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  • @CatfishedOnline
    @CatfishedOnline Жыл бұрын

    🆕WATCH NEXT: Romance Scam Victim Meets The REAL Person!: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k4BoyrNqm5fVY6g.html

  • @kdeloris2225

    @kdeloris2225

    Жыл бұрын

    I wonder where they get so much disposable income? The victims seem to have no problem sending large amounts of money to strangers🤷‍♀️ This show has really opened my eyes. Not just a scammer, but to everything.

  • @Pugetwitch

    @Pugetwitch

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@kdeloris2225I know dude, I'm still struggling to get my life together 6 years after being taken for a ride from my ex who destroyed my credit. at least I was diagnosed with others and after everything ended, lol because it opened my eyes to the fact that I'm likely to be manipulated by people since I couldn't believe somebody would just use me for a place to stay in for lines of credit and stuff, I would never do anything like that without actually paying them back! so basically I spent my entire life savings on my daughter's dad trying to help him with his drug addictions cuz I was letting him use my car so he could get back and forth to work, paying for his food and medical and all this stuff that he refused to get taken care of through social services, I just recently found out that the guy was on fentanyl almost the entire time! I feel so stupid because I was accusing him of having a meth addiction! I work as a substance use disorder therapist, at least I was doing that and I was a program manager at a hospital for 10 years before that guy ruined my life. now I'm making less money than I made in my 20s and I'm 43 years old living in one of the most expensive cities - Seattle. My car got totaled and my dad has cancer and it's just like a whole bunch of real life problems going on, I owe $1,500 right now on my car payment otherwise they're going to repossess it in less than 2 weeks and I'm really scared. I have no friends or family to help, and my credit is completely destroyed. I wasn't raised to know anything about things like APR credit or anything so I really got taken for a ride once I hit 21. The fact that I had grew up around gang members and druggies didn't make things easier for me to make good decisions once I got away from that lifestyle in my late teens.

  • @GarrettBalcer657

    @GarrettBalcer657

    10 ай бұрын

    Are

  • @MxMicah1038

    @MxMicah1038

    10 ай бұрын

    I wanna work with y’all!!

  • @michelleroberts6597

    @michelleroberts6597

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@kdeloris2225 I know, right? it's absolutely amazing! one of those payments would be life changing!

  • @tinejensen8309
    @tinejensen8309 Жыл бұрын

    The scammer posing as a broke Elon Musk is something else!

  • @allwhatilove914

    @allwhatilove914

    Жыл бұрын

    I died when I saw broke Musk needing money to feed his kids. Loooool

  • @nickimillennium

    @nickimillennium

    Жыл бұрын

    Those Teslas keep crashing, poor guy's stock is dropping, he needs help! LOL

  • @kfitz192

    @kfitz192

    Жыл бұрын

    That was hilarious. Bold move by the scammers. Unbelievable someone fell for it.

  • @nic.25

    @nic.25

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that was a test to see if she sent money then she was a good target to be scammed

  • @katwil89

    @katwil89

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kfitz192 The scammer and all his scammer friends were probably all high-fiving when she fell for that.

  • @shia7421
    @shia7421 Жыл бұрын

    "I don't look my age" yes, you do look your age. And that's completely okay.

  • @adams8830

    @adams8830

    Жыл бұрын

    This. There's nothing wrong with looking your age.

  • @LindaKayHolevas

    @LindaKayHolevas

    Жыл бұрын

    I love this comment! You are absolutely correct! Aging is a privilege not everyone is allowed. Be grateful to grow old & embrace it! ❤

  • @femalehuman8766

    @femalehuman8766

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LindaKayHolevas So right! Cancer took my husband @ the age of 46. The chemo and other treatments took his hair and his looks and the only thing he wanted was to live one more day. Life indeed, is a privilege.

  • @SonjaElizabethTeal

    @SonjaElizabethTeal

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts! Thank you for this comment. ❤❤

  • @SonjaElizabethTeal

    @SonjaElizabethTeal

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@femalehuman8766y sincerest condolences. And you are so correct.

  • @daCubanaqt
    @daCubanaqt8 ай бұрын

    Mom: “No there’s this guy I’ve been talking to online, I just want to help him” Son: “Oh no” Mom: “He’s a general” Son: “Oh God” I nearly laughed myself out of breath when I heard that 😂😂😂😂

  • @slyestfox935

    @slyestfox935

    8 ай бұрын

    The son is just brilliant 👏

  • @estherwright2068

    @estherwright2068

    6 ай бұрын

    Same that totally got me..poor guy

  • @potierenmenie7046

    @potierenmenie7046

    5 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @octobermoon3959

    @octobermoon3959

    5 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    Hahahaha😢

  • @LizBlair
    @LizBlairАй бұрын

    I am a 64-year-old lady and I have watched many videos about old ladies who think they are in relationships with celebrities, millionaires, etc. Not all old ladies are this gullible!

  • @abracadeborah7855

    @abracadeborah7855

    Ай бұрын

    I loved your comment Liz, I’m 66 and widowed 25 years single and I asked one of my sons what he’d do if I got mixed up in something like this, he said ‘ ‘ mum, if you were that silly I’d get the other kids and we’d put you in a home, straight up.’ No sympathy there. Hehe

  • @shannonp1656

    @shannonp1656

    26 күн бұрын

    ​@@abracadeborah7855 I am 64. I have told my son he can put me out if his misery (away). I do stupid things sometimes but I am also too distrustful.

  • @terryKessler42719

    @terryKessler42719

    9 күн бұрын

    I’m also an old lady and I wouldn’t fall for this crap. Can you imagine sending someone a nude photo of our old body?

  • @MandA1900

    @MandA1900

    7 күн бұрын

    May l say being in your 60's is not old 70's maybe ❤

  • @shannonp1656

    @shannonp1656

    7 күн бұрын

    @@MandA1900 I am 64 and didn't feel old until I started getting all this mail about Medicare and supplemental insurance. I am the buzzkill who debunks the BS other people share in emails at work.

  • @ProspectNY11211
    @ProspectNY11211 Жыл бұрын

    She sent Elon Musk gift cards. Let that sink in.

  • @marthas.4456

    @marthas.4456

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm still laughing about it 🤣🤣🤣 And she says she is a 'pretty intelligent person'.

  • @peekaboots01

    @peekaboots01

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes that killed me! Elon Musk!!! She's still trying to hook a rich man, clearly.

  • @bstapleton3248

    @bstapleton3248

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m still convinced it’s not just vanity and loneliness, there is an element of greed to it. They all think in a round about way that they are going to end up with a partner who is wealthy.

  • @kfitz192

    @kfitz192

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@bstapleton3248I think you're right. They get to peek at a fake bank account or are lured by a gold box or whatever the scam is. And they think all I have to do is send x amount of money and then I'm going to be a millionaire.

  • @aye70aye

    @aye70aye

    Жыл бұрын

    Worse - even AFTER that shit show, she did it all again with this general! Mind boggles

  • @zy510
    @zy510 Жыл бұрын

    "For being 73, I don't look 73. I dress up quite nicely. I still get hit on by guys" Ma'am. You're getting hit on by internet scammers. And you do look 73.

  • @kdeloris2225

    @kdeloris2225

    Жыл бұрын

    She gets hit on by scammers

  • @fancyme.alter1311

    @fancyme.alter1311

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't think she looks 73, but I don't believe that she gets "hit on" or she would not be needing the validation that she receives from the scammer.

  • @aye70aye

    @aye70aye

    Жыл бұрын

    Remember those online who are 'hitting ' on her photo thats 40yrs old!!

  • @Luckoftheirish1

    @Luckoftheirish1

    Жыл бұрын

    Her face does look good for her age. No age spots and not many lines. She could easily pass for late 60’s.

  • @betty27246

    @betty27246

    Жыл бұрын

    Remember men will say anything, they will tell a brick it's beautiful.

  • @etymovoc
    @etymovoc10 ай бұрын

    TBH, she is also frauding by using a profile photo from 30 years and 100 pounds ago !

  • @christinecatt8039

    @christinecatt8039

    2 ай бұрын

    She's scamming the scammer..🤔

  • @agnesr.6151

    @agnesr.6151

    2 ай бұрын

    100 pounds ago 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @agnesr.6151

    @agnesr.6151

    2 ай бұрын

    @@christinecatt8039Exactly 😂😂😂

  • @pilarjohnson3326

    @pilarjohnson3326

    2 ай бұрын

    She is not getting money from people under false pretense.

  • @corrinebayraktaroglu5695

    @corrinebayraktaroglu5695

    Ай бұрын

    How she looks doesn’t make a heap of difference to a catfisher .

