Parents sew recording device in toddler’s jacket, capture day care worker threatening to harm kids
Two employees of a San Antonio day care directed profane language toward young children, with one of the women even threatening to harm kids in her care, according to audio recordings obtained by KSAT Investigates.
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Never ceases to amaze me why people who dislike children, chose to work with them.
@kathyharris8331
2 ай бұрын
These are child abusers, and they definately go into careers that give them unlimited access to children.
@wadewilson8011
2 ай бұрын
It's not about the children. It's about collecting a paycheck. These millennials and Gen Z aren't getting into these fields to help society and be honest people. They're only there to get a paycheck. And it's in every profession these days. The medical careers are included.
@prodigalpriest
2 ай бұрын
It's just a paycheck to people like that.
@scalawag6878
2 ай бұрын
@@prodigalpriest yep, they don't care about anything except that paycheck
@tommcdonough6086
2 ай бұрын
For these employees it beats flipping burgers😮😮
The employees should be locked up in jail.
@Seantherad
Жыл бұрын
Lock em up.
@natestegner9917
Жыл бұрын
They won’t cause they’re black.
@BlankCanvasProductionss
Жыл бұрын
This has been happening for decades! Hopefully more parents do this!
@toytacambery9427
Жыл бұрын
"I'm gonna end up in jail." It's what they want. This world is screwed because we've become too soft to do what needs done to people who act like this. Dragged into the street and shot in the head is the only sensible punishment for someone who lives by the motto of "idgaf im a baddie" which is too many people nowadays.
@camping11
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely nothing will happen to them.
All child facilities should be under video surveillance for the safety of children
@deadsetondreams1988
2 ай бұрын
I agree but video and audio as well apparently goodness.
@nunyabiznez6381
2 ай бұрын
Agreed but in many jurisdictions that is actually illegal. In some jurisdictions employees have a legal right to not be recorded by any cameras while at work.
@Hannadayflo
2 ай бұрын
I agree - live stream to parents phone too.
@Toasty_Mr.Marsh_
2 ай бұрын
Honestly even my doggy daycare has live streamed cameras at the very least.
@CrimsonEclipse
2 ай бұрын
Even my kid's preschool have cameras in every classroom for the sole purpose in making sure there isn't any child abuse.
You’d probably find the same in elderly care. We are living in a society with no compassion.
Anyone who could threaten or be abusive to children is just pure evil.
@brown_eyed_girl
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Could you imagine an adult talking to pre schoolers like that? Despicable!!
@Ed_Rod214
Жыл бұрын
Pure coward as well don’t forget that!
@joekickass2728
Жыл бұрын
MY parents tried daycare with my brother back in the 80's. Was their first child and he came home with bite marks from another kid the first day. After that my mom had to become a stay at home mother to raise the kids.
@karltrapson
Жыл бұрын
Anyone who puts their kids in daycare and public school doesn't give a sh about their kids. The fact you're all surprised when things like this and much worse happens is astounding.
@condorX2
Жыл бұрын
I dare you say that to a child predator face.. Or predator priests in general 😅 This beg the question on what the parents had to go through before they send their kid to the day care center. It's like they knew
There’s a daycare in my area that has constant cameras rolling in the classrooms and if your child is enrolled you can log in at anytime to their class to see what activity they’re up to and see how your kid is doing. They should instill this everywhere
@pfb74
Жыл бұрын
But like, the privacy of the other children?
@johndoe-ss9bz
Жыл бұрын
Constant Video Access by parents, will help a lot!
@tachyon8317
Жыл бұрын
@@pfb74 I'm sure ANY of the other parents can log in, not just OP can, as how I read your comment
@RoxanneGutierrez010
Жыл бұрын
@@pfb74 what privacy? They are not at home!
@ontherockswithsalt2335
Жыл бұрын
It should be a requirement for accreditation.
It should be MANDATORY! To have professional recording equipment in all day care and school facility rooms.
@Letnothinggotowaste
14 күн бұрын
It should be mandatory that one parent raise their own children.
@picturebookhorrorstories2988
8 күн бұрын
I thought it was for Kindercare, they’re supposedly this big corporation
@atouchofclass07
7 күн бұрын
But then some "Karen" parents would say it's a breech of privacy. But caretakers that act like these women did, it SHOULD be mandatory for surveillance at all times! And facilities, even daycares from home, should have cameras and recordings for this! 🤷🏻♀️
When my 2 year old went to a neighborhood child care he came home after the second day and said he didn’t want to go back. I asked why. He said if you are bad they set you up on top of the piano. At that very young age he recognized Humiliation. Never sent him back.
@msch7620
2 ай бұрын
How long ago was that? You should have opened a complaint to inspection instead of just pulling your kid out. By regulation this falls under « constrain ». An inspector would have showed up unannounced and find non-compliance and it’s something that hurts their business.
@EB-wl9st
2 ай бұрын
I hope you reported them
@5thkiechannel
Ай бұрын
If you didn’t report them, you let these people continue abusing other children
@EB-wl9st
Ай бұрын
@@5thkiechannel Agreed!
It is absolutely OK to monitor your kids how you see fit for THEIR SAFETY. Good for these parents .
@warpedweft9004
Жыл бұрын
if it's legal to do so in your country. It's not in some. Having said that though, I retired early to look after my grandchildren as one of my daughters had worked in daycare and just what she told us made us vow never to have our children/grandchildren go to daycare.
@lukesutton4135
Жыл бұрын
For now until communists and their republican allies make that illegal as well.
@A.T.Johnson
Жыл бұрын
@@warpedweft9004 In the U.S. it’s absolutely legal to record public areas. It’s a part of the 1st amendment to record in publicly accessible areas, including public schools.
@TheTrumpmancometh2024
Жыл бұрын
Shut this place down!
@bre4230
Жыл бұрын
as a caregiver myself, i’m totally comfortable being recorded because i love my babies and have nothing to hide!! i think all caregivers should be monitored. our children should be better protected. good for these parents
The fact that all of that was captured on a single random day, there's no doubt it was a regular occurrence and wasn't the worst that had happened. How terrifying. Imagine if the parents hadn't recorded it.
@suebell7281
Жыл бұрын
and who's to know what they do to these innocent children when no one is looking. Stayed home with my 4 kids. Went back to school after they were in school.
@jlt001928
Жыл бұрын
@@suebell7281 that’s exactly what I’m doing with my 3 toddlers too.
@suebell7281
Жыл бұрын
@@jlt001928 unfortunately one of easiest jobs you can get as a young adult without much schooling or maybe practical experience with kids are these positions. You have to understand why kids act they way they do . Hello! It’s not personal!!! They only understand their little world not yours! You need a boss who,s also a mom with experience to train and teach behavior strategies. This baby was little so there’s no behavior strategies there- you just love on them and play!!! Playing with kids is a blast !
@brettpid6416
Жыл бұрын
she used hood language, I wouldn't leave my kid with anyone who can't even properly speak their native tongue
@simonmultiverse6349
Жыл бұрын
When someone shows you who they are, believe it. This is child abuse.
Smart parents. Why these people choose to work in daycare when they hate children is beyond me.
@carollewis3912
14 күн бұрын
That way they get to act their hatred.
Those parents were super clever. I am so thankful they found the truth.
