“you turned out how i prayed you wouldn’t” -my mom

@elzvr

4 жыл бұрын

Zoe Tudor aw hope you’re ok! that horrible.

@maggiemeii

3 жыл бұрын

❤dont listen to that

@mariajoseperabeles6926

3 жыл бұрын

Same for me. My mom always criticized the rude way my aunt (my dad's sister) was. And when I grew up. She told me I was exactly like her (in manners). When I was little she always told me not to be like her. And at some point I was a little like k her (my aunt) I don't know if it was because my parents were very violent with each other and I could control the anger, or if I behave like that for a long time because she repeatedly told me we were alike.

@El-82603

3 жыл бұрын

The way you turned out was beautiful. Your mom hoped you wouldn’t turn out beautiful so a guy wouldn’t start liking you and you and that guy make a new life with a new family and leave your mom. Your turned out beautiful and the reason she said that is because she did t want you to leave

@Cait606

3 жыл бұрын

That’s not right. I’m very sorry

"Never have children because it was the worst mistake I ever made." -Mom

@emmac.j.8374

4 жыл бұрын

Cat Snek oh man I hate this. This is almost as bad as once recently, my mom yelled at my younger sister,”you make my life a living hell” and this is giving me kinda PTSD. This is why I’m not having kids when I’m older. I don’t want to mess up my kids lives like my mom did to mine. I don’t want to talk about it but long story short I don’t want to have kids for many reasons, this being one of them.

@xxyunggennaxx8625

4 жыл бұрын

My parents say that but then they back it up and say “unless u got everything to settle”😂😂

@sourad.e5661

4 жыл бұрын

Probably Buddha okay I get not wanting to have kids for your own reasons, but don’t tell people not to have kids because of overpopulation, that’s a stupid reason

@senya2610

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that happend to you I'm sure you're a great person. Please don't let it affect you. It's easier said then done but I belive in you!

@yitlerxyeezus

4 жыл бұрын

"If I left you alone there would be nobody that would take care of you"

"People have it worse than you" I just felt like I had no right to be upset.

@darkherostardustchannel3699

8 ай бұрын

@@lilnub3017 Same I can't cry anymore and I miss it. Looking to get therapy for it so fingers crossed

@salinadale5529

7 ай бұрын

This is what my parents say to me. I can’t trust them with my emotions anymore, it feels like I have to hide them.

@nathanwilliams9264

7 ай бұрын

Are y’all American because y’all sound American

@darkherostardustchannel3699

7 ай бұрын

I'm a Hong Konger@@nathanwilliams9264

@JesusIsKingMyLord

7 ай бұрын

Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven becausewe don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Revelation 21:8 KJV. JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN REPENT AND BELIVE THE GOSPEL.

"I'm going to die a junky" My twin brother said this to me after he overdosed, and I had brought him back with two shots of Narcan, CPR, and holding him up in a cold shower. When we got him to the hospital, it was just me and him in the room; I'd rode in the ambulance and my parents were following behind in the car. Just us two, no nurses or doctors, and he said it to me as he broke down. We were about 24-25. He died three years ago after an accidental overdose at the age of 27. I miss him every day and wish I could have changed the outcome. He had to know I tried everything I could, I tried it all to get him to quit. He has to know that I tried, right..? Just saying this to the wind.

@theseus0767

9 ай бұрын

You can only do so much. Addiction is a tyrant, and your brother lost control. His actions were not your doing. All you could have done was offer help; if he chose not to take it that is on him. I don't mean to sound like I am dehumanizing him or blaming him; I know addiction is tough, firsthand. Please just don't blame yourself. I am certain that is the last thing he would have wanted.

@XPurpleMyth3

5 ай бұрын

🫂

@MelloMe_

5 ай бұрын

Yes, you tried and he knew you did. Now it's important to forgive yourself for not performing a miracle and living a full and happy life. You deserve that.

@ashleyking9093

4 ай бұрын

You did everything you could have done. You did a lot more than most family members would have done for a loved one to begin with. It's so very clear that you loved your brother and cared a lot about him. It is not your fault at all. Stop blaming yourself please because it's not your fault. There's no one to fault, there's no one to blame at all in this situation. Please forgive yourself and your brother too if you need to and live your fullest life. He wants you to live a happy full life. He knows its not your fault he knows you did everything you could. I promise. I've been in an extremely similar situation myself.

@lunatone3333

3 ай бұрын

It's not your fault.

The innocence of that kid who said he wished he never heard that Santa isn’t real is so heartwarming after hearing about the other struggles that the young adults went through.

@Danny-de1ry

4 жыл бұрын

Grace Burke nah its the other way around he wished that people didnt lie to him that santa was real so in short he didnt want the bs from the start

@Ruzovy_

4 жыл бұрын

@@Danny-de1ry exactly, if i had kids im not even gonna tell them about santa.. its nlt because i dont wanna spend money on them.. of course i would.. but if youre gonna lie to a kid from birth to 7-8 years old.. how will they be able to trust you?

@ThaKidd1006

4 жыл бұрын

You heard that wrong. The kid is super logical since he was young and he's saying his brain was hurting like when you say America is part of what continent and someone goes the North continent. That pain that makes you go wait what did i hear that right. Is the dilemma he was facing.

@g996

4 жыл бұрын

Nah I meant about how he didn’t want to tell his brother to let him have the fantasy for longer, sry for the misconception

@g996

4 жыл бұрын

I said his innocence is heartwarming not his problem

“It’s ok we could always see each other tomorrow” the day before my girlfriend passed away

@taylynntuell9903

4 жыл бұрын

I could not even imagine the pain and heartbreak I'm so sorry

@winterfyleth5103

4 жыл бұрын

no one cares

@cringeman4199

4 жыл бұрын

You'll see her in Heaven

@helenaln5646

4 жыл бұрын

Pizza Lord that’s so true 🦋

@taylynntuell9903

4 жыл бұрын

@@winterfyleth5103 If you don't care, why comment in the first place?

"You're a monster." When this person said this to me, they caused me to question myself, who I was. It definitely contributed to the depression stage of my life

@MulletMan1313

Жыл бұрын

yo that sucks "(

@lightspeed-mecharena5929

11 ай бұрын

Sometimes you have to be a monster to provide for yourself and your family. It's one of the harsh realities of being a man. This doesn't mean TRY to be a monster but when you know you have to you have to.

@pria7538

11 ай бұрын

Were you, though? Self examination and questioning is not always a bad thing.

@poopakabra541

10 ай бұрын

ooga booga

@brazenzebra9581

9 ай бұрын

The only issue you should be concerned with is...were they right?

*"Son, I guess it's about time for me to leave."* My grandpa, four days before he passed away, told this to me while I was shaving his beard because he couldn't for the first time in his life. No one else knew about this, and no, he didn't commit suicide. He simply decided to let go... as the obsessively independent, emotionally mute, stubborn man he had ever been. Yet, he's also been the biggest role model of mine in his exceptional way of life as a godless humanist, solely for the love of and respect for humanity. I was both overwhelmed with pride that I was the person he shared his last secret, and crushed with sadness that he's leaving and it's impossible to change his mind. I miss you, distant man with a well hidden heart of gold. I miss you so much, you stubborn angel in disguise.

@loremaster5456

5 ай бұрын

A heart of gold from a person from then is worth hundreds of hearts of gold now. Because so much of our time is taken up by distractions, we hardly have time to develop who we are. Having someone with true heart of gold in your own heart can be one of the greatest things you could ever feel.

Dr: You have cancer. Girl: Shit! Best response ever. I’m glad she’s still here to tell the story.