  • @barbaraw8806
    @barbaraw88064 ай бұрын

    Her son is so patient. She may have some dementia.

  • @terryKessler42719

    @terryKessler42719

    9 күн бұрын

    My sons are caring like that. They will do anything for me. However, I have more money than they do so I can’t ask them for money. They’re such good boys and worry about me.

  • @da__lang
    @da__lang Жыл бұрын

    If I had a dollar for every 70 year-old scam victim who thinks she looks 45, I could retire early and buy a beach house in Hawaii.

  • @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    Жыл бұрын

    I’d honestly like to have some of that confidence honestly. Not all of it! I don’t want to be so confident that I’m an idiot 😂

  • @annayermilov

    @annayermilov

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too 😭

  • @blutexan

    @blutexan

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@AllThingsUnderTheSun ... sadly, I think the common thread of these ppl who get scammed (and consider themselves as "intelligent") is that they are lonely, insecure ppl. Or, as some of them are clearly 'seniors' could have some cognitive impairments, which also alters their sense of reality. Sad, sad, sad.

  • @sheilagill8385

    @sheilagill8385

    Жыл бұрын

    Sad but true!! Delusional old ladies ( usually).

  • @birgittkellermann1420

    @birgittkellermann1420

    Жыл бұрын

    That lady looks really good for her age,but she looks like a senior...no matter that she was a model in the 80s!

  • @smoocher
    @smoocher Жыл бұрын

    She said she's grateful to the Catfished staff, but she should mainly be grateful to her son.

  • @FreeRadicals305

    @FreeRadicals305

    Жыл бұрын

    For sure. She was going to bounce right back into another scammer. Probably the same one, with a different name and pics.

  • @yellowbird5411

    @yellowbird5411

    Жыл бұрын

    The "love drug" of reading loving things every day on your phone/computer is like candy. And it is addictive. You get used to opening your phone and seeing all this sweet stuff. Even after knowing you've been scammed, people will still crave these messages and lies, and will pretend to themselves it's real. Like reading romance novels, which are also addictive.

  • @shess1640

    @shess1640

    Жыл бұрын

    Her son seems like a true gem!

  • @cbgbstew4072

    @cbgbstew4072

    Жыл бұрын

    YES. It does seem that parents often don’t love to take advice from their kids, sadly.

  • @anny1_232

    @anny1_232

    Жыл бұрын

    She was being polite, which is fine. Doubtless she is also grateful to her son.

  • @trainwreckgrill
    @trainwreckgrill Жыл бұрын

    She sent $150 in gift cards to ELON MUSK? 🤣🤣🤣 Please, somebody get her off the internet!

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    Now. Hahahaha😂

  • @jessieb7290

    @jessieb7290

    12 күн бұрын

    They tried and she hated it, plus now it would come under human rights. So I think they could put a child lock timer on her devices where she’s only allowed online for 1hour a day and maybe show her documentaries or KZread scam baiting videos and more social catfish. That should hopefully educate her. Plus there are tools you can get for better internet security.

  • @michelew4078
    @michelew407810 ай бұрын

    The nation's HIGHEST military officer in the country needs money to get home

  • @tmcurly
    @tmcurly Жыл бұрын

    Anyone notice that she is using a photo of herself 20 years ago? 😂😂

  • @fionahawkes1758

    @fionahawkes1758

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!!!! 😂 She was scamming him back just incase he was a fraud lol...

  • @ElaAusDemTal

    @ElaAusDemTal

    Жыл бұрын

    At least 20 years old!

  • @castorkat4868

    @castorkat4868

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ElaAusDemTal 30 maybe

  • @juiceweezer

    @juiceweezer

    Жыл бұрын

    Gotta use better bait to catch better catfish.

  • @tressaeleby

    @tressaeleby

    Жыл бұрын

    FIRST thing I noticed. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @katwil89
    @katwil89 Жыл бұрын

    Kathy: I'm a pretty intelligent person. Also Kathy: I sent Elon Musk money so that he can feed his children.

  • @denastrong800

    @denastrong800

    Жыл бұрын

    😀😃😄😁

  • @rosi271

    @rosi271

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @ats-3693

    @ats-3693

    Жыл бұрын

    Really stupid people have no idea that they are stupid.

  • @lydiaweight3442

    @lydiaweight3442

    Жыл бұрын

    Go figure. If you're intelligent you don't have to tell everyone; you have to behave intelligently....

  • @lindsaybc2192

    @lindsaybc2192

    Жыл бұрын

    I AM DECEASED!!! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂💀🪦

  • @Corrose
    @Corrose11 ай бұрын

    "I'm a pretty intelligent person..." Right

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah, sure lady.

  • @terryKessler42719

    @terryKessler42719

    9 күн бұрын

    She’s pretty stupid if you ask me. How can these women fall for this crap?

  • @beckywest7064
    @beckywest70645 ай бұрын

    She didn't believe her own flesh & blood grown children. Believed someone she never saw! Sad

  • @frofrofrofro900

    @frofrofrofro900

    4 ай бұрын

    Age age age

  • @FreeRadicals305
    @FreeRadicals305 Жыл бұрын

    "I don't look 73", . . . .Yes, you do. Seems a lot of these victims, using 20 y/o avatar pics, lack 'self-awareness'. Add to that, "I'm a pretty intelligent person". To an average person, scammer stories are ridiculous.

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought she said 83 and thought yes, and you've totally lost your looks. Don't these people have mirrors? Full length ones? Sorry to be so mean, but we ought to simply face facts and be ok with our ageing.

  • @ryanhansen7

    @ryanhansen7

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Took the words right out of my mouth.

  • @nickimillennium

    @nickimillennium

    Жыл бұрын

    Their own narcissism prevents them from seeing the truth.

  • @arthurwatt5162

    @arthurwatt5162

    Жыл бұрын

    Let's try to be compassionate here.

  • @evertonevelynsmith5431

    @evertonevelynsmith5431

    Жыл бұрын

    why be so mean she is a nice looking lady no way does she look 73

  • @davideaston8314
    @davideaston8314 Жыл бұрын

    Lets be fair, looking at her profile pic, she's a catfish too!

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607

    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely she is

  • @danae2882

    @danae2882

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @8ofwands300

    @8ofwands300

    Жыл бұрын

    She's not. She is not impersonating someone else. Nor is she asking for money. She clearly needs psychological help.

  • @Robynator......

    @Robynator......

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @davideaston8314

    @davideaston8314

    Жыл бұрын

    @@8ofwands300 If you're not giving an accurate representation of yourself, are being untruthful and are therefore lying, you're a catfish... it's not all about pretending to be someone else completely, or getting cash

  • @cherylnielson4710
    @cherylnielson471011 ай бұрын

    One of things most notable about these scam victims is their astounding lack of sophistication . This woman thinks she s involved with one of the top generals in the US military and that the government won’t pay his travel expenses???! OMG.

  • @serendipityshopnyc

    @serendipityshopnyc

    7 ай бұрын

    I saw a similar one from this channel a few days ago, where the woman was shoveling cash at a general in Syria who was allegedly trying to ship home his career's worth of documents and a mysterious portfolio full of cash from a Syrian official. Why would anyone not realize that the US military pays for EVERYTHING for their high-ranking officers?

  • @PenskePC17

    @PenskePC17

    7 ай бұрын

    You're showing an astounding lack of sophistication. Naivety and intelligence are not mutually exclusive.

  • @vickitrotter8025

    @vickitrotter8025

    4 ай бұрын

    I know!

  • @frofrofrofro900

    @frofrofrofro900

    4 ай бұрын

    Why families dont take morhers fathers to the police? They could explain them everything and giving money to strangers can be sponsorship terrorism. This all money cpuld go to help terrorists or murderers killing people

  • @lynnehuff7059

    @lynnehuff7059

    3 ай бұрын

    That's true. I'm not worldly wise, but some of these things seem so plain.

  • @catitude4
    @catitude411 ай бұрын

    Have her declared incompetent and get control of her money. You're not going to talk her out of this delusion.

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    She will go right back to it 😢

  • @natecram6230
    @natecram6230 Жыл бұрын

    This is Nate. I want you all to know that my mother was, in fact, a very BOOK smart and accomplished person with a Masters degree and a 4.0 gpa. You also know book smarts and STREET smarts are very different things. I also notice she does not have the hard drive like memory that she used to. I spent 11 years as a Sheriff's Deputy. I learned sometimes you just have to meet people where they are at to help them solve problems, instead of where you would like them to be. What I want people to see is how, through the grooming process, they get their hooks in so deep that it's akin to cult like brainwashing. The scammers themselves, in the messages I read, seemed to be very lacking on the IQ scale, but their playbook (grooming process) is solid.

