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@anniemwaniki5063

Жыл бұрын

Mambo

@anniemwaniki5063

Жыл бұрын

Nanastory

@ellybkhimzy4048

3 ай бұрын

She is my sister from another mother we grew up together from same village Trizah you are strong girl I know all this coz I know you from young age.

Watching this today and remembering what a wicked mother in law I had. God help me be a good mother to my son's wife

@salmanh9778

Жыл бұрын

Ameeen

We used to fellowship at the same church I didn't know she was going through hell in her marriage she used to lead praise and worship at our church you are strong mama keep going 🙏

My mother in law could come in my house and gossip me with my house maid. She disrespect me so much, telling people I come from a poor family. She made sure everyone in the family hated me to point the family members abusing me... My former husband was so weak to protect me from all the abuse. You tell him what is happening, he used to keep quiet...I used to keep quiet once I'm abused. Now they started extending the hate to my children. I couldn't travel to his ushago, for the fear of been humiliated. I had to separate myself from this man, now I'm healing and at peace. I understand you so much.

@tsiheriambooka1137

Жыл бұрын

Sad. It is well dear

@happinessmwenda2773

Жыл бұрын

SIONDOKI KWA SABABU YA MOTHER IN LAW TUNAPAMBANA MUNGU AKAE KATI YETU

@Lily_Aiysha

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry Grace. I am glad you found peace. And there is still hope to find the love of your life 😊

@crocodilemasala7956

Жыл бұрын

Sorry

@crocodilemasala7956

Жыл бұрын

Mother in law ni sumu.

I must say this Tuko presenter is doing a great job

@carolinemakezi5926

Жыл бұрын

Yes she is. Just limit the advise within things you understand or leave it out altogether. You are a good listener.

Nothing dangerous in this world more than staying with someone who is not loving you and he/she don’t want you to go,you are going far mama

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

You are right. When someone realizes that you love him too much, thats,, when trouble begins, but unfortunately, love develops naturally.

Aki my mom in law only God knows how good you was to me you're more than my mom, continue resting in peace till we meet again

@NancyNgugi-os9kx

2 ай бұрын

Ooh mine too was so nice to me may her soul continue resting in peace

Life has no balance. Nice people always attract Narcissistic behaviors

@bethtoox9435

Жыл бұрын

When we educate ourselves,about narcissists is better knowledge is powerful

@eunicenjeru215

Жыл бұрын

It is the inner fear that makes narcists have control.They thrive in making sure the victim has low self esteem.

@margaretnjenga7127

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately Very true!

@graceg2464

Жыл бұрын

Aki I tell you

@nancijoy8687

Жыл бұрын

💯 True

As a man, the moment you allow your parents (especially mums) take control of your family affairs, you are doomed!

This is my story. Insaults and blamings has become their joy and habit. But I believe my 3 kids will testify what kind of a ma'am they have...

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Amen. Stay strong, and always pray to God for safety and protection.

@keflerbrownb.6450

Жыл бұрын

They need Christ, GOD is LOVE !

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

, you are right. God is love.

This lady is beautiful in and outside ,you will go far mummy

@mercelineakoth8391

Жыл бұрын

She is also wise

I wish if women would love themselves enough to knows that..,they just don't have to give birth to any man out their..,those children's deserves good father as well. Woi.

You are a strong woman. Take care of you and your lovely babies. God bless and protect you

I have worked from day 1 after cs I don't understand the kid of generation of men we have around.Being alone sometimes seems better .

@marthakuria9931

Жыл бұрын

That’s true,.Another one said that wanawake wa gicagi hulima upto the last day

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, crazy world we are living .

@simpsonisoe8994

Жыл бұрын

This men where borN by single mums

Mother in law ni sumu katika ndoa na akiingilia ndo yako utahangaika hadi mwisho. Sorry for the suffering you went through.

@agneswanjau559

Жыл бұрын

Not all mother in laws are bad haki. Many are loving and concerned. By the way it's just a few years before the oppressed wives also become mothers in law.

When a narcissist finds a girl who is obsessed with a wedding 💒 just know you've given him the right to abuse you,they have no empathy

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

This world is just crazy and I guess he knew that she was much into him and not the other way round.

@damariszuckschwert9489

Жыл бұрын

💯

@MyJOSE2013

Жыл бұрын

True. Some wemen will persevere anything for fear of breaking a wedding. 🤔

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

@@MyJOSE2013, yeah.

@nurugizani3075

3 ай бұрын

We do that imagine ​@MyJOSE2013

These pipo exist but the ones to blame are the mama’s sons whom we get married to unknowingly because of their camouflaging abilities😢

During dating its the time to learn each other and most people hide in weddings and the fear of failing after weddings combs many peoples school of thought and that's why many are in a dilemma and suffering to uphold the marriage which has already crumbled with one of the partners.

