I think some plastic surgeons just see dollar signs when they see trans patients and take advantage of their body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria. I really wish there was more high quality help and more *accessible* help for trans people who want gender therapy. I think people do the best they can to take care of themselves with the information and resources they have.

@Morri21

Жыл бұрын

Their therapy is this: Embrace yourself for who you are,for how God created you and for being alive and well physically. Do not fall for the devil and his temptations and the negative things he whispers

@4amlibra

Жыл бұрын

Well, that didn’t take long. Lady Morri you said your hate speech, you can leave now.

@absolutelynot6546

Жыл бұрын

@@Morri21 oh cut the shit

@kiwanacabrera366

Жыл бұрын

@@4amlibra You mean TRUTH, something you clearly have a long distance relationship with. Ya’ll are just continuing to lie to these folks who even after all of this surgery STILL aren’t happy with themselves, making these surgeons rich, while they destroy their bodies. Make it make sense.

@666rosenor

Жыл бұрын

Very true

Contrary to many other videos on this kind of topic, dr Youn is so respectful and wholesome, even to the point of recommending people NOT to do plastic surgery other than as a last resort (even though surgery makes him money), and even discussing body dismorphia. Big respect to you for treating the topic so sensitively rather than going sensational or even body shaming, like so many other channels do. Videos like these are why he gets my likes and my subscription.

@lucretialee3691

8 ай бұрын

I agree, too much enthesis is out on plastic surgery, and the claim of making people happier. If you have insecurity or a mental health issue, most often finding an expert to talk through the issue is the best option. Even if it doesn't solve the issue, it would at least give the person a better place to start from.

i feel so bad for her… it seems like she has been exploited by doctors instead of helped in a way she truly needs. i really hope she will feel comfortable in her skin one day. 💔 thank you dr youn for educating people about such an important topic. safe and accessible health care for trans people is so desperately needed.

@cassandrareedy7369

Жыл бұрын

I agree! 100k on affirmation and still not happy seems unhealthy. I just wish I could hug her and make the pain go away!

@elliot_rat

Жыл бұрын

i don't lol

@excxmoody

Жыл бұрын

hopefully the drs I saw on google don't do what was done to that person.

@maggsbufton1969

Жыл бұрын

This is a MAN with gender body dysmorphic disorder; he needed psychiatric treatment, NOT gender ideology affirmation or surgical intervention. He is a man, not a woman.

@chrishessey9733

Жыл бұрын

Not a Her it's still a Him.

This is truly heartbreaking makes me sad for this person. No one sets out to look worse

@hope7069

6 ай бұрын

He ruined his life

I had a mole under my chin thatmyguardian for some reason when I was a child chose to have it removed with my mother's permission she told me. But it left me with a short chin I was made fun of at school and even at time went home feeling so bad and ugly because I was called names at school and bullied for not lookin g normal . It bothered me so much that by age 12 . I ran away found my mom and told her that I wanted plastic sugery.. well I don't have any photos of before and after but the scar never went away. I'm not even sure if it looked worst . I so feel that people have judged me so much on my looks that still today it bothers me at 62 many say they don't see it but I know it's there. It's when ypu look in the mirror and the horror of what makes ypu see yourself is what effects the phyke.. Sometimes, it's the things that people have said about you to you face is what never goes away. 😓

Looks like she had the same plastic surgeon as Donatello Versace

@u4riahsc

3 ай бұрын

I don’t understand Donatello Versace’s obsession with her look. She says that she is not a fan of the ‘natural look’.

transitioning is often very slow because of the cost as well. ive been saving for years, and ill probably be saving for many more - and every day its a struggle not to become part of that suicide statistic

@ILoveYou-rv3pd

Жыл бұрын

I feel this. I’ve been saving up for years, with basically nothing to show for it. I just try not to think about it too much, so I don’t get depressed.

@gohawks3571

18 күн бұрын

I hope you guys are well and ok. You're here for a purpose, on purpose, no matter what you have experienced in your life. Your story can always help someone else, too. I wish you the best✌️

I love how you're always so respectful of people's differences and life choices! Also, i'm pretty sure she suffers from body dysmorphia, which makes me sad for her. Hopefully she finds a way to be with who she is!

