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@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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I think that logically ppl know that narcs don't all of a sudden become zombies when it comes to their bad behavior. However...I do think it's a form of denial. Folks don't want to believe that others can be so hateful on purpose

This really helped me regarding my mom. She is so good at acting innocent.

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Not only do they know that their behavior is wrong, they savor any fallout and relish their false estimation of their power.

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Agree. She lied until the very end, giving false promises even after I kicked her out of my life. The impact is that she totally destroyed my life over the course of 5 years.

Narcissists beware. I'm a black belt in Zung Fu. Hiyaaaaaaa .....

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@otdreamer193IRONFIST-yx6gn

Ай бұрын

Zung Fu, Good one.

They know, because they don’t do it in front of others, they try and isolate you. They present a different person to others!

Agree. The word NO just sends him into fits. Then I tell him what he is doing and I'm not playing in that sand box. He is learning to put himself in time out. When he again starts to relate it's like nothing happened. Baby steps.

@happy9110

29 күн бұрын

Ur delusional for thinking u can Change him

Dealing with a Covert Narcissist. Not fun! "Agree"

@RebeccaZungEsq

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My stbx-narc just used judicial conciliation as a platform to attempt to discredit me by submitting his written narrative of our 27-year marriage to the court instead of the financial documents needed to finalize a settlement in our divorce! Of course, his narrative was full of lies, blame-shifting, and deflection. I read his narrative and laughed! I just read your book, Rebecca, and his words were like the ball in dodgeball... thank you for that reminder!!

@user-bi5mq4yy6r

Ай бұрын

Precise Analogy!!!🎉

I was getting a lifetime protection order and my ex narc wrote in an affidavit that he knew I was afraid of him but behaved in a threatening manner anyway. He continued on to say I was the abuser

Agree..I know he kno wht he does when I was dealing with him..and the word NO sends him into fits of RAGES 😡

They can respond with that nasty word salad thing. That leaves the issue unaddressed. You get left confused and exhausted. Worse. They think they have "won" because they bullied you into frustrated silence. It's like they're daring you to end things which unfortunately is what you end up doing if you're lucky.

@bridgetbanwell3582

Ай бұрын

This made me chuckle. I've had the same experience as you!

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I have a team of 2 narcissist managers who walk around together bullying the people they manage. They both have all the traits you listed in this video. One is bad enough, but 2!!?? Yikes! Thank goodness the positions they have, move on quickly. Thanks as always for your insight. It helps get me through. (It's amazing how many people in my life or around me are narcissistic.)

Agree 💯. I experienced this with the last narssicist interaction. When I confronted a negative behavior, the narssicist did the blame shift routine. I countered with indifference. It ended up with the narssicist leaving. However the narssicist had to get the last word ( Parthian shot). I understood this abuse tactic and allowed to leave and rage. After this happened, I never heard from them again. I didn't take personal. 😊

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He will take his nasty secrets to the grave. I've caught him every way. Most recently with his Google voice assistant recordings. It's his distinctive voice asking for his contacts he claims he doesn't have and repeatedly. It's him asking for his pay balance from pimping them. I hadn't even gotten to play them yet and he was saying it wasn't his voice.

My mother hangs up on me and stops talking to me. The silent treatment is her go to. I was letting her know that she had said something that hurt me and proceeds to say "can't you take a joke I don't have time for this" then click... I text her and said when you hung up on me you hung up on our relationship, I'm done.... this has been going on forever! I'm 60 she is 83. She proceeds to tell my brother I don't know what is wrong with your sister we aren't talking...

@karamason2340

Ай бұрын

It's so sad that parents do this and care less at the destruction its causes.. that these types Never Grow Up & Assert change- through Honesty, accountability, therapy, & then initiate making sincere amends

@cheryl63...

Ай бұрын

@@karamason2340 thank you for acknowledging me...

Yeah I Fully Agree & Believe that they do Fully Know wtf they’re doing. (Edit: Sorry this reply is Soo Long 🤦🏻‍♂️💭) And My Main point being that you also addressed & my own personal point is That “They lie,hide,switch,minimise the wrongdoing they did,whatever of many it maybe” You Wouldn’t Lie About being seen driving a car last night IF You Honestly Genuinely Wasn’t drinking last night So unless you’re on a driving ban WHY Would you Lie???🤷🏻‍♂️💭)just an example. And then it goes on with the whole deflecting,rejecting etc… And then there’s the whole When Someone Gets Really Angry (& tends to go on and on Denying & attempting to prove they’re not guilty of Whatever it maybe,Is When they ARE Guilty “You’ll find/notice the times when people become angry and go on and on about the allegations That is when they are Absolutely Totally Guilty! That’s because it’s hit home & it’s always an Aggression response(& that goes for every day people too,just a psychological reaction of the guilt ridden,The Only difference is the average person feels bad so don’t get so abusive about it. The Normal innocent Person Would Only Get Angry if They’re Asked You “Hey You Were Driving last Night wasn’t you?” If They Thought 🤔💭”Mind Your Own Business”… and then there’s no going on & on about it getting Angry because they don’t feel anything is to hide. Sorry this is so long But That is MY Main Reason for Knowing They Know What They’ve Done is Wrong. And then when they begin to realise you’re sussing them out they might even come with a “I ‘Know’ I’ve treated you badly…. ‘BUT’… (You wasn’t expecting any kind of Acceptance or apology Was You Folks!?? No if course not or you wouldn’t be on this page🤦🏻‍♂️💭🤷🏻‍♂️) So ANOTHER Autobiographical Novel of an answer,Sorry but I was asked 🤷🏻‍♂️💭🤦🏻‍♂️. Havva Wonderful Day Folks (It’s Totally Possible Without That Narc’a’Maniac on Your Empathetic Backs)💯❤️‍🔥😎❤️‍🔥👍🏼

