Have you ever done anything about moving on and healing after a traumatically hostile workplace? I am a magnet for bad workplaces and after the last few I had to just stay home and heal for a while. (Shoutout to my husband for supporting me in that). I'm honestly afraid to go back to work at this point though. Logically I know everyone isn't going to be that way, but it's still anxiety inducing. Also on that note, what are some things to look for to identify toxic workplaces and poor management BEFORE accepting the job?
@platyadmirer Жыл бұрын
Its also nice to know you're in a negotiation, not a one way street. You need a job, they need a person.
@anrychan7019 Жыл бұрын
I am a hiring manager, and this is so true! Every interview I enter, I just wish for the person to be THAT person which I am just going to hire. Honestly, conducting interviews is absolutely no fun (people are cool, but the way it eats your time is not). So nobody wants to not hire you if you were invited! And remember, it‘s not just us choosing you. You are also choosing.
@ahsokatano9159
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment it helped me to always remember that a rejection afterwards isn't ment personal but maybe someone else just fits this position better. Unfortunately I tend to take it a little bit personal and feel like the biggest failer ever. 😅
@anonstarstruck797310 ай бұрын
Now this is what immediateky calmed my anxiety. I have a PhD interview in 3 hours. Thank you for your words ❤
@marielb4720 Жыл бұрын
I have an interview in a few minutes and I’m so happy I came across this short. It made my anxiety a lot better ❤
@Lala-Valley
7 ай бұрын
Hello! How was the interview? I hope it went well.. i started applying for jobs and I’m sooooo nervous for the interview !
@TaeTae-cv9xz Жыл бұрын
Love how you reframed it. Thank you,, you make me feel more confident in myself 🙈💕
@jh2471 Жыл бұрын
You are interviewing them just as much as they are interviewing you. Never forget that. Ask pertinent questions, dig deep, know your rights, know your worth.
@Heather_H.123 Жыл бұрын
I’m saving this so I can play it on a loop before every interview.
@graywing633611 ай бұрын
Gotta channel that chosen one energy
@TxtallyNotKev Жыл бұрын
You make such a good job at explaining things to even someone like me in High school. You are truly inspiring and I hope you know that. I'm young but I still want to begin making a living for myself and help my family out. You make economics and other various topics so easy to understand and process, even for someone on my level of expertise (which is basically zero). Thank you for everything, Erin!! 🙏
@kenyabell2982 Жыл бұрын
that is powerful!!! I'm saving this because I'm looking for another manager job, and I keep blocking myself from applying. My understanding is incorrect. Thank you!!!!
@kimbrolyy11 ай бұрын
Interviews are also expensive for a company to do, as often the hiring manager isn't doing their normal responsibilities for that day. So they wouldn't waste money interviewing you if they didn't think you'd be right for the job
@binlynbin Жыл бұрын
thank you, my anxiety can get severe i needed this different perspective !
@Robert256 Жыл бұрын
Yeah... Getting that interview has been proving more and more challenging with each passing week
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
Don’t get discouraged. A lot of the time it’s some Bullshit computer program or a moron in HR sifting through the applications.
@kailynbailey51802 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! This really made my night I have two interviews tomorrow so I’m very nervous. 😅
@quynhhoa6618 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I really need this ❤
@mayyap7167Ай бұрын
what an amazing pep talk, thank you! ❤
@JenOween6 ай бұрын
Thank you. This changed my mindset so much. I get so nervous that my mind goes all over the place and my mouth splutters out gibberish. I know I'm a great worker. I know I'm dedicated and quick thinking. I know my work ethic. I get so worked up in my own head, that I can't convince them of that. I have two interviews this week. Hopefully they'll go well and I'll get an offer at at least one of them.
@eknoormatharoo1179 Жыл бұрын
This is such a wonderful way to look at it! I truly enjoy helping people and this way it feels lile I’m helping them 😊
@molly_33713 Жыл бұрын
just came home from my first job interview ive been wtaching your videos in preparation, i think i nailed it
@patriciabriseno Жыл бұрын
This really really helps me! I have an interview tomorrow..and all I can say is wow!!! Thank you
@RosyMiche Жыл бұрын
I'm going to hopefully be doing a lot of interviewing soon. I needed this.
