This is a topic that has been requested repeatedly on this channel. For those who are unfamiliar, Passport Bros is the collective term for a movement among Western men who are increasingly pursuing mating and dating opportunities abroad. To be honest, my previous association with the movement was that it was primarily catering to men who were too low-status or unattractive to beat out the intrasexual competition in their home country. After spending a month in Japan, I no longer believe this to be the case. In this episode, I discuss my new perspective through the lens of my recent experiences. Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iaaMpNyKYquqdbQ.html Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzread.info/dron/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw.htmljoin Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #dating #relationship

@gregprince5283

7 ай бұрын

One other thing I forgot to mention is the breakup of the family system is producing weak men. They are not learning to become effective leaders like our forefathers. A father needs to be actively involved in a son's life for the building of self-worth, competency, and confidence. I know these things because my father was absent. It damaged me beyond repair. I can not handle rejection. It's called the father wound. Fortunately, I said I would never to to my son what my father did to me. Today, my son is extremely well off, confident, and well-adjusted, creating success for himself in everything thing he does.

@jimmygove2883

7 ай бұрын

I spent 5 years living in Japan. I loved it. My son is living in Japan 2 years now and says he could easily live there the rest of his life. It is not the same culture, it is a completely different groove. It is not just the women, as you have noted doc, it is the entire place has a different set of values. Being respected as a man is priceless.

@masterTigress96

7 ай бұрын

Hey Orion, just to let you know, something changed with the audio in this episode. I can hear significantly more hissing, background noise and sharp "S" sounds compared to some of the older episodes. The audio of speech is fine but it feels like the audio needs a filter or the gain was turned up too much. Thanks for this amazing episode and good to see you have seen the light as well when it comes to the movement.

@cosmictreason2242

7 ай бұрын

Here's the facts: the number of American men who married a foreign wife last year is 1:500. More perhaps married a woman of recent foreign ancestry, but that's not what passport bros is promoting. The fact is that a vanishingly small percentage (0.2%) of men are passport bros, and the men who claim that all the American girls are going to be left behind as we all prefer foreign women are smoking some crystal copium

@Thoughts54

7 ай бұрын

I know you are aware most Japanese young women do not want to get married especially to American men. What you experienced was their culture which is of a much higher standard in comparison to that of the United States. Look at the passport Bros that go to Latin American countries, and poorer Asian nations, American women wouldn’t touch them with a ten foot pole.

First Time I hear someone admitting he wasn't right . Kudos to you

@afromarco005

7 ай бұрын

So refreshing

@jonprince3237

7 ай бұрын

What, in your entire life you've never heard anyone admit to or acknowledge that they made an error or mistake? Like, never?

@momoali6715

7 ай бұрын

@@jonprince3237 it's a way of speaking . 😅😅

@jackstone88

7 ай бұрын

@@jonprince3237 In reference to this topic? Most definitely.

@slylockfox85

7 ай бұрын

Generally speaking, he was right. Two things can be true at the same time. In theory, the PPB movement is a great idea. In practice, it's an "easy" way out for guy who don't want to do the work that many RP channels recommend doing in order to build attraction with women. I know a guy who recommended PPB to me and they guy is very delusional about his SMV. He has money and that's it. Ironically enough, he talks smack to me for living in a small town "in the middle of nowhere" and yet he has to go to the middle of nowhere to find a woman willing to date him. And he still hasn't found one willing yet.

Men as a collective simply can’t work with women who don’t wanna work with them. I’m seeing passport bros across all male demographics, regardless of race or socioeconomic position. So we can’t just say it’s “losers” and “incels” having this problem. Gaslighting men doesn’t fix the issue but forces them to find more extreme measures of adapting.💯

@GreatRetro

7 ай бұрын

FACTS!!!

@tinycha0s

7 ай бұрын

Lol this is funny. We can say that it’s all losers and incels.

@Khan-rz8qi

7 ай бұрын

@@tinycha0s Lol me when I choose delusions over reality:

@Khan-rz8qi

7 ай бұрын

@@tinycha0s Watch the video, open your mind and maybe you can learn something new.

@Macheako

7 ай бұрын

@@Khan-rz8qi pretty sure this chick ain’t gonna learn sh** 😂❤

Thanks for having the courage to alter your opinion, and clarify an issue which is causing many men to visit my country of the Philippines. I do my best to advise them on my channel, and from what I can see, many of the passport bros are regular men who just want to find love with a quality mate 😊

@ThePopbanks007

7 ай бұрын

Oh, wow! The legend herself. Stay blessed, Pea!

@The1stGurehaundo

7 ай бұрын

I'm a BIG FAN of your channel, Miss F.P. Salamat po.

@Fox_Zero

7 ай бұрын

Peaaaa 😁 Love watching your adventures in the USA, please visit again! Check out San Antonio Texas.

@davidowens1424

7 ай бұрын

Hi Pea, Love your channel hope you're doing great.

@TheFilipinaPea

7 ай бұрын

@@davidowens1424 Thanks David 👍😊

I’m 44 and time is running out so I booked an overseas trip next month. No sense in doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. Let’s see what happens!

@lexzenis2544

7 ай бұрын

just dont make the mistake of getting involved with a bar girl - and youll be ok.

@sallysmith3885

7 ай бұрын

Best of luck, I wish you success.

@Kenny-Ross

7 ай бұрын

Why is time running out? Because of your age? Because you may want to have kids? As long as you're in decent shape, look vital, well dressed and groomed you'll do well. Plenty of women around the world that would love to be with you.

@rayrwyr

7 ай бұрын

Note that you have to settle there. If you bring her to US, she will behave like an American in 5 years.

@Kenny-Ross

7 ай бұрын

@@rayrwyr Even my own mother said a few years ago, "Don't bring her back here."

Exactly this. I do fine in the U.S. and am fairly successful and athletic. But, at times dating in the U.S. feels like sifting through a dumpster looking for fresh pizza, and then being asked to pay full price. Before I met my current gf I had an international thing for 3 years. The women in most other places are different in ways that just make them significantly better and more pleasant on the whole for relationships. I've met foreign strippers that conduct themselves better and have better attitudes and mentality than American lawyers, it's kind of sad.

@christianmoreno7390

7 ай бұрын

Wow, this is super interesting. Do you have any advice on where to look? I’m 22male

@commentarytalk1446

7 ай бұрын

@@christianmoreno7390 The only advice you need is: 1. Work on yourself to become a better person/human 2. Be a man of means/salary so you are a provider which is fundamentally what women need 3. If you find a culture that you feel is compatible with your values and opportunity, then do everything you can to understand it such as learn the language, visit there, participate and immerse yourself. It's not easy, it's a challenge and not everything is better but if you want to find a better place in life there's nothing like searching for it... In general, in terms of finding a suitable wife, you probably want to work on yourself first and concern yourself with marriage a bit older in life when you're established. Becoming married and having a family is a long life-time commitment and not easy so maturity and experience and personal success are all needed before a man is ready. Then the question of a suitable wife is necessary and by then you should be in a position to know what that means. Don't make the mistake of thinking this is some kind of transaction like in a supermarket or mall buying something you want!

@leninfernandez9279

7 ай бұрын

Hahahahha last phrase was amazing

@antonsaid1467

7 ай бұрын

Run!

@antonsaid1467

7 ай бұрын

@@christianmoreno7390go south and keep going!..Brazil

The problem with dating/finding a wife in America is toxic feminism. Also, with divorce laws in America biased towards the women than the men.

@commentarytalk1446

7 ай бұрын

The government like the house rigs the game...

@smithsmith1956

7 ай бұрын

Just feminism in general. It was a mistake.

@manifest2203

7 ай бұрын

Actually Eastern countries like China, Japan, Korea have the lowest marriage and birth rates. Korea for example has women’s movements like 4B (no to dating, no to s3x, no to marriage, no to child bearing and rearing).

@anthonyml7

7 ай бұрын

Essentially it discourages monogamy / commitment which in turn discourages marriage, which then discourages child birth (since you don't have kids with out getting married) and then before you know it there isn't enough skilled labor to keep this sweet as country going.

@walterwilkinson1499

7 ай бұрын

That's just one of many problems. Another is the general lack of physical fitness. Even if it's not toxic, there's an averaging effects towards feminism ideology that unavoidably affects all women in the culture. It also make conservatism women entitled because they are scarce in America. When a system is FUBAR, it's better to find a new system.

It is amazing how your point of view can change simply by getting out of your community and exploring the world. Great video!

@josealexi5141

7 ай бұрын

Indeed! I'm kinda shocked he had such beliefs to begin with!

@ObstaclestoOpportunities

7 ай бұрын

That is funny how magic works

@spencethegreat38

4 ай бұрын

I’ve never traveled abroad. 3 years ago I took up a hobby in California that just so happens to bring in a lot of foreigners. After having nothing but positive and pleasant interactions with women from Japan and China, it made me completely rethink western women. The difference has been everything he’s explained in this video. I need to travel more.

