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@blkrayvn1978

2 жыл бұрын

God protect this man at all cost. Thank you & God Bless you! 🙏♥️

@kendraburns5898

2 жыл бұрын

Embrace Compromise Respect!!

@tamelatkdaniels888

2 жыл бұрын

I am ordering this book- TODA!!!

@rubypersha5881

2 жыл бұрын

I been waiting for my book now for almost 2weeks when I try to email you about it won't go through

@essedarden4690

2 жыл бұрын

You have at least two impersonator accounts active, making replies in the comments of your videos.

Never be afraid to lose HIM instead of losing YOURSELF!!

@beefaye6861

2 жыл бұрын

Right..losing him is most likely a blessing...bye clown ✌

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@sherryhoward7298

2 жыл бұрын

Good Advice

@JessiesFamily

2 жыл бұрын

It took me 32 yrs to get out but I finally left Aug 14th, blocked 🚫 and went no contact. I am so much happier now. Less stress and I don't walk on eggshells or get blamed or treated terribly.

@travelchannel304

2 жыл бұрын

Need to start teach this to tweens! LOL create Boy & Girl Scouts badge for it! LOL

“It’s one thing to fight for a man who loves you, but you shouldn’t fight for a man *to* love you.” DEEP!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

💯 Yes!

@nisa3695

2 жыл бұрын

And if he really loved you he wouldn't put u in such a situation

@xsoutherngirl08x

2 жыл бұрын

@@nisa3695 your correct for when that matters mean some. But situations comes up. Especially in beginning from ex’s. & when it’s there u can see it actually is love that he or I should fight for. But definitely walk away after u have been human enough and feel to fight some one to love u.

@jacquelynhorton7563

2 жыл бұрын

And really freeing

@EvangelistCharlette

2 жыл бұрын

💯💚❤

NO way will I compete anymore. I’m a good woman and someday, someone may see and accept that. I’d rather be on my own and find peace than to compete. If a guy loses me.... his loss. Not meaning egotistical at all. I just know I’m valuable and a good find for the RIGHT man.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@averageandamazing9636

2 жыл бұрын

Yes you are and you should stand behind that because the one that deserves you will come to the surface and receive his blessing of you. Know your worth and that is plenty and never settle for less 🙌🏽

@ewelinamie8712

2 жыл бұрын

I made this mistake of fighting for someone I don’t even love. My ex started dating someone I knew and that bothered me a lot. The competition mind set is sick, I wish I could just let it go.

@mg-fw5fz

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 100%. I have just come to this realization myself as far as my worth. Now I need to apply that in my life

@alexandraschuster9700

2 жыл бұрын

Word!!

A man who truly loves you will not put himself in the position to lose you. You are the prize.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@beefaye6861

2 жыл бұрын

💯✔

@sandragreen5146

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you welcome ❤😊

@mariekeatingx

2 жыл бұрын

At the same time us giirls have personal responsibilities to make sure we don’t have a sense of false entitlement to dismiss what we do in the relationship

@drf695

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandragreen5146 can you see how that might sound off-putting?

If you gotta fight or even ask for his attention, then he needs to be dismissed.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

WHEN A MAN START PLAYING GAMES, I'M GONE, LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE PLAYING GAMES WITH PEOPLE'S FEELINGS.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

1. Fighting for his attention when another woman is involved. Don’t get caught up in the competition mindset. Rather than you looking at the man for who he is, you’re focusing on the other woman. 2. It’s okay to fight for someone who loves you, not for someone to love you. 3. Make sure you show appreciation when he does give you attention. 4. Never be afraid to lose him more than you’re afraid to lose yourself.

@TeacherBossLife

Жыл бұрын

If, another woman is in the picture RUN!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩

Never be afraid to walk away. Ever.

"It's ok to fight for someone who loves you, but it's not ok to fight for someone to love you"👌

@kimberlylindsey3774

Жыл бұрын

That part hit me heavy

We should especially take heed to the last point at 33:54. Even the man who’s truly best for you can’t fill the God-shaped hole in each of our hearts. A man can be an amazing leader, lover and friend to his woman, and she should respect and appreciate him as such. However, the Lord is the only one who truly satisfies our deepest needs.