@gabriellapopovych Жыл бұрын
This is perfect. Thank you
@GetOfflineGetGood Жыл бұрын
Interviews are actually fine for me, I've only had one interview in my life where I didn't get hired. It's just getting TO the interview. I swear I sent out like 50 applications on indeed the last time I need to look for a job. I could easily have talked my way into a job if any of them had interviewed me.
@thepaintslayer624 Жыл бұрын
What a fantastic piece of advice and excellent way to look at it! Thank you for posting this!
@sheetalparmar2499 Жыл бұрын
This is sooo true. We’re always desperate in our team when we’re recruiting 😂
@merrivideo Жыл бұрын
I wish O had watch this last week. I will save it. Thanks!
@TintinFanTintinfan234 Жыл бұрын
Your videos have been so helpful to me! Thank you for all you do!
@Laura-hw1bv Жыл бұрын
As an interviewer I can confirm this is accurate. Don't forget to do your research on the company and pay attention to the role spec they advertise. This tells you exactly what they are looking for. Make sure you have examples of things you've done that relate to things on the job advert to show you have transferable skills.
@elliesnyder6202 Жыл бұрын
❤ that’s good advice
@juos6787 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your work Erin! I am currently looking for a job, and your videos are incredibly helpful ❤😁
@bearchild4352 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow thank you for this advice!
@meganmoore5457 Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful, thank you!!
@boatboy3112 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😭 I’m going to do an interview for my first job soon and I have been sooo anxious
@crazycornishcrafter Жыл бұрын
Sometimes they interview everyone who applies, are just seeing who's out there and waste your time. (Typo edit.)
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
And sometimes they have some computer system weeding out people who could do a really good job… but because buzz words aren’t in their CV air resume, they don’t get the opportunity and the company loses out. So don’t get discouraged if you don’t get an interview. A lot of the time, the people sorting out resumes don’t actually know shit about the position
@crazycornishcrafter
Жыл бұрын
@@jh2471 Thanks. It happened a few times when I was younger. I guess it's all a question of balance.
@mansimishra19 Жыл бұрын
This is just so amazing
@Wishdreamerx Жыл бұрын
Love your vids! I have an interview tomorrow, not for a job, but in the hopes of becoming an intern, so the ''they're hiring'' part doesn't apply. I'm pretty nervous, but trying to be confident since they were willing to interview me once I contacted them for an intern position!
@gluten1221 Жыл бұрын
in my mind it helps knowing i’m selling myself, this is a sales pitch, not an interrogation
@eniko6333 Жыл бұрын
Erin thank you 😭😭😭
@Auntie_Ahgase Жыл бұрын
I'm 60. I wish someone had said this when I was a teenager BEFORE a lifetime of scary interviews.
@magdalenadeline3775 Жыл бұрын
Ur face really clean
@dragonetafireball Жыл бұрын
My country has a scheme that an employer have to interview reasonably qualified candidates if they’re disabled so it sucks wondering whether those employers actually like you or just don’t want to loose the badge they get with that scheme because some of them make it pretty obvious they don’t want you and I’ve heard some complain they have to make up lies to not hire the person because the only thing the recruiter didn’t like was a trait associated with the disability so they’re no allowed to say that.
@rijd2304 Жыл бұрын
The days before an interview practice mindfulness meditation, totally helps. And then an hour before the interview. The book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels has some really good techniques.
@AbriellaWan-eu2sh Жыл бұрын
applying this to auditions
@sreejamanikyam3330 Жыл бұрын
Wowww best advice everrrrrrrr 👏👏👏
@JustAriel11 ай бұрын
I'm having trouble finding the remote job I want. I can't get to the interview process if I can't find the job I want. I keep hearing there are remote jobs available and yet I can't find them😢
@andrewjones9991 Жыл бұрын
I worked for a company that interviewed every single applicant. There didn't need to be a position. They had such high turnover that they just kept a list of people they'd hire when someone inevitably walked out. They didn't do any prescreening. The interview was the prescreening.
@sandravanos201211 ай бұрын
Can you make a video like this for an audition? I have a casting for a non speaking role in a musical next week and I'm pretty nervous, since I've heard from someone they don't care about talent but more about if you fit the poule and already exsisting outfits, so I just need a lot of luck
@AdvancedCommonSense Жыл бұрын
I would also add, practice the interview, try to answer 5-10 the most popular questions.