My Filipina wife and I are 22 years married. It has the usual m/f challenge’s plus some multicultural issues. Some of the multicultural issues are exciting, some are a growing process, and some don’t go away. For instance, my wife is never going to like certain American foods and is never going to become comfortable during winter. She’s pretty severely seasonal affective. What I’d say is international women are still human, they have their quirks and flaws. There is no far away land with beautiful maidens that are going to be demure, submissive and frisky in the bedroom for multiple decades. Everyone has their ups and downs. I say this because a lot of men have idealized visions in their heads. Basically, being on vacation in Japan and living in Japan would be very different experiences. It’s not for everyone. You have to be adventurous, open minded and forgiving. You can’t be broke either. Most of the women’s expectations are modest, but it does cost some money to do the traveling and immigration process.

@DariusJones

7 ай бұрын

Finally, somebody who is willing to tell the truth.

@nnamorjiajulu-okeke752

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying this. One thing I know about Japanese people are they are polite, but not kind. Some people misunderstand it. There is a real idealized version of Japanese women because of Anime and videos like this. I usually enjoy his videos but I think this one was a miss just a tad bit. Still some useful information here and there

@Toolwise

7 ай бұрын

Did you stay there or come back to the US. All the men I know with Filipina wives brought them back here and have their wives' families living with them

@Nanomachines5on

7 ай бұрын

Holy crap! Someone with a reasonable outlook on this and real life experience ;) I truly believe this is the mindset to have. Not some “magical trump card” but still less leg work than what the shit-show in America can provide.

@stevend8785

7 ай бұрын

@@Toolwise We live in the US. I’ve spent over 6 months in total in the Philippines on various trips through the years. I’ve seen various sites around the country.

Even if a man went abroad to seek opportunities because he can't have any here, I don't see what's wrong.

@leedlbagginshield8492

7 ай бұрын

As a woman, I don’t see a problem in it either. Everyone is entitled to find their own happiness

@jessevanhorn3726

7 ай бұрын

Yeah its a win for everyone: the men here have less competition now, the women here already rejected them anyway, and men going overseas have new opportunities.

@jakelesnake4927

7 ай бұрын

@@jessevanhorn3726 What about the men that live in those countries?

@-glitch-8195

7 ай бұрын

Yup, I agree as a woman they should. However, going aboard comes with its challenges. Depending on the culture, you could potentially attract westernized women over there. Best believe there are women aboard like that. Usually non-westernized women never dream of marrying a western man. I know since I’ve travelled aboard myself and from an eastern culture. It throws some males off because they’re assuming traditional conservative women overseas are seeking men in the west and that’s just not the case. Women who want to leave those cultures and come here are. Just be aware of that and don’t make a bunch of assumptions. I know plenty of family members specifically male, of mine who married aboard and had that issues. They went in thinking it’s all tulips and rainbows but it turned out they were just ignorant.

@georgedang449

7 ай бұрын

@@-glitch-8195 Rule of the thumb - if she's willing to sleep with you out of wedlock... that means she's willing to sleep with men out of wedlock, lol. Some men look for fast action, and end up with the worst the east has to offer - it's quite the achievement to score those types of women in a place where they're uncommon.

Hearing about a country that harbors mainly skinny women alone is mindblowing as an american

@moonknight4053

7 ай бұрын

You don’t have a sickness for the thiccness?

@alexanderruffin3363

7 ай бұрын

​@@moonknight4053😂😂😂

@kimco.2350

7 ай бұрын

He also says western women are expensive and cheap in other countries! Don’t let the women in other countries hear that! Also they cater to the men, because they want to be scooped up to the west. 🤣

@megapizzadragon2397

6 ай бұрын

Yeah thin women who don't act entitled and disrespectful sounds like a fairy tale

@SchrodingersMath

5 ай бұрын

💯👍​@@megapizzadragon2397

Married to a Japanese woman for 17 years now. Was back in Tokyo this past summer and seeing so many slim women in dresses is indeed a culture shock. In general they have access to food that is cheaper and higher quality while having very little sugar. Add to this that they walk nearly everywhere. An interesting note is that Japanese women will expect to run the finances in the home.

@anthonyml7

7 ай бұрын

Cultural difference there, which is so deep that it actually dates back to their middle ages when the wives of Samurai dealt with the money bc is was seen as beneath men to do so.

@ObstaclestoOpportunities

7 ай бұрын

There is junk food but they make a choice not to eat too much, the same options are available to women and men in USA. The difference is that they do not want to make the change.

@mariatan7177

7 ай бұрын

@@ObstaclestoOpportunities agree with you. I’m not Japanese but Asian. In Asia, there is an immense pressure to be thin. If someone is fat, people see that person as someone who lacks discipline. “Fat acceptance” is completely alien there. Yes, there is an abundance of food but we usual choose to eat healthy. I never been overweight but that’s a conscious choice.

@megnelli

7 ай бұрын

Look up food deserts and medical gaslighting that women experience. I’ve lived all around the world. USA has trash food and not set up for being healthy. It’s extremely difficult. It’s not just what you eat but the vegetables, fruit and meat quality has drastically dropped since the 70s. The life expectancy has actually decreased. The food supply chain is being bought out by tech moguls as Monsanto rebrands and destroys the nutritional value while big pharma bought out medical practitioners who slap an average of 7 prescriptions on one individual. Especially anti-depressants, Lipitor, metformin and benzodiazepines which are extremely profitable. There isn’t much left to aid someone even willingly and able at that point. Health is a luxury in USA. But hey, the birth control pill will be thrown at you on top if it as a cure all for your hysteria. IdK what they do for men but my theory is they bully eachother into all the m*rder s*icides no one likes to talk about in a deep way. USA also is highest individualism society which strangely promotes power over social connection which comes out in our complete obsession with s*x and especially women displaying s*x iness as a form of power. This explains the often lack of modesty because it unfortunately becomes seen as weakness. Anyway all interesting things to consider.

@willbass2869

7 ай бұрын

​@@mariatan7177lots & LOTS of fat Chinese kids, especially boys. Spoiled "little emperors"

I'm a Japanese dude with a Japanese wife (and kids). I was raised in the US. Please let me clarify what Dr. Orion said, since it may have lead to a misconception. Generally, JAPANESE WOMEN ARE NOT SUBMISSIVE. Please do not make this stupid mistake or you will have a very hard time when you marry them. It may appear as if they are submissive, but they are not. They will get freezingly cold practical once the love is gone. An average Japanese woman have a strong tendencies in solidifying their familial ground; husband is merely a rational tool to help accomplish this. They are also fast in accepting reality and will move on quickly with whatever situation they are put in. They are perfectly okay not loving or be loved by their husband if it helps them with their mission. So if your Japanese wife still loves you, do the absolute-fucking-best to keep her loving you. If she is acting submissive to you, consider it a test to see if you would keep providing the best you got for her. By all means, keep her happy.

@KeithMorgado

7 ай бұрын

You are right. Since Japan is a country where presenting your best self is important first interactions and even dating is great. Marriage and long term relationships are much harder to maintain.

@stevendunn2501

7 ай бұрын

Facts. My wife's 日本人 also. We've been together for 14 years. Although she does submit to my decisions, she is feminine and is not a pushover by any stretch of the imagination.

@oriont6944

7 ай бұрын

This is true especially if you look at the history of marriage in Japan. Marriages were almost always business based. Most of these foreign dudes not doing their research are in for a rude awakening.

@remixisthis

7 ай бұрын

Soft power is more popular outside US

@mickdungeon602

7 ай бұрын

So true I'm from Sydney I've dated to Japanese girls. And I have friends married to Japanese women. And they say the exact thing after marriage they become mean they have a word for it in Japanese but can't think of it

Change "US" with "western world" and everything you said is still true

@iam.damian

7 ай бұрын

I live in Denmark and I disagree. People here are very humble, fit, and easy to talk to.

@Flyinghotpocket

7 ай бұрын

@@iam.damian In NL and the people are very fit, not humble at all and hard AF to talk to.

@CanarY4live

7 ай бұрын

Probably because you don’t speak Dutch.

@Flyinghotpocket

7 ай бұрын

@@CanarY4live Lol, No.

@mathias1dk

7 ай бұрын

@@iam.damian I'm Danish and agree, people are easy to talk to. But dating outside your social circle is hard, people are very reserved in that regard. And you pay a very high price for potentially very little, like in the most of the western world.

This matches my experience. I was in a long term relationship in Japan and appreciated so much about my partner's ethics, healthy habits, sense of femininity.

@MCharlerySmith

7 ай бұрын

Interesting. Can you share why it ended then?

@manifest2203

7 ай бұрын

Isn’t Japan like the worlds porn capital? The birth rates are so low there. You are confusing a polite society with something that has good values. It isn’t.

@rickortega80

7 ай бұрын

@@MCharlerySmith she wanted to get married 🤣

@MCharlerySmith

7 ай бұрын

@@rickortega80. What was wrong with that? Sounds like a bad choice and the loss of a great woman.

@rickortega80

7 ай бұрын

@@MCharlerySmith I'm laughing cause the guy didn't want to and I agree with you that he made the wrong decision.

