Psychologist On If It Makes Sense To Get Back Together With Your Ex | 10 Points To Consider
You’ve broken up with your partner, or they left you - and now both of you are thinking about getting back together. Does it make sense, does it not? In this video I’ll share some important points to consider.
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Thank you!🙂
im 52, im giving up on relationships, ive had enough turmoil, now I will be alone and have peace
@DrMaikaSteinborn
Ай бұрын
All the best to you.
Long term relationships are often hard work. But - they are worth it!
Thank you Maika !
@DrMaikaSteinborn
Ай бұрын
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thank you Maika. could you make a video about how to deal with the issue of being cheated by another person and the problems that come along with it like lack of trust and the problem of perception like " who was i actually together with? i dont know who this person is anymore"
@DrMaikaSteinborn
Ай бұрын
That's a great topic. I've added it to my list of ideas and requests 👍
@aristark559
Ай бұрын
@@DrMaikaSteinborn is it also possible you think about adding this topic to your list? the topic of Ghosting and why people are doing it: just starting to ignore people you had some kind of relationship with before, and at the same time sending hidden messages through instagram posts to this same person ( protest-behaviour? ), sometimes very painful messages . - this is increasingly happening in younger generations today. they dont talk through conflicts anymore - they just ignore and move on to the next relationship, (because there are enough choices) and leaving big emotional tears for the people left behind ... it breaks the contract of trust between humans, which is a very deep desire and hard to repair
@DrMaikaSteinborn
Ай бұрын
Yes, I can put it on my list, but I can't promise anything, the list is very long 😅 The behavior you've described does sound very difficult to be at the receiving end of... Sending hidden messages could definitely be protest behavior, it could also be not wanting to commit, but also not wanting to let go at the same time - it sounds like some form of protective/defensive mechanism to avoid vulnerability which is necessary in open dialogue about conflict.
@aristark559
Ай бұрын
@@DrMaikaSteinborn i agree. i think that person does view open dialogue as "drama, oversensitivity by the OTHER and feeling annoyed by difficult conversations" - so, its easier to ghost someone. i read comments from people on youtube who ghost other people - and it seems, these are the main reasons for them to ghost someone - because dialogue its only words, it doesnt solve anything and its not their responsibility to teach the other side about their wrong behaviours. so ghosting is the way to go... im not even sure if it is "emotionally immature", because these people really stand behind their opinion, so its part of their valuesystem
@DrMaikaSteinborn
Ай бұрын
In most cases, ghosting isn't very fair. In many cases, the other person benefits from knowing/hearing why the ghoster wants to cut off contact.
yep, same shit , I should of known better