“MY WOMAN MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED” (EP. 69)
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EP. 69) “MY WOMAN MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED.”
This episode was long overdue for us. We are all in serious committed relationships and not only do we appreciate our women we also feel extremely appreciated by our women. Talking about how we got here was important for us and plenty to take away from this episode.
We also talked about asking very intentional questions to our partners … including, “Do you trust my leadership.” One hell of a question to ask your partner without assuming, we discovered this was a great check in question.
Again, happy Women’s month to all the women out there, you’re valued and you’re appreciated!
🚨Check out the full episode on KZread and all streaming platforms {NICEANDNEATTHEPODCAST}🚨
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@duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon
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One thing about N&N, they’re going to uplift Black women. Love that for us 🤎☺️
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Bridging the gap between black men and women through conversations like this is our MISSION! 🥃🥃🥃
@madlintutu6099
Жыл бұрын
@@NiceAndNeatThePodcast 🤎🤎
@heyerikan
Жыл бұрын
@@NiceAndNeatThePodcast this is a gorgeous mission
@changetocome100
Жыл бұрын
Why you didn't tell us about this podcast sis??!🥺
@shayb8726
Жыл бұрын
It’s one of the many reasons why I love this show 😂❤
Being a married man I appreciate this platform. I tell black men all the time there are amazing black women in our culture. We just have to be whole within ourselves to lead our women.
Y’all literally give me hope! To see attractive men have intellectual and deep conversations on emotional intimacy and showing appreciation to the women in their life let’s me know that my person is out there too and there’s no way I’m settling. In a world full of players and emotionally unintelligent guys you guys are the standard. Other podcasts have made men look so bad so i look forward to hearing from you guys every week. Keep going ❤👏🏽
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you! Please continue to share, the like-minded ones will began to show up! 🥃🥃🥃
@ninaoffthegrid
Жыл бұрын
Yes between this podcast and the Black love podcast when they do the men’s discussion such a breath of fresh air and let’s me know they are out there ❤
@brightlife8432
11 ай бұрын
Seriously! So many podcast are led by still broken unaware, closed off, men not ready to GROW! WORK and continue to work for the growth!
@kayla1196
8 ай бұрын
Right! like at this point I want them all the be my husbands😂
@yourlovelybabe1
Ай бұрын
@HazelStarWorld girl checked out ur youtube channel 🔥🔥🔥🔥yes miss maam
… you all make the idea of a healthy relationship feel more tangible 😢 I love this for y’all
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
It is VERY VERY possible for you 🥃🥃🥃
@meralynewanjiku2882
Жыл бұрын
Love this for them lol
They all just seem so much happier because they have good women in their lives 🥰
One thing Jalon is gonna do, is ask a good question 😂
@instrinsiclove
Жыл бұрын
Period!
@ashleybee8456
Жыл бұрын
😅
@zakiawebster8541
Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@AngelaElikya
Жыл бұрын
He always deliver
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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I love this podcast. I mean…THIS IS NOT A TOXIC MALE PODCAST AT ALLL!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with us. I hope you’re sharing it with your friends and family as well! 🥃🥃🥃
@kelseyspencer3796
Жыл бұрын
@@NiceAndNeatThePodcastdefinitely ❤
@graciiousgrace
Жыл бұрын
Yes! It feels like a safe space for us women to come here and gain a men’s perspective. I really love their podcast and hope they have the women come back for a part 2 🤭🫶🏼💕✨
@atinrebmaxwell
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I found this podcast. Very refreshing to hear men speaking on how both men and women can be all in for each other positively.
This podcast is such a breath of fresh air.
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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@diamonddivat6919
Жыл бұрын
YESSSS
@jasminecooper8610
Жыл бұрын
I agree
Submission is for a husband. Not a boyfriend. Great conversation fellas
@BriannaGlenn7
Жыл бұрын
Agreed wholeheartedly love, a lot of guys want you to submit to them like you would in marriage without committing to you in marriage lol blows my mind like get outta here little boy to make room for my husband 😅
This is my first time watching this podcast & I balled the whole time. I JUST left a relationship that was nothing like this. This was so beautiful to hear men speak so highly of their women👏🏾
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the family!! 🥃🥃🥃
I LOVE THIS FOR YA’LL!!! lol Black men giving and receiving healthy love will always sit well with my soul. I’m so glad God did this for y’all!!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 🥃🥃🥃
Funny that Duke asked the question “how do you ask your women if she trust your leadership?”26:32. I literally asked my fiancé the same question about a week before this episode aired. I was not ashamed at all for asking nor was I afraid of what her answer would be. Thank God I received a “Certainly! You would know if I didn’t trust you” lol. But if I would have received a no from her I would have respectfully asked in what ways could I improve. That’s how we grow!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Proactive instead of reactive! Way to get ahead of it fam! 🥃🥃🥃
I loved when Jalon said seeing the gray is seeing the grace … whewwwww I felt that !
