew up in a very religious environment, no one did this! The one guy who shoved a tract in a guys coat pocket and bragged about it got a lecture from the pastor. That lady was unhinged.

Story 4: that's funny everything mom said to you you could argue right back, it's only hurting mark because he thinks he has a right to be your dad without doing anything of her than marrying your mom. And if he really cared about your feelings he wouldn't keep trying to force this on you and the same goes to your mom too.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

Exactly. At this rate once OP turns 18, she will likely cut her mom and her spouse out of her life. They will not stop. Especially if OP ever gets married or has kids.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

And if they keep this up, mom will have no kid either because she’ll cut contact asap!

@mhammer3186

6 ай бұрын

Honestly, they did anything wrong people always add it to the Reddit story. So most likely based off the story all he did was treat her as a daughter.

Story 3: NTA. Instead of putting the blame on her husband who emotionally cheated, she put the blame on OP. OP didn’t do anything but give the man a safe space to unload his feelings, and she immediately cut contact when he confessed. OP did everything right, including telling her father.

@iamhungey12345

6 ай бұрын

*Story 3.

@venessafugi6768

6 ай бұрын

@@iamhungey12345oh my bad dude. Thank you!

@kristhebrownie

6 ай бұрын

I'm not overly familiar with emotional cheating, but does a crush count? I had thought it referred to a relationship that wasn't physical.

Gotta love how rslash ignores the half sister causing problems but says op should have done things differently and blamed the husband for emotional cheating which i dont think drunkenly admitting a crush counts as.

Pro tip: if someone ever hands you a religious pamphlet, just start talking about your own beliefs (make them up if you have to) without giving them a chance to talk. I have had people just straight up walk away. It's super satisfying

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

So you don’t want to hear about the amazing wonders of the Fonz?

@WasdTheory

6 ай бұрын

@@lorilancaster5917or the healing property’s of the allmighty skoobablang?

@thegreenbee83

6 ай бұрын

@@WasdTheoryor would you like to hear about our lord and saviour of spaghetti?

2nd story: If the “joke” has been about a woman’s weight instead of a man’s eggplant size, this would be universally admonished I still think OP overreacted, but that’s not ok for the daughter/niece to say, and I get the impression that crap like this is a common occurrence 1/5 for overreacting, and 2.5/5 for the niece because that’s what the score would be if the roles were reversed

@frogmaster7127

6 ай бұрын

“If her joke had been about something else, people would have reacted differently!!!1!”

@dragonriderabens9761

6 ай бұрын

@@frogmaster7127 if it was a guy making a joke about a woman’s weight, they would be

@frogmaster7127

6 ай бұрын

@@dragonriderabens9761 nobody was making a joke about anyone’s weight?

@turnpike9680

6 ай бұрын

​@@frogmaster7127you missed the point so hard that you flew into outer space lol

@frogmaster7127

6 ай бұрын

@@turnpike9680 I know that they were saying, I just do not think that the two are equivalent.

Final story: When will people ever learn? Don’t bite the hand that feeds you! NTA

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

I’m curious to know what little sis does for a living? OnlyFans?

@bibigamer502

6 ай бұрын

Unless you want to have your cake and eat it to

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

And what does sister do for a living that’s so admirable? I bet not a damn thing!

For story 3, WTF do you mean "it's not really your secret to share"?! It literally couldn't be more her secret to share. She is one of the 2 people involved in the uncomfortable interaction and OP was the one mistreated. OP didn't deserve to be pressured over this and it was already exceedingly kind of OP to not make this into a callout/confrontation when it initially happened.

It’s stories like that “Message from God” story that make me wanna learn some obscure language enough to be able to string random words together, in a low growl, and fake curse these people. Just say incomprehensible but real sounding shit in a venom voice, before explaining “just a curse, have a nice day”

@simu31

6 ай бұрын

In this particular case, it would *have* *to* *be* latin. Would freak the entitled "Christian" all the way out 😆

@AELGamer

6 ай бұрын

Latin or Hebrew would be hilarious

@edalynclawthorne5877

6 ай бұрын

@@AELGamer oh if its a christian, catholic or protestant person trying it, I'm absolutely using Hebrew. It would be hilarious to see them call that 'demonic' or 'evil' and casually forget what language the first bible was written in

@NotAFanOfHandles

6 ай бұрын

Whoa, flashed back to The Addam's Family Values movie _hard._ Grandmama was a riot.