@lory4305

4 жыл бұрын

Hello Alice from teotfw

@Slimtailz

4 жыл бұрын

ツLory whay

@introvertforlife898

4 жыл бұрын

J.J. Madrid Cancer isn’t deadly like it used to be

@jjmadrid23

4 жыл бұрын

Ava Johnson my aunt, neighbor, and grandma passed away of cancer...

@introvertforlife898

4 жыл бұрын

J.J. Madrid I’m sorry to hear that but more people survive from it today

“That was years ago, you should be over it by now” -My mother, who’s brother molested me when I was 7 years old.

@thalia7104

4 жыл бұрын

It was his decision to molest her, but it should have been her mom's decision to tell him to go to hell (and call the police).

@liax5009

4 жыл бұрын

I am truly, truly sorry to hear. I hope you’re okay now, there are so many people out there who love and support you. Don’t listen to what you’re mother has to say, she clearly doesn’t understand the pain you’ve gone through and I admire you so much as a person for being so brave and getting past it❤️❤️❤️ sending my love

@KP-bt3fd

4 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry, I hope that you are alright now! There will always be people here to help you and support you!💖💖💖

@bTs-it7tb

4 жыл бұрын

Thalia whaaat...?

@jennycajustine8853

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

i think the worst thing i have ever been told was "Nobody cares about how you feel, just deal with it" from my parents who i thought were caring and loving of me but that made me realize how much they didn't care for me

@ibax013

9 ай бұрын

Ofc they care, nobody cares except them and ur wife

@johnd5398

9 ай бұрын

Yeah....wrong video.

@ibax013

9 ай бұрын

@@johnd5398 whats wrong

@Thumpadoom

9 ай бұрын

@@johnd5398 still heard it form someone so

@J.J.Redick

9 ай бұрын

nobody cares about how you feelings in reality anyone past the age of 13 understands that lol

“We don’t have a relationship because you don’t want one.” I didn’t do anything to you dad.

@user-vv2hv1rb3f

Жыл бұрын

I am really sorry to whatever is happening in your life right now, I know you can get through it 🙏 ❤️

@angelsalazar3893

3 ай бұрын

Im sorry to hear. Hope you're well. One love.

@floridaman5125

14 күн бұрын

Did you do anything with him?

@thekatelouise6406

13 күн бұрын

You deserved a better dad. I am sorry. 🖤

“Mom is not coming home, she is dying”- my dad. She passed away 7.5 years ago from cancer. I love and miss you, mom

@afiginetteahado2090

3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss. You're so strong i love you

@sunnystevenson9994

3 жыл бұрын

Have a good day and remember there are good things that happen just look for the good

@elysian8823

3 жыл бұрын

im so sorry! i love you, okay?

@luckycharmasmr4634

3 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺🥺❤️ bless you

@thegamingkids_234

3 жыл бұрын

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!

I had the biggest smile on my face when she said she beat cancer!

@christinam.98

4 жыл бұрын

O yes, and I really hope that it doesn't come back, and that she can live the life she wants

@davidhintz1

4 жыл бұрын

Oh me too! Just wanted to hug her.

@maryannkalo5003

4 жыл бұрын

markalocases jr thank You Jesus

@gozdiigozdii8935

4 жыл бұрын

@@maryannkalo5003 Your Jesus has nothing to do with this

@maryannkalo5003

4 жыл бұрын

Gozdii Gozdii for me... He does :)

"Fix yourself, go see a doctor or something. I don’t know how to deal with you anymore" This was said by a good friend of mine shortly before he ended our friendship. It really hurt me, getting confirmed that I‘m just a burden. Ever since I‘ve became quiet, I tend to not talk about my feelings because I‘m scared I will have to hear those words again.

@justadudewholovestool2457

Жыл бұрын

Stay exactly how you are, or were. Talk to someone. A friend, a trusted family member, hell, even me. I don't know what exactly it is you need, but i may know how to help you, even if it's the tiniest bit. I am here for you, denisa.

@leelaverma5248

Жыл бұрын

awesome

@brycetwyning4436

10 ай бұрын

People will alawys say mean things and sometimes they dont really mean it. Try not to care what other people think or say. The only person who will be with you for the rest of your life and who has always been with you is yourself.

@music0cool

10 ай бұрын

It may be harsh but it may be true, it can be a good wakeup call to change things

@freddiemeyer4563

10 ай бұрын

that person was a lazy freind , dont worry u will meet new freinds in your life that will make u feel good

The teacher who talked about school funding, I loved that. It was so important for her that it was the first thing that came to her mind. That made me very sad and angry that our society does not make education one of the first priorities.

Production manager: “So how close should we put the camera?” Everyone else: “Yes.”

@samruddhi7262

4 жыл бұрын

Big Oof lol yessssss

@edgars.8544

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think they put it next to their face, i think they just zoom in, but still funny!

@noviraamirr

4 жыл бұрын

To capture the emotion i guess

@misssunshine5604

4 жыл бұрын

I hope these people are ok with it and know that they are filming them this close so.

@Hannah_96

4 жыл бұрын

She does this on purpose so you can see their imperfections and their emotions

"A life worth living is not counted by years" Wow

@HeyNcamiHey

4 жыл бұрын

That guy seems extremely intuitive and wise

@jensonneake8887

4 жыл бұрын

Thats be some deep shit lol be interesting to hear peoples answers though

@xerilaun

4 жыл бұрын

🥺

@swisdom9117

4 жыл бұрын

Time stamp?

@izraomar6794

4 жыл бұрын

@@swisdom9117 6:31

i just realized its been a little over 4 years since this video was made. I hope that girl who had cancer lived through it and is living her life to the best

@kt1pl2

3 ай бұрын

Me too.

"I don't care what school taught you, your feelings don't matter" was the thing that caused an eight year old me to tell my mom to ask my dad to stop telling me he loves me because he clearly doesn't. She later told me that he cried when she told him that and my only thought was "good". Its too damn bad that he never figured out that every time he shouted that with that horrendous nails on a chalkboard voice, over a child crying about things like toys being broken, the thing he implied at the end of that sentence was "only mine do"

“Ugh I can’t handle life I need to go throw up” -My mom’s boyfriend mocking me for having an eating disorder when I was 16

@crow_your_beloved

4 жыл бұрын

that is literally disgusting im so sorry :(

@virex8414

4 жыл бұрын

Find peace in God. I struggled for a very long time with an “eating disorder” too. God heals

@littlebear9842

4 жыл бұрын

@@virex8414 amen! Nothing God can't fix if you have faith in Him.

@inthemaking2362

4 жыл бұрын

Omg that's horrible. I hate when people do and say such horrible things because of their ignorance. I'm sorry that happened.

@julialee4180

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks all for the kind words. 5 years later I still struggle but am much better ❤️

“I don’t want her in this family anymore.” -Dad

@ieatpancreas2005

4 жыл бұрын

Aw I'm so sorry you had to hear that❤ just know no matter what you're important and loved❤

@dylankok488

4 жыл бұрын

f

@Abigailissuperswag

4 жыл бұрын

:C

@schirin2385

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for you💕 i had to listen to simular things and even tho I'm still in a really dark place rn things will get better. You deserve more love and care and i really hope you are aware of that 🌈💕

@metal.angell

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so so sorry he said this. You don't deserve this at all! I wish you lots of happiness and I hope you are doing okay. I totally feel this tho. My parents said the same to me, after the doctor told us I have a severe disease..bc I'm a bother for them

It's a toss-up between "We failed as parents" and "You're confused because you were s3xually assaulted last year". Both in response to me coming out as a lesbian. I'm proud of who I am and no one can take that away from me.

