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My son left Islam when he was 16, now he turned 17, he said there is lot of disadvantage being a Muslim, he loves restaurant food, now he can eat food from any restaurant. Please make Dua for him so that Allah guides him back to Islam
@fardowsaabdi334
2 жыл бұрын
May Allah guide him to the right path which is Islam ameen ya rabi.
@ServingOthers99
2 жыл бұрын
Teenagers living in the current age of dunya obsession are having temptations coming at them from all sides. Inshallah he returns to Islam, but also keep in mind that one is still very far from fully set in their mind and their actions at 17. I hope you can continue to be a strong guiding force in his life so perhaps this helps him on his journey to Islam, inshallah, and I hope for Allah's peace and blessings upon you, him, and your family and friends.
@achievepeace6206
2 жыл бұрын
Give ur child my KZread videos I post inspirational Islamic videos
@anasalhomsi5501
Жыл бұрын
So his biggest downfall is eating McDonald's plz sister it's way far from end of world u teach him proper Islam by learning proper Islam
@Le_equitabliste
Жыл бұрын
No that is not the truth of why they left. The non believers believe that there is something wrong with quran and just want to be respectful to you. Don't worry he will see that Allah exists but he needs to find that on his own inshaalah. Don't try to mention it to him, he will feel ostracised and will be worse off. Probably never reverting to Islam again, so pray that he comes back but don't force. I know because I left Islam and re joined it. Just give them space and time.
My mother and brother don’t pray and my grandfather pays interest pls make dua for me and my family to get closer to Allah
For anyone who needs this video, Be prepared to tolerate others mocking and speaking to you in a terrible way. Do not answer back in a like manner, but rather stay silent or respond with peace. Loan them your good name, perhaps their good deeds will come to you on The Day of Resurrection.
@halimasumayya9890
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I was actually worrying about how people mock when I seriously practice my Islam. You said about responding in a very nice way so that their good deeds may come to me on Resurrection day SubhanAllah. Now I feel good Alhamdulillah . JazakAllahu Khairan
@ServingOthers99
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen, even when others act in such ways, we must never return that mockery or bitterness to them. As hard as it may be at times, it is true that we must do our hardest to be above letting anger, bitterness, or resentment pull us down. I have learned this the hard way myself, but Allah truly is the Most Merciful, Ameen.
@sumk66
5 ай бұрын
What if it's your immediate family? How much patience can you bear
Allah made us a unique pearl hidden inside a pretty shell called 'Islam', a religion of truth and justice. I feel blessed to be a Muslim. I am grateful to the Almighty for every breath that I take and seek Allah's protection and guidance.
@malikaeastonAllahfirstanfamily
2 жыл бұрын
Subhan'Allah
@trohzic
Жыл бұрын
Mashallah brother
Please make a video for reverted Muslim 🙏🏻
@muftimenkofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Just recorded! will be released soon in sha Allah.
@NURULHUDAdawahcallingtoAllah
2 жыл бұрын
@@muftimenkofficial Jazak Allah mufti
@OrashiTV
2 жыл бұрын
@@muftimenkofficial Thank you so much. I needed this!
@mehmetsevimli3330
2 жыл бұрын
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The thing is if any of ur family doesn't perform salahs as they usually do that doesn't mean that you should do the same so keep on praying and never stop never give up and lose hope in Allah SWT fore he is most merciful and most forgiving May Allah SWT grant us ease inshallah ameen 😊😊❤💖☝✊🙏
I am exactly in this situation but learning to be understanding and patient.
We are not perfect. May Allah guide us all ❤️
Masha Allah it's a most beautiful advice which is helpful for everyone of us try to be kind and nice to everyone May Allah grant us goodness and happiness in our life ameen 🤲😊 jazak Allah Khair 😊
May Allah make it easy for all of us and make us and our family members as pious muslims Ameen
Nice reminder 💯may Allah almighty preserve you sheikh 💞💖
this is exactly what i needed
Subhan Allah, I was just talking about this to my husband yesterday... I wanted to find a way to let them understand
JAZAK ALLAH KHEIR BROTHER!