*1st Story:* OP is NTA for kicking her daughter's brood out, but what worries me is that the daughter (and maybe her BF) will start parentifying the older kids if she's living on her own. I would recommend keeping CPS's phone number at the ready because there's a good chance of this being the case once kid #7 is out.

Story 2: I love when your true colors come out R/slash. Body shame a guy for his insecurites of a situation he has very little control over. Can't wait to hear you side with a teen who called the person taking care of them fat. Also, that was extremely disrespectful. For it to be a harmless joke you need rapport between the two parties and i dont think thay have that. Also if he does have a little problem the fact his wife would tell her niece who obviously does not like OP is wild to me.

@dimariahgunnemann3729

6 ай бұрын

I agree with you, he dropped the ball here as well as with the half sister story!

Story 2. Wow Rslash. Guy gets humiliated in his own home and you just dunk on him more. I feel like the punishment is just the culmination of a LOT of frustration on the guys part.

@melissaconnellyjones2622

6 ай бұрын

Why didn’t the son get any punishment when he’s the one who started it?

@NuSpirit_

6 ай бұрын

@@melissaconnellyjones2622 because son said "you will be invisible but your buddy will be visible" - sounds quite a bit different than "your buddy small". The same way you wouldn't tell a woman that her peach looks like dead racoon.

@grandmabethany6743

6 ай бұрын

@@NuSpirit_it’s still a joke

@grandmabethany6743

6 ай бұрын

@@NuSpirit_yeah you wouldn’t say that to a woman out of the blue correct, but that’s why context matters, the boy brought up the topic of his fathers penis for what ever reason, and the girl tried to act on it with humor, the same way people make humor out of a funny smell by referring to a lady, it’s situational humor, the world doesn’t need to be a sensitive crybaby mess where everyone takes everything seriously, life is miserable for most as is, so why take away peoples escape through humor

@turnpike9680

6 ай бұрын

I feel like rslash deserves an AH score for thinking it's okay and then doubling down on it by insulting OP on that story, honestly. I love jokes, but you don't joke about a circumstance of birth unless it's someone you know and you have their consent to make humor based on it. I feel like a good rule of thumb if you don't know how a person is going to react to that sort of humor is that if it's something out of that person's control, then don't joke about it.

Story 2: NTA, what is wrong with you all? That might be a type of burn said by a friend, not from a stepdaughter. Plus, why is the mother talking about this to her child? ETA: Swap the genders, and most people would be on OPs side. I've said it before, and I will say it again "If it's an AH move to do to a woman, it's an AH move to do to a man."

@Begunend20

6 ай бұрын

IKR!

@RLwolfthe5

6 ай бұрын

Yeah. I can't help but think that judgement would also be different if there were some role reversal, and switched to insecurities about breasts as flat as a cutting board. OP went a little over board, but he needs to have a serious talk with the wife.

@ghostgirl7089

6 ай бұрын

Truth. My mom would still be upset if I said something like that to someone and im in my 20’s

@monk864

6 ай бұрын

​@@RLwolfthe5EXACTLY. Flip the script and it would be a disgusting and perverse thing for his stepson to say about his stepmother add a disrespectful thing to say about a woman. Because it's about a man it's fine

@zakariaibrow8554

6 ай бұрын

The son brought it up so shouldn’t he be the one punished? Also why are you assuming that the mom actually talked about it with her people can lie when joking all the time

I love how Christians will actively tell people that they aren’t worthy. But apparently forgot that it’s not their business, and its not their decision to make. Last time I knew spreading the word shouldn’t be harassment 😂

@jeanbean7183

6 ай бұрын

You’re correct about the harassment part, and most Christians ( like myself) aren’t like that or the lady in the story ( stalker alert) if someone wants to learn more about being a Christian talk to them personally and privately and let them make their own decisions ( and that’s also coming from someone who’s refused a lot of those pamphlets before, weirdly most about Jehovah witnesses )

Story2: what is it that r/slash has said multiple times before? It's not a joke if people don't find it funny, then it's bullying. How about you hold up to your own standard of judgement?

@anonymouslyopinionated656

6 ай бұрын

its ok, he hates dads, because his didnt love him

When my brother announced their sixth, her seventh, mum was onlly please get a vasectomy 🤣

@stevenandcarminabeedle9089

6 ай бұрын

OMG that’s brilliant! If they’d only had like 3 or 4 and announced another one, Mom could’ve proposed he get a vasectomy or GTFO. But going on 7 is already too late. They need to GTFO.

standards: nope. Hard no. My parents divorved when I was 10 and there was 0% chance I was ever going to see anyone else as a parent. My dad has been married for over 10 years, and with his wife for over 20, and she's not my mom, she's not my parent. I think very highly of her. She's a really nice person, but I never had any interest in someone being another parent.