Great job parents for exposing them and recognizing the changes in your childs behavior! 👍🏾
@JamesSmith-pg7xp
Жыл бұрын
Discernment
@MrTrollosan
Жыл бұрын
👍
@casualweekday-ytshadowbang2469
Жыл бұрын
I'm not related to the US but anyone who watches actual news can't be surprised by this.
@rudiklein
Жыл бұрын
Understanding these changes in your kid is very difficult, because these change so fast due to other influences. The parents are vey sensitive in a good way.
@rahkinrah1963
Жыл бұрын
@@tru3doll380 Are they? WHY can't mommy be with her child at this age? Too busy? Her "job" is so valuable?
This happens WAY MORE than people think! Parents Beware ALWAYS!
@Ava93_
Жыл бұрын
INCLUDING INSIDE THE HOME! most parents don't deserve kids, can you believe that!
@joeshmoe6930
Жыл бұрын
And most of the time it's harmless. Monsters do exist in our society. But parents _themselves_ say stuff like this, every day, throughout the world. It's not always meant concretely, and _most_ of the time it's just a frustrated parent venting. I said most of this in a comment above as well. I do think the women in this video probably need to be thoroughly investigated. They were saying things a little excessively. But they're also responsible for something like 20 kids at the same time. It may have been just harmless normal stuff. And it may not have been. The things they were saying weren't really that shocking, I've heard far worse from my own parents. Intent, is what needs to be looked into.
@darkandedgy1457
Жыл бұрын
@@joeshmoe6930 yeah no those aren't their kids they don't get to treat them how they want. Imagine some stranger just talking to your kids that way and just being okay with it.
@mikepalmer2219
Жыл бұрын
@@Ava93_ your an idiot.
@The_Essential_Review
Жыл бұрын
But what are we supposed to do if we have no choice to use daycare??
Love that the mother was aware her baby's behavior changed. This is where it starts yall! Do not ignore the signs, it could save your child's life!!!
I had a similar experience, and my husband became a stay at home dad. When I picked up my kids and demanded their personal effects from the daycare and without notice, they sued me. I won, and the judge said I wouldn’t have given you notice either! Also, a dark cloud was literally over the daycare house and it rained hard, and as I drove away I was beneath a sunlight ray as if it was heaven sent! The Lord’s on my side!
@umpus
2 ай бұрын
Omg that's so strange, you literally left that dark hole for a better place.
@Deribinkle
2 ай бұрын
They sued YOU? That is outright crazy. You were paying them for daycare. It is great that you won and got faraway from that place.
@carolinarivera7538
2 ай бұрын
I left a daycare because the caregivers had no experience working with children. They make working with them unbearable!
This just reaffirms my belief that it needs to be made possible for one parent to stay home with their children to prevent horrible, unqualified people from abusing your kids in day care!
@Atyler1
Жыл бұрын
no parent is even qualified to teach or raise their own kid, good luck😂
@Donny-rj8pz
Жыл бұрын
@@Atyler1 So throughout almost the entire span of human existence parents weren't fit to teach their children?
@ashleyobrien4937
Жыл бұрын
@@Atyler1 speaking from bitter experience are we ? did the bad man touch you in a funny place ?
@tiltil9442
Жыл бұрын
@@ashleyobrien4937 jokes on abuse kind of come naturally to you, don't they? I'm just wondering what shaped your sense of "humor" early in life.
@janicester
Жыл бұрын
@@Atyler1 it sounds like you may have had terrible parents but not everyone had that same experience. I certainly didn't.
as a school teacher myself, i agree with what those parents did. Never trust who you leave your children with even family members Nobody will take care of your children better than you
@oo0Spyder0oo
Жыл бұрын
Yeah so more the reason that having kids the parents need to have someone bring them up at home, not with strangers. These centres are dumping grounds for parents wanting to go shopping all day or the gym or because they both want jobs to get their 2 4x4’s and boat, but not put the time into raising them right.
@Ninjasnail1926
Жыл бұрын
Why I stayed home with my kids. My cousin had her baby thrown against a wall at a home daycare about 14 years ago. Was on national news. People across the USA lost their minds like we did. She has a slight limp now from the ordeal. Her leg drags a bit because way it broke amd slight brain damage from being slammed into the wall. She was thrown into the wall by her feet then dropped to floor. Broke her skull, bones in her body. Her left side has some issues but hard to notice today. Scared me so bad when I had kids we decided to stay at home.
@deekang6244
Жыл бұрын
@@oo0Spyder0oo That’s pretty judgmental. Maybe some people need to work?
@askew9976
Жыл бұрын
Except for the parents out here murdering their kids…
@barsxsalicia
Жыл бұрын
No, I know plenty of people who growing up would’ve been in better care with someone else aside from their biological parents…
I'm a nanny & recommend that every parent do this!!!! If you are going to trust someone with your child you'd better know who you are trusting!!
@cje886
2 ай бұрын
It's probably a comparable price these days to have a private nanny. I think day care is something like 200-400 dollars a day or week or some such now, which is kind of outrageous at a center imo.
My daughter’s behavior change is what caught my attention also when I placed my child in day care many years ago. I immediately removed her and made arrangements with family to care for her, when that was no longer an option after our 2nd daughter was born, my husband and I agreed that I would quit my job and become a stay at home mom. It was financially burdensome, but we followed a tight budget and made it work. This was back when crimes against children were not as wide spread, today, I would not recommend anyone leave their child with anyone they absolutely could not fully trust. I had 2 girls from our church approach me and ask me if I would watch their babies, I was happy to do so for free just to know that these children were safe, and properly cared for. I now keep my grandchildren. A lot of people do not have these options, but we have to find ways of making sure the children today are safe.
@msch7620
2 ай бұрын
I work at a daycare. We are all professionals with certifications, 1st aids, we have camera and inspections … It’s your due diligence as a parent to do your research about the place where you live your child and make sure you get an incident report for any minor mark on your kid. You can also read the inspections online. Many people just want the cheapest place and don’t even care to know the teacher’s name or what their kid did during the day. If the staff is happy, there isn’t a huge turnover and the kids are happy and the place is licensed and safe, there is little chance anything like that happens. I find it insulting as an ECE professional to assume that what happens in the video is common. I have witness one thing one day, and not remotely as bad, the boss saw it on camera and the girl was fired on the spot. I have reported several abuse happening in the house on the other end. So not all kids are safe at home. Where I agree is that , if the parents are good people, a child will get more personal attention at home. But the vast majority of ECE workers are dedicated and caring. Just don’t send your child to a cheap place with lots of staff turnover because it means the staff is paid minimum wage and the director won’t care as much about qualifications.
You can’t trust strangers these days. Certainly not with something as precious as a toddler. There’s way too many nutjobs out there now.
@cesarcanete3402
Жыл бұрын
I agree. You're better off either having family & friends look after your kid or look after your kid yourself.
@brianbagnall3029
Жыл бұрын
They'll try to teach your kids about deviant sexual lifestyles. Usually elementary school teachers do this.
@claire001savefile5
Жыл бұрын
That’ why if you can’t take care of your kids yourself simply don’t have them.