@JD-pu7xq Жыл бұрын
@AdviceWithErin Hey Erin, can you do one about physical disabilities and trying to convince employers that i am able to adapt to a job during an interview. I feel like they always see the disabilities rather than my personality and actual skills. I cant manage to get a job due to this. Its not deliberate but, i feel like they cannot see past my disability ❤
@michaelwebb1071 Жыл бұрын
That's a big assumption. A lot of companies are ghosting applicants now, to the point where I don't believe there was ever a job open.
@JenOween
6 ай бұрын
She's talking about the interview. Not the application process. I agree on the ghosting though. And the scams. Most of the calls I've received in the last two years were scams. Only two were for actual jobs.
@ushagupta7938 Жыл бұрын
Can you do for highschool, please.
@nichelbichel646411 ай бұрын
And even if there is a perfect candidate, who knows if he has multiple offers. That's why, not only the interviewee has to have a good first impression the interviewer has to have one too ^^
@bovax6259 Жыл бұрын
And that people, IS CONFIDENCE! You need to have it! She is right. If they didnt think you were a right choice, you wouldnt be meeting with them. Show them they chose right by selecting YOU!.
@Stephanieann5643 Жыл бұрын
I have a bad habit of crying when I am passionate or tired. Any suggestions there?
@kayaprasad6062 Жыл бұрын
Omg I’m early, great advice but first I have to be old enough 😂
@caperdoodle Жыл бұрын
Love it. But first I gotta land the interview.
@nelzzz89 Жыл бұрын
Good advice, but not always the case. Often, companies plan out the likely workload months ahead of time, and will need people hired and trained ahead of when the actual work is planned to kick off
@loomonda18 Жыл бұрын
FACTS
@Random8005 Жыл бұрын
If there are a lot of person this kind of thought just vanish into thin air.Recently I went for an interview & the hr was so picky.
@BoneMellow Жыл бұрын
I just get stoned as shit, works most of the time.
@macchiatote Жыл бұрын
Could you suggest some ways to express that you're someone who's willing to learn? The kind of jobs that I'm applying for need people who will undergo training, but also has an interest in their work. I'm interested in their work but idk how to express that I'm willing to learn
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
Write just that in your cover letter!! That you’re ready, willing, able, and excited for new training and learning experiences. If possible, write in your resume any training you have done for previous positions.
@abhishekpradhan6414 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@arinjay10 Жыл бұрын
🥲mam I just resigned few days back and was watching your videos I had my first interaction with a potential employer, this was the first company in this job hunt journey Got nervous while speaking And listening this today, made me smile Keep up the good work🧡
@Aeliiaaa27 күн бұрын
Before
@asadb1990 Жыл бұрын
Its nice to think about. But since the interviewer is getting paid to interview and you are there for free, it makes it easier for them to waste your time. They can call you in and put on a show while they hire their buddy.
@angiloves Жыл бұрын
Yaaaasssss
@waterdragon55 Жыл бұрын
But wven with tht I still fail on interviews I mean like I never get an interview only two times I got an interview both times I failed so what am I doing wrong and yes once I did say they were annoying but the second one I never said anything rude abt anyone y was I not given atleast a job I am so confused thts y still dont have a job and I am 22 so never will I guessing until someone please helps me
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
Apply for jobs that you might deem below you… if nothing else, for practice interviewing
@Neezuyx Жыл бұрын
How are you so gorgeous
@MissPrivateTube Жыл бұрын
Drink 1 shot
@doritossnickerson6203 Жыл бұрын
69th comment
@micklynnb Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I get so nervous before job interviews. 🫣
@chandraprabhasolanki13497 ай бұрын
i am going for an interview that means a lot to me, always wanted to do this Thanks a lot sis❤️🫂
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You are amazing!!! ❤
@santiagocruz9426
Жыл бұрын
You're a beautiful person
@shehanijay9537
Жыл бұрын
No you are ❤ AHMAZING!
@whitcassie
Жыл бұрын
Have you ever done anything about moving on and healing after a traumatically hostile workplace? I am a magnet for bad workplaces and after the last few I had to just stay home and heal for a while. (Shoutout to my husband for supporting me in that). I'm honestly afraid to go back to work at this point though. Logically I know everyone isn't going to be that way, but it's still anxiety inducing. Also on that note, what are some things to look for to identify toxic workplaces and poor management BEFORE accepting the job?
Its also nice to know you're in a negotiation, not a one way street. You need a job, they need a person.