I went to Japan once. On the plane ride there, I was in an aisle seat, with a Japanese mother and daughter to my left. The daughter spoke English moderately well, the mother just Japanese. Because it was a very long flight, I must have gone to use the bathroom maybe three times. Coming back to my seat after the second, I had just realized that when I got up to go, the women went after me, and were silently waiting for me to get up instead of asking me to move. When they got back, I leaned over to tell the daughter something like "if you need to go just tell me I'll get up". She talked to the mother in Japanese and they both looked very shocked I even said that, and then I was even more shocked that they were shocked that I said that. This sheer difference in culture was something I never would have expected without seeing it in my own eyes. After I got over the culture shock, I thought "well, now I know what kind of women I'm into".

@nannuky1128

7 ай бұрын

so what kind of women you're into? subservient and slave-like? lmao

@no_guarantees

7 ай бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@jacklauer1

7 ай бұрын

@@barbellsamurai8014 no, you are intentionally demonizing normal things. I want a woman who is feminine.

@barbellsamurai8014

7 ай бұрын

too scared to ask to go to the toilet is not femininity @@jacklauer1

@zombieboy937

7 ай бұрын

That's because in japan, there is a thing called "reading the room" they expect you to know the social conventions without being explicitly direct about them. To us, it looks like they were being super considerate, but they aren't that's just the way they were programmed.

I live in Brazil 🇧🇷 and never moving back to the USA 🇺🇸. It’s amazing here.

@Bigdej

4 ай бұрын

Preach 😂

@leebailey1220

3 ай бұрын

Give me a little more detail what's the experience been like? Thanks

@lin3378

2 ай бұрын

If you poor and live in a dangerous area in brazil it is terrible, if you are rich and live in a good area it is amazing.

@Weshmorrey

Ай бұрын

Just like anywhere in the world.

Passport bros is simply men going where they are appreciated and where cultures still produce good women. Western women are seething about how they no longer have a captive audience.

@markkujantunen8298

7 ай бұрын

It's difficult not to notice how very much in the way of the politically correct frames of discussion about relationships are hopelessly female centric in the West. If you set any kind of boundaries of acceptable behavior for your woman, you are insecure. If you broaden your horizons and dating foreign women, you're a loser. The manosphere is far removed from mainstream thinking.

For a while I thought "If all the women I'm meeting are 304's, the only thing they have in common is me", so I thought the problem was me. And then I go live overseas for a decade, I realized "Hey if you live in a hog farm, the only thing you're going to catch are swines". So it really wasn't my fault afterall.

@Thoughts54

7 ай бұрын

You have no one to blame but spineless men for that. For decades weak men have put up with women’s outrageously unacceptable behavior to the point that even the courts don’t care about father’s rights. Why? Because p***y a**ed men did nothing.

@ObstaclestoOpportunities

7 ай бұрын

Great one LOL

@iwriteseoarticlesin12hours25

7 ай бұрын

Sharing.

@dezcuts5319

7 ай бұрын

That’s how American society gaslights you…it’s part of the brainwashing to create your warped way of thinking. American society particularly the females when you mention the current conditions of the available females…they’ll gaslight you to make it seem as if it’s your fault that there’s trash everywhere. I’m happy you were able to shake the demons and find your peace.

@aye_yo_mick

6 ай бұрын

No sir def not your fault. the one thing in common was that they were Western women

I am becoming a "Japanese" woman and behaving in a sweet submissive way and my partner absolutely loves it. I'm appreciative, supportive, I agree with what he says. It doesn't do me any harm - it's actually enjoyable just to relax and let him take the reigns. Doesn't work if you're a radical feminist though!

@ClashMagique

7 ай бұрын

Also doesn’t work if he’s not a good leader or isn’t masculine

@commentarytalk1446

7 ай бұрын

I'd argue that's just becoming "feminine": Have you ever head the story of the North Wind vs The Sun? It reminds me of a different strength women have than men that's just as if not more effective. It's not something the flawed ideology of feminIST/ISM would acknowledge however in the West. But it's alive and well elsewhere.

@impudentdomain

7 ай бұрын

I have been married for 40 years. My wife was never what you would call subservient. But she also never disrespects me, does not nag, and is not combative. But we are from a different generation. I would hate to be a young man in this current dating culture.

@rob21

7 ай бұрын

Lucky man!

@babak5006

7 ай бұрын

Thing is women become like you only when they get old, and their sexual market value has gone down and no body looks at them. As long as they are in their 20's and beginning of 30's, they must duck 🦆 every handsome guy in the town, and they are loyal to feminism as duck 🦆...

I went to Japan and met a girl on tinder. She showed up on our second date with a gift for me. It was something small and cheap, but I was taken aback by how thoughtful it was. Out of the 50+ girls I've gone on dates with in the US, not one has given me a gift. Hell, most don't even pretend to reach for their purse when the bill comes. We spent 2 weeks hanging out almost every day. I was planning on going back to see her again, but covid happened. I will say though, you can get a similar experience living in Miami. There are TONS of girls from South America there who are feminine, classy, intelligent, and submissive. I've been in Miami for 3 months now and I've met more high quality girls in those 3 months than I did in 10 years in Denver.

@benjaminjo

7 ай бұрын

That's interesting. I've always wanted to visit Miami. I love Florida in general. Not as much as San Diego, but pretty close. What areas you recommend going in Miami to socialize?

@bdtrap

4 ай бұрын

I moved to Denver after more than 8 years as an expat. I dated 2 American girls here in 5 years, then decided hell no. In the last 90 days I've been in Florida, Hawaii, and Mexico. I need to get the hell out of Denver.

Just keep in mind that Japanese in general have what is called "a public face" and try to avoid causing any inconvenience or awkwardness - they are VERY agreeable, not just women. Also, you're a foreigner, so they treat you differently than the Japanese men.

@barbellsamurai8014

7 ай бұрын

yeah exactly. A lot of this foreign women are so amazing is naïve dribble. hilarious seeing guys move to se asia and marry a woman that made 5 dollars a day talk about how greatful she is

@Redman8086

7 ай бұрын

@@barbellsamurai8014 it's pretty easy to spot scammers though tbh. Sadly I see a lot of idiots on those 90 day fiance shows who are so fucking gullible it's hard to believe. If you are the type who is easily bamboozled, definitely don't go to SE Asia lol.

Okay I AM very knowledgeable....about this subject. I am a retired clinical psychologist. I have LIVED fulltime retired in a Central American country for 23 years. I personally KNOW many American men married to local Latina women. Yes the women are feminine here too. Locals here are warm, friendly, and very formally polite. I know the WIVES of the expats as well, if not better, than the husbands. Yes,some of the women have oldfashioned feminine skills cooking, mending clothes, cleaning house..if and only if, they are lower and lower middle class. Servants are still common here and everyone middle class and up have them, THOSE women will date a gingo BUT they have high expectations of your ability to provide a larger house, more servants than she was brought up with, travel, multiple houses at the lake,,the beach, etc If you are willing to drop down to poor women yes ❤they will be thrilled for a time anticipating all the things you are going to provide for them, their children ,,their siblings, parents and cousins. I am NOT exaggerating. At lower income levels here it is a more communal indigenous society. At higher income levels it is just lile the US. Hypergamy is FAR more pronounced here than in the USA...if you resent that, look elsewhere. If you yourself are lower income you arent going to get anywhere with anyone here unless you con them into thinking you are hiding a high economic value...then you may be able to con one of them for awhile BUT you will suffer. Also except for "working girls" you will get nowhere without a promise of marriage...you are the brass ring...they are entitled legally to 50% of everything you have in this country if you marry them amd beñieve me you WILL marry them or lose them and the pressure will be fierce for you to bring your assets HERE to invest in property so they get 50% of all of it the minute they want to dump you after marriage...and unñess you can provide accelerating goodies as time goes by they WILL usually dump you. My mate and I have comforted several friends here who have been through this cycle. If you think American women are rapacious and can be heartless and cruel, well you havent seen how bad it can be from formerly sweet innocent, kind women. Will you get all sugared to begin with? Oh yes...they are great at it, having cut their teeth on Papi, their mothers teaching them exactly how to manupulate Papi. They then transfer those skills to you, with an informal advisory committee of her friends and female relatives, offering advice in the background. I have been sitting in the midst of such conversations and was AMAZED at the "how to trick a man" tips... things American women likely would not do. I know a man who is supporting THREE women here he had affairs with sequentially...bought all three lots and homes and continues to give them money for support. I could go through a dozen case histories for you...I get confided in alot due to my profession amd personality often by both parties...they know I wont tell anyone here anything. Japan is a very different culture, I am sure. my mother was with the US State Dept there for a decade. And I do have at least three couples friends married a long time local women and American men,,the women were all from middle or professional class families here. They dont cook ,,they dont clean and they do seem happy, they married better off American men, retired executives. They are indeed comfortable in large homes,,servants and foreign trips. IF you are happy to provide that, then yes, there are some lovely elegant women here and you can have a terrific life here in a great climate. None of us with happy relationships regret coming. I BROUGHT my happy relationship of 41 years with me. My mate and I together earned our money working and investing and have had an amazing life and this country has brought us great joy. I cannot recommemd the PLACE more highly IF you have means to live a middle class American life you will have the means to live a very comfortable (large house, servants, travel) upper middle class life here. Unless you get conned by a rapacious woman...not all of them are, of course but they all.have wonderful "presentstions". Male friends bring them to parties at my house when they are dating...then over the years I get to observe and often hear about the relationship. It has been quite an education in international "relations".

