Pageant Interview Tips: What Not to SAY (Episode 126)

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Your pageant interview is going to fly by. Not only is it fast, but interview is like living in a time-warp where every minute feels like 5 seconds. So, you have to be sure you maximize every moment and communicate like a pro. Today, we’re going to cover the things that many women accidentally or nervously say that stand to waste your time and annoy your judges.
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  • @Salemreadsalot
    @Salemreadsalot5 жыл бұрын

    I’m going to be in my first pageant next week and I’m very nervous so I’ve been watching a lot of your videos. UPDATE: I won 1st runner up, the talent award, and people's choice award. Your are the reason i did so good, so thank you.

  • @OutdatedStories

    @OutdatedStories

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haley McKinney omg God blessed you so much you pretty❤️❤️

  • @Saummya

    @Saummya

    5 жыл бұрын

    I would avoid telling my possessions and status at the pageant

  • @constanceagyemfra3278

    @constanceagyemfra3278

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm starting mine this Saturday and I have another one next week.

  • @cherieg2143

    @cherieg2143

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@constanceagyemfra3278 best wishes dear

  • @cherieg2143

    @cherieg2143

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woww. Congratulations! Mine is in about 6 months

  • @starandkylasworld3751
    @starandkylasworld37515 жыл бұрын

    never say um! i didnt say um and i ended up winning!

  • @wendyisafarmer
    @wendyisafarmer5 жыл бұрын

    I used to compete, and I tell everyone about this: don't talk about your boyfriend/significant other unless it is a pageant for married women! Pageants are all about YOU and YOUR accomplishments. It's great that you have him (or her) as a support system, but it distracts the conversation from what you should be talking about! Not to mention in some age divisions, more conservative judges might not find it appropriate for you to have one at all

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience! This is going to help others think through how they want to represent too. Bravo!

  • @coollikeaninja
    @coollikeaninja5 жыл бұрын

    I do my best to avoid the phrase "I think that..." for pageant and job interviews. I try my best not to say "I think" but instead just state my belief to ensure my confidence on my standpoint truly comes through

  • @faithalyssa27
    @faithalyssa276 жыл бұрын

    Alycia, I love your last point! I always tell people that if you have to compromise yourself and your values to win a pageant, you don't want to win that pageant. Such a great video!

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    6 жыл бұрын

    Amen, sister! I totally agree.

  • @lovicebrinkman1
    @lovicebrinkman16 жыл бұрын

    Using the word um.

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    6 жыл бұрын

    haha! I totally hear ya on the "um" Lovice! It's split - some judges can't stand it, while others don't mind it. I think most don't mind as long as it isn't obsessive/repetitive

  • @taylora9193
    @taylora91935 жыл бұрын

    Don’t use “like” in between words. Also don’t answer a question with “i think” because it shows you’re not confident in what you’re about to say

  • @smolshay
    @smolshay5 жыл бұрын

    Make sure to shake the judges hands when you enter the room, and when the interview is over shake their hands again and thank them. You become more professional, by shaking their hands upon entry you are politely greeting them as it is a formal setting. By shaking their hands and thanking them upon exiting, you are showing that you are polite and thankful for the opportunity to be interviewed by them. It also shows you are a professional individual! If you just walk out without shaking their hands, even if you say thank you, it's considered rude In most formal settings. Do that at a job interview and you probably won't get the job, the same applies for pageant interview. If you don't shake hands and aren't professional, your score will drop. And in smaller pageants, especially ones where many have never done this before, you stand out!

  • @kaitlynmcleod7271

    @kaitlynmcleod7271

    4 жыл бұрын

    Check first some pageants don’t allow this

  • @laurenbrasher139
    @laurenbrasher1395 жыл бұрын

    I try avoiding the words Um, but, like, so

  • @captaincrunch784
    @captaincrunch7843 жыл бұрын

    I use the voice recorder feature on my cell phone for all of my social media posts and texting and emails and I see how many filler words I throw in! It's pretty horrifying to edit some of my writing but it helps to curve that habit.

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    Such a great idea! Thanks so much for sharing. 💛

  • @keke6711
    @keke67115 жыл бұрын

    I have my 1st pageant interview today afterschool and I know nothing about pageants so I have been watching your videos they are a great help Thanks so much!

  • @anekmajak2601
    @anekmajak2601 Жыл бұрын

    You are a great personality ❤ 💙 💖 I am loving your channel ❤ ♥

  • @paulaabdul5433
    @paulaabdul54335 жыл бұрын

    I truly feel that a pageant contestant should avoid talking in an accent if it is not the way they truly speak. Acting like they are different than they really are. Just to sound more interesting. When one day they will have to talk in their real voice. I avoid foreign accents or getting dramatic in a interview. Because I want the judges to see How I really truly speak. This is very important to me.

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, I totally agree! You gotta be yourself, right?!

  • @alfiamrin6464
    @alfiamrin64646 жыл бұрын

    I haven't been in any pageant interview but I would avoid talking about things that I am not good at... I would rather talk about things that I am good at and my strengths

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    6 жыл бұрын

    YES! So true - Great insights. Thanks for sharing, Alfi!

  • @Squirrelbear5950
    @Squirrelbear59504 жыл бұрын

    Most of the time I don’t repeat the question after the judge says it but sometimes when it’s a multiple part question I have to in order for my brain to decode the question. I have ADHD (it’s also my social impact statement as well) and a slow processing speed, I’d rather take my time to answer the question right then only answer part of it in.