  • @rossfuller8025

    @rossfuller8025

    Жыл бұрын

    my mother has a master's degree as well, two in fact - but she's not a genius, and she is **not** high iq; although she's not susceptible to scams (to my knowledge, at least), i can admit to myself that she has her intellectual blind spots - she isn't nearly as intelligent as i believed her to be as a child. if these scammers are able to convince your mother that a billionaire and an accomplished general need gift cards... well, it may be time for a reality check.

  • @natecram6230

    @natecram6230

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rossfuller8025 I think the way I stated it was in the proper context. You are free to disagree though. Also, I certainly do not need a reality check after what I have witnessed while dealing with this situation.

  • @josephlangan5672

    @josephlangan5672

    Жыл бұрын

    I just want to say you seem like a really good son and I hope your mom is able to keep those scammers blocked and move on with her life. Thanks for your patience and earnestness to help.

  • @lissat7317

    @lissat7317

    Жыл бұрын

    This is an incredibly difficult and sensitive situation for you all to deal with. I’ve known some highly intelligent people who have got scammed, loneliness can make anyone vulnerable. You are a great son.

  • @Ioncandi

    @Ioncandi

    Жыл бұрын

    How long ago did you film the episode?

  • @rabidrabbitshuggers
    @rabidrabbitshuggers Жыл бұрын

    Boomers in the 1990s: You stupid kids have no idea how dangerous the internet is! There could be anyone on the other end of that username! Boomers Now: GENERAL MILLEY NEEDS BUS FARE

  • @nectarinehair0115

    @nectarinehair0115

    Жыл бұрын

    Nailed it.

  • @MayorOfMoetown

    @MayorOfMoetown

    Жыл бұрын

    They were still correct

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607

    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607

    Жыл бұрын

    Both are true, you donut

  • @rabidrabbitshuggers

    @rabidrabbitshuggers

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MayorOfMoetownThat may be true. Unfortunately, if it is, the warning was delivered to the wrong audience.

  • @jennterry6977

    @jennterry6977

    Жыл бұрын

    😅😂😂

  • @MrBlackigel
    @MrBlackigel11 ай бұрын

    "Don't believe everything you see on the internet" from a scammer is really something else.

  • @ssn2054

    @ssn2054

    10 ай бұрын

  • @chrissales8987

    @chrissales8987

    5 ай бұрын

    Advice from an expert I guess

  • @helgafrahmann4201

    @helgafrahmann4201

    3 ай бұрын

    He know ,from what he is speak!

  • @alison__16
    @alison__168 ай бұрын

    "I'm a very intelligent person". And yet here we are 🤦

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    No, she is not.

  • @SearchingfortheTruth77

    @SearchingfortheTruth77

    Ай бұрын

    Stupid people don't know they are stupid. She really believes she is so highly intelligent.

  • @pamelagraham890
    @pamelagraham890 Жыл бұрын

    I met a scammer on Facebook. Hes a marine engine contractor on an oil rig. He said he was looking for love. I asked him for $2000. He never contacted me again.

  • @mac4039

    @mac4039

    Жыл бұрын

    😊 well done!

  • @janetcook3631

    @janetcook3631

    Жыл бұрын

    Reverse scamming. Priceless!

  • @MsJuliedlp

    @MsJuliedlp

    Жыл бұрын

    I always ask suspected scammers for money right away. Love how fast they disappear! 😂

  • @Bayoubebe

    @Bayoubebe

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m kinda hoping to get in some action. Like we can be the money mules and they’ll ask us to deposit their money into Bitcoin and just keep it for ourselves 😂

  • @christinaaboajah3299

    @christinaaboajah3299

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂that is smart

  • @Aalisrocklist
    @Aalisrocklist Жыл бұрын

    I'm not a mentalist but something in her tells me she will be back in a romance scam in 5 minutes.

  • @gordons-alive4940

    @gordons-alive4940

    Жыл бұрын

    "Johnny Depp" tells her she looks much younger. Was she ever a model? /swoon

  • @xIryli

    @xIryli

    Жыл бұрын

    I really feel like at the end the victims often just tell the researchers what they want to hear and don't plan on stopping

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@xIryliI agree. She's just faking it, she's just pretending, playing nice. As soon as she gets away from Nate, she'll be back on a computer getting her next fix.

  • @Aalisrocklist

    @Aalisrocklist

    Жыл бұрын

    @@xIryli yeah you´re right!

  • @wayneelliott1180

    @wayneelliott1180

    Жыл бұрын

    They develop such a psychological thirst for the daydream. It's not unusual for the scammed to continue the 'relationship' or fall for the next scammer (who are usually the same gang of fraudsters.)

  • @aryanalewis4558
    @aryanalewis455810 ай бұрын

    I doubt Mark Milley even has time to talk to his own wife 😂

  • @ReyBoneCCG

    @ReyBoneCCG

    6 ай бұрын

    Yeah, he's too busy caught up with all the 'woke' nonsense

  • @aryanalewis4558

    @aryanalewis4558

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ReyBoneCCG imagine being so ignorant and illiterate that you think someone who organizes war for a living could ever be woke

  • @natalievu4399

    @natalievu4399

    5 ай бұрын

    ​He is busy punishing all the straight white males 😂

  • @Georg3e

    @Georg3e

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ReyBoneCCGfunny how right wing nut jobs like to proclaim everything non white and confusing to them as woke😂 dude don't even have a proper definition of the term to properly give reasons as to why being "woke" is wrong.

  • @s2bling
    @s2bling Жыл бұрын

    One thing that I’ve noticed about all of these romance scam victims is that they feel like it’s necessary to announce how smart they are and their academic or personal achievements. To me this screams that they feel very stupid for falling victim to the scam and probably have also brushed off several warnings from the people all around them.

  • @vikingprincess634

    @vikingprincess634

    8 ай бұрын

    They’re narcissists.

  • @amandacarter7740

    @amandacarter7740

    7 ай бұрын

    My thoughts exactly.

  • @serendipityshopnyc

    @serendipityshopnyc

    7 ай бұрын

    There are very book-smart people who are easier to scam because they are overconfident about their intelligence. My polymath ex fell for several very common petty scams. My likewise brilliant niece married a handsome Cuban who was after the green card marriage & cash. Fortunately she divorced his cheating mercenary butt in 18 months before they had any kids.

  • @lolabelle4959

    @lolabelle4959

    7 ай бұрын

    Narcissist is the word I'm thinking of x

  • @lorrainegriffin1443

    @lorrainegriffin1443

    7 ай бұрын

    They all say I'm intelligent?

  • @kevztunz
    @kevztunz Жыл бұрын

    Nate really needs to consider a career as a radio broadcaster. He's got the BEST speaking voice!

  • @StrawberryAppleCream

    @StrawberryAppleCream

    Жыл бұрын

    True! Very pleasnt to listen to

  • @pofuno

    @pofuno

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao gay

  • @CaseyAvalon

    @CaseyAvalon

    Жыл бұрын

    For real.

  • @JFH-te4lu

    @JFH-te4lu

    Жыл бұрын

    Doesn't matter whether or not he is gay...sheesh.

  • @kevztunz

    @kevztunz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pofuno So?

  • @realkangaroocafevietnam
    @realkangaroocafevietnam Жыл бұрын

    In the worst of the most obvious scams the patsy always goes to great lengths to say how intelligent they are.

  • @rabidrabbitshuggers

    @rabidrabbitshuggers

    Жыл бұрын

    Intelligence is one of those characteristics, like wealth and a healthy sex life, where if you feel compelled to let other people know you have it, you probably don’t.

  • @rungeon83

    @rungeon83

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rabidrabbitshuggers I do have a very healthy sex life... ask the hole in the wall.... 😢

  • @sunnystormy4973

    @sunnystormy4973

    Жыл бұрын

    -what is "patsy" ?-

  • @maryannanderson2213

    @maryannanderson2213

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sunnystormy4973 "Patsy" is what someone is called who is easy to scam.

  • @wouldntulike2no125

    @wouldntulike2no125

    Жыл бұрын

    I always laugh about that too! Maybe book smart but zero street smarts!

  • @maxrebo8455
    @maxrebo845510 ай бұрын

    Hang on a second, she thought that US General Mark Milley the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff since 2019 needed money? I don't know what to make of that.

