HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART

@jazmyneanaya9575

5 жыл бұрын

lisa Xvxv amen

@everydaycece2558

5 жыл бұрын

Preach Sister

@malizzaacole5995

5 жыл бұрын

lisa Xvxv AGREEEEE

@wihh87

5 жыл бұрын

It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where

@helloootheresirr4839

3 жыл бұрын

yes yes

"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.

@mabena5759

6 жыл бұрын

PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂

@Maysoon3121

6 жыл бұрын

PrisK TF , she is not ugly

@Evil_Beauty

6 жыл бұрын

"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.

@prisk9816

6 жыл бұрын

Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is

@Maysoon3121

6 жыл бұрын

PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .

How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕

@K-a-n-d-i-s

7 ай бұрын

I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young

@theharshtruthoutthere

4 ай бұрын

@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

i literally cried today about how I am not as pretty and feminine as all the other girls and this popped up on my feed … thank you so much … needed this ❤

The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.

@DHarvey-Scarola

6 жыл бұрын

very true

@Stylomagic

6 жыл бұрын

Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.

@0001Nikola

6 жыл бұрын

I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.

@Heyitsdaave

6 жыл бұрын

Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad

@j.celestekee658

6 жыл бұрын

Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.

Having this sharp and insightful mind at a young age is way more exceptional than having nice cheekbones.

@sydneyreyes7852

4 жыл бұрын

The Libtard exactly

@Ahmed-nc2qz

4 жыл бұрын

naaa she's depressed so this "insight mind" is irrelevant lol

@malevolentgg9675

4 жыл бұрын

I prefer nice cheekbones

@vvthetalentlessduo6976

4 жыл бұрын

Ok

@Xxrocknrollgod

4 жыл бұрын

Malevolent GG agreed

I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways

"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment And being ugly does not have to stop you from making an Accomplishment" These words touch my soul deeply❤

I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented

@eloise-mariebamford1737

4 жыл бұрын

Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS

@geanidrl7527

4 жыл бұрын

Ok philosopher 😂

@overdosedmiawallace

4 жыл бұрын

@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨

@geanidrl7527

4 жыл бұрын

@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean

@PGOuma

4 жыл бұрын

@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation

I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao

@suzyyqq7046

5 жыл бұрын

@@joys8634 are u happy now

@fee6145

5 жыл бұрын

Please remember me

@megbubbz

5 жыл бұрын

@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis

@megbubbz

5 жыл бұрын

@@fee6145 i will :))

@fee6145

5 жыл бұрын

@@megbubbz thanks c:

Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤

You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.

@lovequinn3030

11 күн бұрын

i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.

Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.

@finemrespice7031

7 жыл бұрын

The fuckin point!!

@melissaharding7754

6 жыл бұрын

I was the 666th like

Most regular women look like this in the morning, without make up, bleached hair and styling... she just looks like a regular woman to me.

@everly9629

3 жыл бұрын

ikr? blonde? blue eyes?

@IIIISai

3 жыл бұрын

facts

@guymontag1078

3 жыл бұрын

True

@Username-1939t9

3 жыл бұрын

ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it

@acspeter7

3 жыл бұрын

She looks like Scarlet Johanson without makeup 😁

In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.

That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels

As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.

@mpro9446

3 жыл бұрын

this is beautiful

@yettiluch1

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.

@WilliamsDarkoh

3 жыл бұрын

you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.

@putinsgaytwin4272

3 жыл бұрын

Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty

@dalpaengi

2 жыл бұрын

@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..

"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.

@aerbald

4 жыл бұрын

It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.

@michaelg9082

4 жыл бұрын

@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves

@aerbald

4 жыл бұрын

@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation

@jimmyj4044

4 жыл бұрын

Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.

@sushipbestdeck8995

4 жыл бұрын

That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment

Hands down, the best KZread video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.

When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy! Love this vid! :)

“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.

@tl4176

5 жыл бұрын

That is beautiful

@LauraLaura-mv4xh

4 жыл бұрын

but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.

@cimmerianfable

8 ай бұрын

​@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤

@pillbugm8914

7 ай бұрын

@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.

Why did KZread recommend me this ? Is that a sign...

@Porknappa

5 жыл бұрын

it is! same here 😆

@morgyn6417

5 жыл бұрын

Guess I’ve joined the club 😂

@Amina-yl7im

5 жыл бұрын

X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@jjzamorano88

5 жыл бұрын

X facts what they tryna say

@elyjulie1389

5 жыл бұрын

same lol

Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽

You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.

