Thank you this helped me prepare for my hearing tomorrow. I had no idea what to expect.

@uyleng2644

3 жыл бұрын

What happened and btw goodluck

@kenrellsellers3750

2 жыл бұрын

How did it turn out?

@Rosie-ou2eg

2 жыл бұрын

Did you get the order?

@larajp3

2 жыл бұрын

Bro same mines tomorrow 😭

@wesleysumrall1316

2 жыл бұрын

@@larajp3 how did ur turn out I have one this comeing up week idk what to expect

I have one tomorrow and this helped A lot! Thank you!

I have a hearing today... So im watching this just to prepare thanks!

It gives comfort for my hearing today it's my first and hope last

Being falsely accused in an order rn and have proof that the story was fabricated. So I don’t have to act like this dude and I’m fine :) UPDATE: we won the case!!!

@sillycatrsk

3 жыл бұрын

How is your situation going? I’m going through similar

@mrdiaz2367

3 жыл бұрын

How's it going?

@cloveerika

3 жыл бұрын

@@mrdiaz2367 we won!!!

@kristlonloves

3 жыл бұрын

This gave me so much relief! I forget I have the cold truth and he has to cover his lies lol Thankyou for the update!

@Riah.winninn

2 жыл бұрын

I’m going thru the same thing kinda like some things were true but some were fabricated the day before I got served we were on the phone and I have a screen shot of him saying he was thinking about come over would that help ?

My best advice to anyone seeking a protection order to definitely have an attorney. Do all you can to find one pro Bono. Despite that document, document, document! Meaning texts, record phone calls, photos of violent incidents even if police weren’t called. If the abuser has an attorney be prepared to be cross examined. You will have to testify about all that’s happened and remain composure. Lastly depending upon the court and when the court order is given... MAKE SURE THE ABUSER IS PROPERLY SERVED! Even if he did attend the hearing, technically there needs to be “due diligence”. Essentially without being served it’s a useless piece of paper and a waste of time, emotional pain, and money. Always remember as well it is only a piece of paper.

@stefanstana457

2 жыл бұрын

Hi there what's an protection order mean

@PlatinumHustle

2 жыл бұрын

my case is a little different though.. it was a female neighbor that I was intimate with for a couple months, then we broke it off. She moved like 3 months ago and I’m moving as well. I don’t even know where she moved nor do I care lol. If I go, what do I need to do if I can’t afford a lawyer? Just tell them that we don’t even live near each other anymore? If I don’t go, would I get arrested? Or just a restraining order on her? I could care less about her..she definitely did this as a last resort of revenge since I moved on and dumped her. She claiming I stalked and harassed her lol 🤦🏾‍♂️ these women… sheeesh

@andrewhatton1606

10 ай бұрын

A pice of paper is not going to help you 😂😂 I know 4 felons that are loaded up

@proverbs2522

9 ай бұрын

@@andrewhatton1606oh I know! I’m still getting one tomorrow hopefully for two years. He’s a dangerous person and we have to set up all borders to make sure I’m not six feet under by his doing.

Even if she did hit on this supposed man, what does that have to do with him supposedly choking her out? Doesn't matter if someone is cheating, you cannot put your hands on them. Called being an adult

@preparedsurvivalist2245

Жыл бұрын

That's whats so ironic. The perpetrator is STILL so angry and jealous that they want another chance to embarrass and accuse the victim. And they are so blinded by their emotions that they fail to realize they have provided NO valid defense for the allegations against them. Worse, all they have done is confirmed their motive for perpetrating the crime!

My old nail tech has filed a 14 day order of protection against my girlfriend & I and lied about everything it’s sad that this is how the law works. You can be severed for a false story my court date is May 2nd and I don’t know what to expect so I came across this video.

Wow! Thank you for sharing! This was helpful

@sclegalservices

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@charlesrosaly

Жыл бұрын

THIS IS HOW IGNORANT PEOPLE DESTROY THEIR KIDS LIVES AND LOSE THEIR WAY IN A MARRIAGE OVER ONE STUPID ARGUMENT. LAWYERS ARE THE LAST THING ANYONE NEEDS. NEVER MARRY AND HAVE A A SEPARATION AGREEMENT BEFORE LETTING HER MOVE IN AND NEVER TRUST A WOMAN WHO DRINKS. AND THIS WHOLE COURT SESSION WAS AN ACT, ALL FAKE. WHAT HAPPENED TO THE MANS RIGHTS? HE DOESN'T KNOW THAT HE HAS ANY.