@user-md6ft8ky1f

2 жыл бұрын

dont listen to anyone else's opinions about you because the only opinion that matters when it comes to you is yours

@aurora8749

2 жыл бұрын

It often happens that gay people were sexually abused, so they have a point. Really consider it. And it's okay either eay

@proinseasnihanluain4735

2 жыл бұрын

I think some of the energy behind how they reacted might have been from surprise. I hope they have accepted this and you can accept that perhaps their reactions weren't ideal but they don't need to be. You're happy as you are and you're proud of who you are. I just want to say I think it's really good that your parents knew you were assaulted last year, that shows you have a good relationship with them to begin with. I'm sorry that happened to you. It means a lot that you felt you could come out to them at all, a lot of people hide their sexuality from so many people, family and friends and more. I hope things have settled and that you can forgive them for blurting out those comments.

@decristal48

Жыл бұрын

You're proud as you should 💙 Don't deal with anyone's bs and you do you, hope the best for you!

@thechucklingchicken7047

Жыл бұрын

I hope you come to your senses and realize that it’s all fake.

My husband, who generally is a very kind and amazing man, one time very jokingly told me "You ruin everything". I knew it was a joke, and he felt so badly for hurting me. But for whatever reason that has stuck with me every day since.

@ioeee7563

10 ай бұрын

An acquaintance of mine once said: "In every joke, there's a grain of truth." I think, he's quite right about that.

@pessimist6366

7 ай бұрын

A well-wisher of mine recently told me that I've become odd 'coz he's gotten the success in the field in which I failed at the last stage. I've become different 'coz of my own insecurities. I guess it's never easy to make people understand your true thoughts.

@tigerlilybelle1

2 ай бұрын

I’ve had this said to me many times and after so many times, you begin to believe it, even if it’s not true. I’m sorry this happened to you, even if they thought it was a joke 😢

“I’m not your therapist, I don’t care.” - my ex boyfriend when I told him the story of how I developed suicidal thoughts

@mana.a

3 жыл бұрын

Well I care - Ur not alone, watever happens Ur life matters. If it helps, Id give u a big hug.

@dani1215_

3 жыл бұрын

Wrong guy then

@elizabeth7854

3 жыл бұрын

TheAquaticCat My mom when I told her I was depressed: Where are the nearest asilum here ? She needs to be treated.

@Stoic_med

3 жыл бұрын

How can people be so mean?

@jorjapanda1224

3 жыл бұрын

I’m only 10 and I have had suicidal thoughts and my mom found out and she has done nothing

“I’m embarrassed to be with you in public” my cousin said to me when I already have social anxiety and a low self esteem

@Rossoinred

4 жыл бұрын

I hope things got better for you, stay strong!

@KitKat-nf5ev

4 жыл бұрын

Man that really sucks. I’m sending love your way💕

@real_super_nova

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@najajahajahahahaja2220

4 жыл бұрын

Omg that’s terrible to say that to someone.. I hope your feeling better about it stay strong💞

@user-uy7fe2yo7e

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, I have social anxiety and low self esteem and my parents told me that a bunch of times.

My grandpa (who I considered my father) passed away in front of me when I was a kid. In the days after that, whenever I cried about it, my family told me to stop, and called me a crybaby. Eventually I learned to just hide everything.

@kt1pl2

3 ай бұрын

Wow...that's absolutely horrible. Let me guess, you're a guy right? I think it's so toxic that men aren't allowed to express their emotions. You should have been comforted, not ridiculed.

@Caine_west

3 ай бұрын

@@kt1pl2 thank you

“I’ll make you pasta the next time you’re here!” last words my gran told me. she died like a month after my visit. i regret not calling her, not messaging her. i miss her so so much. I love you gramma

Isn’t it interesting how people laugh whilst they are talking about terrible things that have happened to them. Maybe a coping mechanism? That stood out to me.

@ProMrLecoq01

4 жыл бұрын

It definitely is, I did that while at my therapist and she asked me why I was laughing. Im not usually sharing how I feel so I just started laughing when we were talking about how shit my social life has been. It’s a coping skill when you’re surprised and don’t know what to do or say

@ninasaletta2732

4 жыл бұрын

I believe it’s something people do when they’re uncomfortable talking about something bad/traumatic that happened to them

@gretastahl5597

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed, it stands out to me as well. I feel like they don't want others to pity them, or they want to act like they're ok, they want to handle it themselves. I think its, sometimes, a false sign of ease.

@gretastahl5597

4 жыл бұрын

Like an attempt to lighten the situation and to make it "ok." They're definitely uncomfortable.

@anarolon6998

4 жыл бұрын

It is nervousness, it happens to me all the time. Telling something terrible makes me fell awkward, maybe it's the same for them. When I found out my grandpa died I had to tell my brother and I was kinda laughing and it was because I was nervous. Hope that makes sense 👍🏼

“he is no longer with us now” - school principle on a close friends suicide when we were 17

@listerinebottle63

4 жыл бұрын

😕

@jokutyyppi4226

4 жыл бұрын

@@listerinebottle63 what do you mean?

@knower1514

4 жыл бұрын

Ouch, frick

@kidMONSTERISH

4 жыл бұрын

this happened to me too, exact same words, and same age

@sastina6714

4 жыл бұрын

@@jokutyyppi4226 its an emotion

"people die, it's just a part of life" -Mom. My mom said this to me and I remember after she said that I really put thought into it and realized that I don't even know how I'm going to deal with my mother being gone one day, it terrifies till this day. I don't want to loose my mom, I love her so dearly :(

Anyone who sees this comment I am sorry for whatever you have seen or heard. I hope you get back from whatever you are going through. Do not care about other people's opinions of you. When you do not care what other people care about life is easier. Life is hard it is an undeniable fact. I hope you are all doing well. Good luck And God bless

this comment section is making me realize how many awful people there are in this world :(

@cleoblackbird2210

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr like damn I thought what happened to me was bad

@hopeh6176

3 жыл бұрын

But look at all the likes 💖 Stay positive be blessed. Nasty people love to have a platform

@vss6467

3 жыл бұрын

Damn

@gorillatrading5452

3 жыл бұрын

Stay positive, my friends. A balance must exist between the truly amazing and the truly evil. Be the light you wish to see in the world. Dont let these fuckers bring you down. Fight until the day you die. Struggle and scrape and fight and push. You have people to prove wrong. I know I do.

@nobodysbaby5048

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, A really good vignette of the viciousness that's out there.

“Your not depressed your just dramatic” - I physically hate the word dramatic it makes me sick

@user6627

3 жыл бұрын

i know what you mean

@LilymcSummer

3 жыл бұрын

Can relate “You’re being overdramatic” No, actually, I’m being under dramatic, you just don’t understand at all...

@Lynn-fy6xj

3 жыл бұрын

@@LilymcSummer they really don't understand trying to hold bricks together with an Elmer's glue stick

@suzanasathya7653

3 жыл бұрын

I understand that

@jennabrown8365

3 жыл бұрын

This...so much 😭❤️

I think one thing I wish I'd never heard was someone I thought was becoming my friend say that I was 'weird' in a casual, off-handed way (and not in a positive way). It really crushed me and my confidence was shot for years after, making it practically impossible to make friends at university because of that thought sticking in my head that everyone was thinking that.

"If you want, I'm willing to apologize and make amends. As long as you are willing to do the same..." A text I received half a year later from my (no longer) best friend of over a decade that sexually assaulted me. This event was the hardest thing I had ever tried to overcome in my life and completely fucked me up mentally even to this day. And to be reminded of what happened so directly by this text message made everything worse. I wish I never received this message showing me that this person was still trying to contact me after the most fucked up thing I have ever experienced. It made me feel like this person has no remorse for what they had done and for whatever reason thought we could be friends again after it happened. It made me view the entire situation in a completely different light, and especially when I was still trying to overcome what had happened. If you have ever experienced something similar to this, please get help. I didn't and I made some very, very bad decisions I will regret for the rest of my life. Trying to battle something like this alone is the worst thing you can put yourself through and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If anyone read this, I appreciate you taking the time. Enjoy what you can in life, even if you feel like you've hit rock bottom, it can only get better from there.