Shake Mufti Menk, You are so beautiful and understanding; you hit the nail. Alhamdulillah Allah SWT grant me in your direction. Is what I'm missing in my life, people that understand without any problems, no questions asked. May Allah SWT bless and keep safe and your family🤲🏼🌹🌼🌺🌸💚☝🏼
ALLAH HELP ME TO ACCEPT THE THING IN MY PASS SO I CAN MOVE FORWARD TO DO UR WILL IN ALLAH NAME AMEN
Jazaka Allah khair my brother.
Been waiting for this one 👍🏼💕alhamdulilah
Thank you so much Shiekh this video is really helpful. May Allah ease all our affairs. May guide us all to the straight path.❤
Aameen ya rabulalameen. Such amazing advice.
May Allah SWT bless you and us
Mashallah May Allah help us all to do the right thing ameen
AsalaumAlakuim My brothers and Sisters hope You guys are having a gret Day
Sheikh mufti I love u for the sake of Allah, may Allah Make us to gether in Janna with the prophet
Assalamualaikum sir. Your videos are really amazing. I got hidayah through your videos. May ALLAH SWT bless you. You are truly a inspiration and showing correct path to us. Jazakallah khair.
I needed this. Thank you
I needed this
SubhanAllah I really needed to hear this
AOA, How are you? Hope you will be fine. Although I keep watching your small clips which are indeed informative and interesting as well I am desperately looking up to your longer speeches in just one and a half months I have watched up your 98% of work I am addicted to watching up to your long speeches as well as your broad discussion when will this all come up again in continuity I have learned so much from your content. Thank you so much. Lots of love from Pakistan💞💞
@othmanabdulkadir4030
2 жыл бұрын
Asc, sister my name is othman pls replied me
@Anaya301
2 жыл бұрын
Which sort of reply?
Alhamdulilah thanks to Allah
Thank you
MashaAllah, it’s really good suggestion...
May Allah reward you for the knowledge that you are making us think ..May Allah guide us Allah
I have non Muslim family members and we get along well. We all respect each other. I don't force Islam on them and they also don't engage in certain practices around me. We have to remember that not all are called to the table of Islam and that some get the call at later times.
@Abdullah_imran189
10 ай бұрын
Mashallah brother. At times, non practicing muslims can give you a much tougher time than disbelievers. May Allah guide your family to islam as well
Mashaa Allaah you lead me to islam to
Beautiful videos!
Assalamualaikum Thanks ustadz, your lecture is very useful 🙏
جزاك لله خير الجزاء
Very valuable advice... so many religious people avoid others who not religious but need to show them or advice islamic values in life. In sha Allah...may Allah (s.w) granted all of us.
Salam Alaikum Mufti, a video on having non-muslim family as a revert would be greatly appreciated!
May Allah guide us all to the right direction☝🏼
Alhamdulillah 🤍
Thnx❣️❣️
Alhamdulillah
Mashallah amin 🇧🇩
Ya Allah guide those our hearts love. We don’t guide whom we love but you guide whomever you will so we ask you ya Allah to guide them ❤
Allah is the greatest ❤️
Aoa, Related question, What to do in the upcoming times of extreme fitna, about when it is advised to stay inside such homes; not go outside....and yet domestic issues/violence would increase as well? Lockdown showed many cases of this.....what's the advised route of saving someone?
Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh mufti menk
Walaikum Assalam Wa Rahamatullahi Wa Barkatahu ❤️
Masha Allaah♥♥♥
Assalaimu alaikum dear brother! How should I deal with my mom who had schizophrenia. She is really upset with me bit I didn't really do anything in my mind to make her that upset. Alhammdulillah I'm a revert but my mom is still Christian. Please help me to understand how to deal with her. I know i should be kind but she makes it so difficult! Subhanallah.....
@19382q
2 жыл бұрын
Look up how to care for someone with schizophrenia. Remember your mother loves you and that she's the one that's sick and suffering. Goodluck.
