Woah...dads speech...that needs to be played for every future parent, moms and dads

@mamc1986

2 күн бұрын

I agree, I 100% agree.

Wow the audacity for him to not take any responsibility for his drug use

@EnubeeStyle

3 күн бұрын

He did sound like a kid not willing to take any responsibility.

@briandelaney5283

2 күн бұрын

The audacity for you jumping on the “audacity” bandwagon.

Wow, the son isn’t even a bit ashamed or embarrassed. 🤔🤔🤔

@jjgreen5206

3 күн бұрын

His parents have means and should help him

@chesspunk489

3 күн бұрын

​@@jjgreen5206It looks like they have helped him too much his whole life.

@snowbird6855

2 күн бұрын

​@@chesspunk489 Not the right kind of help until now. Not everyone is born with a neurotypical brain and for some, there's a constant search for dopamine. These individuals are prone to addiction.

@snowbird6855

2 күн бұрын

You can't know what he is feeling. It took a lot for him to show up there.

Thanks mom for creating a future criminal

@Eta544

3 күн бұрын

A criminal that can turn around and bite you 😉

@Shottas4Twenty

3 күн бұрын

Future?!! He is NOW

@Lyndsay202

2 күн бұрын

And making him societies problem

@mamc1986

2 күн бұрын

That's a lot of enabler moms, and it starts at the earliest ages and gets worse over time. One day it's, "That's not my (fill in the blank for a boy name) he never acts this way at home." Next time its "It's not his fault he robbed a bank. I think he's confused, that's all."

Son has to be kicked off the property. All the locks changed.

He needs to get a life and move out, he is a grown man not a child.

Son needs to be in jail.

@jjgreen5206

3 күн бұрын

For what? He hasn’t committed a crime. Being broke isn’t a crime

@Llaylalovee

3 күн бұрын

@@jjgreen5206…. Is doing heroin not a crime? 😂 is him stealing his mothers diamond ring not a crime? You should probably watch the full video before commenting about it

@doloresryan3731

3 күн бұрын

@@jjgreen5206 He is a thief, who stole thousands $$$$$ from his parents.

@ToLoveIsToLive89

3 күн бұрын

@@jjgreen5206, he has stolen from his mom, he stole her $10,000 ring!🤦🏻‍♀️ That definitely warrants being arrested and charged!

@joannesmith1051

2 күн бұрын

​@@jjgreen5206stealing is a crime. Doing drugs is a crime

He has no self respect at all.

@jjgreen5206

3 күн бұрын

Neither do you

@rachaelbrugmans4309

3 күн бұрын

​@@jjgreen5206cope much

@rachaelbrugmans4309

3 күн бұрын

Agreed, no self respect

@chesspunk489

3 күн бұрын

​@@jjgreen5206Are you the son in the video?

@evil_angel_xoxo

2 күн бұрын

@@chesspunk489 if you look at their previous replies their all defending JJ and blaming the parents. I agree it's probably the same JJ 🤣 looks like he hasn't changed and still takes 0 accountability.

As I say a stint in the Army should straighten this man out. This man boy has a son . I’m so sorry for these parents. 🇬🇧

Sorry mom …you are Ruining your life , ..husband is right , say NO ! OUT !

@jjgreen5206

3 күн бұрын

Husband is wrong and a psychopath who likely mentally abused his son because of his own insecurities. Keep helping the son

@ariadneschild8460

3 күн бұрын

​@@jjgreen5206I this the son??

@Llaylalovee

3 күн бұрын

⁠@@jjgreen5206I don’t think it’s fair to jump to the conclusion that the father is a psychopath abuser and is at fault here, I don’t agree with that. I do, however, agree that they should keep helping their son. He need professional help and kicking him out of the home to become homeless will likely be the end of his life. OP is wrong here and I really hope they don’t have any children of their own cus… yikes

@youneedtostop

3 күн бұрын

​@@Llaylalovee he's the loser son lol

My brother is 50!!! My mom pays for everything and he says he can’t find a job. 25 years searching and nothing 🤦

@nadiabrstak5646

3 күн бұрын

😮

The mom is the problem, without her this isn’t an episode

@teenindustry

3 күн бұрын

No he is the problem he is a man

@joannesmith1051

2 күн бұрын

It's his fault. No one made him do drugs, steal or not work.

