Nona Jones: Heal From Heartbreak by Releasing Your Past | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

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This week on Better Together, Nona Jones teaches us about forgiveness and reconciliation in relationships. Join the conversation as Zai Chandler, Christine Caine, Faith Eury Cho and Irene Rollins join Nona Jones to discuss relationships, forgiveness, and guarding your heart.
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00:00 Building Walls and Withholding Love
12:35 When You Want to Forgive and Reconcile, But They Don't
20:43 Making Other People Pay For Pain From Your Past
26:41 Knowing Your Identity in Christ Prevents You From Seeking Revenge
38:25 Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation

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  • @jassamara4918
    @jassamara4918Ай бұрын

    This past month has shaken up my whole world.. my husband left without reason truly. He says he just wants to focus on himself and doesn’t want to be in a relationship at all and doesn’t think he will want to be in a relationship for 2+ years in an effort to find himself. One week before he left we were talking about starting a family and the next week he was gone. It was so sudden and I’m heart broken. I haven’t been able to even comprehend the situation and keep searching for an explanation but he really doesn’t have one. He just explained that it isn’t me and doesn’t want to hurt me more by being with me.. I asked God for confirmation that we need to proceed in divorce and I got the confirmation but it’s been difficult to accept. I’m grateful for this video. It’s exactly what I needed. Please pray for my healing in this season 🙏🏽

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    Hi sister. We are so sorry for the heavy and deep pain you are experiencing. We pray that the Lord work in your heart and your husbands, and that he shower both of you with his grace, love. and truth. If you need prayer, please contact our 24/7 prayer line at 1-714-731-1000.

  • @86Kera

    @86Kera

    Ай бұрын

    I’m sorry this happened to you. These types of stories from women are heartbreaking but I pray for your healing and there are many good things that are coming your way.

  • @kayc5804

    @kayc5804

    Ай бұрын

    I'm sorry for your hurt and pain. I pray that God heals you.

  • @muffincarrol1671

    @muffincarrol1671

    Ай бұрын

    That is devastating, I cannot imagine the pain that you are feeling. If people could feel the pain they themselves inflict, there would be so much more kindness and peace in the world. You absolutely MUST not think that you are going to get a straight answer from your husband! THAT WILL NOT HAPPEN! I believe he is hiding something he doesn't want to admit to you, because then he would be soooo wrong in your eyes. He doesn't want confrontation, he just wants out. You are going to have to seek God like never before! Everyday several times a day. I DON'T CARE HOW YOU FEEL!! Let it all out on God, He can take it. Don't give the worst of it to anybody but Him. Rally around those people that truly support you, not those that bad mouth your husband, that's not going to help anything. And then, just wait, sit still and know He is God. Healing will take time, maybe a lot of time, but in that time God is trying to tell you something. Listen, fast and pray; it still works!

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. Choose to love him and pray for him regardless. Don't allow the enemy to cause you to be bitter, angry, and/or mad at him and mad at the world. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN.

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312Ай бұрын

    "Examine my heart, God, because what If I'm the enemy who is unconsciously hurting other people?!" 🙏🙏

  • @km4336

    @km4336

    Ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @refinedgiggles

    @refinedgiggles

    Ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @w2a859
    @w2a859Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this! I have made the decision to distance myself from my biological father... he has been hurt, but he makes everyone in his life pay for what others have done to him. I have had to repeatedly tell people I forgive him, but I won't subject myself to pain and hurt anymore because he's not willing to be free from his own pain. Praise God for this segment confirming that it's ok to protect myself. I'm still praying for my father's salvation ❤

  • @Lottieloves287
    @Lottieloves287Ай бұрын

    This is something I’m still working through. I’ve made so many mistakes that I’m ashamed of and heart broken when I think of the past. Can’t wait to listen to this episode.

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for being vulnerable with us, as we are sure many viewers can relate. We pray that you allow the Lord to work in your heart as he helps you heal. God bless you!

  • @joyb8477
    @joyb8477Ай бұрын

    Amen! Guard your heart, I’ve learned boundaries with people! I can forgive in Jesus name!

  • @vivianbabirye2416
    @vivianbabirye2416Ай бұрын

    These ladies are amazing.