Story 2: R/ I think you enjoyed that joke a little to much. granted it was funny, but that still was an inappropriate and outline thing to say about you, so while I think maybe the punishment is harsh I wouldn't say a punishment isn't warranted either.

Eater of the word of God: I can do ya one better... I was walking around the Eaton centre, in downtown Toronto around Christmas time about 16 years ago. There was one of those people with a bell trying to get donations for The Salvation Army. They handed me a candy cane with a slip of paper on it. I read the paper: "Jesus is coming!" Without missing a beat, I whisper-yelled "ahhh! Zombies!" I. Regret. Nothing.

It became OP’s secret the second the sister made it about her.

Story 1: Oh please, OP I have a family member that would always Bank on our entire family to cater to them because we didn't want to see their kids suffer for their parents stupidity but eventually they do it so much that it's not enough anymore. And you know what happened? They got off their ass and actually started to work to be better to their kids now that they had no one who was willing to take their crap anymore. What you're doing at tough love seven kids and she doesn't have a place to live because she was banking on the idea that mommy and daddy will just let them stay there forever, but that's not what's going to happen. And they're going to keep doing it until more and more people get mad and tell them to go screw off so they'll have to get up and do it themselves, and given she has sick kids already with one on the way, the patients will run real thin real fast.

Story 2: Sorry not sorry, that “joke” is flat out inappropriate and just flat out WEIRD AS HELL to be made by your own damn children??? Like one commenter said, you’d expect that out of a friend, not your own… stepdaughter… that one weirded me out.

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

Also, whatever happened to “it’s only a joke if everyone’s laughing”?

@marlonvasquez6531

6 ай бұрын

@@RealCoolstriker64 Right??? A joke is something that everyone at the end of the day can laugh at without animosity. Clearly this didn’t happen here and it was pretty distasteful imo.

@daroguk8071

6 ай бұрын

​@@marlonvasquez6531Absolutely, felt like Rslash just wanted to get a cheap dick joke in instead of actually thinking about the daughters behaviour and would have definitely judged it differently if it was a son making fun of his moms small breast or something. You could definitely discuss whether a month is too much but the daughter's still definitely an AH here

@grandmabethany6743

6 ай бұрын

Y’all are a bunch of babies, it’s not distasteful to try out comedy in front of your family to try to get their approval, it’s what kids do, and for those who say it’s inappropriate, the nine year old boy literally said that his dads penis isn’t invisible, it would be more inappropriate to bring up such a subject, than it is to add on to a conversation with humor wether or not it sticks, op is a sensitive crybaby

@killerdiek800

6 ай бұрын

I thought I was going crazy! It wasn’t funny nor was it appropriate, you don’t get to just insult someone, as Rslash would say, “in their own house,” and not expect consequences.

If we flip the genders in story 2, and it was a boy saying his step mom has small breasts, would this still be an overreaction, or an overstepped boundary on what's appropriate?

@Gabriel-lh7gy

6 ай бұрын

Yes it would, you don't ground a kid for a month for a dumb joke not even considering that op's kid that started, that just adds hypocrisy points for the punishment Either both kids are wrong for the sexual comments or neither are no matter the gender

@melissaconnellyjones2622

6 ай бұрын

It was the son who started it, why aren’t you criticizing him for his joke, or is that okay because he’s the same gender?

@stevenweaver7862

6 ай бұрын

@@Gabriel-lh7gy See that's fair, but I've noticed RSlash tends to judge men more harshly in these AITA videos

@Gabriel-lh7gy

6 ай бұрын

@@stevenweaver7862 oh no rslash 100% favors woman over man, it feels like a overcorection like he is trying really hard to not be called misogynistic if I remember correctly a while back he had to take some time away from the channel after being called out so much

@stevenweaver7862

6 ай бұрын

@@Gabriel-lh7gy Yea and he was a lot better after the break, but I feel like this one was bad take. He contradicts himself sometimes on what's funny to say to someone. "It's only a joke if everyone is laughing" is something he says a lot and I feel like the son saying "You're invisible but your wiener isn't" is just a funny drawback, and way different from straight up insulting someone's body, and even though OP certainly over reacted, I feel like if a son insulted his step mom's body RSlash would raise pitchforks.