KZread: 31 year old virgin 21 with no friends On being ugly Being ugly: my experience Me: Are you trying to tell me something

@aciddecay

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭

@divyanayak9594

3 жыл бұрын

I know I am ugly 🐸 Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt

@Brandon-nl1nf

3 жыл бұрын

Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....

@aciddecay

3 жыл бұрын

@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad

@kushpie7973

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x

@aestheticflower8584

6 жыл бұрын

Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you KZread??? but then I actually loved the video

@itselena43

6 жыл бұрын

she just needs makeup and she's fine

@itselena43

6 жыл бұрын

and a better haircut

@Ana-dl7zl

6 жыл бұрын

Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial

@sleepybb8781

6 жыл бұрын

She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.

No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!

Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time

Holy crap please write a book

@ryanjohnston8237

5 жыл бұрын

wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.

@womp9465

5 жыл бұрын

Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a KZread video

@womp9465

5 жыл бұрын

Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao

@Pensive_117

5 жыл бұрын

@@womp9465 This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.

@solitudence

5 жыл бұрын

Tea Times Two shes so ugly

she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with

You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.

Such an insightful young person, these words are coming from a place of inner wisdom, there's nothing more beautiful than that 🥰

I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes

@stxxk

5 жыл бұрын

Tru

@yarakarim1821

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@Mx.Pickle

5 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@miyanasidney2696

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@filipandrejevic4427

5 жыл бұрын

Why the fuck you lyin'?

I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities

@4ka07_muhammadrizky

4 жыл бұрын

The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady

@laysoe2257

4 жыл бұрын

Gay

@Xbitxx

4 жыл бұрын

Lay Soe your mother...

@laysoe2257

4 жыл бұрын

Hamm lol daddy’s mad

@maylily820

4 жыл бұрын

Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old

What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.

You're a star. Shining so brightly. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤

Her: "I don't want to be told I'm not ugly. I'm happy as I am." Commemts: "OMG but u are NOT ugly!!! Yu just need some mascara and foundation- ur NOT ugly believe me trust me ur NOT UGLY!!!!" ...Did everyone just completely MISS THE FUCKING POINT???

@MaryStellaRose

8 жыл бұрын

+loveandlucky3 maybe she does not want to wear mascara and foundation?

@kelbell8127

8 жыл бұрын

+MaryStellaRose That's what the OP was saying...

@majorkatzmann2240

8 жыл бұрын

There is a difference between accepting who you are and persuading yourself that you have some flaws, which just aren't there. That girl may be plain looking, but certainly _ugly_ is a huge exaggeration. This has nothing to do with 'accepting yourself'.

@loveandlucky3

8 жыл бұрын

Suiseiseki Desu Perception is reality. And people telling her something has nothing to do with her accepting herself, they just want to say she's beautiful because it's the accepted convention that someone MUST be physically beautiful in order to be worthy.

@majorkatzmann2240

8 жыл бұрын

loveandlucky3 I don't see how your reply has _anything_ to do with what I wrote. At no point did I in any way imply that someone has to be pretty to be worthy. She says that she sees herself as ugly, which simply isn't true. That's like if a black haired person would say that he accepted that he is a ginger and doesn't want anyone to tell him that his hair isn't really red.

she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice

@natasharules770

4 жыл бұрын

'Should'

@thatsEforEveryone

4 жыл бұрын

@@natasharules770 what about it?

@natasharules770

4 жыл бұрын

@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality

@thatsEforEveryone

4 жыл бұрын

@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks

@hine6063

4 жыл бұрын

First Class Experience exactly.

If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this

your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.

This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔

@MarilynbabyZ

6 жыл бұрын

winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅

@queenbeyonce1538

6 жыл бұрын

winnieheart's adventures ME TOO

@MissSunshine221

6 жыл бұрын

winnieheart's adventures same

@alina24499

6 жыл бұрын

saaame

@jessicaflowers6795

6 жыл бұрын

winnieheart's adventures SAME!

Who TF decided what beauty is anyway

@Maha-wm9tx

6 жыл бұрын

evolution, that's who

@buttaz3000

6 жыл бұрын

babies lol

@kateisasmartass

6 жыл бұрын

Natural selection

@laurah2113

6 жыл бұрын

white people

@Ayesha_5782

6 жыл бұрын

NonStopParis Society.

your Intelligence and openness is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing those thoughts! They're really eye-opening and take away a lot of pressure! ❤

Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.

