Lavida Nota ON his failed marriage with musician Berita

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  • @MadamTMT
    @MadamTMT4 ай бұрын

    Any interview with NOTA in it, I can't miss. Any interview with PROMISE in it, I can't miss.Nna I'm educated ke sana😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @nomangesinthala8948

    @nomangesinthala8948

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @kgolaganoloate1039

    @kgolaganoloate1039

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂and he is actually right lol I watched it and because it's Nota we gonna bash him but what he was saying neh it makes sense in a funny way yoh 😂😂😂

  • @waziliumali5729

    @waziliumali5729

    2 ай бұрын

    Wherever there's Nota check the views kkkkk

  • @ThapeloMaxwellMabuza

    @ThapeloMaxwellMabuza

    4 күн бұрын

    This bustudard has also hypnotized me I have watched 👀 all his videos until that phase when everyone was asking where is nota the authority 😂

  • @pfanomakhadi8846
    @pfanomakhadi88464 ай бұрын

    NOTA is the only guy in south Africa who took the words "in sickness and in health, until death do us apart" literally😂😂😂

  • @idahkanyaneleshalabe7285

    @idahkanyaneleshalabe7285

    3 ай бұрын

    He understood the task

  • @tabisamuru6353

    @tabisamuru6353

    3 ай бұрын

    His delusional

  • @Reading_Initiative4Kids

    @Reading_Initiative4Kids

    3 ай бұрын

    Eish Nota!!😮 so he’s actually saying he made her “the wife” , He sounds like he’s obsessed with her though 😢 and that’s scary. Also I thought he is in his 40’s😅. Yho ai Nota!!

  • @DMkz111

    @DMkz111

    3 ай бұрын

    😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

  • @BlooZulu
    @BlooZulu4 ай бұрын

    Nota is such a polarising character. He has no filter and his perspective can be jarring and sometimes borders on the delusional. I enjoy him purely because of his honesty.

  • @ezy78667
    @ezy786674 ай бұрын

    NOTA is what we call a narcissist! People will just laugh at his actions until they meet one! Being in a relationship with one has taught me a lot about these kind of people, if you see how he was behaving on Twitter after separating with wife, then you will understand what a text book Narcissist is!! He is exactly like my ex... NOTA will never stop all the public humiliation, he sees that people did not support when he did with Berrita's character, then he is moving to her family. This is because they are not giving him attention, when Berrita moves on NOTA will come for his bf or her future husband even if he himself gets married! This behavior is seen on all narcissists! It is unfortunate that people give him the platform to do all this! Promise should not promote such behavior, it is counter productive in this patriarchal society! If Promise really wanted to talk about Berrita she could have invited her because this interview was basically to tarnish her and her family name!! People like NOTA always think they are Gods gift to human kind! I am glad Berrita left!!

  • @noziphokhumalo2963

    @noziphokhumalo2963

    3 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @nakedisepaila5633
    @nakedisepaila56334 ай бұрын

    This man talk too much no woman will ever tolerate him

  • @Sihawukelwe

    @Sihawukelwe

    4 ай бұрын

    He is a woman trapped in man's body...

  • @katlehoseutloali6985

    @katlehoseutloali6985

    4 ай бұрын

    I'd divorce him singakashadi

  • @lisangwadla4846

    @lisangwadla4846

    4 ай бұрын

    After divorcing him and divorce him again yheeey this is too much😢​@@katlehoseutloali6985

  • @khabovilakazi7981

    @khabovilakazi7981

    4 ай бұрын

    Ppl don't know what they want,when someone is too quiet UYABORA.. ..I am sure the wife 😅 one day will have the regrets why she left him...The only problem I see is the smoking of dagga.Nota'brain has too much of Cannabis he doesn't need to smoke it ,his is destroying his brain ..too much of the thing it kills or destroys..My advice is that he must completely stop Cannabis (dagga)He is the best GOAT with all the achievement the guy is super intelligent but this supplement is an overdose to his brain..Plse Nota for your age and achievements you're the GOAT..Well done young man ♂️

  • @matlawasarah1851

    @matlawasarah1851

    3 ай бұрын

    He is a danger to his Wife

  • @robynbarnett5968
    @robynbarnett59684 ай бұрын

    I would have called weskoppies to wait by the door for him 😂😂😂

  • @valanci.official

    @valanci.official

    4 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @siyamthandajonase2118

    @siyamthandajonase2118

    3 ай бұрын

    His a pyscho, I am so scared of him...his even speaking over the lady @@valanci.official

  • @lebogangmakale4770

    @lebogangmakale4770

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thandisekhonyana5575

    @thandisekhonyana5575

    11 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nomzamomasombuka1834
    @nomzamomasombuka18344 ай бұрын

    How on earth can one be married to this man without depending on antidepressants 😢😢😢😢

  • @lonkscakeartistry6346

    @lonkscakeartistry6346

    3 ай бұрын

    Shes very strong😂

  • @lanimalorsa
    @lanimalorsa2 ай бұрын

    People dont like NOTA because he's honest and speaks without a filter. This man is a genius 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @thatobaloyi6194
    @thatobaloyi61944 ай бұрын

    The only thing more dangerous than a narcissistic man is a narcissist man that knows English

  • @anitadyakala1886

    @anitadyakala1886

    4 ай бұрын

    Legit😂😂😂

  • @thae9116

    @thae9116

    4 ай бұрын

    I almost spilled the tea l was holding when l was reading this comment 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @user-wl8op5tz2w

    @user-wl8op5tz2w

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @lerato-o9

    @lerato-o9

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂I have Neva laughed like this

  • @pulanemotsetsela5413

    @pulanemotsetsela5413

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @thabondlovu1577
    @thabondlovu15773 ай бұрын

    Maybe it's true that " too much of anything is not good for anyone". This man has too much information that he somewhat comes across as crazy. Great guy Nota I like him.