She is a very strong and beautiful woman. May the Lord bless her

Teresia, am listening to you and can't help but wonder, thank God I know you and even the people who have been there in your lives. Karma is real.

I can't hold my tear this is my story l ask God to strengthen me so as l walk out

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

May God protect you and lead you .

@keflerbrownb.6450

Жыл бұрын

I declare total Healing in your life. In Jesus Mighty name!

Hugs mamah... God in heaven sees and hears...you will get someone who will love 💞💕 you the way your supposed to be loved

Narcs don't have sympathy my friend, do your research and get To know who these types of people are ,infact they hate their own children!

@keflerbrownb.6450

Жыл бұрын

they need Christ

@graceg2464

Жыл бұрын

They don love them at all.they are not even concerned about them.n you force them around to do things for them n you too.they treat you like hell.n if you are working,you cater for yourself n he withdraw everything from you

A true narcissist, they use you and dump you. They are protective of their character yet so egocentric and abusive

Pole for what you went through. But come we stay won't help. The secret to a successful marriage is.... Know yourself first..... Once you know who you are and what you want, everything in your life falls to place and you make better decisions. And once you know yourself, you will know what kind of man you want in your life. No come we stay! Know yourself.

@muthoni2102

Жыл бұрын

True

Woiye so the lady was going all this and the way she was good in praise and worship in church...may God watch and guide your steps to raise your kids.

God bless you and I hope you find peace in your heart and healing 💗 x

Hawa wanaume wa kanisa ni maumbwa sana, they are the best pretenders.

@magoshlawrence3193

Жыл бұрын

Very very very true hawa watu aki

@LastEmperor86

Жыл бұрын

@@magoshlawrence3193 hao hata they don't cope with other ordinary men,ni watiaji sana

Me i got marriage may na ikaisha august na nikaacha marriage roho safi and i remember i told that guy ukiona mjinga kama mm shukuru mungu trust me kila siku unitafuta turudiane bt who is me i just send photos and tell him mungu hatoki kwenu uliniambia nitoke uendelee enda uendelee roho safi mm kwako is a hell tried to reach out my brother bt i told my brother go and get married to him bt not me again

Divorce is done by the court. your husband's signature is not necessary. please familiarize with marriage and divorce laws. Also, you don't need a man's approval to be acceptable to society. Kibali ya Mungu na kujiamini is all what you need.

Besides all yes your mother inlaw did all that but the truth is your husband broke the marriage.

@wambuimachari1783

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@ciruAgneskamande9011

Жыл бұрын

True, maybe he would even lie to the mother to sympathize with him

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, her hubby failed her too.

This woman is a strong survivour. So brave and hard working. God bless you. I hope everything works out for the best ❤

You are right my dear sister l fight such battle l understand you very well.

I wish she could have seen her value before she had 3 kids with him. I feel sad to see hardworking women stay in dysfunctional relationships for years until their egos are completely shattered

God bless sisters aki ❤️

Thank God I met angelic mother in law but her son was a devil himself, it didn't work

Very good sympathetic interviewer 👍

@keflerbrownb.6450

Жыл бұрын

We really need GOD

@NancyNgugi-hd8yr

8 ай бұрын

Eyaaah nooo sorry Gai haaa

This is my exactly my story

Pole sana kui kwa yale yote upetishwa na mume wako,Mungu atakusaidia ni mwaminifu sana zidi kumtumania, kwa kweli huyu mrembo namjua tulisoma nayeye high school Iresco na alikuwa msichana mzuri na anapenda Mungu,May God see you throu Terry.

@ellybkhimzy4048

3 ай бұрын

Which class were you in I was there too aki nikikumbuka the way she was humble tulianza na yeye nursery school aki

You are not alone mama Mimi nliwachwa watoi wakiwa 4yrs en 2en half yrs eve Bob sijawahi pata but I thank wako 14 en 12 yrs respectively have been taking care of them since then can't complain first born anafanya exam class 8 the ex my foot 🦶

hoo my dear daughter that is exactly what happened to my marriage

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

So sad what you went thru. May God give you peace.

Terry you are an exceptional woman.gogo gal

A word of advice. Whenever we ask God for the desires of our hearts, satan has the ability to see what God has in store for us, he therefore, moves with speed and makes a replica of that which God intents to give us except, that his compared to God's, has imperfections. That is when the power of patience is supposed to kick in through prayer and ask God if truly what is right before us is His will and wait patiently for His response. God, in His abundant love, will always show us a sign but only and only if we practice patience.

@dawnminerve2254

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@godsown4683

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I was asking myself this the whole time. Did you ask God before you went for that marriage? Sometimes God warns us and we ignore.

