Always trust your eyes and not your ears, when you do this you’ll hear things in a different light

The basic principle is that people end up in pain, not because the world is not rich enough to allow them to satisfy their needs, but because their representation of the world is impoverished. 'Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.' - Henry Ford “There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside of them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself.” Steppenwolf by Hermann Hesse

26 is a huge one to me I learned after a relationship I ruined that sexual discipline is very important as a man.

@giovanniortega1893

4 ай бұрын

How did u learn that Or come to that conclusion, with help or solo?

@tasjourney7778

4 ай бұрын

@@giovanniortega1893 solo I learned to genuinely enjoy being around women without expecting sex. After ruining several great relationships cheating. I took a break from sex while touring met my wife I refuse to cheat EVER. We have a wonderful relationship

You’d have to be insane to want a relationship after learning all this. This explains the endless issues people have, and always would have. Not getting married and having kids was the best decision I ever made. Now I go into my 40’s knowing I’ll walk alone from here. And it will be a more peaceful, productive walk I’m sure.

@cavaliib1889

4 ай бұрын

You are correct

@autocorrect3055

3 ай бұрын

It’ll be a lonely path but if it’s the right one for you, tread it.

@anthonyhughes8026

2 ай бұрын

It’s true that not everyone actually enjoys the feminine, inasmuch as desiring to penetrate her sexually. I’m glad you made your peace with this. 😊

@irocksup123

2 ай бұрын

I’d say it’ll be very lonely. But to each their own

@anthonyhughes8026

2 ай бұрын

Try it first, then decide.

When it comes to women it should say. Men know your vision, path and purpose then a woman gets on your program, helps you and caters to you or to help you with the mission or you let her go. She respects you and in turn you love her. End of story

@anthonyhughes8026

2 ай бұрын

I notice you are trying to fit all of his wisdom into a little red pill. It’s a misshapen attempt. Don’t bend the rules until you learn them better. This is just my perspective. I wish you all the best. Cheers.

@weldscholars8253

2 ай бұрын

@@anthonyhughes8026 I see where you’re are coming from however I am a natural man that has been dealing with females since I was young. Hundreds of women so I know women from real experience. What I say isn’t redpill. What I said definitely is the foundation for any nuances or details to happen.

@anthonyhughes8026

2 ай бұрын

@@weldscholars8253 Heard. Well, your way sounds a little bit severe for me but in the right hands a tool (like matter-of-factness etc.) has tremendous power. Thanks for talking.

@anthonyhughes8026

5 күн бұрын

@@DJK-cq2uy love your contribution to the discourse. Keep it up

Thanks so much David!

#34 is such a big one in my opinion women love the feeling of being passionately and gently guided

@davidrogers1246

Жыл бұрын

Can you elaborate a bit

@davidlam3763

10 ай бұрын

@@londontripz4824 A stoic is a gentleman/chivalrous and passionately loves his purpose in life though the love of his woman, as an asset complimenting his life, loving life whole heartly through her opposite feminized balance. Stoics have strong emotions as do other men, but has the emotional intelligence for control, and are gentle in guiding that's where the word gentleman is derived from. A stoic looks cold but is not. Due to today's generational comfort men show their more emotions due to their weaknesses (epigenictically certain genes expressed) and the fake smiling is, appeasement! (chimps showing teeth) 🤔 😍😎

@anatourney5175

6 ай бұрын

I can assure you that is complete nonsense.

I lived as if my father was dead since i was 10 in 1980, due to this death. And learned most of what was said here on my own. Although it's a never ending journey.

Powerful ☄️

Great video, thanks! 👏👏👏👏

Valuable thoughts, tks for sharing.

Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts. I like that one.

If this is all true it really hits me hard... it unfortunately explains why my Ex broke up with me...Although I thought she did many things wrong... looking through the lens of what is written by Deida... There was not much she did wrong... Though I must say that when I listen to this it feels as if a man has to be very perfect... almost too perfect...

Love it 🎉🎉🎉

Brief and clear thxs

Very educative

This was amazing to watch 😂

Very insightful

Thank you for making this wonderful summary of this great book.

