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@user-os1jz1tf8f

10 ай бұрын

​@@nymaksco1835😂❤

@mightymouse1005

8 ай бұрын

​@@nymaksco1835IDK why they need background music. I don't listen for music, I listen for the story

@jeanettejew5998

4 ай бұрын

00000000000

@christinecatt8039

20 күн бұрын

How does she function on a daily basis with those ridiculous false nails..😂

So he’s successful, has his own clothing line but can’t pay his phone bill …

@diamondsparkle9967

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@frostnova2144

Жыл бұрын

Civil engineer, has his own clothing line and has modeling tier photography all over his page This level of delusion needs to be checked institutionally especially as she has kids

@exploreeverything963

Жыл бұрын

He pays a media manager full time but can’t pay a $30 phone bill😂

@mildredchester

Жыл бұрын

Funny about that.

@GuessMyName234

Жыл бұрын

If something is too good to be true that means that usually is I learnt that a long time ago.

Her list of husbands sounds like the beginning of a joke. "A black construction worker, a Jewish financier, and a Greek carpenter walk into a bar..."

@randommusings4957

Жыл бұрын

😂😅

@glitzyglam7827

Жыл бұрын

Lmaoooo it DOES 😂😂😂😂😂

@lynnmarie3177

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@gingerleamcwow435

Жыл бұрын

Nailed it! 🎯

@rosi271

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

She's missing a marble...or three. Letting a man connect with your kids on social is mad problematic. 😒

@Paris-ei5yv

5 ай бұрын

She’s obviously disturbed and desperate .

@daniellereid7576

4 ай бұрын

A lot of marbles the big marble at that 😂

@sookie4195

4 ай бұрын

The cheese slid off her cracker.

@hoopslaa5235

4 ай бұрын

There’s not a western woman alive that hasn’t said that she’s a victim, all her past boyfriends are abusers, cheaters, narcissists. You ‘normal’ women sound the exact same delusional when you talk about your dating life.

@154346

9 күн бұрын

Or a woman you're just dating. But there are men who use their kids as an accessory.

3 marriages, a casual baby, a young dude, and a catfish. Excellent discernment

@SonjaElizabethTeal

4 ай бұрын

I wouldn't let her baby sit my puppy.... No discernment or focus whatsoever...

@janettemcgregor4100

4 ай бұрын

Gold seal of approval 👌

@user-gj1me4mf5c

4 ай бұрын

Plus 2 daughters, she mentioned!

@hoopslaa5235

4 ай бұрын

Us regular men in the real world can, do and say the same thing about you supposed ‘regular’ women in real life. You got claims of every past boyfriend being a cheater, abuser, narcissist. But it’s not your fault and you women are always and only just a complete victim too right? Haha, it’s hilarious how you think these other women are crazy and gullible but you say the exact same shit just with different descriptive words. Get real girls. Who ya think ya foolin?!? 😉🫣🤣🤣

@BlackGold_ZAR

2 ай бұрын

​@@SonjaElizabethTeal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Shes not impressed by his good looks but spends good 2 minutes describing it. Sure Jan!

@jakethedog4397

Жыл бұрын

Truth

@ferraroannie4058

Жыл бұрын

😆😆😆 Weirdly enough, I was thinking about the "Sure Jan" thing just yesterday! LMAO

@rrsaga

Жыл бұрын

She’s not into that cause she has a lot of attractive men😅

@nancymuro4694

Жыл бұрын

Right 🙄😂

@Amanda---

Жыл бұрын

She had to be impressed by the good looks because on that phone call he was so short with her and he barely talked to her. He acted like he didn't even like her at all. I wouldn't talk to someone better yet give money to a man who couldn't even support himself.

I loved how the scammer had absolutely ZERO effort in his phone call. He couldn't be bothered to even pretend to be interested or even like her.

@elipotter369

Жыл бұрын

Trying to hide his accent. But yeah, there are so many indicators he's a horrible boyfriend, she was just too caught up to stop and think.

@dukeagainsttheodds3170

Жыл бұрын

Ikr 😭😭😭 he knows it's very little chance of monies coming from her direction. ANYMORE

@peekaboots01

Жыл бұрын

Yeah they all seem good at online talk and manipulation but get them on the phone and it's something totally different.

@starling5188

Жыл бұрын

Yep, his tone of voice in that call was very blah and bored. If he really loved her, he would sound more enthusiastic.

@MimiB1974

Жыл бұрын

They always sound like that…. I never understand how these people fall in love with such bland people

She gave him access to her daughters. Wow. That's horrible. Forget that. She's a dangerous mom.