  • @nomthandazokamtala595

    @nomthandazokamtala595

    Ай бұрын

    I like him too😂❤. Only a few people understand people with this kind of 🧠

  • @innocent.amchechesi276
    @innocent.amchechesi2764 ай бұрын

    He is one honest man!!

  • @nomthandazokamtala595

    @nomthandazokamtala595

    Ай бұрын

    I love his honesty!😂

  • @nomthandazokamtala595

    @nomthandazokamtala595

    Ай бұрын

    I love his honesty 😂

  • @DopeStuffOnly
    @DopeStuffOnly4 ай бұрын

    We need more pupil like Nota who is honest free speech

  • @nickymthelebofu
    @nickymthelebofu4 ай бұрын

    Bathong Nota can talk the whole month without a break, like the 1st 20 minutes he took over, Promise was just mmmm yah 😅, How do people get energy to interview this guy Mara? Bcoz u will end up not asking real questions ⁉️

  • @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    4 ай бұрын

    Narcs don't have a self. They don't see anybody. Just mannequins.

  • @victorioussisters3307

    @victorioussisters3307

    4 ай бұрын

    @@LesegoMadisaEllesGwell said.

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын

    NOTA airing out Berita's family business is just so wrong, such betrayal and he still hopes to reconcile with her? 😭😭not to mention him talking about her fart😭..like seriously?

  • @ezy78667

    @ezy78667

    4 ай бұрын

    That's what classic narcissist do! He is a text book Narc! My ex is exactly like him!!

  • @nkosinathisitholejobe551

    @nkosinathisitholejobe551

    4 ай бұрын

    Lol why you concerned about farting

  • @zuzuh5755

    @zuzuh5755

    4 ай бұрын

    Yep! He is trying by all means to convince the whole country if not the world,that he is the best husband. He is convincing everybody but not the wife. He says he love her,but he says all the bad things abt her. How can she go back to a man who hang his dirty laundry to the public. Instead of having these conversations with her,he decide to have it with public. This is not love but,8 see a man who is sad that he allegedly helped someone to build her carrer.Then a person left. Most of the time he talk abt her career,and how was he involved. He is suffering frm "I made you" ,"You belong to me,I own you,You are nothing about me".

  • @user-wh6zo8mc1f

    @user-wh6zo8mc1f

    4 ай бұрын

    He's not delulu, coz none of us were in that marriage you would be surprised that the wife was worse, people who appear like angels in public are often the worst.

  • @Babes_Womgosi

    @Babes_Womgosi

    4 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣i should not be laughing at this

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye12534 ай бұрын

    this was a true monologue, he could've recorded himself speak alone. He loves hearing the sound of his voice.

  • @SibsM93

    @SibsM93

    4 ай бұрын

    Yoh this is how Introverts feel when an outspoken person blabs on and on and on and on. It's actually energy draining when you sit and listen to a person speak like this, you cannot even engage.

  • @aluciafakude3703

    @aluciafakude3703

    4 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @mphojeanettemabusane8780

    @mphojeanettemabusane8780

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @LavidaSolosofi

    @LavidaSolosofi

    3 ай бұрын

    Imagine watching a podcast and expecting the guest to be muted

  • @elzettamurangi7228

    @elzettamurangi7228

    3 ай бұрын

    Guys stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ayandasam2269
    @ayandasam22694 ай бұрын

    Nota is grown up physically and mentally, but inside, he still remains a little child. He might be stuck at age 4 sana he needs to visit his childhood there's something there.

  • @Gabby.2490

    @Gabby.2490

    4 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @SharonTshishonga

    @SharonTshishonga

    4 ай бұрын

    Spot on❤

  • @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    4 ай бұрын

    Not 2 years???

  • @ayandasam2269

    @ayandasam2269

    4 ай бұрын

    @@LesegoMadisaEllesG 🤣🤣 eish.

  • @rubberbulletza

    @rubberbulletza

    3 ай бұрын

    Good morning woke culture

  • @AmandaY306
    @AmandaY3064 ай бұрын

    This is a conversation between Nota & Nota. 😂😂

  • @tumi2610

    @tumi2610

    4 ай бұрын

    I had to go read up on the comments first to get a feel of how the interview was, I'm scared to watch because Nota is Nota, I can definetly believe that Promise was not part of her own interview

  • @vickyitenyo.

    @vickyitenyo.

