I don't know... I started dating my last boyfriend because he showed interest in me, so I very pointedly said "I've never been on a date before~" and he said "Friday?". Call me crazy, but feigning disinterest isn't sexy, nor does it draw people in.

@ahhh4117

2 жыл бұрын

It feels great to be wanted especially by someone you also want

@BraffWaffle

2 жыл бұрын

That sounds so cute 💕

@annabeinglazy5580

2 жыл бұрын

Yh i find those tactics Kind of funny because.... Dude, If you Flirt with another Chick in Front of my face in the Club... I will Just Take my Drink and leave. Im Here to have a good time, not to Fight over some rando

@TehMomo_

2 жыл бұрын

not gonna lie...that was cute AF....

We missed you. So glad your okay and back.

I'm here for news on a community I don't partake in

@qsm2978

2 жыл бұрын

i’m just glad i’m not the only one

@verYCreepyDoll

2 жыл бұрын

Same lol

@namtellectjoonal7230

2 жыл бұрын

yet :)

@marissasullivan7356

2 жыл бұрын

@@namtellectjoonal7230 I use to be like that back in 2020, flashforward to today and I currently have 7 bodyline and 6 taobao/ offbrand main peices. What's your story?

@namtellectjoonal7230

2 жыл бұрын

@@marissasullivan7356 End of 2020: Casually watching some lolita content, no intentions of actually wearing it Now: 6 skirts and 4 dresses, most of them Taobao or Indie xD One year can make a huge difference lmao

remember the days when pick up artists gave intentionally bad advice (with a little good advice mixed in) so lonely suckers would keep failing and keep buying manuals/DVD/event tickets? remember the days when they weren't a genuine threat to society by stoking paranoia and greenlighting abuse? pepperidge farm remembers.

If Francis wanted an example of a lady who isn't interested in the man she was next to, that couple is probably the worst example. She's holding their child and they are engaged.

"Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawling feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause..." I've seen enough horror movies to know that is not how it works.

@RavenSutcliffe

2 жыл бұрын

@Find It bro, you need therapy. Seriously.

@ViolentAurora

2 жыл бұрын

Really just training men to kill more of their partners and spouses 🤷🏻‍♀️

Francis should pick up therapy.

These so called "men" are a national security threat.

@RavenSutcliffe

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately no, they're an *international* security threat

@ReptilianTeaDrinker

2 жыл бұрын

Nope, international, more like. They're a problem on a global scale, unfortunately...

As an asexual, I've never been able to understand this kind of desperation to get people to date them. The good news is, weirdos like Francis have provided us with one of the most hilariously cringy video games of the decade. p.s. I'm using "son of a hooker" from now on.

That was…surprisingly insightful. I know I’m not a boy, but I’ve been struggling with being single for about 6 years exactly. (Imagine my shock when you mentioned that number by name!) I’ve been told by other people about deconstructing my isolationist habits, but it didn’t really click till now. The severity of desperation was brought up as well, but again it didn’t hit right until you said it. So, thanks Tyler! 💝

@shablammam8948

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, some of the best friends and relationships I ever formed were with people who like the same things I did like certain video games. We always started off as friends and eventually got close enough that they would ask me out or I would ask them. It seems nowadays men are so scared of being "friend zoned" that they don't even entertain the notion of being friendly with the opposite sex or go straight for asking out women they want to bang. Honestly though I have never understood why men call it the friend zone you weren't friend zoned...you were rejected.

oh no, no more Ruffle Report! No christmas decoration tour either?

Never expected Tyler giving dating advice for men 😂 It's good advice, deep down, I kinda already know what I have to do, but it all feels too much of a hassle. I'm pretty comfortable in my singleness and traumatized by bad former experiences. If someday a miracle happen and some lunatic want to date me and I want to date her too, lucky me. If it doesn't, that's okay either. I never understood those PuA guys, though. They seem like they hate women, why the fuck would you want to date someone you hate? If I hated women, I'd like to be as far as possible from them.

@ParfaitDream

2 жыл бұрын

They seem to only want to have a woman for sex and it is easier for them to do that if they dehumanize them by treating them all the same. That is just my opinion and observations on it tho.

@yucheung5853

2 жыл бұрын

because conventional heterosexuality sees having sex with a woman as ‘fking’ or ‘screwing’ them (the fact that the word fking itself has a meaning of humiliation says a lot really), and they might feel a sense of revenge and triumph by having sex with women

@Kitsune-kun663

2 жыл бұрын

I pretty much agree, but those tweets Tyler was reading were about dating. That's what I find more weird. If it was about hook-ups, I'd understand. I'd not agree, but I'd understand. I see no point in trying to form a relationship where you deliberately act like you are in a war against your partner, it seems too much insanity. Only thinking about it is enough to get me tired.