I have my retraining order court hearing on Wednesday this week. Any advice on how I can win my caee and why the proceeding is expected to be about 4 hours long? That is what the clerk told me.

I have mine tmr , wish me luck🙌🏾

Just went to my court hearing. It was in my favor. Doesnt quite look like this during the pandemic. Courts are utilizing webex technology so I was able to just do it from home on my computer. I was able to email all evidence such as pictures and camera footage to the court. Super easy! Btw defendant did not show up. Order if protection is for one year.

@LornaSatchwell

3 жыл бұрын

Did you email that information before or during the hearing?

@queenj7720

3 жыл бұрын

I was prepared to share my evidence during hearing over webex however they did not allow me to share my screen. They provided me an email address to send it to and I was able to do so after court hearing. You could probably do this in advance if you call the courts early to obtain the email address to send it to. Just make sure you include case number and state in email that you would like to submit it as evidence. I believe it was easy for my judge to make a determination soley on the fact that I initially submitted copies of harassing text messages and photos when I initially turned in application for restaining order.

@queenj7720

3 жыл бұрын

Also it helps when you have multiple police reports. Everytime something happens, call the police so that the behavior is documented. I experienced months of stalking, harassing text messages, and abuse by proxy. Having cameras and documentation makes it easy. I have not experienced anymore events since restaining order has been in place. Btw, I had no contact with this party during this time period which made my case stronger...... UPDATE: after restraining order was issued, the stalking stopped then started again. Before order, I was been stalked like 5 days a week. Now, it has completely stopped 3 months after order but I still keep my guards up.

@sarahmcinroy2321

2 жыл бұрын

@@queenj7720 I'm so glad your order was granted and sustained. My abuser is trying to contest the restraining order and my mom and I are scared because it will be a huge financial burden to hire an attorney for us but we will if we need to. I'm scared that I won't have proof of the violence and threatening behaviours he exhibited but I have heaps of written evidence via text and email... It'll all just be on the phone and not on a computer though for my hearing which I'm anxious about since I'm hard of hearing. The family court clerk told me the judge's office /might/ contact me directly before the hearing and I can send my evidence in then?

@charliewilson3388

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this info

This was definitely made to make you get a lawyer.

@kennetheugene6402

10 ай бұрын

Exactly they look goofy 😅

@Brujo2016

8 ай бұрын

Anyone can represent themselves if they take the time to study the basics of the law, their state constitution, case law, codes and statutes, and court rules and procedures. As they say, knowledge is power.

This isn’t real people, it’s a mock trial

very helpful...

Was this real or was it mock for educational purposes? Either way it was very helpful. Thank you

@doloreschansey9556

2 жыл бұрын

It's a mock trial by law students.

@charlesrosaly

Жыл бұрын

THIS IS HOW IGNORANT PEOPLE DESTROY THEIR KIDS LIVES AND LOSE THEIR WAY IN A MARRIAGE OVER ONE STUPID ARGUMENT. LAWYERS ARE THE LAST THING ANYONE NEEDS. NEVER MARRY AND HAVE A A SEPARATION AGREEMENT BEFORE LETTING HER MOVE IN AND NEVER TRUST A WOMAN WHO DRINKS. AND THIS WHOLE COURT SESSION WAS AN ACT, ALL FAKE. WHAT HAPPENED TO THE MANS RIGHTS? HE DOESN'T KNOW THAT HE HAS ANY.

@AlliNW0nderland.

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering the same thing

The fact that he’s so focused on if the female was drinking or not to try to justify his actions?? Disgusting

@flightofthebumblebee9529

2 жыл бұрын

That drunk skank lied her ass off

@ghostagent3157

2 жыл бұрын

intoxication proves bad testimony 🤡 so yes it is a completely relevant question. now what the guy could have done if he truly knew he did not cause marks on her neck was to ask to see the time stamp of the photos because what if those photos time stamps were a month before? then if the man truly was innocent the photos would be rejected and the lady could of lost the order of protection.

Have it next week I have so much proof

hilarious he lost the house, kids and his money in less than 30 minutes. 😂😂😂😭

@adventuristaguru

Жыл бұрын

How is that hilarious?

I got one that expires next month hoping to extend it going to court tomorrow

My sons father put one against me towards my son and himself after dropping my son off with him for the summer. He’s trying to use the courts to keep me away when I have all legal decision making for my child. I have a hearing this morning and my stomach is like 🥴🤢 I haven’t been able to speak with my son he’s blocked all sorts of communication. Please pray for me guys! I promise I am overall a very good person to the community and to my family. I hope it shows today!

