No Contact Makes Your Ex Think Everyone Wants You

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When You Go No Contact, They Think Everyone Wants You. Struggling with a breakup and unsure about the benefits of no contact? Join me, Craig Kenneth, a relationship coach and psychotherapist, for expert advice on how implementing the no contact rule can make your ex perceive that everyone wants you. Dive into personal growth and self-improvement with my workbook series, The Knowledge, designed to help you make positive changes like never before. Get your hands on the workbook now at AskCraig.net and remember to subscribe for more relationship insights and support!
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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth2 ай бұрын

    The harder you work while in No Contact, the more confident you will become! Do The Knowledge Workbooks or Creative Healing Course 30 minutes a day and you’ll see payoffs!

  • @Croy617

    @Croy617

    2 ай бұрын

    Hey Craig, just wanted to let you know I bought the first volume one through five and printed it out, but it only printed out number five and four not the rest. What should I do?

  • @matthewray5343

    @matthewray5343

    2 ай бұрын

    What is the difference between the knowledge and creative healing course?

  • @romanofranci7835

    @romanofranci7835

    2 ай бұрын

    ok, does no contact work even if 2 months after the separation she got together with someone else?....

  • @JimNewman-cc5gh

    @JimNewman-cc5gh

    2 ай бұрын

    Help Craig! My ex started seeing a new therapist 2 mos ago the dsy after she broke it off. I did a couple mild text reach outs after 1 week of NC after. She responded to one and said she cared and still does are but needed some time to work on her(she lost a child last year) but didn’t understand why i perceived she needed space. Then out of no where she blocked me. I left one nice message a week later from another phone and nothing since i have been in NC about 6 weeks now. Feel pretty good & doing well professionally etc but it’s a definite challenge maintaining NC Im a fixer.

  • @JimNewman-cc5gh

    @JimNewman-cc5gh

    2 ай бұрын

    Need some advice asap!!!!

  • @moisesreyes4933
    @moisesreyes49332 ай бұрын

    I been in contact for 4 months today. I didnt get my ex back but I honestly feel good. No contact is not for you to get your ex back, it's for you to get yourself back. Good luck yall.

  • @Halopunk90

    @Halopunk90

    2 ай бұрын

    No contact is for attraction during the dating phase. It does not create the necessary feeling of safety, quite the opposite, for long term serious relationships

  • @JaeNicole444

    @JaeNicole444

    Ай бұрын

    Awe yea I love this statement ❤

  • @JaeNicole444

    @JaeNicole444

    Ай бұрын

    Oh and here’s the other thing, yes it helps the attraction phase i agree, and @moisesreyes4933 your words say I didn’t get my ex back but then u state at the end of that you feel good- that was my sign when I realized it was because I did in fact actually have my ex back , I could feel it. it just wasn’t society’s definition of what having someone back looks like 😉

  • @JaeNicole444

    @JaeNicole444

    Ай бұрын

    And my other sign was that I was drawn to get more in touch with myself to keep me patient enough to allow my SP the space and comfortability he needs from time to time 🤷‍♀️ just saying lol

  • @moisesreyes4933

    @moisesreyes4933

    Ай бұрын

    @Nicole-yz7bo update on my situation. My ex texted me to say happy birthday and that week she came and stayed the night but the next day I realized it wasn't meant to be. She tried to talk to me a few times after that but I just kept it short so she got the clue. She deleted her social media and I haven't talked to her since and honestly I feel good now.

  • @cebondlela1293
    @cebondlela12932 ай бұрын

    Starting no contact was the craziest idea to me, but I ended up healing and my ex has tried getting back together 3 times now which Iv happily declined 😊 #content

  • @Croy617
    @Croy6172 ай бұрын

    Lmaoooo Craig took a jab at that guy in the ad that says “stop wasting time in no contact” lmfaoooo Craig with the accent!

  • @Sisco14

    @Sisco14

    2 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @AttractionClass

    @AttractionClass

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @flowerfromdecember
    @flowerfromdecember2 ай бұрын

    Rip coach Margaret 💗

  • @MrTnoiuk
    @MrTnoiuk2 ай бұрын

    My ex left me and dated around loads, I was in a really bad situation. I half hearted follow these advices. I started watching lots of these youtube. FROM my experiences find a channel that give sound advice (this one is good) cos if you watch multi channel sometime it can be conflicting and you be mess up. I did No contact and she did come back. However, I was so happy that i worship her instead of holding her accountable. OF course she left.😅 Anyway after 6 year i study and learn and heal. Now ina relationships with a woman i couldn't ever dream off and no my eyes is still.open and not wearing rose glasses. Keep it up guys if you are going thru a break up. They is always hope and both in that you ex could come back and if not it is still possible to find someone else better. But CRAIG Right. You do need to work on yourself.