@leilahaha1016
2 жыл бұрын
Dear sister I'm a family member of somebody with schizophrenia too. First of all let me send you a big hug. I know what it feels like to deal with it on a daily basis. Sometimes you can try anything and it's still not working. They go through some extremely painful phases during which they simply aren't able to feel empathy, gratitude or anything else for the people they love. And sometimes I had the impression that those whom they loved most got hurt most by them. But believe me that inside they love and feel the same as others. That's why I can give you the following advice: - take care of yourself and set boundaries. - try to get your family to care for her too. As much as you love your mom, you need to have some rest and stressfree phases. - join a local support group. If it's muslim people the better but if it's not, that's still okay. - make sure she gets the medical treatment she needs and also the right combination of anti-psycotics. For our family member abilify worked very well and all the symptoms completely disappeared but there were some other secondary effects such as extrapyramidal symptoms. If she forgets her pills, there's something called a depot which is an injection to take once a month. - make sure she doesn't take any medicine such as concerta, xanax, subutex or drugs like marihuana,cocaine etc. since they worsen the illness. - don't use harsh language or sarcasm since they aren't able to proceed that and sometimes start mistrusting. - be kind, patiend and make them feel loved. It's proven that positive and stable relationships help to ease the symptoms. - if it's possible try to convince her to go to a psychiatric clinic for some weeks. They can find out the correct dosage and combination of her pills. - go outside and walk with her. Their mind seems to relax. - read as much about it and try to understand the illness. 1/3 of schizophrenics seem to heal after some episodes and another 1/3 can live a very good, symptomless life with antipsychotics. - never give up hope. Pray and know that there will be better times. To me the worst thing was people pretending to be compassionate and understanding but talking badly about that person behind our backs. The stigma of being schizophrenic is terrible. Our family never gave up hope no matter what happened and that person has been living without any symptoms for 4 years now. May Allah ease your suffering and help your mom get better.
@beabeeeee
2 жыл бұрын
Waalaikumussalam warohmatullahi wabarokatuh. This may sounds not so helpful right now, but keep sabr and go forward, at some point insyaAllah Allah will change her or ur condition in some way. She may take long time to change but ur the one who will change for godness exponentially. I used to have a difficulty with my parents, and I think exactly like that to " i've tried to love despite our strange relationship but they make it difficult". The don't have illness (at least i don't think they have that time, i was a kid-teenage) but they always upset while i literally have to stay 24 hours with them bcs of some condition. Just try very hard to show how love them and every way, took years. Ofc failed may happen at times and may falls to an arguement bcs of misunderstood but don't worry, those events never take a step further to the goal, it just a obstacle to overcome. Don't fall to syaiton's trap. Just keep being gentle and be positive. Seek shelter to Allah if it gets hard ( or if u have anyone around, but only Allah is enough too) and pray to Allah for ease on the difficulty you feel and for your mom change of heart so it make it easy for you to love her. You can search tips for how to care for someone with schizophrenia just if it necessary, just to make it less confusing for you. But always keep in mind that Allah have the best reasons of things that happened, and with difficulty there ALWAYS ease. It's a promise. May Allah give you an ease soon, sister. Keep being strong! I hope others can help giving you tips too for treating someone with schizoprenia. Love and hugs from ur sister in other side of the world
@ebbiegz
2 жыл бұрын
My mum had it too. First of all your Family has to take care of her ilness. Go to a doctor and ask for therapy methods. That is the most effectiv for you and your mum. Do not forget she is ill. Than ne nice and try to Show her not so much just be her daughter and ne nice to her. Try to Go to places where you can live your religion more than at home to heal inside. Meet Friends where you feel safe and welcome. Do things to feel good and what gives you power and the strenght to keep on. Like mosque, islamic meetings/seminars etc where the atmosphere of iman can be feel. That is what helped me the Most.
@annadentis9743
2 жыл бұрын
@@beabeeeee Mashallah what a beautiful message!! It is very helpful sister! I highly appreciate you taking the time to write this long message for me!! May Allah SWT reward you with the best in this life and the hereafter! Ameen!
Wa alaikum salaam varahmathullahi wa barakathuhu bro. MASHA ALLAH Amazing guidance. Well noted. Agreed. Try In shaa ALLAH....But some hearts were locked n sealed by ALLAH SWT. We can't open it n can't dealing with them n can't do nothing with them. This is a testing for some pious hearts. MAY ALLAH SWT guide us n have mercy upon the sealed hearts n grants sabr to all dealing hearts. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. Jazak ALLAH khair for ur beautiful guidance. Please remember all dealing hearts in your precious prayers. Including me. 🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته
Walakum salaam warahmatullah wabarakatuh
MashaAllah ❤️❤️
inshallah I can show my fAmily why I choose islam
Subhan Allah Al-hamdu lillah Allahu akbar La ilaha illal laahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu , lahul-mulku wo lahul-hamdu ,wa huwa 'ala kulli shai'in Qadeer
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Shall I not tell you whom the (Hell) Fire is forbidden to touch? It is forbidden to touch a man who is always accessible, having polite and tender nature."