@playenimplayenim6319

7 ай бұрын

I volunteer with an organization that tries to help suicidal veterans. Over 80 percent are suicidal because of experiences with a passport babe. So it's not all roses. Of course the desperate guys will believe what they want to believe....

@idakt

7 ай бұрын

I don't think there's anything wrong with those dynamics and would argue that well-to-do men who can afford to support a foreign spouse AND her family is something he would gladly have done in the States anyway. The *issue* is that those men aren't appreciated for that here. And nothing you said in your explanation inferred that the women disrespected their men or took them for granted. Expectations SHOULD be high if you have the means. It's a respect and value issue a lot of men are facing. Women who SHOULD be counterparts have become competitors in their own home, and are almost incentivized to destroy their families in the West. I had an old colleague who celebrated with a random woman who approached us saying she was having a divorce party 🎉 I'm willing to bet the concept of that barely exists in other countries but here in the West it's pure degeneracy.

@myronbourne6937

6 ай бұрын

​@@playenimplayenim6319That's their fault for breaking the first rule. Too bad so sad.

@wc194

5 ай бұрын

All very true words. I lived abroad, married an international woman and every word is spot on. True back in there in her home country and now here in the US. Unfortunately I brought her back to the US where she was immediately indoctrinated on how to ruin me when she decides to divorce me. One woman even gave my wife her lawyers business card when the time was ready. And at the time we were happily married and getting along just great! Toxic US women spreading their poison.

Funny (and telling) anecdote: About 10 years ago on holiday in Hongkong I met a nice young Japanese woman, a fellow tourist. I asked her when she arrived, she told me "yesterday". Since I had already been there a week I told her about all the must-see places and attractions in town. She politely listened and marked all these on a city map, apparently grateful for my advice. Later in the conversation I asked her where she had been for her holidays the previous year. The answer: Hongkong. Seeing my surprise she continued "oh yes, I've been coming here every year for the past 6 years, I love this place!" I was embarrassed. Mind you, she stayed absolutely polite throughout, didn't make any snide remarks or anything.

@Omphaloskopie

7 ай бұрын

wait!? mansplaining is legal in hongkong? those mad lads!

@chocolatesquirrel2002

7 ай бұрын

so she was lieying to your face lmao

@YellowKing1986

5 ай бұрын

@@chocolatesquirrel2002 How? No, she wasn't.

My Cambodian wife is only just grateful for everything I do for her : this is a complete lifechanger. I'd add that having a western man is also a complete lifechanger to her. This is a cool win win.

@donkeysaurusrex7881

7 ай бұрын

Can you tell us how to meet Cambodian women?

@georgedang449

7 ай бұрын

@@donkeysaurusrex7881 Go to Cambodia?

@Vervatas

7 ай бұрын

@@donkeysaurusrex7881 OK. It had been six months since I had left my 10 years girlfriend and 3 months since I left my very new girlfriend. I was bored, so I went to see a good friend of mine (20 years older than me) in Phnom Penh for Christmas, and we made all the bars in town. I really was not looking for something, I did not want to pay for sex, I did not expect to find a girl (they do not speak french and very little english), I just wanted to enjoy. I met her there, in a bar. Classic story (learnt later through google translate : no money, lost her job at the chinese factory where she'd been working since she was 13, had to go to PP to help the family). I thought she was pretty, seemed humble, nothing more. My friend (praise be) was pushing me day after day : "You must have sex with a hooker before you leave PP, you must not die stupid". I finally gave in, thought why not her. It did not turn that way, aha : the girls in the bar were absolutely protective of her ! She was the new fragile girl still uncorrupt, some were even family, they were very scared for her. You must know that girls in PP's bars are not really hookers. First, they earn money from making you drink, only one on three maybe will have sex for money. And even those who do, they do it on their own terms, no pimp or whatever, depending on how much they like you. So, coming back to my future wife : I had to court her a bit, and so I lost the lust. It turned quite simple : she had demands if we had to go further (meet the family, engage, solve a 10k debt issue), I had some too (leave her country because my focus is my 3yo son, conditions on sex and fitness). Things were settled quite directy, first week we met (google translate still at the time, crazy that stuff). No regrets since then. It is a cost, I wil not lie : she cannot earn money where I live because she still does not speak the language good enough, engagement was around 25k (between the debt issue, support money, state corruption and plane tickets). But she treats me right, she is grateful, and all I have to do is do my part (which I can do gladly in those conditions). I will not tell you that any girl in Cambodia would be like her. There is a bit of luck, of yolo, but still : girls are slender, more grateful, and if you can find a still innocent one, be a man and treat her well will in most cases ensure her loyalty. Those girls, they have no culture, but they know life : by 20 yo they have worked 7 years at the factory already (without even complaining, that is the place where they can have good times with their friends in fact, her words). And it is a pleasure to share, rediscover the films, the thoughts, the places you like throught their innocent eyes. One thing is : you should be already good with yourself and your finances before taking that option (if you are fragile and seeking for easy quick solution, my opinion is that it will blow to your face). I wrote a lot to give you context. I hope this answers your question.

@donkeysaurusrex7881

7 ай бұрын

@@georgedang449 How do I get a job in Cambodia?

This is literally a more comprehensive, and well articulated variation of what PPBs are saying themselves.

I had plans to become passport bros with one of my best friends. He sadly passed away recently. I will now have an extra foreign woman in his honor.

@jtuneddc5428

7 ай бұрын

Let me know bro let me know. All my friends think I’m crazy for wanting to leave California or us all together. Sorry about your buddy brother. He’s happy for you to continue what both you dudes were supposed to do.

@SaltedHope

7 ай бұрын

A female friend and I are talking about finding men overseas as well. Predominantly where it's Catholic areas like Ireland, Italy, and Poland. Feminism has ruined women in American society, but hook up culture and porn have been a complete attack on masculinity as well. As a female who supports traditional gender roles, I've found men to be either completely chauvinistic and arrogant or weak and effeminate with very little in-between. Women need to be women again, and men need to be men.

@madhatter2744

6 ай бұрын

Happened to me as well recently man, heart goes out to you. May your voyage honor his memory.

@peteinthepocket9208

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear about your mate bro

As an African from Uganda, your impressions of Japanese culture strongly resonate with me. The first Westerners to visit my country in the 19th century described our people as "The Japanese of Africa". Indeed, I have observed numerous parallels between us and the Japanese in language, etiquette and culture as a whole. Traditionally, marriage in my culture can best be described as a continuous "BDSM lite" relationship, in which women act very demure and submissive and men exert dominance. Our women are socialised to cater to their men in this way. Whether this is good or bad is another matter.

@erikomuka

3 ай бұрын

I understand your last sentence because I've seen many women servants than wives. That also gets old and boring, ideally you need a submissive woman you also respect .

After coming back from Vietnam and Thailand i can confirm this is true. Women made me feel like a man there. I'm not surprised that western men are going to Asia and South America for women because the women in the west are just not as attractive as Asian and South American women. It made me appreciate a culture where men are appreciated.

@thedualtransition6070

7 ай бұрын

And ironically Asian men tend not to be attractive to Western women, seems they enjoy more "girl trips" to the Caribbean. Women do exactly the same as men when they can, but that wont stop them from attempting to stop men doing those things using shaming tactics.

@JfaJosephR9

7 ай бұрын

There are physically very attractive women in the West to be fair. Character and personality wise they can be very masculine and combative. Definitely less feminine, more entitled, etc. Not to say Western men aren't a problem as well

@JfaJosephR9

7 ай бұрын

My family comes from South America so I know a lot about the women. Regardless of how good a woman seems even if she's from South America, always look at her family relationships, who her close friends are, what she'd about. Girls in South America can be very feminine and sexy in how they carry themselves and they know exactly how to charm a man instinctually so they're very dangerous in that sense. You still have to make sure they come from a good family cuz some girls can be extremely toxic even in South America

@paulclinton6414

7 ай бұрын

​@@JfaJosephR980% of American women are overweight. You must like pigs.

Global arbitrage on the dating market still brings huge benefits… especially with the low quality/ high price women in western countries

@squarecracker

7 ай бұрын

Geo arbitrage is such a nicer term. I was 20 the first time i went abroad. I had a very hard time getting female attention at college. I went on a surf trip to Nicaragua and OMG..... it was like night and day. I had more female attention in 1 week than in my whole life up to that point.

I married a foreign woman 30 years ago. It has worked out! I also left the Bay Area 30 years ago. The Bay Area has many male computer geeks who make big bucks.The ratio of men to women is terrible for men in the Bay Area. Thumbs up on your video

@thiccactus

7 ай бұрын

They don't call this place "Man Jose" for nothing lol.