You have an amazing outlook on life.

@justiceteachesAI

6 жыл бұрын

Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude

Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point

@thatsnotmyname4091

5 жыл бұрын

thank you.

@burpreynolds3250

5 жыл бұрын

They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.

@kaitlin3102

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.

@perfumaphilia3246

5 жыл бұрын

We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.

@grosslyincandescentsnowfla6924

5 жыл бұрын

She just needs to looksmax

Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')

You are a true Angel!!! Thank you for your gift, I really needed it

People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful

@rachelanderson5619

7 жыл бұрын

Bella Bastien who cares how smart she is being smart isn't physical beauty, that's not the point the point is she's happy who she is and that's all.

@stigludwigsen

7 жыл бұрын

Intelligence isn't physically appealing dumbass.

@bobbyhill9830

7 жыл бұрын

Rachel Anderson being attractive is everything

@rachelanderson5619

7 жыл бұрын

Bobby Hill I never said it wasn't, so you might wanna read my comment again.

@zaxlorax7605

6 жыл бұрын

Bella Bastien Easy by you to say it unless your pic. isn't you. Don't you think?

A deep thinker is infinitely more beautiful than a person who is physically attractive and cannot think deeply. Your perspective is wonderful.

@PockyNinja8

5 жыл бұрын

Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.

@zaidabdullah6183

5 жыл бұрын

She became a deep thinker because she is ugly

@muffinman5741

5 жыл бұрын

not really

@missstewart5218

5 жыл бұрын

soo you're saying that people cant be both physically attractive and 'deep thinking'? xd

@hommegirl

5 жыл бұрын

Zaid abdulla this is so true. I feel like when you are not pretty, you have the time to think deeper and realize stuff that people don’t see

I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.

It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.

"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.

@nefelibata4190

6 жыл бұрын

more like a privilege.

@ShockResistor

6 жыл бұрын

Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.

@CelestialDraconis

6 жыл бұрын

Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.

@dweliq2993

6 жыл бұрын

Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.

@elleelle5847

6 жыл бұрын

I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol

okay but your eyes are some of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen

@sweetjello_7057

5 жыл бұрын

Yea...no

@kaylania591

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly wut I was thinkin they r nice

@heyimmary1876

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. :)

@Sara-em3il

5 жыл бұрын

you're missing the point sis

@emil.2019

5 жыл бұрын

Maddie Perkins Ugh, can you just watch the vid

i hope she is living well, love you💚

I'll reflect on this video a lot, I really loved this. Thank you

Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video

@ashley1919100

5 жыл бұрын

Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

@rein2430

5 жыл бұрын

Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok

@issyxox8416

5 жыл бұрын

no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite

@theblackrose3583

5 жыл бұрын

True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie

@silvia___228

5 жыл бұрын

I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average

KZread lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.

@lovenostradamz9888

6 жыл бұрын

akalink77 same

@daisygonzalez8999

6 жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@graceguetschow4198

6 жыл бұрын

No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly

@Tamiiiiina

6 жыл бұрын

or that you seem insecure

@kelliannespry3912

6 жыл бұрын

right

What a wonderful video. You're a special person. Thanks for sharing with so many.

this actually opened my eyes a lot, even ten years later. thank you :]

Your energy is so pure and clear I feel it from my screen

@gigixxx1836

6 жыл бұрын

^^

@Mi-gs7xg

6 жыл бұрын

Lol ikr

@sarbnitrof4663

6 жыл бұрын

Can you feel her Chakra too?

@onepunch9578

6 жыл бұрын

Aaron White no it’s nen

@sarbnitrof4663

6 жыл бұрын

lel yeah i bet. I bet she can sense her ki as well.

This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.

@TheLuckyShepherd

6 жыл бұрын

Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...

@evad2180

6 жыл бұрын

I love ur profile picture!!

@DoctorDoom69

6 жыл бұрын

Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???

@rachelisodd9548

6 жыл бұрын

Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?

@marixcx

6 жыл бұрын

Zac Loves Yaaa That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp

I REALLY LOVE YOUR EYESSS, THEY ARE SO PRETTY 😭💕

I just want to say, your eyes are so pretty! I'm so envious of their colour and how vibrant they are ✨️

I wonder how she’s doing now

@rosie5348

4 жыл бұрын

Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)

@Isabeltherat

4 жыл бұрын

Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)

@noodlery7034

4 жыл бұрын

@Ilya K ????