@hope7069

6 ай бұрын

They are sick

I think therapy is also important to avoid over correction or false diagnosis. For the longest time my body dysmorphia was confused for gender dysphoria, and if it weren’t for a good psychiatrist and therapist I would have been placed on hormones and made what I had worse. Now a days people are so quick to label something they do not know 100% off. When clearly it’s something that takes time to understand rather than just turn to “I think” Hope this lovely person finds the help she needs to become the woman she’s always dreamed herself to be. But in a safe manner that doesn’t take advantage of her mental health

@CRUDE360

Жыл бұрын

Hey hope ur doing ok. Can you explain a bit more about your particular type of body dysmorphia and how its different from gender dysmorphia? You don't have to but I've never seen a comment like this b4, just want to know more. Tnx!

@hxjjdjd606

Жыл бұрын

@@CRUDE360 No problem! My body dysmorphia was stemmed mainly due to how I was raised. If you don’t know much about black or Caribbean house holds, girls are held at a much higher standard than boys are socially, and often don’t get as many privileges. And I felt it as I grew up and especially as I developed sexually (I have big boobs for my figure so my dad was even tougher on me talking to male friends) and it in turned made me hate how I felt about my body. I saw how my brother was treated and I wanted to have that. I grew to hate what made me a “woman” and went as far as to start binding and wearing baggy clothes My friends at the time encouraged this, and what I thought was gender euphoria was rather serotonin from getting positive attention after being scrutinized a lot for being born female. It took me moving out and going to therapy to make me realize, I wasn’t actually dysphoric. I internalized misogynistic thoughts that came from my childhood, associating with being feminine and a female with weak. My therapist had me sit in front of a mirror and take a look at myself to affirm if I was really gendered male. Because outside of external affirmation, if I didn’t have the internal affirmation to transgender then I was never dysphoric to begin with. And it took a lot, because it meant going back to why I hated the way I was. Did I want to change because I didn’t feel right in my body, or did I want to change because others convinced me my body wasn’t right for me This took a couple years, sorry if it’s wonky in my explanation lmao. But that’s the briefest explanation I could give without giving too much fluff ^^”

@hxjjdjd606

Жыл бұрын

@@CRUDE360 And yes I am much better now ^^ I still enjoy things that are traditionally masculine. But learned it doesn’t make me any less of a woman for partaking in those activities.

@Grahkay

Жыл бұрын

@@hxjjdjd606 ​ Wow reading this is almost an exact mirror to what I’ve experience, you’ve summed it up really well! I’m glad you managed to get to the root of it and that you are doing better

@CRUDE360

Жыл бұрын

@@hxjjdjd606 oh my God! I am Jamaican and SAME. I have an hour glass shape and have since I was a child and it has made me sbsolutely hate leaving the house because the men are so disgusting and perverted I used to hate how I looked because it draws so much attention and to be honest I still do a lot. I cant just go to run an errand, I cant just go jogging like a normal person because its harassment and unwanted advances around every corner. The most hurtful part is other women will tell u you're lying when you speak on how absolutely terrible this attention and experience is and men will tell you of course you want the attention, all girls love attention from men. And writing this now I'm wondering if this is the reason I'm A-sexual because I'm not necessarily sexually attracted to women but its so hard to want men because all their attention has proven to be bad attention. Gosh. Didnt expect to be writing this today or even relating to your comment it literally just sparked my interest and I decided to find out more! 💙 hugs and kisses and stay strong! We're internet besties now! Lol

Marisa IS a very wonderful person. She loves the person she married not the persons body! That's so beautiful, and rare that people see beyond what's in front of them.🥰 all the best to this couple.🥰✌

@LaB567

8 ай бұрын

Lol loving the person but not their body. You’re supposed to love them body AND soul. You don’t get virtue points for loving the soul but not the body.

@annnee6818

8 ай бұрын

​@LaB567 Yes you do.

@MySweetMelodie.

7 ай бұрын

Because spiritually (He is a Male on the inside). "He" was never "Transgender" to begin with. The devil is a liar but people refuse to see it.

@jacobingram147

7 ай бұрын

You mean it

@reneep.1978

6 ай бұрын

@@annnee6818 Nope

I can understand her wanting to feel more comfortable in her own skin. I also think too much plastic surgery is not good. Unfortunately her lips are to the point they look unnatural. My heart goes out to her. It's not right to judge others because we have no idea what they are struggling with everyday. Too bad her parents weren't more supportive. I feel that would be horrible to deal with specially with everything she is dealing with now. I wish her the best and hope she achieves results she is happy with.

@Pravduh

Жыл бұрын

💯

@silverghostcat1924

Жыл бұрын

I don't understand why anyone would want their lips to look so unnatural. Too big and you can't even close your mouth properly. To say nothing about the extra expense for lipstick/gloss.