@leillahwawudawordsofwisdom9443

Жыл бұрын

This is great 👌 advice. Patience sio mchezo...people don't like waiting. But it's better to.

Think, Play - behave, apprach and your words as she is your real mother same way let she think you as her real daughter. Matter is simple. No as 'in-law'. be first in life.

@frashiahwangari2177

Жыл бұрын

What in the world are you talking about??? Your words make no sense!

@godriverodhiambo645

Жыл бұрын

What the hell are you saying?

@josephinemulama6338

Жыл бұрын

Which language is this

Destiny destroyers n Narcissist are hard to please I was there ,it's good u left this abusive marriage.

@wambuimachari1783

Жыл бұрын

Yes yes

@keflerbrownb.6450

Жыл бұрын

May GOD Help us to heal

@terrymbuthia4471

Жыл бұрын

Thanks we are strong

Pole Sana gal for what you went through......May God continue blessing u

These are type of man who trash thr kids today. Kesho the child becomes successful thts when they will show up thr faces ….

Pole Sana kui...Mimi yale nimepitia sijui naeza anzia wapi nimalizie wapi.nimepitia abuse ya kila aina

I have known and served with this girl and for real she is a servant of God. I can't believe what she has gone through in the hands of a "church elder".

@godsown4683

Жыл бұрын

He is a church elder? 🤔🤔🤔

Gd eve, just seeing his video and reflected on my relationship with mom in law. Sadly, I havn't spoken to mine will iver 1 1/2 yr. Meddles and wants to run our household, in she treats all her adult children like this especially the 2 grown men. The grown ladies will not put up with her behaviour. Her behaviour is that of a Sh**t disturber. My husband has now seen for himself. Now she lays in Nursing whaling that no one honours her?? We pray for her to change before she loses out on her salvation.

Naulizaa shida ya language iko wapi hapa?Skizeni message wachana na English yake

Aki Wooshe likes munipe likes.... Mapema ndio best

One pray I do pray for My daughter's is that when they get married they find their mother in law Dead reason being for what My mother in law has made me go through one thing she forgets that she has a 11yrs daughter that will get married one day

My God bless you,my former manager,seeing the way you were dedicated in your marriage.

@sharonkiruki9239

Жыл бұрын

Bylliokk😅Kölnhbvck be L

Sio kwa ubaya bt I prefer kudate mwanaume mwenye Ana mama is better love yenu italast forever, mama's boy is a no for me, nasijasema mtu asipende mamake bt ajue mm ni bb na ule ni mamake

@hawamusumba431

Жыл бұрын

Mimi nilioleka na mamaboy lakini nilimnyorosha na maombi mpaka akarudi kwa line na bado na omba hakuna kutulia

Wah. .you just told my story in 2010.pole mummy.

Since when will men understand that not providing and caring is not hurting the mother ua hurting your own kids yawaaa...aaa Hawa wanaume wa kujenga jina their own families are suffering....wamedharau bibizao and not taking care of the kids I don't like such people kufuraisha watu but behind the scenes people don't know.....at least parents and siblings should learn to listen and understand their own Heeei....uyo mama ndio alikuharibia pia

Sasa mother in law alikua ameacha bwana yake nanani

This makes some of us tuogope kuolewa😒😭😭😭...take heart mamaa

@user-jg9ku9np5n

2 ай бұрын

Nko nyuma yako

We are twining , exactly is what happened to me my sister. we parted and he want me back again

The moment a man doesn't know how to balance the relationship with his mother and wife hapo ndio mwisho.Creating boundaries for both parties is equally important.

too bad,no humanity at all in some men

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, crazy world we live in.

Kansiime's twin siz Much love dear.

Nikiimagine vile am always discussed by my mother in law with my nanny's naskia. Nguvu kwa miguu zinaisha...

I feel like shouting but let me try to say it calmly!!!!Those men who are clothed in ngozi ya kondoo kumbe ndani ni mbwa mwitu wamejaaa sanasana kanisani!!!!!!!!!!! To the public they are angels, but to their spouse they are so evil!!!!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lady, I am so happy for the support your parents gave u, some parents chase back their daughters to the abuser!! Go on with the divorce he doesn't have to sign the papers as long as there's record he has been served,an affidavit to confirm will suffice,the case can go on, kwanza asipotokea, case itaenda in your favor!!! Go for it, the earlier the better!don't tie yourself, it's time for your grand rising 👏👏 all the best

I love my mum in law she was an angel you have to work on yourself. You have to be positive if your mum did not give birth and cared for your husband you could not have met him it is your duty to blend into the family. Be positive.

sorry dear sister may God open your ways to take care of your children.

Since the day I realized that my husband's people are not my relatives am always happy and I can't entertain them anymore .so long as they don't feed me .

Wow, this is so sad, I know this lady “Kui” just sad to see and hear her story.

