Being a teacher right now, I feel this strongly. I'm going to ask for God's help to stop withholding love from myself until I "get it together."

@tee1763

Жыл бұрын

I feel this!!!! 🙏

@katiesanders96

Жыл бұрын

I hear you so much!!! I have been subconsciously telling myself the same thing for years!

A verse I really love is this: “For sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under law but under grace.” Romans 6:14 NKJV It proves that victory over sin is not through performance/legalism/perfectionism but through the grace of God which we receive.

Pressure screams, love encourages💥🙏💯

This is what I have learned from your podcasts, that I'm not going to give myself deadlines, this is a journey, I remind myself of this every time I feel overwhelmed. I'm reading "Exposing the rejection mindset " and is sooo good. Thank you brother be blessed you and your family.

Mr. DeJesus, you are really anointed! Last weekend was so emotionally painful for me, that I felt like my life was over...I took some time off work... I just couldn't take it anymore. Yesterday, after I left my church, after crying out my soul at the altar, I saw this video first in line on my feed...With my tough emotional journey, from being raised by a narcissistic parent...The Lord has spoken through you to comfort me and tell me that He understands...This message was so specific to what I was feeling and needed from God yesterday...Thank you so much for the work you do. God bless you and your family!

Thanks for this Mark! I can’t wait to have fun again. I’ve become so consumed with intrusive thoughts that I’m a shell of myself and forgot how to have fun. Constant fear, worry, and anxiety is no fun.

@timchristmas7278

Жыл бұрын

I feel this so much. My intrusive thoughts has destroyed me. I wish I could have mark as a mentor! We will be joyful again one day!! TULA

@JenniferPost

Жыл бұрын

This is me, too. Feels like I spend more time in my head than actually living.

First of all I hugged myself ...and that worked. What you said about taking the pressure off our expectations not lowering them was sooo good that's where faith in God is not just faith in self.

Mark, you are so unapologetically compassionate. I appreciate your videos so much. This is definitely what the soul needs but we tend to not offer ourselves as perfectionists. Blessings.

I so needed this right now.. feeling this hard right now and trying to be a parent, especially to a child with ASD, with these needs/problems is so hard.. Thanks so much for posting this. I needed this because I don't know how to nurture because I was never nurtured. Thanks for this, Mark 🙏🙏

Thank you! I am dealing with this right now!

This is so heart touching 😭😭😭today I realise that I don't know what nurture feels and looks like. My mother is extremely critical and controlling and my father is unbothered type! ~ April 16, 2024

Thanks for posting this. I'm a perfectionist. I learned this when I did the DISC personality test. Honestly I didn't know what it meant at first. But little by little it has become clearer. I'm reminded of how I need to grow in loving myself. Thank you for this message on nurturing. I feel this is the need of the hour for Christian men and I want to be equipped as much as possible.

Thank you Mark . Us perfectionists definitely need a hug and be still ❤

This is sooo good! God brought me to your videos after revealing to me that i'm a perfectionist and as i am going through the 'restoring nurture course' this video is really personal to me. It speaks right to my heart. Gonna have to watch this a couple of times

Hey Mark, this really helped me brother. I've been following you for a few years now and I guess I wasn't at a place to receive this healing until now. Thank you for putting into words my internal struggle and bringing light and clarity to my journey. The funny thing about revelation, growth, and healing is that you don't know what you don't know......but God.... Keep it up brother you are bearing good fruit.

@marktdejesus

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful!

Thank you so much brother. Your ministry has done so much for changes in my life over the last few months.

Thanks Mark, this video was really helpful.. Perfectionism is a huge problem in my life. I feel angry with myself a lot and afraid to :/ even be in relationships, if I’m not “perfect” enough. I truly hope to be able to overcome this, it’s frustrating.

Thanks Mark, I'm realizing I have perfectionism in myself. Good teaching.

Thank you, Mark!! So often, we received harsh messages which greatly contributed to why we're perfectionism-oriented & performance based. It's stressful to say the least. Thanks for sharing Jesus Lighter & easier burden!!

14:10 “You’re watching this video, and it’s 2 AM. Yes, you. You’ve got insomnia. You’re spinning. This message is for you tonight: it’s ok if you’re not ok.” Mark, that was literally ME the other night when I listened to this part!! It felt like you were addressing me personally! THANK YOU so much for such a deeply nurturing talk, my brother from another mother!!! I can’t stop replaying it to soak it up and marinate. Sometimes I wish I could be transported right into your cozy office and share a hug with you and Melissa.

