To all the people out there, thinking it was him... I have a different perspective: "I felt so lonely in your company." I totally get him. I have a wife, and I feel exactly the same way. We've been together for 12 years now, and she doesn't want to do anything with me... I invited her out on our 10th wedding anniversary. No. On our 11th. No. On our 12th. No. And countless times in between... She doesn't want to travel with me. To go shopping, or to the cinema with me. Doesn't want to sleep with me. Or to talk to me. And to the people who think that I must be the narcissist then... Let me answer you this way: If I'm a narcissist, she must be a psychopath! Because she wins all our arguments... There is gaslighting. Half truths... or lies? I'm not sure. Let me end on words from a different song: "I need a friend Oh, I need a friend To make me happy And not so alone" I have been walking today in the park, playing Wonderful Life and A Fairytale Gone Bad and this song, Now you are just somebody that I used to know... hopping that one day, it will come true for me. That one day, my wife will be just somebody that I used to know. "No need to run, and hide" from her abuse... "Tell them it's me that made you sad." I don't care... as long as you agree to the divorce. I want out! "Find a new one, to fool." All these songs are about narcissistic relationships... But I agree: in this song, she blames him... And he, blames her. And I have no idea who is right...
@hmohns70352 ай бұрын
Hehe this is the Disney/family version of the song :) The actual title is "Fuck you" :) The song is much better with that version :) Peace and Love from Canada eh :) sorry :)
@flamingsoundsofficial87302 ай бұрын
The main lesson is dont be a victim be a victor, see the good in goodbye
@enigma07562 ай бұрын
I never intepreted this song as the male being a narcisist. I understood it as someone succumbing to/struggling with depression and not being able to connect with their significant other, despite the fact they care about them. A narcisist would'nt write a song about how hurt they are from not being able to have a relationship.
@merkarion78832 ай бұрын
Truth is a three-sided Blade...Your Side...Their Side...and the Truth
@seelenwinter66623 ай бұрын
i never laught so hard like here... you are very funny... you make every man the day...
@seelenwinter66623 ай бұрын
i am know over 50 years old and every break up i know under my friends are the women guilty... men should do everything, can everything, should earn tons of money and and and... and its never enough for the women... so no woman must cry here... in over 90% are the women a divorce guilty... point....
@seelenwinter66623 ай бұрын
most of the times is it her fails, if you wanna listen it or not.... and your comments hurts so much... more crap i never listen on youtube for a long time...
@seelenwinter66623 ай бұрын
and i know, you are the poor little girl which did nothing and only the man was the monster.... that blablabla i listen so often the last 20, 30 years between all my friends and their partner... but i know the men and i bet all i have, that hey were not the bad parts of the relationship... but the poor women wanna ever think that the other persons... so dont speak so muck crap...
@seelenwinter66623 ай бұрын
i am now over 50 years old and every break up i know under my friends are the women guilty... men should do everything, can everything, should earn tons of money and and and... and its never enough for the women... so no woman must cry here... in over 90% are the women a divorce guily... point.... so perhaps is your ex the narcissist survivor...
@angelhg91324 ай бұрын
I think your analysis is good but it’s very subjective because you see your own experience in there
@adamvalentino32954 ай бұрын
Lord you got issues girl.
@zionroberts65924 ай бұрын
Everyone say walk away but it to hard cause idk what she gonna do to herself. I feel trapped 😢🤷🏾♀️
@sizzlemeat5 ай бұрын
YOU sis, is cool as hell🤌🏾✨ Thanks for the reaction!
@briansgamesandanime5 ай бұрын
My ex did the same thing. I suffered thru it because I believed I didn't deserve better. She finally left for another guy and I'm left with this shadow of a person. I'm a bad introvert with self image issues so I don't know how the rest of my life will go on my own.