@adamjensen2304
Жыл бұрын
@@brianbagnall3029 better than learning about an imaginary sky being
@steveosoprano9078
Жыл бұрын
@@adamjensen2304 you can believe in God or believe in nothing, but both require faith.
This couple not only protected their own child, but other parent's children as well. All parent's who have little one's that are in a daycare and even kindergarten should follow this woman's idea. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@houserental5424
Жыл бұрын
Naw these brats need a spanking
@atlanticrf
Жыл бұрын
It is too late for their child's mental health.
@unicornmadness6286
Жыл бұрын
@@atlanticrf WOW, your mind frame is super negative. This couples child wasn't even two year's old yet, so she will be just fine. And in the event she starts to show signs that aren't her "norm", the parents who apparently pay attention to her very well, will take the next steps in whatever it is their child needs to thrive in this world.
@nunyabusiness1499
Жыл бұрын
My kid's day care has parent-accessible cameras with audio. That's peace of mind and accountability.
@Eyerusalem_
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
The detectives are looking into whether the recordings constitute terroristic threats?? What??
Oh my gosh My husband and I did the same thing. We seen my son wasn’t wanting to go to school, He was a kindergartener at the time. The Teacher was yelling and just being mean to these little kids. My son wasn’t accustom to being yelled at or talked to like that. Isn’t it heat breaking as a parent knowing we put our child in a position to be abused, When we’re thinking we’re doing just the opposite. I was so upset, my poor baby. I know the mom and dad here felt the same was. God bless and good job mom and dad for taking action.
As a mom, I know kids are annoying but don’t work in a daycare if you can’t handle it. Poor kids.
@newtrollaccount384
Жыл бұрын
That's why daycares and schools have a hard time recruiting. Most of your children are terrible. More of you need to stay home with your offspring.
@bonchicodavis1444
Жыл бұрын
@@newtrollaccount384 stfu it’s obvious you wasn’t loved as a child so now you’re on the internet projecting 🤣😭
@jamesbyrne9312
Жыл бұрын
I agree, look after your kids ffs and stop chasing every dollar.
@coym5452
Жыл бұрын
It’s so sad because we all were kids and people shouldn’t do that to them 😞
@insmileyfacemur4242
Жыл бұрын
I will never trust daycare workers
I was abused physically and emotionally by an educator when I was in kindergarten. No one believed me. I’m 42 and I’m still dealing with the damage of the situation. Bravo to these parents. And my heart goes out to that little girl and the other kids at that daycare center.
@lila2986
Жыл бұрын
unfortunately some parents are even worse than this. Not all parents, but some.
@dee2022uk
Жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through this. I dont have kids but all this breaks my heart, we were all kids once and we must do all we can to protect kids - some awful people out there
@shannonlambson6319
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry no one believed, you should never have had to go through that. I hope you find healing ❤️🩹
@fortunamajor7239
Жыл бұрын
@Looper hope there aren't any children in your family
@karaam80
Жыл бұрын
@@dee2022uk I’m doing ok. Didn’t process this until a few years ago. I have 2 little girls and I look at how my daughters pre-k teachers treat her vs my teacher. It’s night and day. I’m grateful for that at least.
Wow. I work with children 1-9 years old. It is a tough job for sure, but never would I threaten the children with violence. My heart goes out to the children and parents!
Being a grandmother, I changed my life and where I lived to help take care of my granddaughter. Relocated my life, because I never wanted my only grand baby to in any way possibly go to a preschool like this. My daughter and husband work very hard, there adding to there savings so my granddaughter can go to a private school. Because of all that’s been going on at schools, it’s just so scary.
@billwilson5341
Жыл бұрын
Deborah Whitten: Wish I had a *Great Grandmother* award to give you! I also want to give thanks to your daughter and SIL for taking you up on your offer to assist. Private schools also have their issues. Stay vigilant!
@joanneadamovich8114
2 ай бұрын
Homeschooling?
@oldtimer2192
2 ай бұрын
They’re adding to their savings!
@bevb.4804
2 ай бұрын
Great job grandma! I'm very involved in my grandkids life! These schools are horrible and private schools are just as bad, even the church ones. Praying God's protection over all of our babies ❤ 🙏🏾
Every parent needs to do this.
@mr.pizzamarlon
Жыл бұрын
What every parent needs to do is raise their own child unless their single. But two who think it's more important to work than raise your baby. That's no excuse. This wicked society will soon end.
@WiseOwl_1408
Жыл бұрын
@@mr.pizzamarlon you are mad people have kids in daycare? Seems crazy dude
@JamminClemmons
Жыл бұрын
@@mr.pizzamarlon - You........wake up! We're in a financial time where both parents *are required* to work. Mama Mia. Imma-gonna-slappa-a-you-wit-da-wet-spaghetti, Mama Mia!!!!!!!!!!!!
@JamminClemmons
Жыл бұрын
@@WiseOwl_1408 - He'a not know nutting yah! We laugh at him from afar.... some Americans, yah...theys no think intelligent yah.
@transrscum86
Жыл бұрын
Those were Latino employees threatening the kid.
How are neither of these women locked up right now??? Our justice system SUCKS!!!
@aquamarine2416
Жыл бұрын
for Real, when its a case about parents abusing they immediately take your kid away, how about these places they need jail time
@RailPreserver2K
Жыл бұрын
Damn straight
@machinesandthings9641
Жыл бұрын
Injustice system
@lolpop241
Жыл бұрын
Because "Vote Blue No Matter Who". Defunding the police means criminals go free. It's what we're voting for, get with the program!
@bfamily6209
Жыл бұрын
@@lolpop241 😂😂😂
Any daycares should be required to have cameras with audio.
Unbelievable how anyone who works with kids would be so evil, Justice for this poor kids
As a truck driver making a delivery to a day care center fifteen years ago, I saw this same type of reprimanding between the staff and the children. The way two of the children were spoken to and threatened has never left my memory. I'm sure this happens more than any of us wants to admit.
@trevorsreya8277
Жыл бұрын
Please tell me you reported them.
@luisknowles4368
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you should have gotten involved and at the very least reported it instead of waiting to share your memory on youtube....Smh
@tabbyreed8925
Жыл бұрын
@@luisknowles4368 Who do you report it to? You can't really go to the police and say Hey some day care workers are saying mean things.
@kaylabbones3281
Жыл бұрын
@@tabbyreed8925 yes, you can you report it to the company and file a police report DONT be dumb abuse is abuse.
@aliciadupuy9228
Жыл бұрын
Never trust strangers to love your children
The employees names need to be made public. This type of behavior absolutely should be public so nobody makes the mistake of ever trusting these evil monsters in the future.
@tommyclark2709
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Why did they not release the names of the two workers? I know the reporters in this story had that info.
@pineappleparty1624
Жыл бұрын
@@tommyclark2709 Probably because there is an ongoing investigation. I'm not a legal expert but I recall that being how it works legally.
@Angelina-ru8ww
Жыл бұрын
They should have full surveillance cameras in nurseries, schools and nursing homes.
@sagatuppercut2960
Жыл бұрын
It bewilders me how they chose that particular occupation out of all the possible occupations.
@richardmyers7847
Жыл бұрын
@@Angelina-ru8ww they do Sherlock
What in the world????! How can you be so mean to babies?