@ParfaitDream

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kitsune-kun663 My guess is those men like the mental torment they bring about on the significant other. They like making the women feel worthless without them. They also love the attention and love they get despite messing with their emotions. If she gets angry it is probably even better because anger does come from a place concern. I think for those types it is more of a thrill to watch their partner show a wide range of positive and negative emotions. I kinda think it is like a power move for them be able to mess with someone so much and still get them to come back to them. That is my guess on those weirdos lol.

@ParfaitDream

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kitsune-kun663 Figured out a better way to describe those guys actually they are like the "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" meme.

definitely not whiskey and bisexual flag?! yes queen

This Salt Licker missed you! Glad you haven't fallen off the face of the planet! Any rant of yours always fills my black heart with such joy. :3

I'm glad to see you're back safe and sound ❤️

This is some of the most solid advice I've heard about relationships. Anyone needing relationship advice should 1000% watch this video, and that's coming from someone who went through the shitty relationships, but still managed to come out the other end finding my soulmate and being in a very happy and loving relationship now!

@bunnychan8885

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Alex! 🎉

For the algorithm! Good stuff! Don't be black pilled, consider being pinks- and pastels-pilled.

I clicked so fast. A crumb of salt, madam. A crumb.

Tyler, I love your little set up. The tree is cute and the flag is bomb! But the "definitely not whiskey" completes the set up, Jimmy Fallon or Steven Colbert could never!

AAAAAAAAAAAA IS THAT FANTASTIC CARNIVAL JSK!!!!! PLEASE SAY IT'S FANTASTIC CARNIVAL BECAUSE THAT'S MY DREAM DRESS! I LOVE IT!

The pickup artists always seemed a bit insane to me. They don't approach dating from a human way of connecting and bonding of personalities but in a more birdlike way of doing specific calls and putting a display in front of a female so I'm not suprised that they don't even treat their partners in a human way.

I'm not gonna debate for too long why KZread subs suddenly poofed your channel back out at me in a delightfully pleasant manner. What I can say is that as a dude who facepalms at the concept someone thinking abuse is somehow valid in the dating world, it never hurts to have someone state out the obvious once again to be extra 110% clear. And hey at least years of dating a lolita lets me now appreciate the message delivered by an OTT sweet lady with a healthy dose of snark (which would have been relevant given the topic anyway). Thanks!

Fellas, is it gay to show love and affection to your girlfriend?

Welcome back, Tyler! I'm happy to see that you're making videos again. But big oof, one of my exes was one of these manipulative assholes. What it created was me with PTSD and paranoid about getting into another relationships. Having you verbally lash him was...nice.

I’m getting back into Lolita and I’m so happy your still making videos!! As a side note your makeup looks lovely 🥰

Well, damn. Thanks for making this video, I knew the PUA community was bad, but I had no concrete idea just how bad it was.

The bunny 🐰 ears make this so much better. Well said. Thank you! love, from the depths of my little black heart 🖤

Ughh I really needed this rant!! I just watched a Kevin Samuel's video out of curiosity, heard of him from another youtuber.. Boy was I shook over the amount of incells out there😭😂😭😭💫

All of the KZreadrs I watch have made a video talking about this awful thing in the last 10 days

@sourgreendolly7685

2 жыл бұрын

Happy holidays lmao 😭

@TheRealBellatrixLestrange

2 жыл бұрын

@@sourgreendolly7685 happy holidays

@TehMomo_

2 жыл бұрын

CAUSE CHRISTMAS IS CUFFING SEASON.

!! I was just looking for something that was interesting but not grim and depressing!! I love your whole vibe girl! ❤️❤️

AHH You're back! It's so lovely to see you again! Was worried about you, but glad to see you're just as salty as ever 😂

Happy you're back Tyler!!! Hope you're well and happy holidays!

Holy shit I literally thought something horrible happened to you. I’m super relieved.

I love these PUAs "you don't ask a fish how to fish" in reference to that you shouldn't ask women how to pick up women.

The video was awesome and I love your humor! Also, that makeup is on POINT!

Caught this upload early as hell 💕

I love your set so much!

8:05 Don't throw the advice into the ocean. God knows how much trash is already in there. I think you need a ritual to cleanse your soul of that nastiness and then burn the evidence Also it's great to see you back Tyler. Have a merry Christmas!

The KZread playlist while watching this video is cracking me up! Titles like "The Predators of Pickup", "Why 54% of Single Men Refuse to Approach Women?" suggestions filling in the list LOLOLOLOL!