@concernedcitizen6676

3 ай бұрын

So where do you reside now?? Kinda curious if you brought her to USA or not as well, as this is a controversial topic in modern USA now.

Having dated lawyers, MDs, and entitled tech/corporate/boss ladies in the past two years (in the Bay Area like Dr. Taraban) and lost hope in feminity, I hope to meet a Japanese woman, as my colleague repeatedly suggested.

@richardfrito2014

7 ай бұрын

Heyy bro, Can you elaborate?? Whyy, how feminity is gone in those different ladies

@gata5704

7 ай бұрын

​@@richardfrito2014 They have a hard time turning off the masculine bitch boss attitude when they leave the workplace.

@commentarytalk1446

7 ай бұрын

It depends... I think you may just want a feminine, high-quality woman/person? Japan is very culturally different, so see what fits you also. But in general, other cultures? They have HIGHER QUALITY people and women are half of those people too!

@Anonymous.User.0419

7 ай бұрын

@@richardfrito2014 Competitive and independent woman - feels like dating Charlize Thereon in Mad Max.

@georgedang449

7 ай бұрын

@@Anonymous.User.0419 Date your competitor and you get a competition on who gets to wear the pants.

Congratulations Doctor! This video is absolutely going to break the Internet and set it on fire! LoL!

@Soccerdadify

7 ай бұрын

You couldn't pay me enough to start his car tomorrow! Great information though.

When you described the women in Japan, I had a dopamine rush each time.

Thank you for pointing out and admitting accountability for what we PPB’s have been saying for the last 3 years. The difference is huge between western women and women abroad. And it’s not easy traveling abroad or moving overseas (which is another misconception; most PPB’s move and stay overseas). You can’t be low status, broke, or have no game to date overseas. From the resources required to travel abroad, to having the game to navigate the language and culture differences, most of these men are hardly inferior.

@reedschrichte800

Ай бұрын

The American men I meet overseas are as a rule far more interesting than the ones back home. Adventurous, highly adaptable, with diverse experiences, able to speak one or more additional languages, intellectually dynamic. One can indeed be a slouch, static and just marking time on the beach in an alcohol daze, or pathetically a fish out of water, but these are easily recognized as such.

I lived in Japan for 2 years and I’m here to tell you that Japanese women are nice until you get to know them. It’s culture to be polite to strangers because a stranger back in the day, could be a social superior and you could loose your head for being rude. Once your social status is known, you’ll be treated accordingly. Also you experienced “Gaigin Power”, where you’re a slight celebrity for being a foreigner.

@commentarytalk1446

7 ай бұрын

They're just very Stoic and expect you to be so also in most cases if you become involved with them. I actually interpret that as a massive sign of higher quality, but maybe that is subjective? Namely know what you're signing up to and if you can keep up before putting your name to the dotted line... ! A good thing for those able to accept the challenge but not good otherwise.

@ModernLifeDating

7 ай бұрын

Nah bro, you just got finessed.

Damn, he’s covering all the topics. Logic and reason prevails. Men want to be respected and appreciated.

I was a "Passport Bro" 25 years ago. I'm glad Orion opened his eyes. Everything he says is true. It's an amazing opportunity.

I love how red pilled Taraban is. He delivery is amazing, he can seemingly dunk on women just as bad as Fresh N Fit and still not come off as bad.

Dear Doctor, I have been watching your shows with high regard and and am gratified by your change of heart with respect to the new movement of men going abroad. As an American raised by Soviet immigrants, I can tell you that it is not difficult AT ALL to land someone with Angelina Jolie looks for the price of sushi as long as you are a perfect gentleman and go out of your way to prove that you are willing to make non-financial sacrifices of your time and effort to show the woman that you are a man of virtue. I married my dream girl, a 21 year old version who was as hot as hot as Adriana Lima. It upset my whole family that I could land such a rockstar of a woman but I didn’t care because I knew I was well worth it. But like you said: you pay a lot for American women and get nothing for it

@ObstaclestoOpportunities

7 ай бұрын

Best of luck with your relationship and thanks for support men overseas

I lived in the north and south of France for a total of 7 yrs. I now live in the States for my job and yrs later I still regret that I didn’t marry a French woman. They spoiled me completely.

A friend of mine told me to quit American women in favor of women abroad more than thirty years ago. I thought like you did at first Orion. I thought he just couldn't hack it with American women. But I was wrong. Also interesting, is that this Bay area phenomenon has been going on for thirty or more years. It is actually refreshing simply to travel away from that epicenter and you will be more appreciated just for being a man.

@walterwilkinson1499

7 ай бұрын

It's definitely much worse in the past ten of fifteen years (tinder effect maybe?).

I never plan on going back to the United States

When you're in another country you're the exotic one. Definitely helps

@lexzenis2544

7 ай бұрын

basic economics. especially when men are artificially devalued in the west.

@cliffthecoolcat

7 ай бұрын

I'm exotic in Kentucky.

@thejeff2469

7 ай бұрын

@@cliffthecoolcat Everybody is exotic in Kentucky

@cliffthecoolcat

7 ай бұрын

@@thejeff2469 lol

After dating internationally for a long time, I learned two things: 1) women tend to assimilate to whatever culture they happen to be in. This means that no matter where a girl grew up in, most of the time she'll develop the mindset of the culture she's immersed in given enough time. And 2) you won't automatically like all cultures alike so it only makes sense to explore the world and figure out what kind of values work best for you. Settling for whatever culture you happen to be in is very limiting imo.

@Accentor100

7 ай бұрын

You bring up a very good point when you say women tend to meld into whatever culture they are in. This is why men should move overseas and not bring her back here.

@lexzenis2544

7 ай бұрын

@@Accentor100 was just about to say exactly that!

@ousamaabdu794

7 ай бұрын

I will say even the foreign women who relocate to the US are still a much better option than said American born counterparts.

@Accentor100

7 ай бұрын

@@ousamaabdu794 I agree with that. I've known plenty and you're right.

@shinzagu

7 ай бұрын

cos back in the day they needed any man who will provide resources.. if the enemy took over and killed the men, theyd take the women or take control, and women would have to adjust.. they do whatever helps em survive

They shame you because they're trying to sell you a bad deal. Never trust someone trying to exploit you. High price for damaged goods. Better offers overseas lol

Met a Filipina 4 years ago. She was 37. She moved to states when she was 17. She got a DUI 6 years later at the age of 23. She got the second at 37. She was addicted to alcohol, social media, sex and gambling. This one was on me. If she’s been westernized give her a hard pass.

@RamboSnoop

7 ай бұрын

i can fix her

@tspice11

7 ай бұрын

@@RamboSnoop have fun good luck

@oodaloop7861

7 ай бұрын

@@RamboSnoop 🤣

@The1stGurehaundo

7 ай бұрын

Oh, yes. My 1st Japanese wife was also westernized. Language was no problem, everything else was. Avoid like plague.

@FT__Cool_Stuff______-of5pi

4 ай бұрын

bunch of women in SE Asia are like that as well - not everything on the list but doing dumb stuff - looking at Tik Tok all the time - shallow - petty - etc.

I am an Asian Male Ivy League educated Electrical Engineer and Medical Doctor. I could not get a second date with a white female in Phoenix, Az. The first date usually was torture. The vibe was, "Come close to me and I'll stab you with this fork." This was 30 years ago, when I was searching for a wife. I am sure it is better now, but back then it was impossible to get a white woman to look at you in a romantic way. The Passport bros movement is a necessity in this era.

@misutasutanto6312

7 ай бұрын

Most of them aren't into Asian men

@Infrazale

7 ай бұрын

Indeed. Your credentials, money, status, and intelligence only matter after she is physically attracted to you.

@SmoothLife.

7 ай бұрын

It’s worse now sir.

@gregtaylor9806

7 ай бұрын

I’m sorry to hear you had that experience.

@concernedcitizen6676

3 ай бұрын

@@misutasutanto6312So they're racist, is what you're saying? Ha, that's rich. Woke western women hate racists,... but don't tell them about their racist dating "preferences" .. 😂😂😂

The #1 reason I live in Colombia. Quality of life . This combines a better overall life experience: dating , cost of living , climate , slower pace, less stress.

Just being respectful and polite literally puts women ahead of probably 80 percent of women I come across in America on a daily basis,

Even ignoring the difference in the quality of women and how they treat men, I don't see why dating in other countries would make a western man inferior unless he's exploiting some sort of significant legal or financial differences. Traveling costs money and meeting people who don't share your first language is more difficult and intimidating than going to a local bar.

@Macheako

7 ай бұрын

Oh god no!!! Not someone using their advantage in life for….their actual fu**ing advantage 😂😂 Anything but that ❤

@Guildofarcanelore

7 ай бұрын

I met many people in China who sought me out so they could use and improve their second language, English. TBH you didn’t have to try at all and it was a LOT easier to meet people in China than in Canada. Here I am just another old white man to be exploited, used up and blamed for every societal failure. I would be lucky for a young woman to step over my dead body in the street. In China I was exotic and interesting. Young men and women would make an effort to talk to me and I felt valued. It’s not hard figure out.