@carolinezheng2312

Жыл бұрын

Look I won't judge appearance or gender, be who you want but I think she needs therapy not because of being transgender but how she describes her body to be perfect and how she might stop if it does. Like you are beautiful the way you want to be but please stop it if it could potentially put your health at risk. It doesn't sit right with me when she said "maybe".

Nothing wrong with plastic surgery. I wish I could get a few more things done. The surgeons for this lady have done her a disservice.

Dr. Youn's facial expressions and reactions are priceless 🤣 ❤

You rock, Dr Youn! You are just super kind and thoughtful in all your videos.

She needs to sue the person who did the plastic surgery

@Morri21

Жыл бұрын

Have you ever hear the saying: Prevention is better than cure??. If this person embraced themself and loved themself and thank God for life then this madness would not happen

@HipBeeWitch

Жыл бұрын

@@Morri21 By your logic, if a person was born without a limb, or born with a life-threatening illness... Well, God made them that way!

I hope she learns to feel comfortable in her own skin

@OhHayFrands

Жыл бұрын

You’re a gay dude that loves women’s clothing, get over it.

@WillSing4TP

Жыл бұрын

🦋

@EtreTocsin

Жыл бұрын

Do you have a blog? I am honestly interested in trying to understand gender dysphoria. I do have one trans in my family but when he was a female, he discovered he had un-decended testicles so he was actually undiagnosed intersex so he went through the entire transition process…but he lived as a woman until then. He was also an identical twin. So my dumb question is how does a person “know” what another gender “feels” like? I mean if you are a female and “feel” like a male how would you even know what a male feels like? Sorry…all of this is extremely confusing to me..and I imagine it would be some type of true hell to not want to even want be in your own body …it seems so sad and uncomfortable or frustrating…And they are now encouraging doctors and hospitals to push through with surgeries because of the high profit margin…I mean that seems shady to me…especially with over 60% complication rate…hope you find peace and happiness in your life.. Best❤ (((And I know these are very personal questions so I do not expect a reply, but if you already have a blog I would love to read it)))

@RandomHuTaoSimp

Жыл бұрын

"his" He will never feel comfortable trying to be something he isn't.

@lurklingX

10 ай бұрын

​@@EtreTocsin simply put, body dysmorphia is when you look in the mirror and can't recognize yourself. or you have an exaggerated or underexaggerated notion or distortion of what is actually there. like someone with an eating disorder like anorexia or bulimia who looks in the mirror and sees someone who is fat. or a very large person who lost a TON of weight now can't really compute what they see in the mirror, or that things fit now that would have only been big enough for a leg. (extreme example. but in that show 'my 600 pound life' which has eps on here, some of the folks that did the work, the weightloss, and got the surgery, that are now a fairly normal size sometimes will talk about this or show this.) gender dysmorphia can be a feeling of 'difference' from what is considered standard for males and females. it doesn't always equate to trans stuff.... it can be more like... if the world wasn't this way, i feel mostly alright. now, some people get *convinced* they are trans because of these feelings and then what they see on social media or hear from friends. not the same thing. and some of these people transition but then go back. a lot of teenagers get confused too, because it's a confusing time. actual legitimately transgendered people generally just describe KNOWING. it's interests, it's disposition, it's looking in the mirror and not understanding why. you could liken it to wearing a costume. and then realizing you can't see YOU under there. only for a trans person, it's not so easy to take it off. sometimes you can dress different and pass, but many people especially male to female need surgery to both affirm and to also 'pass'. there's also vocal coaching and things that can help and also be affirming, but....... in short, it's a long road. you could also describe it as *pining* for a different reality. one you FEEL but can't reach. it can be like a twisting feeling in the chest, a despair. longing. frustration. anger. it can be different for everybody. ask 5 diff trans people, you'd likely get 5 diff answers. there's always commonality though. just like with most things. and everyone feels diff about surgeries, and specific ones as well. EDIT TO ADD: body dysmorphia is common in bodybuilding and weightlifting. guys for instance that went in to get good physiques and later report that they are less happy now than previously. generally it's hyperfocusing on details and never feeling happy or satisfied. all they can see is the problems. (i mention the guys, but obviously girls too. guys are underreported for this issue but most gymrat lifters will nod if you mention the term. most are aware, even if it's not affecting them personally.)

my daughter's partner began to transition about a year ago. They had been married for 10 years at that time. The partner transitioning gave my daughter the chance to rethink and re-evaluate a lot of future choices. They both came to terms that even though they wanted biological children there were serious genetic disorders on both sides neither wanted to pass those on to their child. And as far as i can see they are happier with the transformations both have gone though, one is that they no longer feel they are beholden to live up to relatives expectations that they are going to have a "normal" family. The other is that they are far more insync with each other and get along better.

people should have some kind of psychiatric evaluation before getting surgeries like this. it sucks that she feels she needs to do so much to deal with dysmorphia and dysphoria

@taylorrhyne502

Ай бұрын

Here in the United States most insurance companies insist on getting both mental and physical approvals before paying for these types of operations. Lots of surgeons also require them.

