Amazing content. Her last sentence was quite insightful for me: Life events, disappointments, and losses (making one un-special) being integrated by looking at the self in overly negative terms. If one cannot be seen as special in the positive sense, then a sense of specialness will be preserved, by being overly negative, and blaming the loss on that. Brilliant self-deception at play here.

@ayembic7933

Жыл бұрын

AMAZING ty for further elucidating

@MrNoopNoop

Жыл бұрын

If you felt like a BPD overlap, try looking into covert-fragile narcissism.

@th8257

Жыл бұрын

@@zerokhan3685 It's interesting that firstly NPD and BPD are often comorbid. Secondly, the famous psychoanalyst Otto Kernberg who's in a few of these videos believed that NPD was a defence mechanism against what he called Borderline Personality Organisation (BPO), and that that was the root of most of the different personality disorders. It's a different concept to BPD but has some similarities. Thirdly, I suspect that the ICO system (the one used in most countries outside America) looks at these things in a better way, and refelcts some of Kernberg's thinking. They have scrapped all of the old personality disorders and replaced them a dimensional type model that records traits and their severity. You would get a diagnosis of 'personality disorder' and then a list of the different traits you had. The idea is that the system of different personality disorders as set out in the DCM is reductive and artificial, and that the ICO system allows for a more holistic approach.

@ThreetwoOne-wu7ye

10 ай бұрын

I noticed that comments starting with 'Amazing' turn out to be trolling. So, no, sinister prophet, we can't be ' evil' and 'victims' at the same time doesn't work. I feel concened that 46 people should like this degrading, ifallacious, and probale professional comment.. A comment meant to keep a business running. The narcissist must remain the root cahse of evil.. And then you accuse us of wanting to be special!! I hope you are niice the rest of the time.

@MrNoopNoop

10 ай бұрын

​@@ThreetwoOne-wu7ye I've noticed your comment is composed of attacks, criticism, and passive aggressiveness. And then I'm the one supposed to be a troll? Check yourself before you wreck yourself…

This was a good one! Thank you for the well-packaged knowledge. I really liked the pacing of this one - easy to digest. I really feel like I comprehended everything!

Any demasking is followed by a deep seeded regret that could only be described as a metaphorical shotgun in the mouth, it’s no wonder the rate of mass casualty violence given these troubled souls with no real source of treatment ever available.

@ThreetwoOne-wu7ye

10 ай бұрын

The Channels where the narcissist wears a mask are found out and are doomed is not here.

Always a holiday when you publish new content 🎉🎉🎉This doctor has an intense presence. Amazing. I hope we get to see more of this interview.

@BorderlinerNotes

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your positive comment(s), we love to hear from you. And yes, we've got several further vids coming up from this Dr. Ronningstam interview! -P

@imago9059

Жыл бұрын

Here is same Dr. speaking on NPD kzread.info/dash/bejne/gpWByqqyp5ecqsY.html

@erich1394

Жыл бұрын

Matched only by the intensity of her fashion statement - love that patterned top!

@alizaofbrooklyn

Жыл бұрын

@@erich1394 yesssssss

@alizaofbrooklyn

Жыл бұрын

@@BorderlinerNotes looking forward 🥰

I like this Dr. : she has great knowledge and insight.

I now fear i might have npd

@TheBadSpoon

Жыл бұрын

Very unlikely that a clinical narcissist would fear that. Due to the nature of NPD, they are far more apt to reject the notion that anything could be wrong with them or their approach to life and relationships.

@erich1394

Жыл бұрын

Therapy is rarely a bad idea unless you can't afford it. Even if you aren't NPD, you probably have something to gain by seeing a therapist! Most people do. Good luck!

@boudicca7181

Жыл бұрын

Most likely that you do not have NPD.

@nemishasharma5737

10 ай бұрын

I just want to say to the people who say "the fact that you doubt you might be a narcissist proves you're not a narcissist" - I think that's a dangerous generalization to make. Yes, narcissists have impaired self reflection and self correction but I think most people who have been led to such resources in search of answers to their life difficulties (which narcissists certainly have), have learnt about narcissism, and then suspect that they might be narcissistic, might actually be right, or if not narcissistic, they might have some level of borderline organisation of personality.

@ThreetwoOne-wu7ye

10 ай бұрын

@@TheBadSpoon That's wrong I am onoe. We have a long way to go still....I live in Europe. Wea are spared by that craze. If anything having NPD sucks for the person. A diagnosis doesn't change the person. This person's statement and your reply go to show how mad America is. Ramani and co and mostly her million of viewers avid of hatred results in people being afraid of having NPD, although it wouldn't change anything to who they are, except for the stigrma. NPD equals evil. You all created this monster who is a monster. So your answer is erroneous and enhances the stigma.

Interesting. This is similar to depression vs. depression in another personality disorder like BPD.

Nailed it!

Excellent

What about when the negitive thought patterns are directed at other people? I can't do that, becomes you must have done that or a miriad of other excuses. Denial and depression may look and sound like narsisistic behaviour. So a mildly depressed narc could sound like someone who is genuinely trying to deny there depression.... how than, could you define one from the other?

@ThreetwoOne-wu7ye

10 ай бұрын

Are you a therapist?

When is the actual movie coming out?

@farmcat3198

Жыл бұрын

The Borderline movie has been out for a handful of years.

@HASSTYLEPROGRESS

Жыл бұрын

@@farmcat3198 cool do you know where I can access it?

Actually depressed- events or biochemistry cause a situation that results in a feeling of anger turned inward and hoplessness. Narcissistic pseudodepression- an act where the goal is manipulation. As deperssed, it's pointless why bother, why try, why why why. NPD this horrible thing happened. Life is so unfar to ME im entitled to... .

@christopherleubner6633

2 ай бұрын

Bingo.

She lost me when she said depressed people do respond to ECT.