  • @noneofyourbusinessnosy2903
    @noneofyourbusinessnosy29039 ай бұрын

    I am super fascinated with these stories because i just can't wrap my mind around the fact that people are sending hundreds of thousands of dollars to absolute strangers. I don't even have $20 to spare for someone i have never met. 😭

  • @toniwilliams9817

    @toniwilliams9817

    8 ай бұрын

    Exactly 😂

  • @angelkotilainen

    @angelkotilainen

    7 ай бұрын

    Right! A true friend will never ask for money. Never mind a relationship. I don't understand how these people get to that age and not know every trick in the book. Obviously the internet is a new space for some, but the tactics are identical. Asking for money, everyone should say no. It's so simple. See if they stick around!

  • @StarOnTheWater

    @StarOnTheWater

    7 ай бұрын

    Oh, but it's just because they asked!

  • @SueRosalie

    @SueRosalie

    6 ай бұрын

    yep exactly

  • @davidfrench5407
    @davidfrench5407 Жыл бұрын

    This woman needs to be determined to be incompetent, and her son needs to be placed in control of everything. She's dangerously clueless.

  • @amir4r803

    @amir4r803

    Жыл бұрын

    Conservatorshp

  • @Itsgonnabemay77

    @Itsgonnabemay77

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JaimeMesChienswe’re all aware she has the right. He’s saying she shouldn’t have the right and he’s correct. Yes it’s legal to make stupid decisions but it’s so sad for her family. They need to make it easier in cases like this where it’s obvious she’s going to keep doing it

  • @Itsgonnabemay77

    @Itsgonnabemay77

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JaimeMesChiens Re-read my message and work on your reading comprehension. As I said we are all well aware that it’s within her legal right. What we’re saying is it SHOULD NOT BE. There should be better laws to protect people like this. I get the process, I get she has the right, the point we’re making is that she SHOULD NOT have the right 🙄

  • @tressaeleby

    @tressaeleby

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JaimeMesChiens She is clearly incompetent to everyone here. Whatever it takes , whatever doctors need to prove it, so be it. She needs assistance, and most likely not to live alone. She lacks common sense, and that could very well be deterioration. To think Elon Musk is contacting her or needs money is a wildly egregious notion.

  • @luvcakes2069

    @luvcakes2069

    Жыл бұрын

    She's also too stubborn to acknowledge and accept it.

  • @joyoust8003
    @joyoust8003 Жыл бұрын

    If she believed Elon musk ( the richest person in the world) needed gift cards that lady would believe anything

  • @kikiTHEalien

    @kikiTHEalien

    Жыл бұрын

    She doesn't believe Elon Musk needs a gift card. She is buying romance without the need to work for it. It is entirely up to her to decide if it is worth it.

  • @emmalinabradbury8724

    @emmalinabradbury8724

    Жыл бұрын

    She can do what she wants with her money at end of day, but sending it to richest man or a famous General [ I am ex military] is another league about being duped!

  • @kevinmalone3210

    @kevinmalone3210

    Жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily, it looks as if she wasn't aware of who Elon Musk is.

  • @jadeh2699

    @jadeh2699

    11 ай бұрын

    @@kevinmalone3210 That's even worse. She's on the internet without knowing who Elon Musk is? That is a recipe for disaster right there. She needs to be monitored. She is a danger to herself.

  • @Davidpostingshid

    @Davidpostingshid

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jjoohhnnxshe’s 73 years old, it would make sense that she doesn’t know who he is

  • @jessicagutierrez3001
    @jessicagutierrez3001 Жыл бұрын

    Cathy is not trying to hear any of this. She is going to continue this love scam. The kids need to take her devices again!

  • @oldschoolcollodion

    @oldschoolcollodion

    11 ай бұрын

    I think she’s enjoying the attention of being a worry to her family. It confirms they care for her. She probably hopes they ask her to live with them to keep a better eye on her. There is no way she isn’t aware these are scams.

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    Again and again. She is delusive 😢

  • @lynnehuff7059

    @lynnehuff7059

    3 ай бұрын

    Can't she just get other devices?

  • @Jake-y4s
    @Jake-y4s2 ай бұрын

    Her poor son always looks on the verge of tears.. he's so desperate to help her and she's fighting it.

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 Жыл бұрын

    When she said this man was a military general, and they left him stranded. I died💀 She definitely didn't use any of her common sense. Thank God for her son.

  • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv

    @DebbiePotter-xh7kv

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol right! My son was in Iraq and never asked for help to get home!

  • @VanillaKind

    @VanillaKind

    Жыл бұрын

    But didn't you hear her? She's very intelligent!😄

  • @XenaXOE

    @XenaXOE

    Жыл бұрын

    And then to go on and on about how intelligent she is 😂😂

  • @kdeloris2225

    @kdeloris2225

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@VanillaKind🤣🤣🤣 They always say that don't they😂

  • @shethingsd

    @shethingsd

    Жыл бұрын

    This is beyond the pale. Any regular soldier is taken care of to get home, let alone a general.

  • @nickfoottv
    @nickfoottv Жыл бұрын

    I'm 45 years old, I never thought I would live to see the day where you have to prove to grown adults that their friends are imaginary

  • @angelfriend5211

    @angelfriend5211

    9 ай бұрын

    Best comment of the day😂

  • @scampersmom5903

    @scampersmom5903

    8 ай бұрын

    I’m 44, old enough to have had an analog childhood and young enough to be a digital native. I remember watching the original Catfish documentary on Netflix DVD. I try not to be ageist, but some of these ladies… how can you be so naive?

  • @jairogers5876

    @jairogers5876

    7 ай бұрын

    Never heard of Jesus? Lmaoooo

  • @RaptorJesussss

    @RaptorJesussss

    5 ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @Jake38nine

    @Jake38nine

    5 ай бұрын

    Adults are and can be just as stupid as children. I don't treat anyone differently because of age. I learned that early on in life when I recognized that hitting children is WRONG. The fact that adults think it's okay to hit a DEFENSELESS CHILD, but will throw a fit and cry "assault" when you hit them, I knew adults can be and are just bigger children. Why is it okay to hit children, but not adults who are supposed to know better 100x over and more than a child? I'll never know, but that FACT pisses me off and is the soul reason why I hate adults and treat them all equally because your age means nothing to me.

  • @thomasjones3508
    @thomasjones350810 ай бұрын

    "I don't look 73". i have seen multiple women on here say the exact same thing. "I look young for my age" No you don't. Its all ego.

  • @nseriously2704

    @nseriously2704

    4 ай бұрын

    But she really looks younger like 65 mb

  • @apricotcookie4850
    @apricotcookie485010 ай бұрын

    You know how we always look for the cameo appearance of Alfred Hitchcock in his films? Well, in these videos I look for the part where the 'victim' says she's intelligent, and doesn't look her age. Never fails.

  • @miltoncat
    @miltoncat Жыл бұрын

    So aggravating when the researchers explain the real person in the photo vs. the scammer. CF: “The man in the photo has been happily married over 30 years.” Kathy: “He told me he was divorced!” 😑

  • @peekaboots01

    @peekaboots01

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @catherinegriessel56

    @catherinegriessel56

    Жыл бұрын

    She's deluded and no talking to her

  • @Sashazur

    @Sashazur

    Жыл бұрын

    It bugs me the way this channel puts so much emphasis on the person who’s photos were stolen. Nothing good can come of it. If it was my photos and they wanted me on the show I would refuse - I wouldn’t want any contact with someone fooled by my photos, I wouldn’t want them to know who I am. They should just say “those photos were stolen, they are actually of someone else who has nothing to do with this” and leave it at that.

  • @azazello1784

    @azazello1784

    Жыл бұрын

    How would they know whether his marriage is happy or not?

  • @shaunbauer78

    @shaunbauer78

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Sashazurthey're just making them aware that scammers are using their pictures, I don't see what the problem is

  • @jenfnp
    @jenfnp Жыл бұрын

    She may block this one, but she remains highly vulnerable for the next rendition of a romance scam.

  • @cUser691

    @cUser691

    Жыл бұрын

    Her name & info is in Lagos, Nigerian [prob] scammers’ database since this is her 3rd time being foolish and gullible. Flagged as having sent $$

  • @MrTangolizard

    @MrTangolizard

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m sure there might be famous film star like Jonny depp who might be stranded somewhere and needs a lift home

  • @johnwilliamscoffin
    @johnwilliamscoffin8 ай бұрын

    You’re blessed to have a son like Nate, that’s for sure

  • @Unknown_Ooh
    @Unknown_Ooh11 ай бұрын

    I don't think I've seen one episode where the "victim" doesn't mention that they're smart

  • @topgatta

    @topgatta

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes, I noticed that as well. I am surprised to hear them say: "I know I am very intelligent; I am well educated; I know I am a smart person.....". A smarter person would have said: " I didn't realize I was so dumb..".