@billwilliamson9842
2 ай бұрын
it's in their dna
you never know what goes on behind closed doors 😰
My wife worked at a daycare center when she was in high school and because of the things she witnessed there and because of the things she heard about other day cares, we made the decision that our children would never be in anyone's care but ours and they never were. We now have 23 grandchildren and none of them are in daycare. Nobody really loves your children but you. Nobody!
@latonyalee7821
Жыл бұрын
I worked in childcare for 4 years and I can truly say that although no one can love your child like you, there are those of us that really care and want the best for all children, but childcare centers don't want people like us because they know we will expose them for the horrible things that go on inside some of these centers. That is the reason I no longer work in the profession and I too will care for my grandchildren, if I'm alive to do so.
@gardeninggodess7321
Жыл бұрын
Me too
@LilyGazou
Жыл бұрын
The same goes for your seniors. Even the most expensive nursing homes.
@latonyalee7821
Жыл бұрын
@@LilyGazou You are 100% correct.
@billwilson5341
Жыл бұрын
@@LilyGazou : Excellent comment!
I was a preschool teacher and hearing teachers talk to children absolutely shock and anger me so much. My children were precious and I wanted to be a great d example for them. Not a terrorizing monster. How dare there not be charges on these people
@jan_phd
Жыл бұрын
Just as an example, but not applicable for this case.... 4.1 million members of The National Education Association (NEA), voted to support 'Critical Race Theory', then have been telling us they have nothing to do with CRT. When they did that, I lost all faith in that teacher's union.
@spinynorman1562
Жыл бұрын
@@jan_phd That has NOTHING to do with this case!
@michaelhouk7603
Жыл бұрын
@@spinynorman1562 didn't read what he posted, did you? Let me guess you support CRT.
@BORN-to-Run
Жыл бұрын
I think they treated her that way because she was Mixed.
@commandervile394
Жыл бұрын
@@spinynorman1562 Uhhhh yeah, it does. It's guilt tripping and emotional/verbal abuse when constantly tell kids that they have to be "ashamed of themselves, their race and ancestors" and encourage division. What do you think is going to happen to children who are told that? They're going to grow up all messed up, like the people that support CRT and race-baiting/division. CRT entirely relies on guilt tripping white people and their children, period.
KinderCare should have cameras in their daycares and MONITOR THEM..
One of my children suddenly acting up after switching babysitters. Their behavior returned to normal after I stopped using that babysitter. It was obvious they were abusing my child verbally. Be diligent people! If you notice a sudden change for the worse in your young child’s behavior there’s a reason for it!
@BeingKyleBusch18
2 ай бұрын
Do you really think it was only verbal abuse? If someone is verbally abusing a toddler, you better believe they are also physically abusing the toddler.
I bet if 100 parents did this we'd have 100 shocking recordings.
@june2420111
Жыл бұрын
This is an underrated comment. Everyone is a victim these days. There are definitely parents who speak like this to their children.
@tmaxwell6033
Жыл бұрын
@@june2420111 and? Of course there are parents who speak to their kids like this. They're bad parents. I'm not sure what your point is.... that we should expect this from a daycare you're paying with the expectation that your children are being well cared for? Everyone is a victim? These are literally babies and toddlers. You're weird.
These are great parents to go to this extent to figure out what was up with their child instead of ignoring the signs
Where's the director??? How is nobody vetting these employees?
Good job parents. Sewing that device into her jacket was brilliant. More parents need to do something like this especially if you know something isn't right with your child.
@redbug3696
Жыл бұрын
I agree! 😎👍
@steelionx9255
Жыл бұрын
Well, if you think more parents should know about this kind of thing, you know what to do: share this video as much as you can!
@patriciabrant8037
Жыл бұрын
Parents need to do this in the public school system too.
@Ducky69247
Жыл бұрын
As long as it's legal in that state to record someone without their consent
@lewing658
Жыл бұрын
More parents need to raise their children themselves.
Every childcare centre should be required to have cameras recording at all times. It’s amazing how well staff will behave if they know they are recorded. Good for this couple who listened to their instincts and knew something was terribly wrong.
@russellayton6408
Жыл бұрын
It is amazing how TERRIBLE some people will act if they don't know they are being recorded. True colors come out and they are ugly.
@Ilovetorun
Жыл бұрын
I saw videos of nanny’s, care takers, teachers, LEOs all act horrible when cameras were well known to be around
@mcv4532
Жыл бұрын
I get that can be good, but I don’t think that would be the smartest thing for other parent’s who may want to protect the identity/ whereabouts of their child from say, a potential violent partner. Would if the camera system gets hacked into? That’s a safety concern.
@NG..
Жыл бұрын
@@mcv4532 if the violent partner knew which daycare to hack, you’d have to assume they already knew where the child was. It doesn’t seem like cameras could pose any risk to me.
@bobfoster687
Жыл бұрын
SCHOOLS, TOO!!!
If I suspected my child was being abused, I wouldn't send her back into the abusive situation just to "prove" it.
These Kinder Care places are terrible! I went looking for childcare for my child in Washington and was appalled at what I saw. Kids crying, teachers looking so angry. I wondered how you can have a whole class of kids crying at the same time. The nursery was dirty on the floor and the poor babies were crawling on it. I'm surprised it's no different in other states. Parents should be really careful where they take their kids.
As a childcare worker, I can't imagine EVER speaking to my children that way. I've had some children who misbehaved over and over again but never could I speak to or treat them that way. If you don't have a patience, understanding, or love for children - DON'T BE A CARETAKER!
@jere5555
Жыл бұрын
Or a parent
@floridagirl386
Жыл бұрын
I don't have patience for other people's kids... but I also have the sense to not work in a damn daycare!!!
@blooms0120
Жыл бұрын
@@jere5555 indeed ma'am
@blooms0120
Жыл бұрын
@@floridagirl386 very wise indeed
@elo0o207
Жыл бұрын
Millennials 26-39 trashiest most useless generation to ever exist. ALl we ever hear is about their low life sh t turd behavior
Early childhood care needs highly qualified teachers, not underpaid, under trained, under scrutinised babysitters
@kcar8974
Жыл бұрын
Every child needs a parent to raise them not a stranger
@adamjensen2304
Жыл бұрын
@@kcar8974 every parent needs a living wage then
@bri2252
Жыл бұрын
People also need to live within their means. We have a very materialistic society.
@281Travels
Жыл бұрын
@Adam Jensen ...Here's a better idea numbnuts!!!! Don't have kids if you are working at McDonalds!!!
@JoTracy
Жыл бұрын
@@kcar8974 Earl Childhood tons if research showing ducation has been proven to benefit children greatl, as does both parents working Facts
wow. your child is fortunate to have observant parents. I'll definitely be using this.
This hits hard. Both my kids went to a Kindercare and the teachers were the best. They’re in their 20’s now and still talk about all their former teachers fondly.
Huge respect for them for standing up for their own child AND other people's children
@chriscurtain1816
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Except sending the child back there wasn't an option. If society has evolved to the point mothers have to leave their one and a half year old babies with strangers, then maybe there should be 24 hour video and audio recording in every room in every child care centre. Same goes for old people's homes.