@brucopera

4 жыл бұрын

Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person

@toooooor

4 жыл бұрын

Il mio Nome. @moonsludge

This should be a Ted Talk.

@harleyquiinnnn

5 жыл бұрын

YES! So much more people should hear that!

the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.

I love that you referenced My Mad Fat Diary. That show is spectacular and was really inspiring for me too

I think you have gorgeous eyes.

@whengrapespop5728

6 жыл бұрын

*^*

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom

6 жыл бұрын

I love the " When Grapes Pop. That is wonderful.

@Kinobambino

6 жыл бұрын

Centsible Living With Money Mom right!

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom

6 жыл бұрын

I wish she would post more videos.

@suzannedestinee4351

6 жыл бұрын

She has beautiful features and eyes. If she wore make up and did her hair, she would be ‘beautiful.’ She doesn’t choose to do that and I think it’s great.

"I'm ugly and I'm proud" --Spongebob Squarepants

@zenov8469

5 жыл бұрын

inspirational stuff

@astoldbynickgerr

5 жыл бұрын

SpongeBob was on to something then...

@nathanhunnisett6199

4 жыл бұрын

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@6ixlxrd

4 жыл бұрын

"Is that what he calls it?" -Squidward OG Tentacles

Thank you so much for making this video. You helped me a lot, really.

Thankyou for sharing this beautiful message 💖

"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow. I needed to hear everything she just said.

@myaatheist2744

3 жыл бұрын

Right on ✊

@treacheroustea926

3 жыл бұрын

@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?

@treacheroustea926

3 жыл бұрын

@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?

@treacheroustea926

3 жыл бұрын

@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.

@Joao-ur7ey

3 жыл бұрын

It actually is if were ugly and put the effort in becoming better looking like going to the gym, eating better and healthier, sleep better and etc.

She is pretty she just loves her self the way she is and that's the most attractive thing I found in one person

@bruh-hf8xt

3 жыл бұрын

YEAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH

@MO--rn4zh

3 жыл бұрын

yes i've watched this video so many time and i fall for her every. damn. time.

@SmIle-eq3be

3 жыл бұрын

Yoo I legit see nothing ugly about her!!!!! Am I trippin?????

@melissavezzoli2554

3 жыл бұрын

Is when you don't like yourself that you're ugly. I'm ugly.

@edithasd2806

3 жыл бұрын

@@melissavezzoli2554 that's why she pretty

You just said so many important wonderful and true things and I think I will come back to this video really often! It really reminded me what‘s important and what things i do not have to care about. Thank you for this video and being so honest humble and intelligent!

this video is such a smart and beautiful take that i needed. thanks for the perspective

"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy

@carla-vv2xw

6 жыл бұрын

it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol

@Erecura

6 жыл бұрын

It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.

@rightwingersexposed8800

6 жыл бұрын

Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.

@SuburbanoidMisfit111

6 жыл бұрын

What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?

@LCbabyxO

6 жыл бұрын

Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote

And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.

@jasonkelly2173

8 жыл бұрын

Truesay

@IrinNovy

8 жыл бұрын

+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.

@citiz3n942

8 жыл бұрын

+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.

@IrinNovy

8 жыл бұрын

reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.

@stephanni98

8 жыл бұрын

+05candyman Those people arent worth it.

I AGREE!!! i love this video and i love how you were able to word what ive been thinking!! thank you you’re amazing and beautiful 🙏🙏

You're actually so smart. I love it when people think things through this much.

It’s so sad that 95% of the world doesn’t have a mind like hers 😩🙌🏾🔥

@alessias.4733

5 жыл бұрын

Including you.

@tomaspalomaki5814

5 жыл бұрын

Alessia S. Am I ugly? U don't even know what I look like.

@alessias.4733

5 жыл бұрын

@@tomaspalomaki5814 what? I was saying that most people don't have a mindset like hers and most likely the person who made that comment is just as superficial as most people.

@wren7574

5 жыл бұрын

That's a random number

@sarahgloria1402

5 жыл бұрын

If you really think like this you won t give a fuck about what others think

what a beautiful human being.

@kimmyymmik

5 жыл бұрын

- camilla I mean it’s okay if someone is ugly tho.

@Tikumu-nh9wo

5 жыл бұрын

@@kimmyymmik that's not the point of her comment.