@ameldamacklein4188

3 ай бұрын

She is married 3 times and still looking 👀👀👀👀

@edytadworakowska6243

Ай бұрын

Exactly

@raphaellavictoria01

Ай бұрын

She is absolutely desperate for a relationship. It's scary that such people are out there. Their convo is as insipid and superficial as between total strangers.

Women who put a man over common sense and their children’s safety are weird to me. It’s scary and disgusting.

@planetsoverpeople

3 ай бұрын

I really pray for the children involved in these types of stories they don't deserve to be in situations that leave them vulnerable and unsafe.

@FireSign0731

3 ай бұрын

@@planetsoverpeople 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@Isthisjoebiden

2 ай бұрын

Fr

@FireSign0731

2 ай бұрын

@@Isthisjoebiden 🙏🏽🙏🏽

Letting a random man that you've known for 2 weeks co-parent your children on social media is deeply distrubing. Those children are not safe.

@Jay_490

9 ай бұрын

She’s not well

@peterbaruxis2511

9 ай бұрын

She's lucky- rather her daughters are lucky he's a scammer just out for her money. How f'ing stupid are some single mothers? She doesn't even know how to give a sh** about her kids. The dude says "leave me alone" and she apologizes to him- bless his God-fearing, civil engineer clothing designer's heart for forgiving her. This godess thought she was scamming him.

@SR71GIRL

8 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly! WTF??? My first thought would have been...STAY AWAY FROM MY DAUGHTERS/CHILDREN, PERIOD!

@massimiliano2017

8 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing

@jasmineedaw4027

8 ай бұрын

i came to the comments for this!!!!! she must be MAD! (an expression for crazy! ) there is no goddamn wayyyyyyyy!!!!! no way no way no FRIGGIN WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

Scammer or not, please don’t move mountains for a man who wouldn’t even kick a rock for you

@sgreen7881

Жыл бұрын

Yep

@ubiquitousdiabolus

Жыл бұрын

Who knows if it’s a man writing? A woman probably knows best about what a woman wants to hear.

@sherylmuffin

Жыл бұрын

Man that hit home for me today

@caroled3943

Жыл бұрын

❤😂

@aprilcena423

Жыл бұрын

Period!

This woman does NOT know what 6’4” OR 250lbs. looks like. This man is neither of those things. 😅

@fatimahrahman6158

4 ай бұрын

I had to put my glasses on to hear better! 🤣

@vitigaymer1053

3 ай бұрын

Many guys lie about their heights, so I feel like that has ruined many peoples perceptions of heights. I'm 6ft3. But I went through life thinking I was 6ft5 - before I Finally got measured. Because I had a good 2/3 inches over dudes who claimed 6ft2 or 6ft1.

@Cate6893

Ай бұрын

​@@fatimahrahman6158lol i do that😂😂😂

@kingofkings2934

Ай бұрын

6'2 190

@Isthisjoebiden

Ай бұрын

175 at best to me​@@kingofkings2934

3 divorces?? She needs therapy not a man

"He's so easy to talk to!" Proceeds to have the driest phone conversation ever.

@SakeenaWood

6 ай бұрын

😂😂real

@RYTG

6 ай бұрын

girl fell hard for that AI rizz :p i would like your post but it has 69 likes

@eialot

5 ай бұрын

Yeah all those victims say that they have the time of their lives talking to those scammers and then they show us the most basic boring convo in the world. Makes my social anxiety a bit less severe lol

@HAI.1

5 ай бұрын

😂

@kavi212

5 ай бұрын

As in he just tells me how great and beautiful I am 😂

She let her daughters talk to the guy personally after only two weeks of speaking?? Women should really consider there are predators in this world…

@diamondsparkle9967

Жыл бұрын

Yep...some mothers are a real danger to their children.

@yaya804

Жыл бұрын

They consider it but don't care, they put themselves and a man first. Those are the types that I consider "breeders" more than "mothers"

@kellykerr5225

Жыл бұрын

I had the impression that her daughter is an adult now. If she was under 18, that’s a major problem. Some women get addicted to their love bombing. Let’s try not to judge, they are the VICTIMS here. That’s a hard thing lesson they learned.

@wtichery

Жыл бұрын

She's had 3 husbands 🚩🚩🚩

@RustyShackleford051

Жыл бұрын

Wowww, are you trying to hold a black woman accountable for her actions? #selfreport

"Let me start by telling you about my three ex-husbands- and my baby's father."

@virginia3222

3 ай бұрын

Right, maybe she could take a break while her daughters grow up.

@naturalbeauty4734

2 ай бұрын

Seriously!! 🤦" take a break Lady!! 😔

The level of narcissism in this woman is staggering.