@kennethroy29115 ай бұрын
I love Patti LaBelle and this is a great song even for a 71-year-old man like me. I'm pulling for you I wish the best for you
@LukeLandefeld6 ай бұрын
Wtf is narcissist survivor 😂😂😂
@kevindally45516 ай бұрын
I must point out that this situation can be in reversed because some women can be narcissist as i have personally experinced this. You might think iam a nacissist for pointing out the opposite. Sorry if this offends and i do understand what you have experienced.
@carbon.the.christ56265 ай бұрын
I think you can be both a narcissist and a victim. People just paint narcissist with the evil villian brush these days though. It can be considered narcisstic to be needy,and use your partner as an emotional tampon. Which is what it sounds like Gotyes problem was,if we take the lyrics at face value. Hes addicted to always being sad,she always has to listen to him wallow in his own misery. But this is a person who still has pain and trauma. He says he doesnt need her love,may even feel he doesnt deserve it. But he thought he would at least still have her there as emotional support. On the other hand its not fair for her to have to be his company,while he stays in own misery. The part we dont know is could she be more empathetic or not? Or if hes actually putting too much of his burdens on her? Sounds like hes miserable and shes not. And she doesnt want to be the company that they say misery loves. I see him as a victim of himself and own depression. And as a happy person,she doesnt want to be dragged down by someone like this. I understand both sides of this coin
@weronikachylinska856 ай бұрын
OMG shut up
@SIR-DanielHunter6 ай бұрын
My beautiful lady can i give a little advice. stand up block him out of your life right now. sometimes people from the outside can see things the person living the drama can see... I looks like he still has a powerful hold on you.. And as long as he has that hold on you it blocks something much better to enter.. you are smart and extremely beautiful God has something much better for you your equal your soulmate the other piece of your being and purpose and he needs you as much as you need. Goodluck❤
@SIR-DanielHunter6 ай бұрын
Watch the older generation couples that spend there whole life together. They took there union seriously. most didnt even have sex until they where married. i was married 40 years to the same women and i was a rick guitarists for most of that time. But she trusted me on the road all them years and i couldn't wait to get home to her and never messed around with all them nasty groupies on the road. And why would she was the most beautiful women she was a model. sadly lost my baby to cancer in 2016. Miss her deeply. My friends always try to fix me up. But i keep telling them im married we just not together right and im fine with being alone until then😢❤❤
@eddiedoezit67517 ай бұрын
I've heard and have loved this song for many years... but I really just loved it because it sounded good... But I didn't even think about the meaning... but hearing you break it down makes me look at the song differently
@sadiekincaid53107 ай бұрын
Mike Shinoda doesn't just rap. He is a graphic designer, pianist, songwriter, producer, singer, guitarist, and a humanitarian. He is the founder of Linkin Park (band). He has not let fame go to his head with being co-vocalist in Linkin Park with Chester Bennington. Mike is really good at rapping and singing. He really likes to help people through his music. He has also helped people develop their musical career through helping them with his producer skills. He released an album in 2018 named Post Traumatic under his own name. Post Traumatic is his journey of dealing with Chester's death and finding himself again as an artist with both music and art. It has 16 songs on it. It starts out in a dark place just after Chester's passing but as you go through the songs it gets lighter and happier.
@kayakuprising59147 ай бұрын
Nice bod girl :)
@fetheo267 ай бұрын
I loved your reaction!!
@lunarose6987 ай бұрын
Kelly Clarkson is a queen! She won't back down to another person's narcissistic attitudes.
@rocroc8 ай бұрын
I agree in part with what you're saying but my interpretation is a little different when it comes to the third party, "Kimbra". As to you, you are a beautiful women. You seem to be carrying a heavy burden. If your purpose is to educate others who live a similar fate, I can understand. Outside of that, I would say end the suffering and get on with your life. You have so much more to live for. Just like Kimbra who shook herself out of the picture.