@RoseRose-hp4rq

5 сағат бұрын

He’s a loser beyond help. Hope his son turns out nothing like him.

This whole country is raising babies they have given himtoo much already

He needs to get out and he can live on the streets like a bum, the rest of his life

@lisaatkins9797

3 күн бұрын

He’s living like a bum now

What’s wrong with him working for his money? Mom, let him go!! Give him one week to get a job! He can wash dishes in a restaurant, work construction, dig ditches! No more access to your house! If he breaks in, have him arrested! Give him a beginner cookbook and he has to cook for himself. Go with him to shop for groceries for a week and turn him loose to eat or not! These things he should have learned as a teenager! Put all your valuables under lock and key!

Why bother to have children if you're not going to bother to do the work it takes to RAISE them to be mature ADULTS?? 😮

@absatwell8163

3 күн бұрын

You can have kids and all can be “fine” and one may not be.

@rachaelbrugmans4309

3 күн бұрын

​@absatwell8163 yes, because the same parenting approach doesn't work for every child, they are each unique

@rachaelbrugmans4309

3 күн бұрын

Some people don't have to "bother" having kids, they just get reckless once and BOOM kid. Besides which, there are hundreds of reasons to want kids, good and bad. Raising productive adults to be proud of, is just one reason.

@absatwell8163

3 күн бұрын

@@rachaelbrugmans4309 I’m aware.

@1927su

3 күн бұрын

Those same folks get a puppy and don’t take the time to train it properly & wonder why the dog doesn’t behave 😮

That kid has zero empathy. What has zero empathy?? Narcissists. Period.

@jasonm4332

2 күн бұрын

nonsense-his dads tears touched him-

I could not/would not EVER enable a child of mine like this! This is hideous!

I'm sorry you allowed your child to ruin your lives 😢

My friend does this with both her kids (who are both parents). It's sad to see the denial of the facts. She and her husband enable both daughters. Whenever in trouble, they bail them out. There is no appreciation for the sacrifices both parents made. These daughters aren't as messed up as this guy, but it's the craziest thing I've ever seen. They are killing their mother with the stress.

@noelineatterbury822

3 күн бұрын

The mother is killing herself with enabling her daughters …. She probably wants/needs the drama as it gives her a position in the daughter’s lives or control in some form. It is time for the mother to take responsibility for her behaviours.

Thanks mom you’ve created a monster

Ha. In AA we say that after too long of time with your addiction, even if you get sober, you can have "mush brain". Now they have an FMRI to tell the same thing. 😂😂

Like this comment for jj to get the boot

Why has he brought a son into this world when he can't provide for him ?? He is still living off handouts of 20 and 50 dollars from his mother which he uses for drugs , doesn't have a job , is living for free in his parents' trailer and he still has gone ahead and brought another human into the world ???!! This is way beyond shameless and irresponsible !!!

You don’t need a brain scan.. her son just needs to stop! Stop blaming your parents for everything! Be responsible!

She has no boundaries and is a control freak. And seems quite pleased about it.

@andreajones886

3 күн бұрын

not a good look on her! does not go v great w/her outfit,child!😑

@uhhggg9335

3 күн бұрын

@@andreajones886 girl you are not a man once again you have a vagina you’re a female, regardless of what somebody putting your head stop hating women because you don’t wanna be one

I would like to see a follow up. I wonder if the news about his brain made him feel worse about himself, more hopeless and even pushed him over the edge and he completely gave up.

The state of his camper! Can't even keep that clean, or outside the camper. No way would any child stay with me and not pay their way! He be out on the streets! User and abuser.

Yep! Once you're a pickle, can't be a cucumber ever again. Dude got his way with the drugs. Mommy can keep him forever now.

Why the heck would you enable that kind of disrespectful son.

The guy needs rehab.... and then move into a sober living facility, where they make you get a job, pay rent and do meetings. In Rehabilitation they teach to be self-sufficient and accountable.

He is stealing and she lets him back in??

I’d love to see a follow up in the future! I hope he gets better and goes through with treatment and the parents stop enabling him!

Well done Dr Phil! You nailed it. Hope that you can keep us updated. Thank you for what you do. X

Sir, you have a baby! You have to support him and get a job! You are a grown man! Your parents need you to go and look for a job, so you can support yourself and your son!