    4 ай бұрын

    So true! 😂😂😂

  • @leratomokatse2276

    @leratomokatse2276

    4 ай бұрын

    So true... He likes the sound of his own voice🙄

  • @rinaesengani

    @rinaesengani

    3 ай бұрын

    Amanda wee😂😂😂😂

  • @elzettamurangi7228

    @elzettamurangi7228

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @NolwaziM
    @NolwaziM4 ай бұрын

    55:26 is the moment Promise was regretting inviting this guy to this interview. Waze waisola 😂😂😂

  • @moilwa6209
    @moilwa62094 ай бұрын

    Nota is just telling his story. I see nothing wrong in this conversation. For the longest time, women come on such platforms to bash their ex partners and in laws, but they are not crucified. Let everyone be allowed to tell their stories the way they feel it's right.

  • @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    4 ай бұрын

    But his partner never bashed him. She actually answered respectfully on Podcast and Chill

  • @Sphume
    @Sphume4 ай бұрын

    One thing this man will do is talk sana!

  • @lillymashita3185

    @lillymashita3185

    4 ай бұрын

    Uninterrupted

  • @Pweedimatjie

    @Pweedimatjie

    3 ай бұрын

    Dude!😂

  • @TheBoyWithThePlans
    @TheBoyWithThePlans4 ай бұрын

    “In 2008 the Zimbabwean economy crashed and then your father was unable to provide for your family because the money in his pocket shrank on his walk to go and buy bread, so he could afford the bread when he left his house and by the time he got to the shop he couldn’t and that was the end of everything”🤣!!! Nota is really something else

  • @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana

    @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana

    4 ай бұрын

    Hey hey 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @disciple8531

    @disciple8531

    4 ай бұрын

    @Theboywiththeplan 😂😂😂😅

  • @noziphokhumalo2963

    @noziphokhumalo2963

    3 ай бұрын

    The narration is outstanding 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @Zy-gote

    @Zy-gote

    3 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @blakawt7773

    @blakawt7773

    2 ай бұрын

    It sound like a movie but it's true events recorded and shit😅😂😂

  • @vickyitenyo.
    @vickyitenyo.4 ай бұрын

    My dear Promise... You've displayed so much maturity on this episode. I'm your day one subbie from Kenya and I've watched EVERY SINGLE episode since this podcast started. This man is delusional, he has refused to be accountable and he portrays narcissistic traits. Just by looking at him, his nails, his hair, his beard shows that he is unkempt, meaning he is battling huge internal battles. He needs to see a PSYCHIATRIST this one is beyond a psychologist. I don't know how you did it girl.. but good job! 👏🏾👏🏾 Your poise, your calmness and maturity has indeed proven to us that you were born for this Mrs Law❤

  • @floradube5529
    @floradube55294 ай бұрын

    I loved this interview, here's why, most people like to talk about the negative sides of marriages and forget that there was time when it was good. Berita wouldn't have married Nota if it wasn't good at some point. While Nota might have his faults he tried to be there for Berita, he loved her still does. Let's celebrate the good accomplishments in marriage the same way we frawn upon the faults. Nota might be over the top but he tried to give his wife the best.

  • @nicholasmasuku1501

    @nicholasmasuku1501

    4 ай бұрын

    Are you for real? This is bullying by Nota, I swear one day Berita is going to sue him

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    😮and you know this how?

  • @Mbuso784

    @Mbuso784

    4 ай бұрын

    Facts.

  • @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    4 ай бұрын

    When you have not been with a narcissist, you will never understand that the good times come with the most pain because they weaponize it for their good. You will hear things like I made you,,,,

  • @floradube5529

    @floradube5529

    3 ай бұрын

    @@nolubynature9513 Because she described the best times of her marriage in an interview. It's public knowledge

  • @nthabisengmasikila4543
    @nthabisengmasikila45434 ай бұрын

    Why am i watching this Ntate Molimo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nonz3553

    @nonz3553

    4 ай бұрын

    Lo when I saw this I was like I thought we stopped giving this guy airtime, but here I am watching 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

  • @esthermphanda4836

    @esthermphanda4836

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂I'm actually asking myself the same question

  • @nwabisapbodlo3246

    @nwabisapbodlo3246

    4 ай бұрын

    Same but somehow i’m still watching 😂😂😂

  • @nwabisapbodlo3246

    @nwabisapbodlo3246

    4 ай бұрын

    Dude! 😂

  • @serofoennierakgogo5363

    @serofoennierakgogo5363

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 That's me

  • @FavourKG
    @FavourKG4 ай бұрын

    Nota we don't tell our partner weaknesses in public. That's how you protect your wife. Your honesty does not have to disgraced her. No no no human being will allow that. Humble yourself ask for forgiveness.