Story 5: this was a complete stranger who followed you all the way on to a bus to try and lecture you because she didn't like the book you were reading, the last thing you needed to be is nice to some know the busybody who thinks she has a right to lecture you about her faith, and this is coming from a Christian. Frankly she's lucky that's all you did the wrong person would have cursed her out, I can't stand people that try to lecture strangers like That.

@PyroRoadScout

6 ай бұрын

Lol that'd be me, I'm the wrong person. Like OP I also grew up in NC and I'm a queer atheist, so I've had my fill of people throwing their religious judgment at me. If that were me, the second that lady said she stalked me from the airport I would have lost my shit on her

@madgevanness4011

6 ай бұрын

Well, you could have cited the story of Tamar…..

@madgevanness4011

6 ай бұрын

And then there’s Judith and Holofernes. And Dinah. And Ruth. And let’s not forget the repeatedly cheating prophet’s wife. And David and Bathsheba and the death of Uriah. And Jezebel. I think I may have missed a few of the more scandalous episodes, but while the Bible uses the episodes as a how not to live, they are in there.

Story 4 She called YOU the unhinged jerk? The innocent person reading a book in peace?!? The cult member who stalked you, harassed you and then upon receiving negativity threw her own cults values out the window. She's the unhinged one!!

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

She could’ve gotten kicked off the team with her harassment.

@angerydestroyer

6 ай бұрын

It’s more creepy to follow someone then try to force someone to do something by there standards then saying *god is all* or some shit like that seriously I would of done the same

@angerydestroyer

6 ай бұрын

Meaning eat the paper

Story 1: 10 people in one home, where the hell did those two find the time and space to MAKE baby number 7?!

Story 1: You need to add up all the bills from them living there, what rent would have been had you been charging them, post it, and ask how much they actually saved for getting a new place. Because that was the deal, right? If they have anything else to say that isn't a dollar amount, you have your answer. The words "mooch" and "leach" come to mind.

If your adult enough to have 6 going on 7 kids your adult enough to live in your own home.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

And why couldn’t they stay at baby daddy’s parents? It’s either OP or the streets?

@reddiamond6524

6 ай бұрын

Not sure if it was mentioned but maybe baby daddy's parents already said hell to the no.

Last story: NTA. How many times should i tell you people? NEVER BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU!

S1. Nah. OP's daughter gets at minimum 0.5 for each kid past the 4th, and 1.5 for the rest of her nonsense. Her fiancé gets a total of 3 also. There is no way those kids are getting the time and attention they need from their parents, and farming that out to grandma so they don't have to is neglectful. It will have lasting repercussions on those kids. Wouldn't be surprised if the oldest kid gets parentified already, getting the little ones ready for bed or something.

Story 5: I don't think OP is the butthole. If you're religious, that's fine. I won't tell someone what they should or shouldn't believe or berate them for their beliefs. All I ask is for that same respect to be reciprocated. Just live and let live.

Story 2 I have to heavily disagree with Rslash. I don’t know what parents are like now a days considering that Rslash thinks that joke is ok but if I said something like that in front of adults when I was a kid I would expect to be punished. There’s a time and a place to make jokes like that when you’re a kid and that’s not at a party in front of your whole family. She got of easy for my childhood.

@Roo2Cat

6 ай бұрын

She’s also 16 and should know better than to say something like that in front of parents and young sibling

1st story: One good tip for parents of adults who move back home for whatever reason. Ask for rent and put that money in a savings account. Then when the kids are looking for a home they can use that money to pay for it. That way you don't have to rely on them saving money on their own only to one day be disappointed to find out that they haven't. My mom did that for my stepbrother and it worked like a charm.

That is not a joke a 16 year old is going to make about her father. Not really sure where the 9 year old son got that idea but that was not a good thing to say.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

Thank you! I’ve commented about this too and wonder when I see someone else agree!

@bleakr-9887

6 ай бұрын

Apparently everyone’s ok when you body shame a man but not a woman

Story 1: so they're not doing well, but wanna have more kids anyway? yea-no. they aren't upset about losing the home. they want a pair of servants on hand to handle EVERYTHING

The bible pamphlet story, also grew up in the same area (even same state). Moved to a different state to finish high school, where there was a kid who spent every lunch handing out bible pamphlets, who decided to come over to me. A bit of context, kid's uncle was a teacher who told a girl her sister was going to hell because she was lesbian. I was sat across from 2 girls in my psych class. He shoved the pamphlet between me and my phone, and I panic blurted "I'm already gay" The two girls across from me, holding hands, "Us too, don't bother" I never had a conversation with those girls, didn't know they were dating before then, but it got the kid to not come be aggressively religious in my face again before I graduated

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

That's pretty great. I hate it when people are like that. They're fake and they give real Christians a bad name

14:00 I was already imagining myself chewing that stupid paper before you even mentioned that she did it. Something similar happened to me except I was pregnant and trapped in a room and this nurse kept preaching to me and gave me a pamphlet on jebus. So I set it underneath my drink (a cup very wet with condensation) and said thanks. She didn't talk to me again after that lol

Message from God: Both of them are weird, but that lady is an AH for following OP.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

Stalking. She stalked not followed.