If jail's better, then maybe he should go back and stay there.

I made a Caregiver Contract with out family friend,,, and took care of him In my home for 7 years 3 months. I got to SEE ALL THE BRAINS PICTURES/ MRIs, and it was explained to me. It was horrible what he had done to his brain, since age 15! There was no turning back. Drugs/ alcohol,, alcohol related dementia. ,,, just tragedy. He died at 81, here at home.

JJ would've been meeting Jesus personally.

@user-ur2yr5db9c

3 күн бұрын

I was thinking the same thing He better be right with Jesus. Because he would be meeting him soon

The hand of the diligent will rule, while the slothful will be put to forced labor.

@kathleenlewis1954

3 күн бұрын

Great quote

@andreajones886

3 күн бұрын

​@@kathleenlewis1954that is from the Bible

I watched an episode of Britians most taboo last night. There was a mother who did the same thing with her son. The enabling of her baby boy ruined her marriage with her husband who still loved his wife very much, and it strained the relationship she had with her daughter. At 27 he throttled his mother and then strangled her to death, took her body to a caravan park and stuffed it under a caravan, and then proceeded to use her debit cards to party and see escorts. She thought she was doing what was best for her son too.

Bad enough the son is a burden, he has the stupidity to bring a baby into his messed up life,

Ill have to tune in later. I could use Dr. Phil's advice myself.

It's sad that this guy mooches off his parents, yet he can get a job and support himself while I have a learning disability, receive Ssi, and I respect my parents.

Mom , pray 🙏 for your son , ask God to give you the strength to do what Dr.Phil says to do so your son can get the help he desperately needs . The devil is a liar and is here to steal , kill and destroy, especially our children. Praying for you and your son and the family.🙏🙏

Happy single child free lady here ☝️😎💪

Thx Mom, u provide everything for me so why should I leave! Your moms your dealer

He should be really worried about his brain scan. Scary.

This son needs Jesus Christ. He will always fail otherwise. 🙏

Best mom of the year award goes to…not you honey.

Yikes this mother. I wish we could get follow ups.

That is what happened to me when I went to rehab last year for alcohol. I didn't get a brain scan but I had by bloodwork done and saw how bad I was functioning. The Doctor told me I have five years if I am unlucky and ten years if I am lucky the way I was going. Either way it was a short life. Seeing it in black and white is really scary because machines don't care and they don't lie. I have been sober for 18 months now.

😂😂😂 at the son snitching on the mom even further 🤦🏾‍♀️

27? He looks 47!

He don’t care! People who have addiction only care about getting high! How when and where 😢it is so sad to put your family through 😢so much

That's exactly why I refuse to have a free narcan kit.

Stop putting him down and build him up.

Wonder how he learned to be so violent. The fact that he's taking it out on his mother says a lot about whatever abuse he experienced. She expressed some kind of recognition of that when she correctly stated that he's her problem and not society's problem. She's just ignorant about how to actually fix the monster she created. He obviously has behavioral issues.

Parent your children when they are young or you will be raising your grandchildren. Another thing is that parenting is hard if youre doing correctly, taking the easy way results in this.

Literally watching this makes me sick. When I was clean, I had asked my family my parents if I could park my car in front of their house that way I would have a safe place to sleep or somebody knew where I was and if I could use their bathroom because I’m getting older and I go to the bathroom a lot during the night, they told me NO THEY TOLD ME TO FIGURE IT OUT. MY FAMILY DOES NOT HELP ME IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM. EVERYTHING I HAVE IS BECAUSE OF ME THIS GUY JJ MAKES ME SICK.

Mom...YOU allowed your grown son to become this. Grown up and stop breast feeding him.

DON'T CONTINUE TO ENABLE YOUR SON , & this was commented on BEFORE the dialog on the show started.you're helping him head TOWARDS DEATH EARLY or YOUR Son's baby. PLEASE AMEN❤😢😮

Lord have mercy!!! The mom and son think exactly alike!!!!

Is he mentally 4?

The audacity.....

Sadly, it is her fault she is enabling his addiction. He needs major in treatment rehab and then find work and live out of the state where his parents live.

You have to bring something to the table besides an appetite.