@alexanderruffin3363

7 ай бұрын

​@Macheako exactly LMAO 🤣 😂 😆. Like women don't use their advantages consistently lol.

@006whysoserious

7 ай бұрын

The ugly American attitude plays a big part in why men who travel get bashed the way they do. First, look at the women who are doing the lions share of whining and bashing of men and women from other nations and notice that 95% of them are American women. Did you ever see that ABW call women from other nations uneducated on a podcast? It’s the arrogance and xenophobia that the ugly American attitude produces. It also sadly seems to make morons like her feel empowered to say such things and believe them to be true. That’s why they were as shocked as they were when the supposed “uneducated” women responded as swift and sharp as they did.

@MomoAfterDark

5 ай бұрын

Define “exploit” in this context if financial advantage

Thank you for your perfectly clear English, which is a blessing for those of us still struggling with foreign languages. The utility of knowledge, as always, is absolutely perfect.

Wait until Dr. goes to Thailand, the Philippines, Viet-Nam, etc. We'll never see him again.

Yes, it’s about quality. I travel a lot around the world, and I want to find a wife abroad. In USA it’s almost impossible to find a high quality woman.

And this is why at the age of 58, I am dating a young, beautiful, feminine, vibrant woman from eastern Europe who is 23.

Regardless of whether one “fishes” in the US or abroad, you need to know what you want and makes you happy first… but going where there are better “fish” makes the search more efficient. You will need your finely-tuned “skills” learned here in the US abroad too… and when you do, the quality you find escalates. Thank you to the women here in the US for making my life better abroad. 😊

@Tential1

7 ай бұрын

If people think the market they fish in doesn't matter, let me put your retirement funds in the Congo then.

@Joe-gl8sr

7 ай бұрын

@@Tential1 So right… every dollar matters when you earned every single one of them!! Let the trust funds babies hit the Congo.

Grass is always greener: Japan has the highest rates of sexless marriages and highest rates of male suicide. Initial attraction and behavior (marketing) does not always define the product accurately.

Only 6 jours ago I returned home from China. I could not get used to the women allowing the men to constantly come first whether it was walking onto an elevator, being served or walking through a doorway. I presumed it was because I am a westerner, which made the whole thing seem even worse. Upon further reflection, the women were very much the way you described Japanese women in terms of how easy it was to engage them in conversation and receive polite compliments. Thank you for clearing this up.

@georgedang449

7 ай бұрын

The west was very much that way until the '60s. They're just being polite - because humble IS polite. They don't want to look arrogant in public because it makes them look bad - they realize it makes them look bad. They're not necessarily kinder or gentler at heart, just more polite. The darker side is gold-digging is mainstream among Chinese/Japanese/other East Asian women - they just seek it within marriage instead of suitationships, and monogamy instead of promiscuity.

@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G.

7 ай бұрын

which one is better, taiwan or people republic?

@georgedang449

7 ай бұрын

@@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G. Taiwan is more promiscuous/likely to cheat, mainland more gold-digging/materialistic.

@silverchairsg

7 ай бұрын

@@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G. Taiwan, they didn't lose the good parts of traditional Chinese culture and their food isn't fried with recycled gutter oil etc.

@Hay8137g

Ай бұрын

@@silverchairsgthat’s crazy. Taiwanese food isn’t good

The man finally GETS IT. Hallelujah!

From the minute you land in Haneda from SFO, you realize how superior the Japanese culture is far superior. Everyone is so respectful, Orderly, followed the rules and everything is clean. You are right about how the women dress conservatively, which for me is so sexy

@quasipulsar2032

7 ай бұрын

Most definitely. Was stationed in Japan for 2 years and I must say in most ways they are culturally above us in these times by far and we could stand to learn a lot from them. After getting used to South East Asia, coming back home and just seeing how inefficient & slow service is, just the uneasy vibe change, the drama our culture enables and facilitates; it makes you want to just keep exploring the regions you feel more in congruence with.

@Hay8137g

Ай бұрын

lol. No culture is superior. Just get your head checked

@broGabiza

23 күн бұрын

@Hay8137g That maybe true, but I would rather be in Japan than catch the bart in San Francisco. The Japanese or sinagaporeans or many of the Asian folks are not perfect , but they sure do act much better than us here in the so called civilized world. I am in Asia every 2 months , so I see the difference

I was an expat at 19, didn't move back to the states full-time until my 30's. I'll say this: I've had many friends over the years who married foreign women and brought them back to the states, you have to be really careful that she doesn't get Americanized once you move back. From my observations, the risk seemed to be higher if it was a super young girl, say 25 and younger. I think 30 or so and later, they've developed enough as a person that they won't easily disregard their culture. But be very mindful about the friends she develops, help her find good people and interests, we all adopt personality traits of our associates. And regardless of how well she treats you, don't take her for granted -- I've seen a few friends do that as well, and without fail they all got divourced.

I travel to Europe a lot. I can tell you here in the US 85% of women are NOT height-weight proportionate, about only 15% are. Over in Europe it's the opposite. 85% of women are HWP and roughly 15% are overweight. Plus the women dress much more feminine in Europe, so refreshing to see.

@taridean

7 ай бұрын

Which countries in Europe do travel to? Over here in the UK we have a sizeable population of women that are noticeably overweight. If I'm not mistaken we have the highest or one of the overweight populations in Europe.

@jonprince3237

7 ай бұрын

@@taridean I assume he means continental Europe. I'm also in the U.K., where it seems like obesity in both men and women has become a national pastime, my Doctor even said to me once that it was refreshing to see someone in their office from my age group for an issue other than being overweight (I was a chunky monkey in my teens and thankfully broke out of that cycle, so I do have some level of empathy and understanding of weight related issues). But I can say that in my experience of travelling to other European countries over the last 30 years, I generally notice far fewer dangerously overweight people around, which I always found slightly odd.

Ive been married to a Japanese women for almost a decade and we have two children. Basically, Japanese people, both men and women are hard working and value quality. Asia societies in general love good quality food and this usually means they place value in how to cook and keep their environment clean. It’s all about being of service and working hard, not being idle. In my experience and I dated many women before marrying an Asian, if you want a true partner, hardworking, less drama and focused on what’s important in life then I think you may want to consider an Asian women. I think they appreciate masculine energy as we appreciate feminine energy- I wouldn’t say they are submissive though. But they make you realize how you have to up your game as they have their shit together. So you can’t be lazy.

While many things are true in the video, here’s my perspective having lived and worked with Japanese people for over 5 years -The Japanese people have incredible hospitality. BOTH Japanese men and women tend to put their “guest” at a much higher level. It’s called “omotenashi” - BOTH Japanese men and women are slim , aesthetic , educated and fit on average. This is not true for many passport bros. - Even as a woman there I received the same level of respect and “being listened to” from both Japanese men and women -Opening doors is not generally a part of culture , that’s probably why they felt a bit of embarrassment -the experience can vastly vary if the person is “non-white” -putting the guy first , To be very honest, in cases where women do such activities where they need to serve or deprive themselves of the basic facilities I - it seems as though they are not doing it willingly , but they are peer pressured into it. I’ve had numerous experiences where the women later on complain that they felt humiliated that they were made to do such activities . Eh like serve tea, sacrifice the sleeping matts etc. just because they do it doesn’t mean they don’t experience and enjoy sexism lol. - there are many cases of Japanese marriages where this “initial” respect is completely broken down later in marriage. There are cases where it becomes totally disrespectful, communication is broken down , cheating happens , sometimes kids are kidnapped, sexless marriages etc . The initial mask of hospitality can fall off . So while the initial fantasy looks great, also explore the other grim side as well.

I've been in Japan for 15 years, way before any passport pro stuff and not for women, I was just interested in the culture. You're spot on in terms of the feminity, they enjoy being women. I can tell you though that it isn't all sunshine and rainbows and I know the extreme dark side of the culture and the women but by comparison in many aspects you're correct.

@FT__Cool_Stuff______-of5pi

4 ай бұрын

I expected that in the video he would advise guys to work hard to get a true understanding of the culture in a place they are (considering) going. Rather.. Seems like some women were being polite to him (a stranger) and he got all excited. But a lot of men are making a very obvious blunder by thinking that women not being obviously bad in a few specific ways means they are great. All different cultures will have some negative aspects both in a broad sense and related to romantic relationships. For example - with just a quick google on can see that Japanese women commit infidelity at a rate higher than most others. Plus there's a whole lot of other things.

Thank you. Like you my initial take on pasport bros was the same thing. Seemed a bit creepy and predatory. I had the idea that it was old men looking for barely legal women. The more content I saw about it on youtube the more I realized that this is perhaps the best option for men who A. have the resources to do it, and B. are looking for wives. It comes with the added benefit of going to another country and building a life, business, and helping to build communities. It really is a win win for everyone ... except American women.