  • @Spiritual36
    @Spiritual36Ай бұрын

    Thank you. Needed this.🙏🏾❤️ Dealing with a difficult, mentally ill neighbour who is creating extremely loud banging noises throughout the day and night for the last 4 years. Banging, throwing objects at the wall, screaming and crying constantly, especially at night. I am often scared and my sleep is regularly disturbed. The lack of sleep is making me ill. Struggling to cope as the authorities are not helping in any meaningful way as soon as they hear she has a mental illness. Please help me pray that she gets the help she needs and the Lord heals her. Also please pray that he delivers me from her disruptive and disturbing behaviour and that she moves out soon. Praying to have grace, forgiveness and patience with her. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @toribryant6764
    @toribryant6764Ай бұрын

    Jesus this Blessed me.. I’m glad I came across this!! Thank you 🙌🏾👏🏽

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We're so glad you were blessed by this message!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939Ай бұрын

    Thank you to the beautiful sister in Christ in pink. I think I REALLY needed to hear that. That served as confirmation and clarity to and for me. I know what God want me to do and is leading up to me to do. I know it is going to be hard but necessary. I PRAY EVERYONE'S STRENGTH IN THE LORD IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.

  • @tammietodd7810
    @tammietodd7810Ай бұрын

    I don't believe that any person on earth can say that they are completely whole and healed on this side of heaven. We are all imperfect, broken in some ways, but God calls us to love, forgive, and be merciful.

  • @journeytochange7805
    @journeytochange7805Ай бұрын

    I think the enemy does want to isolate us, however, I also believe that God can isolate (separate) us in the times that he wants us to transition into what he has for us. Pastor Jerry Flowers Jr mentions the process that a caterpillar goes through to become a butterfly. That’s what I’m currently going through, I know that I need this time to grow closer to God. In everything that I’ve been through I’ve put everything before Him to cope and deal with it. Always felt the need to go go go and be in places with people that I NOW know weren’t good for me. I believe I’ll come out bigger and better for this time of isolation (separation)… 🙏🏽

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    Yes. This can be accurate, but each individual have to choose to know who is influencing them to do the isolation. If it is fear based. You have anger, unforgiveness, and bitterness. You are trying to build a wall and control others. That is more than likely from the enemy. Unforgiveness, fear, torment, bitterness, rage, jealousy, and so on and so forth are in my family heavily. And I know one who always say she doesn't trust anyone and converse with a few people but really and truly won't let anyone in. She won't even really let me in either. They are referring to those who have a stony heart and letting them know that it is from the enemy and not GOD. And they need to choose to come out of that.

  • @journeytochange7805

    @journeytochange7805

    Ай бұрын

    @@ladennayoung2939 you’re definitely right about that. Been there done that thinking I was protecting myself. Have had some isolated periods that were dark. What’s that saying? In isolation the devil is the counsel or something? Gotta stay in that word and apply it, replay it in our minds. I think about when Christ was alone and the devil tempted him and he quoted scripture against what the devil was saying. Always good to have godly counsel in our lives, yet I too have backed away from people for a long time due to what happened. But I’m tired of it, and I think when you finally get tired of something, you change it.

  • @devanwalker6638
    @devanwalker6638Ай бұрын

    I loved the transparency in the conversation. It truly helped me in many areas ❤

  • @desireealicea593
    @desireealicea593Ай бұрын

    So good as always..love these videos. Thank you guys ❤

  • @SharmainBalverdy
    @SharmainBalverdy19 күн бұрын

    This was so good! I am so thankful for this word!

  • @elodieminkilane7923
    @elodieminkilane792327 күн бұрын

    Totaly agree with your opinion about forgiveness Sister Nona Jones ❤❤

  • @Stephan__ox.
    @Stephan__ox.Ай бұрын

    Thank you for this message/discussion

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We are happy that you enjoyed the conversation!

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112Ай бұрын

    So need this dealing with heartbreak from my divorce

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We are so sorry about what you are going through, and pray the Lord will comfort you with his presence and bring healing to your heart. Please remember the words of Psalm 34:18 "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

  • @nanaforson4215

    @nanaforson4215

    Ай бұрын

    Please find it in your heart to forgive in his situation. The word of the Lord is healing to your whole body including your heart and what you feel - Proverbs 4 vs 22

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    I pray your strength in the LORD IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN.

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@BetterTogetherTV AMEN. HALLELUJAH. AMEN.

  • @AnellaSharpes-px3xq
    @AnellaSharpes-px3xqАй бұрын

    Great conversation very touching and empowering God bless you ladies thank you.

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We are so happy that you were empowered by this episode. God is good!

  • @foreverfavored729
    @foreverfavored729Ай бұрын

    My goodness 😢I needed to hear this❤

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @theoyoqueen2809
    @theoyoqueen2809Ай бұрын

    So good🥺❤

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We agree!

  • @go2yourself
    @go2yourselfАй бұрын

    This conversation is so good, thank you so muchYes, some things DON'T need to be addressed ✌🏾🎯 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We love that you took that takeaway! God bless you!

  • @Sashalarue14
    @Sashalarue14Ай бұрын

    What a Blessing

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    We are so happy you were blessed by this!