@bridgetbanwell3582

Ай бұрын

Perfect analogy. I can relate my narc experiences, (yes, I'm a magnet to them🙄) , to what you have written 😊

How true and how so sad, truly, heartbreaking, I agree.. I see it like it's happening right in front of our eyes.. for example, the last time we had contact, after so long a time and heaps of reactionary abuse via text ( nothing vile or such, but honest, bringing to attention their behaviours and expectations..) hearing "oh..do I have your new number..?", like seriously.. hahahaha straight to my face like "are you serious".. " or do you want to suck another years worth of energy, pure and honest.." come on, does repentance even come in to their minds?! NO!! They are in a team that works for Satan to destroy souls, maybe one in particular but uncaring as to the casualties that they take along the way, unaccountable in their minds for anyone or anything that happens or they do !! SERIOUSLY

Ah ha! Before this video I arrived at the conclusion that they knew that they were engaging in acts that were inappropriate if they had a bunch of reasons, excuses and justifications for their actions ready to go before it was even a discussion between us. A sort of preemptive well if they tell me they “get it” and pretend to care and respect my space they can keep pushing that boundary and I’ll just be ok with it. They will do whatever they want and if you push back it’s blame shift, deny and full adult toddler mode. They wanted the confrontation from the start if the only answer they are willing to accept is yes to them. Your video made me think I’m a little less crazy. Thanks.

They might say the words "I was wrong"(They don't believe they are wrong) or "Im sorry I hurt you" In my opinion its judt words to get me to stop silence or gray rocking. There is no "Im sorry I accused you" "Im sorry I yelled at you" etc etc etc Im sorry is nothing without change and my experience is it WILL happen again.

Your podcasts helped me recognised I was seeing a narcissist. Quite frankly it was hell on earth, every trait. I'd never heard of it before! Since then I've called out and nipped it in the byd, a work colleague... Swiftly followed by a girl I was booked to go on holiday with until she showed red flags. God interviewed 🙏 and the holiday was cancelled. Always follow your gut. It's always right!

Agree , oh my goodness this is my bf ALL the way , and I have set boundaries and told him basically everything you just said , I can't do it no more , and it's like he don't get it , of course he continues to blame me and play victim. What do I do when I do confront and call him out on his lying and cheating and he constantly denied and never gives me any answers or acknowledges my feelings or how I feel about things , he's always always blaming me or throwing something up in my face from my past , and omg I get so angry and know I shouldn't because that's what he wants , now I know , we've been together almost four years and only just this past year maybe year and a half I just started learning what narcissistic behavior is, because I stumbled across a video on you tube about gaslighting, I take that back I heard of it (the word) somewhere and really didn't know what it meant so I looked it up and from there to blame shifting and to narcissism and I was like , He's totally narcissistic!

@rickbookout7215

22 күн бұрын

Oh😢❤️‍🩹💔 so so hard to except I love them so much makes me think that I am the problem

HI Rebecca!I m a certified psychic medium and I can confirm that it s a true fact 😂!😊...exactly they minimize the impact of their actions! ...it s actually their sick technique 😅!

You're absolutely right Rebecca, This was absolutely tremendous, Thank you so much for this, All rationalising and justifing what they do, Trianulating, Manipulating, influencing other people, You really get it and have immense understanding, I'm glad you're in my life and helping a nation about this, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high God 😃🕊🦁🕆💗💛💙❤💜🌌🌈✌👽🍄☘😘🦄🐎♱

I’m in love with a narc. And didn’t recognize the partner I married had this issue although it came alive pretty quickly don’t know what to do

You are on point

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Very relevant infirmation!

I'm still not convinced wether I am the narc or not😢 Is it possible that I could be mirroring their bad behaviour? Thanks Rebecca.❤

@theangelanime1

Ай бұрын

I hear you, this is part of the crazy cycle we end up seeing our own behaviours as a reaction to their abuse. I have learned that we all have narcissistic traits in certain survival situations they will be amified and we can mirror their behaviours as a response. The difference is we can reflect and feel shame for acting out of not in alignment to who our authentic selves are. We have the ability to check ourselves and acknowledge it and change it. NPD on the other hand is a disorder. An incurable disorder, they don't have the ability of an empath to be able to do that. When you understand that it might allow you to see you are not a narc if you can grow and learn and change your toxic behaviour. Also most experts say, if you are actually conscious of your own toxic behaviours and you work on changing them for the greater good. You are not a narc you have been severely abused and not recognising your superpower. Hope this helps. Danish here on KZread about this topic if you want to check it out. Best wishes.

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Yeyyyyy!!!!!! Genius Rebecca Thank You For You're Phenomenal Global Outreach People Education 🙏💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🙏

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@MYKEYCARD

Ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq God Willing

@MYKEYCARD

Ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank You Too 🙏💜🌍💜🙏

Indeed!

Yes. You have helped me, and helped my friends. Thank you Rebecca

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I Agree!!!!!!!!

Exactly!!!

Thank you for your videos.

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Agree completely

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AGREE, my family is so narcissistic tell me why my uncle told me US is a bad place then jumped on a flight and took his kids there.

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I Agree!!!

Agree 100%

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Ag all the way.👍🏾

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Agree!!!

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Agree.

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Agree

I agree

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agree

Taking us away from what we have to do necessarily,for God, in this life he did come to earth after all, and rather taking us down that long lonely path to destruction because of this.. knowing about them

Y

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Agree

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Agree

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Agree

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