@bigbabyjune

2 жыл бұрын

what happened?

@kristlonloves

2 жыл бұрын

@@bigbabyjune they dropped the p.o. Off my my son but his dad still had him when i still have all my right. I tried to get escorted but the police don’t know what their doing. They tried showing me old court documents from July which was canceled because I was not there. And they were trying to serve me but the date had already passed. Lol I’m waiting patiently for the next court date for custody. I was suppose to have my baby back in August he was suppose to start school and everything. And because I can’t even sleep or stop thinking about this situation I’m right down the street pregnant with my 6mo old sleeping on the couch can’t wait to get my baby and go back home. (Tx) which he’s requesting that my son doesn’t leave the state (Az) when we’ve been having a whole live in Texas and his daddy know this. Like I hope the judge is smart and read straight thru his bs

@brendaa7726

2 жыл бұрын

Currently in the same situation. My court date is on Friday, I’m super anxious

@shanibmulkins

Жыл бұрын

@@kristlonloves praying for you and Brenda!! That everything worked out in the favor of you and your children

@kristlonloves

Жыл бұрын

@@shanibmulkins thankyou so much it did end up working out. We have a parenting plan established but I still have primary custody ❤️💪🏽 thankyou so much! I can’t believe it’s been a year!

Women abuse these orders all the time

Is this a sample trial or the real thing?

What if you are afraid to present certain evidence in front of the abuser to judge . Knowing that the restraining order will be granted. It was mentioned abuser wouldn’t care if I had a restraining order they will get to me before the cops show up if I show proof or evidence. I fear for my life after restraining order is granted .What can I do?

@onuwabuchi

2 жыл бұрын

Learn self defense laws in your state and abide by them. Fear is from Satan. Recite the scripture. Get armed spiritually and legally. Trespassing, Stalking, and threatening, are all reasons to call the police and get a police report on hand. Get cameras on your property too. But pray that God deal with this aggressor because before the end this month.

@shanibmulkins

Жыл бұрын

You need to get a gun and learn to use it. If your old enough to posses one and have family and friends on alert as well as be vigilant whenever your at. Get cameras for your apt or home and an alarm if you can but you need to get a weapon to protect yourself against him and be prepared to use it if the need arises. Praying for you

I had a hearing for a civil restraining order case.... We want a restraining order against a former friend who shows up to our property without any notice, he cuts the lock off our gate to get in and then doesnt replace it or compensate us.-(He has done this several times!) He yells & likes to throw things at my boyfriend when being told to leave or if he doesnt get his way about something. He throws tantrums, which our neighbors most likely hear... Plus he has stolen from us SEVERAL times! My boyfriend was with me & he also testified... *THE JUDGE DENIED THE RESTRAINING ORDER!!!!!* I dont see why she would deny it! ...We explained his unnacceptable violent behavior and about how hes VERY unpredictable..........WHY would she DENY it??? WTF?! ......Is there anything I can do to appeal this?! I started this whole process like 2 months ago! It pisses me off that the judge denied it...I feel like I wasted my time with this! /: If anyone has any advice Id really appreciate it! I want to appeal this...I dont know....We NEED a restraining order against this guy!!! Or else he will keep showing up!! We dont want him at our property and we dont want to have to be walking on eggshells all the time or to wonder if something has been stolen again! Please help!

@griseldaguerrero7199

Жыл бұрын

Did you collect evidence?

@katherinebullock2649

Жыл бұрын

If you don’t have proof to show that’s probably why they denied it gather evidence and re apply for a tpo love that’s all I can say remember the burden of proof is on the accuser

@crafter239

Жыл бұрын

You can get him trespassed next time and then if you refile a TPO that will help with your case. As long as he doesn't live there on any type of lease currently

There is no possible way to even have a peek a the truth in such a short hearing with no lawyers present.

Wait… so in South Carolina they do not issue the “victim”an order of protection Ex parte?

“Isn’t it true” 🤣 He fancies himself a lawyer 🤣🤣🤣

@ghostagent3157

2 жыл бұрын

you HAVE to ask questions that certain way or you get an "objection leading the witness" then you cannot ask the question any other way.

@preparedsurvivalist2245

Жыл бұрын

Isn't it true...? Then they're like: No. And he just sits down. Literally had no back up plan to spin that line of questioning to his advantage.

Wow what a fantastic cross examination

I have one tomorrow but its my wife that assaulted me. Sketchy thing is though, she's at rehab and going to call in over zoom.