@claraht.6999

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful 😌

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@jennifermwangi3541

2 жыл бұрын

Very True 💯

@desiree2299

2 жыл бұрын

Amen ❤️

@starbeauty672

11 ай бұрын

Amen

When we first met, immediately we felt a connection. It grew more and more every day. Leaving each other love notes and telling each other how grateful we are for each other. Never ever took the relationship for granted. We both respect each other. We'll be spending our first Christmas in Hawaii. 💃❤🍹🥰

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing!

@aleayh

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you

@tishnaswaby379

Жыл бұрын

Y u here if y’all so perfect 😂

@dezydream6472

Жыл бұрын

@@tishnaswaby379 nothing wrong with that. Sometimes people are just curious or want to take notes to nourish what thry already have. Another reason could be...... to give others hope.

Communication is VERY imperative in any relationship/marriage. Don’t assume someone knows specifically what you want. Tell him/her!!!!! Be specific, vocal, and expressive!! Leave nothing up to the imagination that will render explanation later or feelings of lack. Heck sometimes I feel like I’m too expressive. I let him know EXACTLY what I want and how I feel. Then it’s up to me to decide if his actions lineup with what I will or won’t accept. Bottom line!! Don’t give your power away!!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Communication is definitely key thank you for sharing ❤

@micheleprice9771

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! DEC2021

“Don’t be afraid to lose him. Be afraid to lose yourself.” Thank you Stephan. Thank you.

Clear communication is important. Understand we each follow our own dreams... and sometimes those dreams change paths. This acceptance brings peace of mind. Appreciate what they brought to your life and continue on your journey. There's something better waiting for you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@selfretired3025

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I like popping in from time to time. I appreciate what you do.🙏❤👊😃

@latoyagentles7387

2 жыл бұрын

So true.Powerful statement.

@Mz.AjsHappy

2 жыл бұрын

No free pass needed. Leaving should be positive. Rather be alone than w/some1 not fully grown.

@zenaisme

2 жыл бұрын

Well said 🙌🏾

I am not in a relationship and haven't been in several years. This cocoon-type season of my life is perfect to reconnect with my own spirit, cleaning my own house, being honest with myself and truly enjoying and applying what you're writing and speaking. Thanks Stephan ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

@dawnh.prince1383

2 жыл бұрын

I am in a distant relationship. I am a jealous female. I know there's something's I have over compensated towards. But I get that gut feeling also. So how can I stop tripping on the wrong things and be able to communicate with him about my feelings without him shutting down?

@ChoppedByTPodcast

2 жыл бұрын

Auntie, is that you??

This spoke to me on so many levels.. you stay because you think it will get better, you stay because you are ashamed that everyone was right. No one should have to beg or fight for something that should be freely given... if you have to fight then it can't be for you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

💯 Yes!

That’s just crazy! It’s exhausting. Let him go!! No one has time for this nonsense Married or not.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

When you are with the right person, you won't have to fight for attention or explain what you need. We should know ourselves and be able to speak each other's love languages. It's not chess, it's checkers. It should be easy. Flow easily.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@m.i.a1339

2 жыл бұрын

Facts it's like if you have vocalize your opinion an they still don't understand an if the mother is involved an nothing is being said that's when I fall back

@sandradube4456

2 жыл бұрын

You'll find out you still need to explain what you need even when you're with the right person. The difference is that you won't need to keep explaining yourself over and over again about the same thing. People don't just automatically know what we need because they love us.

Never beg someone to stay with nor their attention.You don't have to be anyone second choice.There is over 7 billion people on this earth, you don't have stay with some who value your time and loyalty.Keep it stepping..

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@andrear6550

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@annettewilliams1986

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!Soo true!!!!