@asmith8692

6 ай бұрын

I once had someone tell me that the book I was reading would rot my brain. I thought "well, it's my brain, so why is it your business?"

@GeoToni13

6 ай бұрын

Nah op wasn't weird, they were on jet lag plus got triggered by the religious nut job. I've had a few encounters with people like this and yeah it's annoying af!

@LilDevyl17

6 ай бұрын

@@asmith8692 Had someone tell me that when I was reading Psyological Horror Story and I just looked at them and went, "Yeah, that's the point! What's it to you?"

Dabney, how was it not op's story to tell? She was directly involved! Starting to believe what ppl have been saying in comments on your other videos. Giving these bad takes just for more engagement ain't a good look dude.

Idoicracy was 100% a documentary. From what I see people doing IRL and posting online, that movie is slowly become more and more of a documentary.

@TheSecretLover

6 ай бұрын

“So wait a minute. What you're saying is that you want us to put water on the crops?”

@smokingtough

6 ай бұрын

@@TheSecretLover brawndo's got what plants crave. It's got electrolytes.

First story: getting an 8 passengers vibe or 9 kids and counting.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

I was thinking baseball team

@ScooterBond1970

6 ай бұрын

I was thinking octomom

@TheDarkLink7

6 ай бұрын

Both of these from octomom and baseball team works just as well.

Story 3 was a bad take in the sense that op did absolutely nothing wrong or incorrectly. You can never be the bad guy in a situation where you didn't do anything wrong and exposed the truth on someone else's lie. It's not her fault bil had a crush on her. It's not her fault bil and sister were having marital problems. It's not her fault her sister is insecure. It's not her fault that sister chose to lie to their dad about the situation. She is not to blame for not wanting her father to think she is just as petty as her sister.

standards; disagree with rslash on the rating. The parents get at lowest 3 out 5. They are trying to manipulate and force OP into accepting this person as a father.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

I’m surprised they didn’t try and force adoption. I guess it’s because OP is at an age where the judge could easily listen to her feelings.

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

*Mother & her husband.

It's really amazing that you were able to buy a wedding dress with fake money, seeing as your job isn't real /s If it produces an income, it's a job.

1:57 yk what's more unfair? having to babysit 6 grandkids all day unpaid while their parents also live under your roof without paying rent

*First OP:* They got us in the first half, not gonna lie. OP is NTA. Two months sounds like enough time to find a new home. *Second OP:* Was the joke mean (albeit funny)? Yes. Was it worth confiscating her things for two weeks? No. OP is TA. I wonder if his stepdaughter is actually all those things he said about her. *After some thought, I wonder if what OP's stepdaughter said was the final straw for OP and that's why he reacted the way he did. My verdict still stands either way. Two weeks is excessive. Two days maximum would've been better.* *Third OP:* OP is right; she shouldn't catch heat for something _she didn't do._ OP is NTA. Controversial opinion, but her dad wasn't sounding to great in this story along with Ellen and Tom. *Fourth OP:* OP pretty much said what I was thinking. OP is NTA. *Fifth OP:* While an interesting (and funny) response to the woman's meddling, OP is NTA. It's too early for that mess. It's _always_ too early for that mess. *Sixth OP:* Something, something, "Don't bite the hand that feeds you." OP is NTA.

@dragonriderabens9761

6 ай бұрын

2nd story: Idk what the situation with the daughter is, so I’m gonna put that to the side Could be either one, we don’t have enough info to say for certain I agree OP overreacted, but frankly, that joke was not ok And I say that because if it was a 16yo boy making a joke about a woman’s weight, it’d be admonished by everyone. I’m not doing the double standard thing here, so I’m judging the daughter the same way I would that, and that’s an ESH, with the daughter being the bigger AH

@K3yoshee

6 ай бұрын

⁠@@dragonriderabens9761that was exactly my thought. The joke was inappropriate but the punishment doesn’t fit.

@kajhalkasraei2796

6 ай бұрын

In the second story : what if she joked about the wife's Wright? What if she made a fat joke ? Joking about size is also body shaming . Why shouldn't it be punished just like fat jokes ?