Messing up your own life is one thing, but allowing a strange man from the Internet to be contacting your child is extremely irresponsible. She needs help asap

@sherw7635

Жыл бұрын

In only 2 weeks. .

@auntiem0thman

Жыл бұрын

Yeah she's now going back on her story in the comments 🙄

@cryeah1800

Жыл бұрын

I’m not a parent but it should be common knowledge that you don’t allow a stranger to have access to your children.

@CharleneOrtizTraining

Жыл бұрын

That would infuriate me and she saw it as something positive. WTF!!!!

@T3-RIDER

Жыл бұрын

This woman had 3 husbands, ofc she needs help

A civil engineer who can't pay his phone bill? She's not the sharpest knife in the drawer, obviously.

@dukeagainsttheodds3170

Жыл бұрын

😩

@RacieRain

Жыл бұрын

None if these people are.

@1tarawho

Жыл бұрын

Or the brightest crayon in the box😂

@it-ke9od

Жыл бұрын

Brightest star in the night sky ✨️ 🌟

@rachelmora6227

Жыл бұрын

Civil engineer….😂😂😂😂

These “victims” always talking about “our conversations are so deep” and they show the message, scammer “hi beautiful”

@Zen-cx5tc

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@sunbeam9222

2 ай бұрын

Self generated hallucination. I think that is all it is really.

@teshuahyisreal158

Ай бұрын

😂😅

@SherryLoveNyc77

6 күн бұрын

Hi beautiful send me 50 grand 😅lol That is the basis of these so called conversations. 😏

She let this creep talk to her daughters???

This woman has impulse control issues: 3 ex-husbands, a child with a dude she wasn’t even into, now she’s sending money to a man she’s never met. You do not get to be this flighty when you have kids. She’s dragging them through all of her messy relationships.

@lindsaybc2192

Жыл бұрын

Clearly she's not all there mentally. I mean look at her.

@allwhatilove914

Жыл бұрын

One can only make a number of bad choices. She is breaking her time.

@NotLikeUs17

Жыл бұрын

No one’s perfect, but this lady seems to lack discernment in almost every aspect in her life.

@thegraceofalady3629

Жыл бұрын

Lol...she funny. She not grown. No adult mature women would even consider emotional investment without at least in person interaction. Nothing she says makes sense. I wonder if this man was unattractive would she be telling this story?

@GK222_

Жыл бұрын

I'm actually terrified of her; just based on how she looks on this interview and how put together she's trying to act

She totally lost me when she said she let a complete stranger who she never met and is a grown man to talk to her daughter 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@seraxx1973

11 ай бұрын

Really scary, especially when a lot of predators do exactly this through a single parent to get access to kids.

@BB10872

10 ай бұрын

Most of these Nigerian scammers are young guys. No wonder they’re more interested in talking to the daughters! They’re probably closer in age. Though it’s true, online predators come in all shapes and sizes. She didn’t mention her daughter’s ages, so they maybe over 18, but probably not yet 18. Why would you let a stranger talk to your daughters?!

@Anonymous38572

9 ай бұрын

She definitely doesn’t even monitor her daughters social media presence. She seems very irresponsible to me

@Winterz54321

9 ай бұрын

And he does it directly via Instagram to her! Wth is mom thinking? Hopefully she learned a valuable lesson here before anything bad happened. All it would take is “hey your mom wants you to meet us down the street in 5 minutes”. So scary

@dyvira7085

6 ай бұрын

She needs to be in jail

“Are you sure you’re not a scammer?” she’s asking a scammer, expecting what for an answer? A full confession and repentance? 🤦‍♀️

@tubelance

7 ай бұрын

Exactly. Like then saying “oh they are soooo nice and exactly what I want in a man “ YEAH , Scammers are gonna sweet talk their marks and tell them anything they wanna hear

@carolynfager5045

6 ай бұрын

I met a guy in a bar once, and he was trying to get me to leave with him... "But you could be an axe murderer ", I protested. "I am not an age murderer!" I replied "That's just what an axe murderer would say...."

@svetlanaisayeva2624

6 ай бұрын

@carolynfager5045 You could be right…. and you could be wrong, but hearing from left and right about how many of such encounters end up tragically, it’s always good to keep a safe distance and stay on the safe side. Can’t be wrong doing that.

@felis1224

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Jake-y4s

3 ай бұрын

It's like ppl who tell you if you think your spouse is cheating to just ask them lmao. Yeah, cause they're going to be honest if they are cheating, right?? 🤣🤣

That call was embarrassing.

I'm sorry, talking to her children is a HUGE RED FLAG!

@F69oud79triydutdou

Жыл бұрын

Very scary that she allow a stranger to interact privately with your children!!! Unbelievable as a parent I can not comprehend allowing this to happen.

