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@PeacefulMindset83

2 жыл бұрын

I messaged you in FB. Please read it. If you have time. Its really impt. Please.

@PeacefulMindset83

2 жыл бұрын

Im crying while watching this. 😔

@juliaguillen8986

2 жыл бұрын

How can l in contact with you sir

@angstuen1848

2 жыл бұрын

So I'm in a long distance relationship ! I need huge advice I already have watched so many of your videos I just don't know

@kevinpeterson9730

2 жыл бұрын

Finally my ex lover came back begging me for mercy after he has left me for more then 9 months without no phone call or even chat, he came to my house begging us to come back again after finishing Dr ojie prayer spell prayer thank you do much #Doctorojie channel on KZread .

I gave myself and my time with him a deadline without him knowing. We were exclusive after a few months but he had a year to make a major commitment. He did that within the first 8 months. We bought a home and moved in together. The following year, we got engaged and then married a year after that. He had no pressure from me to do ANYTHING. The right man will see your value and step up to be the man that you need. Ladies, state what it is you want and need from day one, set a realistic timeline and stick to your standards. Do not be afraid to walk away. Don't settle. ❤️❤️❤️

@nadinemartin9512

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@vanaphill2454

2 жыл бұрын

dont tell him your timeline. move in silence, ladies.

@irlandaise5631

2 жыл бұрын

yeah but you opened your legs and home before marriage. Like you said he had no pressure from you at all .Yeah I wont settle , my legs and home are closed until marriage

@richelletvforyou8324

2 жыл бұрын

@@irlandaise5631 There's such a thing as right message wrong delivery. I too hold to the belief that cohabitating and lovemaking is reserved for marriage, still I would hope to convey that message to sisters in a loving manner.

@irlandaise5631

2 жыл бұрын

@@richelletvforyou8324 yeah it depends sometimes no , its just I see tones of comments where women say the men waited but they didnt wait if you see what I mean. They were doing what the society expects them to did, yeah make the man wait for 8 months but do the above without a marriage first so there was no commitment.. Women need to speak up and stop the loving manner bs etc .You hold that belief but you say nothing like plenty other women who dont speak up . You are conveying any message to her but you reply to me. Her comment is making look like she did something subversive but she didnt and didnt spread up either., no need to do if you follow the society rules and promotion in fact .

1) Men have a hard time letting go, even if it's wrong. 2) The longer you stay the more attached/invested you get. 3) More time = more damage/ disappointment 4) You can give him a false sense of security. 5) He won't see a need to do better. 6) More time= deeper attachment children, finances, etc. 7) You end up blocking your blessings.

@clairelashaun4886

Жыл бұрын

Thank You 🙂

"lf you don't let go of wrong people,, u can be blocking ur blessing, love that"

"if you are waiting for a man to do what is right, you may be waiting for ever."

@CuttinUpWitBritt

Жыл бұрын

When he said that, I FELT that

A wise woman once said, “Taking him as he currently is could you handle him being 10x more of that? If not, don’t marry him because marriage doesn’t change the person for the better.”

Some relationship are definitely a waste of time! This goes for both romantic and platonic.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

I cant lie. I just got out of a relationship that was on and off for four years for all of the same reasons he has described. Over and over again disappointments and issues. When I say emotionally drained is how I felt. Depleted and torn down fighting tooth and nail. Breaking free is best and it’s not an ultimatum to request more. Know your worth ladies.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Please!

@shutit4024

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@katkos2750

2 жыл бұрын

You were too pretty for that nonsense anyways

@facesbypetv2210

2 жыл бұрын

@@katkos2750 thank you so much ☺️

When someone show you who they really are, believe them the first time. Maya Angelou Know the difference between someone that wants to marry because they really want to and someone that's trying to pacify you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@BklynBabe

2 жыл бұрын

That last sentence is crucial!! 👍🏾

@ABa-ve3ul

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Big mistake to marry any man who wasn’t excited to get married in the first place. You’ll regret it big time

This!!🙌 Implementing dating deadlines all 2022!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙌

@juliaguillen8986

2 жыл бұрын

Hi sir how are you doing

I tell my friends on this journey of love I’m a moving train, I won’t stop moving until I meet that man who will truly love and respect me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

So timely. 100% on right man wrong time. 7 years ago I met my now husband. The first time we met him we had a really pleasant first date. But something within me told me/God told me it wasnt worth comitting there and then so I deleted my now husband's number after one date because he wasnt showing me enough interest (I did not want to beg for his attention). I went on with my life... 5 years later I receive a random text from unknown number low and behold it was my now husband who texted me. I had zero expectations but to my surprise he was showing me interest and showing me he wanted to give me his time and efforts... it wasnt long till we met eachothers parents and committed to marriage. Ladies! Listen to that inner instinct that is God helping you to live a fulfilling life dont force love... God gives his love freely and he will provide a man for you who will love you freely and naturally at the right time. I'm here because I'm trying to understand and learn how to communicate these advices to my friends who are holding on to something that I can see is not right. It is a blessing that this video has popped up as my spirit has been troubled and concerned for my friends, this video confirms why I have concerns. Thank you Stephen!

@argates6507

2 жыл бұрын

@chanelwatson1983 then don't chase him. If he can't decide what he wants from you or the relationship, it's not up to you to figure it out for him. It's not at all unreasonable to expect that at your age, the two of you can break up now, and then get back together in a few years, after you've both done some personal growth.

@helens.8816

2 жыл бұрын

@chanelwatson1983 He is stringing you along. If he really wanted you, he would commit. Walk away, ask God to give you your heart back and heal. I am praying for you 🙏.

Now that I know how to properly vet men better, I’m not ignoring red flags or giving him a deadline. Instead, I’m keeping the deadline to myself and if he doesn’t meet it then that’s on him.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

Wow… this message came right on time! I’ve been second guessing myself about a decision I had to make even though I really didn’t want too… this video validates my decision and I know I did what was right for me and my mental stability. So much of this video resonates with me and my situation. I am still in love with him, and it hurts so bad…but I will have to just love him at a distance. If it’s meant to be, it will be. If not, I will silently wish him the best.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@mkh7967

2 жыл бұрын

Same! I was second guessing myself

@sophiaf.

2 жыл бұрын

Prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 for you.

@stormyv.8890

2 жыл бұрын

I know it hurts so bad... It's been a week since I left.. all I can think about is him.. and looking at my phone.. 😢 it's hard but one minute at a time.. I have to do this for me.. must pick my broken wings up and go..

@Please1ful

2 жыл бұрын

@@stormyv.8890 .. same for me tomorrow makes a full week. I had to conquer my fear of not letting go. I’m getting stronger and you are too. 21 days makes a new habit.. you are well on your way!

And nowadays to find a person who is sincere, honest, pure, love from his heart and comes to you just out of no specific reasons is a real blessing, probably here we will not need deadlines.

I totally agree about wasting time. It's about learning what you want and don't want, and knowing when to hold them and when to fold them.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Most definitely.

"Learn the lessons. Forgive them and yourself. CLOSE the doors and move forward."

This is so true there needs to be dead lines in when you want to be engaged/married too, I have seen women in a 15 year engagement and women in a 20 year relationship not even a ring on their finger I feel like this don’t get touched on enough. Loved the video!!

This message came right on time. Dude kept saying it's only been 4 months, but I will not be disrespected and if he could that bad in 4 months, I don't want to invest anymore time.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

This is why after a bad break up you need to heal and find yourself so you won't take any hurt into the other relatioship. Thank you for this ❤🙌😇 God really speaks through ppl 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Healing is definitely key, thank you for sharing ❤

Thank you! I needed to hear this TODAY! I asked someone im dating on sunday what his intentions were with me… i was in a 17 year toxic marriage in the past and i do not want to waste any time. His energy has changed since that conversation and i started feeling like i shouldnt have asked him. This video confirms that i made the right decision in asking. Thanks Stephan!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@trich7154

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you! I have purchased your books and have done the healing work. Your resources have been instrumental with my healing. I am at the most peaceful happiest point of my life… relationship or not. I wake up everyday excited about what is coming my way. ☺️

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

@@trich7154 Nice!!!