@grizzly_manbanimation8436

6 ай бұрын

@@dragonriderabens9761 yeah I too am on your side. Even if the punishment was extreme and if the daughter isn’t like how OP says she is, that joke was very inappropriate. She shouldn’t be insulting a man’s dick size especially right in front him. I guarantee that she can’t take the heat if someone insulted her bust size. Which I would also speak against.

@SkunkApe407

6 ай бұрын

I'm gonna disagree with #2. She's 16. I guarantee you that he paid for both of those devices, and is paying the phone bill. If she's that rude and disrespectful on a regular basis, don't make it two weeks. Sell them, and make her get a job and buy her own. If she's grown enough to make jokes like that at the expense of the dude literally funding her life, she's grown enough to fund herself. She's not even legally adopted, so she isn't his responsibility to house, feed, or even tolerate. She can go find her deadbeat mommy, if she wants to be that way.

2nd story: the fact that the son was the one who brought it up to begin with was already addressed but can we talk abt the fact that the daughter was supposedly parroting smth she heard her mother say? Like OP not only overreacted imo, it kind of sounds like he's not pissy w the right person (and, jumping further to assumptions, mightve just been waiting for an excuse to retroactively punish stepdaughter for all her terrible brattiness)

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

Whatever happened to “it’s only a joke if everyone’s laughing”?

@melissaconnellyjones2622

6 ай бұрын

The daughter wasn’t being literal when she added the “that’s what mom says” line. She was just adding a little extra snark onto the burn, just like thousands of others do when cracking the same type of jokes.

@mariyamarkova5672

6 ай бұрын

Am I the only one who thinks talking about a family member's private parts with literal children is kinda inappropriate? The nine year old probably knows the penis is not supposed to be shown to people and this is why he proclaimed this to be the weakness but the sixteen year old is fully aware of the sexual connotations when discussing the size of a men's reproductive organ (she definitely meant to insult OP). I still think it was the last drop for OP and this is why he overreacted but there is no excuse for making hurtful comments disguised as a joke.

@impishrebel5969

6 ай бұрын

@@melissaconnellyjones2622 That doesn't make it any less disrespectful. When I was a 16 year old girl I NEVER said anything like that to my mom's boyfriends or joked about their genitalia. It's inappropriate, unfunny, creepy af, and I'm fully on OP's side here.

@dragonriderabens9761

6 ай бұрын

@@melissaconnellyjones2622if the “joke” was about a woman’s weight instead, it would be admonished I’m not doing the double standard thing here

7 kids!? 18 months of free housing and they didn't do anything to get out? By the looks of it didn't even save some money but hey another kid? Hell naaa. To the streets.

Story 3 the sister was not gonna tell anyone so how exactly would she “take the heat” instead? Op was right to tell their dad and it WAS her secret to tell because IT INVOLVED HER 🙄

I would never ever expect my stepkid to call me dad. I only asked him not to call me Late for Dinner because, you know, (step)dad jokes.

@EnDB

5 ай бұрын

If they are young enough, it just happens without asking.

Stop having kids you can't afford. Both monetarily and with time, love and energy. If you don't have those things in abundance for your child, don't have it. It's not your family, friends, neighbors, service worker or stranger down the street's job to raise your child or provide for it. Don't like those facts don't have them

S1: 6 kids and a 7th on the way?!? The daughter needs to get her tubes tied! OP did more than enough to let this entitled and brat of a daughter live rent free. Imo, she never planned to move out and expected OP to cater to her needs.

Am I the only one who's bothered by the fact that OP's wife told her daughter about his alleged size? I think that was definitely TMI, and, as such, she also deserves a butthole score. As for OP, himself, he definitely overreacted to that joke, but at the same time, we shouldn't infer that OP is the problem since there isn't enough information about her behavior in the story. It's entirely possible that his wife has raised this girl to be obnoxious. If that's the case, then it would be a case of EHS, except for the 9 year old. Stepdaughter story: it really pisses me off when SOs of a kid's parent try to force them to call them mom or dad. That's something the kid gets to decide, period! When my daughter decided to call me her stepmom (her bio mom was always a part of her life, but she didn't have full custody), even though her dad and I weren't married yet, I was honored. If she were to call me just her mom I'd be beyond honored!