@finni-h2x

Жыл бұрын

Are the kids under-age?

@ARose6915

Жыл бұрын

I hope she had her daughters blocked this scammer also.

@F69oud79triydutdou

Жыл бұрын

@finni6580 why would that matter? It's your job as a parent to protect them not to encourage a strange older man to speak with them in private

@tavonfenwick-yb5xv

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry, her being married 3X is a HUGE RED FLAG

The way victims describe the scammers always sound like a child telling you what they wanna be when they grow up, dude's an engineer, is in the military, has a clothing line, architect, musician, he also owns a company, but for some reason he's relying on your gift cards to survive.

@niag7273

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@Sashazur

Жыл бұрын

I could definitely imagine a fireman or ballerina scammer, but an astronaut scammer might be a bit of a stretch… “I’m stuck on Mars until you send me $20,000 for rocket fuel!” Hmm - on the other hand there are definitely people who I’ve seen on this channel who would fall for that.

@nineteenfortyeight6762

Жыл бұрын

@@Sashazur 😆

@justjonni9330

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!!!!!!! One lady believed a scammer saying he needed $20,000 to buy a plane engine, to fix the plane they were going on a vacation in!!!! Wtf😮

@gergcas

Жыл бұрын

Seriously what is wrong with these women.

She has the ego of a 20 year old, fit 10/10. To quote “Top Gun,” her ego is writing checks that her body can’t cash.

@thefashionally2285

Ай бұрын

exactly lol

That phone conversation was so sad, the scammer couldn't even pretend to be interested in her.

@ChristinaFromYoutube

Жыл бұрын

I physically cringed when she said "its ok ill just have to spank you." Ma'am you are the reason the German language has a word for "overwhelming shame and embarrassment you feel on behalf of other people that don't realize how embarrassing they're being." The word is Fremdschämen and she epitomizes it in the "ill spank you." moment 😬😬😬😬😬

@quiet2365

Жыл бұрын

​@@ChristinaFromKZreadthat and his silence afterwards almost killed me with cringe 😂

@elipotter369

Жыл бұрын

He was trying to hide his accent.

@martinrowland2593

Жыл бұрын

Maybe running lots of different scams all day and not getting the big pay outs his friends brag about, might be giving him job fatigue hopefully all the rich pickings have gone or he needs to go back to scammer school 🙂

@jarmakey1

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. He sounded like he was tired. Had no enthusiasm at all. Maybe he's juggling too many "clients" and he's not sure which one that was?

Please dont ever let your kids talk to strangers online! This isnt normal, its dangerous!

@AmbuBadger

Жыл бұрын

And kids, if you find your mom or dad in this kind of relationship, don't let them continue talking to these strangers online either!

@hejnejtack

Жыл бұрын

I believe that adults these days are more likely to do something like this 😅

@ma2i485

Жыл бұрын

Why are the kids even on Instagram?😒🤦🏽‍♂️

@swiftkarma4436

Жыл бұрын

​​@@AmbuBadger am 45 and my mom is 70 dealing with a scammer. There isn't anything I can do except tell her and not feed into her delusions. No one can make anyone stop their behavior.

@AmbuBadger

Жыл бұрын

@@swiftkarma4436 Man, that's rough. All you can do is pray, protect your assets, and keep showing her these videos!

I love when you include the conversations between the 'victim' and the scammer because they're usually the most soulless and nonengaging conversations where it's like how are you in love with this person when you ask them how they are and they reply "Normal" like who tf wants this?

@feelingoffbalance

6 ай бұрын

The victims are just as bland. In another video the vic guy said his hobby was Netflix and cats..

Another red flag is when the scammer asks "May I call you [insert let name here]❤? They have a long list of women on rotation, so they don't have the time or energy to remember names.

@susanlett9632

9 ай бұрын

I tell men im dating in real life not t use pet names.

I really dislike women who lead the revolving door of men in their children's lives. Disgusting.

@Baddscorpio

Жыл бұрын

“who lead the revolving door of men in their children's lives“ What?

@Anna.T.

Жыл бұрын

I agree. She sounds like someone who cannot be single.

@stargirl6992

Жыл бұрын

Yep it's gross

@Copeandseethe822

Жыл бұрын

​@@Baddscorpiowomen who consistently bring different men in and out of their children's lives.

@Paulaclint76

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!

She's got more red flags than the scammer

@unavailble2024

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@6:52 The long pauses during that painful conversation she has with the scammer was sooo awkward. He couldn't even expand on what type of chicken he had. 😢 I'd be so turned off if I had to pull teeth to have a conversation with a romantic interest because it's a dead giveaway he's not into me.