@WeenieDogLive

Жыл бұрын

This helped me

I did what you advised in a gentle way. Went to church & prayed to God. Ex-boyfriend was livid when I broke up with him 2x. Told him I take owance for my actions. Had given him 2x chances & he said he'd do the things. Turned out his actions were inconsistent with his words. Hurt me terribly to walk away & I don't hate him but I saw a multitude of red flags & learned my lesson. 😊

As a parent I am teaching my sons about outside forces trying to derail a good relationship. Because I don’t think we get taught that ENOUGH. I think we always believe that everyone around us have our best interests.

I’m going through this right now I know he don’t love me it’s just an unhealthy attachment 😔

@beefaye6861

2 жыл бұрын

Yep...me too....its been 4 yrs...Im glad Im out of mine.... on the road to healing n better 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@lentisawilson2355

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you

I totally agree with you. The other woman isn't the problem the man is. I get looked at crazy when I say that.

@selfretired3025

2 жыл бұрын

It's the confused look they give because they don't understand this yet. ;)

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that.

@knownbymyfruit

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You’re welcome. I’ve been in that type of relationship and he thought I was going to compete with the other woman. I don’t compete I leave.

@beefaye6861

2 жыл бұрын

Right....u get looked at crazy cuz u got good sense 👍

@knownbymyfruit

2 жыл бұрын

@@beefaye6861 Thank you and you are right about that.

Never 👎🏾 👎🏾 … 🥊🥊 . Fight 🤛🏾 🤛🏾 For ♥️ ♥️♥️ ♥️ His 👨🏽 Attention 🗣 Amen 🙏🏾 Thank You ☺️ Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙏

From 13:40 to 17:14.....I LITERALLY BROKE DOWN CRYING LIKE A BABY....IT HIT ME RIGHT ON POINT....I TRIED SO HARD BUT NOW I HAVE TO LET GO....I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS AND THANK YOU

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@ivettecastillo5293

Жыл бұрын

Girl me & you both 😞💔

@ivettecastillo5293

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m going through that but we are dating & he hasn’t really been consistent with me & I had expressed myself to him so many times but he still doesn’t do anything about it ! I’m not in love but I really have feelings for him !but I think I might have to let go is hurting me 💔

Today you came to mind Stephan. I saw a guy in the gym that I’ve liked for a while he has been staring back and fourth for weeks. He asked for my Instagram and phone number I gave it to him and he never added or contacted me. 5 weeks later I saw him in the gym again today, he couldn’t have walked closer to my machine if he tried. He was trying to let me know he was there but he didn’t say hello or anything…he was just bread crumbing . He kept making sure he was directly in eye shot of every machine I was on. He looked baffled and VERY red faced that his breadcrumbs didn’t work. If he can’t even approach me correctly then I’d rather just get on with my life cos we are not doing that lol. We are not kids we are both 35.love your channel much love from England :)

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

I recently used Stephan's instructions on asking for what I needed, to expose the man I was seeing. I told the guy what I needed.....then he left. Yes, it was a big risk of disappointment, to find out if he was not really into me. It was worth it. It saved me a lot of time. I'm keeping it moving.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

“The right man will already know what you need and deserve!” Teach @Stephan Speaks! And YES, it is very important to clearly articulate, with details (nicely and lovingly) what it is that you desire/need so that he can properly receive it.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that, thank you for sharing ❤

@nieyshabrown9578

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Bless you! Keep doing what you’re doing! You’re educating and blessing God’s people-eternally grateful! ❤️🙏🏼

@titudela1588

2 жыл бұрын

What if I told him my needs and he told me he wish to be able to give me that but he is a broken man and he needs to heal😑

@nieyshabrown9578

2 жыл бұрын

@@titudela1588 Now it’s time for you pray and ask God to order your steps regarding your situation. Pray for the wisdom to handle it accordingly. The fact that he was open, honest and transparent with you, you now have to to decide whether to stay, pray and work on him healing so that he could be catapulted in to a position to give you what you desire. Ultimately, we can’t heal what we don’t reveal. The fact that he’s revealed it lets us know he wants to heal and be better!!! Relationships involve reciprocation. We can’t expect for someone to give us what we are not willing to give or do for them. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@titudela1588

2 жыл бұрын

@@nieyshabrown9578 thank you for your words. That touched my heart.lll pray. It is just I told him to take care of himself and I dont know if he will just move on.. ill put this in God s Hanks.