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Grace! 🥃🥃🥃
“Leadership is not convenient.” Sheeshhhhhh. Jalon always gets it right
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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Something that has helped me in my waiting season is to study God’s design and intention for men and women. As a woman I’ve found better understanding of my role through the word of God. And vice versa I have come to understand the role of a man/husband through the word as well. What does the word say ? Then go from there. Both man and woman must be submitted to God. A man is to lead but a man is also called to love his wife like Jesus loves the church. Women are called to submit to our Husbands as we submit to the Lord. Both men and women are called to serve each other; and thus we can serve the Lord through our relationships . I’ve also come to realize that thinking either party is the “prize” has damaged our perspective and value of each other. You are not my prize and vice versa; you are apart of my assignment. Because often times God uses our partners to build us up where we are weak so we can be more pleasing to him. God shows this in Hosea. As a woman I feel it’s my job to steward God’s son well and be delicate with him. And I believe the same goes for men; to steward God’s daughters well. It’s all about service.
FINALLY, A HEALTHY MATURE CONVERSATION ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS!!! Positive vibes. This is what we talking about. It's a matter of agreement and good communication between two mature lovers
I just love how y’all hold each other accountable and celebrate each other! O was looking at Jalon like a proud father when he was giving his explanation of how his woman makes him feel. I’m so proud of all three of y’all. It’s beautiful to see y’all boss each other up and hold each other to a higher standard! Man the questions on this show are sooooo good!! TOP TIER!!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you!!! Please do us a favor and share with your family and friends we’d appreciate it! 🥃🥃🥃
I’m taking notes to be a better woman from this and use this to help me continue to identify healthy men! Y’all conversations are powerful and on-point🙌🏽
Jalon’s entire section on the need for your partner to have a strong relationship with God to truly understand empathy and love was so refreshing and perfectly articulated. EVERYONE should be listening to this podcast!
Brittany (hope I spelled that right) is one lucky woman. Jalon's faith based answer at 33:42 was everything to me, especially with my own personal developments over the last year. Self love and self respect is sooo important because everything we say and do stems from that. But even more important than that is the source. I love that he didn't directly claim credit for her development because he gave all the glory to God. He showed her how to get to know God (through the word) and to cultivate a relationship with Him (through prayer). When you truly truly believe that God loves you, you learn to love Him and put your trust in Him...mannn the sky is the limit. It's going to be blessings on blessings. And that in turn will have a beautiful effect on all the people in her life (her man, her family, her friends, her colleagues, etc) she will be able to pour into. I love that for sis!🥰 I was blessed to have a man introduce me to the word, and though he didn't stick around to see the growth and he wasn't the man for me, I am forever grateful for that initial inspiration. I thank God for that blessing. Everything happens for a reason and you can learn a lesson from every person you encounter if you just pay attention. I hope I can go on to inspire others to get closer to God as well by simply sharing my testimony and being who God calls me to be. ❤️ Thanks for this wonderful episode guys. I know the Lord has a wonderful man of God waiting for me somewhere lol. Can't wait to meet him. 😊
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
FINALLY a podcast that appreciates black love, marriage, family. I enjoyed these brother’s talk about their women and the love they have. It does NOT make them simps either. Being in love and embracing your relationship is good for the soul.❤❤❤
“Okay, I’m sitting down” 🤣
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
My Man gives me the space to step into my femininity and in my femininity I give him peace love encouragement and I give our children a inspiring mother. A healthy relationship is the gift that keeps on giving.
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Love this! 🥃🥃🥃
Alright Jalon you better build that relationship on Christ. 👏🏽
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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@latoyataylor3523
Жыл бұрын
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Watching this is helping restore my faith in healthy relationships. This was such a breath of fresh air.
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Such a beautiful way to articulate appreciation and love to their women! I love how in all 52 mins not one time did anybody mention anything about how their ladies look, or how her body is shaped, nothing superficial! 👏🏾 It was sooo refreshing to listen to BLACK MEN talk about what relationships really mean, and the important parts about partnership. No BS! These are the men that need a mic ! 🫶🏾
KZread algorithm been hittin!! So many gender war videos on how bm don’t feel appreciated by bw & vice versus but until now, none explaining what makes them feel appreciated. I’ve flat out asked men and they too are stumped or reduce it merely to sexual favors 😂 thanks for filling in the blanks 🙏🏾
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Please continue to share this with your friends and family! 🥃🥃🥃
Man this beautiful, I’ve recently cut off every fuck buddy and toxic friend who has a “men aren’t shit” attitude, and I’m already seeing fruit in my dating life. Taking notes on what your girls are doing right and looking for qualities I respect in a partner.