@boldlybenign

9 ай бұрын

This !!!

All of her Ex Husband's are watching this and shaking their heads. She thought she was leveling up but got scammed. She even put her daughters in danger. Smh... I wish her mental healing and peace.

Dude she barely knows reaches out to her daughter privately, without telling her first, and she continues a relationship with him? I feel scared for her kids. I truly do. She's willing to ignore red flags even in regards to protecting her kids, just for a "relationship" and a bad one at that.

@goldengoddess1723

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! She is one of those that let them touch their kids just to not lose them!

@mrs.h2725

Жыл бұрын

Less than 5 minutes in and I’m already very concerned that she’s the type of trash ‘mother’ that would allow her children to be abused if it meant she could keep a man around for more than a month. I sincerely hope she reads these comments and realizes how badly she needs intense ongoing therapy. She needs to learn to put her kids’ well being and safety first, and to be comfortable being alone with herself instead of constantly jumping into new marriages. She reminds me of that delusional gal who thought she was talking to the hottie from Stranger Things, and told the scammer she’d kicked out her husband so she and her kid were alone in their home. Ppl like this make me wish there was a required IQ and basic competency test required to be a parent.

@pussygalore731

Жыл бұрын

​@@mrs.h2725Yep, typical black mothering skills

@junebarber8459

Жыл бұрын

It’s child abuse allowing this unknown man speak to her daughters. She should be ashamed of her self - either that or she’s not playing with a full deck!!'!

@marciathehooligan9967

Жыл бұрын

If some guy I never met-- even if I HAD met him & been in a real relationship with him for a year-- reached out to my child BEHIND MY BACK, I'd be calling the Sheriff's Dept ASAP! That is creepy & pedo-like on EVERY level!

The victim almost always describes how cute, funny, charming, romantic, etc. their “partner” is, but the recorded conversation samples always show a totally bored guy sounding like he is barely paying attention to the victim and struggling to speak English.

@derekmarsden8934

9 ай бұрын

Very true. Just shows that these victims project what they want to see and believe on to the scammer.

@dharmallars

6 ай бұрын

“How are you?” “Good.” “How’s your energy?” “Normal.” But you’re so in love with his personality and you have such meaningful conversations. Lmao.

@keith-kb1zl

6 ай бұрын

yeh a lot of these scammers come across in these conversations sounding like they’re sitting on the toilet taking a dump😁😁especially this guy😂😂 they know the more they talk the bigger the risk that their accents will raise red flags 🚩.. the hesitation between dialogue ,low flat tone, no emotion, dude sounded like he was talking to an IRS agent 😂😂 mind boggling that she couldn’t put 2and 2 together 😮

@keith-kb1zl

6 ай бұрын

a lot of times they sound like they’re hung over sitting on a toilet taking a dump 🙄🙄🙄

@Prettygirlstunna

6 ай бұрын

😂💯😏🙃🤷🏽‍♀️

Why do y’all want a broke man who can’t pay his cell phone bill?

The scammer made it all too obvious that he had no interest in this woman based on thier dry conversation on the phone he didn’t even make it seem as he was into her. Just sad

If any guy started chatting to my daughters online when i didn't even know him I'd expect my parenting skills to be questioned

@aprilcena423

Жыл бұрын

My jaw dropped at that part of the video. Why would I let a complete stranger that I'm funding from the internet talk to my kid!?!

@sammieconsalvey4448

Жыл бұрын

@@aprilcena423 it's terrifying I swear I had a miniature panic attack at the thought of it

@Frugal637

Жыл бұрын

He istrying to manipulate her through her children which is sad.

@pimpozza

Жыл бұрын

​@@sammieconsalvey4448Totally agree with you, Sammie! That's a big red flag 🚩🤦🏻‍♀️

@nic.25

Жыл бұрын

It's bad enough sending money to someone you don't know but it's crazy to think of letting your kids make friends with him.

HOW YOU GONNA LET SOMEONE YOU NEVER MET TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN ONLINE!!!!?????

She didn't block him. She still thinks he may be real. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@lizzieh5284

4 ай бұрын

She needs a therapist.

@lynnehuff7059

3 ай бұрын

​@@lizzieh5284and they might not be able to help.

Gotta love how she puts down a hard working construction worker by calling him uneducated and a drop-out. I can just imagine the levels of condescension she pulled with him.

@pansy5921

Жыл бұрын

yeah, i hope she’s better than how she was portraying herself then. i dropped out and others i know have and we’re all relatively smart on paper. circumstances aren’t always the best and that’s okay!

@raamyasharahla535

Жыл бұрын

She got exactly what she deserved. This woman’s a damn problem!

