Parenting: Raise Yourself Before You Raise Your Kids - Sadhguru

Sadhguru looks at how a child needs a friend, not a boss. If we enforce our ideas upon a child, he will lose his sense of independence, and this could result in rebelliousness later on. Once you become a parent, the most important thing is that you have to be 100% straight. You just have to protect them from the wrong influences, the rest let them free, he says. At the same time, they should remain free from your influence, he points out.
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  • @SunGodNika-bi2jr
    @SunGodNika-bi2jr6 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had a father like sadhguru

  • @Hollowdarling
    @Hollowdarling4 жыл бұрын

    Speaking as a Latino raised in Puerto Rico, this was so beautiful to hear and see. I wish more elders had the intellect and empathy this person has.

  • @8270361507
    @82703615076 жыл бұрын

    Major respect to this man. A very good and true genuine human being. All people before planning to have children should watch this because there are plenty of people who have children as some kind of asset to fulfill something rather than allowing them to grow and flourish themselves.

  • @kavitaverma9929
    @kavitaverma99294 жыл бұрын

    I wish my parents can listen to you Guruji 😣

  • @Ggdivhjkjl
    @Ggdivhjkjl8 жыл бұрын

    Marvelous to see a man talking sense about parenting in today's world.

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 Жыл бұрын

    My narcissistic mother and sister became toxic because they never take the time to raise themselves. That is why I watched this video. To avoid becoming them.

  • @marianap1121
    @marianap11213 жыл бұрын

    children are not your property! love that - you are so right

  • @duuuuuuuuuuuup
    @duuuuuuuuuuuup6 жыл бұрын

    I'm experiencing such deep love towards this being. He is lovely and incredibly precious

  • @melanie6697
    @melanie66977 жыл бұрын

    He is so correct! I try to practice this with my kids and so far it is working well. It builds confidence and a sense of self.

  • @adriansherlockdamondark.1094
    @adriansherlockdamondark.10944 жыл бұрын

    Best words I've ever heard on the topic of parenting.

  • @deepanagaraj2072
    @deepanagaraj20727 жыл бұрын

    some parents really need this!! excellent one..!!thank you sadhguru :-)

  • @faza553
    @faza5538 жыл бұрын

    Most will misunderstand the deep truth of this sage advice.

  • @malcontent6303
    @malcontent63037 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes Parents need to make decisions which their child doesn't agree with but they should always include their children in decisions which affect them. Many parents think they listen to their kids when in fact what they are really doing is telling their kids what to think. They conflate respect and obedience when the two are entirely separate concepts

  • @thedarknessofnana

    @thedarknessofnana

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mal Content agreed. I feel what you described in the beginning of your reply goes along with that 'guiding them from negative influences' bit that he said.

  • @bhoopalsinghRoheria
    @bhoopalsinghRoheria7 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful. I never heard anything like from any other eminent people.

  • @savoryicon
    @savoryicon7 жыл бұрын

    In western countries they let their children go to work and earn their money, makes the child independent. Even better, I feel, introduce them to success philosophy which they can understand at their pace. Most children have learned behaviour, which is what they learn looking at their parents, we cannot teach what we do not possess. Let them learn from able masters.

  • @maxifernandes2654
    @maxifernandes26543 жыл бұрын

    Hope my husband could know about being a parent is such a blessing

  • @tierax8992
    @tierax8992 Жыл бұрын

    It was like talking to my father I never had

  • @terigopula
    @terigopula6 жыл бұрын

    Haha my life would have been absolutely miraculous, if I had 1/100th of Sadhguru's wisdom. Goosebumps every single time whenever I hear u Sadhguru. #respect #youAreTheBest :)

  • @warrior7478
    @warrior74786 жыл бұрын

    He is a true guru with natural n real solutions without any conflicts. Bcoz today's we all r leading a fake n artificial life n going into a dark cell n he is a light. Plz listen sadguru n remove all darkness from yor life.try to be natural n honest with yourself n live n love natural life n follow law of nature.

  • @yasaswisriram1285
    @yasaswisriram12858 жыл бұрын

    A wonderful explanation. Every parent should watch this

  • @naniroda495
    @naniroda4956 жыл бұрын

    Best speech ever on parenting! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @shreeaum
    @shreeaum7 жыл бұрын

    Sadguru thrashed stupid minds of parents. Jai sadguru maharaj. Your blessings brings well being of society.

  • @harsha9792
    @harsha97927 жыл бұрын

    Humour in serious talk... Simply liked it..!!

  • @artikaintura5846
    @artikaintura58467 жыл бұрын

    guruji, i want hindi version of all your vedios for my mother . is that possible?

  • @shivabr3112
    @shivabr31128 жыл бұрын

    Most comforting message for parents ......