"Did you seduce him?" When I finally mustered up the courage to tell my mom about being sexually molested by a trusted family member for most of my childhood years since I was 5. I was 5... How could I? Never felt more alone in my life.

@golden.fire.princess9653

4 жыл бұрын

Bobbeline I’m so sorry... if you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here. You’re very strong, thank you for sharing ❤️

@sav-prodigy5571

4 жыл бұрын

Im here also ♥️

@jkiture

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry

@44dickens44

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the kind replies :") ❤️ I'm better now :> the video just sparked a momentary sadness but I've learnt to let it go 😌 Time and forgiveness really helped me heal. Really, don't worry about me :> Thank you guys✨

@beccaswoorld

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry... It's not your fault and will never be. Hug💙

“Look what we have here, a depressed and suicidal kid after giving them an amazing life, how ungrateful” - mom Edit: I'm way better now, in a better place and happier, thank you for all the support

@brimuffins6155

3 жыл бұрын

That's a great profile picture my dude

@thenbhdgirlie

3 жыл бұрын

i love how they always think that they’re right and we’re wrong

@brimuffins6155

3 жыл бұрын

@@thenbhdgirlie Do you happen to like Star vs. The Forces of Evil?

@alexadansereau3701

3 жыл бұрын

@@brimuffins6155 It's wonderful isn't it?

@Jakknifed

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me when I was a kid. My parents never even bothered worrying until I attempted suicide.

When I was 7, my dad was in the hospital and after a few days, my mom brought us all into the room. "His heart stopped beating, and he died." I remember her tone, voice, expression, everything. It felt like the world froze. I just stopped thinking, but the silence was a killer, too. It was painful. I wanted to cry, to sob, to scream, but I didn't. It hurts to know that I can't talk to him ever again, because in the moment it felt unreal. It fills you with regret, y'know?

@tannergatto7633

5 ай бұрын

I felt the exact same when I got the news that my grandfather died. I think was about 14-15 and the details of that day are foggy but the moment my mother told me “he has irreversible brain damage and won’t make it through the night” is burned into my mind. My mom hugged me and it felt like it lasted hours, I ceased having logical thought, my world just shattered. Though I wasn’t quiet it’s exactly as you mentioned every time i would stop to take a breath from crying, the silence was overwhelming it felt like being underwater.

@Kouddii

5 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you were able to recover mentally from that experience. Thank you for sharing this.@@tannergatto7633

Another easy one... The horribly disgusting sound that came out of my mother's mouth when I had to tell her over the phone that my brother her baby son had just passed away. Thank you very much for asking and listening.

"We don't have time for that, you have school." - My mom, when I begged to go to my best friends funeral at the age of 12 after finding out they'd been shot and killed in an accidental shooting. The funeral was out of town and my parents decided that me going to the funeral was an inconvenience to them and also I would have to take time away from school, which they said was more important. I promptly failed all my classes that year, so...

@spacebear238

4 жыл бұрын

Neru Vadsi Your Mom is an awful person.

@KitKat-nf5ev

4 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry you had to endure such a loss, and it was probably just salt in the wound to have to endure this too. Sometimes parents can be so selfish and not look beyond themselves for the wellbeing of their children. I’m sending love your way💕💕

@afishwithagun2190

4 жыл бұрын

I call bs.

@user-bl3fl7cu7p

4 жыл бұрын

@@afishwithagun2190 🖕

@rolphahl7515

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-bl3fl7cu7p 😳

“ if your father ever gets a heart attack and dies, it’ll be all your fault “ - mom

@typicalcookies8123

3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry she's so wrong x

@valeriemenendez8676

3 жыл бұрын

the same thing happend to me except that my mom told me if she died it would be my fault :(

@den861

3 жыл бұрын

My father says the same thing about himself. "When I ever get sick and die, it will all be your and your sister's fault." I hate to hear that he's not the only one saying shit like this.

@elysian8823

3 жыл бұрын

Dont let her words get to you! You are strong and loved and I am here for you!

@angelabenton1002

3 жыл бұрын

Pls. Go and hug your dad .

“ Did you know that dad never loved you “ - i don’t think any child needs to hear this at the age of 9 or any age for a matter of fact

@angelsalazar3893

3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you heard that. Hope all is well in your world. One love.

Not necessarily these words that I wish I didn't hear, but they are the words that come to the front of my mind when I heard this question. "Will absolutely see you there". Last words sent to me by the very first friend I made when I moved at the age of 4. I had not seen him in person for a long time because of separating social circles, pandemic, etc. This was the last message of a conversation where I said I was so excited to see him at our High School graduation in a month or so... He was found dead a few weeks before graduation due to complications with diabetes he had developed a long time ago. I never thought it would catch up with him. He was a really healthy, athletic, genuine guy, and I am still heartbroken now a year and a half later that I hardly ever spoke with him for so long despite us being great friends for most of our entire lives. It really tore up our small town, showed me how many lives just one person touches. Rest in Peace RIffe, If I make it up there I can't wait to see you again.

@w3irdthings935

Жыл бұрын

Rest in peace

“No one likes chubby people” “you are a fatto” “it’s how I say that I love her” “it’s just a joke.” -my family It hurts more because I was not over weight at all.

@aleme1306

4 жыл бұрын

don't listen to them💜 you're beautiful and amazing!! Stay stong my love💗💜 I'm sending you my support

@winniemaereact1391

3 жыл бұрын

I get that... I always got remarks on my body when I was a kid (by other kids and even sometimes my parents)... Now I have an ED and when I look back, my body was perfectly fine

@maverickjames6119

3 жыл бұрын

this makes me so incredibly angry. your family better have health insurance cuz im coming over there to smash them with my fuking ukulele. do these people not understand what an ed is??? like jesus christ

@savanaadolphsen9245

3 жыл бұрын

Emjee CB literlly same here. I see pictures of how I looked when they made those comments to me and it breaks my heart. I looked great and now I have an ED because of it 🙃

@ciara6138

3 жыл бұрын

Don't listen to them❤ them people are just jealous of you❤🥺

Mom:”I stayed with your father even after he beaten me, threaten me, cheated on me because I wanted you guys to have a father” This broke my heart because my mother suffered a lot. She could have been with someone that makes her happy and safe. My dad has gotten help from the church 6 years back. He’s better than he was, and I love him. But I will never forget what he has done to my mother. :/

@sasy1533

4 жыл бұрын

It really messes you up... Because you realice the reason of her suffering is basically... You. My situation scarily similar. My dad is been good for two three years, but the trauma of all that happened doesn't let my mom live her life to the fullest

@xr._cele_.ry22

4 жыл бұрын

Replying to this is like crazy because sadly my father hasn't changed. He stopped physical stuff but the stuff he can say hurts more than any hits. Can't say I love him but I do have hope he will get better before it's too late. My mom got stronger though and started defending herself :) I'm happy for u dear that ur dad changed 💖

@yassqueen3904

4 жыл бұрын

My mom finally broke up with my dad but he is still threatening my my and the people that is involved my mom saying that she is still his legal wife and he could be with my mom until he die He isn't even inlove with her. HE JUST WANTS MY MOM TO HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE

@gracethomas8610

4 жыл бұрын

I love ur mom

@julianarose3060

4 жыл бұрын

omg.. i can’t even tell you how much i can relate. my dad cheated on my mom and was abusive as well. if you ever need someone to talk to i am here.