@malcolmxbox

11 ай бұрын

And then got with a white man, you already know the disrespect for brothers is on another level

@jsmith5509

11 ай бұрын

@jklax, it's not a put down if it's an accurate description. There are many uneducated, high school drop outs in manual labor positions where they successfully thrive and support themselves and their families.

@jklax

11 ай бұрын

@@jsmith5509 That's not new information. You should be able to decipher her tone and condescension there easily though.

She is disgusting and pathetic for allowing a strange man to contact her daughter without even running it by her first. Then for her staying in contact with him... SICK

@33Tiffny

Жыл бұрын

Yesss wtfff

@TaelurAlexis

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. A terrible mother

@prinnywinny9013

Жыл бұрын

she’s desperate. doesn’t need to have children

@DaTruth683

Жыл бұрын

because she is desperate

@cyberspace7208

Жыл бұрын

Yes

I'm concerned that she thinks a Canadian can't be an African American!?! Last I checked Canadia is indeed part of North America. 🤨

She’s for the streets, and went online instead 😂

@Zen-cx5tc

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

It’s not her I am worried about. She paid for a delusion. It’s her children.

@whalewatchingwhaler

Жыл бұрын

@user-fl5uc8rx2vyou in the video said that he messaged your children on his own, or is the story changing now to fit your narrative?

@missym5196

Жыл бұрын

My first husband, 2nd husband, 3 husband imo something is wrong w her to go thru that many men!

@ARR1058

Жыл бұрын

@user-fl5uc8rx2v he followed them on their instagram account and that didn’t concern you?

@whalewatchingwhaler

Жыл бұрын

@@JaimeMesChiens love your long comment, but the simple answer is she has narcissistic tendencies. She wants to be put out there likes this, even if it’s embarrassing. It’s all about her and her personal experience, she thought she was going to prove Catfished wrong.

@Sashazur

Жыл бұрын

⁠As far as I can tell, the reverse image search for social media is not a service that is offered by any websites for free. But it’s also not really necessary for figuring out you’re talking to a scammer. I suppose if you’re good looking, it could be interesting to use it to see who’s stolen your photos, not that you could do much about it.

This lady has big problems.. and not just with a scammer! She needs to sort herself out! 🤦🏻‍♀️

@oo-jj9xv

Жыл бұрын

Of course she has problems , been divorced 3 times!!

@LosAngelesLaura

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@mediii8057

Жыл бұрын

Starting with those disgusting nails

@silentrunning9847

Жыл бұрын

Yep!

@alexander_no350

Жыл бұрын

@@oo-jj9xvShe has clearly not learned from it 😂

Not even all the way through this vid and the delusion was hardcore in this woman listening to that horrendous so called phone conversation. Man displayed less energy, excitement, etc than a person does ordering food in a drive thru. No way she thought that sounded like a phone call between lovers.

@SueRosalie

8 ай бұрын

He is so dull and emotionless, it's like listening to clinical recordings of people with schizoid personality disorder. The people who have no interest in other humans at all.

@lynnehuff7059

3 ай бұрын

The man in the photos probably has social or verbal skills. I don't know of course. The African fellow on the phone couldn't really express himself.

Me describing me partner: Caring, supportive, brave, etc etc. These ppl describing their "partners": Light skinned, an appropriate weight, physically attractive, well built, good looking.... These ppl aren't looking for love, they're projecting their narcissism believing someone impossibly good looking would be interested in them Ps; SHE CANT TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A JAMAICAN AND CANADIAN ACCENT GIRL MY LORD

She seems to be a colorist pick me. She keeps emphasizing “light skin” etc. She does not seem self aware at all.

@ellekane302

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I think she looks differently in her head than she looks in real life. Like girl please.

@KPbouj

Жыл бұрын

Yep. I picked up on it right away. Gross.

@elipotter369

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I noticed that too. :-( it was so not okay.

@lynnehuff7059

3 ай бұрын

Her fingernails are wicked looking.

@lenatimm518

2 ай бұрын

I noticed the “light-skinned guy comments too.

I'll happily tell people whatever they want to hear for $100 per hour. That's a lot cheaper than what many of these scammers charge.

@sunshineyoga1986

Жыл бұрын

right? I feel like I chose the wrong career 😂😂😂

@ash4160

Жыл бұрын

How i sign up?

@peekaboots01

Жыл бұрын

Seriously if I hadn't been brain washed with morals I'd be rich by now.

@skippersnacks

Жыл бұрын

I have often thought it would be easy money.