@dragonriderabens9761

6 ай бұрын

Story 2, even only looking at this one e situation, I’d say ESH OP for overreaction and the daughter/niece for body shaming And the latter is the bigger AH

Regarding the religious hypocrite story, all OP did was expose her hypocrisy. I don’t like that she ate something that’s been who knows where, but I do appreciate the shocking response. The second OP reacted, instead of responding with love or some kind of kindness, she immediately judged (she might wanna go ahead and pull that massive plank from her own eye), called OP names and literally told her she wasn’t worthy of grace! In other words, that woman had no intention of showing love, but followed OP hoping for a chance to demonstrate how much better than OP she thinks she is.

Story 1: she isn't kicking her for having a baby, she is kicking her for having 7 babies ....with barely any age difference

@lancerevell5979

6 ай бұрын

The walking baby-factory needs to get the various babydaddies to chip in with child support for the kids they fathered. Are they all deadbeats?

@TiffWaffles

6 ай бұрын

I think she's kicking out the daughter because six children living in a cramped two bedroom house is unsustainable and would be putting a strain on them. Not to mention how the children would feel because they are living either with all of their siblings in one room or three or four of them shoved together in the same space. OP's daughter is selfish and the fact that she's having a seventh child when she's not financially stable enough to provide a safe space for the six she already has is not just irresponsible, but disgusting as well.

@dinlupus3196

6 ай бұрын

@@lancerevell5979 Op said that she gets child support of two of them so..its that at least....that leaves one of them being a deadbeat. and im not sure but i think she doesn't actually paid for the essentials, like food and OP say that they don't pay rent so that makes me wonder if they were saving or just using that money frivolously, doesn't matter because in both cases she is entitled and selfish, if she has the money but still dont want to paid for her own place or if she is using it for other things instead of thinking about the babies that SHE popped off

@dinlupus3196

6 ай бұрын

@@TiffWaffles i guess she doesn't like condoms ....or common sense...

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Yep. It's weird when parents do that

Last story: what does OPs sister work as if she's making less than someone who "plays on their computer".

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

I bet she’s a student planning on being a SAHW once the vows are said. That or MLM

From the realm of crab: Hydrate. Hydrate. Hydrate. Consider it practice for the life of living under the sea. Before you sit down, bring a bottle or glass of water with you and don't get up until you've finished, as a popular health youtuber always says. Your body is important and so are you, so take care of it until we reach crabhood. And as always: Keep on crabbin' 🦀

1: If they were saving money, they wouldn’t need help with the phone bills.

Last story: know what was petty was insulting your profession in front of all the people knowing you wouldn't say anything. Don't bite the hand that feeds you is a very simple and easy to remember phrase that will never not be relevant. And she clearly doesn't know what she's talking about because graphic design is a very lucrative business that is used for nearly everything, magazine covers, logos, advertisement, the list goes on. She doesn't respect your profession so she doesn't get to spend the money that it produces, you're not ruining anything she has a real job save up to buy the.

Story one: NTA. at First I thought OP was the bad person,. but the I found out the daughter has 6 kids and then she decided to have ANOTHER? She's freeloading. Story 2: Kinda proving her point aren't you OP?

@geistgrace6452

6 ай бұрын

Story 5: NTA, but probably shouldn't have eaten it just for safety reasons. If she was truly "Delivering a message from God" she wouldn't have acted with such distain.

@danielbrant6740

6 ай бұрын

It gets more horrifying when you remember that the daughter moved in while she was in the early stages of pregnancy with kid #6 (that kid is 11 months old at the time of the post, and her brood were living there for a year and a half).

@bleakr-9887

6 ай бұрын

Guess body shamings ok when it’s not towards a woman.

@dragonriderabens9761

6 ай бұрын

@@bleakr-9887exactly this I’ve said this multiple times now, and people don’t seem to listen I’ve gone with an ESH because OP did overreact badly, but the daughter is the bigger AH for sure

@bleakr-9887

6 ай бұрын

@@dragonriderabens9761 yea he definitely overreacted should’ve just told her it’s not ok to body shame and leave it at that. But lots of ppl in the comments are hypocrites

The story about the lady trying to guide the "heathen" to the Light just really irked me. My response would have been "oh you communicate with God, good; can you ask him what are the winning lottery numbers for this week's Mega millions & Powerball jackpots are? I don't think he's been receiving my prayers about them."

@joshuarangel3600

6 ай бұрын

I'm not saying that an omnipotent being doesn't communicate with her, I believe that such a presence does communicate with everyone but to flout it in someone's face that they are a messenger and you have to listen to them, that's not right We have free will dammit

Story 2: I really hate when someone gets hurt by a joke and people say “you’re only mad because it’s true.” Oh wait, they don’t say that. Because it’s only acceptable when the joke is about dick size. If it was breast size, height, or anything else someone would respond “but you still shouldn’t say it.” But when it’s dick size: it’s suddenly acceptable to body shame.

