Forgot to mention the part where she talks about him charming her Dad but then her Dad saw her heartbroken at her birthday party over him 😢🥺. That got me too xoxo

I think the "twin flame" reference is they are both Sagittarius which is the fire sign. She even references it in State of Grace lyrics, "just twin fire signs, 4 blue eyes"

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Aww that could be it too! I need to listen to State of Grace again

Well… very honest and emotional reaction. I hope you are doing okay now. Hugs! Take good care of you. Subscribed your channel and looking for more amazing videos from you. Keep it up you good work 👍🏽

I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse also. I relate to you so much and your reaction. I’m so glad I found your channel. This song and film is so relatable.

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy you enjoyed it 🤗

@-chenlanying5818

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaitlinMaharg11 24:57 "and i was never good at telling jokes.." this part is a callback to one of her song, i don't remember the lyric but it basically says that he doesn't think she's good at making jokes so this lyric is like her getting back at him

Oh honey don't cry literally you deserve betttttttteer you are beautiful and powerful and u will have so much better believe me ❤❤❤ I promise u you will be alright and one day this song won't be able to make u cry anymore because you would have found the perfect guy by then 💪🏼 be proud of who you are

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! This song doesn't cause the pain it once did. I know I'm crying but it's not from pain of the past it's just the song is so beautiful. I can't help but put myself in this situation and seeing the acting and the course of it hits me hard. Thank you again and your sweet encouraging words. I'm so much happier on this journey of life without crappy toxic people in it. I can't wait to receive what I'm deserving of 🤗

Can you believe Taylor might have gone through all of that.

"They say all's well that ends well, But I'm in a new hell every time you double-cross my mind" is the new (2nd) best line in the 10 minute version. The best line (in TSwift's discography) remains "And you call me up again, Just to break me like a promise, So casually cruel in the name of being honest, I'm a crumpled up piece of paper lying here"

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness YES!! I totally agree with you!

@-chenlanying5818

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaitlinMaharg11 "Your Brooklyn broke my skin and bone. I'm a soldier who's returning half her weight" They were in Brooklyn when they were together. People when you love someone you're taking half of their weight so after they broke up, she's feeling she just lost half of hers. Some even say that maybe she had a eating disorder after it, i'm not sure about that one

I like what your saying about this song and short film your right we have all been there that’s why this song means a lot to a lot of people I hope your ok now and coping better with what you have been through in the passed

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I am for sure :)

@SJmellor86

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaitlinMaharg11 good you deserve better then what you have been through your really pretty I am going through a break up at the moment so this song is helping me and the short film

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

@@SJmellor86 music can be so healing and therapeutic, especially this song. I'm sorry about your breakup, I know it isn't easy even if you know it's meant to be. I wish you all the best and a bright beautiful future 💕

@SJmellor86

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaitlinMaharg11 Yeah it isn’t easy and yeah it definitely was for the best and yeah Taylor’s music has helped me through so much and thank you lovely I hope you have a happy future to and meet the person that is meant for you one day also have you ever listen to Taylor swift song clean if you haven’t you should definitely do a reaction video to it?

wow I don´t know why, but with the things you said I must think of my mother. she is really a narcissist and the reason why I have social anxiety and depression. she does always the hot and cold thing but in a different way as a lover to me. now I live in my own flat and broke up our contact and I´m happier now.

You bared part of your soul here. It touched part of mine. Thank you for that. Blessings

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ☺️. Blessings to you too

@-chenlanying5818

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaitlinMaharg11 "any time now, he's gonna say it's love. You never call it what it was" he never said he loved her

The emotion. The review. The song. The lyrics. I don't know why I found and watched this right before my counseling session but I'm guessing the Universe. I appreciate the raw openness here, and yeah, I subscribed. I also have a few thought about my own life to reflect on and talk about at my appointment. Thank you.

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you your comment means a lot to me! I'm in counseling as well and I hope your session goes well :)

@-chenlanying5818

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaitlinMaharg11 notice how in the arguement scene, he's just keep adding the dishes in the sink without helping her. He keeps adding problems without actually fixing it. What do you think ?

I just hope and pray all happiness comes to you and you never go through this type of love again in your life. I know life isn't perfect but love can be. Keep feeling your music and giving the world a view from your perspective. I'm a man and enjoying hearing from the woman view or your view. I love it and I'll be following your fan.

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Hey!! I saw you commented on my other video too 🤗 thank you for your support! It really makes me feel nice what your saying and motivates me to continue posting and sharing my story. Really thank you for this. I hope you've been doing well since are days in the restaurant biz together

I don’t know if you’re a fan of R&B music, but based on your breakdown of the story in this song (and your history with a Narcissistic partner) I would love to hear your dissection of the songs “Stranger in My House” and “Me” by the singer Tamia.

Hi. Love your channel and new subber. Could I share my story with you and request a song for you to do for me

@CaitlinMaharg11

2 жыл бұрын

Sure! Tell me here or message me on IG @caitlinmaharg

@redhotskillet2225

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you get my message 😭

I’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist and to me Taylor is the narcissist. Controlling the narrative, overreacting, giving just one side of the story and stating that’s an objective truth, promoting cyber-bulling, making another video about the same subject, come on.

@giuliabonechi1864

5 ай бұрын

Narcissists don’t take accountability, and as a survivor you probably should know that. Meanwhile she has tons of songs where she either admits she’s been wrong sometimes, or expresses her insecurities and fears. Do you want some examples? Fine. Back To December. The Archer. Afterglow. Getaway Car. Midnight Rain. I Knew You Were Trouble (“the blame is on me”, “shame on me”). Call It What You Want (“at least I did one thing right”). Dear John (“maybe it’s me and my blind optimism to blame”). White Horse (“maybe I was naive”). Anti-Hero. Would’ve Could’ve Should’ve (“I regret you all the time”). Out Of The Woods (“but the monsters turned out to be just trees”). You’re Losing Me (“I wouldn’t marry me either, a pathological people pleaser”). Trust me, I could go on. Have you ever considered the fact that Taylor might be a survivor just like you trying to talk about her experience and to feel heard? Maybe she’s made this short film to empathise with people who have been in her same situation, to let them know that they’re not alone.