Thank you for making the point that even if things don't work out...it's still important to handle the "exit" of a relationship with the same intentionality as we would the "entrance" of it! This is much appreciated! Thank You!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

I like this video. I did lose my self with a horrible ex, and now im trying to find myself again, and Ive realized the one im with now, is emotionally selfish. I am constantly feeling alone. Ive spoken one on one calmly, cried, after awhile, I get pissed.

Found myself watching your videos like my life depends on it.. lol, I guess it kind of does! Thank you for your passion and compassion in the things you're doing for us women. You are the goat! ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤ I appreciate your support!

@FM-lp7on

2 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@thisismystone9658

2 жыл бұрын

You know. The GOAT himself!

@dena5558

2 жыл бұрын

Same!

@drf695

2 жыл бұрын

Watch and enjoy but wdym life depends on it?

Thank you for always putting emphasis on the importance of including God in our relationships. That’s commendable!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Great video. Yes, I think it's easy to lose perspective and forget to ask yourself , if this person is worth fighting for. Often times it's true we are only being competitive to see who has the upper hand and perhaps the control. In the end, no one wins competing for a man who has not even proven himself to be worthy of the relationship. I believe in fighting for love within the proper perspective. Fight for the love in the sense that you both will do whatever it takes to come together & make it successful, if it is truly a genuine love. Yes, pour into the other's needs and understand each other's love language, that is often the missing link. Use the 3 keys, communicate, show concern, & demonstrate compassion. And of course, always cherish the love. Thank you for an awesome video. Sending blessings & light. My quote, "love and desire should always keep the flame going."

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@JamaicaLove876

2 жыл бұрын

Always my pleasure ❤

I fought for a man to love me. Got him to marry me. Been unhappy for 37 years. The kids are gone. I'm 61 now. Lost so much of me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through ❤ 🙏

@gabrielnadia1085

Жыл бұрын

Be healed from that traumatic Season and Ask GOD's Mercy on that matter. Pray consistently

All great points and confirms so many things that I discussed with my hubby this weekend ... Everything you said pretty much confirmed that we have initiated the process to do the necessary work. "Fight for who loves you, not to be loved" - so poignant! Thanks as always Sir 👏🏾🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

There’s some very good points here, but, not to be the devil’s advocate, when a man is in pursuit of a woman of interest ORIGINALLY, she doesn’t have to do all of this coddling, hand-holding, gentle talking and baby-burping. He pulls out all the stoppers until for whatever reason, he decides she’s no longer worthy of his finest treatment. She could have shown him something that he doesn’t agree with or he could have found what he thinks is a level up but she’s still giving provisions to him. It doesn’t matter. But, when men decide to change their behavior, they aren’t man enough to come to the woman and talk to her about what’s bothering them. If he needs to break up, if she offended him in some way, whatever the case may be, he just decides to withdraw certain things from the relationship that aren’t obvious enough to be immediately noticed (he thinks). Then, we as women have to do all of this soothing and babying just to get BASIC COMMON COURTEOUS COMMUNICATION. Like, be men! Own what you do whatever it is! I think women can move about relationships way better with honest, truthfulness and timely communication. Not second guessing our gut feelings. Then when we know full well that things are different, and we ask about it, we’re labeled as insecure or paranoid. Like, really? I’m speaking from experience. More men are attached and looking than severing ties to find who they really want. I cannot tell you how many attached men want to take me out. I do not go because I know that if we blossom, he’s going to drop her like a hot potato; if we don’t blossom, it’s going to be me. But it takes two to tango (entangle). Say what you mean and mean what you say! I appreciate your work, believe me. But, I just had to mention that because it’s always expected of the woman to be the cleanup woman in these man messy relationships. So, we can’t truly heal while always having to cleanup his spilled milk. And most times, they won’t even acknowledge what they did. It’s sickening how immature some men are.