  • @OlderWomenRock
    @OlderWomenRock2 ай бұрын

    This only matters if they felt love or deep feelings for You Think about when You’ve left somebody You knew wasn’t the one You really wanted You probably didn’t look back

  • @bria2luv305

    @bria2luv305

    2 ай бұрын

    Agree! I walked away from my boyfriend he was the most verbally abusive guy Ive ever dated. His anger and mouth got worse and worse. I never grew deep feelings. He was so abrasive and miserable. I have to say Im at peace. My health is better too. I'm 69, I hope to make it to 70-yrs-old now! I do not want to date right now! I'm good.

  • @johnrevelation37

    @johnrevelation37

    2 ай бұрын

    So true

  • @cfnaround1585

    @cfnaround1585

    2 ай бұрын

    Women need to learn to connect too. In my experience the women expect men to do everything and give nothing

  • @parkermedarb
    @parkermedarb2 ай бұрын

    To reiterate what I read on another video..."This guy is brilliant"! So helpful!

  • @greenstatic9286
    @greenstatic92862 ай бұрын

    Oh wow, I've never been able to see one of these live. Looking forward to this one!

  • @ericbizier6293
    @ericbizier62932 ай бұрын

    PREACH!!! Craig Kenneth is the man! thank you, kind sir! 🤘

  • @cindyd3769
    @cindyd376912 күн бұрын

    Craig, brilliant video. Looking good w/ the lighting and softer hair. I enjoy seeing you alone in your expertise and real practice experience. Best out there people.

  • @theLupeXperience
    @theLupeXperience2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this video Craig. Ive been good in no contact, doing the work on myself, moving forward. But i feel like ive had a relapse over rhe past few days. This video is helping steel my resolve and optimism! Onward

  • @proudmasculine
    @proudmasculine2 ай бұрын

    If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves a hard one to watch…

  • @Carla-ku7es

    @Carla-ku7es

    25 күн бұрын

    Did you break up with her?

  • @lelandpaul6773
    @lelandpaul67732 ай бұрын

    Thank you for all that you do ❤

  • @rwvanveen
    @rwvanveenАй бұрын

    I don't have contact for almost 3 years. It's sad but I found my way.

  • @JaeNicole444
    @JaeNicole444Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 on the handwritten letter note- go ahead and do it just don’t give the letter to anyone! Nobody but you, yourself, and I lol very important……but put it in ur drawer when ur finished and leave it alone lol……This worked amazing for me when the anxious side of me freaked out like he was talking about (aka 7 page letter 😂) ……it’s weird, it like let’s you get it out and kinda still feels like they receive what they need to from it on an energetic level and that’s when I always see “feelings change” like he says in the video.

  • @lilywashere_
    @lilywashere_2 ай бұрын

    Going into six months of radio silence. He hooked up with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. He’s severily avoidant. I became anxious in our connection. I miss him deeply and still suffer immensely at how things ended out of the blue. It feels like he ended it because he caught feelings, not because of the reasons he gave. Should I just let go and move on for good? This is the most painful breakup I’ve ever been through.

  • @Wildanimal864.

    @Wildanimal864.

    2 ай бұрын

    If you’re in true no contact you shouldn’t know who he/she is hooking up towith…….stop stalking and let whatever happens happens. Remember sex isn’t enough to maintain interest.

  • @justintrades7851

    @justintrades7851

    2 ай бұрын

    go to the health store any buy ashwagandha, mix teaspoon in water, this powder relieves strees aniexty and helps get over ex makes numb just flat lined fully fuctional its amzing

  • @devonways1657

    @devonways1657

    2 ай бұрын

    Throw him off the pedestal and climb on up there and be the queen you are! Put yourself first. Think about all the dreams/goals you’ve had for yourself and put one or some into action. You deserve better. You’ll get better. Feel the feels. Cry as you need. And trust in the mystery that life can be and believe you’ll be the best version of you and one day you’ll find someone more worthy of the new and improved version that’s coming 💕

  • @oOOoOphidian

    @oOOoOphidian

    2 ай бұрын

    It's only worth getting back together if you both worked through your issues for real. Otherwise it's just round 2 of the same mess.