  • @nomthandazokamtala595

    @nomthandazokamtala595

    Ай бұрын

    What forgiveness dude😂 calm down

  • @ThapeloMaxwellMabuza

    @ThapeloMaxwellMabuza

    4 күн бұрын

    Nah he's doing it for the next dude cause gugus guy he watching and that pattern start to make sense

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo45144 ай бұрын

    I love the professionalism in sister Promise ❤ keep it up Sesi😢

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын

    Basadi NOTA a re when we see his wife on the streets we must tell her to go back to her marital home, a tla re tshepela a huge task.😭

  • @u.802

    @u.802

    3 ай бұрын

    no man nota is so funny 😭

  • @ntombikayisewendy9287

    @ntombikayisewendy9287

    2 ай бұрын

    Imagine 😂

  • @clveeraync
    @clveeraync4 ай бұрын

    Not a lot of people commenting and only focusing on the negative and ignoring some important points he made

  • @innocent.amchechesi276

    @innocent.amchechesi276

    4 ай бұрын

    He is telling the truth... Uncomfortable truth

  • @clveeraync

    @clveeraync

    4 ай бұрын

    @@innocent.amchechesi276 and one thing I've learnt recently is that women and the truth are like oil and water

  • @samkelotempi6583

    @samkelotempi6583

    2 ай бұрын

    He is thelling the truth. Those who are in darkness will always oppose the truth

  • @lebonetsesebitloane4859
    @lebonetsesebitloane48594 ай бұрын

    There are people who go to therapy consistently to gain tools to manipulate the people around them. Nota is one of those people. He believes that he did nothing wrong as a husband because he believes his wife’s success is because of him. He is a narcissist who does not even let people finish their sentences before jumping in to play victim and blow his own horn

  • @Ladyle4ever
    @Ladyle4ever3 ай бұрын

    Nota sound like a loving, caring, supportive and protective husband. I like this dude. I wish Nota and his wife can fix things and be a happy family forever ❤

  • @fezilemakaula1823
    @fezilemakaula18234 ай бұрын

    Guys please don't be nasty, if you dont have something true or positive to say please dont comment. The guy is a gent and he is human, I havent heard him insult or swear at anyone therefore does not deserve ugly words.

  • @TheMsyZa

    @TheMsyZa

    4 ай бұрын

    Just because you haven’t heard it?

  • @Nombulelo_ace

    @Nombulelo_ace

    3 ай бұрын

    You are also delusional

  • @user-bf3vy4lp1u
    @user-bf3vy4lp1u4 ай бұрын

    Been going to therapy since I was four.😂😂😂 You didn’t stand a chance promise gale a thoma this

  • @hlengiweyourstruly

    @hlengiweyourstruly

    4 ай бұрын

    According to this Psychologist, narcissist usually manipulate, lie and twist things even with their therapists. It's really pointless

  • @user-bf3vy4lp1u

    @user-bf3vy4lp1u

    4 ай бұрын

    @@hlengiweyourstruly 🤣🤣 that’s why I was saying his a professor at this

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane4 ай бұрын

    I do not speak Xhosa but I feel like saying, "Hayi bethunana"😂

  • @sinikiwembangi1867

    @sinikiwembangi1867

    4 ай бұрын

    I feel you😂😂yhu hayi hayi hayi bethunana!

  • @phelosikhakhane

    @phelosikhakhane

    4 ай бұрын

    @@sinikiwembangi1867 kuthafu oe😂

  • @sinikiwembangi1867

    @sinikiwembangi1867

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@phelosikhakhane comrade took me out when he said "there are women throwing themselves at me"😂😂😂 hayini bethuna!

  • @phelosikhakhane

    @phelosikhakhane

    4 ай бұрын

    @@sinikiwembangi1867 heyi issa lot, nginethiloma😂

  • @sinikiwembangi1867

    @sinikiwembangi1867

    4 ай бұрын

    Mntase issa lot😂so much thiloma bathong😢ngaze ngay'sola bo😂😂

  • @Reset_With_Louisa
    @Reset_With_Louisa4 ай бұрын

    Promise you were born for this, your interview skills keep improving and I pray you grow and get more brand deals

  • @nyashabothwell5839
    @nyashabothwell58394 ай бұрын

    his the only guy that can go toe to toe with a Lady and still win the Argument #AUTHORITY

  • @lebogangshantel6269

    @lebogangshantel6269

    3 ай бұрын

    Period 😂😂😂

  • @idonwonpeace8238

    @idonwonpeace8238

    Ай бұрын

    That's why he's the GOAT

  • @fusiflorence8123
    @fusiflorence81234 ай бұрын

    The most genius guy I know,hence I ignore his arrogance,I look at the positive side of him,because if I will pay attention of negative side,I'll end up being a psycho,

  • @funananimakomoto4776

    @funananimakomoto4776

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tranquilitywithn.6362
    @tranquilitywithn.63624 ай бұрын

    I love Nota so much, he's intelligent MARA he disappoints me everytime he answers questions on his marriage. His reasoning capacity just switches from good to bad 😔 I guess you can't be a genius in all departments

  • @minikuishonenzrevenge

    @minikuishonenzrevenge

    4 ай бұрын

    Real

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @Moetemokgobo1243

    @Moetemokgobo1243

    4 ай бұрын

    Nota is intelligent iyoo I don't agree this is a madman he needs psychiatric sessions 😢'you know what I mean'😂

  • @minikuishonenzrevenge

    @minikuishonenzrevenge

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Moetemokgobo1243 Real

  • @tranquilitywithn.6362

    @tranquilitywithn.6362

    4 ай бұрын

    Noma angahlanya he's still an intelligent 🧠 guy 😂

  • @Vv-fl2rm
    @Vv-fl2rm4 ай бұрын

    I’m so glad Barita found her Mojo and left this unhinged over arrogant empty psycho!! That woman is a gem💎 and Nota was a downgrade of epic proportions. No wonder he can’t let go and still rants about her on all platforms despite her getting away from his abuse, tantrums and meltdowns. Good for her ❤🥂

  • @Kosmikgrxy
    @Kosmikgrxy4 ай бұрын

    Happy Birthday LavidaNOTA. We really appreciate you.