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 Жыл бұрын

    I was married for almost 31 years to a man who was retired Navy. BELIEVE ME, the military does not leave their guys stranded in some foreign country with no way to get home! It's too bad that so many women believe that men in the military are not receiving necessary medical treatment or even food because Uncle Sam just leaves them in some other land to rot. THAT IS NOT TRUE. As just the widow of a man who retired about 50 years ago and who has been deceased for over 15 years, EVEN I am VERY well taken care of. Romance scammers are the lowest of the low because they know that a kindhearted but naive woman cannot stand the thought of some poor guy "stuck" in some far-off land with no way to get home and without even having enough food to eat. THEY ARE LIARS!!!! They are looking for a way to separate you from your money! Refuse to send them money and see how long they remain your "soulmate". These scammers totally disgust me!

  • @amberweidenhamer5056

    @amberweidenhamer5056

    Жыл бұрын

    As the mom of an active duty Marine, the level of dumb in these stories absolutely shocks me.

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    She didn't say this one was stranded, she said he "chose" to come on a private plane and she could pay....it's so far removed from reality, what goes on in real military doesn't come anywhere near it.

  • @susanlett9632

    @susanlett9632

    Жыл бұрын

    I was a military wife for 25 years. I'm shocked by how little most Americans know about how their own military works!

  • @bigd9526

    @bigd9526

    Жыл бұрын

    Hell I wasn't in the military but some friends was that's one of the benefits Free travel some of my friends than got free tickets because they military on commercial airline flights so I 💯 percent agree with you

  • @StrawberryAppleCream

    @StrawberryAppleCream

    Жыл бұрын

    @@susanlett9632 This has nothing to do with knowing about the military, its about using common sense :(. I am not an American and and do not have any ties with the military but I do know that they get fed and are not left stranded at a location.

  • @Anna.T.
    @Anna.T. Жыл бұрын

    I like the son’s reaction at the start. “Oh no”, “Oh God”.- That’s me in every video when the story unfolds.

  • @natecram6230

    @natecram6230

    Жыл бұрын

    We used to get these calls when I worked for the Sheriff's Department. It still didn't sink in. The moral of the story is that they know which demographic to go after (typically women over 50) and how to get their hooks in really deep early in the grooming process.

  • @anandadaquino3604

    @anandadaquino3604

    Жыл бұрын

    hahahahahhahaha he knew from the beggining

  • @lumkamatsafa1327

    @lumkamatsafa1327

    9 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂me too,

  • @octobermoon3959

    @octobermoon3959

    5 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @tvw4951
    @tvw495111 ай бұрын

    "i'm a pretty intelligent person" WHOA now slow your roll, thats another lie you believe!

  • @Victoriaistalented
    @Victoriaistalented10 ай бұрын

    I was laughing so hard not at her but her son! “ I’m talking to this guy!” Son- oh no! “ no he is a general!” Son- oh god!!!! Lol lol

  • @JessaLynn8
    @JessaLynn8 Жыл бұрын

    She just keeps saying what she knows people want to hear. I HIGHLY doubt she's going to stop.

  • @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I definitely get the vibe this was in one ear and out the other.

  • @LauraJdogmom

    @LauraJdogmom

    Жыл бұрын

    I think she will stop messaging "General Milley," but she is likely to fall for the next one (probably with the exact same scammer behind it).This scammer knows that he can bait his hook with anyone, public figure or not. I am sure there is another lovelorn billionaire or general officer out there. Maybe Jeff Bezos will message her next, or Bill Gates.

  • @natecram6230

    @natecram6230

    Жыл бұрын

    I ran into this a lot when talking to her and it didn't make helping her any easier. I will continue to stay on top of her online activities the best I can and Social Catfish has pledged to be there to help if I need it in the future. Great people!

  • @JessaLynn8

    @JessaLynn8

    Жыл бұрын

    @@natecram6230 you're a great son, I admire your dedication and persistence! I really wish you both the best 😊

  • @junemarshall-kingsley566

    @junemarshall-kingsley566

    Жыл бұрын

    @@natecram6230 I understand your situation and went through something similar with my mother. I was grateful it was before computers and she never went online. But there were enough scammers just walking around to keep me on guard and to need to "clear the decks" on a regular basis. She believed they were all children of God with the best intentions and loved all the hearts, flowers, and compliments. Nothing changed so I had to just keep it in check.

  • @LaRossaSelvaggia
    @LaRossaSelvaggia Жыл бұрын

    She doesn’t strike me as someone who is gonna give it up. She’s still holding a tiny grain of hope. Nate needs to keep a sharp eye on her.

  • @tonyscott1066

    @tonyscott1066

    Жыл бұрын

    Power of attorney

  • @claracerqueira5

    @claracerqueira5

    Жыл бұрын

    I think so too Either that or fall for another scammer in a few weeks

  • @kolohe2790

    @kolohe2790

    9 ай бұрын

    @@claracerqueira5 100% she is still sending money to scammers!

  • @ferociousgumby

    @ferociousgumby

    9 ай бұрын

    I often think that at the end of all this, these people just go on to someone else, because they are addicted to the thrill, the false intimacy and even the sense of forbidden fruit, having a secret life. It gets me how these women think military men need money to "get out of" a country. The military takes care of that, my dear! And she was a model? She looks to be barely 5 feet tall. She also seems to be quite vain.

  • @WindTurbineSyndrome

    @WindTurbineSyndrome

    7 ай бұрын

    Nate has replied in above thread. He is taking steps with his mother to end this scamming. He said there is more to story than what is in this video. His mother and is now on a list for other scammers to contact her. So Nate seems to indicate he is working with her to prevent the next one getting hooks in.

  • @Talesfromtheshelf
    @Talesfromtheshelf10 ай бұрын

    The irony of the scammer telling her not to believe everything she sees on the internet

  • @rschaen
    @rschaen8 ай бұрын

    They say they’re ready for the truth, but they’re never ready

  • @RACH-Hart
    @RACH-Hart Жыл бұрын

    I’m seeing a pattern for people that were romance scammed. 1. They have a false view of themselves and their physical attractiveness. 2. They actually think that a general/ rock Star/actor or model that has their pick of young people would choose them. 3. They think that a celebrity or general would just randomly contact them on the internet. 4. They think they are highly Intelligent and would not be foolish enough to be a victim of a scam. 5. They don’t actually want to know the truth and are willing to pay scammers money to keep the fantasy alive. It seems like an epidemic of lonely people willing to pay someone for a false sense of belonging in a relationship. It’s a sad testament to the state of mental health in this country.

  • @perit7140

    @perit7140

    7 ай бұрын

    They think they’re the main character, movies really convince people that a rich, beautiful prince picks a nobody.

  • @angelkotilainen

    @angelkotilainen

    7 ай бұрын

    Agree. One thing I noticed is many of these victims have been through trauma in relationships, and they really think their life is over. They seem to be older and have the belief they are on the scrap heap. So when someone fun & good looking comes calling, they have feelings they thought they'd never feel again and that's intoxicating. Another bite of the cherry. I think deep down they all know it's not real, but as long as they can lie to themselves they don't care. They might even enjoy feeling like a sugar mommy or daddy, again lying to themselves but suddenly they feel powerful whereas before they were not. One elderly lady said she was addicted to the (simple, "caring") messages, she knew. She just loved the attention. I feel sad so many elderly people aren't enjoying their lives and are suffering with extreme loneliness.

  • @judithshalders6560

    @judithshalders6560

    5 ай бұрын

    Don’t forget they are nearly all very religious

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    4 ай бұрын

    LaLa Land 😮

  • @ellalalala4538
    @ellalalala4538 Жыл бұрын

    73 years old... using a photo from her 40s 😂 Catfishing the Catfish - go grandma!

  • @kassalablueberry9035

    @kassalablueberry9035

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @Nickelodeon81

    @Nickelodeon81

    6 ай бұрын

    😮

  • @bonnieragain2708
    @bonnieragain27089 ай бұрын

    This nice woman needs a mental evaluation right away. She should not be left alone till she gets a diagnosis. Many of my older relative’s have dementia & this is how they sound.Please take her to a dr. God Bless

  • @kathybrem880
    @kathybrem88011 ай бұрын

    What’s wrong with these old ladies??!! The son should take control of her finances for her protection

  • @frofrofrofro900

    @frofrofrofro900

    4 ай бұрын

    Age age age. Ypu dont understand simple things? Biology?