@bendoverho8428 ай бұрын
Typical female … always blame everything on a man but you the one who chose them & stayed around … bet you wasn’t no pony ride in the relationship either 😂
@kssa2209 ай бұрын
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@makesparkzfly9 ай бұрын
I love your analysis of the lyrics
@jerryjaguar32399 ай бұрын
my heart breaks hearing you just talk in general
@theradzone93410 ай бұрын
I’ve watched countless reactions to this amazing film, and yours is unforgettable. It’s so real, and it obviously took courage. We appreciate you and hope that you’re doing well!
@ssaydai10 ай бұрын
i know how it feels, i don’t trust man anymore, i hope i can find someone that can change it..
@LeBronIsgLoat10 ай бұрын
😂👍🏼🤗
@MaikKellerhals11 ай бұрын
Don't over-analyze this. This is a VERY simple break-up song. But it's very beautifully done. I love it (as a pop song)
@LeBronIsgLoat11 ай бұрын
😊❤😊
@brendanhernandez799511 ай бұрын
You scare me
@avaniimvu6516 Жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful soul me growing up with narcissistic people I understand you with not knowing what to say or if i do it coming out sad and than i overthink too much
@trayse_jordan552 Жыл бұрын
Hey sweetie love the reaction! But remember, us women can’t be fooled by men’s tactics…it’s 2023, we can spot that a mile away❤
@Armygirl-xb6ev Жыл бұрын
She showed you women that follow their men to the jail...
@amandagoodtime7751 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my ex fiancée he was a narcissist and a emotional abuser and now that I’m happy he hates it he even went as far as to threaten to take his own life and I just met a good guy who has a similar story but he has a 6yr old with his ex she left both of them said she wanted nothing to do with them because she liked her freedom his 28 I’m 24 and I love them his son is so sweet even though we haven’t been on a date yet we’ve been friends for 8 months I really like him but we’re both scared to take the next step before my ex fiancée I was in a physical abusive relationship 6yrs before meeting my ex fiancée that one was worse no one knew I was dated the guy and he drugged and raped me him his brother and his best friend I was a virgin just turned 15 years old he got that I was leaving him for the abuse and for sleeping with a friend from school so he decided to take something precious to “get back at me” so when I met my ex fiancée it was hard to trust I didn’t like that he was so clingy on the first day of us meeting I only went out with him so he could possibly leave me alone but it got worse and somehow ended up with him as my boyfriend he said I love only 2 weeks of us knowing each other it took me 2 months to even get close to liking him and 4 months to say I love you and as soon as I put my guard down and allowed him in he started being mean with his words saying I was fat and flirted with other women in front of me even some of my family said he tried flirting with them and they just laughed at him and they said that’s probably why he tried to make me push them away because he didn’t get what he wanted I have a brother who’s 15yrs younger then me his 8 turning 9 in July and my ex started being mean to him towards the end so I told him his a child and when I left him gave him the ring back both the promise and engagement ring he flipped cussing me out getting mad with how calm I was not understanding why I wasn’t crying and now 8 months later he looks like a homeless person he is a alcoholic like his dad and got into drugs saying if he dies it’s my fault but the new guy makes me feel beautiful and tells me it’s not my fault he just knows he lost something amazing and rare so I’m gaining my confidence back and losing weight I went from 295lbs to 266lbs my goal is 195lbs sorry about all that I just really relate to this song and I’m a new sub ❤
@Saqua2289 Жыл бұрын
Until I met my wife I used to feel a lot like Adele. I had lost most of my family durle to age, or illness. I felt disconnected. My wife is my home to return to.
@faith6833 Жыл бұрын
Good God!! 😂😂😂 You really hate men, don't you?? Wow!!
@gunschulke Жыл бұрын
Adjust your mood stabilizers/SSRI. You have a very manic presentation and mannerisms that will destroy your brain in the long run. Your flat vocality, existing tics, and fidgeting imply existing brain damage.
@ford-2009 Жыл бұрын
Hi love how you expressed your feelings and thank you for sharing this yr ex is a fool look what he's lost a beautiful young woman inside and out, best wishes from the UK.
@mariofunes6816 Жыл бұрын
A great song.nothing more to say ..