  • @Sashalarue14

    @Sashalarue14

    Ай бұрын

    ❤​@@BetterTogetherTV

  • @ML-rh7lv
    @ML-rh7lvАй бұрын

    Hi, ladies sending big love to you all. I’ve got to a point in life now with Gods conviction and love apologising to any one I hurt it makes me feel totally GOOD. ❤

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939Ай бұрын

    Same. That is what the Holy Spirit has been highlighting to me a lot here lately. And you see it taking place right now. People are just spreading rumors about others and choosing to condemn them.

  • @nobelungubinnazingelwa1361
    @nobelungubinnazingelwa1361Ай бұрын

    I am hurt and disappointed especially when I think of all the things that I have done for my Sista and her kids but still she betrays me in a most evil way....I'm angry and I hate her I know I will forgive but I need time to heal in order to move forward the betrayal there after I will forgive her and I will keep her out of my life

  • @Oluwanifemigloria

    @Oluwanifemigloria

    Ай бұрын

    So sorry about that Azingelwa. God is with you❤

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    Ask yourself these questions: Why did you do those things for her? Was it really because you were led by the spirit of God to do so? Was it because you wanted to show her and her children genuine love and the love of Christ? Or was it so you could hold something over her head and barate her in the end? Try not to allow the enemy to influence you to hold on to those feelings and that mindset. Try to release everything over to GOD AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Because tomorrow isn't promised to ANY ONE OF US. And in order to be forgiven by GOD. We MUST choose to forgive others in Jesus' name. I pray you ALL'S strength on the LORD IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. GOD truly does LOVE and CARE for you and SO DO I. GOD TRULY DOES LOVE YOUR SISTER AS WELL AND WANT THE BEST FOR YOU BOTH. You still may be led by the spirit of GOD to separate yourself from her after doing ALL of that. But make sure you LET THIS GO FROM YOUR HEAD AND HEART IN JESUS' NAME. IT ISN'T WORTH IT. IT IS JUST A LIE AND TRICK FROM THE ENEMY TRYING TO DECEIVE YOU AND CAUSE DISCORD.

  • @BishoppKozik
    @BishoppKozikАй бұрын

    Hallelujah!!! I’m favored and blessed with $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and also support the work of God and the church.

  • @KilborneYenz

    @KilborneYenz

    Ай бұрын

    Oh really? Tell me more!

  • @BishoppKozik

    @BishoppKozik

    Ай бұрын

    This is what Ana Graciela Blackwelder does, she has changed my life.

  • @BishoppKozik

    @BishoppKozik

    Ай бұрын

    After raising up to 60k trading with her, I bought a new house and car here in the US and also paid for my son’s (Oscar) surgery. Glory to God.shalom.

  • @ThomasJeff-yn1gp

    @ThomasJeff-yn1gp

    Ай бұрын

    I know Ana Graciela Blackwelder, and I have also had success...

  • @ThomasJeff-yn1gp

    @ThomasJeff-yn1gp

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely! I have heard stories of people who started with little or no knowledge but managed to emerge victorious thanks to Ana Graciela Blackwelder.

  • @foreverfavored729
    @foreverfavored729Ай бұрын

    Wow

  • @becominghealthy4711
    @becominghealthy4711Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @wendynkosi3382
    @wendynkosi3382Ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @JosieMoreno-v6m
    @JosieMoreno-v6m5 күн бұрын

    Please pray for me gpimg a break up

  • @thafunk5ive
    @thafunk5iveАй бұрын

    repeat?

  • @APromise2ReturnYourLove
    @APromise2ReturnYourLove21 күн бұрын

    Is it about being the BIGGER person or rather being the GODLY person?

  • @muffincarrol1671
    @muffincarrol1671Ай бұрын

    The blood of Jesus does not give you amnesia. The quote of the day!😅

  • @Vie870
    @Vie870Ай бұрын

    I'm the firstttttttt

  • @BetterTogetherTV

    @BetterTogetherTV

    Ай бұрын

    Amazing! Thank you for joining us, and we hope you enjoy the conversation!

  • @AngelRodman-yl4wf
    @AngelRodman-yl4wfАй бұрын

    Are they spinning???

  • @desireealicea593

    @desireealicea593

    Ай бұрын

    Lol yes. It's a round table that slowly turns. Haha I've noticed that too and it got me off guard

  • @AngelRodman-yl4wf

    @AngelRodman-yl4wf

    Ай бұрын

    @@desireealicea593 i was hoping i wasnt halusinating lol

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    Ай бұрын

    I didn't even notice until I read you all's comments. LOL. SMH.

  • @AngelRodman-yl4wf

    @AngelRodman-yl4wf

    Ай бұрын

    @@ladennayoung2939 😅

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