  • @xbeautyxxkillzx
    @xbeautyxxkillzx Жыл бұрын

    I see one very strong commonality among all of these victims, they are all so vain it blinds them.

  • @maryannanderson2213

    @maryannanderson2213

    Жыл бұрын

    I made a comment on one of these catfish videos saying that if someone told me how beautiful I was that would be a sure sign that I was being scammed because in my house I have several mirrors and they are all in good working order so I know I'm not beautiful. I think I said, "I'm not so ugly that I scare little kids and puppies, but I'm NOT beautiful." A woman sent me a message telling me that it was terrible that I had such a low opinion of myself and thought I was ugly and I should at least THINK I was beautiful and on and on and on. I didn't say I was ugly. In fact, I said, "I'm not so ugly that I scare little kids and puppies" but I merely acknowledged that I am not beautiful! I was rather amazed that to her mind I was wrong because I could clearly see what my very own mirror told me! Oh well. I guess you can't please everyone!

  • @CoffeeBeanWitch

    @CoffeeBeanWitch

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@maryannanderson2213I actually remember your comment it wasn't long ago and I really liked it because I got exactly what you meant and I'm the same. I have a couple of mirrors (one full length) and both in good working order too😂. If people were more honest in what stares back at them in a mirror, then surely the ego wouldn't blind them so much? Right, I can hear school has finished time to pop to the shops and scare the kids on my way🤡👹😂

  • @AFAskygoddess

    @AFAskygoddess

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@maryannanderson2213, OMG! YOUR COMMENT. I'M DYING😅😅😅😅 🐶 😮 👶 Mind if I borrow it sometime? You sound like a really fun person to have as a friend.

  • @peekaboots01

    @peekaboots01

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@maryannanderson2213you are sensible and realistic. I hear many women tell other women not to put themselves down, etc. but I think it's better than being full of yourself. All young women think they are 10s on a scale from 1-10 no matter how average because they think it's confidence and to think otherwise is lack of confidence. I see them on podcasts run by guys who ask each one to rate themselves and they all say 10! Yes they are cute but a solid 10 every time? No.

  • @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    Жыл бұрын

    Right???? I’m only 43 and if a young man acts flirty towards me I assume he’s just trying to be nice 😂😂😂 Like his mother taught him to make an old lady’s day.

  • @heathernks8
    @heathernks8 Жыл бұрын

    So, she didn't trust her own SON who has a degree in Criminal Justice, but trusted a scammer bc he reinforced her warped perception of her image? My, my, my, what a world we live in when the grown kids have to take away the devices now!😕 There but for the Grace of God go I.

  • @frofrofrofro900

    @frofrofrofro900

    4 ай бұрын

    Why families dont take morhers fathers to the police? They could explain them everything and giving money to strangers can be sponsorship terrorism. This all money cpuld go to help terrorists or murderers killing people

  • @brianamlitt
    @brianamlitt10 ай бұрын

    I really can't fathom the stupidity of people who fall for romance scammers pretending to be celebrities. No matter what celebrity they think it is, the fact they believe that the celebrity needs their money is bizarre.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson462510 ай бұрын

    This situation is frustrating for everyone, except the scammer and his willing participant. She isn't going to stop. She needs to hear the pretty words. She's happy. Too bad for her son. My heart goes out to him.

  • @elenaaquitaine999
    @elenaaquitaine999 Жыл бұрын

    She's not convinced. Older woman, still wants to think she's a "hot ticket." Too easy for scammers to prey on vanity. All her long-ago advantages turned into liabilities. I wonder what it would take to shock her into reality.

  • @kfitz192

    @kfitz192

    Жыл бұрын

    Not sure. But now that they've got her number they might find some other high-profile person to scam her with.

  • @lotstodo

    @lotstodo

    Жыл бұрын

    She is living in the delusion that she looks like a model.

  • @stephendacey8761

    @stephendacey8761

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lotstodo I'm sure she got all dolled up to be on camera, and still looks like somebody's grandma. No makeup is going to hide that grandmotherly figure.

  • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

    @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lotstodo She's 73 and claims guys still "hit on her..." Then why doesn't she take up with one of them instead of going online? LOLOL. Yes she is delusional, sadly. I'm 76 myself and, believe me, at her age men do NOT hit on you, unless they want $$$. I was very pretty when I was young, but the mirror says otherwise now. You have to face reality. I feel sorry for her.

  • @kimdean1079

    @kimdean1079

    Жыл бұрын

    Darn good point that these scammers prey on vanity. They also prey on lonliness and the lonliness leads to stupidity.

  • @miltoncat
    @miltoncat Жыл бұрын

    “I asked him and he said he’s real!”. Cool. Problem solved!

  • @maryanderson2759
    @maryanderson27598 ай бұрын

    I’d like to thank her son for being such a great guy. This has got to be really hard

  • @waynebeasleymastermind
    @waynebeasleymastermind5 ай бұрын

    These poor people all say the same thing. Their minds knew but their hearts were holding on to a sliver of hope.

  • @lubabe9969
    @lubabe9969 Жыл бұрын

    What a son! He's such a good guy wanting to badly to help his mother and snap her out of this delusion. Well done Nate.

  • @recuerdos2457

    @recuerdos2457

    Жыл бұрын

    Otherwise, mother will keep borrowing money from him too🤔

  • @aliceguinty8129

    @aliceguinty8129

    9 ай бұрын

    Had to crack up laughing when her son used his mom voice. lol She is blessed to have a son who looks out for her.

  • @MarciaHooley-fr7qj

    @MarciaHooley-fr7qj

    8 ай бұрын

    And if she snaps out of it, Nate gets all her money, not a stranger!

  • @carmencsorba8153
    @carmencsorba8153 Жыл бұрын

    Poor son ! He is really a wonderful person, trying to do everything to distract his delusional Mother from this obvious romance scammer.

  • @Anna.T.

    @Anna.T.

    Жыл бұрын

    I can’t even imagine how frustrating it must be to have your parent/another loved one in this situation!

  • @natecram6230

    @natecram6230

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Anna.T. There was some frustration. I just had to keep it cool to meet my mom where she was at.

  • @paulaslater7448

    @paulaslater7448

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful don? Maybe he should spend more time with his own mother so she won’t be don lonely! 🙄

  • @Nani_C1

    @Nani_C1

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@paulaslater7448You can't be with someone 24/7 ! As a mother and grandmother myself I would not appreciate my family 'babysitting' me ! She probably thinks she is competent and not gullible so would be embarrassed or frustrated by being monitored 🤷‍♀️ She was educated , independent and raised a family and as you get older you dont realise you are getting old . That's my opinion anyway ❤

  • @Nonya943

    @Nonya943

    11 ай бұрын

    @@natecram6230hey it’s the guy

  • @donnabeach1250
    @donnabeach125011 ай бұрын

    Definitely delusional! She gets hit on all the time? Really? Then why are you giving money to a stranger online? She certain is not "smart". And the picture she was using was like 30 years old!! What is wrong with these women?

  • @ToxicAli3n
    @ToxicAli3n3 ай бұрын

    The son doing his mom impression 'I asked him and he said he's real' is gold. Lol.

  • @Redspeciality
    @Redspeciality Жыл бұрын

    “I’m a pretty intelligent person” she says, twice. yeah, right, that’s why she thought Elon Musk, the richest man on the planet, needed her $150 for a gift card for his kid. With that kind of intelligence, How on earth is she able to dress herself?

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    It kind of got under my skin when she laughed after saying: "I got duped". No dignity, no facing reality.

  • @annalawrence824

    @annalawrence824

    Жыл бұрын

    If you have to self promote or put out there that "you're intelligent", you're probably not. You're probably average, at best, like most of us. Same with saying "I'm a really nice person"....you're probably not. You don't need to tell people these things, your actions SHOW them.

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    @@annalawrence824 completely true. However her son has been on here quoting her test results, so she WAS intelligent at an earlier stage of life, unlike most scammees on here. He's probably not been watching every episode like us followers, so he doesn't know how jaded we are from hearing this EVERY time! If she has frontal lobe dementia, she will have very little insight into her loss of function. I've also come across people with dementia where the family aren't aware how broad it is - it can be a lot more wide than just not remembering things.