MaShaAllah🇸🇦
@othmanabdulkadir4030
2 жыл бұрын
Masha'allaah sister Allaah helps You
Mashallah♥️
و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Assalamualeikum love you all for the sake of Allah
I love Allah
Assalamu alaikum warahmathullahi wabarakathahu💯everyone♥🥰💯
Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters 🤗🇧🇩❤️
Some people drift apart from religion when things in their life goes wrong and they think their world has fallen apart and Allah could have stopped the hardship the fact is some parents don’t teach children from the start about the principles of Islam and why this life is a test
May Allah (SWT) guide our non practicing family members to the straight path! Ameen!
Narrated Ibn `Umar: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Keys of the unseen knowledge are five which nobody knows but Allah . . . nobody knows what will happen tomorrow; nobody knows what is in the womb; nobody knows what he will gain tomorrow; nobody knows at what place he will die; and nobody knows when it will rain." Sahih al-Bukhari 1039
Masalla
How do you deal with non-believing family members? Especially a mother?
Subtitles option should be on. Many need them. Thanks
اللّه ہمیں اتنی پاکیزگی عطاء کر دے (((🥀💙🥀))) کہ ہمارے نبی *حضرت محمد ﷺ* کے سامنے ہم شرمندہ نہ ہوں
Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders
Pla make a vdo on forceful parents, my parents always force me to do what they want me to do, need some advice, pls tell me what should I do.
Please make a video on unemployment issue
Asalam alikum Ya sheikh can you make a video on whether Muslim women need to cove their hairs when reciting the holy Quran because some are say is not obligatory for a Muslim woman to put on hijab 🧕 some say is obligatory please 🙏 thank you
Mufti Menk i need advise brother I bought my house 6 years ago with mortgage, back then I didn’t know paying interest was also haram, i still have the house, what should i do? There’s no Islamic bank here in the Netherlands.. any advise?
I invite everyone to read and listen to the Holy Quran.
Which ayat did he quote please 2mins 45sec
Masha Allah mufti saab your beard is so thick and black
I have a question now we know that hanging pictures of living things is prohibited i have to pictures in my room i wanted to remove them and my parents forced me to put it back what should i do in this case
Brothers and sisters can you please make dua for my brother he doesn't pray
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Is not really straightforward to keep a consistent practice in some situations. Reverts didn't grew up used to do that, it's different when you pray five times a day since a child and when you are an adult, 20 or 30 years without praying and suddenly you have to pray five times a day, it takes time to get used to. If you're busy (school+work) it can be hard, either on time or on energy. If you don't have muslim friends around or if you don't even have a mosque in your city or state, it's hard to learn and to keep practice when you're the only muslim in many km. People might commit all kinds of mistakes but I guess that a consistent Salat might be a very common one. How muslims "help": - You're not doing your salat correctly? You're not a muslim. YOU'RE NOT A MUSLIM. My friend, I did Shahada, you don't have power here, the One that can judge "how much muslim I am" is the Almighty. Let me tell you how do you really can help a person who are struggling: Shut up. You help by not disturbing or making things even more difficult. You disturb specially when people aren't well, tell someone who is suffering from depression that they're not a muslim at all or that they're only doing everything wrong, the person might just give up. Some might feel hopeless and even cry. Not everyone can listen to foolish things and keep cool. So yeah, being polite and lovely when people are not doing things perfect really helps. The reason that I'm not a Christian is probably because how much my family was annoying about it, I decided to look for religion in somewhere else and I've found Islam. If you are annoying Muslim relatives you might just make people go away as well. I know a guy that ended up as Atheist exactly because how rigid and annoying his muslim parentes were. This happens all the time in christian families as well.
@mohammedjafer9265
2 жыл бұрын
Your right May Allah bless you in this world and the next in shall ah
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Mufti, it would be great to prove your reasonings from direct citations from the Quran.