  • @sadiqua7

    @sadiqua7

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s the most painful experience, I’ve been there. When I finally went completely no contact I felt so much stronger. You may always miss them but after a while you realize you miss the potential of them, because the reality is they are not capable of being the partner you need or else they never would rip the cord the way they did. It hurts until it doesn’t, and that’s when you realize you deserve better and can get better. We live in a state of lack when discarded the way avoidants do it. Take your power back. My ex is also avoidant as hell. He just text me yesterday after almost 3 months. He discarded me almost a year ago but wanted to maintain friendship. I tried it for a few months until I realized I’m not really moving on and text him that I need to detach from him and explained how much hurt he caused me throughout the relationship with his hot and cold nonsense. He had pursued me for 2yrs, I finally decided to give him a chance and he was inconsistent, gradually decreased communication and every time I told him this isn’t for me, he acted all upset and convinced me to stay, then ended it after a pregnancy scare. He was insecure about his finances but instead of admitting that, just said I deserve better, and I deserve a family. No discussion, no let’s game plan our future, just, bye, let’s be friends. Smh. Avoidants are going to avoid.

  • @dmitryisaev5955
    @dmitryisaev59552 ай бұрын

    Your work helped me a lot to become secure and stronger! Thanks a lot!

  • @Wildanimal864.

    @Wildanimal864.

    2 ай бұрын

    Did they ever come back?

  • @dmitryisaev5955

    @dmitryisaev5955

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Wildanimal864.She sent two texts in 9 months from two fake accounts on Instagram saying: you are looking great. Do you remember me? It was this Jan. I didn’t react. Silence now. She is a severe DA.

  • @benjaminnielsen4288
    @benjaminnielsen42882 ай бұрын

    STOP WASTING TIME IN NO CONTECT! Lol. I know exactly who you're talking about...I always skip that ad quickly.😄

  • @io100x100
    @io100x1002 ай бұрын

    Could you make videos about the dating phase as well?

  • @VanlifeNoonan77
    @VanlifeNoonan772 ай бұрын

    when my divorced 55 year old mom of three girls tried to put me in the friend zone after 4 years of a very fun and reasonable relationship. I told her she was a jerk and wasted 4 years of my time . After one year of being solo I do miss her but will not put up with bull .

  • @chrislim7976
    @chrislim7976Ай бұрын

    Just do your best to move forward. Some people are ridicolous dont be part of the trainwreck. Take care everyone

  • @DarinDmarkovic1
    @DarinDmarkovic1Ай бұрын

    This is good

  • @lionelt7882
    @lionelt7882Ай бұрын

    The hand written letter sounds so cringe 😂

  • @SuperGem1979
    @SuperGem19792 ай бұрын

    It doesn’t work when you’re both practicing no contact. It’s been over 2 years and he found someone else in less than 4 months because he took my no contact as not being interested in resolving and reuniting. I regret everything that I could’ve have done differently.

  • @mint_soup9743
    @mint_soup97432 ай бұрын

    If I was her I'd be moving on because it all started from his apparent lack of interest in her. I'm not saying she will but I'd certainly be like, wow, he still doesnt seem enthusiastic about me. But hey that's why I'm not a coach, I just know how I'd react because I'm going through similar.

  • @jamalforrest2737
    @jamalforrest27372 ай бұрын

    No contact wont work on my ex, she left family members and best friend's alone, she said she will take no contact to the grave. The day of the breakup she told me she was gone help me get over her, and yelled and caused a scene where the neighbors was looking. It was very embarrassing. Its been two months a reached out once a month ago no response

  • @gotchamocha

    @gotchamocha

    2 ай бұрын

    then let her eat her words and take it to the grave.. show her that you are colder than her.

  • @CK51515
    @CK515152 ай бұрын

    Is this pre-recorded?

  • @goranhajduk1992
    @goranhajduk19922 ай бұрын

    9 months of NC. All quiet on the western front...