@tonygarrett9115
Жыл бұрын
@@chriscurtain1816 white people always get a pass when they do wrong. I can tell by listening to the tape that's what color they are. If this were blk or a Mexican person treating kids this way,I'd be reading all kinds of racist remarks in comments.
@Veronicaj1010
Жыл бұрын
We have parent should all be doing this. They’re all of our children. We need to protect and defend our children ❤
@2008aa6
Жыл бұрын
Explain to me why these people choose to take care of kids out of the millions of jobs available. That is what baffles me. Why why why? Choose any other job.
@alanmalcheski8882
Жыл бұрын
she's loving the attention and doesn't give a F about her kid. Nobody who cares about their kids leaves them with strangers before they're old enough to speak.
I used to work in daycare when I was in college and I ended up reporting a fellow employee for abusive behavior- teachers need to speak up for these babies too.
@milesinwyatteandcora
Жыл бұрын
I'm curious do they have cameras in daycare? Stupid question but if there is cameras then idk how these people think they can do these things to a kid and think they can get away with it. I'm guessing the stress is like a tunnel vision, didn't care if they got in trouble?
@littleme3597
Жыл бұрын
They aren't teachers!
@qq84
Жыл бұрын
@@milesinwyatteandcora All of them know about it. They don't need cameras for that.
@mirjanamilosavljevic4261
Жыл бұрын
And sadly protect each other, some of them due to the fear of the management….. Fish always stings from the head
@mirjanamilosavljevic4261
Жыл бұрын
Just out of the curiosity,for how long did you keep the job Good for you that that was your part time job ,I guess
i worked for kinder care when i was 18, no experience, no training, and i was placed in the toddler room with another lady. she was the worst. she physically and verbally abused them. they also dont mind the state rules for children to teacher ratio. the day i quit i was left with 18 toddlers to care for by myself. please, stop taking ur children to kinder care.
Back in the early 2000s I went to pick up my child early from daycare and witnessed a teacher pushing my toddler for not walking fast enough while returning toys to a different room. She didn't know I was standing around the corner watching her. She was shocked to see me and knew I saw what she did. I knew something was wrong bc my child looked forward to going there for the first week but then started to freak out when I would drop her off. Always pay attention to behavioral changes in your young children. Great job by these parents!
@pineappleparty1624
Жыл бұрын
And her body was never found?
@sagatuppercut2960
Жыл бұрын
Did you slap that teacher? (I hope so.)
@fierylatinasarvente681
Жыл бұрын
@@pineappleparty1624 thats the dumbest thing i have ever heard
@bigboy3jv
Жыл бұрын
I hope you took care of that situation, with force?💪
@Danzo1212
Жыл бұрын
@@pineappleparty1624 if it was my child that persons body would never be found, can full of acid for them.
It's actually amazing that the parents realized their child's behavior changed since going to that daycare. How much of that same abuse must have gone unnoticed for a long time, and other kids unknowingly learning violent behaviors from the daycare :( this is absolutely dangerous on so many levels
@Brett.D
Жыл бұрын
Just a matter of time before the drag queens arrive...
@Pugetwitch
Жыл бұрын
It's not necessarily just that they're also learning violent behaviors but they're also having their bonds of trust being broken in that can lifelong cause personality disorders.
@joycemiller7908
Жыл бұрын
People unfortunately will keep their children in those places for a long time, no matter how miserable it makes their children. 2 reasons; 1) the evil manipulators in charge are good liars. Good at making kids believe they are bad and deserve it. Good at playing the victim. 2) Convenience. That daycare is right on the way to work. It's a hassle finding a new facility. And don't think Christian daycare is any better. Just because that's the branding, does not mean the employees are child loving, nurturing angels. Just like secular ones, there are good and bad people working there.
@forthehonorforge4840
Жыл бұрын
@@joycemiller7908yep. "Convenience" is the name of the car that drives the road called "Good Intentions". It's a short drive too.
@longWriter
Жыл бұрын
Either that, or the employees were new and unbelievably stupid. Though...it _feels_ like an employee would need to have some level of confidence in being able to get away with it before they'd start swearing and abusing kids, but I'm not 100% sure of that.
I work with preschoolers. I can't believe the awful words and attitude coming from these employees. They should not be working with children. It's disgusting 😡
When I worked as a parapro there was a similar story about the parent of a non verbal autistic child who did something similar. I think people just get too comfortable. They don't see them as a student, they start to regard them as an object and forget to act professional. It was a warning and a well-needed one. I appreciate the accountability. I appreciate keeping these folks on their toes and honest and not getting too deep into a comfort zone because they do stuff like this.
I commend these young parents. Never stop advocating for your children.
@ngoddess9684
Жыл бұрын
They can start by raising their own children.
@harryl7946
Жыл бұрын
@@ngoddess9684 some can but sadly some cannot. We were blessed. Mom stayed home with our 2 for 30 years. But some parents are not able to do same. It is for them I pray for the children.
@LDM805
Жыл бұрын
They suspected abuse, and sent her back with a recording device instead of taking out of the abusive situation and you commend them? They literally put their daughter in danger, knowingly and you commend them?
@eonstar
Жыл бұрын
@@LDM805they didn't know for sure. Could have been nothing
@Religious_man
Жыл бұрын
@@LDM805 Apparently they took that chance.
Reminds me of how I was raised. Constant hatred and hostility. The child needs lots of love for a long time. Even then the child may be saddled with a terror reaction for decades!
I used to feel empty and missing out because I never had kids. But in these times, I’m actually better off and happier than those who do have kids.
@AH23323
2 ай бұрын
You are! It’s a nasty world 😢
Those employees are not fit for society. Society must protect itself from people who mistreat others in positions of trust.
@UOAPlays
Жыл бұрын
woah
@p_rry
Жыл бұрын
It’s abhorrent, who knows how long these people have been doing it for
@flyingcardinal
Жыл бұрын
Lol wut?
@dannes22
Жыл бұрын
I was just listening to one of your songs, what are the odds my dude.
@ZerofeverOfficial
Жыл бұрын
you're everywhere.....and i like it
Love these parents for noticing the change, following their instincts, gathering evidence, and taking action. Good work ❤
@IceLynne
Жыл бұрын
The question is, what permanent damage was done. I would take the child to a therapist to see 😟
@laughalotitsgoodforyourbod7627
Жыл бұрын
And protecting kids whose parents are too busy or too lazy. To do it for their own kids.
@barrymore87
Жыл бұрын
@@IceLynne you would take a 1 year old to a therapist? get a grip!
@IceLynne
Жыл бұрын
@@barrymore87 that triggered you? Maybe you need to see one too. Bless your heart.
@MonsieurDrobot
Жыл бұрын
@@barrymore87 you’re coming off as a closeted diddler. You might not be one, but you sure act like one.
This is terrible! Little, vulnerable, terrified, people unable to tell what has been going on!
First off, I’m a 68 year old grandpa now. There was a time we had to work two different shifts to take care of my son. Just because of this kinda criminals in daycares. Secondly, thank god my wife and I retired now helping my son taking care of my grandson when they’re at work. Thirdly, that daycare are lucky I wasn’t one of those parents with my kid in that daycare. Because I would’ve been definitely in jail if that happened to my grandson. I don’t even know those parents but,I’m seating here with tears in my eyes for those innocent helpless kids.