I'm working remote in IT for a US company in Russia. Spent 4 years learning Russian. Still suck at it but its good enough for dating. My plan is to never date a western woman again. If I ever decide to have a family it will be here ideally away from the big cities (St. Petersburg and Moscow). Good luck men the grass really is greener outside USA/EU.

It’s worth giving a try, $30k on weekly basis ain’t no joke. I can now contribute to charity, give back to society and the church.

@briellexD

7 ай бұрын

Wow,this is good,how did you do it??

@alokii

7 ай бұрын

Well , I’m happy to talk about my investment with Mrs Mary Margaret Schimweg. She’s helped me achieve my financial goals. Her strategies has normalised winning trades for me also which is a huge milestone for me.

@valentinpodlich

7 ай бұрын

Oh wow!!! I know Mrs Mary Margaret Schimweg too. It must be a coincidence to see that she’s been talked about. Her professionalism and craftsmanship should actually be studied. I think she’s on FINRA too and very popular

@valentinpodlich

7 ай бұрын

Oh wow!!! I know Mrs Mary Margaret Schimweg too. It must be a coincidence to see that she’s been talked about. Her professionalism and craftsmanship should actually be studied. I think she’s on FINRA too and very popular

@kannsip1

7 ай бұрын

Hey I did so much if investing my little income but I burnt my trading account because of lack of expertise. Could you help me on more info about Mrs Mary Margaret schimweg?

the best case for meeting women in a foreign country is for an immigrant into the U.S., originally from that country, who may have spent a great deal of time here and is well established, but continues to experience too many cultural differences on a personal level, to date native-born women. Case in point: I was born in Eastern Europe and lived there until age 16, at which time my parents decided to move the entire family to America. I finished the last two years of high school here, graduated college, obtained a decent profession. I did all the right things and established myself decently well. But I just could not get along with local women, and never understood why. I ended up marrying a girl from my original country, my original hometown, and she is my former schoolmate. And we actually had a crush on each other when we were kids - how awesome is that! Best decision I've ever made, in my entire life 😁

This is simple fact: Western women expect a lot and offer little. I do not understand why men buy them rings for engagement/marriage. They can barely cook, for example, and tend to resent men for it. I wish it were not the case, but it is. When I was in college I met a gorgeous Colombian student. She offered to cook a meal for me, and she was evidently glad to. Up until that time only my mother or my friends' mothers had ever cooked for me, and I was smitten with the Colombian.

Thank you good Doctor 👍🏾. You are a breath of fresh air. And great articulation of red pill and other subjects.

I remember when everygirl would post this bs ig "If you cant take me at worst you dont deserve my best"

@GreatRetro

7 ай бұрын

they will pay for their stupidity with loneliness!!!

@commentarytalk1446

7 ай бұрын

Reply: "I've seen your worst and it's not good enough!"

As a ”foreign” woman all I can say is , the grass always looks better on the other side, doesn’t matter where you go , people are people, some are good , some are bad , the new experience may be overwhelming and interesting, but there are also a lot of downsides, especially if for cultural differences you don’t understand what they are really about, there are a lot of women who could sweet talk themselves into a relationship and manipulate to get what she want ( this people exist everywhere) so if you are interested be careful and have a cool mind, but besides that the desire to marry people from other cultures is just part of humanity

@taridean

7 ай бұрын

Well said. Always do thorough research on the culture and customs of the country you're going to. Plus NEVER lead with your wallet because that's a sure fire way of attracting the type that take advantage of you.

@ivanivan5511

6 ай бұрын

Great approach

100% Accurate. I was in Japan about a month ago for the first time. By and large, the biggest people I saw were other Americans who were visiting. Almost no one is fat in the whole country... not even the elderly. That really woke me up to the facts of how bad our food really is to our health, in this country. And they are some of the nicest group of people I have ever met...

@josephpasquarella2123

5 ай бұрын

It’s unbelievable that we readily and legally sell adulterated and processed food here that is literally illegal in Asia and Europe lol

@Hay8137g

Ай бұрын

What’s wrong w a little fat? White men look gain weight

i’ve been dating and traveling internationally since 2004 - The overall quality of women are leaps and bounds better than American Women. The problem is with the Passport Bro movement 🙄is that “those” who have been made the face are “horrible, unwise, and unworthy representative’s” speaking for men who love to travel and providing horrible examples of the women we come into contact with. THATs why there is such negative connotations attached to it. It’s only when you travel to other countries like : Ethiopia - Morrocco etc that you’ll find women who are still Virgins. Try finding one in the United States and that alone will kill any argument.

@user-yy2fm6fd2v

7 ай бұрын

If you were the standard you put up for women would you marry you?

@shinzagu

7 ай бұрын

nah its got a bad rep cos anything exclusively male is demonised in the Feminiised West, cos women cant get what they want, they will badmouth anything men do or love

@simonm519

7 ай бұрын

@@user-yy2fm6fd2v men and women adhere to different standards

@-glitch-8195

7 ай бұрын

​@@user-yy2fm6fd2v Good point. What I will say is as someone who comes from a similar culture to the ones he listed, I know for a fact they require dowry & usually do arranged marriages through the families. They also get multiple marriage proposals so you're gonna have to outcompete the local men. While being a western male might give you an "edge", the downside is this is not going to draw conservative women who are virgins. Most American males are coming into contact with westernized women overseas, who are definitely not virgins. So it's not a standard but a preference since some things in life are exclusive. They know American males sleep around. I don't know if you seen the episode of the American male who went to Morocco on 90 day fiancée. The dude was trying to push for 50/50. The Moroccan woman was like, what are you talking about? 😂 You're in our territory, you have to abide by our standards. Masculinity is universal.

@user-yy2fm6fd2v

7 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this comment! Thank you for your Insight@@-glitch-8195

“Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior.” ~ Socrates

I am an American woman, and I have been thinking about how unfeminine American women have become. I wonder if in the long term, feminism has resulted in an over correction. I spent all of my younger years being told that femininity was weakness and therefore unwanted. How crazy is that? Just a thought.

I married a Japanese woman. We had two great sons (both got into UCLA) and were married for 23 years. There are many upsides to a Japanese wife, but they (or mine at least) don't understand the idea of a marriage "partnership". Japanese culture is very conformist and the behavior and expectations of individuals are dominated by deeply ingrained socially conventions and well defined roles. Thinking for themselves is uncomfortable for many.

@tiffanygrever8092

7 ай бұрын

Yes I have heard that for a Japanese husband that his work comes before family almost like a religion and at least it used to be the husband would visit a prostitute sometimes before he went home and the wife was supposed to be okay with it. And it is a very stressed out culture I would suggest if you guys do get an Asian wife that you don't take advantage of her submissivnes.

@donkeysaurusrex7881

7 ай бұрын

This sounds ideal. Not sure why you put a “but” in there like it was a downside.

@JfaJosephR9

7 ай бұрын

So did you get divorced? If so why? You said we were married as if you no longer are

@misutasutanto6312

7 ай бұрын

@mark allen.... yes you're supposed to lead....that's why😂

@jenkech5824

7 ай бұрын

All that glitters is not gold....

I went to Spain, and other European countries, in 2018 solo. I had never been treated so well by women my age. I'm born and raised in san jose, ca. I still live here and the dating market place is notoriously...Terrible. I just got back from new york city where multiple women asked me out for drinks on bumble. I'm 6 ft, athletic build, no baggage, decent income articulate with great communication skills. I've never been married or engaged. The 3 LTR ive been in, all with women from san jose, resulted in them cheating. Despite the misfortune I have a healthy and optimistic outlook on dating. Just not in the bay area.

@manos6969

7 ай бұрын

Bro you should ask the Spanish guys how the same girls treat them. It would help you understand the world a bit better. Geomaxing is cool and has results but its not the solution to genuine connection. I am European and have an amazing opinion about Californian girls that I meet on holidays btw.

@simonm519

7 ай бұрын

@@manos6969they’re great for casual hookups, you just can’t see the bigger picture if you’re only spending your holidays here. You’re literally meat to them.

@Kenny-Ross

7 ай бұрын

I've been to Spain three times and to me Spanish women, most of them, of what I saw are like girls from California. I saw a few that were good looking in the south but in general Spanish women are not very appealing. However, dating in CA is a nightmare. I left there last September after living in SoCal for 5 1/2 years and the main reason for leaving was the GIRLS! It's so bad there. I would see a girl here and there while out that gave off the vibe as a girl I could probably kick it with but most gave off that vibe of being too dark, base and masculine for me. If you date them you gotta be on their frequency which I clearly wasn't. Meanwhile in South America most girls are way more feminine.

@TacitusR

7 ай бұрын

@gabrielrodriguez6672, Spain is a beautiful country with much to offer. I truly do love much about Spain, but tread carefully because it is also one of the most radically feminist countries in the world with it's misandric laws, exceeded by perhaps only the Anglo countries.