  • @nishthamishra7573
    @nishthamishra75738 жыл бұрын

    I love him he is superb

  • @drjaya8838
    @drjaya88387 жыл бұрын

    Grateful to you guruji... This is true spirituality. different from mere devotion. Thank you.

  • @miha3847
    @miha38473 жыл бұрын

    I think I found my best life advice in the moment , thank you so much Sr !!!!!

  • @PriyaSharma-jq5zn
    @PriyaSharma-jq5zn5 жыл бұрын

    Very supportive for children 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Thank you Sadhguru

  • @ishaveer
    @ishaveer6 жыл бұрын

    Do Inner Engineer program conducted by Sadhguru in your city! Its can take you a long way :)

  • @bhaveluthra
    @bhaveluthra7 жыл бұрын

    so beautiful.... This is a true path.... Hail to you. Respect!!!

  • @tanmayeevishwanath1266
    @tanmayeevishwanath1266 Жыл бұрын

    It's so into reality , and I am surprised to see that sadhguru is little older than my parents but they really understand the present generation .👏💥

  • @RiteshAgarwalGwalior
    @RiteshAgarwalGwalior8 жыл бұрын

    I am strongly influenced by your words.. I would like to have you as my Guru...

  • @stm32user
    @stm32user7 жыл бұрын

    nice my sadhguru grandpa. I love you so much...

  • @snr5950
    @snr59507 жыл бұрын

    Thanq Sadguru for the sagely n precious advice to all parents.

  • @TheOvaisshamsi
    @TheOvaisshamsi7 жыл бұрын

    Excellent A very Good Massage for Parent

  • @harinesriramoju5340
    @harinesriramoju53407 жыл бұрын

    thanq sadguru.i think i feel like iam understanding something.

  • @satminderkaur5344
    @satminderkaur53448 жыл бұрын

    beautiful ...

  • @SujataMukherjee01
    @SujataMukherjee018 жыл бұрын

    guruji many people just become parent just to become one without knowing what it really takes to become a true parent,some become helicopter like,they must listen to this session

  • @HamzaKhan-lm8yz
    @HamzaKhan-lm8yz4 жыл бұрын

    Whatever Sadhguru has said in this video is happening to me by my parents.

  • @frankiebrooks641
    @frankiebrooks6418 жыл бұрын

    Awesome thanks

  • @anuradha-zd8kn
    @anuradha-zd8kn6 жыл бұрын

    very nice explanation.

  • @prachikhirwadkar6870
    @prachikhirwadkar68707 жыл бұрын

    awesome....intended to learn a new things about life..

  • @lilil2081
    @lilil20813 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this 🙏 Namo Amituofo 🙏

  • @mariasimic2271
    @mariasimic22717 жыл бұрын

    Thank You ! ❤️

  • @jean-francois5505
    @jean-francois55058 жыл бұрын

    Thank's Good reflexion

  • @ItzKyra_seyz
    @ItzKyra_seyz7 жыл бұрын

    makes sense !!!

  • @KillerFaceification
    @KillerFaceification7 жыл бұрын

    I definitely agree

  • @nielaniela3900
    @nielaniela39008 жыл бұрын

    sadhguru jou are amazing

  • @renusingh4629
    @renusingh46295 жыл бұрын

    You always have cool ways to make us understand anything

  • @renuchhawal9875
    @renuchhawal98758 жыл бұрын

    Bless me God with such a wisdom all z time

  • @ramyasharma2008
    @ramyasharma20083 ай бұрын

    Every parent should listen this, also elder siblings

  • @kathleenvang2339
    @kathleenvang23397 жыл бұрын

    absolutely right.

  • @AnanttNagarkar
    @AnanttNagarkar5 жыл бұрын

    Sadhguru personifies Clarity and wisdom!

  • @rambhakthanumanram4330
    @rambhakthanumanram43306 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @michaelfraser3991
    @michaelfraser39918 жыл бұрын

    Dwarpa Yuga 315 ascending; I wrote a long paragraph at how wrong I thought you were. Who am I to judge you? Glad to see you know all the answers to parenting. The bits of good advice you shared I will try to assimilate and the rest will leave to the streets and prison systems.

  • @akankshamaurya6456
    @akankshamaurya64565 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much for sharing this wonderful knowledge.

  • @ashaservanda8861
    @ashaservanda88618 жыл бұрын

    that's right!!!

  • @jandepajanostan7086
    @jandepajanostan70865 жыл бұрын

    Wow absolutely right❤. His wisdom is awesome...

  • @palashbiswas8936
    @palashbiswas89366 жыл бұрын

    Namashkaram sadhguru🙏🙏🙏

  • @blessedarethebroken3089
    @blessedarethebroken30895 жыл бұрын

    💙

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Жыл бұрын

    Yes a child needs it!!!