I had been struggling with depression for years but the last few months had become soul sucking. I finally asked my parents to help and take me to a doctor.. they said yes, I had never felt such relief, I heard them taking later on that they weren’t going to take me to a doctor and that I was just lying for attention… I don’t trust my parents the same way I did before, I realised I’m on my own until I die…

@Planck944

9 ай бұрын

Stay strong. Keep moving

@misterC.R.A.F.T.

7 ай бұрын

You are not alone. There are others out there like you I promise you. If you need a friend im here.

I wish I never heard my mom tell me my brother was going to do better than me and that I was not going to accomplish anything. For the longest time I resented my brother because of it and I wish I had known better and not allowed that to ruin my relationship with him. We are in a much better relationship and we connect a lot more than we used to. I feel that her telling me that had discouraged me from wanting to be better so many times but here I am now with my bachelor’s degree and going for my second bachelor’s. You can do anything you put your mind into, don’t let what someone says make you believe you can’t do it.

“Your brother was in a shooting.” He’s okay, but I cannot imagine life without him. He’s a navy pilot in training. I love him so much.

@marandachapman8650

4 жыл бұрын

God bless YOU and thank your brother ❤

@sitrewvien2518

4 жыл бұрын

Pleb, not to down your story but I am so incredibly happy that your brother is still with us. My sister was lost in a domestic violence shooting in 2017 and I’ve had the largest hole in my heart since.

@lengb4831

4 жыл бұрын

Nathan Reed i hope you are okay after that tragic incident, may that stupid shooter rot in a jail cell for the rest of their life ❤️❤️lots of love!!!❤️❤️💕💕💕💕❤️❤️

@angrycactus158

4 жыл бұрын

This comment took my breath away. We are so so so grateful for your brothers service.

@dr3am3rs

4 жыл бұрын

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idk why “you’re not college material” hurt me the most

@rcgroundzero

4 жыл бұрын

it’s always insulting to have your intellect (or capacity thereof) undermined, but they’re not the reason you get from point A to B, disregard and proceed to succeed. Corny but somebody will need to see this somewhere 🤷‍♂️ - wisdom of groggy ass premed

@nedas2195

4 жыл бұрын

That basically means someo e called u stupid in a different way

@Niqquhchris6

4 жыл бұрын

Nadine's ASMR you go Nadine!

@melissabelleza1

4 жыл бұрын

Dude the sameeee

@kuruneel1809

4 жыл бұрын

not too long ago i thought about changing majors and university/city and i talked to a lot of people. this one friend told me it wasnt something she could imagine me doing which hurt a bit

Three things I wish I never heard - about ten years ago my mom told me that when I was born my dad didn't want me, he told my mom to take me and leave, at first I thought it was taken out of context, but so many things were starting to make sense. My older brother was always favored by both of my parents. In 2009 my dad told me and my brother that my brother was going to be the only one to inherit from him. He passed away last year, he kept true to his word that I wouldn't inherit. But I think the worst thing for me was that about 3 years ago he told me that he didn't need me in his life and so we didn't speak until a month before he passed. I still have no answers as to why he felt this way about me.

@proinseasnihanluain4735

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through that. I wonder did he question if he was your biological father?

@Willy_Warmer

6 ай бұрын

@@proinseasnihanluain4735 that's probably the most likely answer tbh

@bombay3201

6 ай бұрын

Omg I'm so sorry you went through that I know the pain of rejection

I'll be right back -my mom to me and my older sister when we were really young. She left us at a child services center to be put into like a foster care system.

This is proof that Every Stranger has a story behind them

@Rayan-kf2yf

4 жыл бұрын

Actually... Every *thing* has a story behind it

@Ruzovy_

4 жыл бұрын

@@Rayan-kf2yf my piece of shit floating in the toilet rn

@meerabzaidi9445

4 жыл бұрын

Everyone has hard times

@Rayan-kf2yf

4 жыл бұрын

lorinamae • yep that thing as well The atory comes from the very first animal/plant depending on what u ate

@shutup9460

4 жыл бұрын

lorinamae • 👏👏👏

“She’s so annoying I kinda wish we weren’t friends” -my “best friend” talking about me to someone else :/

@greyarea805

4 жыл бұрын

Time for a new friend With how many people are lonely there’s always room for another friend

@shetto

4 жыл бұрын

Dont be annoying then

@peacecookie34

4 жыл бұрын

she isn’t your best friend. get a new one 💕💕

@yourdisappointedmother4326

4 жыл бұрын

First time

@kate-gn9eo

4 жыл бұрын

That’s not a true friend, you deserve better

I asked my husband.. "what will we do if we can never have kids?" And he said, "I guess just live life without meaning." It broke my heart.

@agnieszkabroniarek8271

7 ай бұрын

Your life will always has a meaning.

@kt1pl2

3 ай бұрын

Our son recently left the nest and I was thinking about this. If you can't have kids they have Big Brother/Big Sisters. Maybe he could mentor a kid that really needs him.

"KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURSELF!" -my mum when I was seven and lost control of my anger in an argument with my brother's friend during the drive to school; as an autistic kid, I was always confused by vocal delivery/tone of voice and controlling my emotions when speaking was really difficult. Hearing mum getting angry at me repeatedly for honestly speaking my mind just made me fear I should never speak up/have my own opinion at all or people would always scare/hurt/threaten me for being disrespectful. "Respect is earned, not given" is another one, especially since she used it after she responded to my disrespect by yelling/hurting me back. It made me worry I never deserved to be treated nicely or with basic decency- because all I could understand was that I didn't already deserve respect and love, and never would if I couldn't somehow figure out what this weird dubious concept of "respect" actually meant. All it seemed to mean was completely silent obedience to authority and a whole lot of self-minimising people pleasing. To this day, I still struggle with overwhelming confusion about what/how I really deserve to be treated by others, and I always worry it'll never be good.

@stephanieandriamanantena2383

Жыл бұрын

Hi! I just really wanted to answer this. It is really important that you know that none of what she said is true. If you have to cling to one thing, cling to this: you are entitled to as much space in this world as the next person. No one can tell you the space your are taking up is an incumbrance. You don't owe it to anyone to put their comfort first. Speak your mind. Laugh out loud if you think something is funny. Tell the people when they are being inconsiderate towards you. Your feelings matter, just as much as anyone's. You know, there are no absolute truths. No one dictates the rules. We're just all on the same footing. And you are entitled to as much space as anyone else.

@pria7538

11 ай бұрын

It sounds like she was genuinely trying to raise you and teach boundaries. You stated yourself that you were yelling at her when she made the statement about respect. Not sure what happens in your head but maybe some self evaluation is needed.

@Ninsidhe

3 ай бұрын

@@pria7538 it really sounds like you have no idea of actual healthy parenting. Maybe don’t comment on the experience of Autistics if you don’t comprehend what being Autistic is like. Hitting someone for hitting someone is not teaching that hitting is wrong, it’s just teaching _who_ gets to hit others. Same with yelling, saying terrible things etc- parents demanding that children behave better than THEY do is hypocrisy of the first order.

@pria7538

3 ай бұрын

@@Ninsidhe Umm, my best friends son was diagnosed with autism and retardation and my brother-in-law is also handicapped. Maybe YOU shouldn't speak to things YOU don't know. With that said, that old adage of "hitting or yelling only teaches the behavior" is an opinion, a theory at best. Kids start hitting as soon as they can swing their arms, without provocation. And having been on the planet for quite some time, I've seen PLENTY of kids who were NEVER spanked and will curse and hit the hell out of their parents. Some will even kill them. So miss with that nonsense. Please accept you have a theory and I likely have greater experience. Especially have raised three of my own. OR NOT. I couldn't care less. His mother was right and hopefully one day he sees it. If not, he might end on the street and hopefully you're there to provide him shelter.

“ Dad is in the hospital. He had a heart attack”. Don’t worry guys, he’s still alive and doing well

@meep9963

4 жыл бұрын

Oh!?