I am a hiring manager, and this is so true! Every interview I enter, I just wish for the person to be THAT person which I am just going to hire. Honestly, conducting interviews is absolutely no fun (people are cool, but the way it eats your time is not). So nobody wants to not hire you if you were invited! And remember, it‘s not just us choosing you. You are also choosing.
@ahsokatano9159
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment it helped me to always remember that a rejection afterwards isn't ment personal but maybe someone else just fits this position better. Unfortunately I tend to take it a little bit personal and feel like the biggest failer ever. 😅
Now this is what immediateky calmed my anxiety. I have a PhD interview in 3 hours. Thank you for your words ❤
I have an interview in a few minutes and I’m so happy I came across this short. It made my anxiety a lot better ❤
@Lala-Valley
7 ай бұрын
Hello! How was the interview? I hope it went well.. i started applying for jobs and I’m sooooo nervous for the interview !
Love how you reframed it. Thank you,, you make me feel more confident in myself 🙈💕
You are interviewing them just as much as they are interviewing you. Never forget that. Ask pertinent questions, dig deep, know your rights, know your worth.
I’m saving this so I can play it on a loop before every interview.
Gotta channel that chosen one energy
You make such a good job at explaining things to even someone like me in High school. You are truly inspiring and I hope you know that. I'm young but I still want to begin making a living for myself and help my family out. You make economics and other various topics so easy to understand and process, even for someone on my level of expertise (which is basically zero). Thank you for everything, Erin!! 🙏
that is powerful!!! I'm saving this because I'm looking for another manager job, and I keep blocking myself from applying. My understanding is incorrect. Thank you!!!!
Interviews are also expensive for a company to do, as often the hiring manager isn't doing their normal responsibilities for that day. So they wouldn't waste money interviewing you if they didn't think you'd be right for the job
thank you, my anxiety can get severe i needed this different perspective !
Yeah... Getting that interview has been proving more and more challenging with each passing week
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
Don’t get discouraged. A lot of the time it’s some Bullshit computer program or a moron in HR sifting through the applications.
Thank you so much! This really made my night I have two interviews tomorrow so I’m very nervous. 😅
Thank you. I really need this ❤
what an amazing pep talk, thank you! ❤
Thank you. This changed my mindset so much. I get so nervous that my mind goes all over the place and my mouth splutters out gibberish. I know I'm a great worker. I know I'm dedicated and quick thinking. I know my work ethic. I get so worked up in my own head, that I can't convince them of that. I have two interviews this week. Hopefully they'll go well and I'll get an offer at at least one of them.
This is such a wonderful way to look at it! I truly enjoy helping people and this way it feels lile I’m helping them 😊
just came home from my first job interview ive been wtaching your videos in preparation, i think i nailed it
This really really helps me! I have an interview tomorrow..and all I can say is wow!!! Thank you
I'm going to hopefully be doing a lot of interviewing soon. I needed this.
This is perfect. Thank you
Interviews are actually fine for me, I've only had one interview in my life where I didn't get hired. It's just getting TO the interview. I swear I sent out like 50 applications on indeed the last time I need to look for a job. I could easily have talked my way into a job if any of them had interviewed me.
What a fantastic piece of advice and excellent way to look at it! Thank you for posting this!
This is sooo true. We’re always desperate in our team when we’re recruiting 😂
I wish O had watch this last week. I will save it. Thanks!
Your videos have been so helpful to me! Thank you for all you do!
As an interviewer I can confirm this is accurate. Don't forget to do your research on the company and pay attention to the role spec they advertise. This tells you exactly what they are looking for. Make sure you have examples of things you've done that relate to things on the job advert to show you have transferable skills.
❤ that’s good advice
Thank you so much for your work Erin! I am currently looking for a job, and your videos are incredibly helpful ❤😁
Oh wow thank you for this advice!
This is so helpful, thank you!!
Thank you so much 😭 I’m going to do an interview for my first job soon and I have been sooo anxious
Sometimes they interview everyone who applies, are just seeing who's out there and waste your time. (Typo edit.)
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
And sometimes they have some computer system weeding out people who could do a really good job… but because buzz words aren’t in their CV air resume, they don’t get the opportunity and the company loses out. So don’t get discouraged if you don’t get an interview. A lot of the time, the people sorting out resumes don’t actually know shit about the position
@crazycornishcrafter
Жыл бұрын
@@jh2471 Thanks. It happened a few times when I was younger. I guess it's all a question of balance.