@shanp.2851

2 жыл бұрын

This is the reason I never ask due to the fear of the dynamic of the “situation” changing. However, I need to start asking because too much of my time has been wasted. Some men are cool with “going with the flow” versus making something official.

@trich7154

2 жыл бұрын

@@shanp.2851 the dynamic definitely changed but i am glad to see it now versus 6 months down the road

Haha. Mine did that. Treated me bad for years. Disposed of me over and over. I begged him to do things to try to make our relationship better. He would make fun of me for it. Then when I finally walked away for good, he cried and said he didn't ever believe that I would leave. I'm thinking, "so that's a reason to treat me like trash? ".

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

Thank you! Worked for me. I made the decision of how much time I would give it and didn’t beat myself up for staying 1 month longer. Just didn’t want to spend so much of my life always being the one compromising. I matter too! Very inconsiderate and thought gifts would make up for it. I was no longer willing to become attached to a relationship that was one-sided; hoping he would hear me tell him about my needs and it never happens. I was no longer willing to settle for less than what I deserve.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@klstepney

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you. I’m happy with my decision. It was for the best. Thanks again.

Ego can be the only thing that make men struggle to let go. Ladies that cut off point will help you prepare yourself for the future

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

Yes, clearly defined boundaries and expectations can minimize disappointments in the long run. It's better to have that difficult conversation now verses 5 or 10 years from now when your life has intermingled in this web. Stephan, you put your heart into this message, and spoke passionately about making the most of our lives which I appreciate. One thing we can never get back is "wasted time" and it's always better to release and let go what truly isn't for us. If the relationship doesn't uplift, encourage, edify, & nurture your spirit, then it's a solid no, and release. Release with love. Bottom line, if you are not leveling up and becoming the best version of you, then that's the not the man you need to build & grow with. Excellent message. Great points, & examples. Blessing & peace to you. "Love is a seed, if you water it, plant it on good soil, it will flourish."

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@JamaicaLove876

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaksKeep up the great work. ❤ 🙏

@kevinpeterson9730

2 жыл бұрын

Finally my ex lover came back begging me for mercy after he has left me for more then 9 months without no phone call or even chat, he came to my house begging us to come back again after finishing Dr ojie prayer spell prayer thank you do much #Doctorojie channel on KZread .

@natashaalicia2.0

2 жыл бұрын

@@kevinpeterson9730 Da'fuk FOH with this mess!

Men will also trap women with babies. Make no mistake. They do it for control. And if a man feels he’s more invested and really wants to be with you, he knows that many women will stay “for the kids”

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@cicigetthat07

2 жыл бұрын

Girrrrrrrrrrrrl and then they swear up and down that they didnt trap u SMH ..

@shutit4024

2 жыл бұрын

You are so right I hear this over and over again

I told him at the start I wanted to be married after 5 years. We are at 5.5, and I know it isn't going to happen. I've got my apartment and am moving Saturday 2/26. Of course, we have other issues like communication and his video game addiction, as well as his ability to help around the home, etc... so... I think it is time to cut my losses, and thank him for teaching me that I am worth so much more, and deserving of so much more. You Sir, are wonderful. I don't know if I would have had the strength to let go if I didn't listen to your advice, as an individual who I have never met or spoken to, but who spoke to me in a way that felt personal. Thank you.

I’m at work and I’m going to MAKE SURE I come back to watch later

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

I LOVE that example of the casino - $1000 in and I'm gonna win something "hopeing" to hit the jackpot, but losing more. WOW!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

Not gonna lie this is for the men too. No need to hold space for a woman if she's not ready to grow into it

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Most definitely!

@thelookout5802

2 жыл бұрын

That's correct..