My now ex who was raised muslim is not big on actually practicing. He does and doesn’t. We were together and I became pregnant and due to his parents we are not together nor are they letting him accept the responsibility of fatherhood. I would still like to raise our daughter with the faith I was brought up with as well as Islam. Her first name will be Amira but I am unsure what to do about her last name.
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Asalamualaikum
My uncle did not pray always, plz make dua to him so he can't be more close to allah !!!
One night i saw my dead dad saying assallam o alaeikum and tonight i saw a dream i was in dead grandfather room sitting in his bed..and he was looking at me standing in the door .he was wearing brownish red clothes..no conversation occurred..i woke up after that..only one who can interpret correctly plz reply..
This talk is about me. -So while I avoid telling family I'm not Muslim, because leaving Islam hurts there feelings some things should be mentioned for people who actually care about truth, science, logic or just the perspective of the person this is against. -Connections can be made with any religion including a religion called Scientology which was invented in the last century and has millions of addherents, humans are easily fooled. -There is no proof any religion is Devine although every religion says that there is proof it is the true religion. -There are huge amounts of proofs religions are man made, however there are always methods to explain these away, (excuses when examined closely) -So then the question is , is there any harm in believing in religion, well, if you believe in an organised religion leaders in that community can tell you how to live your life, they can tell you to disown your family if they are threatened by them as Menk has done here. Masjids can tell people not to wear masks and they won't wear them. The ulema gets to decide which women can divorce there husband, if the husband has any power with the ulema, the ulema will disallow the divorce as has been reported. There are many many other scenarios where religion can lead to serious consequences. Menk portrays this as the muslim calling to good vs the non-muslim calling to bad, from a logical scientific perspective it seems to be the opposite.
If the Muslim Ummah wants to come out of the darkness and regain their lost status then the only possible way to achieve this status is to abolish shirk and its forms at all the levels. The message is clear in Muhammad Qasim’s Dream and I think he is Imam Al-Mahdi.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said: "আল্লাহর সাথে অন্য কোন মাবুদ সাব্যস্ত করো না, করলে তিরস্কৃত হতভাগ্য হয়ে পড়ে থাকবে।" (QS. Al-Isra' 17: Verses 22)সূরা ২. আল-বাকারা আয়াত নং ২৫৬ অনুবাদঃ দীন গ্রহণের ব্যাপারে কোন জবরদস্তি নেই। নিশ্চয় হিদায়াত স্পষ্ট হয়েছে ভ্রষ্টতা থেকে। অতএব, যে ব্যক্তি তাগূতকে(মিথ্যা মাবুদ) অস্বীকার করে এবং আল্লাহর প্রতি ঈমান আনে, অবশ্যই সে মজবুত রশি আঁকড়ে ধরে, যা ছিন্ন হবার নয়। আর আল্লাহ সর্বশ্রোতা, সর্বজ্ঞ।(...)..
Assalamualaikum Mufti menk sir ... I have a girlfriend we are in a relationship for more then a 3years. but her family keep saying that she can't marry me .. cuz they found someone else for her but she loves me I need an advice from you what should I do now... I really need to hear this from you sir......
@zovariarahman4134
2 жыл бұрын
Propose to their family and ask for her hand in marriage. Keeping a girlfriend is haram and bad for both of you. Marry her
@mohdkaif-hp9vb
2 жыл бұрын
@@zovariarahman4134 i tried but they said we don't want her to marry you..we want her to marry the guy se found for her...
@mohdkaif-hp9vb
2 жыл бұрын
@Sdjskskdjjs - I don't know what to do bro they are forcing her even they are saying if she didn't stop talking to me they'll gonna file a complain about me.... They are blackmailing me tooo
@mohdkaif-hp9vb
2 жыл бұрын
@Sdjskskdjjs - thanks for your suggestion sis and I have all the hopes on Allah SWT and I am sorry but I don't the meaning of shayk can you explain it to me..... And yeah her parents want her to marry that guy cuz he is richer then me .... And I mean they are not wrong they want there daughter to be financially strong... She even call me today and said don't you understand we don't need you .... Don't call her again....may Allah SWT make it easy for us....
@mohdkaif-hp9vb
2 жыл бұрын
@Sdjskskdjjs - ameen and jazakallah khair for explaining me everything. Sis.