Well, my mother is a disabler 🙄

I’m have 2 sons, and an enabling Ex. The father’s speech broke me down.

My mother is gone now but my brother took everything from her. For awhile I helped him until my husband stepped in. He is homeless and always in trouble. I had to turn my back on him.

What would be wrong with every kid graduating high school spending a brief time in the military? Apparently parents aren’t raising their kids properly maybe the military can teach them a thing or two! Lol

Is he smoking pot all day? Ridiculous!

I don’t want to be called an enabler /he is my baby boy= A contradiction

He's pastb18 mom he is society's problem

@tiffbeevachou108

2 күн бұрын

I think he is his own problem, society just gets to deal with it.

One day he may kill them. He is a sociopath. Saying no to him shd have been done years ago. The son is shameless and useless. The mother is too. Be a parent. Wake up! Your job is to prepare him for his future life but also to prepare him to be a member of society. Not to be An unwanted member of society. This isn’t love. She is being selfish.

This Neurologist is from South Africa. So much for implying he is American Dr Phil. I live in S.A.

The mom did everything for him and what does she get blame, scorn and judgement from the one she loved the most. Thats being a woman for ya

The father is able to prevail to him. The mother needs to build him up. Stop tearing him down.

He stole your laptop and diamond ring and you didn’t have him locked up for grand larceny?

Somewhere and at sometime in the past a total disconnect happened between them and their son. They are all inherently good people, but he has lost the plot and his mother enables him and breaks him down emotionally by saying awfully hurtful things to him and then try to rationalise it to herself that she is "disciplining" him. She may mean it well, but she is the main reason for him remaining where he is.

Very bad parenting, this is for your own selfish needs, because you certainly not helping your son ..and that is your job

Not a mooch he's a menace

Lady, your are an ENABLER!!!!!!!!!!! You need to kick him out of your home PERMANENTLY. . He HAS to become independent and GROW UP.

He’s only a leech and moocher if you allow him to be.

This is heartbreaking. I hope he takes this opportunity to get better. I hope it goes well.

I have multiple sclerosis and my brain has lesions and the brain tissue atrophy in this kids head is alarming. If you noticed that his brain frontal lobes are virtually non existent it would have significant role in his behavior towards others (from his immaturity to violence). The frontal lobe development in humans begins at puberty to the mid twenties and has has been injuring his brain much of the time that frontal lobe development is supposed to be taken place. I relate to this kid as i was once a 15 drunk. I got sober and stayed committed to my sobriety for 40 years. If he sobers up reinvents his life with a 12 step program, sponsor, anger management and professional help he may walk a free man. His other options are incarceration or death. He has crossed a serious line and wish him the best

Next violent act or theft requires a restraining order or no contact order. Hes gonna have to sink or swim. Mom ma NOT, reach out to help anymore, nor listen to him, waith 5 years, check in to say hi to him, if hes still guilt trippin ya, wait another 5 years. Be strong, to save him. He'll say all kinds of hurtful things, dont belueve him or listen, just pray for him. Let go. Let go, let go.

He needs to divorce his wife

Is the mother blind all she does is enable if you let him fall will be a real life lesson unappreciated his parent when mom bought him a camper homeless people would be grateful for that

His camper looks like a pig sty😮

Yep, you’re an enabler.

JJ is a real winner 🏆 well done mom

@Omar_Zazzle

Күн бұрын

He should be a KZread influencer so he can influence so many young people.

"HES" not ruining your life, YOU are. SMH.

I wonder how he did?

this is the most hilarious title

You are NOT helpful . You are making him a 9 year boy. She is not a good parent.

And as I will watch the program all the way to the end, if you don't support that aspect of it Dr Phil that why is he being told he's a piece of s*** then I have no respect for you

Guilty 😔 ss sin 😭 he's minipulation and blame blame blame blame for his own fault 😡 and one day, he's going to regret his own way of being a ars!

This is from 7 years ago. So, what's the follow up? What happened?

Again I have to add another comment because I'm so fired up about this when I say be compassionate and have his back I mean talk to him the way that Dr Phil just did I know you can do this instead of your a piece of s*** and then when Dr Phil said I know you can do this you can see the reaction that the child had he started to cry apparently those parents can't do that I think they need help as well as the child

He is horrible