  • @RCT479
    @RCT4792 ай бұрын

    First to watch like and comment

  • @meatmuncher123-j6x
    @meatmuncher123-j6x28 күн бұрын

    I initially went no contact after my ex of 4 year broke up with me and I have broken it in 3 days and beg her to stay with me. She told me me to never call her again and unfortunately my anxiety got the best of me in less than 2 weeks after that and I called again. This time she was very angry at me and blocked me every where. Do no contact still work in my case? I am anxious and she is avoidant.

  • @Wildanimal864.
    @Wildanimal864.2 ай бұрын

    Craig forgot to knowledge the part about her still having access to this house hell if my partner still had access to my house, I’m sure they come back to me too😭😭😭💀

  • @youtubeuser5102
    @youtubeuser51022 ай бұрын

    Does no contact work on a girl that you're coming out of the friendzone with but pulls back again after hooking up?

  • @kheicee
    @kheicee2 ай бұрын

    i dont care if he thinks everyone wants me. i just want him back :( its 3 months since he broke up with me and since our last contact. a part of me still cant let him go. 😩 i wish he knew he is still the one i want.

  • @Halopunk90

    @Halopunk90

    2 ай бұрын

    Communicate and stop taking advice for your unique relationship from KZread videos

  • @Supersleuth0987

    @Supersleuth0987

    2 ай бұрын

    Same situation exactly 😕

  • @Yodadrummer321
    @Yodadrummer3212 ай бұрын

    What do you do when no contact brings them back, you have a nice conversation, make plans, but they don’t prioritize you and make you feel rejected all over again? Go back to no contact I assume? I stuck up for myself, said how I felt, and now I’m not contacting her. It’s still very hurtful though. I’m not sure if her intentions were genuine or if it was solely an ego boost that I responded to her. She seems like she doesn’t care now. Whether she does or doesn’t, I don’t know.

  • @joejohnson5870

    @joejohnson5870

    Ай бұрын

    She cares but you came on too strong too quick. You need to attract her. This is exactly what coach Craig talks about. When they reach back out you aren’t ready and emotions take over. Play it cool.

  • @Yodadrummer321

    @Yodadrummer321

    Ай бұрын

    @@joejohnson5870 Thanks man. She offered a friendship, but I didn’t feel that was right after a year and a half of being together and discussing marriage. I put up a boundary respectfully and said it’s best we go our separate ways. We have been in no contact a month. It’s hard and I miss her, but i’m doing the best I can. I don’t want to be an option and it sucks because I could be for her at this point. Maybe she really needs time and I understand she has been through bad traumas, but it feels like I’ve been put on the side while she lives her life. Saying no if she comes back will be difficult for me. I get you have to value yourself, but the whole thing stinks. I could take her back because I love her or not take her back because I value yourself and lose our relationship and life together anyway. It feels like a lose lose. Maybe I’m looking at it wrong.

  • @ApostleThe344
    @ApostleThe3442 ай бұрын

    I don't see how this applies if they blocked you 2 days after. I didn't beg or plead, she left randomly saying she needed to be single and never healed from past traumas, relationships. She also has BP and BPD. Don't think this one is coming back

  • @Raadestdude

    @Raadestdude

    2 ай бұрын

    My ex blocked me and unblocked me before too. So there’s always a chance. Just work on yourself in the meantime

  • @gotchamocha

    @gotchamocha

    2 ай бұрын

    Shes not for you then. Why do you want someone back who clearly told they rather be single ( aka legs are open for multiple others).. go to the gentleman’s club because thats the caliber of women you fall for my brotha.

  • @russellcameronthomas2116

    @russellcameronthomas2116

    Ай бұрын

    If she has BP and BPD, and hasn't healed from past traumas, then count yourself very lucky that the relationship ended and you are still in one peace. What ever pain you experienced in the breakup is minor compared to what you'd experience had you stayed with her. Wish her well (silently) and move on.

  • @CK51515
    @CK515152 ай бұрын

    Hey y'all

  • @leona9482
    @leona94822 ай бұрын

    Me and my ex broke up just a few days ago. I'm doing no contact rn. But his birthday is in a few days... Should i graduate him or not? He could think that I forgot about it or care so less that he doesn't even want me back in a few months..?