  • @kedibonemohale1802
    @kedibonemohale18024 ай бұрын

    Nota is a genuine good guy... Yes there is a lot of arrogance and a superiority complex of some sort, however he knows his position and stands with an upright posture..... Ei go gontsi maan.....

  • @nandimzanzi

    @nandimzanzi

    4 ай бұрын

    No he talks too much and thinks he is always right. Just this too much talking will make me leave man. Too much noise. He gives trauma with noise

  • @kagisoubane4078

    @kagisoubane4078

    4 ай бұрын

    Go gontsi ngwaneso😮😮😮

  • @shisuiuchiha480

    @shisuiuchiha480

    3 ай бұрын

    @@nandimzanzi coz you'd rather be with a nonchalant serial cheater than an outspoken man who really cares

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын

    Yena he is smart but something is off...ekare he's on the spectrum.

  • @nothandodube7573

    @nothandodube7573

    4 ай бұрын

    You might be onto something herr

  • @nthatsh437

    @nthatsh437

    4 ай бұрын

    I try not to laugh mare😂😂😂😂. I mean should we be worried?

  • @neinei6611

    @neinei6611

    4 ай бұрын

    I think he is

  • @teboJoh

    @teboJoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Ray, I just laughed out loud after reading your comment because you summed up everything in one short sentence and you are so right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @goitseonemonyatsi2767

    @goitseonemonyatsi2767

    4 ай бұрын

    I agree. Mild apergers?????He just talks with no filter. Something is just off

  • @mrvipworlwide2269
    @mrvipworlwide22694 ай бұрын

    a narcissist makes for a great story teller, they know how to win hearts of those observing from the outside. the person who carries the sword's edge of such a narcissist is the one who lives behind closed doors with them. I Doubt that Beritha was perfect. but I am certainly sure she wasn't crazy either.

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @mahlohonololebuso741
    @mahlohonololebuso7414 ай бұрын

    Nota has delusions of grandeur

  • @TheSandile1

    @TheSandile1

    4 ай бұрын

    He is a danger to society and himself.

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @rubberbulletza

    @rubberbulletza

    3 ай бұрын

    No body believes you...uyazikhohlisa😊

  • @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000

    @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣@@TheSandile1

  • @charmainesayi

    @charmainesayi

    Ай бұрын

    Real. 💯

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh57554 ай бұрын

    Yoooh! I thought Nota has changed after visiting America but neeh,he is still the same. His x wife is never going around talking abt him.But he find comfort in embarrassing her,every chance he get. How can she really go back to him. He doesn't acknowledge that the wife is Talented. He pretend as if her songs were no 1 bcs of him doing some calls.I think he is holding on her bcs he think he made her,so he think he owns her. I dont see him anywhere where he show deep love for her without talking abt her music carrer. He act like her music manager,but not like a husband who love his wife. Yonke into ayishoyo udicilela phansi isithunzi sakhe. Its all abt "i made you",I made calls so that her songs can be no1,I,I,I. Nota without making her no 1 in music,but the woman needed a husband and love. Nota has ready answers for everything. He doesnt wanna listen to understand but he listen to respond. Always in a defence mode ay ngeke yooh! asoze.Isdina sendoda akukho thando la,lo ukhalela imali yakhe shwem.

  • @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    3 ай бұрын

    Everything is about what he did. No tender memories.

  • @sorrynotsorry3447
    @sorrynotsorry34474 ай бұрын

    I cracked up when he covered his academic failure by claiming his sisters academic success 😂😂😂 Guys Berita saved herself. Any woman would choose to scramble through life than to be tied down to this mess. Money is not everything and she taught him that ngenkani 😅 I stan that queen👑

  • @sinikiwembangi1867

    @sinikiwembangi1867

    4 ай бұрын

    Mntase that's when I knew that I'll need a drink to finish this podcast😂😂haibo are qualifications contagious na? Are my sister's degrees also mine?

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@sinikiwembangi1867😂😂😂

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    Same here mtase🙏🏾 I'm so glad she left! Sheesh

  • @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000

    @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000

    3 ай бұрын

    he said it his father's sperm- lol. the logic?! I am dying@@sinikiwembangi1867

  • @ThapeloMaxwellMabuza

    @ThapeloMaxwellMabuza

    4 күн бұрын

    But the level of achievement he has aquired people with degrees and his privilege cannot accomplish His mind no degree can match it his brilliant lavida Nota🎉

  • @dieketsengfume5618
    @dieketsengfume56184 ай бұрын

    Kore Promise cannot even finish her question without this guy interfering...Huu eee Promise I respect you sham

  • @grootmannjabs6219

    @grootmannjabs6219

    2 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @TlhodiSisinyi

    @TlhodiSisinyi

    Ай бұрын

    Addicts tendencies

  • @HSN77
    @HSN774 ай бұрын

    Way to go Nota. AKA died having been labeled as some violent abusive guy because he cared about preserving his 'wife's' legacy. Now he is not here to defend himself. Truth to power!