@NoName-mm6gh

5 жыл бұрын

- camilla virtue signallers, it's not bad being ugly

@NoName-mm6gh

5 жыл бұрын

netflix and electrical bill no chill that's not the point

@user-blue_sky1186

5 жыл бұрын

Plastic

Good for you, young lady! You have an acute mind, a beautiful soul and a great personality. It takes courage to speak out the way you do. ❤

this was so good to watch. I spent most of my teenage years being the ugly one, especially at school, and I let myself believe and suffer for that for a long time, even in college. it took me a long time to realize all of this you're saying, but when that happened it was one of the happiest and satisfying moments of my life. don't let any sucker define you like that.

@marthas.4456

6 ай бұрын

your comment just shows even good looking people like yourself are pushed to believe they are not pretty enough. Sadly bullies want you to believe the worst about yourself because it makes themselves feel better.

@lford2337

6 ай бұрын

What the hell? If that's your real pic and you think you're physically ugly, you have a distorted view of yourself vs how the world sees you. The only thing I think is ugly is your opinion of yourself. get out of that warpped mindset and get comfy with yourself so you can take part in life

@user-ut6zx7cu2k

6 ай бұрын

I feel the same way about my average weiner size. ☺️

A quote that resonates with me through this video was by F. Scott Fitzgerald, “No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”

@shavonneproctor7763

6 жыл бұрын

expreshayne ☺

@catbennett5251

6 жыл бұрын

That was very beautiful, I'm sure you're beautiful as well.

@adrienne2618

5 жыл бұрын

totally agree

@amysteriousdisease7168

5 жыл бұрын

that is amazing quote thanks for sharing

@NoName-mm6gh

5 жыл бұрын

expreshayne do we have microscopes to look inside?

I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.

@artvid-1915

6 жыл бұрын

Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!

I needed this. Thank you.

i’m so glad i came across this video. needed to hear this.

Your eyecolour is so beautiful

@lilyhill5095

6 жыл бұрын

Mia Wallace I know! I couldn't stop staring at her eyes. The colour is incredible

@svar4842

6 жыл бұрын

Still ugly tho

@svar4842

6 жыл бұрын

thomascampr haha calm the fook down, just a lil joke

@somethingaboutfootball702

6 жыл бұрын

Axel 1010 a joke... right..... haha...ha...ha

@svar4842

6 жыл бұрын

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I don’t like the comments of “you’re pretty” or “you’re not ugly” because that totally defeats this whole topic. That’s like saying yes it’s important to not be ugly, let me convince you that you’re not ugly. This is about even if you are ugly or are judged by someone as ugly, how to not be hurt by it, not feel like shit, not let it impact on your self esteem, not be self conscious of your looks, not feel inadequate or not good enough. It’s an incredibly hard thing to be ok with and I like how Kara is trying to adopt a mindset whereby she can be ok if she ever feels or thinks or is judged as ugly.

@EyeLean5280

8 ай бұрын

But what if we a) really don't agree that she's ugly and b) worry that she's coming up with all this other stuff but actually isn't able to shield herself from feeling bad?

@WateryFire

8 ай бұрын

But very very few people in the world are ugly (they are usually deformed in some way) and this girl is in no way ugly. It’s important to have a realistic view, somebody calling her ugly does not mean she’s actually ugly. So you don’t accept you’re ugly and then not get hurt but realize you’re actually not ugly and the other person currently holds a fantasy image in their head they deem as beautiful and that has nothing to do with you, your looks or reality. Reality and objectivity is important. Learn to discern truth not adapt your emotions according to other people’s views, that’ll get you in trouble in life.

@carltonjohnston8408

8 ай бұрын

@@WateryFire There are so many flaws in your comment. Lots of people hate looking at their image in mirrors or photographs, they don’t like how they look, they think they are ugly. What you say in believing you’re not ugly is impossible if you do believe you’re ugly. What if you have been called ugly many times in your life and you know you’re not good looking, how can you believe you’re not ugly and that anyone who says you’re ugly is wrong? What you say does nothing to address being hurt at being or being judged as ugly. Ugly is subjective, attractiveness is subjective. But the whole subject here is how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if judged or seen as ugly by others. What you say does nothing to address these issues, you’re actually pouring fuel on the fire because what you are saying is “ugly is a terrible thing, it’s so important to not be ugly, let me tell you that you are not ugly, so it’s ok”. You do think being ugly is a terrible thing don’t you?