@RLwolfthe5

6 ай бұрын

Exactly. r/slash is pretty good to pick and choose when body shaming is GO or NOGO. OP did overreact, and the problem lies probably more with the wife rather than the stepdaughter. Is she seriously talking to her daughter about her husband's dick size?

@threecards333

6 ай бұрын

That is a point, but the problem was the son more than the daughter here. He started the joke and she just finished it. OP way over reacted.

@RealCoolstriker64

6 ай бұрын

@@threecards333OP definitely overreacted, but R/ literally gave her 0/5 and said she did nothing wrong before making a dick joke about OP himself. This is an inconsistent application of his own morals, and that’s what I’m criticizing.

@threecards333

6 ай бұрын

@@RealCoolstriker64 I would agree with that. She should get 1/5 for sexual joke about her step father, and get he should get 2/5 for the over reaction. If he scolded her or a minor punishment then he would be 0/5 but it is clear that the punishment was not for correction but vengeance. I would hold the same stance for any similar joke. I personally would not make these jokes, but would laugh it off if it was aimed at me, so perhaps my view is slanted.

On the "message from god" story all i could think of was "If this book really is such sin, than how do you know what it is?"

In instances like this, you charge rent from the beginning and then save it. When you've had enough, you tell them they have to go within 30 days, and give them at least half the money to go find a place to rent. In this case, that would have been $4500 back for the half and $9000 for all of it. Then you would not be in any position to feel bad about anything.

Morning rslash crew!

@thechaoticgoodbi

6 ай бұрын

Every morning 🌄

@typicalmovie7329

6 ай бұрын

Good afternoon

@frosty7581

6 ай бұрын

Good morning

@bubbleshock14

6 ай бұрын

Afternoon 👋

@SnaxTheSnaxolotl

6 ай бұрын

Gmoooorning

The last story struck a bit of a nerve with me, as my siblings don't understand what I do (I'm a cartographer, and they think that's unnessesay because "Google Maps exists", not realizing that 1. Google has to get their data from somewhere, and 2. Google maps does not by any means show the map details nessesary for basically any major project. I mostly map for large solar and wind installations). I finally told them, "If you don't respect my job as real, then you won't recieve any gifts or favors paid for with my 'fake job' money." They shut up real quick.

Last story: Graphic design is "toying on your computer"??? is she remarring in her 70s or something? I'd give her a digitally created picture... then taking it bk since "it's not real anyway".

Standards story: nta parents who force there kids to say that there new step parents should be introduced as "father/mother" when you don't want too and say you're making them feel left out are the worst because it clearly shows they care more about the "family image" instead of your kids wellbeing, remember no means no

Your rating on story 3 is highly strange

Seven kids????? SEVEN??? They know what causes that, right? Because I’m thinking they might not, at this rate. Also, it’s never an AH move to irritate proselytizers 😂 I love that move tbh

Story 5: As a Christian myself, that lady is a problem. You should feel proud for taking her aback like that.

Story 4: I give Rslash 1/5 AH score for not respecting op and calling ops mothers huspand her parent.

Story 2: Body shaming is okay when its a man thats being shamed I guess🤷‍♂ I would love to know if rSlash would hold this same energy if it was a teenage stepson talking that way about his stepmother, instead of a teenage stepdaughter talking about her stepfather. IMO you COMPLETELY missed the mark with this story rSlash. Saying you completely missed the mark is an understatement tbh. Society is all on this trend of "body positivity" and "dont body shame other people", yet that only applies to women?

@bleakr-9887

6 ай бұрын

Finally sm one else said it. Literally no other comments bout story two. No one cares about body shaming if it towards men. Bet if it was the other way around the comments would be all about story 2.

@dachless

6 ай бұрын

@@bleakr-9887 right! Idk how people didn't pick up on that

6th story: NTA. 'Hey OP, could you spend money of your hard earn job, to buy my dress?' 'OK' 'Also, your job isnt a real job' OP: *doesnt buy the dress* OP's sister: *Suprise pickachu face*

Funny thing about that Bible verse.... When my husband & I got married, I was a Baptist & he was Firstborn. They considered me "worldly" and non-religious because I wasn't from their church. The day after our wedding, we went to his church & the preacher preached on this verse the whole time & looked at us the entire time. I was the darkness that my husband had mixed with the light. We never went to church again. And now I'm an atheist 😂