@DJK-cq2uy

5 күн бұрын

Great book? 😂😂😂😂😂

Wished I could have seen this or better yet read the book when I was 20 years old.

@billymills4238

Жыл бұрын

Currently 20

@chacotaco3607

11 ай бұрын

​@@billymills4238lucky you

@chasemoretv.4029

10 ай бұрын

@@billymills4238bro lol. Don’t be this type of dude. You didn’t need to let him know your 20, just be greatful your young and get wisdom.

@JeanPatrickSmith

9 ай бұрын

For real, wish I read this back in 2004

Legend ! This was my very first book I read back to front. My absolute favourite book ever. Timeless master piece. And by keeping its niche, makes it just the merrier. Well done for video. Brilliant ❤

Lesson 20 was my mistake as I told many ex girlfriends to fix their own emotional problems as I could not understand their emotions and this was not due to not trying to. Women just think in a completely different way to men and its very hard to comprehend. I found when a woman starts to really love you she becomes more difficult because she becomes more sensitive and vulnerable and sorry to say but much more irritating! I think unfortunately, this is when relationships breakdown and men leave! Women think that men are dogs because of this but its just a terrible misunderstanding of the display of love! In the beginning of a relationship everything is so lighthearted and free and this is when the man really starts to fall in love. When the woman starts to fall in love she feels more insecure and suddenly needs to know where you are where you been , give you attitude coz you called her 1 hour later then you said you would, get offended over ridiculous things ect! This is when i check out!

@davidlam3763

10 ай бұрын

IT'S A SHIT TEST! From showing discontent "without you taking the literal context" from the content of words spoken to you all the way to the other end of spectrum of "testing your rock solid masculine unwavering composure". You made it sound like number 20 was your only issue indirectly, but it seems to me possibly some of the other numbers don't relate to your own traits personally. A superior man would respond, not react to a irrationally driven behavior from her in a calm but firm manner, showing her that its not to be tolerate by you, or the relationship itself. SHE'LL respect you for that, even if at the moment she doesn't feel that way. If its the "discontent with no content" expressing "get your shit together" then just make sure you get your shit together, as long as it MAKES SENSE TO, and not just manipulation tactic. 😂 😍😎

@joblakelisbon

10 ай бұрын

Absolute nonsense. A woman has to learn emotional control just as much as men do. If men did the same thing it would be viewed as pathology. Don't let that nonsense slide. They have to grow up too. This book allows women to get away with literally anything - the first emotive response they have is viewed as axiomatically correct, whereas men's responses are viewed as needing to be overcome. Deida is a pussy worshipper ultimately. Unsurprising as he's an American.

@ZfromBrooklyn

10 ай бұрын

Facts brother

@chrishayes5755

10 ай бұрын

its important to set clear boundaries or you'll suffer the consequences. if you're the type of guy who's going to constantly check in, allow her to obnoxiously give you attitude for any reason then that's what you deserve. if you set boundaries the second she shows the behavior and let her know there's zero tolerance for that sh*t you won't be dealing with it - one way or another (she adapts or you leave).

@atmant05

10 ай бұрын

I laugh when they trip I just smooth talk em a little bit

This is life changing 🧘 thank you🤩

Lesson 29! Biggest lesson

As man all you want is peace, but, with the complexity of women(to say it in a respectful manner) it's kinda hard not to say impossible. That's why the happiest days of my life were when I was single 😂

@MrGengad

9 ай бұрын

We are simple creature but been with a woman can be never racking. I love my peace. My wife and I no longer together. I really feel great and looking forward to life.

@alex_jermaine

9 ай бұрын

I think this book is about transcending and overcoming that. The superior man learns how to metabolize that feminine complexity

this book is an essential read

Korean guy here with experiences with white women, Japanese women, no Chinese women unfortunately, and histpanic women and his statement about Japanese women being cooler and Korean women being hotter is so accurate.

@DJK-cq2uy

5 күн бұрын

Wow!!

Lost on a few of these,will get BETTER😅

This is funny as hell 😂😢😅

19:23❤26:00 ❤26:07 and lesson fifty 26:19💪🏾🎊☝🏽💯men & Women shld practice Restoring and Dissolving

interesting!