That seems like a lot of work. Those pick up artists are shure doing the most. I am lazy as fuck... I married my best friend🤷. We were friends since the First day um high School, I always thought he was cute and my friend said he also found my cute. We are toghter for 21 years and have two beautiful kids. We love talking to each other about everything, embarassing things, things that scare us, things "we are not supposed to talk about". There is no "Power games" love is a game that you can only win IF both win toghter.

Glad to see you back. Hope all is well. Merry (early) Christmas!

Well I CERTAINLY DIDNT GET A NOTIFICATION!! Glad youre back!!!!!!

Currently dating my first girlfriend for over a year, but really appreciated the relationship advice as someone who struggles to make friends and has some pretty bad social anxiety.

I watched your entire back catelogue while I was recovering from getting my wisdom teeth out. :) Also, this is really inspiring for introverts like me whose people skills have gotten rusty.

Super articulate as always, but also, the direction you've taken your makeup and hair as of late is stunnniiiiiing

Thanks for coming back Tyler 🙏🏼❤

Glad to see you're back. Merry Christmas!!!

Merry Christmas, Tyler! 🎄

So glad you’re back!!!! I knew you’d be back around Christmas time!!!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩

Omg you're back!!

THE QUEEN OF SALT RETURNS!

WELCOME BACK YOUR LIL TREE IS VERY CUTE!!

So happy to see you back!

OH MY GOSH I'VE MISSED YOU SO MUCH!! WELCOME BACK!!! I think I know a few people that need to see this and that's sad lol

Thank you for the advice, but I just want to say I love the outfit you have on it's so freaking cuuuute!!!

So glad your back

Whoa your new opening is so epic!

Emotional abuse & mind games in a country with uncontrollable mass shootings. What could go wrong applying this?

Hey Tyler!! I'm happy to see you posting! Awesome video and loving the new intro!

Tyler, An odd video to say your back,,, but I liked it. Have you tried Jim Beam "Devil's cut" whiskey or if you like things a little sweeter in taste have you tried Maker's Mark Bourbon ?

Missed you very much tyler!! Thank you for the video!!

You’re back!!! I had hoped the power of the Christmas season would be able to conjure an appearance!

Merry Christmas

This look is so beautiful Tyler 🥰

car batteries galore! even with the metal in mine. because beyond saying "hi", im pretty much out of energy.

Wow. Just Wow. Now that being Stunned is over.. Welcome back.

Me: :[ Tyler: wears milky chan and pony bangles at the same time Me: :)

You’re back!!!!!

Can't wait for the video, thanks Tyler!!

You can be **looking** for a relationship. Just, chill out. Invest in your hobbies and interests. People will see that and like that. And someone will *really* like that about you.

She’s alive!!! Got my snack, I’m ready 😂

Great to see ur back ^_^

Welcome back! When I seen the thumb nail for this I was really excited and instantly clicked on it. I am so glad you are ok!

Oh hi! Welcome back.

Love the flag :) Great video as always!

I feel actually threated over using powdered creamer. It's usually the only thing available at work.

About that leaning picture : use the other leg to draw the line, badabing badaboom, your marriage is saved !

I’ve been on step 3 lately and I’m loving being single and enjoying my own company 🙏

I've missed you!!!!

I know who this is and there's no way this dude hasn't unalived people. The vitriol and hate that emanates just from his eyes, let alone his entire body language and tone when he speaks, is so visceral and violent. He's literally just teaching men how to unalive their partners 😐

Hello! Glad to see you upload ❤ I was just re-watching some other videos from you ^^ Hopefully the holiday season has started wonderfully for you!

missed you Tyler! take care of yourself

Welcome back! Now I don't have to keep talking my husband down from worrying where you are. I think you're his favorite granddaughter.

Will share this with all the men I know

Damm good advice, However, for you I would do possibly strange things. As in equally flawed

desk flag desk flag desk flag

Welcome back and stay safe from both idiots and stupidity!

It's been so long!

Notification late but still notified 👍

I'm thrilled! You have been missed!

Omg I love you so much I'm so glad your ok and back and hopefully got the break you needed we were all worried about you and missed you

Happy to see you back Tyler!!

I’m going to YEET myself

Glad to have you back, Tyler! I hope you're able to make more videos in the future and if not, that's ok too. Happy Christmas!

Our beautiful demon lady princess of sarcasm, frilly pink dresses and dark jokes is baaaaack ❤️☺️

Thank you! The main reason I am single is because of people playing those sorts of silly dumb games... hell, it is the main reason my interests have moved into, what I am told, is obscure territory. As you like something but have some weird ass creep use it to get into your pants too often--it makes it harder to like

Tyler video!

You’re back!! I missed you!

Glad you're back Also your eye makeup is amazing

SO GLAD TO SEE YOU BACK