@MyNameIsUnavailable

Жыл бұрын

I'll do it for $90 😂 Sorry, I gotta get the dough

26:19 calling someone else a narcissist when you allowed a random stranger to talk to your child after two weeks 🙄

Without even viewing the video, I came here to ask "why would you think/believe he's interested?" I'm losing patience with these "victims".

“Im not impressed by his good looks” but 99% of the compliments and even her nickname for him is about his looks… delusional desperation got her here.

@Br33zeKooL

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, she thinks she's a 10. smh

@Rozegolden

11 ай бұрын

@@Br33zeKooL even if she does, that’s no problem to me. I can’t dictate how another person sees themselves lol. The delusion kicks in for me where she up here acting like she isn’t a thirsty loser when she clearly is lmaooo

@Br33zeKooL

11 ай бұрын

@@Rozegolden agree.

@shannon8315

11 ай бұрын

Well, hell, we know it's not his personality, judging by the enthusiastic phone call.

@Rozegolden

11 ай бұрын

@@shannon8315 right lmaooo

I know a couple of people named Lakeisha that have a bird brain. She made a point of telling us she’s basically an international pick me. “I’m not like the other girls, I’m being scammed by an African CANADIAN”.

@misslola007

Жыл бұрын

​@account-managerNo, that accent that sounds patois is only found in Toronto.

@oldbastard2149

Жыл бұрын

An African AMERICAN is almost the same as an African CANADIAN. 🤣🤣

@nineteenfortyeight6762

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mariahewitt9787

Жыл бұрын

​@@misslola007 He claims he was born in Canada, but grew up in Jamaica till the age of 15 years.

@LosAngelesLaura

Жыл бұрын

No wait!!!! African AMERICAN, Canadian nationality, raised in Jamaica …. With a thick West African accent…. Come on, girlies…. Let’s do better!!!

Look at him, look at her .... I rest my case.

What did the husbands/men see in her? What a horrible woman/mother! I hate when “victims” act like they knew it was a scam. “I wanted to find out who it was so they couldn’t scam anyone.” Gotta throw the BS flag on that!

@solounaopinion8755

8 ай бұрын

They are like "yup I knew it was a scam but let me give him another 500 bucks" like WTF?

@cynthiaholland13

7 ай бұрын

She was really pretty. Maybe they like how she talks or something

@war.neverchanges

5 ай бұрын

@@cynthiaholland13now she’s just rude, old and bitter💀

When she asked "how is your Energy" i found out everything i needed to know. 😂

Something about this woman tells me this will not be the last scammer in her life 🙄

@shaniziadacunhaofficial

9 ай бұрын

😂

@Takashii85

9 ай бұрын

Sad..she needs therapy

So she’s dated and married so many different types and now she’s “dated” a scammer. Mazel Tov

@CoffeeBeanWitch

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@tinaheil4186

Жыл бұрын

Love it 😂😂

@Jpcorza69

Жыл бұрын

She don’t discriminate like the joke of the preacher a pastor and a rabbi walk into a bar but it’s a greek a Jew a African American and a scammer Canadian African wit a Jamaica accent

@Rae_is_Bae

Жыл бұрын

​​@@txsmalltown5135on like how the diaspora has us over explaining foundational black Americans with both race and nationality. Not a personal dig just an observation. Do keep in mind tho Canada is in America 💫

@yolandecloete2186

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂Masel tov

She fell in love with his body and whatever she wanted to hear. No wonder Japan and some countries now sell adult dolls with pre-recorded words, as a perfect partner.

The money lost is embarrassing, but I would be most ashamed if I realized I let this creep talk to my daughters as a source of a father figure

A young man that looks the way he does IS NOT getting with a older woman who looks like her. The essence of delusion.

@Zoranasablu

Жыл бұрын

She let herself go...she was cute in the pics she showed with her ex's. I'm wondering why she came on looking like this....

@yurimorgan7460

Жыл бұрын

@@Zoranasablu age, she is getting old

@Alicia-Rene

Жыл бұрын

@@yurimorgan7460I’m about to be 37, so nearly her age, and I don’t go out looking anything like that! Age doesn’t have anything to do with letting yourself look a mess.

@germyw

Жыл бұрын

@@Alicia-ReneApparently it does for her.

@Alicia-Rene

Жыл бұрын

@@germyw maybe, but I suspect she’s always been sloppy.

He has access to your children?! That is so unacceptable and irresponsible.

@alexiapasco8163

Жыл бұрын

Right

God that phone call was boring. and annoying. What the hell does she see him?

Divorced 3 times. SHE is the common denominator in this equation.

She needs to think realistically. This man looks like a model/fitness influencer. She seems like an average middle aged woman, nothing wrong with that. I'm not trying to be mean but I really think if some of these people weren't so shallow they would be able to find someone they are compatible with and enjoy being around. Not chasing imaginary men on the internet. They know deep down it's not true but I think the truth hurts them too much to accept it.