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    😅😂 lol Nota said AKA pushed Anele after the incident happened...relax and STFU 😂

  • @khabovilakazi7981

    @khabovilakazi7981

    4 ай бұрын

    @@nolubynature9513 No one knows what happened behind the scene Yes AKA is gone cannot answer to this.

  • @tebogoramokgobedi2309
    @tebogoramokgobedi23094 ай бұрын

    I don't know why Nota remind me of Young Sheldon 😅😅he is really smart

  • @nomaswazimagagula7814
    @nomaswazimagagula78144 ай бұрын

    One thing about Nota his story is the same on every interview.

  • @tshephomanyothwane1916

    @tshephomanyothwane1916

    4 ай бұрын

    If it's the same it means he is telling the truth

  • @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    4 ай бұрын

    nope, not always the case for narcissist as the aim is to tarnish the image of another and never account for their part. Their speech is rehearsed and replayed because repetition wins more audience and attention that they thrive off@@tshephomanyothwane1916

  • @elonmyidol.
    @elonmyidol.4 ай бұрын

    Done watching I really enjoyed it.😊

  • @simbulele.mdleleni
    @simbulele.mdleleni4 ай бұрын

    "I don't want you to be like Beyonce." yho hay mna I would never have left Nota 😂😂😂😂

  • @NokuphiwaM

    @NokuphiwaM

    4 ай бұрын

    That Beyoncé comment killed me 😂

  • @phenyomatseke557
    @phenyomatseke5574 ай бұрын

    This guy needs an appointment at Tara Hospital ASAP Rocky.

  • @candyoabile5661
    @candyoabile56614 ай бұрын

    We are proud of you promise...every episode is growth mami

  • @ladye1253

    @ladye1253

    4 ай бұрын

    😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @thevillagegist
    @thevillagegist4 ай бұрын

    Imagine being married to Nota .... I can't imagine it 🤣🤣🤣

  • @esthermphanda4836

    @esthermphanda4836

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @sibongilemngomezulu3454

    @sibongilemngomezulu3454

    4 ай бұрын

    Yhooo will ask for unpaid overtime at work, cause hayibo😢😂😂😂

  • @Longfellow12

    @Longfellow12

    4 ай бұрын

    Please show us who u are married to

  • @thevillagegist

    @thevillagegist

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Longfellow12 def not Baloyi ...

  • @malekaletang8765
    @malekaletang87654 ай бұрын

    Great interview. Not everything said was perfect but if u listen to understand you will get closure on what is happening in this guy's life.

  • @disciple8531
    @disciple85314 ай бұрын

    I love Nota. ❤❤❤ I love your stance on your marriage. I pray that your marriage gets restored. Enjoyed this interview, always enjoy listening to Nota.

  • @gcebiledlamini118
    @gcebiledlamini1184 ай бұрын

    Iyhooo Nota xhem, he is a confusion, typical Narc, he can be extremely nice to his wife but Also bad....Poor Berita xhem, her life was confusion everyday. One moment he is good, the next moment its toxic. And I wouldn't be surprise if she can go back becauase when he is good its extremely good. She needs therapy to keep herself together.

  • @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    4 ай бұрын

    Berita is in therapy. She spoke about this on podcast and chill

  • @nthabee
    @nthabee4 ай бұрын

    He asked himself questions and answered them... Promised asked around 5 questions🤣🤣🤣🤣I can never interview this little man!

  • @evezazzle5974

    @evezazzle5974

    4 ай бұрын

    Your comment made me LOL😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 YIIIIIIIIII 😭 BATHONG WENA!!!! Even telling her how to question him

  • @reflioekheswa6314
    @reflioekheswa63144 ай бұрын

    The level of delulu keeps worsing every year

  • @SibsM93

    @SibsM93

    4 ай бұрын

    It's the only solulu for him my dhiye 😂

  • @evezazzle5974

    @evezazzle5974

    4 ай бұрын

    This is very serious and dangerous but your comment my sister in Christ 🤣🤣🤣😭

  • @masegomaubane6686

    @masegomaubane6686

    4 ай бұрын

    Every second of every minute😂😂😂

  • @lethabosiwa5861

    @lethabosiwa5861

    4 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @sthembisomkhize3823

    @sthembisomkhize3823

    4 ай бұрын

    It's "worsening" 🤺

  • @hlobilentuli2791
    @hlobilentuli27914 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣😂ai shem Berita must Run away angeke.