@lxmon4137

4 жыл бұрын

Wait, really? How'd you know? I'm glad he's alive and well!

@graceonthebus8103

4 жыл бұрын

How u know him

@FreakRaider

4 жыл бұрын

Literally got the same call twice before as well

@forestmartin3324

4 жыл бұрын

《berřýçhii》 thank you

I wish I never heard: "the only time I've ever lied to you is when I told you I loved you"

@blackbeltufc439

4 жыл бұрын

Jeez that's mad

@xoSamLovesYou

4 жыл бұрын

@@blackbeltufc439 yup... one of the worst feelings i have ever felt

@xoSamLovesYou

4 жыл бұрын

@Blosh3 hmm... I'm still with him. We've been on and off for the past 5 months. I've got that mindset where i love him so much, I'd just let him treat me whatever way he wants...

@xoSamLovesYou

4 жыл бұрын

@Blosh3 i guess i should do that

@arcticrebekah8930

4 жыл бұрын

Sam x I totally understand that mindset it sucks so bad me and my bf recently broke up and I feel so much better now that I don’t have him dragging me down it’s hard but worth it

Last week I overheard my mom tell her best friend that if she didn’t have kids she would’ve killed herself by now, and she told my dad that she wanted to commit suicide but couldn’t because she knew we needed her. It absolutely broke my heart.

"I am ashame that you are part of our family".. some of my relatives told me this when I came out as lesbian, it hit hard because these people respected and were proud of me before I came out, although my immediate family, my mom and siblings were accepting, I just could not ignore the pain of realising how shallow the love of my distant relatives for me. I understand they did not expected it because I am femme and I kinda knew they might respond that way, but I just did not knew it would feel painful, I just thought it will be less painful if I was mentally prepared but it did not worked.

@viridianacortes9642

8 ай бұрын

Oh honey I’m sorry. I hope everything is okay now. Just know you are valid and everything is okay. You are okay.

@cocoslangos

5 ай бұрын

Keep it for urself?

@kt1pl2

3 ай бұрын

Your family are the people that are supposed to have your back no matter what. I can see how them saying this would hurt you. (((hugs)))

"I took his pop tarts" This comment section is depressing , i'm just tryna cheer you up

@__saigikus

4 жыл бұрын

bro that caught me off guard and i started wheezing-

@lakshvini8181

4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@andreibobdemei

4 жыл бұрын

Your profile pic IS depression.

@chickentamales6837

4 жыл бұрын

This one made me the saddest

@kimberlynliquet4166

4 жыл бұрын

I wish I never heard trump again jokes don’t come for me trumpers

“i kinda had a bad childhood” *laughs nervously* its so sad because thats the only copising mechanisms we have:/

@chlorophyllheart

3 жыл бұрын

Well, laughing or crying, so two mechanisms. Humans are odd beings.

Every time I was told “you’re lazy” or “why can’t you just pay attention?” I’m currently 20 and still deal with ADHD, went through many medications and struggle to fully control my ADHD… it hurts to hear people tell me those things because it makes me feel like I’m not trying hard enough

@krlorigami

6 ай бұрын

Me too. "that's not an ADHD thing, that's a you being lazy thing" from my dad is really hard to hear. That was said a while ago but has stuck with me since

@kt1pl2

3 ай бұрын

My son's also twenty. (((hugs)))

For me it was "People may look nice, but they're not always good people." This just changed my entire perspective about people. I tought the world was a happy place, but it was all a big pain. Everyone is constantly batteling to be better than anyone else. Or trying ro ruin something for someone else to make themselves feel better. I don't know how people can be like that. I know there are nice people among, but if you try to be nice you get pushed away by society. I don't even get space to walk when there is much room. I am always the person who has to go out of the way. I was bullied back in the days, and this made it even worse. I didn't trust anyone, I had no friends, and didn't want to go to school. I failed a really important test, becouse I wanted to go away. Later I picked it up again, but my trust is still gone. How people treat eachother is just painfull to watch, and makes me think: "Why am I here"

“Your brother passed away in a car accident early this morning.” Shifted my entire life..

@elsaberisha6452

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing good.

@vic.664

3 жыл бұрын

i lost my two brothers in one week, one was in a car accident and one got killed, im so sorry for your loss and we'll get better just have to be strong a little longer , youre in my prayers

@emilywylupek5294

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks y’all for the prayers, I appreciate all of them. ❤️ Life has been up and down since then. This happened my senior year of high school, I ended up graduating anyway, and still a year early at 17 like I planned. Now I’m about to graduate college in May 🎓

@Techie1224

3 жыл бұрын

@@emilywylupek5294 go ahead, what are you looking to study ??

@nikkilouise7899

3 жыл бұрын

I lost my brother in a car accident too. I'm sorry for all of your losses. It's been 2 and 1/2 years for me. Still hurts just as It was day 1.

Another question could be “What do you miss about being a kid?”

@BijBijTCG

4 жыл бұрын

I think most answers will be the same(if they had a abuse free childhood)

@shkurterestelica143

4 жыл бұрын

B .S Could be but not necessarily

@JustAnotherLondoner

4 жыл бұрын

@@BijBijTCG what would most people answer do you think?

@mamedia1582

4 жыл бұрын

Having a dad

@irisbitchesz123

4 жыл бұрын

Being oblivious to the pain everyone goes through

"Life sucks and then you die" I heard this over and over again all the time as a child and it really influenced my cynical view of the world and has made it difficult to care about anything around me. At this point during my life its been drilled into my beliefs so almost everything feels like a waste of time.

@krlorigami

6 ай бұрын

Fair. I reccommend "we can be anything" by baby queen (song) that talks about this, if nothing matters then do whatever you want

@yemi28983

5 ай бұрын

Well, sometimes, Life's a bitch and then you keep living, you know ?

@provoscarf6466

5 ай бұрын

I had this viewpoint when I was younger, and that was difficult to overcome. I almost tried something that would hurt myself. Thankfully I didn’t, and now I am on a path that can lead me to my dream. Giving up is what life wants you to do. Don’t listen to it, and create a path from the opportunities you are given. Good luck to everyone.

Years ago, as a teenager (I'm 59 now). My dad said I was too stupid to go to college. I went to college at 27 yrs as a single mom and did it all on my own. I received my Bachelor of Science degree in my mid 30's. As I was graduating, my sister told our dad "look dad, their's your daughter graduating... you know, the one you said was stupid." I never asked him to help me for school. I am happy I was able to bring my children to see me. It doesn't hurt anymore. When my children were of ago, neither one wanted to go to college. I did offer to pay for any schooling or trade school. Always encourage your children for achievements. 👍

“You’re choosing to be sad.” “Aw, is it cry-time now, you little baby?” -My parents, despite me suffering from depression

@janabucekova7819

4 жыл бұрын

ᖇᗩᗰEᑎᑕOOᑎ im sorry to hear that, it must be terrible. I hope you’ll feel better soon.

@eldritch_friend

4 жыл бұрын

Kawaii Master Thank you, ill be okay. I only have to spend a couple more years with them lmao

@eldritch_friend

4 жыл бұрын

Richtofen How??? You cant choose to not be depressed????

@federicavalentini5615

4 жыл бұрын

Don't feed the troll , it's just some idiot searching for attention, you can't be "less depressed" I am clinical depressed too, I know how it is, it's shitty when people don't understand, hold on.

@RanitaFrowilmL

4 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry this happens to you as well, I can’t talk about my depression with my parents because all they will tell me is that I am choosing to feel this way, which doesn’t make sense at all. I understand that there are ways to feel a little bit better or distract ourselves from depression, but when we try to talk about it with someone all we need is their support.