I like that you mentioned how women can get to a point where there is no more energy to even try or care, this is very, very true. It's sad and scary how I literally no longer have the energy to care or give anything. There is a special place in hell for a man or woman who deliberately takes the wind out of another's soul where they cannot love anymore. I wish I had a positive male mentor back in the day, but they simply were not around. Thank you for your content.

Wow...he said..."There's a lot of women not walking in their purpose because they're walking with the wrong man"🤯

Well said ☯ Setting boundaries at the dating onset holds yourself accountable and lets him know where he stands. He either steps up or steps back while you stay on track and live in alignment with yourself.

Dang it Stephan. Stop reading my journal!!! I swear you are telling my story play by play. Sis, please don’t just hear, listen!!! Apply these principles. They are sooo applicable. I wish I would have received this years ago. Many blessings all!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

🙏

As a P.S: After watching a few of your videos, I blocked 3 other men, who were not right for me total of 4 men who were either toxic or too immature or both. Thank you. (Initially on KZread, I stumbled upon your videos. Hmmm,think God wanted to get my attention.) You got it.

I knew 3 months in that Peter Pan Man Boy was not the one, though I stayed engaged because I felt bored and lonely at the time. I knew better and stayed in that situationship 9 more months. Lesson learned to never settle. Thank you for this message Stephan 🥰🥰

Yeah you have to always set a BOUNDARY with men so they understand you are not always going to be available when they need you. If a man comes back, never forget how they left you. FULL STOP. BE RARE.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback.

@nataliebeck1705

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!!!

Great point..deadline...Work on the relationship, BUT...start the clock ladies...tick, tick, tick💯💯💯

This is such an eye 👁 opening message for our … “Mind , Body & Soul” !!! Now let’s do better ladies. We got this 🙌🏾. Thank you 🙏🏾 Stephan ☺️. Your changing the “Game” again. Or should I say “Mindsets” again.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

@millertymehomechef7909

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

So true... I have over 7 years of waisted time with 1 person...🙄

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

Thank you for this. Because this will help me when this comes up for me. I gave him only one year and that is it no matter what. He has showed me enough to make a decision. Ladies stand up to these men and don't be afraid to walk away it will be the best thing. Love yourself frist. Do not pour all of yourself in to him. Love all my beautiful sisters 💜❤💜❤💜❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

The most important relationship in life is the one with the person that you see in the mirror.

Thanks 👍🏾, I definitely believe that. My patience is now gone with alot. I let someone linger way to long knowing he wasn't marriage material, didn't want to get married, hypocritical , narcissist and a host of other very unhealthy attributes that don't add value to me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

Great advice for young girls and ladies in relationships... (listen up don’t block your blessings)

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!

Dude (respectfully) I'm so glad I discovered you, want to hug you right now!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

We ain't wasting no time in 2022

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback ❤

I agree, it's 🕛 to set ourselves up for amazing things. Those of us who love deeply, love deeply! 🙏🏿 The right person and the right time!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

Your messages always come at the right time... I feel guilty for walking away but I know God has better things in store... I want what God wants best for me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you for this reminder!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy that this has been helpful to you 🙏

I got divorced 8 months ago and still living with my ex husband under the same roof. We now get alone like friends. We both agreed the divorce was best for both because we were married and living like friends. I know I have to eventually moved to my own place.

I have really learned a lot being apart of your Q&As in the manifest the man God has for you. Your videos on U-tube and your 📚. It has helped me sit back and really evaluate myself as a person,when it comes to any type of relationship. I have found myself actually getting a lot closer to God than I thought I was before. And because of that I am so willing to wait patiently on him(God)and never go by anyone else’s understanding and my own understanding. When it comes to a relationship Between man and woman. And with that being said I Thank God For You. And keep doing what God allows you to do. Thank you Stephan you are so amazing. 🙏🏽❤️🙌💘☺️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

Powerful message!! I’m single and working on myself to attract my highest vibrational match! My divine masculine ❤️

Me and this guy have been dating for 6/7months!! Everything was perfect! He made me felt special showed me a different world! I didn’t force anything he initiated everything!! And I asked him a few days ago where do you see “this” going. Like do you want a relationship in the future. He agreed at 1st . But two days later he stated that he doesn’t feel the same way I feel. I felt like me asking applied pressure and it scared him away.