@ovld2023

2 ай бұрын

It is such a gift how he understands the mental journeys that we go through. Praise God for these messages!

@katiesanders96

Ай бұрын

@@ovld2023 Agreed! ❤️❤️❤️

Amazing video, you are so kind in your honest message. I needed to hear this message today. 🤗 My 'yeah but ' was I'm not a perfectionist because I'm not good enough at being perfect like the other perfectionists.

Wow...needed this. So, so good. Thank you for taking time to post.

I have it and healing from it. Letting go of the pressure is quite challenging, For perfectionist, I think we need let of fixing and learn to let go

It's easy to be kind to others, I'm the one that makes the mistakes. I find it hard to get to the intangibles, I would be better off building an engine. This would be something I could get my hands on. What you say is SO HARD to get my head around. Yes I want to be FIXED, that's what I've ALWAYS wanted.

This is so heart touching 😭😭😭 ~ April 16, 2024

I appreciate the topics as pictures!

Thank you!🙏

Taking my time means a lot of things won't get done. Yes I'm making up for lost time and finding out that I am also lazy on top of all the other problem of myself doesn't help. OVERWHELMING!!!

We need unconditional love ❤️......that's what I longed for growing up and then in my marriage i always felt i had to earn it im so tired of it all

@annehortsana2957

Ай бұрын

Help us to give, receive Your unconditional agape love for Ourselves, PAPA, we are loved by simple being created by YOU, help us to see This Truth❤ in JESUS name I pray 😊❤

I love this Playlist on perfectionism! This is where I am on my journey right now. God has been patience while I learned humility and now I am able to recieve these messages.( 3 years into the journey). I am not navel gazing, I am able to embrace the love, the teachings and enjoy myself learning now. Your rice experiment made me aware of the vibrations and the frequency I release through my words. It's amazing where that energy rest in our bodies. The image of shame was mindblowing and that's when I realized something has to change.(I found these images on the frequency of emotions) Thank you brother for your love, compassion and kindness! Love you bunches!

Yet AGAIN….another really powerful video from Mark! This one has really spoken to my heart and stirred some emotions within me. I can see how hard I have been on myself growing up, trying to reach an unattainable standard that God didn’t even set for me or expect of me. He just loved me for who I was, in that moment and nothing more. Powerful ❤️‍🔥🔥🕊

Thanks, very useful for me!

This was great

thank you, mark.

Thank u so much for this. Wow❤

Wow! This is so helpful! Thanks so much!

Its been so long i don't know what I enjoy anymore, I use to drink and be a partier that's all i knew with my husband for years and I thought it was fun until it wasn't anymore

Ive managed to do the nurture talk down once so far

Imagine Dragons song: “It’s Ok” (to be not okay…)

Hi Mark can you make these printables? I would love to have these on my walls as reminders, they are beautiful. Maybe like 4x6 or 8x11. Thanks!

@BanronS

Ай бұрын

Thats actually a cool idea honestly.

Hardcore Christianity

Hi mark can you do a video of not perfectionism, but feeling rejected like you don’t even want to try with God? All the doctrine in my life, do you really believe the gospel? God loves you BUT, it’s always a but or something like you gotta do something! I don’t want to try anymore. I know God is good and he is not the problem, but I, just tired. Like doing what I gotta do in regular life is hard enough, now I gotta do stuff for God, be better for God like bruh. I’m just tired of fighting. If I just slept for the rest of my life, I would love to just know that He loves me the same even if I’m not doing stuff. I never feel like I’m enough. I mean I am pretty lazy 😬 but when I do try to get up, life just keeps knocking me down and I just can’t.

@jasminepaul7291

Жыл бұрын

I felt like this so many times, but now I understood that God loves you no matter what,unconditionally.It is not what we do or don't do.God bless you, be at rest.

@beth4095w

Жыл бұрын

Even if you slept for the rest of your life God would love you the same He loves you uniquely and wildly no matter what! I also feel like this sometimes and someone showed me the energy comes from knowing God's love He is the source you have to start with his unconditional love- Jesus said Apart from me you can do nothing ❤️❤️❤️

Guess I’m getting old man… every time u say “be kind” I mentally say “rewind”.

Needed this so much for so many reasons 🥹♥️🙏🏼