@LGull7

2 жыл бұрын

This is definitely relatable to a situation that I experienced.

@hershey653

2 жыл бұрын

This !

You are calling me out on so many levels. I appreciate it. I need to here this.

Wow! I needed this today! I know we both need to work on things and I have been reflecting a lot. Sometimes it's hard because I don't want to talk about it with friends and family. So watching videos is basically my therapy. I know what I need to do and continue to work on myself. If he truly wants to work it out, it'll depend on how he shows up. 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

@ivettecastillo5293

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m afraid to give him attention because he hasn’t been consistent with me & I had express myself to him many times I just feel like he is not listening or maybe I need to talk to him face to face

I truly needed to see and hear this, because I have someone in my life I’ve known since I was 16, and recently in 2019-2020 we reconnected, last year someone from his past came around and I pulled away from him because I felt like his heart was into her, not me. So fast forward he’s been talking about certain aspects of their relationship not being entirely what he would like it to be, and I’ve been feeling certain ways about it all in general because he didn’t want to be patient when I asked him to be; he talked to me about having abandonment issues, I have them too on multiple levels, so me pushing away from him I understand how that can trigger him, and I didn’t realize that until today🤦🏾‍♀️ thank you King, you’re really shining some light on the things that need to be discussed because some of us have communication/trust issues 😩😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback and I think this video will be helpful to you 👉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/aGWt3NOsZsTHlJs.html

Stephan is so funny while bringing us so much wisdom ! Thank you my fellow Haitian for giving us so much perspective into relationship issues while being so positive and nurturing. All your videos provide great insight and ways to improve ourselves on every level.

This is why you have to take a break between relationships

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

It really hits different when your talking and listening to someone who has "empathy". Hats of Stephan ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

The moment you say you don't want to lose the person, he Is gone already. Happened recently!!!

I must say Stephen, this is a very informative video. I love so many points you made. I love the opening quote, which makes so much sense. I also love what you said about "not being afraid to lose him, rather than lose yourself." That's profound. I don't know how you got so brilliant, but I'm sure your parents are extremely proud of you. Keep up the good work. 💐☺

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Wow, all of this is so true. I have actually lived it . Not ever good to fight for attention. It never ends well. Very destructive for both involved. Thank you Stephan.

I appreciate you for all the advice that you share. You have helped me out a lot during and even after relationships. I’ve started reading my copy of “Daily Affirmations for Healing” and it is truly helping me spiritually and emotionally. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback ❤

@carlosverde-datingtips7001

2 жыл бұрын

You should definitely not fight for his attention, especially if he has done you wrong! No man is worth your dignity, and self-respect - there are plenty of men in the world for you to resort to such a thing. In a situation like this, you might not realize it, but even when you think - you might have won, you actually lost! Because of what you had to put yourself through. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

Ladies!..for our sanity sake, don't beg!!!🥺🥺

So amazing. So beautifully expressed. Bless you! I feel listening is huge. Not to just words, the energy, body language, actions and unbalances of harmony. responsibility is key individually and together to build up without judgment of wrong or right. More on how we can build each other up with compassion and compromise. It's paramount to be unmovable in how we treat ourselves. For that is what we teach others on how to treat us. Mistakes and failures are a guarantee. When progress is not wanted by both or forgiveness is not given in how it's carried within, it's using it to keep us in attachments and sorrows.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback and may you be blessed as well!

Don’t fight for a man “to love you” Great insight!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

Well said, there’s a significant difference between fighting for a man THAT loves you and fighting for a man TO love you! In order for a relationship to be successful, both individuals must be receptive and less defensive when incorporating any change, that’s especially difficult for some. God must be in the forefront of the relationship, along with being communicative, open minded and emotionally vulnerable! Lastly, If your guy is open to change then awesome, however, if you have to force love upon him or them towards you and he tends to be close minded, defensive and complacent than more than likely they simply just may not be for you! Everyone deserves a healthy and happy relationship, not a troubled toxic one!! 🤷🏽‍♀️ By the way Stephan, your humor is everything!! 😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

🙂Right,"If you love something/someone,let it/ them go, if you cling,they/it was never yours the first place"

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

You are so on point. You are gifted. You are definitely a great man full of wisdom.