One day will happen, but the day never comes up

My son is 15 and starts reading this book. I hope he doesn’t live like I’m dead. If the purpose is to learn to be independent, I think it’s better to live like mother is dead not dad.

@Alex-mf3jj

11 ай бұрын

I think the "live as if your father were dead" is more of a metaphor for understanding that your father is a human, not a God or a monster. As children, we tend to either idolize or demonize our parents depending on how we feel about them in a given moment. Later on (sometimes after they've passed away), we realize that our parents did the best they could. We take the good things they gave us and leave the bad.

@backchattvsports2905

11 ай бұрын

😂😂 love it

@alexandrubaginean7369

11 ай бұрын

@@Alex-mf3jj Or maybe if you "live as if your father were dead" you start taking full responsibilities, there is nobody out there to take care of you and save your ass when you fuck things up, and we all know that everything start with taking responsibility and start doing.

@dylanakent

10 ай бұрын

#3 oh yes it is. He needs to live for himself, no one else.

@onthemagenta

9 ай бұрын

I’m glad your son is reading this. He needs it.

This is about is good as Robert Green's Works. Nice!

@chacotaco3607

11 ай бұрын

What books of his are good please?

@SRC503

11 ай бұрын

Roberts Greene 48 Laws of Power is good; it's his most famous work. It's case studies high profile people from history about the dynamics of relationships and consequences. Also, Dale Carnegie's book on "How to Win Friends and Influence people" is a classic if you like psychology and how to get people to like you.

@futuretechnology7679

11 ай бұрын

@@chacotaco3607 The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene, most are on Utube.

@DJK-cq2uy

5 күн бұрын

You can't be serious!! 😂😂 Really!?

@futuretechnology7679

3 күн бұрын

@@DJK-cq2uy For Robert Green, Yes. I read several of his books. This was the best in my opinion. Just my opinion.

im only doing this now so ONE DAY i can do what i really want to do it wont be different it never ends the creative challenges is to tussle and play make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift to the world

25:50 "The Divine way, or the highway"

I've been covering this book chapter by chapter on my channel. It's arguably the best book to align your life to.

a Man Can do what he wants as a work... following his passion is like not killing himself in a regular job. You can become Rich but yeah always be in Masculine energy.

@DJK-cq2uy

5 күн бұрын

Wow!!😂😂😂😂😂

He is right. I fuck up i really fuck up.... feeling very sick as fuck. I push the one i really love away she was testing every way she can. I really love her damn that pain going stick with me the rest of my life.

You need to read this book before even getting into a relationship

9:03 🙏🏼✨🙏🏾 9:06

Part pls 😭

Hohhoho. My woman will understand 😂

14:00 is the realest ish

There was a waterfall near us, such a lovely thin streak of water, like a thread but white and moving. It fell from a great height, but it looked quite low, and it was half a mile away, though it did not seem fifty paces. I loved to listen to it at night, but it was then that I became so restless. Sometimes I went and climbed the mountain and stood there in the midst of the tall pines, all alone in the terrible silence, with our little village in the distance, and the sky so blue, and the sun so bright, and an old ruined castle on the mountain-side, far away. I used to watch the line where earth and sky met, and longed to go and seek there the key of all mysteries, thinking that I might find there a new life, perhaps some great city where life should be grander and richer--and then it struck me that life may be grand enough even in a prison.

Lesson 33. That's it.