Where do those people get money from?

Dr Youn is being very professionally kind about her lips and overall facial surgical results…. I know it’s to each his or her own…. But the sausage lips are too much! She went too far. Best of luck to her and her happiness!

@murphychurch8251

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, watching this I thought that, in Marisa's place, I'd more likely get over the fact of my guy transitioning than over such a mouth. 👀 But they're both fine with it, so...good for them, I guess.

As is very often, she was already exceptionally lovely before disfiguring portions of her body. It’s wonderful that she has the means to physically create the shell for the inner self to thrive in. But body dismorphia is real and should have been addressed instead of catered to. I personally don’t see myself the same way others do and looking into a mirror is often a combination of disgust and fascination. It’s the only thing that holds me back from complex cosmetic procedures other than minimal, preserving, and complimenting. Changing my shape wouldn’t ever work for my psyche

Marisa is wonderful. My husband and I are staying together while I'm transitioning as well. We just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary, and we plan on spending many more beautiful years together.

@aterriblefate5699

Жыл бұрын

@@Rainbowclaw username does not check out, disregard unhappy troll.

@aterriblefate5699

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to you and your husband! Anyone who says otherwise are simply jealous they aren't as beloved.

@lizarddreams6142

Жыл бұрын

Congrats! A friend of mine recently came out as non-binary and wants to undergo top surgery. Their partner supports them whole-heartedly.

It was really neat seeing a mtf plastic surgery video after watching your videos for months and being trans myself- you did great explaining how long and chaotic the whole transition process is c: And yeah the pursuit of perfection is often kinda a red flag, best you can do is embrace what you've got to the best of your ability and use surgery as a last resort if there's something that really distresses you. Anyways have a good day pardon the long stream of consciousness comment lol

@OhHayFrands

Жыл бұрын

You can’t change your gender. Congrats on wasting money mutilating yourself though.

@tmcurly

7 ай бұрын

Hormones started as a teenager tend to eliminate a need for all this “feminisation /money grab “ surgery. That being said as a parent is it ethically sound to allow a child to do so because some will change their mind..

@tmcurly

7 ай бұрын

In your opinion is it better to start hormone therapy maybe in your 20’s? Do hormones make a significant change( soften male features) later in one’s 40’s or 50’s. I don’t know if a face lift, breaking and shaving a man’s jaw in his 50’s necessarily makes him look female to those passing him on the street. Moreover even after having all the facial surgery the voice is still male. I never knew how chaotic the whole transition process was. I always thought that there was only a small group of people and assumed there were enough resources for all but the number of transitions seem to be growing? It’s tough and I understand what you all go through. Some people put their children on hormones from a very young age teenagers etc. I don’t know if that’s a good idea but I do know that hormones are reversible but surgeries are not. Maybe hormones should be pushed more and surgeries as a very last option indeed.