  • @gigraphickinstallers
    @gigraphickinstallers9 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @mitchellknight1852
    @mitchellknight1852 Жыл бұрын

    Thank You Sadhguru 🙏🌄🎉

  • @favouriteworld3702
    @favouriteworld37027 жыл бұрын

    perfect and very great speech

  • @suleymanartun8932
    @suleymanartun89325 жыл бұрын

    But there is no guarentee.😂 Very good speech, thanks.

  • @menenaanee818
    @menenaanee818 Жыл бұрын

    Timeless

  • @MeenakshiAnantram
    @MeenakshiAnantram8 жыл бұрын

    I admire the thoughts...fantastic stuff

  • @kaivalyasiddhi195
    @kaivalyasiddhi1958 жыл бұрын

    great words....

  • @arielsuralta3998
    @arielsuralta39982 жыл бұрын

    Damm its right

  • @farhad56560
    @farhad565608 жыл бұрын

    totally agree 100%

  • @vahn883
    @vahn8836 жыл бұрын

    This guy looks so cool and hes so cool🤓🖒

  • @johnraju1
    @johnraju18 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful thought

  • @elennabaron1465
    @elennabaron14654 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chandini8833
    @chandini88336 жыл бұрын

    Perfectly said

  • @karna6651
    @karna66518 жыл бұрын

    Superr

  • @flamechick6
    @flamechick68 жыл бұрын

    excellent

  • @ojasvijain9477
    @ojasvijain9477 Жыл бұрын

    10:44 - 11:22

  • @Sheebakumar
    @Sheebakumar4 жыл бұрын

    very well said #sheebakumar

  • @huaren6229
    @huaren62298 жыл бұрын

    😢

  • @jitanderkumarkhurana672
    @jitanderkumarkhurana6726 жыл бұрын

    Teachings worth their weight in gold

  • @joeslob1199
    @joeslob11996 жыл бұрын

    and so the story would continue...plus or minus .

  • @viyyapusaratchandra
    @viyyapusaratchandra10 ай бұрын

    Children aren't your slaves, love them don't put your stupidity ideas on them because they forget to love people 💔

  • @ee_30_harshitaarya33
    @ee_30_harshitaarya33 Жыл бұрын

    RESPECT THE SACRIFICES OF OUR PARENTS BUT TOXIC PARENTING IS NOT GOOD. PARENTS ALWAYS COMPLAIN THAT CHILDREN SHOULD BE AS OBEDIENT AS LORD RAMA BUT PARENTS SHOULD NOT FORGET THAT HE ALSO GOT FATHER LIKE KING DASHRATH WHO WAS NON ABUSIVE AND WHO USED TO RESPECT HIS WIVES INSTEAD OF BEATING AND ABUSING THEM AND HE WAS A GREAT HUMAN BEING TOO 🙏🙏

  • @MISSMADISONMEDIA
    @MISSMADISONMEDIA Жыл бұрын

    Allow me to offer a teacher’s perspective: …..PLEASE

  • @kalyanc9279
    @kalyanc9279 Жыл бұрын

    #Sadhguru🙏 #UNCCDCOP15 #ConsciousPlanet Soil is a complex symbiotic system of living organisms, minerals, liquids, organic matter and gases that support all life on this planet. Without organic content, it is getting reduced to sand. Let's save our soil. #SaveSoil

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne8 жыл бұрын

    ...

  • @shilpamarudha5732
    @shilpamarudha57324 жыл бұрын

    Typical Truth, but ‘easier said than done’ in the current generation of so unsafe, unstable and judgemental people around! Hope things would change with more practicality and sensible enough if the future generation kids are lucky /blessed enough.

  • @pandurangasmaladakar8105
    @pandurangasmaladakar81053 жыл бұрын

    Kannada dub maadi plz

  • @mokesuvik5980
    @mokesuvik5980 Жыл бұрын

    But sadly most parents take us as their property..I am being beaten up throughout my childhood for marks & mentally abused too & all by parents..They r frustrated & if I m going for playing, they slapped me-this was the regular scene..Indian parents suck..sorry but not sorry…

  • @rajnishah2214
    @rajnishah22147 жыл бұрын

    Thought is good . But not practical

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Жыл бұрын

    He is wrong. Easy for him to say what he says cuz his daughter is well behaved. Not West Indians. If you dont teach they will make your life a hell. Most people who talk abt parenting have well behaved children

  • @mamtasingh4723

    @mamtasingh4723

    11 ай бұрын

    He is not wrong. Children become adults and those adults be the way they were treated in their childhood. If his daughter is well behaved then it must be because he was a good father, it must be because he never was toxic with his daughter. Listen, parents need to accept this.