Jesus Christ what an evil man he is. I can’t imagine what you’re going through OP. You deserve all the love, healing, and care you need and want.

Yeah, I am going to get charged for murder

@justroonhere

4 ай бұрын

Looks like I'll be going down with you 🤷 what a sad excuse for a man

When the whole world is against you and your mother's actions, can you really call it a "win"? Abandoning your heavily bleeding pregnant wife for your perfectly healthy mother is loser behaviour

OP made a mistake letting that man back into her life. He nearly let her die while she went through a highly traumatic and dangerous event and is still not really sorry. He's saying " _she_ left _him_ alone to suffer" ? What kind of drug is he on to be this self centred and delusional!? OP is vulnerable and grieving but this guy is just trying to keep her because losing her over this makes him look bad. If she actually gets back with him he's going to treat her worse now because he'll now think he can pretty much do anything and she won't leave - and if she does he just has to pretend long enough until she comes back. History will repeat if OP gets pregnant by him again: the MIL will arrange an "accident", OP will likely miscarry, the son will prioritise his mistress - sorry, his _mother_ - AGAIN, only this time OP you may not survive a second time. The MIL is clearly willing to do some twisted, evil shit to prevent anyone being more important to HER baby than her.

@vanzy01

3 ай бұрын

💯👍🏿

If a man did that to your child, would you forgive and forget? He left you to bleed to death. Left his kid's with you while you were bleeding to death. He didn't care Would you want a daughter of yours to marry him?

@lazallewillemse3617

3 ай бұрын

Only acomplete idiot would crawl back to that man

If OP goes back to the slime she is destroying herself.

Some of the comments below are victim-shaming so hard right now. OP 1 nearly died, lost her child, and the man she loved all in one day, and people are like "Stop looking for sympathy" or "Get over it" or "Sounds like a professional victim" just because she's struggling after 7 months and debating going back to him. Grieving takes time and patience. The fact that she obediently cleaned up the blood makes me even think this isn't the first time she's been abused. It's SO easy to say "get over it", but those words never help anyone. Try having some sympathy for someone that lost her child, her husband, her mom, and nearly her life twice. I'm shocked by how many people are so heartless. She's not you, stop holding her to the same standards for how fast she should "move on".

@REYCER0

4 ай бұрын

i can´t even start to comprehend how someone sees this and say all of those things, i almost teared by minute 2, it´s so hearth breaking

@arjundhaliwal8853

3 ай бұрын

Honestly it is sad what happened to her but she’s such a doormat I hate reading stories like this. Your husband saw you bleeding out and miscarried and left you by yourself with his own kids from a different marriage and you want to get back together with him. Is she on something? I can’t have sympathy for someone who self sabotages

@Kaleidosaur

3 ай бұрын

@@arjundhaliwal8853 I think you and her husband would get along very well, if the biggest thing you take away from this situation is "Ugh, what a doormat, stop self sabotaging" rather than "This woman is going through so much grief right now that she isn't thinking clearly, and is bound to make poor decisions." There seems to be a history of abuse here. Look up "battered wife syndrome". It isn't so easy to escape, even if you're already separated. People go back to their abusers because they feel like they have no choice, or they feel like they deserve that treatment. It's a mental illness. Or maybe just have some sympathy for someone going through the worst experience of their life?

'My best friend is going thru a hard time' well she put herself there🙄 and choosing her over your husband is so dumb

Aw heck, That poor woman in story 1. She held the remains of her baby and the husband... He must've chosen the lesser of the 2 that wasn't stressful and that was his mothers supposed break down while blanking the obvious more life threatening crisis of his wifes miscarriage and the loss of his girl. Where'd they live? Out in the wop? No one tried calling for an ambulance? Yeah she's miscarrying but the fall and the loss of blood could've resulted in her not being able to get herself to hospital. The husband admonishing her for the blood. Sheesh! What does that tell you about him? Mummies boy, little prince perfect. There's more to this story, a hell of a lot more to it. She should've named her girl and the family should've gotten her a plaque.

Being forced to clean up her own miscarriage whilest her husband chills out with his momma? AND SHE STILL LOVES HIM?! 🤣Some folk seem destined to suffer aye.