@doctorevil3326

Жыл бұрын

Let me guess, judge probably thought you did something to provoke her and you're also the cause of her addiction?

If as the Respondant this is the amount of effort you are willing to put into your defense then expect the same result as what we see here

I'm in the same situation and my ex wife is saying I threatened to shoot her and my kids which is complete bs. Any advise ?

@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh

2 жыл бұрын

Damnn That's Fucking Cold Bro. She's Evil. For A Mother Making Allegations Like That, Kids Should Be Taken From Her. That's Messed Up.

@jonathandennis4560

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh it's been a long battle man... So far I've proven her unfit in court but now it's me vs the state/cps

@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh

2 жыл бұрын

@@jonathandennis4560 Have You Seen Your Kids? Yea I Have A Temporary Order Of Protection Hearing Tomorrow, And Other Stuff. My Daughters Mother Said I Stalk Her, But Yet She Was Still In Contact With Me Even After She Issued The Order Protection. Funny How She Issued It On October 15 2021 But I Got Served November 2 2021. You Gotta Get Joint Custody For Your Kids And Leave That Woman Alone.

@jonathandennis4560

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh not in 3 months. But I feel your pain .. this bitch cost me three jobs so far and they won't violate her even though there's a restraining order

@PlatinumHustle

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh what happened? I have one coming up soon from an old neighbor that doesn’t even live in the apartment complex anymore. Should I just not go? I haven’t seen her in months lol

Good advice I have a temporary protection order in place against my now ex husband and I go to court to get a permanent one on june 21st I hope I get it because this temporary one is not stopping him from coming near me and my daughter and contacting us and I have all the proof of abuse done by him all the screenshots of threats from him and his family and being harassed by his attorney that he's having a secret relationship with I have proof of her telling me that is the reason she's lying for him she knows what he's done but is just covering for him and I also filed my medical records from when he raped me and I ended pregnant which ended with him kicking me in the stomach multiple times causing me to misscarry and ended in the hospital and ect (so much to write that happened) He's showing up for his supervised visitation on Saturday which is suspended due to the protection order in place against him but I'ma get a Sheriff to meet me to get him served even tho he's aware of the order and has violated it once already and is in violation for it and might be getting locked up for it on Saturday

GOOD 😌 THE JUDGE 👩‍⚖️ APPROVED THE ORDEN AND TO THE KIDS 🥰💓💕♥️🤍 I WISH IM LUCKY AS WELL 🥺🥺

I had a order of protection put on me last year didn’t go to court I’m surprised they didn’t come looking for me 😬

@PlatinumHustle

2 жыл бұрын

I’m thinking of not going to mine either lol..the chick that is accusing me doesn’t even live near me anymore.. I can’t pay $1200 for a lawyer

@shanegaming2446

Жыл бұрын

@@elizabetht3585 no updates at the time yes I was when I called my local sheriffs office they said there was nothing on my records

@PlatinumHustle

Жыл бұрын

@@elizabetht3585 I don’t think it did. Lol I paid my lawyer a hell of a lot of money to get it taken care of. I’ve applied for jobs since then and nothing has ever raised concern on a background check. Just sucks I had to waste time, money, and energy, into a woman that I haven’t even seen, or talked to, in about 2 years now lol.

@PlatinumHustle

Жыл бұрын

Shit sucks tho lol. Now I’m angry all over again thinking about that crazy bih 🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

@PlatinumHustle

Жыл бұрын

@@elizabetht3585 I honestly just had to hire a lawyer for real

Is this fake? How come there are no police officers present to protect her in case he lunges at her? And she even walks over to him. Fake?

Update : I won. His case got dismissed and I have been advised to go to small claims court. I have one in 3 days. It’s my first and hopefully my last. I’m actually moving away from my apartment to purposely avoid this toxic neighbor who owes me money, but pulled a gun on me when I came to ask for my money back. Then he goes to the court for a protection order of harassment, said that I threatened his life with my egg in hand. Please wish me luck as an African man in America I do not want any trouble with anyone.

This isn’t a real trial is it? It seems like a skit for an example or something.

That was embarrassing for both of them. How do you not know to stand up? He actually asked, do I have to stand up. 🤦🏼‍♂️ You got the custody of your kids riding on this and you have two fucking questions? You might as well stay at home. LOL

My mom filed one against me 🙃

@NJCOP747

2 жыл бұрын

So did my cousin and I wasn't even there for it to happen wtf

I am baffled: He got ejected for 6 months for physical battery. I got ejected for 1.5 years because I blocked my mother in laws phone number because she called it everyday for 20 years.