@ticorappernm Жыл бұрын
How do you survive narcissism?
@chrisquilley6146 Жыл бұрын
Babymetal sukza girlfriend Andrew love you
@nickiseaton2015 Жыл бұрын
Taylor wrote this song cuss this is what people think of her not because she acts like this or treat people like this .there are videos of taylor swift explaining the meaning of this song you should look it up
@DanTaurusboyAgnosticAtheist56 Жыл бұрын
I dated two narcissists and one tryna hoover me back in but it aint going work cos she controlled me in what to do 🤦🏻♂️😂its stupid what they devils favourite children its said that if the devil cant reach yer he sends narcissists
@leesdroidaccountharbin96658 ай бұрын
My narcissist is likely never going to hoover me back in. I'm genre savvy. The moment she tries to take advantage of me, I will shut her down. I did that to her before. She's now bitching about how I'm this "Crazy, abusive ex" on her facebook page. Having her out of my life taught me a few things. I use a lot of Narc tactics in order to draw women into my life. These PUA tactics don't work on healthy women. Which is why I have never had a healthy relationship. As they say, industry tips industry.
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To all the people out there, thinking it was him... I have a different perspective: "I felt so lonely in your company." I totally get him. I have a wife, and I feel exactly the same way. We've been together for 12 years now, and she doesn't want to do anything with me... I invited her out on our 10th wedding anniversary. No. On our 11th. No. On our 12th. No. And countless times in between... She doesn't want to travel with me. To go shopping, or to the cinema with me. Doesn't want to sleep with me. Or to talk to me. And to the people who think that I must be the narcissist then... Let me answer you this way: If I'm a narcissist, she must be a psychopath! Because she wins all our arguments... There is gaslighting. Half truths... or lies? I'm not sure. Let me end on words from a different song: "I need a friend Oh, I need a friend To make me happy And not so alone" I have been walking today in the park, playing Wonderful Life and A Fairytale Gone Bad and this song, Now you are just somebody that I used to know... hopping that one day, it will come true for me. That one day, my wife will be just somebody that I used to know. "No need to run, and hide" from her abuse... "Tell them it's me that made you sad." I don't care... as long as you agree to the divorce. I want out! "Find a new one, to fool." All these songs are about narcissistic relationships... But I agree: in this song, she blames him... And he, blames her. And I have no idea who is right...
Hehe this is the Disney/family version of the song :) The actual title is "Fuck you" :) The song is much better with that version :) Peace and Love from Canada eh :) sorry :)
The main lesson is dont be a victim be a victor, see the good in goodbye
I never intepreted this song as the male being a narcisist. I understood it as someone succumbing to/struggling with depression and not being able to connect with their significant other, despite the fact they care about them. A narcisist would'nt write a song about how hurt they are from not being able to have a relationship.
Truth is a three-sided Blade...Your Side...Their Side...and the Truth
i never laught so hard like here... you are very funny... you make every man the day...
i am know over 50 years old and every break up i know under my friends are the women guilty... men should do everything, can everything, should earn tons of money and and and... and its never enough for the women... so no woman must cry here... in over 90% are the women a divorce guilty... point....
most of the times is it her fails, if you wanna listen it or not.... and your comments hurts so much... more crap i never listen on youtube for a long time...
and i know, you are the poor little girl which did nothing and only the man was the monster.... that blablabla i listen so often the last 20, 30 years between all my friends and their partner... but i know the men and i bet all i have, that hey were not the bad parts of the relationship... but the poor women wanna ever think that the other persons... so dont speak so muck crap...
i am now over 50 years old and every break up i know under my friends are the women guilty... men should do everything, can everything, should earn tons of money and and and... and its never enough for the women... so no woman must cry here... in over 90% are the women a divorce guily... point.... so perhaps is your ex the narcissist survivor...
I think your analysis is good but it’s very subjective because you see your own experience in there
Lord you got issues girl.