My dad was locked in a closet for 46 hours in a Catholic middle school. An old nun forgot she had put him in there and went home for the weekend. I asked my dad what he even did to deserve this. He said he couldn’t remember.
@featuremarkstudios
Жыл бұрын
Goodness! That's horrible!
@AgeOfGoldenSilence
Жыл бұрын
Disgraceful. Sorry for your dad
@boataxe4605
Жыл бұрын
At least the priest wasn’t in there with him.
@AlbertoGonzalez..
Жыл бұрын
@@boataxe4605 this guy
@guineapiglady2841
Жыл бұрын
Roman Catholic is the Devil's Church.
Raise your own kids regardless of the expense or sacrifice! Quit handing your kids over to strangers in exchange for useless luxuries. Homeschool forever!
@logicalblueberry
Жыл бұрын
Agree 100%.
@zammmerjammer
Жыл бұрын
Riiight. Because zero homeschooled kids have ever been horrifically abused. Oh, wait...
@soratbeats
Жыл бұрын
FOR REAL! Especially under 4 years old. Why are you giving your child to random strangers all day.
@eurekamreum5458
Жыл бұрын
Useless luxuries like... paying rent? Affording food? Some people have no choice, what about single parents?
@JustMe-vz3wd
Жыл бұрын
taking care of your own baby, what a novel idea. what next? mothermilk instead of formula powder??
That is absolutely sickening! If this woman isnt jailed then this child has been failed again! Please God protect these babies & make this right! 🙏
Glad these parents took initiative for the safety of their child!
You ALWAYS take that risk when you drop your kids off with strangers, then leave.
@jaifyre702
Жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate that at a certain age they force you to do just that
@John01ization
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tobereceivedinstone7812
Жыл бұрын
These days it's best to avoid it
@infozone9601
Жыл бұрын
@@jaifyre702 No they don't. Women just run away from their responsibilities. Millennial men and below will fix the problem.
@jeffgo5742
Жыл бұрын
It shouldn’t be that way
As a parent of a child in daycare, it makes me proud of the parents to trust their instincts and do their part to shut these workers down.
@karltrapson
Жыл бұрын
Parents who put their kids in daycare don't really care much about their kids to begin with. You're all more interested in making a much money as you can instead of making sure you're kids is taken care of properly.
@davidk739
Жыл бұрын
@@karltrapson you’re a clown making a statement like that. 🤡 We found a daycare that has an amazing caretaker and teaches so many things that we may not consider because she is a childcare professional, and provides exceptional teaching methods. The proof is in the pudding and worth every penny of our investment in our child, and guess what… he’s well educated and socially confident with a financially inclined future.
@JaydaMonae1
Жыл бұрын
@@karltrapson you act like parents have a choice to not put their child in daycare like my sister works and need childcare.
@valeriesolanas807
Жыл бұрын
@@karltrapson it's all the husband's and patriarchs fault The only way kids can be protected is if they are wanted and planned for. She should've known her husband is nothing but a financial liability and not have kids with him They're both poor. He does not trust her and cares more about the money and the only reason he has kids is because he didn't carry them. It was all going to be her problem. He's disconnected from reality and she's irresponsible for br33ding with him She should've only had kids if she could completely afford them on her own while staying home,which is nearly impossible for most people. Kids are always going to be womcs responsibility and she failed it
@toanotherplace
Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as an instinct to spy on someone else to see if they are abusing your own child. The damage is already done at that point. The instinct is to protect your child yourself.
Until our children can talk enough to tell what's going on they can never be totally safe anywhere with anybody. 🤷😪
as a preschool teacher and nanny, i can say that you all can find comfort that not everyone is like this. as a matter of fact, we teach our kids everyday to be respectful and are an example of it. this is absolutely ridiculous, and i can't believe she was able to wither her way into an establishment that is supposed to be safe for children! i would immediately report her if i heard that in my school and i definitely wouldn't want her to be in a class with any of my kids.
The scariest thing for parents is to leave their children with strangers. Especially if they act like this without you knowing.
@RunninUpThatHillh
Жыл бұрын
Dont leave children, elderly, the sick and defenceless in the care of strangers. My kids have never been babysit by non family. I worked opposite shift of my husband to avoid daycare. Kids need, *require* .. a loving home. Just because many parents can't provide it, doesn't negate that fact.
@coolaideevens8678
Жыл бұрын
@@RunninUpThatHillhGirl please . I’m 35 I traveled across the world taking care of strangers. Because everyone needs someone…. Do the best you can to raise your children so they don’t become the very thing your affaid of .
@coolaideevens8678
Жыл бұрын
You love and raise your kids well. Then they drop you off at the nursing home and strangers like me have to be care taker, be a chaplain, companion, counselor, amongst other things … the poor residents suffers because the kids they loved so much and raised so well won’t even stop by to visit. Now that’s scary
@Lurkai
Жыл бұрын
@@coolaideevens8678 it depends on the person and situation. I have a friend who left their 3 month old baby in the “care” of someone and the person forgot to turn the baby over on their back while they slept…
@cheryl5994
Жыл бұрын
C'MON NOW, WHAT PARENT WOULD AGREE THAT IT'S OK FOR THEM TO TREAT THEIR CHILDREN LIKE THAT, IT'S A DISCUSTING THOUGHT.
My daughter went to daycare at 2yo. It lasted 2 weeks and I almost went to jail over it. The cafeteria lady let me know they were not feeding my daughter and she cried all day and that they were cursing her and treating her badly. The daycare workers were shocked when I had dropped her off and then came right back. Tried to stop me from getting to my child who I could hear crying and screaming in pain. I had no proof that the police would investigate with but they gave me back my child and I filed a report with the state. NC never did a damn thing about it.
@sixteen.candles.4644
Жыл бұрын
Girl. I would've went to jail too.
@toddburgess6792
Жыл бұрын
That is why we have the 2nd Amendment. Police are not your ally, merely an agency to which one reports crimes that have been committed.
@ritadyer9295
Жыл бұрын
My kid got traumatized at a preschool in NC. He literally couldn’t walk! Nothing physical but it was psychological from the teachers yelling at kids. He was maybe 4 and had never been to daycare or preschool. He only went one week. When I took him out they didn’t even care. I didn’t realize what was going on until he started playing “school” and pounding his fists and yelling at a certain kid. (Pretend). I had even taken him to the pediatrician that Sunday. His legs hurt. He could only crawl. He also got an imaginary friend right after that. I will never know the entire truth of what happened because he was too young to express it clearly. He just began demanding I “unsign” him from preschool.
@dragonflymagictarot1180
Жыл бұрын
Child supportive services
@8180634
Жыл бұрын
@@toddburgess6792 So you're going to use your 2A and go shoot up a childcare facility? Please get some help.
I used to work for kindercare many years ago, once I had to report a team member because she literally slammed a 6 mo old into the crib out of frustration! Her excuse was it was the end of the day and she was exhausted from the extra hrs they made her work, she wasn’t fired and the parents were not told….I quit! And when I became a grandmother I personally cared for my grandchildren! Don’t do it folks stay home with your babies
What I don’t understand is why work in childcare if you can’t stand children?
This is why I could never leave my children in a daycare. I hate the thought of not knowing how my babies were being treated during such important years in their development.