  • @palesatiti4324
    @palesatiti43244 ай бұрын

    I'm sure the wife, keeps on saying haibo now and then listening to his. Surely thanking the Lord for taking her out

  • @big1ne

    @big1ne

    4 ай бұрын

    This... As I sit here, not even being the wife, saying haibo every 10 seconds 😂

  • @boitumeloqueen1580

    @boitumeloqueen1580

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank God that she left...yhoooo

  • @samuhlongwane5243

    @samuhlongwane5243

    2 ай бұрын

    Good move by the wife... His just too much, no full stop...I hate these types of man who thinks whatever they do is always right

  • @takuforex156
    @takuforex1564 ай бұрын

    Blessed Up King Nota Its high time Men start speaking up for themselves

  • @JamesSkosana

    @JamesSkosana

    3 ай бұрын

    Power

  • @akhonamajova6818

    @akhonamajova6818

    3 ай бұрын

    And when men speak we have a problem 😢

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe62944 ай бұрын

    Why comparing yourself with black coffee, you dont even exist in his world....keep yourself busy Nota, go and help SAPS with AKA case, you are very good with analysing

  • @Pam645

    @Pam645

    4 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @lavidaNOTA

    @lavidaNOTA

    4 ай бұрын

    Stop commenting, you are exposing your stupidity to the world!

  • @user-tt5il5bz9y

    @user-tt5il5bz9y

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @MOLEPO_SA

    @MOLEPO_SA

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @lebogangshantel6269

    @lebogangshantel6269

    3 ай бұрын

    Noooo😂😂😂😂

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain3 ай бұрын

    Marriage is a beautiful union between two people who commit to sharing their lives together. A wedding is a celebration of this commitment, filled with love, joy, and cherished memories. It marks the beginning of a new chapter in their lives, where they create a future filled with happiness and togetherness.

  • @LarnyVeliti-ov1rl
    @LarnyVeliti-ov1rl4 ай бұрын

    You have a gift that you're not aware of. Please consider a private consultation on marriages and relationships. There's a high score of marriages that are currently falling apart due to miscommunication and misunderstanding. Please request a private and confidential one on one session/consultation with Nota and Berita. This doesn't have to be published or aired.

  • @randomlady
    @randomlady4 ай бұрын

    No I didnt grow up soft but I grew up going to family vacations all the time😂😂😂😅😅😅 Tiktok is the downfall of my marriage...😂😂😂 All my exes see a father figure in me cos they have daddy issues.... Guys you can be brilliant at your craft but be terrible at life😬😬I'm not saying Nota is terrible at life but I can see why Berita keeps her distance😂

  • @zandimeme165
    @zandimeme1654 ай бұрын

    Textbook narcissist, poor Berita 😔

  • @kedibonemohale1802
    @kedibonemohale18024 ай бұрын

    I love your marriage content and your bold and unapologetic approach to marriage and ultimately family....

  • @thapeloashley4778
    @thapeloashley47784 ай бұрын

    Nota i know exactly what you are talking about. I can relate like fully. Thank you for explaining this so nicely more than i could have had

  • @hlongwarebotile7029
    @hlongwarebotile70294 ай бұрын

    Everything I know about Betita’s family I heard it from Nota without asking yet he wonders why his mother-in-law preferred talking to Berita in private.

  • @ng9047

    @ng9047

    3 ай бұрын

    😂great observation there

  • @ojewakeng
    @ojewakeng4 ай бұрын

    55:48 got so irritated on this part, I mean Black Coffee ungenaph?? Nota aowa hle

  • @minikuishonenzrevenge

    @minikuishonenzrevenge

    4 ай бұрын

    😭

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    He clearly has issues this one 😅

  • @mandywilly7269
    @mandywilly72694 ай бұрын

    'They see a father figure in me' Hehaake🙄🙄

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197

    @siphokaziluzipho4197

    4 ай бұрын

    Hahahahaha. This is comedy shem. But let's admit, he is intelligent. Crazy but intelligent.

  • @tshudumavhungu1593
    @tshudumavhungu15934 ай бұрын

    we need a podcast called LIE LIKE NOTA

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz4 ай бұрын

    Berita must thank her ancestors because there was no child here!!!😢😅

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    For real

  • @ojewakeng
    @ojewakeng4 ай бұрын

    Ok Promise you tried, you listened, you offered advice indirectly... Nota always wants to be right and have the last say ai

  • @kgutsomakoti3553
    @kgutsomakoti35533 ай бұрын

    I really wish Nota and berita get back together. . . ❤ He clearly loved this woman 🎉❤

  • @Ladyle4ever

    @Ladyle4ever

    3 ай бұрын

    Same here ❤

  • @Leboko80
    @Leboko804 ай бұрын

    Nota is Nota...he is himself and unapologetic.

  • @Kat-A-Pilla
    @Kat-A-Pilla4 ай бұрын

    Love you Nota don't ever change my guy😊

  • @user-wh6zo8mc1f
    @user-wh6zo8mc1f4 ай бұрын

    Nota's story has been the same on every interview, he has never changed, he is telling the truth tle.

  • @Ladyle4ever

    @Ladyle4ever

    3 ай бұрын

    And he's very intelligent. He's one of those people who might not have a degrees but very intelligent.

  • @lulama_kay2705
    @lulama_kay27054 ай бұрын

    Women throwing themselves at me🥹. Women who are you ? Niyashlaza.