@adamyisrael2557

9 ай бұрын

Right on! 🎉

Well if I was a man and listened to this, I’d think it’s too much work to be with a woman… but when you are matched with the right partner… the relationship is effortless and joyful

@xtruhsauce

9 ай бұрын

Any man deterred by hard work shouldn’t claim to be a man

@alex_jermaine

9 ай бұрын

It's only "too much" if you believe it is

@poface2

8 ай бұрын

As a man, I wouldn't say this is too much work. I respond to these teachings particularly having reaped the consequences of not knowing them. It benefits both sexes. Being matched with the right partner is being matched with someone who meets your needs whether you realise it or not, that's why it feels effortless. Also, many relationships feel effortless, ... until they don't, particularly early on. Many men who grew up fatherless naturally end up with an imbalanced maculine/feminine energy tilted towards the feminine, particularly if they grew up with their mother and the consequence of this causes issues in relationships when women subconsciously reject the traits, which feminised men don't even realise they've displayed, never mind realising they even had those traits or / where they came from. This book helps explain what goes wrong / went wrong. Also, as men we like a challenge and we appreciate being told what the challenge is. So for fatherless men, who have no masciline male role model to naturally take after, this book explains the missing pieces.

Find your purpose or your wasting air - Nipsey Hussle

lesson 19 :)

Andrew Tate read this book and gave us the same blueprint under a new name, the top g

@DonGivani

10 ай бұрын

That man is garbage, a man should never go to Eastern Europe to do sex trafficking, that guy is not a man

3:35 that caught me off guard

@jimjamjerry

11 ай бұрын

Haha

@Pazaluz

11 ай бұрын

👀🤣

Too much in there about women. Follow your purpose and keep in frame. She must fit with you all the rest will follow.

Damn!! Lesson #33 is on point!! ☠️😂 16:00

This book have in Tamil language

18:00 that is the truth! I used to box and kickbox. When I was younger man night of one of my fights. Seen a friend from high-school Holly, cute little brunette with freckles. She never paid much attention to me but we had a few classes together. We chat few minutes but I gotta go get prepped for fight. It was good night for me and I get the W. I don't even have my gloves off and Holly is grabbing at me "Take me home, right now!" LOL. My coach a wise man "it's your night champ"

Great pieces......however so concentrated on women traits and how to handle them.

4:52😂😂😂😂:..IM AT THAT POINT WHERE I DONT KNOW WHAT TGE HELL IS GOING ON😂😂

so does it say how to start? lik what should be the first step?

@Psychware

Жыл бұрын

in the book, the 51 lessons are presented sequentially and divided into 8 parts but we believe that each lesson is standalone, and anyone can select which one is relevant to his/her situation

You must know your purpose but also be willing to change everything and find your purpose. I’m hearing some contradictions here

Yep. Thats womem, and I love it.

This is more about women than men

هل الكتاب كامل؟

@dteun

9 ай бұрын

The book is this not Its 51 points get the book.

Anyone fully understand # 21? Please advise

@chefspree7804

10 ай бұрын

Reflect on lesson 18

Better Late than never

is this this hole book?

@nelsonmartinez8136

9 ай бұрын

Just a quick summary

I believe there's context missing.

Scorpio male 😀 Finley some good 👍 shit! Wow took forever too find some good advice or quotes!🦂💥♏️👍💫♏️💥💥🦂

22:14 🤌🏾🔥

This sounds like a bunch of New Age woo woo wa wa

17:23

50/50

Who is this supposed to 'insinuate'. Is this the right word ;)

Pretty impossible for any man to go by all these 51 let alone even 25 principles. No wonder why Todays society is difficult for men.

@koengreen2540

Жыл бұрын

Why?

@jayvbooth

Жыл бұрын

Nothing is impossible. Start with a few or break them down into chunks and remember them

@IForgetWhatISay

Жыл бұрын

How is this impossible? Most of this is based on the foundation of self respect….

For Someone who's been there done that who needs women. To much work. Plus the best company is your own. Or with your dog.

✊🏿👑✨🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶

I don’t care there is no shortage of masculinity in the world

Lesson 50: Men won't settle for other Men's bullshit, but women will agree with each other and strengthen their viewpoints. This right here is the difference between Republicans and Democrats. Republicans won't get behind someone they disagree with, Democrats will band together and vote for anyone on their ticket regardless of their feelings for the person.

@anatourney5175

6 ай бұрын

It's literally the exact opposite...