The best advice I can offer, never represent yourself.

Isn’t it true is leading.

the judge is not given

He should’ve have hired an attorney

@alfthebastard8064

2 жыл бұрын

How much would be the price

@PlatinumHustle

2 жыл бұрын

My lawyer is asking for $1200! What happens if I just don’t go?

@PlatinumHustle

Жыл бұрын

@@Youlovinkayyy I didn’t go lmfao. Just paid the lawyer to handle it and it got dropped 6 months later. Total waste of time, energy, and money, all because of a stupid ex

Ha, in pr it is automatic, she just needs to ask

This is terrible. They should not make a victim face off with a perp in court. It should be separate.

@Swissco9665

Жыл бұрын

They do it all the time, it's because the courts know that the accused is not a threat , more so like a big baby.

@charlesrosaly

Жыл бұрын

Every man has the right to face his or her accuser.

@FlashGameReviews

Жыл бұрын

This view is the number one problem with the criminal justice system -- as soon as a woman says shit, whether it's violence or rape or whatever, she becomes a 'victim' and an innocent guy becomes a "perp". In the real world, the cops and prosecutors are the bad guys as often as not. Women make up rape to get revenge on boyfriends, or to not seem like a slut to the next bf - soon they'll need to accuse guys of rape just to be eligible for abortion in some states. Some guys are just screwed up abusers, but pfa's also keep people from talking and working out problems at taxpayer expense; they can also be used to later take away the right to use firearms, sue or get custody.

@ericgee7381

Жыл бұрын

I can't stand women's like this. Restraining orders are almost never necessary. They're tools for grimy women? You see what it's really about a few seconds in. She wants money. She probably already has another dude lined up.. Gross. Women are such disgusting pieces of garbage anymore.

@Omnihilo

11 ай бұрын

@@FlashGameReviews They said victim. They didn’t say male or female, simply victim, and in your blind rage you ironically made the misandrist implication that males can’t be victims.

Wow

steele??? dude thats MY last name 😂😂

is this staged? looks like they're reading a script. they're not supposed to talk to each other either. sounds like they're acting.

There are people on this planet snitching on way bigger things if Snowden is still relaxing and interviewing. This is nonsense protection is already granted.

@Dimplez2388

2 жыл бұрын

Sweetie you have to have evidence when you accuse people of things. Did you have that? Did you call the cops?

I have court tomorrow

am i the only one watching this wondering if its fake or not?

Very first observation. She is disrespectful to the court and the judge. The implication is she is passive aggressively challenging the judge for control of the court room. The judge corrects this by informing her she needs to stand. If this were in error, an absent minded person wouldve leapt up and said sorry. She very slowly gets up. That implies that she’s being defiant and once again trying to say, “Ok, I’ll get up. But only bc I decided to.”

Is this for real? Wow

If you're a guy and need a reatraining order against a crazy woman don't bother. Courts will not take it seriously and if a lawyer takes your case they will just waste your time and money.

@preparedsurvivalist2245

Жыл бұрын

I dunno. I'm going to court in a couple weeks and I have pictures of wounds on my body from abuse. Very hard to refute photographic evidence.

@doctorevil3326

Жыл бұрын

@@preparedsurvivalist2245 so what did you do to provoke her?

@jjebannon

Жыл бұрын

I’m not saying you’re wrong but in my thousands of experiences with parents now I can’t recall a single case where a dad has an RO and temp custody of kids from something as trivial as a case like in this video. It’s always granted to the moms.

It had to be a black man and a white girl 🤣

I bet incels look like ROCKSTARS now, eh?! Its not by accident incase you're wondering!

Wow that judge is reticules.Their was barely any evidence.Pay the woman every time.

Mudsharking will always end you up here

This is super scripted. Doesn't even come across as natural AT ALL.

Way to obviously scripted

this is so scripted, and not how it goes at all

Dude is so cringe. "Isn't it true...." Thats the only legalese he knows, lol. Then when the other side fails to validate the point he was attempting to make, he just falls silent. He doesn't even say "No further questions your honor." And you should NEVER bring up a possible motive for your alleged crime, like jealousy over cheating, especially if the petitioner didn't specifically mention it. The judge is only going to see that you are passionate about that issue and make the likely assumption that this was indeed your motive for retaliating with violence.

I dont need attorney to do so deanna souders rensslaer in