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Mind blown how much this book resonates with myself, my father, and honestly most men in society with many of the current conventional wisdoms perpetuated about em. Pathological niceness can make a man suicidal - absolutely.

@KeynoteKnowledge

Жыл бұрын

This book is a true revealer!

This is very good but if you have experienced a particularly bad childhood, by abuse, neglect or both this is easier said than done. In any case, everyone can benefit from the best therapy ever created - IFS, Internal family systems, some wounds are very deep and having access to the Self which IFS makes easy is not just incredibly helpful and less of a struggle, it's imperative

Many. Thanks. Sir! You learn me a lot!! Take your needs!!🎈

Great explanation with great art thank you

Thanks for the summary, I've read the book and it's nice to recap on occasion.

I have always been a ñice guy. However, after viewing this video I will constantly be mindful to be the person that I am, exhibiting confidence, strength and genuinely conveying all that I have to offer

Absolutely brilliant voice Best on you tube Explained fantastic Keep the good work up

@KeynoteKnowledge

11 ай бұрын

Thanks a ton

All it takes to see what women want is to watch any even semirealistic TV show or movie. The guy everyone likes is wholesome but not naive, strong but not swaggering or rough, self-aware but not self-conscious, outdoorsy or bookish but in a balanced way, helpful but not infantilizing, and interested but not pushy or desperate, polite but not mincing. The keys are true confidence, true empathy, and truly recognizing that both you and the other person are adults.

@americanflyer4126

5 ай бұрын

Sure, but what percentage of men can check even half those boxes?

@ciaralee9760

15 күн бұрын

Exactly, it's not realistic . I can't believe I found myself here 😂 minni rabbit hole

thank you for the video, I have one feedback tho. The background is a little bit dark for me

@KeynoteKnowledge

8 ай бұрын

I understand. This was my question in my youtube community where people voted between dark or white background and majority said dark. Do you find if l use colored text on dark background may make it easier rather than black or white text?

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Holy shit. This is exactly me.

@KeynoteKnowledge

8 ай бұрын

Hope you found value in my content!

But the many friends i had didn’t had healthy rolmodels themselves… many many families have toxic behaviors ! How can you discern if someone has your best interest in mind? Nobody talks about like friends being nice but jealous and ready to stab you in the back when times right. I have a lot of trust issues because of it. I never met someone who’s really authentic i think many are portraying a facade ! Just look at the statistics between man an woman… it’s not going into the right direction because many are traumatized and don’t even know it. Many people expres toxic behaviors without knowing the harm it causes because they aren’t educated about it…

@KeynoteKnowledge

Жыл бұрын

@rik-keymusic160 I understand what your saying. Some people express toxic behaviour not only because they are not educated in one aspect they aren't self-aware. There are four self-awareness archetypes 1) Introspectors- they are clear on who they are but don't challenge their own views 2) there are those who are aware- they know who they are and what they want to accomplish 3) seekers- don't yet know who they are and what they stand for 4) pleasers- are focused on appearing a certain way to others that they overlook what matters to them. Self-awareness is key and the first step to accept change in ones behaviour. I am not an expert but to answer your question how to best discern if someone has the best interest in mind is to look if their actions do match their words. People who don't have the best interest cannot fake it for long they eventually reveal who they are. One way to test someone is to pretend you don't know something or try to act not smart to see whether that person may choose to take advantage of you or your incapability.

The World of Nice Guy! A day in a life of a nice guy 😂

Well actually I tried both options being nice and being an asshole both are bad options...

@KeynoteKnowledge

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@HEricW.77

8 ай бұрын

As Dr. Glover says, "I frequently remind Nice Guys that the opposite of crazy is still crazy, so becoming a “jerk” isn’t the answer." One constant recurring point he reiterates is that instead of being a 'nice guy', simply be oneself; not specifically an asshole, simply, "just as you are".

I used to be such a sweet sweet thing till they got a hold of me. I open doors for little old ladies and help the blind to see. I got no friends cuz they read the papers, they can't be seen. And me I'm having a real short time and I'm feeling mean...

You are defining a person with NPD. Yeah

@KeynoteKnowledge

8 ай бұрын

If you mean a person with Narcissistic personality disorder then NO

@willygates

Ай бұрын

NARC are pro self and manipulative. You should be honest whatever the cost the book teaches