  • @Fatebycosplay
    @Fatebycosplay4 жыл бұрын

    A few things you shouldnt say or avoid . The reason being it is inadequate and it makes your literacy level look bad . 1) Ummm 2) Like 3) You know .. 4) False Contractions (Gonna, Wanna, etc) If you need time to think dont say umm. Just pause and gather your thoughts . Mid speaking again pause. Or say I'm sorry , to excuse the moment of process. Please eliminate the word like!!! You want to be a doer and a doer would do not compare using like. I hope this helps

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing, Lauren! :)

  • @gwendolyngalvez
    @gwendolyngalvez5 ай бұрын

    Hi I'm vying for the Miss World Belize Crown this year and my interview is on March 17. I'm really inspired by your passion to help contestants all over the world. Can't thank you enough for all your advice.

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    4 ай бұрын

    Good luck!! We'll be rooting for you this week! Have so much fun!

  • @cindycandy1420
    @cindycandy142010 ай бұрын

    It’s helpful 😊

  • @agacob2716
    @agacob27165 жыл бұрын

    Something i wouldn't say during an interview is that, how will i make the judgest impress or dissapointed on me. I mean I will just tell them whats in my heart and mind the I know its true and something I believe on, maybe in that way i could state my opinion to judges in the right way. That would be all ma'am and thank you. 😊. Hahah aspiring beuty contestant is here. Lol. More videos please for me to learn more thank you. Ans God bless 😊😍😍😘

  • @donnaviesobrian4291
    @donnaviesobrian42915 жыл бұрын

    Instead of saying 'because' say 'why?'😅..just came up on my mind😅

  • @ArchanaJoshisIdeas
    @ArchanaJoshisIdeas6 жыл бұрын

    I love your accent

  • @anthonyagujero522
    @anthonyagujero5223 жыл бұрын

    Everything discussed in this video is for everyone (even those outside pageantry) to learn and develop.

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    So happy that you enjoyed it! :)

  • @patriciasanker8946
    @patriciasanker89466 жыл бұрын

    Thank, thank, thank for your wisdom concerning pageant interviews. I just finish one pageant, but did not win that one the Ms. Senior DC Pageant. Now I am in another pageant which is the American Classic. I am doing these pageants back to back, but your site has been a great help. God bless you amen. Check out KZread for both pageants and check out the "Washington Post" /June 30, 2018 it will give you details. I will let know about other at a later date.

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy to know this has been helpful :) How did the American Classic pageant go?

  • @dorindasteven5099
    @dorindasteven50994 жыл бұрын

    Contesting in a pageant on Saturday and I still have stage fright and issues with a crowd and camera on me. Wish me luck

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope it went wonderful, Dorinda. 👑

  • @gal-america5083
    @gal-america50835 жыл бұрын

    I would avoid stuff like making one country better than the other😃

  • @kaedagibbs1212
    @kaedagibbs12125 жыл бұрын

    Im going in my first pageant in july

  • @donnaviesobrian4291

    @donnaviesobrian4291

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good luck😊👍

  • @smolshay

    @smolshay

    5 жыл бұрын

    I recompete for Queen at the pageant I'm currently 1st Attendant for tomorrow! From one July pageant contestant to another I wish you luck!

  • @I_dread
    @I_dread3 жыл бұрын

    So yeahh!!!! I stopped saying this

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    ☺️

  • @Life-ne9no
    @Life-ne9no Жыл бұрын

    U look a lot like Kate Middleton

  • @bhavinimathur4916
    @bhavinimathur49164 жыл бұрын

    What I learnt :Pageant interview is like rapid fire.....

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes! So true, it is

  • @daisymaywatkins7972
    @daisymaywatkins79726 жыл бұрын

    dontsay "like" or "umm"

  • @hannahboudreau3608
    @hannahboudreau36086 жыл бұрын

    dont say "ummmmm" "like" "well" "lets see"

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    6 жыл бұрын

    ha! Yes, I'm so guilty of things like this. My biggest downfall is "sooooo..." haha! Good one!

  • @saniyashaikh3302
    @saniyashaikh33024 жыл бұрын

    Do not ask the question... Pay attention

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    Always important to pay attention. 💛

  • @KritiVlogs369
    @KritiVlogs3696 жыл бұрын

    Ummm...i wouldnot say that i am a cry baby hehe

  • @kataraofthesouthernwatertr7090
    @kataraofthesouthernwatertr70905 жыл бұрын

    I would do my research before talking about something that I would not know about.

  • @karas9241
    @karas92415 жыл бұрын

    Do not say "um"

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, good one! This is one I am sometimes guilty of, but if you can avoid it that is best! Thanks for your comment!

  • @susmitachakraborty8288
    @susmitachakraborty82883 жыл бұрын

    I avoid "ummm,like,you know,ah-uh"

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    😊

  • @devyn_bee
    @devyn_bee Жыл бұрын

    No acronyms!

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    Жыл бұрын

    Good one!

  • @kenadeeeisler2192
    @kenadeeeisler21924 жыл бұрын

    I don’t say ANYTHING from my childhood!

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    3 жыл бұрын

    💛

  • @MorrisonShow
    @MorrisonShow2 ай бұрын

    Uh

  • @timidml149
    @timidml1495 жыл бұрын

    Definition of stuff

  • @a-08bhairavithakare46
    @a-08bhairavithakare464 жыл бұрын

    #Do not tell them a story or examples.

  • @hukaniyepthoyeptho585
    @hukaniyepthoyeptho5852 жыл бұрын

    I don't like to say nonsense and meaningless answers

  • @defirajordan5884
    @defirajordan58845 жыл бұрын

    politic and religion.

  • @katrinaandrade569
    @katrinaandrade5695 жыл бұрын

    Quit saying : I personally believe in the saying: blah blah blah.. And so.. My answer goes this way...

  • @yolowhit
    @yolowhit Жыл бұрын

    Like …. Like like

  • @WinAPageant

    @WinAPageant

    Жыл бұрын

    hehehe.. exactly!

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