@aintapuppy

7 ай бұрын

@@tmcurly I’ve started hormones by myself at 17- I lived on a farm in rural Georgia and was hella closeted, so I made my own hormone option and ordered them from safe sources outside the country after doing strenuous research into endocrinology and trans stuff. this was also after years of feeling these feelings I can’t explain and feeling the need to hide who I really am- living a sort of Hannah Montana life with the people I love most, and starting earlier/with less therapy than most (wouldn’t recommend, it was unsafe but successful for me) since I had to create my own option in a place where that option wasn’t possible- hoping people would understand when they finally start to see all of who I am. So I did start early- earlier than most realistically can, and in some ways I did manage to fend off balding and additional masculinization and growth that would’ve made it even harder for me to feminize down the road. I’m 21 now, about 4 years into my transition- I know male bone growth plates completely fuse by around age 25 (around the time the later end of puberty ends), and our bodies are still typically growing and changing and building up until that point. So yes, starting earlier is likely helpful in terms of bone structure and more easily/quickly achieving a more “passable” transition- though every trans person needs to go into it, knowing they’re not gonna be exactly the same-looking or functioning as the sex they identify with. And that’s totally fine, make the best of the hands you’ve got while being aware of what you’re doing. (Side note: I’ve also used a chemical called MK-677 that stimulates the production of growth hormone and ghrelin, which- if my hypothesis is correct, could help simulate a female puberty at my age- knowing my growth plates haven’t fully fused yet and estrogen/progesterone won’t have me growing the same. It helps improve bone density and such as well, which were some of the concerns I had with HRT when starting out) later on in life, transitioning would moreso affect fat distribution and muscles and soft tissue since there’s not much growth hormone circulating and they’re past that window of development- so it’s more akin to remodeling a house around its foundation n structure. It’ll work n do stuff, you just gotta work with it. and as far as folks transitioning earlier like I did- it’s a really complicated topic. As an adult, I’m starting to be grateful I wasn’t put on brain meds as a kid- seeing what it’s doing to people after they’ve taken that shit in development . And I can’t help but kinda think the same about hormones (though unlike brain meds, they’re already found naturally in the body), since “with great power, comes great responsibility”. With that capacity to change someone’s reality and future and flesh suit, there’s the power to change people’s very lives and the course of the future- for better and worse. There will be horror stories of negligence or attention seeking or exploitation or narcissism- but there will also be beautiful stories of people learning and understanding and finding their way out of their shell and into the life they were meant to live. and many other stories between those extremes, at different points of people’s lives. I feel like any transition needs to be done for the right reasons, with knowledge of who one is and the journey they’re about to embark on. Never as something for outside reasons, it should be something people figure out (knowing the effects of the treatment plan they decide) and have the freedom to pursue if they wish. That way the power is in their hands, they’re steering the ship with a map, and they can decide what to do wherever they go- and if it was the right decision. And how hormones change one’s mind- it brings it to a point of functioning that has traits of both masculine cognition and feminine cognition. We (or at least I) have the intense feminine emotions and warmth and maternal vibes and overall feeling of fitting a more female role- though there is still typically some bro energy in there too, where I can shoot the shit and crack open a cold one and understand guys better than pretty much every cis woman I know. It’s like having traits of both, it just depends on what kind of person you are and what you bring to the table I suppose. because I definitely act like both the men and women in my family and have looks similar to both as well- it’s honestly kinda trippy. Even brain imaging scans have confirmed that transitioned MTF folks have brains that function like a mix between male and female brains- and that change could be very handy in helping someone adapt to their journey and actually grow in the way that’s authentic for them rather than not being able to grow in their direction and instead growing in some other aspect of life they don’t truly associate with. It just has to be for the right reasons, with the right intent and method and awareness! Would definitely agree though- surgery as a last option, since it’s a lot more permanent. Hormones- those are powerful and should be treated as such.

This is grotesque 😮 how could any surgeon continue to enable this? Her lips are so deformed she doesn’t look feminine anymore.

As I have said in the past, I am so glad I am satisfied with my body. There is no way, I would want to look like that.

@krishnankapawar1339

Жыл бұрын

more power to you girl

@PeteyThePenguin

9 ай бұрын

I have some insecurities, but not bad enough to seriously consider surgery for cosmetic reasons alone. I can't imagine how hard it must be to live with body dysmorphia

No girl noo

Dr Youn do you ever despair of what some surgeons are willing to do ? This ladies lips being an example 💔

Dr Youn is always so kind with his comments

Your facial expressions are HILARIOUS!

You know when you've read the Hunger Games way too many times when Fulvia Cardeaux comes to mind every time you hear this name. I'm so glad that she is able to get the body she's in love with. ❤️

I'm slightly happy I am poor, because if i had the money I think I'd be trying to become 'beautiful' and i'd never find it, especially with how insecure I am: I was skinny and felt hideous, I was fat and felt hideous, I've been in the middle weight wise and felt hideous, I dislike my nose, my jaw, my cheeks but... I'm poor so, my saving grace? xD

@Minty_Aqua

Жыл бұрын

You absolutely have body dysmorphia. Why don't you find a good therapist? I feel sorry for you. 🥺

Love Dr Youn's reaction to her lips. "... but man the are definitely *whispers definitely* large."

WHEN WILL PEOPLE REALIZE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT BODY!!!!!!!!!! WTF PERFECTION IN HUMAN FORM IS IMPOSSIBLE

Sorry. Dr youns face when he first sees her 😂😂😂😂 so genuine.

I don't understand how anyone is happy with those types of lips

Love your content Dr Youn ❤❤❤

You’re taking the looks right off my face!