@carltonjohnston8408

8 ай бұрын

@@EyeLean5280 but that’s not what this is about. What if someone wants to do a video about “how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if you are judged as ugly by others”. Are you going to just respond - oh you’re not ugly so it doesn’t matter. This is a topic lots of people want to try and change their mindset on. I wish Kara did this video by saying “I know I’m not ugly but I want to do a video on why you shouldn’t be hurt if you think you are ugly or judged as ugly - so that people don’t keep responding by dismissing the topic by saying “you’re not ugly so let’s not even go there”.

@Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr

8 ай бұрын

@@carltonjohnston8408i think you are reading into their comments too much. Most people watch like 10s of a video then comment. The only context the commenters have is a video title implying the person is ugly, and the face of a person who most certainly isn’t ugly.

As the video went by i could literaly feel how beautiful of a human you are❤

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and not in an unconventional way - in a TRUE way! Your heart, mind and authenticity make you GLOW! 💖✨ Truly, energy is the first thing I see, when I look at someone. I clicked on this video because, seeing you in the title card (or whatever they’re called), I was GENUINELY confused! Looking a certain way becomes irrelevant when there is hate in a person’s heart. You are absolutely, unquestionably more beautiful to me than SO many people who “society” counts as beautiful. As for that part - the insecurities that beauty standards thrust upon us, finding a look and a style you love and totally rocking it, without caring what anyone else thinks is so HOT and the authenticity that comes with it is positively beautiful, in every way!! And fuck any dummies that disagree!! You just keep on shining!! 🥰😍✨🍀♥️♥️

@ketsu_kit8920

7 ай бұрын

Blud missed the entire point

@Rflowers321

7 ай бұрын

@@ketsu_kit8920I don’t think so. They’re not commenting on physical attractiveness, which is what the video is about

The passion in her voice... wow

@FoxyBoxery

5 жыл бұрын

*Hitler speech plays quietly in the distance*

You're not ugly. And this is not a compliment, this is a disagreement. And the video is absolutely beautiful Edit: For those who complain about people saying she's not ugly: I understand the point of this video and agree with it. Except the part of her being ugly, which is quite an important part. I'm sure she wouldn't believe this comment, but i just wanted to say my honest opinion. It's amazing that she found a way to accept ugliness, but it's sad that the ugliness is not there in the first place. The belief of ugliness brought her so many interesting and deep thoughts, but definitely also many problems.

@albin2232

9 ай бұрын

She's lovely!

@helvete_ingres4717

9 ай бұрын

I don't find her ugly at all. That being said, when she describes herself as 'ugly', I get what she MEANS, I'm not like calling her crazy for saying that. She doesn't fit the standard of a hot babe or whatever. But to me, 'ugly' means unpleasant to look at - and I don't find her to be that at all. To me, ugly people have a dullness or a deadness behind their eyes - she's very animated which means living, and as she says theyre's something inherently beautiful in that.. And even going by the most conventional beauty standards her eyes are a really beautiful color, so she as at least one 'beautiful' feature in the conventional sense. And she would look even better if she had gone ahead and had her shower too

@irisinmars

9 ай бұрын

@@helvete_ingres4717 REALEST

@ASMR-Podcast-Psicologico

8 ай бұрын

Agree totally

@swimteamsaj152

8 ай бұрын

lliterally what i was going to say if she loved herself her beauty would shine

I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.

Watching this with three recommended videos on the side about other peoples amazing flawless lifestyle vlogs, and overnight glow up videos. Its so easily being pressured into feeling like you need to be constantly making yourself prettier and better all the times instead of being who you are in the moment. I worry about my looks alot and I think we need more videos like this.

Reminds me of a khaled hosseini quote that goes "beauty is an enormous, unmerited gift given randomly, stupidly."

@scarlettt.s9822

6 жыл бұрын

Marielle Muro- Buckingham love that guy

@dorisblok

6 жыл бұрын

it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.

@tenacioustrees.8737

6 жыл бұрын

With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.

@ufknw0tm8

6 жыл бұрын

This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across

@PrimerCinePodcast

6 жыл бұрын

You mean the Khaleesi, mother of dragons?

Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?

@gabor6259

3 жыл бұрын

I watched this BEFORE that.

@hazy92

3 жыл бұрын

me 😂 i love KZread algorithms

@TheDaha

3 жыл бұрын

​@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)

@hazy92

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..

@TheDaha

3 жыл бұрын

@@hazy92 mhm! 😂

This is meaningful. Thanks for this.

Wow you are so insightful. This video made me cry happy tears, I get a lot of people letting me know I am ugly and the last week or so it has really bothered me as I met someone online and in person they said I was revolting