@reneem5902

2 жыл бұрын

@J P thank you! I needed that

I just walked away from a 5 year on again off again relationship. It hurts but I had to let it go.

👀very important message. Thank you for validating that it’s ok to have an expiration date on a relationship 💫

This video really helped me. Setting a deadline ended the relationship, but it allowed me to see that I was living in a fantasy and we were not on the same page.

PS...I'm feeling so much better today.. stronger than yesterday!! Thank you so much for your advice and words of encouragement and prayers 🙏🏽💯🙏🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ I'm happy that they have been helpful to you 🙏

That's precious information! That explains why they hold on to the relationship and even propose when it's obvious we're not in love.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

It isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@Sheyshel

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks well I know how I want to feel in the relationship. Your videos help me stay focused.

This is a great reminder & helpful. Do you have a video on advice for dating over 50+. I've noticed these men just looking for a woman to pay her way for everything or a playmate, don't want marriage or a helpmate 🤔. I'm 50+ years old. I'm sure there's got to be some good men this age group with good values. 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

Thanks Stephan for your advice on this topic! I agree that some men have a hard time with letting go or moving forward for that matter. I will say that unless he’s a true man of GOD and he’s realized that you’re his match, women will not experience any hesitation when it comes to taking the next step. However, we definitely must have a cutoff as to how long we’re willing to waste our time. Time is valuable and should not be wasted under any circumstance.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

There's other various reasons why he lingers too. Some other guys explained that very recently. They consciously let you be the 1 to end it...for various reasons actually.

@renee167

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayc5756 Thanks for the insight!

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

@@renee167 Np

You just spoke to me today. Like, you literally told my story. Thankfully, it's been three years of being AWAY from that nonsense and I can truly say that I am BETTER!! No more enabling. No more blocking my blessings. Now, I'm just waiting for the ink to dry ( and that's another story for another day- UGH!!)... Thank you and keep up the good work...#LiberateToday💝🙏🏾👏🏾

Stephen you NAILED IT ON THIS WHOLE TALK! My now, ex husband WEASELED into my son’s heart & bonded with him so i would not break up with him & kick him out of my apartment when we were living together. We married & my life became a nightmare with him.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

You are so apt and precise…. Thanks for sharing this much needed truth

The dating deadline time frame 5 to 6 months no more than that....Have that HARD conversation. Let go don't waste time.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤

I looove love love this video. Thank you Stephan. I was just telling my bf this morning that I came to the realization a man would remain in a relationship that’s making his partner unhappy rather than end the relationship. I have also always said ‘a baby is not Tylenol. If he ain’t got no sense now, he’s not gon have sense even if you have a baby with him’ thank you again Stephan

I also heard that a lot of men actually be over it...but don't want to be the 1 to end it...for various reasons. They want the lady to end it. So they end up doing whatever they want at the end of those relationships

I completely agree with this video in totality. I made sure I set my own standards and how much I can afford to invest spiritually, emotionally and time wise.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for, I appreciate your feedback.

So much confirmation for me in this video!

Thank you Stephan for this confirmation. Amen.

Love it Stephan keep them coming 👑💙

I needed this MOG! Even though you stepped on all ten of my toes...LOL, it was good to be reminded to stay on track. Better is waiting! Thanks for letting God use you! Blessings!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

I love listening to you! It's like you are speaking directly to me with all the issues I'm going through right now!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@sarahwagner6886

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks , thank you that means a lot. You have a very special gift in your relationship ministry. You put things into words that I feel but don't know how to explain, and you validate those feelings along with giving the necessary next steps to move forward. I share your stuff with everyone I know going through relationship issues/divorce/singleness. Honestly, how do you know and understand women this way?

Truth!! Word!! Awesome video!!!

I just told him he has two months… hurts but I don’t want to hurt forever

@kristenglamour4023

2 жыл бұрын

What did the guy say? You told him he had to much to commit?