Dr. Youn I just LOVE your facial expressions 😮

FTM trans fella here; 30 years old, began my physical transition in 2015 and have never felt more while. Thank you for handling this topic with grace and openness, just one more reason for me to keep supporting your work. I hope my sister eventually finds her perfect

@ginag8723

8 ай бұрын

Given what they look like and what they've said in this clip, I doubt it. They are chasing perfection that they will never ever obtain.

I have a friend who transitioned and she had good insurance that covered it. She did have to go through a couple of years of counseling and living as a woman before the transition surgery, and she had all the surgeries. She fortunately had a very good result and is very happy now. Plus I’m a 6 foot tall cis female, so now I have a friend that I can trade clothes and shoes with.

I love watching your facial reactions more than anything 😂

Dr. Youn's skin looks great! I wonder if they use their own skincare line. ❤

The only thing I can say is oh my god

The thumbnail is beautiful had me dying of laughter 😂. Such a waste of money just to look like that tho lol

I wonder what she sees when she looks in the mirror?

@catinabox3048

Жыл бұрын

I know right? I can't imagine anyone could actively want lips that large.

What an effing MESS

Everybody has his own shape of 'perfect'. Some people take advantage of that. Always listen to the people you love, even if it is your body. ❤

Nowadays i cant believe why u need to spend a lot of money to make yourself ugly😅.. also its a shame for plastic surgeon who just did it for money ,no any concern on what they will look like

She needs to get her money back and sue🤦🤦🤦🤦

@nickfederico

Жыл бұрын

“He”

@peanutfries3217

Жыл бұрын

@@nickfederico she

@arithamfanelow2023

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@HardDriveGuruOfficial

Жыл бұрын

@@nickfederico Get off your high horse and stop thinking you know HER better than SHE knows HERSELF. People like you make me worry for the future of humanity.

@lisabaltzer4190

Жыл бұрын

@@nickfederico Yes, no matter what he does, he is still a man, albeit a mutilated man. You simply cannot change the sex/gender that you are born with. He will always have XY chromosomes. Unscrupulous “doctors” are abusing people and SELLING them a lie.

God people are disgusting in this comment section, as disgusting as the doctors that have clearly fed off her vulnerability, parasites the lot of them! As much as I understand about the need for instant gratification, I've also learned it vital to look after your mental health and emotional one as well, these 'doctors' clearly see her as a cash grab or she would know that perfect doesn't exist in any form.

@shannonsullivan4858

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree with you more.

@nefariousdevile

Жыл бұрын

@@shannonsullivan4858 it's just awful isn't it, this kinda stuff makes me so angry and sad, it's just shameful how some people just live through preying off of the vulnerable

First of all, my respect to Dr Youn for his empathy and humanity, he makes me want to improve my soul. About the video, Fulvia is already 56, she has already transitioned, does it worth spending more money to perfect the body at that age? I mean I am 47 and I have a family, I couldn't ever dream to spend a fraction of that money only for plastic surgery all for myself! Well maybe they are really wealthy, they didn't specify that...

As a transman I was stunned how respectful Dr. Youn is talking about the issue. The truth is that many transpeople need to wait years before even getting access to hormone replacement therapy. I was in therapy over one year, before starting with testosterone. And waited an other year before even starting the process of planing surgerys. I had top surgery (mastektomie) 3 years after coming out and my hysterectomy is only planed for next year (so 4 years after coming out), with my bottom surgery planed to happen in 2 years (5 years after coming out). That's a span of 5 years, what really is a long time, but most transpeople won't get access that fast as I did (I live in Switzerland and we have good healthcare here, but the one thing that gives me access faster is, that I'm have better/more expensive insurance that allows me to get on top of the list faster when it comes to procedures in hospitals). Most transpeople transition over a span of more than 10 years, while being in therapy the whole time and being monitored by experts, doctors, surgeons and psychotherapists. It's not like you walk in an get your boobs chopped of after 1 month, it's a long process that is guided by the smartest and most competent doctors...

Marissa is truly inspiring 💜 I too can't get over Fulvias' lips though, surely that would make eating difficult? Bless them both

I hope someday she loves her body and the way she looks just as it is. But I know how hard it can be.

@gasmith7486

7 ай бұрын

He and him. Stop insulting real women with this insanity.