@latoriarichardson6754
Жыл бұрын
I took one of my children to a Drop-off play place and when I went to pick him up, I saw 2 older children being mean to him and 2 of the workers were standing near them saying "Aww" and not intervening at all. I felt SO bad for my child who was only 3 years old. He was crying and very upset! I never took him back there. It's terrible that there are people like that working around children. I am so grateful that I walked in and saw what they're really about because they would have never told me.
@maureen1234mc
Жыл бұрын
@@latoriarichardson6754 ,,,. Ok, but did you Cuss them out or something?? I would be furious
@genm5998
Жыл бұрын
@@latoriarichardson6754 You did the right thing. If it were me I would have probably yelled at those two stupid workers. I couldn't keep my calm for sure. I hope your son is doing okay now.
@lowlowseesee
Жыл бұрын
my mom quit working when I was born. ive never even had a diaper rash let alone been touched by anyone. thus i dont go around abusing people now and im in my 40s
@joeh5538
Жыл бұрын
@@lowlowseesee LOL
We need to create an economy where Mom can afford to BE HOME to raise her children! Women working was SUPPOSED to be a CHOICE. Now it's the only way to survive. Raising our children is THE most IMPORTANT thing we EVER DO. Ever. Mom needs to be home keeping the home fires burning. ❤
@gabrielchovan-spence4215
Жыл бұрын
Jobs should be phased out of society with machines. I don’t need a human to make my coffee when a machine could do it just as well. It’s an insult to human capability.
This is very disturbing and these day care companies need much more regulation and scrutiny. They need to be sued and those employees must be charged and jailed!
Thank goodness their kid was only there for a short time. She did all of the other parents a favor.
I'm starting to think we should have ALL schools on a video stream! Teachers should be held accountable at all times!
@h82fail
Жыл бұрын
Bunch of daycares around me that parents can livestream.
@rg1whiteywins598
Жыл бұрын
Extremely good idea. You are so correct.
@katielove9932
Жыл бұрын
When I went to school years ago, there was a speaker box in each room whereas the office personnel or principle could listen in to what was going on in the classroom.
@Cj-qt2ls
Жыл бұрын
All the politicians also 24/7
@LailandiAdventures
Жыл бұрын
I'd love it too, as a teacher of teenagers whenever I report bad behaviour I get parents giving me grief "My little angel would never do that!", it would be amazing to have some evidence.
I recall way back in the early 90s when my child was almost one and I had to find daycare for her. She went one day and the next morning when I pulled up she got very upset and started crying. Nope.... Drove away immediately. My gut told me it wasn't just a cry for mom leaving. Parents, ALWAYS trust your gut and protect your children! Bravo to this Mom!!
@nathanielovaughn2145
Жыл бұрын
I hope you got to the bottom of it as far as that so-called daycare went.
@cyndiyates9325
Жыл бұрын
@@nathanielovaughn2145 unfortunately I did not. I was a very young mother of 20 and all I wanted to do was get away from there. Now,all these years later I wish I had. No telling how many kids may have been hurt 😢😢😢 we don't always have much forethought in some situations, especially when we're young.
@YSLRD
Жыл бұрын
"Just a cry for Mom". This is where we are.
@cyndiyates9325
Жыл бұрын
@@YSLRD please explain. You realize children do sometimes cry because they don't like being away from a parent, especially when they're younger . It doesn't necessarily mean anything bad but good maternal instincts can usually distinguish between a harmless cry and one that has deeper meaning. Children do and will cry, that's normal. I'm confused by your statement. Perhaps I'm taking it out of context? Also understand that she Didn't cry the first day she went. And she also didn't cry after I found a trusted and caring sitter.
@tarun9542
Жыл бұрын
Is daycare in the USA a low income family thing? Where one of the parents can't stay at home because they need 2 incomes?
With today's technology it should be mandatory for camera's be installed that parents can use a code to access live footage and audio of kid's anytime they want. And CPS can monitor. Just to get a daycare license
Oh my gosh!😢 That’s awful!! I’m so sorry this happened to your daughter. I’m glad they got caught.
This is why I'm a stay at home mom. Can't trust ANYONE with your kid. Absolutely terrible, glad those parents were vigilant, and listened to their child.
@crystal6767
Жыл бұрын
I have 5 kids and we are a 1 income family. It’s tough and we’ve had to give up many “things” but I wouldn’t do anything different to be able to be at home with my kids even if it means I don’t get to do the things I want to do all the time. My cousin told me they barely scrape by on two incomes sending their two boys to daycare because most of her check goes to their daycare. My husband would work two jobs if he needed to over subjecting his kids to this. Oh and yes it does work and is better for kids to have mom at home. My oldest is graduating having almost achieved his honor chords. I hope it doesn’t sound bad I’m trying to encourage people to try it make some changes and you won’t regret it! Parenting is hard! But it’s worth the work and effort if you put your all into it!!
@friedtoaster4059
Жыл бұрын
Most parents have to work which is why they exist
@sliceoflife5812
Жыл бұрын
@@friedtoaster4059 Thats a BS cope out. You compromise the mental health of your kid. Find another alternative.
@Phoenix-J81
Жыл бұрын
@@sliceoflife5812exactly. If you truly care about your kids, you will always find a way.
@jennifer3551
Жыл бұрын
Me too!!! The extra $ is not worth it
I don’t understand how anyone could act this way around children for a living and have no conscience about it. Despicable.
@YouSurfin
Жыл бұрын
that's the same as saying " i don't understand how anyone can kill people and have no conscience about it. or rape, or rob. like.. you really said that? lol
@ThaBigSkyline
Жыл бұрын
@@YouSurfin my point still stands
@p0llenp0ny
Жыл бұрын
Sheltered much?
@charles9571
Жыл бұрын
@@maboroshi2550 you are indeed living up to your profile name.
@ThaBigSkyline
Жыл бұрын
@@maboroshi2550 time to check yourself back into the ward, buddy
If you notice any negative changes in your child's personality after being in the care of anyone at all, that's a red flag. Good on these parents in knowing their child well enough to know something wasnt right and taking matters into their own hands 🙌💔
@psychomantis2881
Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to my 8 year old. He would come home literally in tears. He's also a story teller so we didn't believe him at first. We had a meeting with his teacher and I noticed her demeanor wasn't right. My wife asked parents of other kids and some said that their kids were having similar experiences that my son would say. Then one day his teacher wasn't there. A memo went to parents saying she was "out until march" and when March came around another memo came out saying that she "will be retiring and won't return this year"
@sherryk30
Жыл бұрын
My son was in a kindercare for 2 mornings a week when he was 2. We didn't have any children around so thought this would be good for him. The poor kid cried every time I took him there and then started stuttering. That was the day I took him out. This happened in about a months time. I wanted to kill that woman. This was in 1984!