Everyone say walk away but it to hard cause idk what she gonna do to herself. I feel trapped 😢🤷🏾♀️
YOU sis, is cool as hell🤌🏾✨ Thanks for the reaction!
My ex did the same thing. I suffered thru it because I believed I didn't deserve better. She finally left for another guy and I'm left with this shadow of a person. I'm a bad introvert with self image issues so I don't know how the rest of my life will go on my own.
I love Patti LaBelle and this is a great song even for a 71-year-old man like me. I'm pulling for you I wish the best for you
Wtf is narcissist survivor 😂😂😂
I must point out that this situation can be in reversed because some women can be narcissist as i have personally experinced this. You might think iam a nacissist for pointing out the opposite. Sorry if this offends and i do understand what you have experienced.
I think you can be both a narcissist and a victim. People just paint narcissist with the evil villian brush these days though. It can be considered narcisstic to be needy,and use your partner as an emotional tampon. Which is what it sounds like Gotyes problem was,if we take the lyrics at face value. Hes addicted to always being sad,she always has to listen to him wallow in his own misery. But this is a person who still has pain and trauma. He says he doesnt need her love,may even feel he doesnt deserve it. But he thought he would at least still have her there as emotional support. On the other hand its not fair for her to have to be his company,while he stays in own misery. The part we dont know is could she be more empathetic or not? Or if hes actually putting too much of his burdens on her? Sounds like hes miserable and shes not. And she doesnt want to be the company that they say misery loves. I see him as a victim of himself and own depression. And as a happy person,she doesnt want to be dragged down by someone like this. I understand both sides of this coin
OMG shut up
My beautiful lady can i give a little advice. stand up block him out of your life right now. sometimes people from the outside can see things the person living the drama can see... I looks like he still has a powerful hold on you.. And as long as he has that hold on you it blocks something much better to enter.. you are smart and extremely beautiful God has something much better for you your equal your soulmate the other piece of your being and purpose and he needs you as much as you need. Goodluck❤
Watch the older generation couples that spend there whole life together. They took there union seriously. most didnt even have sex until they where married. i was married 40 years to the same women and i was a rick guitarists for most of that time. But she trusted me on the road all them years and i couldn't wait to get home to her and never messed around with all them nasty groupies on the road. And why would she was the most beautiful women she was a model. sadly lost my baby to cancer in 2016. Miss her deeply. My friends always try to fix me up. But i keep telling them im married we just not together right and im fine with being alone until then😢❤❤
I've heard and have loved this song for many years... but I really just loved it because it sounded good... But I didn't even think about the meaning... but hearing you break it down makes me look at the song differently
Mike Shinoda doesn't just rap. He is a graphic designer, pianist, songwriter, producer, singer, guitarist, and a humanitarian. He is the founder of Linkin Park (band). He has not let fame go to his head with being co-vocalist in Linkin Park with Chester Bennington. Mike is really good at rapping and singing. He really likes to help people through his music. He has also helped people develop their musical career through helping them with his producer skills. He released an album in 2018 named Post Traumatic under his own name. Post Traumatic is his journey of dealing with Chester's death and finding himself again as an artist with both music and art. It has 16 songs on it. It starts out in a dark place just after Chester's passing but as you go through the songs it gets lighter and happier.
Nice bod girl :)
I loved your reaction!!
Kelly Clarkson is a queen! She won't back down to another person's narcissistic attitudes.
I agree in part with what you're saying but my interpretation is a little different when it comes to the third party, "Kimbra". As to you, you are a beautiful women. You seem to be carrying a heavy burden. If your purpose is to educate others who live a similar fate, I can understand. Outside of that, I would say end the suffering and get on with your life. You have so much more to live for. Just like Kimbra who shook herself out of the picture.
Typical female … always blame everything on a man but you the one who chose them & stayed around … bet you wasn’t no pony ride in the relationship either 😂
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I love your analysis of the lyrics
my heart breaks hearing you just talk in general
I’ve watched countless reactions to this amazing film, and yours is unforgettable. It’s so real, and it obviously took courage. We appreciate you and hope that you’re doing well!
i know how it feels, i don’t trust man anymore, i hope i can find someone that can change it..