This pod filled my heart yo! It’s so fulfilling and refreshing to listen to healthy, aware, accountable, mature and god fearing Black men who love and appreciate their women. Thank you for this!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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Beautiful episode. As a woman I learnt how to further nurture my man and I’m so grateful for you guys being honest enough to share these gems! ❤
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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One thing about Duke is he gone give you a question that's going to really make you think glad to see yall back!!!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Can always count on it! 🥃🥃🥃
I’m in tears… black men loving their women I’m just…. So filled with joy😢😢❤❤❤
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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I love what y’all are doing for the culture. Thank you for helping to restore my faith in healthy, nurturing relationships w self and beyond. The little I know abt your ladies embodies everything you’ve touched on 🙏🏼🧡
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your viewership and taking comign along with us through our journey 🥃🥃🥃
I’m a woman and this just may be my new fav podcast. The authenticity, cohesiveness, apparent brotherhood and accountability from soulfully beautiful black men is so healing and inspiring. Love Nice & Neat!
“Are we going to have a good day today?👀” 😂 love that!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
Jalons questions are so good 😭
1st time viewing & im subscribing. I never heard a man articulate how I truly feel about my woman. All of this is new for me. Loved the Pod fellas
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
@ronnierapgame welcome fam! 🥃🥃🥃
@changetocome100
Жыл бұрын
Please tell more men, bring em in...we need this!!!
You men are something else. Need more of this positive energy. Thank you ❤
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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Love how they speak so highly of their partners man, it’s refreshing. ❤
Leading a woman to God is the biggest gift.
This episode was so good, they didn’t even have a halftime🤣🤣
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
How did you like the episode without a halftime? 🥃🥃🥃
@instrinsiclove
Жыл бұрын
@@NiceAndNeatThePodcast I was fine with it honestly! I think for this conversation, it didn’t change the flow. Usually halftime is a way to change up the pace a little bit, but with the questions everybody asked, it took all kinds of good turns. Especially with Duke’s question regarding how you make your woman better.
@seanb.5924
Жыл бұрын
It was good without the half time but I do like the halftime.... keep the halftime
This came up as an ad. I am so thankful. Black men speaking openly about feelings & relationships is needed. I love this for us ❤ great podcast. Sharing this with others
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and sharing! Hope you’re subscribed! 🥃🥃🥃
Thank you Jalon, we Black Women love our Black Men. Thank you for saying this. We’re not always bashing. I’m glad you all have loving women in your lives
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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This podcast is so relevant for our culture in relationships and emotional intelligence. This episode revealed a lot of positive and negatives in my own. I’m grateful! Keep being who you are as men, your women are so lucky to have you all
I love when they laugh in unison! This is now one of my favorite episodes
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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Damn, I’m ready for my man to get home now! SHIT! 😂🙌🏾😍
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Love it!!! 🥃🥃🥃
That you guys so much thank for uploading this video.
Finally a black male podcast that isn’t fishing to go viral I’m tuned in💯
We can stand to learn alot from men that have healthy relationships with women.
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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@Shanice___Loves
Жыл бұрын
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Man… I have SO much gratitude for the 3 of you… your wisdom, self-awareness, intentionality, transparency, vulnerability, and your willingness to share these parts of yourselves with us strangers! I have learned so much valuable information about men that has not only helped me show up better as a woman, but that has also allowed me to appreciate and serve the men in my life better. Thank you all, seriously! Y’all are such a blessing!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
We appreciate you! 🙏🏾🥃🥃🥃
This was Great. Appreciate you guys!!!
It’s so healing to see that you guys hold each other on a high standard regards to how ya'll treat your women. Thank you. Really.
First podcast I’ve watched to the end. I had to click that subscribe button. Y’all stimulate my mind. ❤
This was refreshing! Thank you!
This is such a chill conversation but super dope.
There is so much beauty in this conversation! 💙
I love how connected they are to their partners. That’s beautiful.❤
I appreciate you men, great conversation and insight.
Definitely a much needed episode. Great job brothers 🤝🏿
Inspiring to see men so appreciative of women
great episode! the power of a great women by your side that always got your feeling like Superman. nothing can stop you not even a bad day. 💯
I truly enjoy this podcast, so much substance and great conversations.