This’s so good! ♥️

AMEN! Stephan, I absolutely love your content 🥰

Thank you for this. Very true what you said, makes one think? That we need to STOP dragging-holding onto a relationship that is going nowhere.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

It really helps when we embrace that.

@yourlovestorytarot2864

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Yes, I agree!

Awesome logic and quality, as usual. This video is a real blessing

Thanks for taking your time 🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Great, another informative piece from Stephan! Im so here for it. 👍👍😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate that!

Thank you Mr Stephen for this , I was asking this same question and you dropped this . Thank you .

This is so on point, thank you for your wisdom. I have already shared This with a friend.

Very well explained. I experienced the 2nd reason mentioned, I let it go, it was painful and most definitely a lesson learned (in hindsight).

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

I really needed to hear this!! Excellent message!! Love it!! I really need help!! Thank you for sharing this with us!!

I just want you to know your videos are helping me and giving me confirmation on alot of things that went wrong /or I should say we're wrong in my relationship . Thank you !

Thank you Stephan 🙌 you always encourage us so smart and wonderful you Are

Thank you Stephan😊. The "hits" just keep on coming!! Even this morning it was sumthin I was still "pondering"..and I've been talking to God about my little "thought to be relationship' that I mentioned earlier this week (dated for about two and a half months)...and honestly I really DID received FURTHER confirmation on my thoughts which let me know I gotta keep pushing pass this and understand my biggest character flaw....and when I stop this character flaw..the "pain" that gets incorporated into my life will cease. So again I Thank God first for the clarification on my doubts of how I was handling this. AND..I Thank God for you... helping me "seal the deal"....closing the chapter...and moving on. Thanks and be blessed Stephan...🙏🏽 😉😏😉🙏🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 thank you very much and may you be blessed as well.

Absolutely true!

One of the many most amazing recordings of yours! Blessings!❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 thank you.

8 years and two kids later, I finally walked away. I can't believe how much more amazing my new relationship is, and how much easier. My ex-husband set the bar pretty low. In the beginning I was amazed every time he said please or thank you to me.

Love your videos Stephan keep them coming. Thanks a bunch

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

Great analysis, thank you so much sir.

Great video!!!!! Powerful ladies !! Open your Eyes ladies, know what you want, don’t be afraid to be honest, write down what you will and will not tolerate so that no matter who it is you follow it 💥 trust your INTUITION!!!!

Oh Stephan, I have learned these lessons hard way and it hit me so hard the last part, regarding emotional impact on health. When it came to the point that I didn’t recognised myself I said enough it’s enough. Being independent it’s powerful and I’ve promised myself nothing like that will ever happen again and deadlines…well, are a must in relationships otherwise time get waisted and in a case of a woman wanting kids and family, sometimes might be too late due to biological ⏰ I woke up just in time😁 but definitely my intuition was screaming, I had to end it up sooner, people don’t change even though they say they will

Your message gave me peace today

This is so perfect. I have wasted so much time with the wrong men in my past. I learned my lesson. Thank you for this true message.

Thank you . you speaking true facts as always Stephan speaks

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that ❤

Thank you. Very powerful message. Right in time to.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy that this has been helpful to you 🙏

I totally agree with you. My whole life is a testimony to what you have described in this vidéo. Thank you so much for opening women's eyes. God bless you.

Amen to the your intro

9 yrs waiting for all the promises made to come true! He keeps saying he wants a relationship/future but he changes nothing about his life to move this to the next level.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that and I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best 🙏

@Angie-Jb

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I kinda feel things won’t change as he’s over 50 yrs old and it’s been almost a decade. It’s hard, shame lies in realizing I can never have those years back. You’re right saying we invest so much time, emotions etc and it feels terrible to have nothing in return to show for it. Wish I had come across your advice sooner. Thank you for helping so many! 🙏🏼

@deelaw2091

2 жыл бұрын

Leave. He has no intent to do anything for you or with you. He literally isn’t willing to save himself… he damn sure isn’t going to do it for you.

@goddessglow6996

2 жыл бұрын

Walk away