When I heard the person speaking Italian I was shocked! It's so strange seeing somebody from you own country in this kind of videos! Spero che Fulvia possa trovare la felicità che cerca. Il percorso che ha intrapreso non è facile, e sarà contestato da molti. Quello che importa però è l'amore che si prova verso SE STESSI quando si prendono certe decisioni! You go girl ✨

@shannonsullivan4858

Жыл бұрын

I was shocked too and I'm American.

Your facial expressions Dr. Y 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I really and especially feel sorrow for this very desperate person she is so seriously deep into her sense of denial that she now totally believes her situation will improve and not worsen, as long as her desperation is running amok! Wouldn't a compassionate doctor tell her the truth? That there is no longer any remedy to her condition? Seems to me she continues to live a fantasy, a lie, call it what you'd call it. But before she becomes a monster, which will kill her emotionally, psychologically and then? WHERE WILL SHE THEN BE???

@CrankyBarista

Жыл бұрын

So true. All that money could've been spent on emotional therapy and get them to a point of actual happiness...or at least comfort in themsleves.

@mari-greciaodal2436

Жыл бұрын

@@CrankyBaristayeap! makes me wonder how these spurious doctors she goes through are so much more interested in the money, than telling her she needs therapy in order to help her make better decisions. come on now! Whatever happened to "do no harm", hey! Thanks!

@CrankyBarista

Жыл бұрын

@@mari-greciaodal2436 seriously! Its too bad they dont have to pass a morality test before they are granted their MD.

@Basilissa_Sunight

Жыл бұрын

Sadly in Italy there is not a great attention to mental health and I doubt that plastic surgeon focused on more estetic treatment will pay attention to that. Also, I did a quick check and apparently she wants to look like Allanah Starr, an american trans p0rn star, but the result actually made me wonder if we have a plastic surgeon in our whole country who can make a face different from that (we have quite a few of old female singers that basically look just like Fulvia due to plastic surgeon 🤷‍♀)

@mari-greciaodal2436

Жыл бұрын

@@CrankyBarista know what? morality if it were the market it's on its way to crashing. Cranky! Why then, should we doctors be exempt? a modern doctor asks.

She needs to leave those lips aloooooonnnnneee!!

My ex fiancé is my best girlfriend know - we had a lot of talking about her transtion. First she thaught she must do everything to be the woman she wanted - but know she is full of selfconfindence - without any operation!

Doc I have a question off the subject When we order skin care products online , and they are shipped in I don't know conditions wouldn't that jeopardizes thier integrity??

Dr got beautiful skin.

Dr Youns KZread channel can help anyone who goes on KZread researching plastic surgery. This can connect with us on a Consciousness level and be a positive voice in our mind.

I completely support surgery to help transgender people transition.....but this is serious malpractice....what are the ethics of a surgeon who would do this to someone .

@Xes_Lana

9 ай бұрын

No less ethical than a surgeon who would mutilate a persons body so they can pretend to be the opposite gender to what they were born.

as a trans woman myself i will say that a lot of us go over the limits when i was 2 years on my transition i wanted perfection now i know that i can be beautiful without going over the limits cause to me HRT did an excellent job and for the first time in my entire life i felt beautiful

@brazendesigns

4 ай бұрын

HRT does such a good job. I’m glad you all have such treatment available to you today.

@ladycroftbayonetta7908

4 ай бұрын

@@brazendesigns 😁😁

Dr. Youn reactions 🤣

Hey Doc can you do a video on blepharoplasty? A detailed video

One sad thing for me is the perfection thing. If you pursue perfection, you will never find it. Whatever you do will never be enough, because you will always feel like it can be improved, specially in cases like this one. It just goes on, the more you chase your happiness, the more it runs from you. I wish this person nothing but good things, seriously, its about damn time to reach some happiness for her, to feel like she got to a point where she feels good, because so much surgery must not be good for her body..

"Do no harm"... Any doctor who does this is not a moral one.

@Morri21

Жыл бұрын

Have you ever heard the saying: Prevention is better than cure??

That Plastic Surgeon Needs to be Sued for Malpractice!

the sad thing about dysphoria for trans reasons or not, there will never ever be a point where it's "good enough" if you continuously work to correct said "issue" obsessively. You make a goal, you get to the goal, and it's never enough. I struggle with Bulimia + i AM trans, and it's hard to pull myself away from obsessively thinking over and over and over until i'll be perfect. but it's not going to happen, i hope one day she can live happier and realize that she's beautiful and deserves to feel comfortable with or without the constant surgery. She seems very kind, and she deserves comfort. I do think everyone who wants surgery should get to do so, but whenever it's this drastic/often, trans or not. Everyone is different, there are cis women who have beards, cis men with breasts, and the like, there is nothing wrong with surgery or transition goals, but remember that not everything will go perfectly and that is not your fault, cis or trans. Stay strong.