In kindergarten, all of the adults hated me. Apparently, I was a very naughty kid and they even told my parents that I had no future and that I should be sent to a school for children in needs. I was just having trouble controlling my emotions + some repressed trauma due to bad babysitters we discovered only a few years later. But they didn’t care about that, they never cared about the kids mental health. I stopped counting how many times they put me in the cold of winter, outside, without any coat on me and only a t-shirt while everyone was inside. How many times they screamed at me, punished me by shaming me or putting me in the dark or one time when they forgot me behind a trip. And they still told my parents that I was the problem and that I would never find my place in society. I am now a second year university student, planning to become an investigative journalist (and writing books on free time), with lot of good friends, my own apartment, my own cat, already made money by working and I got my driving license recently. Another joke, after kindergarten where people thought that I was dumb and insufferable, I went to elementary school. And the teachers in elementary school all said my parents that they loved me, that I was great kid, great student and with a lot of imagination and personality.
@gingerobyn
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you went through that
Oh my lord! That is awful! My heart just breaks for this baby and her parents.
This is why I’m a stay at home dad during the day and a hard working man at night with barely any sleep since the day my son was born. I refuse to let anyone else that’s not family to watch after him. There’s too many crazy people out here who are willing to hurt our babies and mistreat them as if it won’t affect them mentally. This boils my blood I just need 5 seconds with the lady on the voice recorder. I promise you I’ll make her feel what she says to these babies!
@gijane880
Жыл бұрын
Me too I was a stay at home mom for all my kids we used coupons and budgets and made it work 😊
@kimpayton727
Жыл бұрын
@@user-ny7vz9fh5y I think he means he works nights while his wife works days
@8619090
Жыл бұрын
😊
@loutenant2817
Жыл бұрын
@@user-ny7vz9fh5y He didn't say he was a single dad
@karltrapson
Жыл бұрын
I'm a stay at home dad as well. Parents who put their kids in childcare and public schools don't actually care about their kids.
2 very wise parents have saved their daughter. Bravo!
@stefvans6492
Жыл бұрын
not only their daughter all the kids in there
@yassir2824
Жыл бұрын
@@fr7nkyph7llyj7ne5 unfortunately the days of stay at home moms who take care of their children are all but over. They'd rather make extra money and then use that money for childcare, rather than do it themselves
@biohazard_
Жыл бұрын
@@fr7nkyph7llyj7ne5 They did what they could, you absolute troglodyte.
@dawnambroseflanagan3891
Жыл бұрын
@@fr7nkyph7llyj7ne5 unfortunately with THIS economy some households cannot afford ONLY one income!!! WHY would you be so judgemental about people who are working and trying to get somewhere in life?!?!? If they were NOT working you'd have something to say about THAT!!! YOUR just one of those negative people who must be miserable in life and want to spread their misery to other's!!!! Get some therapy and get off social media 😉😉
@atlanticrf
Жыл бұрын
Too late.
Major kudos to the mother for trusting her gut and taking action! It's despicable that anyone could treat someone like this, no less a child. They're the most vulnerable in our society, and for someone in the childcare field to abuse them like this? Utterly shameful.
thats why you watch your own kids. why would other people care about your kids. If you cant afford kids dont have them.
Not everyone who cares for kids loves kids. I didn’t leave my son with daycare workers until he was 2 and could speak clear and complete sentences. Each day I made sure to ask how his day was in front of the teachers. We’d talk and he’d tell me everything. They needed to know that if they ever mistreated my child - I’d quickly find out and handle it. I can’t promise I’d be saints like these parents. Kudos to them for taking the high road.
@julianaFinn
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, my moon did the same thing and waited until I was 3. I remember my days at day care as being fun and joy filled but now I understand why my mother used to ask me daily to describe my day in detail (in a casual, fun way) and now I understand it wasn't just out of curiosity and had a deeper meaning behind it.
@karltrapson
Жыл бұрын
So in other words you were more interested in having a career than raising your kids at home like a real parent. Just wait until they're teens. You'll see where you fkd up.
@hotindecember1951
Жыл бұрын
Also ask questions when no one is around. Sometimes the child might be scared to talk in front of their abuser so they’ll act like nothing happened.
@sarahmelody9366
Жыл бұрын
YES MOMMY for the WIN!!! I work in daycare setting and I ALWAYS tell my babies if something makes you sad/hurt/scared/mad tell, tell me tell mommy tell EVERYONE who's listening, even if miss sarah is the reason you (god forbid cuz I would cry like a baby if I thought I EVER made ANY of them feel like that!!) but even if miss sarah is the one you tell on me to mommy/daddy. I want them to know their feelings are valid and VERY important. They need to know it's ok to say, "Hey, I dont like this!"
@hoboonwheels9289
Жыл бұрын
No one knows another's situation for the choices they've made, they are probably doing their best.
As a daycare worker, this hurts. I could never be tired, annoyed, anything enough to even dare think and say things like that. They’re just babies. Why are you there if you can’t handle it?
@rickhammond2473
3 ай бұрын
A paycheck
@loisroberts2216
2 ай бұрын
Money and they are worthless .
@topchief777
2 ай бұрын
When people din’t know themselves, they take jobs that are not for them, just for the money. SAD but TRUE.
@shondraclemons8358
2 ай бұрын
@@rickhammond2473 you better know it
@makaha5750
2 ай бұрын
It's very sad; those employees acted like thugs.
In this country, we treat and pay child care workers as low class and unimportant. SURPRISE!
As a Kindergarten Teacher....I ask, How is it that none of them have been charged? The actions of those "workers" toward children is disgusting!!!!!!
I have a young daughter myself. I don’t think I’d be able to hold myself back from hurting those teachers. This actually pisses me tf off.
@taquitobandito6054
Жыл бұрын
I know I would’ve gone in myself and handled them. Those monkeys need to be shot and put in their place which is 6 feet under. Just pure evil from these kinds of people. No wonder these blacks get so much hate.
@sus-tw2ls
Жыл бұрын
I've been there. Went slap off in a daycare about my son. I was crying I was so mad. He wasn't abused but the one worker was used to ghetto daycare & this one was different. She was fired. Talking to kids any kind of way, not watching them properly & they were always crying in her care when I would pick my son up. I couldn't hold it any longer.
@lilyofthevalley2248
Жыл бұрын
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@ALMASTERFUNK
Жыл бұрын
@@highcountrydelatite thanks genius.
@bigcod14
Жыл бұрын
And you shouldn't hold yourself back it's the most important Amazing and precious thing you will ever be a part of. Protect your family at all costs.
I worked with kids, all out classrooms had cameras and and audio. Parents deserve to know what’s going on with their kids.
@rievaulxlucienne1176
Жыл бұрын
Audio recording is a strange area of law. In any two party state, it wouldn't be legal to do that. Even if you had signed waivers from every parent it would still be illegal the moment a visitor or guest stopped by and was not informed of the audio recording. Not only that, but their consent needs to be obtained. Simply telling them is not sufficient.
@Rizky06
Жыл бұрын
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 The reality is the workers got fired and banned from ever working for their corporation. Mission Successful.
@DN-kz7xl
Жыл бұрын
Actually a good idea to have recorders in daycare and have personnell and parents consent to that. I doubt whether any parent would object to that.
@sheilajac
Жыл бұрын
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 then the law needs to change, where the safety of children is concerned at least.
@armcollector5856
Жыл бұрын
@@DN-kz7xl not only that... but it's a great idea as well to have bc these poor babies can't verbally ( well not all I don't know the ages ) tell their parents what's going on, and this would stop a lot of these horrible abusive ppl from doing this & get fired immediately!