Bathong you can still give a man kids after marriage, only for him to leave you for the love of his life. Life has no memo guys, there's nothing wrong or right - do what makes you happy and accept that people can one day choose you, and wake up the next day choosing someone else over you.

@sparkle257

4 ай бұрын

But for him to divorce you will be harder because you have to split the money to 50% marriage in property. So you dont leave empty handed. But when you just a baby mama you lose both money and love.

@nolubynature9513

4 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯 i don't understand why they dont get this 😮

What if Thobeka didn’t want to get married to Cassper? Why do people always assume it’s a Man’s choice/ decision? Stop giving too much power to Men!! Again it doesn’t always have to end with Marriage.

@user-xs1cu6qc4x

4 ай бұрын

That's what I'm saying. Maybe God told Thobeka Cassper is not the one

@nolubynature9513

4 ай бұрын

😅 exactly! 💯 I dont get why people always think women cannot make decisions pertaining their lives😮...they always assume the woman is the one who got dumped lol

We are the world. We are the children ❤

Even if you marry a man can just leave you nje.Ppl can't stop giving birth unless you making kid for wrong reason's.That trick never work even in our forefathers.Otherwise we won't have kids.Amadoda nje asile also that lady must not br comfortable xem .What she did to Thobeka also another girl will do it to her.

@lollymadikiza3174

4 ай бұрын

@ayanda...den what does dis woman suppose 2 do?? Is she suppose 2 turn down Casper bcoz if she doesn't karma Wil get her 4 bexx s heartbreak?? Oh come on even if u can be a good girl who doesn't take other women s men u gert hurt anyway, karma happens 2 all of us...

@ayandanobatana3440

4 ай бұрын

@@lollymadikiza3174 if it's someone you don't know at least.I believe as they say it's a childhood friend.I believe she knows everything.

@Born_A_Star

4 ай бұрын

But if you got married, there is security. She wouldn't leave empty

Cassper his doing wat other man are doing lots of woman without ther bbyfathers it's not the first and the last

Thobeka said her dream is to be a mother so she doesn't regret having a child. As for the marriage maybe Thobeka saw that Cassper is not the one

You marry someone you love, not someone you happen to have a child with.. Futhi didn't he announce their breakup at some point?

Casper Nyovest will regret to withdraw from his baby mother. He recreates more single parents.

There’s no formula shem

@FancyMaite

4 ай бұрын

Zero

@ceciliamelato3866

4 ай бұрын

True

@jabusenyondo8130

4 ай бұрын

Lutho

O tla pallwa modimo a itsi, gae bajele dikgomo = "If it fails, let it fail under God's watch with them having eaten the cows at home". She's saying it's better to fail at marriage after the lobola cows (money) has been taken by the girl's family than to bear children without marriage. Sad fact is many hard working women stand to lose a lot more after the division of assets in a divorce. It's poor thinking, unless vele you're an opportunistic woman. 🤦‍♂

Tshata Casper mntase umakoti ngokwakho ndithi Hala Hala mna ❤❤❤😂😂❤️❤️

Guys what if you want a child? So if you’re one of those woman who won’t get married, does that mean you shouldn’t be a mother? Akame kancane u Promise, sometimes it’s okay to keep your opinions to yourself.

@nolubynature9513

4 ай бұрын

❤

Ngingafunda ukuloya that day yooh

@amandanyuswa4345

4 ай бұрын

Nami cause wow😂😭haibo.

@SamukelisiweMayeza

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@nokwandasbiya6462

4 ай бұрын

@@amandanyuswa4345 abafana bayeyisa shame weeeh

@jabusenyondo8130

4 ай бұрын

The universe usually takes care if these situations better..

Thats men 4u🤨

Thats men 4u🤨