Idgaf what anyone says...that is not beauty. Beauty is seeing the mother of your children waking up in the morning with no makeup and hair a mess. That is real beauty to me.

Thank you for an informative video. I can't imagine how one feels not identifying with the gender they were born with...

Imagine spending that to be perfect and looking like shit! 😂😂😂

I guess Marissa is similar to the people who say they will stay with their partner through sickness and old age because in these cases the physical is also affected. It’s a spiritual bonding.

Dr Youn, is breast implants even safe? If it is so which implant is safe ?

I’m not a fan of plastic surgery unless it’s necessary. However, I am not in her shoes. If it makes you feel whole as a person, then do what you think is needed. Everyone is unique and should love themselves.

@hope7069

6 ай бұрын

Mutants are a disease

I think Fulvia a actually looks really good (aside from the huge lips). I hope someday she can learn to see it, and accept herself as an already beautiful woman!

@jec_ecart

Жыл бұрын

Nah. Too much

This person spent over $100,000 to look messed up! Why would a plastic surgeon do this to someone?! They look scary

I am a surgeon! I am a surgeon! I am... I am a surgeon! I AM A SURGEON, DR. YOUN!

Isnt it ethically wrong to perform surgery on someone with body dysmorphia? This is not cool from a medical perspective, if shes not happy inside the outside will never be good enough so so sad.

@KenikoB

Жыл бұрын

The difference is that people with body dysmorphia are upset about something untrue. They look at themselves and see themselves as ugly when they’re not. But people with gender dysphoria are upset about something true - they look at their body and see themselves as having the look of someone of the opposite gender… and they’re right. Treatment for gender dysphoria means they fix the thing that’s wrong, same as if you were upset about a huge mole on your face and got that removed, you don’t need therapy to accept your mole. However sometimes the two blur into each other, and it can certainly become difficult to tell what is dysphoria and what isn’t when someone has both

Wow, just wow! What does the person think they look like? That’s shocking! If they really think they look stunning, they’ve more mental health issues than an institute in Victorian times. I don’t know what worse, the surgeons whom carry out these procedures, or the fact this person thinks they look great 😬. Truly shocking on every level there is.

@denali6935

Жыл бұрын

Best part is it doesn’t matter what you think in the grand scheme of things.

@snowmiaow

6 ай бұрын

Lots of people disfigure their faces with makeup and plucking and think they look great. It is common.

“Male!” was my very first thought when I saw “her”. It’s ridiculous that this is the result after spending 100k. If she’s actually female, then it’s even worse!

Dr. Youn's eyebrows get a LOT of exercise!

Hey doc, can you make a video about jaw surgery (orthognathic surgery)?

Out of curiosity Dr. Youn, do you do gender affirming surgeries? I remember at least at one time that it seemed like quite a hard to find specialty, but I'm curious if more plastic surgeons have that training now?

It’s a shame that she has not been seeing a reputable (obviously) cosmetic surgeon.

It’s always interesting to see someone transition later in life, the skin just isn’t the same. I hope she gets the looks she’s aiming for. What a beautiful soul. ❤❤❤❤

I hope she finds a surgeon that can correct the extremes, and let the woman on the inside, come out onto the outside, and less of a caricature.

How sad. Why aren't these individuals able to receive the serious mental health intervention they are so desperately crying out for and so desperately are in need of...?

0:15 says it all

"prefect body..." Well, in the end this 'perfect body' will turn into the dust like the other living things. 🙃🙃🙃

She can remove a dent on your car with he lips! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wish her a great deal of success and joy in her life once her body matches her expectations.

I take it Fulvia is Italian? She kind of looks like the sister of Gianni Versace who also had a lot of plastic surgery done. I wonder if they used the same surgeon. I like the before look on both of them.

The 👄 we're definitely a mistake as far as optics/aesthetics go, but to each one's own.

I have seen bigger lips,they looked like they were going to burst- I refuse any procedures,my little sis is hooked on surgeries,I just hope she doesn't get any infections and regret it

...anyway , till now ,I still don't understand what's the beauty of the big lips 🤔 (for me ,not all new trend are good ..😅)

How sick is that 😢

When people, Cis, trans, male, female…. Take it to levels where they look like cartoon characters? You have to wonder if some sort of body dysmorphia comes in to play.

I would like to know how they diagnose the difference between autogynephilia and gender dysphoria.