"You're useless, a disappointment. You're never going to find someone who truly loves you, any boyfriend you'll have is gonna cheat on you anyway" - Mom and Dad ❤️

@Mia-xx4tm

3 жыл бұрын

@nirujah s Thank you so much... I hope so, at least I'm really trying!

@caseyvallis

3 жыл бұрын

I can in fact, relate to this one 💔😭

@paige7761

3 жыл бұрын

dont worry baby, things will get better

@freehuggos7766

3 жыл бұрын

you'll find someone as amazing as you for sure

@crybaby684

3 жыл бұрын

stay strong

8:23 that child is so sweet and intelligent, looking out for his younger brother💕 He's going to do great things

My mom saying she felt like she was a failure as a mother when I told her and my dad about wanting to take a break from college. It really hurt because they're relatively positive about mental health and it makes me forget sometimes how intense they are about academic achievements and being productive and useful. I honestly felt like a huge disappointment, like it was all my fault for not being enough. My dad started going on about okay, I can take a break, but then I'll probably won't be able to do much or anything at all "since I already struggled so hard with my classes." All of their reactions made me feel like shit, but my mother's felt worse. Im back home and in better terms with them, and like they asked I found a job (which my mom still criticized because its working from home). I really love them! But they come from such outstanding "top of their class" (+ the expectations their parents also had) backgrounds that they expect that from me. ¡I can't give them that!

"mental illness is the work of the devil and you should just pray" - mom

@trucywrightirl

4 жыл бұрын

That is messed up-

@cringeman4199

4 жыл бұрын

@@trucywrightirl how is that messed up? Its true

@cringeman4199

4 жыл бұрын

Yup

@trucywrightirl

4 жыл бұрын

@@cringeman4199 Wdym it's true- ಠ_ಠ

@jessebrickley1395

4 жыл бұрын

Broken Infinities the devil wants you to feel depressed to feel as if you got no worth so you can slip away from God. It’s so important to pray just before you sleep and when you wake up. One takes a moment of your time. Stay safe and God bless

I asked my mom what hospice was. Tearfully, she replied, “I’m dying Jules...” She passed away a week later. She passed away from colon cancer when she was 42 in 2014. I was only 14. I miss her everyday.

@bella-rx3yc

3 жыл бұрын

i’m so so sorry i can’t even begin to imagine how heartbreaking losing someone so close to you must have been

@SS-qd3ow

3 жыл бұрын

This comment hurts 😞. I’m so sorry , I don’t know the feeling but the short experience you shared brought me to tears...

@crowmedicine3890

3 жыл бұрын

That's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you have to be without your mom.

@arthurjackson3287

3 жыл бұрын

May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace...

@ballknocka0001

3 жыл бұрын

💔💗💔💗💔💗 that is definitely a heartbreaking moment & you are not alone!

"Are you crazy?" -my mom I was lying on the couch and I guess she seen up my sleeve and my arm was covered in deep scratches, self inflicted and she went on to ask me multiple questions including the one above. I don't know why she felt the need to do that since she had attempted suicide when she was 14.

These type of interviews r highly appreciated. Thank you for these these efforts. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

“I wish I never heard about racism.” Feels.

@pheladidikgale1071

4 жыл бұрын

NONYA Business uhm. A preference for a certain group of people?

@pheladidikgale1071

4 жыл бұрын

NONYA Business yeah that’s pretty racist. You’re basically saying that all people with a certain skin color are the same and you don’t “prefer” all of them because there’s something about them you don’t like.

@pheladidikgale1071

4 жыл бұрын

NONYA Business that’s unarguably racist. But if you have no problem with being racist, then okay.

@nes1309

4 жыл бұрын

NONYA Business There is a difference between having a preference and being racist. Do you think it’s okay for people to stare at you weirdly and say bad things because you have a different race than them? People that have a preference for a specific race are not immediately racist, those are two different things.

@andreipop5805

4 жыл бұрын

@@pheladidikgale1071 dude, I prefer green-eyed girls more than other color. Does that mean I wouldn't want to be toghether with a girl of another eye color? Of course not. That's silly. But I'll alwais find green-eyed girls mkre attractive. It's just how we are build. This is pretty much what @NONYA business said.

“Hey, your brother was found dead at home in his bedroom. He killed himself” -The police man explaining to me how my own brother killed himself. You always were my favorite sibling bro bro

@st0nzd3m0n

3 жыл бұрын

Rest In Peace I don’t know him but I know this pain not the way you did I’m so sorry he will be dearly missed

@Rose-zz8wl

3 жыл бұрын

he’s in a better place trust me make him proud and give ur other siblings love too! he loves u the way u do, i’m sorry

@zebraislife979

3 жыл бұрын

Rip

@geraldinechadwick130

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss and sorry for the policemans insensitive way of delivering such devastating news. Much love.

@ParkJimin-co8jz

3 жыл бұрын

Rest in peace, don't worry, he's in a better place now, stay strong

Things so many of us completely understand. Thank You Thoraya and those kind souls that shared.

It always amazes me to remember that some people have NO idea the pain some walk around with. People always assume that smiling and laughing means you are happy, half the time it’s just an act to make others feel better. You have no idea the constant deep thoughts that are there all the time. I’m so happy though that some don’t know that pain. ❤️

“Nobody wants you, your dad didn’t want you your grandparents didn’t want you, I don’t want you” thanks mom such sweet words I don’t deserve such praise 😌

@aurorab8202

3 жыл бұрын

Oof I should mention don’t feel bad for me, I’ve made my peace with everything, forgiveness is key❤️

@thegamingkids_234

3 жыл бұрын

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!

@mohammadsarker648

3 жыл бұрын

I hope your doing better!💝

@mohammadsarker648

3 жыл бұрын

@Nicolas CHAPARRO I hope your feeling better!!! Sending a virtual hug!

@mikestyles83

3 жыл бұрын

I feel that so much and I emphasize. Im sorry you had to experience that, but just keep onwards and upwards even if it is to show them wrong. Much Loves

Aww the kid who wish he'd never heard Santa isn't real is adorable 🎅

@jesuislapluie695

4 жыл бұрын

❤️😊

@Deus_Almighty

4 жыл бұрын

He said the opposite ;D

@christinam.98

4 жыл бұрын

Yes he is, and by the way, he is such a real smart kid! Omg, he's a real genius I guess. Hope he's doing well in the future and gets what he wants out of his life.

@ss9329

4 жыл бұрын

@@Deus_Almighty True 🙃

@lavans06

4 жыл бұрын

lmao...kid needs to see the movie Santa Claus [1,2,3] of how he gets to houses without a chimney :) lol

i love speaking with elderly people. they have so many interesting stories and they have so much passion, its lovely.

This channel is such a window to a humanity we forget exists, the heart and souls of others. The effect you have on others can be life changing.

@angelsalazar3893

3 ай бұрын

I love this comment.

"Your brother is in the hospital, he attempted suicide." Literally the worst words I heard as a 11 years old boy, knowing that I was apart of his attempted suicide.

@florisvanoverdam2083

4 жыл бұрын

I know how thats feels and that is the most heartbreaking feeling stay strong❤❤

@lecapo368

4 жыл бұрын

zoe eoz good idea help a brotha out 💯

“How can that still affect you?” 7 years after I was sexual assaulted when I was 9

@dhikradouifi6533

4 жыл бұрын

omg stay strong

@devonquin

4 жыл бұрын

I still got that - from the people who refused to help me - 20 years later. Because *they* "couldn't do it." They never cared, except for how it affected them. I guess it should be sad that "they" were my parents, but I guess that it's not so uncommon anymore.

@yoongisbicep

4 жыл бұрын

someone said to me "that's what couples do, what were you expecting?" because I just started dating the man who assaulted me.