Pole sana mum.. may God help us

Pole sana terry...and the way you are a great worship leader..i know you together with your ex husband and we didn't know you were going thru all these. Take heart girl..God will see you thru with your kids

Pole for what you went through

Pole Sana dear for what you have gone through, but still as a servant of God you cannot advise people to go for (come we stay), it's not Godly and God is very much able to give someone the right partner, the right way and a blessed marriage, keep hope alive.

We grew up together from the same village we went to Same primary and secondary school. If asked of a humble girl from a very humble family I would bring Trizah all the time it has shocked me to see her going though this hell.

Am also proud of you trizza..

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, she's a strong woman

sorry gal you were dealing with a narcissist. do not regret of him leaving you.

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Yes, she went thru hell, but God strengthened her.

@graceg2464

Жыл бұрын

Sure even me am planning to leave .

Please ask to seek a lawyer and get a divorce.

@nurugizani3075

3 ай бұрын

They are expensive. Anyone to offer pro bono?

Wishing you the best. But don't advise people into "Come We Stay" marriages. There is more pain in them. Church weddings are good with the right person and counseling.

Terry. God will wipe your tears away. He will restore everything you lost.

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

That's right. God is faithful .

🤔🤔🤔Some stories make me afraid of getting married

@josephinemulama6338

Жыл бұрын

Marriage is a good thing,you will get a good partner just position yourself and be careful

@Lily_Aiysha

Жыл бұрын

Don’t be afraid baby girl, your story will be different 😊

Ur talking for the silent majority, what hurt me todate is the hate she has for my children,,ooh God give me your grace

So so sad. Kutesa mtoto wa mtu n you are a parent.

@crocodilemasala7956

Жыл бұрын

🤦

I love this journalist jamani

Mother's inlaws surely

Fellow women marriage doesn’t not define or complete you. Again & again we box and diminish ourselves to fit into society scripts. Learn to be complete and whole!! Learn to stand in your God given power!!!

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

God is faithful

Take him to court he will support his children

Gal, you are right .mine was good out there, but he was an animal. The beatings I received!he will give alot in church.he would takelot of shopping any time he went to see my mumyet he will not help me.i suffered oooh.O was taken to kiambu poloce station claiming thst i want to kill him and the kids😢but he had left the kid with the killer yet pretending to care for them.i woud fibd cds in his pocket and yet he would stand and preach. I thank God him and his parent;aunties sent me packing while i was still alive.God has opened my dor greatly.

So sorry for your experience but I don't think a come we stay situation helps much. You might end up staying with so many men before landing on the right one.

Hajawaai kukupenda! You were forcing him. Ati akaogeleshwa..for what?, Pole.

Waaa a very noizy background.. Please rectify

What I went through in the hands of a mother in law is hell in as much as I am a man, always advising her daughter the wrong way from not including my name in the birth certificate yet I was taking responsibility, telling her daughter that she doesn't believe in marriage,even men go through difficulty in the hands of their mother in laws only that men don't speak much hence broke marriage that I had built

@rao023

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for that.

Terry your beautiful just move with live.

@Lily_Aiysha

Жыл бұрын

She is indeed very beautiful 😍

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

God is faithful .

@terrymbuthia4471

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

Bt siku ipo mwanaume hatakutafuta tu ya mungu ni mengi bt only God knows tomorrow of you

You are beautiful you don't nthis narcissist in uour life. Take the divorce tapers if he doesn't sign the papers according to the law the divorce will go through

Y’all have patience, you took too long beautiful. Mm nayo sipendi ujinga hyo mambo ya kanisa siko hyo mother in-law ningemfunika😂tano tena

May Our LORD God help you to overcome and give you peace and provide for all your needs according to the riches of His glory. In Jesus' Mighty name. AMEN.

@Lily_Aiysha

Жыл бұрын

Amen! Thanks Rose for this ❤️

@robertkenyanchef

Жыл бұрын

Amen. May God bless her abundantly.

Now, bring the man he must be having a banger of a story

@jkabese73

Жыл бұрын

We have to listen to both parties

@nurugizani3075

3 ай бұрын

​@@jkabese73he will deny

This relationship was like my first love relationship it scarred me for a long time.

Born again christian 's,may GOD give as the spirit of discernment,this pple dnt get as,devil came to kill,steal,destroy.Terry ur husband is a narcissist,for your closure google narcissist,characteristics they don't love their children only themselves.Don't like responsibility or demands from children sad truth.

From my own personal experience,kama haiwork haiwork .Even if it's a one day marriage LEAVE...mine failed within 3 months

@user-qk6rc7gy7s

8 ай бұрын

Same link only 3months I see red flags na nikatoka coz my mum faces a lot of things in this thing called married even dating when I see red flags Kila mtu aende za kwake I can't entertain nonsense