This is just so amazing
Love your vids! I have an interview tomorrow, not for a job, but in the hopes of becoming an intern, so the ''they're hiring'' part doesn't apply. I'm pretty nervous, but trying to be confident since they were willing to interview me once I contacted them for an intern position!
in my mind it helps knowing i’m selling myself, this is a sales pitch, not an interrogation
Erin thank you 😭😭😭
I'm 60. I wish someone had said this when I was a teenager BEFORE a lifetime of scary interviews.
Ur face really clean
My country has a scheme that an employer have to interview reasonably qualified candidates if they’re disabled so it sucks wondering whether those employers actually like you or just don’t want to loose the badge they get with that scheme because some of them make it pretty obvious they don’t want you and I’ve heard some complain they have to make up lies to not hire the person because the only thing the recruiter didn’t like was a trait associated with the disability so they’re no allowed to say that.
The days before an interview practice mindfulness meditation, totally helps. And then an hour before the interview. The book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels has some really good techniques.
applying this to auditions
Wowww best advice everrrrrrrr 👏👏👏
I'm having trouble finding the remote job I want. I can't get to the interview process if I can't find the job I want. I keep hearing there are remote jobs available and yet I can't find them😢
I worked for a company that interviewed every single applicant. There didn't need to be a position. They had such high turnover that they just kept a list of people they'd hire when someone inevitably walked out. They didn't do any prescreening. The interview was the prescreening.
Can you make a video like this for an audition? I have a casting for a non speaking role in a musical next week and I'm pretty nervous, since I've heard from someone they don't care about talent but more about if you fit the poule and already exsisting outfits, so I just need a lot of luck
I would also add, practice the interview, try to answer 5-10 the most popular questions.
@AdviceWithErin Hey Erin, can you do one about physical disabilities and trying to convince employers that i am able to adapt to a job during an interview. I feel like they always see the disabilities rather than my personality and actual skills. I cant manage to get a job due to this. Its not deliberate but, i feel like they cannot see past my disability ❤
That's a big assumption. A lot of companies are ghosting applicants now, to the point where I don't believe there was ever a job open.
@JenOween
6 ай бұрын
She's talking about the interview. Not the application process. I agree on the ghosting though. And the scams. Most of the calls I've received in the last two years were scams. Only two were for actual jobs.
Can you do for highschool, please.
And even if there is a perfect candidate, who knows if he has multiple offers. That's why, not only the interviewee has to have a good first impression the interviewer has to have one too ^^
And that people, IS CONFIDENCE! You need to have it! She is right. If they didnt think you were a right choice, you wouldnt be meeting with them. Show them they chose right by selecting YOU!.
I have a bad habit of crying when I am passionate or tired. Any suggestions there?
Omg I’m early, great advice but first I have to be old enough 😂
Love it. But first I gotta land the interview.
Good advice, but not always the case. Often, companies plan out the likely workload months ahead of time, and will need people hired and trained ahead of when the actual work is planned to kick off
FACTS
If there are a lot of person this kind of thought just vanish into thin air.Recently I went for an interview & the hr was so picky.
I just get stoned as shit, works most of the time.
Could you suggest some ways to express that you're someone who's willing to learn? The kind of jobs that I'm applying for need people who will undergo training, but also has an interest in their work. I'm interested in their work but idk how to express that I'm willing to learn
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
Write just that in your cover letter!! That you’re ready, willing, able, and excited for new training and learning experiences. If possible, write in your resume any training you have done for previous positions.
Yes
🥲mam I just resigned few days back and was watching your videos I had my first interaction with a potential employer, this was the first company in this job hunt journey Got nervous while speaking And listening this today, made me smile Keep up the good work🧡
Before
Its nice to think about. But since the interviewer is getting paid to interview and you are there for free, it makes it easier for them to waste your time. They can call you in and put on a show while they hire their buddy.
Yaaaasssss
But wven with tht I still fail on interviews I mean like I never get an interview only two times I got an interview both times I failed so what am I doing wrong and yes once I did say they were annoying but the second one I never said anything rude abt anyone y was I not given atleast a job I am so confused thts y still dont have a job and I am 22 so never will I guessing until someone please helps me
@jh2471
Жыл бұрын
Apply for jobs that you might deem below you… if nothing else, for practice interviewing
How are you so gorgeous
Drink 1 shot
69th comment
Thank you!! I get so nervous before job interviews. 🫣
i am going for an interview that means a lot to me, always wanted to do this Thanks a lot sis❤️🫂