  • @thuthukiledlamini6850

    @thuthukiledlamini6850

    4 ай бұрын

    Bayasihlebisa nje

  • @tumelomarungwana9321
    @tumelomarungwana93214 ай бұрын

    Ladies, Pray for a man who will give u peace and equally I must have peace too ... dating a mental conditions people is hectic....did that ans after year I left him ans I didn't look back ...best decision ever...only to find out he has been struggling with that but he didn't alert me .

  • @ancientmeditationsounds7254
    @ancientmeditationsounds72543 ай бұрын

    Nota is just a danger to loved ones around him and himself.

  • @AmapianoMeetsTikTok
    @AmapianoMeetsTikTok4 ай бұрын

    His level of narcissism is scary 😨

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane89354 ай бұрын

    Aah Jehova Nota can talk 😢jerrr this guy can talk 🙆‍♀️Promise ausy take your 🏆if is me aah I will stop cz jooh monna enwe ke trompeta

  • @moyohome9005
    @moyohome90054 ай бұрын

    The amount of eye-rolling I did during this interview. I now need a nap. UNota ulesidina

  • @nolubynature9513

    @nolubynature9513

    4 ай бұрын

    Mtase same here, I rolled my eyes throughout the whole thing 😅

  • @thatoditsele9192
    @thatoditsele91924 ай бұрын

    exposing sama corruption in the process. no one is spared, this guy is funny

  • @tshephomanyothwane1916
    @tshephomanyothwane19164 ай бұрын

    If he is telling the truth, he is a great husband, he might have his flows but husband wise he is

  • @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt

    @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt

    4 ай бұрын

    A great husband going around telling the world how her wife's fart smells??

  • @rawtruth5730

    @rawtruth5730

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt you didn't get the point he was making

  • @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    @jabulilenenzhelele2179

    4 ай бұрын

    for the fact that you use "if" tells a lot about the vote of confidence in his statements

  • @tshiamondlhovu1243

    @tshiamondlhovu1243

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt😂😂😂😂I've never laughed like this bathong!

  • @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt

    @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt

    3 ай бұрын

    @@tshiamondlhovu1243 😂😂😂

  • @palesamokoena8405
    @palesamokoena84054 ай бұрын

    I thoroughly enjoyed this interview...

  • @tsholofelomhlaba8820
    @tsholofelomhlaba88204 ай бұрын

    Thank you Nhlamulo for inspiring & upholding the institution of marriage. It is still my prayer that you re-unite with your wife. What God has joined together LET NO man separate Matthew 19:6. Thank you to the host as well for allowing N the platform to express himself & for speaking an unpopular message & yet very constructive. I love Gugu very much by the way. Thank you to the two of you for 'Keys of Love.'

  • @disciple8531

    @disciple8531

    4 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤Bless you

  • @moshemoshes3580
    @moshemoshes35804 ай бұрын

    This man makes so much sense🥺🥺 just listen to him. He’s the modern day YE.

  • @ayandamsibi6444
    @ayandamsibi64444 ай бұрын

    Nota is the master of digression

  • @angelinahmoeketsi
    @angelinahmoeketsi4 ай бұрын

    Well spoken Nota. I'm not sure why he's always criticized. I think he's just telling his truth

  • @pastorswifempowerment.
    @pastorswifempowerment.4 ай бұрын

    I love you Promise and I'm happy to see your growth and progress. I'm motivated indeed

  • @Amahle_N_T_M
    @Amahle_N_T_M4 ай бұрын

    him talking about his in-laws separation says alot about him🤥

  • @lattoyahdiago-kj9fs
    @lattoyahdiago-kj9fs4 ай бұрын

    He can't even realise that his exposing himself, telling the world how he was abusing the wife.trying to play a victim mxxm his a narcissist

  • @NokuphiwaM
    @NokuphiwaM4 ай бұрын

    20 minutes in and Nota is definitely narcissistic. I don’t like using this word lightly; but the inability to sit still; exaggeration of his accomplishment; telling Promise to not compliment Berita because she doesn’t know her. What is he even wearing? This man must see a psychiatrist ASAP

  • @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000

    @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000

    3 ай бұрын

    OMGlol

  • @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    @LesegoMadisaEllesG

    3 ай бұрын

    ME ME ME ME ME ME ME

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo45144 ай бұрын

    I’m scared of NOTA😢

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197

    @siphokaziluzipho4197

    4 ай бұрын

    Berita should have been scared of him too.

  • @makaselaentertainment373
    @makaselaentertainment3734 ай бұрын

    Nota is a Narcissists. Talking about his in-laws recklessly and still expects to gix his marriage is just crazy.

  • @nokwandaazania8851
    @nokwandaazania88514 ай бұрын

    Why does his knees look exactly like that of Musa Khawula 😂😂😂

  • @nwabisapbodlo3246

    @nwabisapbodlo3246

    4 ай бұрын

    What???!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thuthukiledlamini6850

    @thuthukiledlamini6850

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 ngizokushaya yezwa!!!

  • @tembezelanilubatapela3116

    @tembezelanilubatapela3116

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂wtf

  • @floradube5529
    @floradube55294 ай бұрын

    We love you Nota ❤

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