  • @russellcameronthomas2116

    @russellcameronthomas2116

    Ай бұрын

    "No contact" means don't initiate contact for any reason. No birthdays, no holidays, no anniversaries. Also no indirect messages via social media posts. It doesn't matter what he thinks or feels. He has to experience the consequences of the breakup, including not knowing what you are doing, what you are feeling, etc.

  • @thebirima91
    @thebirima91Ай бұрын

    If you live together with kids. Is offering my wife tea a form of contact that I shouldn’t do? I am not chasing her btw.

  • @michaelalday182
    @michaelalday1822 ай бұрын

    no contact really works, I did no contact as he asked for some space and then after only 5 days he emailed me today!, and yet today is his birthday and he said he can’t last his birthday without me! it’s important to let your partner to miss you during no contact. thanks Craig!

  • @neodistinct
    @neodistinct2 ай бұрын

    11 month no contact. They don't care when they monkey branch.

  • @sreach93
    @sreach932 ай бұрын

    Her going through his draws is ok....it means she cares, but if he went through her draws it would be untrusting behaviour.

  • @candicepaiz3937
    @candicepaiz39372 ай бұрын

    Why do you advise no morning dates?

  • @rwentfordable

    @rwentfordable

    2 ай бұрын

    It's not romantic. it's what friends do.

  • @Teegee1387
    @Teegee13872 ай бұрын

    How does this work in a relationship as a woman with a woman!? I feel like this topic isn’t discussed much. But being in a relationship with another woman can be hard because both want to be chased and can be stubborn or is it the same!?

  • @MsDilemma

    @MsDilemma

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah that’s what I’m going through right now

  • @Teegee1387

    @Teegee1387

    Ай бұрын

    @@MsDilemma How are you coping!? What strategies are you using?

  • @Stop_please_
    @Stop_please_2 ай бұрын

    Two weeks no contact :( If she liked me she would of texted me by now

  • @ajantameitei4156
    @ajantameitei41562 ай бұрын

    What if it is long distance?

  • @annemarie7203

    @annemarie7203

    2 ай бұрын

    I have this question as well

  • @jennykilley6762
    @jennykilley67622 ай бұрын

    I think breakfast as a date is awesome. I'm female. Life is not always romance at night. I could fall in love over hashbrowns any day.

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc2 ай бұрын

    Theres alot here that i can tell what im doing is pretty good. But still exes dont come back.

  • @carlfreiermuth5424

    @carlfreiermuth5424

    2 ай бұрын

    wrong.. ex's come back when you no longer long for them.. in my experience more times than I can count.. that was before I delved into doing the work.. now women try to get me to take them out, they even try to trick me into going out with them.. just wake tf up and do the work

  • @Zemohc

    @Zemohc

    2 ай бұрын

    @@carlfreiermuth5424 What do you mean by "wake tf up"? I mean sure I can see that women are subtle and you missed some things. I see them too. But I don't want to engage because I'm not feeling that vibe.

  • @matthewisthebest8152

    @matthewisthebest8152

    2 ай бұрын

    They do you have to shift your energy

  • @Zemohc

    @Zemohc

    2 ай бұрын

    @@matthewisthebest8152 What do you think I did?

  • @Zemohc

    @Zemohc

    2 ай бұрын

    @@matthewisthebest8152 Ya. What do you think I did?

  • @1life2life
    @1life2life2 ай бұрын

    I don’t know about this. But she seems like she couldn’t give a rats a$$ about the break up. Been in NC for 3 months. I guess we have to wait and see.

  • @sreach93

    @sreach93

    2 ай бұрын

    I agree, all fingers seem to be pointed at him.

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo2 ай бұрын

    I have question.is it cheating in relationship if they got austim and down syndrome or is it different after dreams i had about morgan me and Stephen?

  • @kevabentura4692
    @kevabentura46922 ай бұрын

    My sneaky link dump me. Gah! Now stuck with the wifdy😮

  • @Raadestdude

    @Raadestdude

    2 ай бұрын

    Hope ur joking

  • @kevabentura4692

    @kevabentura4692

    2 ай бұрын

    Dead serious bro.

  • @Raadestdude

    @Raadestdude

    2 ай бұрын

    🤦

  • @brego12317
    @brego123172 ай бұрын

    Lol. Stop wasting your time in no contact!

  • @FurryLove215
    @FurryLove2152 ай бұрын

    Like, in chat feed

  • @proudmasculine
    @proudmasculine2 ай бұрын

    If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves

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