Always remember you can't fight by yourself for a relationship

You are the BEST DATING COACH I believe on KZread! You take a subject matter and deeply explain a situation in describing it in more details that reveals all the facts. You take your time to express thoughts and feelings. You are a person who has the "gift" of speech. Thank you for being the wonderful person you are. Thank you for pouring your heart into what you do.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

“Holding on to something that’s not there” I’ve been married for 15yrs and I’m 34. Things have not been the same for a while. I also know better. Raised better. Thank you for all that you do!!!❤️

@lifewithlysh8562

2 жыл бұрын

Speaking before the end of the vid!

@11940ful

Жыл бұрын

I hope your situation has improved since last year. ❤❤❤

Relationships are complex. Jealousy is real. Acknowledge it, talk about it with him, but stand in your own happiness. The onus is on the man to clean his mess.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

Duly noted! Thanks as always Stephan.🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

"Dont fight for someone to love you. Fight for someone who loves you" potent

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

Right On!! I’m loving hearing this Stephan!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

Your timing is always ... wow ! Thank God for this blessing.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

Good afternoon Stephan🙏🏻I agree☝️A Woman should never chase after a man’s attention or affection; because it can become very humiliating and embarrassing; and damaging to her self esteem……..if a man really love ❤️ you he will make change to better his relationship with you….it will be a mutual understanding of the heart ❤️ If a Woman have to fight for a man’s attention, then he was never worth being with you; in a relationship a man and woman should have bliss with communication and transparency when the live is real….real love allow you and your partner to discuss any and everything that exist in the world👑😇🙏🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

This video gives you reasons to not fight but also scenarios where you should fight, it’s all about picking your battles. Knowing when to hold on, walk away or run in some cases. Nicely explained 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

@enaalexis92

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Listen to the still small voice , it never makes mistakes ❤️

Thank you for this video and for the part about bringing positivity into your relationship. Not planting negative seeds. THATS SO IMPORTANT AND DOESNT GET TALK ABOUT AS MUCH.

Always great advice. Thank you😊

Great video & advise!💜 My motto is..Water only that waters you, Let go of anything that makes you feel thirsty. And being "Fine" is only giving you attention, but being a Real one will make them keep it. Remember ladies, we all have the same thing that a man wants, but what he can't get is your uniqueness and Love that only you display...I feel a Man is kept by a woman's personality not the other way around...

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

Love it thanks for always dropping those 💎 Stephan.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them ❤

These points are great. As a single woman I have been using your videos in dating. The quality of men is mind blowing. My willingness to ensure I am accountable for my role has been the life changer please my mind set to believe great men are out there

Yes! This is On Point! Thank You Mr. Speaks! Gratitude!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!

Thank you for this message. God bless you!

Thank you for sharing keep up the good work looking forward to seeing your VIDEO

This is what I needed to hear. Thank you Stephan!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

I feel like I'm in a revolving door with my ex. My ex is a NON - communicator. Dated for 3 years, and he ghosted me, because he got upset for something I text, but was true. Ghosted me for 2 years, and here out of the blue texts me, happy birthday in March. We texted back & forth for almost a month, and he ghosted me once again, for what or why I don't know. I'm tired, exhausted, and di5ne with his ghosting me whenever he gets upset with me. I feel he ghosts me to shut down so he don't have to communicate with me. There was time(s) months, and weeks he played the ghosting game with me so this is not new to me, but I'm here to get advise how to let this go in my heart, and mind. I love this man with everything I am, and seen a future with him, but I can't go on this way back & forth. I know in my heart he's not going to change to communicate with me EVER, so I've got to move on. I want to say, we did talk about marriage in the first year of dating, but that never got brought up again. We are definitely not on the same page, and I've known this, but still wanted the relationship in hopes he would change to communicate with me. I need to mention when he ghosted ne for the last 2 years, it was devastating, and broke my heart💔 like I've never been hurt this way before. It took me actually these 2 years, to accept the apology, and closure on my own without him giving me either one. When we were dating for the 3 years, and he stopped all communication with me I did reach out to him ONLY a couple timeshare, because of love, and wanted to make this work, but I failed. Some advise would be appreciated. Your video 7 Signs You're Just An Option was a HUGE wake up for me, THANK YOU!!🤗