😂👍🏼🤗
Don't over-analyze this. This is a VERY simple break-up song. But it's very beautifully done. I love it (as a pop song)
😊❤😊
You scare me
You are such a beautiful soul me growing up with narcissistic people I understand you with not knowing what to say or if i do it coming out sad and than i overthink too much
Hey sweetie love the reaction! But remember, us women can’t be fooled by men’s tactics…it’s 2023, we can spot that a mile away❤
She showed you women that follow their men to the jail...
This reminds me of my ex fiancée he was a narcissist and a emotional abuser and now that I’m happy he hates it he even went as far as to threaten to take his own life and I just met a good guy who has a similar story but he has a 6yr old with his ex she left both of them said she wanted nothing to do with them because she liked her freedom his 28 I’m 24 and I love them his son is so sweet even though we haven’t been on a date yet we’ve been friends for 8 months I really like him but we’re both scared to take the next step before my ex fiancée I was in a physical abusive relationship 6yrs before meeting my ex fiancée that one was worse no one knew I was dated the guy and he drugged and raped me him his brother and his best friend I was a virgin just turned 15 years old he got that I was leaving him for the abuse and for sleeping with a friend from school so he decided to take something precious to “get back at me” so when I met my ex fiancée it was hard to trust I didn’t like that he was so clingy on the first day of us meeting I only went out with him so he could possibly leave me alone but it got worse and somehow ended up with him as my boyfriend he said I love only 2 weeks of us knowing each other it took me 2 months to even get close to liking him and 4 months to say I love you and as soon as I put my guard down and allowed him in he started being mean with his words saying I was fat and flirted with other women in front of me even some of my family said he tried flirting with them and they just laughed at him and they said that’s probably why he tried to make me push them away because he didn’t get what he wanted I have a brother who’s 15yrs younger then me his 8 turning 9 in July and my ex started being mean to him towards the end so I told him his a child and when I left him gave him the ring back both the promise and engagement ring he flipped cussing me out getting mad with how calm I was not understanding why I wasn’t crying and now 8 months later he looks like a homeless person he is a alcoholic like his dad and got into drugs saying if he dies it’s my fault but the new guy makes me feel beautiful and tells me it’s not my fault he just knows he lost something amazing and rare so I’m gaining my confidence back and losing weight I went from 295lbs to 266lbs my goal is 195lbs sorry about all that I just really relate to this song and I’m a new sub ❤
Until I met my wife I used to feel a lot like Adele. I had lost most of my family durle to age, or illness. I felt disconnected. My wife is my home to return to.
Good God!! 😂😂😂 You really hate men, don't you?? Wow!!
Adjust your mood stabilizers/SSRI. You have a very manic presentation and mannerisms that will destroy your brain in the long run. Your flat vocality, existing tics, and fidgeting imply existing brain damage.
Hi love how you expressed your feelings and thank you for sharing this yr ex is a fool look what he's lost a beautiful young woman inside and out, best wishes from the UK.
A great song.nothing more to say ..
How do you survive narcissism?
Babymetal sukza girlfriend Andrew love you
Taylor wrote this song cuss this is what people think of her not because she acts like this or treat people like this .there are videos of taylor swift explaining the meaning of this song you should look it up
I dated two narcissists and one tryna hoover me back in but it aint going work cos she controlled me in what to do 🤦🏻♂️😂its stupid what they devils favourite children its said that if the devil cant reach yer he sends narcissists
My narcissist is likely never going to hoover me back in. I'm genre savvy. The moment she tries to take advantage of me, I will shut her down. I did that to her before. She's now bitching about how I'm this "Crazy, abusive ex" on her facebook page. Having her out of my life taught me a few things. I use a lot of Narc tactics in order to draw women into my life. These PUA tactics don't work on healthy women. Which is why I have never had a healthy relationship. As they say, industry tips industry.