  • @jenx5870

    @jenx5870

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@elipotter369I am an RN who is a state certified dementia care specialist. If her dementia were advanced enough that she is incompetent with financial decisions, it would show up in other aspects of her life. She would be showing signs of self neglect in hygiene or bills, she would be forgetting appointments or other important things. Frontal lobe dementia will show signs of Parkinsonism, as well as inappropriate sexuality and aggression in mid to later stages. If the son has a degree in Criminal Justice, he would be aware of Elder Abuse, and he would know about financial exploitation and dementia. He would be getting her in for testing, and if she tested positive for dementia, he could have her declared incompetent by a judge, and take over as financial POA. It's expensive and time consuming, but if she truly has the onset of dementia, then that would be in her best interest. However, she seems to be of sound mind, but poor judgement. She doesn't have word finding difficulties or seem to struggle with memory or recall. She just makes poor financial decisions, and for some reason, doesn't mind giving money to obvious criminals. I wonder if it's passive aggression towards her son because she knows it bothers him so much?

  • @4WARNG_TRD

    @4WARNG_TRD

    Жыл бұрын

    I have a friend who was terrified that the FBI was going to show up on her doorstep and arrest her for a $100 PayPal debt unless she paid them $500. I even Googled the international phone code and proved it was from Algeria. Never mind that we are in Australia as well so no FBI here 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @versaceboi4762
    @versaceboi4762 Жыл бұрын

    "... this later to my love Kathy" that's all I needed to know about what to expect in this episode. - older lady ignoring every single red flag - sent money with little to no hesitation - probably thinks she's a catch and younger than she looks - profile Pic is a pic of her from decades ago - claims she's intelligent

  • @Haz2288

    @Haz2288

    Жыл бұрын

    Was the picture of Elon musk 😂

  • @lousinetatarian6371

    @lousinetatarian6371

    Жыл бұрын

    That's the first thing I noticed😂😂

  • @fugginrambo

    @fugginrambo

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Haz2288yes it was, She went from dating Elon to Milly. Hahaha these people need Lonely-Fans

  • @maryannanderson2213

    @maryannanderson2213

    Жыл бұрын

    Sadly, I don't think there's much hope for someone who can be persuaded that Elon Musk needs them to send him money.

  • @JFH-te4lu

    @JFH-te4lu

    Жыл бұрын

    Good list! One small correction: women AND men can fall.

  • @tanya4534
    @tanya45348 ай бұрын

    Shady Pines, Ma! @2:30. Elon holding that obviously altered letter and needing money has me about to wet my pants.😂😅😅

  • @lizzfrmhon
    @lizzfrmhon11 ай бұрын

    Has anyone noticed how the vast majority of these people who get scammed are oddly very childish and seem simpleminded.

  • @womandesignsbetter
    @womandesignsbetter Жыл бұрын

    The fact she fell for a fake Elon musk & doesn't believe her son .. speaks volumes 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀 bruh!!!

  • @islandgal500
    @islandgal500 Жыл бұрын

    Elon Musk's picture with the worst English on a sign! That spelling alone would make me run!

  • @madmaxine7555

    @madmaxine7555

    Жыл бұрын

    I laughed for like five minutes straight as soon as I saw that lol.

  • @islandgal500

    @islandgal500

    Жыл бұрын

    @@madmaxine7555 You're ahead of me in laughing because I was still gawking at the screen with my jaw hanging down in astonishment at that nonsense. The next thing this lady has to accept after she realizes she does not look as good as she thinks is that she is also not as intelligent as she thinks! Time for her to use the internet to learn new things, keep up with events around the world, and get off dating sites.

  • @Annieetsabibli
    @Annieetsabibli Жыл бұрын

    Nate’s impression of his mother is so on point!!! 😂 Looks like a great guy, not judgmental at all, very caring.

  • @kurtcsk
    @kurtcsk5 ай бұрын

    "I'm a pretty intelligent person." :D This lady should not manage her own finances and she should not be on the internet...

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 Жыл бұрын

    One quick message to Kathy... Don't ever send money to ANYONE online and then you won't have to worry about whether he's "real" or not!

  • @shelleyryan9183

    @shelleyryan9183

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't ever accept money either!

  • @hookasmokincaterpiller

    @hookasmokincaterpiller

    Жыл бұрын

    maryann.. What a brilliant idea! I'm sure her son, the rest of her family or anyone else trying to convince her that all this is bs, didn't think about telling her that. 🤦

  • @lisaperry5999

    @lisaperry5999

    Жыл бұрын

    They don't care. They pay for a few queens and babies. So easy

  • @Kiwitekediver

    @Kiwitekediver

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@user-lx7fp9dl9m I know right...She just cured getting scammed with this simple comment 😂

  • @skd.officiall
    @skd.officiall Жыл бұрын

    She does look 73, as she’s supposed to. There’s nothing wrong with looking your age. She’s definitely not acting 73 though but I also think she might be dealing with some other form of mental issues, like maybe early onset dementia or something like that. I hope not but either way she does need help I don’t think she’ll stop.

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    That's what i think. I have an aunt who has some similar behaviours- early stages of frontal lobe dementia, affecting executive function. Sometimes families just don't seem to notice there's a problem and it's picked up by hospital staff (i was in a hospital room with someone like that too).

  • @cbgbstew4072

    @cbgbstew4072

    Жыл бұрын

    No no, don’t start with the internet diagnosing nonsense.

  • @hannakinn

    @hannakinn

    Жыл бұрын

    Her son should remove any analog clocks or watches from her viewing area and give her paper and a pen, ask her to draw a clock face with the time one forty three on it. If she can't do that she probably does have dementia. That's an easy simple test to see how impared her mental abilities might be.

  • @skd.officiall

    @skd.officiall

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cbgbstew4072 and I will! Have an opinion just like 3500+ other ppl in the comments….but anyway have a great day!

  • @stephaniehawley9407

    @stephaniehawley9407

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly !!!

  • @just.R.A.
    @just.R.A.10 ай бұрын

    If my family member fell for this crap, I’d immediately file for a financial conservatorship. Falling for it once is bad enough

  • @lilymarie4030
    @lilymarie403011 ай бұрын

    They said that she had been scammed before. I think that she is addicted to these fantasy relationships. She is silly and vain and she will do it again.

  • @XPLOSIVization
    @XPLOSIVization Жыл бұрын

    I feel sorry for the son in all this, not only is his own mom addicted to the attention of these scammers, shes now using him to fund her habits, You can tell he loves her but you can see in his eyes the hurt and pure frustration of this situation, Lets hope she learns and stops

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    She won't. He's going to have to monitor her very closely. She's got the early stages of dementia IMO.

  • @mrs.h2725

    @mrs.h2725

    Жыл бұрын

    She very likely has some form of dementia type mental decline that’s kicked in. I hope her son realizes that even going through all this and showing his mom repeatedly that she’s being scammed, she is not capable of being allowed to have free access to money or make decisions for herself. He needs to use all this evidence he’s gathered and statements from the rest of his family to get a POA. Ppl like her are a prime example of those who really do need to be in a conservatorship for their own safety. She’s only going to continue her mental decline. Sadly a lot of ppl have the mindset that no matter what elderly ppl shouldn’t have their ‘independence’ taken away cuz it’s considered cruel. It really isn’t tho. It’s a kindness. Same for when elderly are too incapacitated to safely drive, but would rather put themselves and others at risk than admit their limitations.

  • @peekaboots01

    @peekaboots01

    Жыл бұрын

    He showed so much patience but I don't think she'll stay off the dating sites.

  • @shellybuttrum8869

    @shellybuttrum8869

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@peekaboots01I was thinking the same

  • @ElanaVital83

    @ElanaVital83

    Жыл бұрын

    Look up "Narcissistic parents who parentify their children " and you'll get a good idea of things here. She's a covert narcissist and she likes the attention be it from her imaginary boyfriends or her stressed out son "rescuing" her. She's a very selfish person

  • @kjprice1443
    @kjprice1443 Жыл бұрын

    The funniest part is her sending $150 in gift cards to Elon Musk for his kids! The saddest part is her believing that he is on a dating site, and loves her. She needs psychiatric help.

  • @GS-ww1ju

    @GS-ww1ju

    5 ай бұрын

    No one can tell me a truly intelligent person would fall for Elon Musk begging for money to feed his children. The victims love to parade their “intelligence” but honey, you aren’t smart if you seriously believe Elon needs money from you. You’re just not smart. And that’s okay! We all do stupid stuff. Most of us wouldn’t do THIS, though.

  • @miblitz
    @miblitzАй бұрын

    Best son/family member. He didn’t disown her or cut off contact got her help and stood by to its resolution. Thank you, Nate, for your example.

  • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965
    @dorisschneider-coutandin996511 ай бұрын

    How intelligent can someone be not even having the slightest idea that a flight from Syria to the U.S. is highly, highly unlikely to stop-over in Iraq. Wrong direction! Geography!