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My question would be if you can't communicate with him why are you still there?

You are so precise, informative and direct ❤️🙌 Every woman, no matter race or background, will and can benefit from your advice!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

I like to block them and disappear and left them wondering where in the world I am 🤷🏻‍♀️ cya!! Aint wasting time explaining things to someone who isn’t invested

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

I appreciate you and your mindset. 💯🥰 This is clarity and facts.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Stephan. You are so on pointe! Thank you so much for these eye openers!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Stephan, I've watched approx. a dozen videos of yours so far... this is definitely my favorite! Great job! 👏👏👏👏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

6 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Thank you so much for videos as well as books you put out. I really needed to hear this.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Another reminder. I really appreciate your wisdom God bless you Stephan 🙏🏾💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you! very much!

I am glad you came to that realisation and even went ahead to take steps to enact change.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

Keep telling women this we forget !!!! Love the advice, you are saving lives and no joke God sent you to help us 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Angel on earth

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Hey Stephan I love every video you post. I'm very grateful that I've done my healing work and a lot of toxic behaviors that you talk about from either myself or others in my life doesn't apply to me anymore. I would love spiritual guidance from you on where to go after you've healed. Can you point me in the right direction?

Thank you for this!

Dang!!! This is sooo on point and makes since. Where were you 6 months ago? These are good nuggets and are right on time.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

@stephan speaks I am so appreciative of your Godly advice and wisdom you use to bless women. I am also glad that I love myself enough to not deal with the ignorant man’s bull crap. I have all of your books and I’ll be diving in deep while I’m off for the holidays. Bless you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response, and may you be blessed as well 🙏 ❤

Right!! Brother!!! That Part!!! Never!!! Thank you!!!❤😀

That accountability piece is huge.. Own your part in it if you're wanting the relationship to work

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

Always a delight listening to you and learning

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

very deep&strong words-do not lose yourself-that’s the important cognition in every single relationship, i really respect your approach to problems, you are teaching how to keep healthy relationship and how to understand if it’s exactly that right person we need& deserve next to us, how to love& act and the same time to not lose ourselves & to not be someone’s piece, additional part - but be exactly the half that will unite him and our souls♥️🙏thx a lot ♥️

@skystar6526

2 жыл бұрын

@@mardellcovone4906 who said I wanna get him back? 😆but thank you 🙏

Listening to you is so soothing. Always such wonderful advice and suggestions. Thank you for the amazing content!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You are most welcome ❤

You are brilliant….Thank you for sharing…

It's Hurt's more if a man does not give his wife or girlfriend Attention could make the woman feel depressed and always feel he has another woman elsewhere.Thankyou Stephan 🥰😍🙏🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

SO good! Thanks!

Very enlightening, thank you! 🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

my first time listening to you and you made some good points.

I think you are the best relationship coach on KZread.

Hey Stephan, Thank you for making these beautiful videos - they are so helpful .Just wanted to share a perspective .Sometimes you need to match the investment to really see if the person is genuinely in love otherwise giving attention is again about giving and giving and not getting anything back

Love this video it explains s alot. Thank you Stephan thank you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Thank you for this video. When you said I need to be myself in the relationship, I had just said these same words to him. It was confirmation. I am now taking a step back and evaluating if this relationship is worth the investment. I am leaning toward no but I think I will know sooner than later.