Can always expect a great conversation from you guys. I do indeed love this for y’all 😂🙌🏽🥃 (Felt Jalon when he said we better be taking notes! Have my notes app open right now. ✍🏾)
One of my new favorite podcasts. This was so good
Good stuff!!! Love to see evolving men speak on their truth and with their vulnerability, This behavior is in need of much praise, thanks Guys! One love Brooklyn
It's so refreshing to hear men talk about relationships in a way that is healthy. There aren't many podcasts like this one unfortunately. Keep up the great work guys!
GROWN MAN CONVERSATIONS ‼️👏🏾 Loved this!
This podcast has blessed me in so many ways. I’m so glad the Lord allowed me to stumble across this page,
It’s always beneficial to hear the affirmations and to see the manifestation of the verbal through actions. Some people look at the verbal affirmation as needy or clingy etc… it’s not. It’s just another language expressing the same sentiments. Keep on sharing and learning bros. ✊🏾👍🏾
Wow this episode was really reassuring. Black men should definitely tune in.
The level of intellect and maturity from this conversation from black men is astounding. So glad I found this. This really gives me hope that there are still good men out there
You three are really UNICORNS….wow, there are still some good men out there who were raised right! 😢❤
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! 🥃🥃🥃
I love when Jalon ask questions because he makes you think 🙌
This conversation was Amazing
This is so beautiful ❤ I love this for us.
Amazing, wholesome content. Thank you for your perspective. 🫶🏾
The break was worth it. Keep going guys!
I loved this episode. My heart, spirit, and energy feels lighter
Yall really set a great example for men & this is so needed !! Men really need these types of conversations to exist for the betterment of relationships ..
Wow I’m so impressed by the level of maturity and intelligence these men have. Great eye opening episode and I loooove how highly each of you spoke of your women!
This was my first episode of you guys and I very much enjoyed hearing the other perspective share their feelings and thoughts in healthy and uplifting and graceful ways. Congrats to you guys🎉🙌🏾
I love this black men opening about their women and their appreciation.
Black women being strong! So refreshing to hear this spun in a positive light in terms of how our strength can be used to support our black men! 👊🏾❤️
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Жыл бұрын
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I hope you shared this with a friend! You never know who needs it
@houstonveganchick5659
Жыл бұрын
I've shared it with others on my KZread. I been a subscriber since 12/2021
@mjt2386
Жыл бұрын
Refreshing reflection relevant. Love it!
Beautiful episode.. I’m feeling all warm & fuzzy… 👏🏾🥰😂
I throughly enjoyed this video. This was so beautiful to watch and hear! 👏
My goodness! What transparency! You are appreciated and I know many, both men and women, have said the same. God will heal. He will restore!
First time watching and I love the podcast already‼️
This was so refreshing to watch❤❤
I love how positively y'all are speaking of black women. We love to see it!
This podcast needs to be on a No.1 list or something. This is educating, uplifting, and a breath of Fresh air. God bless our Men.
Filled with gratitude for your examples of leadership in our community. I don't often get to listen to a group of black men uplift us in this way.... and also encourage each other's relationships in this way. We NEED more solution-based conversations like this that empathize with both sexes. This is such a nuanced dialogue with brilliant follow-up questions!!! Lots of meaningful substance in your provocative discussion. And shout out to your representations of black male masculinity👑!!! You hold yourselves accountable but you also take the lead in fostering a relationship environment in which there's a shared responsibility of holding each other accountable and trusting the other to inform their growth. Some of you have even taught your women how to pour into the relationship from the same healthy source and to trust their growth processes. Many of us have never encountered Black men who are equipped to lead us in this way nor willing to invest and pour into the development of their women. The ultimate model of masculinity doesn't seek to be protected by the comforts & conveniences that the ego provides, which, he is aware will arrest his development. And it's so important that we understand the value this information brings to our community so that healthy examples of black male leadership are being propagated, inspiring many to want to adopt a new narrative with healthier models of masculinity AND femininity. Shout out to you for leading with love and humility. God bless you and your women. #Lovethat4us #Blacklove🖤🤎🧡💛
This podcast is such a breath air. LOVE listening to you guys talk. The questions are always good & the answers are always SO deep. 🫶🏽
Great job 👏🏾 beautiful black men 🏆💪🏾
"What did you bring to help her softness develop?" GREAT QUESTION! LOVE THIS POD!❤
I love y’all and how refreshing this podcast is. Hearing from intelligent men is so heartwarming. 😊
New here and love it. Thank you all you do! I applaud you men
This is my first time listening to this podcast and as a single woman it is good to hear from a man’s point of view on things that I already do that I need to continue and things that I need to be aware that men appreciate ❤
To hear y'all speak about your black women so highly...MAN! Huge shoutout to the women holding it down for y'all; I think we all needed to hear this.
Oh my ❤god I’m I the only women listening that just to hear healed man this is such a healing podcast for us woman to understand our man I feel so good listening you