@axserwz5022

4 жыл бұрын

That's so sad, I'm sorry you had to hear that, there's no age that you should stop being affected by that at, but I do hope that you get over this and are able to move on and grow🤗

@eddietasker9110

4 жыл бұрын

I know that feeling my friend, someone even told me I was lying. People can be such arse holes at times.

this isn't really one thing, it's kind of a bunch of things related to each other. i never wanted to hear people saying, 'woah, you're so smart and good at this! i wish i could be like you!' because yes, at those moments, i do feel invigorated and happy, grateful for the compliments. but some time later, ill feel pressured to do the work to the same standard again or even higher. im always left somewhere else until im the last one, heavily relied upon in those moments and only noticed when i achieve some great, mighty goal. i think its partially my fault though, making the standards i want to reach myself higher than the ones expected from me. while i know that, i still do it. i dont know why.

"Stop making people conform to your 'ways'" , "What you assume I did is wrong and I can't believe you'd tear apart what I did to you growing up just to make your childhood bad" Both from my mom, the first being when I came out as nonbinary to her. Second is right before I became estranged from her after a long argument about me being open about my adoption.

"Your mom went to the hospital last night." "She didn't make it." If you ever wondered if you could spiritually die...that was it for me.

@kate-gn9eo

4 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry, losing someone like that is heartbreaking, just now she’s looking after you in heaven and that she’ll always be with you ❤️

@Abcd-sl1mf

4 жыл бұрын

So sorry man! Genuinely don't know what I'd do if I ever heard this.

@Daniel-uy5uh

4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@morganismism

4 жыл бұрын

My father was in the hospital for years, they gave us too much hope. He was so weak, back and forth to the hospital until he had to practically live there. It hurts man, my own mother telling my dad is gone.

@rb13atgm

4 жыл бұрын

my mom was in the hospital for 2 weeks. she had started radiation treatment for cancer the doctors caught early and she got sick with pneumonia. radiation weakened her immune system. we held our breath for 2 weeks praying she would oull through. they put her in a medically indiced coma cause she couldnt breathe on her own. was at the hospitsl the day she died. i had come from out of town to see her. she was already in the coma by the time i made it there. my brother and i left the hospitsl to get dinner. went back to my hotel to get some things and change. was driving back to the hospitsl when i got a call from my brother. i answered the phone to hear time of death is 8.35. she's gone. mom's gone. found out she went into sudden cardiac arrest. its been 10 months. and i ztl haven't foind the will to live again

on my way to the hospital after a suicide attempt my “mother” said , “we aren’t taking you because we care, we’re taking you because we have to” i’ll never forget that

@MikaMoonlight

4 жыл бұрын

That's the most horrible thing ever >:( Hope you get to live with people who truly values you, soon. Stay strong!

@kitkat70453

4 жыл бұрын

i can’t imagine how hard that must have hit you i am so sorry

@leoneabbacchio2098

4 жыл бұрын

Gis your address bro I just wanna talk with her 😤 that's not okay

@elmariajin3369

4 жыл бұрын

That's messed up, I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I want you to know that theres people who do care, I care. Please please please stay strong, i know that wont mean much coming from a stranger but I honestly wish you the best and dont want anything bad to happen to you, she doesn't deserve you

@Mike-mm8gg

4 жыл бұрын

Where is your "mother" right now? I wanna talk

A teacher of mine once told me his father said "you where supposed to become a stain on the bedsheet" he's honestly an amazing teacher and it really makes me sad when I think of it.

"cosmo is a dog's name" - my grandmother I chose my name, Cosmo, because it spoke to me, I had never heard it used as a dogs name before. I just loved it, it popped in my head one night and I decided it was now my name. I wish my grandma never said that she hates the name that means so much to me.

“Your sister is much more beautiful than you.” - Dad. It’s not the worst thing I’ve heard but it hurt me badly anyway.

@Cloud9crown

4 жыл бұрын

😳 well, sis, you’re beautiful. That sucks for a dad to say, but sometimes family does that 😕

@ultraboombean

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah not something your dad needs to say to you. Oof

@justsnortingbutt7821

4 жыл бұрын

quick question but i think this needs to be said... is she

@mayonees6675

4 жыл бұрын

Ekene Anamanya at least, if people like you, they like YOU

@melissabunnyhat

4 жыл бұрын

Ekene Anamanya YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE!!!!!

"ofcourse she is being bullied, look at her" -my second grade teacher

@WeirdYetNiceChaot

4 жыл бұрын

Floortje Appel Yikes :( . I’m so sorry. Those teachers who bully children should lose the right to teach. I hope you’re doing okay with it today. Have a lovely weekend

@yousraidir2289

4 жыл бұрын

Doesn't deserve to be a teacher!

@cleomarie5016

4 жыл бұрын

Wow no child should ever have to experience this from an adult or anyone. I’m so sorry.

@katelynstambaugh6706

4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes adults are so immature and pretend they’re better than what they are, no one should be on a pedestal.

@valeriegamelin1732

4 жыл бұрын

Omg im sorry

“What do I do now? I had so many plans, now I do not if I’ll be here to do them.” “And then going back into my own room trying to decide how to reprioritize my life.” This is so real. You tend to think we are gonna live for ever, and you have all these plans for your life but in reality we don’t know how long we are on this earth for a we can be hit by reality at any moment in our lives and it can be scary but we have to understand that we are only on this earth for one purpose and that is to praise our creator, whoever that may be for you. Life is short so be mindful of how you live it and take care of your body and cherish your soul. Be thankful for the people around you and never take anything for granted. ❤️

I have heard “tungod nimo”, which translates to “because of you”, so many times when I was young. The memory of them saying it with such anger in their voices, and with their finger pointing at me, is still vivid. That was over 10 years ago (just turned 19 today :)), and remembering those incidents still bring tears to my eyes. It still hurts. Thats why I am afraid to show myself to my family, working on it though… p.s. i didn’t cause someone to die or get hurt. maybe I did smth wrong which caused an argument. Maybe it was just out of extreme anger and they just had to release it to someone.

@kt1pl2

3 ай бұрын

They shouldn't have did that and I can see why you have your guard up around them.

"You look like a monster" - my father at 12 year old me for being overweight. Edit: Thanks to everyone that left a kind comment and to those that have experienced something similar: know that you are a beautiful, briliant and unique person that deserves all the love in the world! Love yourself and others and stay safe in these difficult times ❤️

@Techie1224

3 жыл бұрын

overwieght can be beauty but not from capitals prospective as they need fast work force 😅

@tomatosauce3675

3 жыл бұрын

@@clumsy1421 i feel sorry.

@noahwuzhere2713

3 жыл бұрын

YOU ARE PERFECT AND AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU!

@sunnystevenson9994

3 жыл бұрын

@@clumsy1421 Don't listen! They are wrong you are beautiful and we all love you! Have a great rest of your year 2020 or not.

@purplegirl6132

3 жыл бұрын

@@clumsy1421 I know how that feels, but please know that it is NOT true. You are wonderful and you are loved. Keep trying hard for yourself and nobody else. Much love ❤️

For everyone out here: - it's never your fault you are molested - your mental health problems are not attention seeking - no one has the right to say when you should be over something - there Will always be people who Will love you - mental abuse is abuse - being of any race, gender or sexuality doesn't change how you are allowed to act and what you are allowed to think And everyone telling you different doesn't deserve your love. Just be kind people, it isn't that hard.

@calemmontiel338

3 жыл бұрын

This is so important

@scoobydoo_forever

3 жыл бұрын

This made me cry

@GoddessYolan

3 жыл бұрын

Love this!

@AnkaMara7940

3 жыл бұрын

True

@abigail6297

3 жыл бұрын

What's molest

So many stories really touch everyone & shows we're not alone

“A life worth living isn’t counted in years.” That shit was powerful and really hit me…