  • @susanlett9632
    @susanlett9632 Жыл бұрын

    Omg! I had a guy using this picture try to friend me on Facebook! laughed so hard. I thought to myself no one is naive enough to actually believe this. I stand corrected! He also claimed to be a general.

  • @mandamorris7934

    @mandamorris7934

    Жыл бұрын

    I did too!! I can't believe she fell for this.... Such a shame

  • @SketchySandy34

    @SketchySandy34

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve seen so many popping up on FB. They comment on older ladies’ posts constantly

  • @susanlett9632

    @susanlett9632

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@SketchySandy34I was a military wife for 25 years and sometimes play with them by using military terminology. They block me or say "their outfit is different"🙄 ridiculous! I e never had one bold enough to claim to be a general until that guy!

  • @cl5470

    @cl5470

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @cl5470

    @cl5470

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@SketchySandy34I'm not even old. I had just made a post public (I almost never have posts set to public, but this was to announce the birth of my child, who was in the NICU at the time). I'm also very obviously married. They tried to scam a young woman with a sick newborn. They have no souls.

  • @kevingreen5106
    @kevingreen5106 Жыл бұрын

    My mother sent money to televangelist for decades. I don't think that this is any worse.

  • @sandriagutierrez2605

    @sandriagutierrez2605

    Жыл бұрын

    Interesting point!

  • @TheFakeyCakeMaker

    @TheFakeyCakeMaker

    Жыл бұрын

    Not quite the same but not far off.

  • @fancyme.alter1311

    @fancyme.alter1311

    Жыл бұрын

    That is a good point. They are all just con artists as well.

  • @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    Жыл бұрын

    I think I’d rather send money to a guy in a 3rd world country than a televangelist any day of the week.

  • @LTCoasters

    @LTCoasters

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, they are some of the biggest scammers out there. They teach what they know will get them money. Often times behind the scenes they live lives of total sin and are nasty people. Oh, and the offering time is the biggest money pressure you will ever face.

  • @radiolondon1020
    @radiolondon10206 ай бұрын

    She needs to be committed. She need to have her family take over her finances. She's sick

  • @sandramelia3765
    @sandramelia37653 ай бұрын

    Not a “pretty intelligent person” to be duped by a real five star general scam.

  • @lkmorgan1959
    @lkmorgan1959 Жыл бұрын

    My 73 year old sister was scammed out of her savings, $ 30,000. I told her it was a scam, her accountant did as well. She was convinced she could trust her fb friend. Listen to the people that have your back!!

  • @rosemarywilliams9969

    @rosemarywilliams9969

    11 ай бұрын

    People need to get off online and just go back to meeting people in real life.

  • @donnar9864

    @donnar9864

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@rosemarywilliams9969Exactly... and also, even if it is an up and up online relationship, you don't get the same sense of them that you get in person.. their smell, their mannerisms, the way it feels to walk next to them, how they treat others out in public... So many things..

  • @shanadelahaye1213
    @shanadelahaye1213 Жыл бұрын

    The part that puzzles me the most is how they can believe someone with money can ask them for money! I don't get it. Do we get dumber as we age?! I guess I'll find out when I'm older too!

  • @africa_everyday

    @africa_everyday

    Жыл бұрын

    I'll never understand it

  • @serv-on

    @serv-on

    Жыл бұрын

    Any person that falls for an elon musk money scam needs to be put in a home

  • @HillaryUTubeAcc

    @HillaryUTubeAcc

    Жыл бұрын

    It is a fantasy they created in their head. So sad.

  • @robinette64

    @robinette64

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m older already. Age has nothing to do with it. Lol

  • @mrs.h2725

    @mrs.h2725

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally yes lol. Dementia and mental decline in general is very common past the age of 65/70. One way to combat that is to stay active both physically and mentally. Ppl who continue to work into their elderly years keep their neurons firing. Including if someone has Alzheimer’s or other serious mental decline, our brains if kept active and challenged will keep creating new neural pathways around the damaged areas. Caffeine has also been shown to help with that. This lady for sure has mental decline tho, and the best thing her son can do is get a POA to have full control over her finances. I’ve worked in the medical field for over a decade, including many geriatric patients. The memory care units are the saddest cuz they often aren’t capable of understanding why they can’t just do whatever they want.

  • @nancyschumacher8940
    @nancyschumacher894010 ай бұрын

    This lady has no idea what they are talking about. They can tell her "You have been scammed" and she still doesn't believe it. She will 100 percent do it again. Maybe it will be woth Johnny Depp.

  • @pennyking3823
    @pennyking38238 ай бұрын

    It's not rocket science. Here's how to tell if this imaginary person made up by a scammer is indeed a scammer. THEY ASK FOR MONEY

  • @atlasbonds6095
    @atlasbonds6095 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a little nervous about Kathy being in an episode. She's so gullible and i guarantee she'll be scammed again at some point. This video may make her more of a target.

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    She's already on the sucker's list, and she can't wait to get her next fix, sorry to say.

  • @heidiheaux7007

    @heidiheaux7007

    Жыл бұрын

    She sent money to "Elon Musk". She went straight to the top of the sucker's list at that point, and the General Milley nonsense made sure that she'll stay there.

  • @adamlambboy8332

    @adamlambboy8332

    9 ай бұрын

    I’m hoping her son will keep an eye on her social media to make sure she doesn’t get scammed again. He seems like a good guy.

  • @angelkotilainen

    @angelkotilainen

    7 ай бұрын

    You're right, that one lady had 10 scammers. No doubt they all know each other and she uses her real name on everything so they can find her easily. It's maddening.

  • @eduardogutierrez3753
    @eduardogutierrez3753 Жыл бұрын

    Our parents when we were growing up: "be careful who you talk to online. You don't know who's on the other side of the screen. Strangers online aren't your friends." Our parents now: "hold my beer"

  • @JayNAmyHiatt

    @JayNAmyHiatt

    Жыл бұрын

    Great comment!🤣

  • @cplmpcocptcl6306

    @cplmpcocptcl6306

    Жыл бұрын

    Best comment.🏅👍🏻

  • @natecram6230

    @natecram6230

    Жыл бұрын

    Funniest comment on the thread! 🤣

  • @briana14333

    @briana14333

    11 ай бұрын

    LMAOOOOOOOO 👌🏾

  • @denisdominguez7287
    @denisdominguez7287 Жыл бұрын

    That's the main reason why these people get scammed: "I'm a really smart person"... no, you are NOT 🤷🤦🏽‍♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Polyfusia
    @Polyfusia10 ай бұрын

    The son is funny. He should do stand-up. Go to an open mic and rattle off some jokes about his mom getting scammed.

  • @nickimillennium
    @nickimillennium Жыл бұрын

    Women have a hard time accepting their fading looks. Kathy was STUNNING as a young woman, like a movie star. She probably still sees some of that young woman in the mirror but no one else does. Scammers know these women have fragile egos and these women delude themselves into believing that strangers will fall hopelessly in love with them online.

  • @waitaminute2015

    @waitaminute2015

    Жыл бұрын

    Cosmetic surgeons are also raking in the money because of this. I live in Naples FL and I don't think I've met many women without at least Botox.

  • @kasarija

    @kasarija

    Жыл бұрын

    SOME women have a hard time…and embarrass themselves and everybody else in the process. Personally, I look forward to the day when I can go shopping in a 100% cotton nightgown and fuzzy pink slippers and nobody will notice. There is a special freedom that comes with age if people would only embrace it.

  • @waitaminute2015

    @waitaminute2015

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kasarija I'm 59, and even though I am clean and put together, I go unnoticed. From my youth when I had the attention, I never liked it much. It starts waning in your 40s , decreasing each year. You'd think by 70 people would have adjusted. I think more is going on.

  • @michellelively202

    @michellelively202

    Жыл бұрын

    1000% !

  • @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    @AllThingsUnderTheSun

    Жыл бұрын

    You really may be onto something here with the psychology behind this. Because some of them actually do seem pretty intelligent and you think HOW???? But maybe a huge ego can short circuit your logic.

  • @derekmahon1652
    @derekmahon1652 Жыл бұрын

    Nate was very diplomatic explaining his mother's beauty in the 80s and the way she is today.

  • @cynthiaholland13

    @cynthiaholland13

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes he was. He's a good communicator

  • @anandadaquino3604

    @anandadaquino3604

    Жыл бұрын

    Very polite and well educated man!

  • @romansutton6813
    @romansutton68139 ай бұрын

    A lot of these people who are getting scammed seem to think they’re very intelligent.