@dahliafiend

7 ай бұрын

The only ex that cheated on me did it with a dude that lived in San Jose. Maybe it’s the water. 🤷‍♂️

I was married to a Japanese woman in Canada, and after divorce had a 7 year relationship with another Japanese woman, this time in Japan and Canada as I was teaching yoga in both countries. I learned a lot about levels of politeness, decorum, hospitality and social harmony. There is however, another side to this - literally. Being married or having a long term relationship with a Japanese woman ends up being the inverse experience of their social, outward-facing charm. No time to go into it all here but a great book on Japanese social psychology is The Anatomy of Dependence by Takeo Doi. Orion, have a great time dating Japanese women but exercise a great degree of caution going further than that.

@squarecracker

7 ай бұрын

Yeah a westerner is not going to really grasp 'face' on 1 month trip. I spent 3 years in Korea, which is not quite Japan, but many of the same concepts were present there. You could write for days on this topic, but at the end of the day the points made in this video are pretty valid.

@tigerbear3038

7 ай бұрын

Not just a westerner but a white male

@sanktheboat

7 ай бұрын

My last girlfriend was a Japanese covert narcissist. She didn't start letting her mask slip until a year in... It was a truly horrifying experience. You have to be very careful because their rape culture can produce some monsters, who nonetheless learn how to seem like lovely, submissive, respectful women. 😔

@DanielClementYoga

7 ай бұрын

@@sanktheboat sorry to hear!

@patrickmarr7076

7 ай бұрын

the irony of finding a woman who meets our needs is that in order to make it work, we have to meet their needs and expectations too. The average western man is no match for the disciplined and highly skilled japanese ideal. And therein lies their expectations. Eventually she will see you as lazy and stupid... a loser who never bothered to strive relentlessly to reach his full potential. The japanese and korean obsession for excellence is legendary. They feel a sense of dishonor if they fall short of their goals, and don't be surprised if that same dishonor passes to you if you become content with your current state of accomplishment. There is no sense of "good enough"

I'm pretty much in the top 5% of guys where I live, it's just these women are not worth my energy and time. Ran through, in their freedom and party phase. I'd much rather get and marry a woman, who isn't infected by this mind virus. Don't let society shame you into a horrible life, do what you need to do to find your happiness. If you are affected by labels randoms throw at you, you are probably doing it wrong.

Was not interested in this video, but "wow" opened my eyes to something I hadn't even thought about! One of your best! Thanks for posting!

I didn’t realize you were in the Bay Area, as someone born and raised in the Bay Area and has traveled abroad you sir are 1,000% correct

Thank you for this one! I'm sharing it before it even finishes!

I think to look down those men and shaming them is absolutely delusional. They simply do what anyone is looking for : better at a lower cost. Frankly when you see what you have to put in here to get a shabby whomaen, fat, with tons of entitlement and bringing zero value, why even playing the game ? Those guys are right period. And i am glad you realized this and share your thought on yoyr very good channel....

I couldn't agree with you more. I am able to date women who would be consdiered 10s in the west. Many of whom don't want to leave their home countries so you can't say its about the green card. Its become my goal in life to live overseas after my experiences. It feels good to be around this cutlure irregardless of dating.

As a guy who was a passport bro before it was cool (it's cool now, right? despite Orion's former opinions?) , I can confirm that the quality of women in Japan is higher than in the states. Further, I come from the mountain west, an area of the US where women are more respectful than in many of the larger cities on the coasts, and I still am impressed with the quality of women in the far east. I am not a guy who needs any help attracting women: I workout almost daily, participate in club sport at the national level of competition, 6 figures, 6', 6pack, 6in, blah blah blah. I only put that out there to emphasize the point, not to boast because pretentiousness and grandiosity make me throw up in my mouth a little. I lived in Japan for several years, speak the language fluently, and have also visited Korea and have several Filipina friends. I can vouch for the quality of the women. That said, passport bros, taking your talents overseas is not always rainbows and lollipops. The Japanese girl I happened to marry, after 4 (awesome) kids and 25 years, turned out to be a covert narcissist. Yes, I am well aware that I'm not qualified to diagnose NPD. I didn't say she has NPD. She has the personality trait of narcissism. Whether it is at a clinical level will remain a mystery as she quit couples therapy and refused to go back. But I think I could make a good case for most of the 9 DSM NPD criteria. I have had the last 10 years of narcissistic abuse to study and learn what NPD is so I'm not pulling this out of my ass. We are in the 3rd year of divorce process. Personality issues, insecurity, entitlement, etc, exist in the East just as they do in the West. AFAICT though, it's somewhat less prevalent. But don't go thinking every woman there is perfect. You still need to do your due diligence. And if possible, don't bring her back to the West where she will be exposed to extreme feminism and female entitlement and being put on a pedestal by others. (And don't bring an entitled, superior attitude to the East) Things would have been different if I hadn't brought her back to the states, although I doubt it would have prevented the breakup. So I'll be back to looking for someone again soon. Rest assured I will be spending a great deal of time in Japan (and plenty of other places), but as much for my own enjoyment as to meet women.

@robertgskill

7 ай бұрын

Great comment. it isn't all rainbows and sunshine. In America the entire interaction between men and women benefits women, and the initial interactions aren't very friendly and welcoming.

Really appreciate anecdotal stories based on real experience. Links the talk to the world.

I knew in the 1970's as a high school student the level of entitlement women in the U.S. had. Like Dr. T could get laid, married, etc. Still, I knew I would leave after finishing college and live abroad. I got everything I wanted and so did my future wife. Best personal and financial decision I ever made.

I love your channel. It’s addictive. I wish I had access to all the information you provide when I was younger. You are so wise. Thank you for your work. It’s really helps me understand the world and the human condition better. I agree with your analysis on Japan. It’s a world class country with world class women.

Comming back from Thailand last month, i 100% totally agree with you in everything you said. Thank you, and really appreciate & respect your work.

Competition incentivizes sellers to improve their products and services. Let's hope the competition from foreign women causes Western women to reevaluate themselves, examine what they bring to the table, and take some cues from the foreign women.

@artawhirler

7 ай бұрын

I will not be holding my breath on that. 😅

@masterTigress96

7 ай бұрын

Agree with @artawhirler on this. I don't think western women are going to change because of this. They have made significant investments and sacrificies in order to keep up with the ever moving goalposts of feminism and woke liberal ideologies. Some have cut ties with family members and friends to pursue a "dream" (from the feminist point of view) that simply doesn't align with reality. I'm afraid a lot of women would rather die alone then reverse out the very deep rabbit hole that they're in. As Rollo Tomassi said "women would rather share an alpha, then settle for a beta" and I think women will see it as a defeat when they have to change themselves in order to align with reality. They will always see western men as beta's or less then them because they have been radicalized to believe they are entitled to a man that can only exist in their fantasies. Women would rather die and take those beliefs with them to the grave then to "submit" to reality. Invest in cat/dog food companies when you go join the PPB movement so that you can enjoy a good pension with your beautiful foreign girl when this madness will reach its peak.

@ElTheJono

7 ай бұрын

They won't but a man can dream

@georgedang449

7 ай бұрын

Adults are set in their ways. Current generation of feminists are self eliminating - when they select themselves out of the gene pool, things will change. Not before.

@Lawskipper

7 ай бұрын

That would require American women to be accountable and take responsibility for their conduct. Neither of those will happen anytime soon. Instead they just blame men for leaving the US to find real feminine women, just as they blame men for everything else.

We love you bro, been to many countries and agree with every point made!

Great frame break! Thank you, Dr. Taraban.

It’s no surprise that Japan is ahead of the United States in just about every positive category, lower crime rates, less single mothers, lower divorce rates, better health, and has put American car manufacturers virtually out of business.

I lived in Japan for a couple of years in the 90s and remember how deferential the women were. At the time, I learned that a big part of it was the post-war culture that resulted from such a huge change in the gender numbers (stacked on top of the underlying societal norms). I was told that it was something like 10-15 eligible women for every eligible man, so a woman that had a steady guy was lucky and she knew it deep in her bones. Add to that the cultural long view built on incremental work, and she was going to put in effort every day to make the relationship better. Sure, there are plenty of cultural reasons why Japan may not be the place you want to live, but the quality of potential mates is a huge plus. IMHO.

I’m American, and traveling to Spain another western country was pretty eye opening. I just feel that in the states the culture is so hyper-materialistic and going to Europe outside the major cities you just didn’t deal with that. Diet-materialism at best. Women were more humble, submissive “in comparison” to the average American chick. I don’t look down on ambition at all, but only here in the states do we have this grandiose way of living and striving for more and more, and to go to another country where it isn’t extreme was a huge relief.

@Helminthis

7 ай бұрын

Dude Spain is more feminist than America😂

@leedlbagginshield8492

7 ай бұрын

@@Helminthisbut less materialistic

@ProfessorCDO

7 ай бұрын

@@Helminthisso have you been to Spain yourself? I’ll take a Spaniard feminist over an American one 😉

This is the best video I have watched since this year ❤

I’m glad you see it now Dr. Taraban. I also just returned from a trip to Japan… the difference is truly night and day.

I can confirm that, not in japan but in HK, i meet a girl who was a lawyer and was attempting to become a model