Yes, I have realized from personal experience and my acute self-awareness that I will often want more than one woman and she will want often want more than one man/ Conventional society unwisely glorifies monogamy and it is a tragic mistake/ Monogamy is egotism and that horrendous attitude will banefully impact on truthfulness, mutual trust, sincerity and unconditional true love/

@leonrobinson8180

10 ай бұрын

Monogamy isn't "egotism". Stop trying to justify your hedonistic polyamorous desires.

Is it fine for women who listen to or read this book and take the lesson to build themselves as a man??

@Psychware

Жыл бұрын

we think so, though we believed that the book was written for men, some of the lessons seem applicable to women too

@koengreen2540

Жыл бұрын

He also wrote a book for women I think.

@wert5151

11 ай бұрын

What you wrote does not make any sense, thtats the first sign...

wish I didnt had to learn some lessons the hard way...

@edemo24

10 ай бұрын

Believe it or not the hard is best lesson in life, once you reach that success you have that story to tell to reach people that has that same struggle keep pushing

Seriously. A confident man that can comfortably wear pink, especially in the company of other men, is alpha as fuck.

@VeneerDept

8 ай бұрын

You probably think a confident man can wear painted nails and make up and act like an EMOtional Soft Punk. Who asks queer then abuses women boy just stop that’s a CON MAN, a Down Low Man, A Bottom… Expressing his inner pink across the booty sweats

I need to know more about that orgasm technique...for science. 😁

The way of the Superior Simp 😂

"It's not her fault that she's bitchy and complaining " haha

Ok. A lot of this very hit or miss. With a lot of miss

Lol all the stuff about women. I'll just be single at this point.

"women are not liars" 🤔🙄😂

@crawlinginfaithbdalingo5515

11 ай бұрын

Then right after he said something about them being liars.

@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT

11 ай бұрын

Yeah, that is a ridiculous statement to make obviously. I think the intention was aimed at a deeper truth, which is that the feminine never lies as a collective.

@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT

11 ай бұрын

Women lie because they can get away with it, and they can get away with it only because of the week men around them.

@triwellertrucking604

10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@ZfromBrooklyn

10 ай бұрын

Y’all don’t get that part

To implement all 51 of these lessons as a man of over 50 years old I feel you need to be at least 3 different people. No thanks it's easier to be alone and live your one true self.

@yasserbostan7156

11 ай бұрын

You need to embrace the masculine. Which you're clearly not.

@b3makinn

11 ай бұрын

I “feel” “it’s easier” you sound like a women. No offense. But family and mastering relationships is worth it as a man. (Although not easy)

@road_to_riches2000

11 ай бұрын

You do you. I will ALWAYS aspire to be a better man in any and every way

@b3makinn

11 ай бұрын

@@road_to_riches2000 respect to you sir, and all the best blessings to your life

@brandon.4451

11 ай бұрын

Interesting, I'm 42 and am enjoying being single because it's a peaceful existence. I do what I want when I want. I guess this isn't all that uncommon.

The author described a child in lesson 16 and called it feminine nature...

these women want a lot of things 😂😂

Where the f*ck has this book been all my life??!!! ❤

In other words, be yourself and stop blaming women for your own self ignorance.

The lessons were right except the ones about women. Those lessons were some of the biggest simp mentalities I've ever heard.

She wants you to be fearless of death to protect the love you have for her, but she dont want you to steer away from your purpose for her…. Never allow your desire to be suppressed, but dont let her think you care about losing her…. She will test you to see if you slip away from your purpose, but she dumb and doesnt understand why a man should stay in his purpose…. Super contradicting bro.

@SimioniFeteroSungiJR

10 ай бұрын

It is not contradicting if you could think about it more. In my opinion It reflects the wavy ness of female nature the point to be taken here is focus on the purpose keep being the man she was attracted to the first time you met up don't let her control you, show love but do so in the framework of Work first Bitches second

@anatourney5175

6 ай бұрын

Yeah this is a middle schooler's idea of relationships.

Lol the Superior Man thing with a white fist ✊ makes me feel a little weary. Did you mean to do that.

Много о женщинах

Women arent liars, they are just "reality-fluid".

Ejaculation turns women off??? that sounds weird i mean long waited ejaculation not Premature.

Lmao this guys reading this at gun point

100% Written by a woman.