@anniephiri_18

4 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I've never seen such foolishness eish

@red0421

4 ай бұрын

Makes me wonder how much gaslighting, manipulation and who knows what else he put OP through that she's like this that she hasn't realised yet. 😔

@lindah3803

4 ай бұрын

I spit my rootbeer when OP said she wanted to be safe with her huuby at home. Like WTF. He left her bleeding out. She thinks that she can be Safe with him. OP needs a new therapist. This one isn't helping at all. She even attempted to end herself. At this rate,she'll try again.

That 2nd story? That's your classic Audio Story Podcast cheating wife generated story lmao

Live the man child mama boy

Last story: I call BS. OPs friend didn't just get in touch with her ex after her hubby left. Hopefully he hires an investor. Also,her saying that the ex wants to see his daughter. That's not his daughter. She's her hubby's daughter. Hope he gets full custody. With her getting supervised visitation.

After my second miscarriage, my ex disappeared for two weeks and ran up a grand of debt, which I had to pay back. I finally got the reason. Because HE couldn't cope. What a load of crap, I'm the one that lost that baby, and was left alone while raising my teen son too.

The mama's boy's wife. Jeez, lady, grow a spine and divorce him. Take everything you can and make a new start. At this point, you are just victimizing yourself .

@HeoBaby24

4 ай бұрын

bruh she literally just lost a child

@jemase7931

4 ай бұрын

@@HeoBaby24 It was 7 months ago. It was a bad experience, but she is wallowing in it. She's not going back to the jerk. She's not moving forward. She's just wallowing.

@Resurgence47

4 ай бұрын

@@jemase7931 people grieve at different paces

@jemase7931

4 ай бұрын

@@Resurgence47 Listen to her words. She's not just grieving, she's wallowing. She's looking for reasons to be miserable and get sympathy.

@ItzPubby

4 ай бұрын

@@jemase7931 She doesnt want to move on, she is doing EXACT Jamese said, she is wallowing in her own self pitty "oh woah is me, woah is me!" at some point, you need to pick yourself back up and move on even if you are still grieving. If you dont, at somepoint you're ruining your own life for the same of self pitty

Again, single mother for the win.

This might sound cruel, but I have zero sympathy for people who were wronged and refused to do something about it. Evil people like that will only "win" if you let them.

@HeoBaby24

4 ай бұрын

to an extent yah but i give op a little bit more grace she still dealing with the loss of her baby whom she was literally holding in her arms.

@MisseryMoth

4 ай бұрын

@@HeoBaby24 you also cant help someone who doesnt wanna be helped, she had a safe place to grieve, therapy, different people giving her options to grieve and recover heathly and she took NONE of it because she doesnt want too, she doesnt even fucking try. shes getting worse and not making any effort to be better because she doesnt care. her family cares, her friends care, but shes making 0 effort to get better and hurting other people in the process how are u supposed to feel sorry for someone like that, its like someone doing drugs actively, knowing its bad, and continuing to do it because they feel bad for themselves. the whole story is enraging.

@HeoBaby24

4 ай бұрын

@@MisseryMoth yah you have a good point it's just this is something to take a little bit more grace but ysh you can't help people who can't be helped

@ItzPubby

4 ай бұрын

Agreed, ZERO sympathy, if you dislike where you are. Grab your bootstraps and move on and stop letting people as well as yourself wall over you.

@personwithaquestion1800

4 ай бұрын

​@@ItzPubby you'd be surprised at the ways people self sabotage when they can't find it within themselves, the purpose and reason they strive for. Telling someone to just chin up and stop being upset won't work. Someone needs to clearly sit down and work with OP's emotions. To me, it feels like OP visualized the baby as her reason and hope, she may have even thought once she has the baby everything will be fine and nothing will bother or hurt her anymore, the MiL or the AH hubby. Now the baby's gone and she's going through a whole world of hurt. She'll only be able to do what you suggest when she decides that her life's worth living and she deserves better than all the sh*t she has been through. Unless you've ever tried to self harm, you're not qualified to judge someone the way you did. I hope everyone will be kinder, you never know when your words push someone off the ledge. Please be kind.

'I want to move on' and goes back to him🙄 if OP is just going to go back, why post in the first place? The first story is messed up

@no-xt5bb

4 ай бұрын

its not that easy 🙄🖕

@theubiquitouspotato

3 ай бұрын

Tell me you've never had trauma without telling me you've never had trauma.