@FlowerGirlMy

Жыл бұрын

bingo

@melissaburris7606

Жыл бұрын

Yes. The reality is that model men go after model women. And she is not model level. It’s simply the truth, just like I’m not model material either.

@donnawilliams2062

Жыл бұрын

I second that emotion. Delusional 😮

@notsonice7633

Жыл бұрын

She could improve her looks by a lot if she wore makeup. Not as hopeless as some of the over 60 grannies I’ve seen falling victims to these scammers.

@junopierre2988

Жыл бұрын

Coming from someone who loves to workout and keeping my body looking a certain way. I only date men who are the same. You don’t have to be perfect but fitness needs to be important to you. My bf is ten years younger and the exact same way. It’s a way of life for fitness people so when I see people on here saying these fitness buffs are in love with them I know it’s a lie.

You don’t need to confirm whether someone is a scammer. The only thing you need to know is if a stranger online asks you for money, block him/her.

@jamaicanjoyh6883

Жыл бұрын

PERIOD...& I do and did 😂😂😂. Folks can't even be who they are face to face , let lone hidden behind a screen🤷🏾‍♀️

@nineteenfortyeight6762

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. All this mystery about pictures, phone numbers, and accents. He won't show his face? He's not the guy in the pictures. He asked you for money? He's a professional scammer. It's simple.

@LabradoodleTofuBoy

Жыл бұрын

You think & yet we watch victims like these

@janitamantel5333

Жыл бұрын

he has money for the gym but not for his phone

@Cleatus546

Жыл бұрын

Not true. I'm a secret agent and I need gift cards for my secret mission. Send cards and don't tell anyone. It's a secret.

She sees several different accounts with his pic… And continues believing the scammer! Who’s Uneducated now?? Lol

@barbarawilliams5485

2 ай бұрын

I'm listening to this and like omg. You have only known him 2 weeks and he is already asking for money. Smh. I had a guy text me and said the same story. I can't access my account because of my ex wife but you have a job and you are an engineer. Come on.

Has a clothing line, engineer, can't pay a phone bill... yeah the normal stuff.

Even IF he is real, he was presenting all the red flags for being a horrible person with the way he talked.

@versaceboi4762

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! She said if she found out he was real she'd be very happy. I'm like it's just as bad if he was!

@susaninika7552

Жыл бұрын

It would be interesting to know about her 3 ex husbands. If they were also verbally abusive and maybe she grew up in an abusive home, then this is "normal" to her and doesn't send up any red flags because she doesn't know any different. There are plenty of women who end up in series of abusive relationships because they don't understand setting boundaries and don't understand that it's not "normal" for men to speak to their woman like that.

@EmmaWaterhouse-xs2dg

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

Love when a narcissist calls another a narcissist.

@albinosaschoopasquatch4455

Жыл бұрын

This is the comment I was seeking.

@sherw7635

Жыл бұрын

Those nails need to go. She really flaunts them.

@sherw7635

Жыл бұрын

Yeah.. There's a cold underlying something there.

@Alicia-Rene

Жыл бұрын

@@sherw7635well luckily one of them already has. Just 9 more to go now

@vialogan

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, it takes one to know one, right?!

So a young, fit guy who weighs 250 wants an old, 250 pound woman? And she allowed him to contact her child? Outrageous

@tanya4534

9 ай бұрын

She's only 38 I think.

@desertrose1226

6 ай бұрын

@@tanya4534exactly. Hardly friggin old.

If she is silky enough to fall for his BS then thats on her. But dragging her daughters into it?

I can't be the only one who finds these phone calls hugely uncomfortable, right? How come these conversations are always so one-sided and only one party is enthusiastically asking questions, while the other sounds obviously bored and gives only short answers (except when it's about money)? Yet, the victims are always talking about this love, connection and passion they felt. Clearly it's all in their head.

@Arz2003

Жыл бұрын

That's how it goes with these scammers

@donnanickerson1531

Жыл бұрын

Because serial con men are running so many scams on so many women, it must be tiring for them! He sounded like a wet dish rag when he talked to her on the phone. No enthusiasm. He just wants her money until she blocks him. Then he moves on to another and another target with his "model pics"

@Alovellyone

Жыл бұрын

Because the scammers are BORED!!!! This is their "job". If you've ever worked in customer service or answered calls, it becomes mundane. The only things that perks up these scammers are the sweet comforting sounds from the rustling of dollar bills. I had a guy from Nigeria try and tell me they didn't have grocery stores there. I still to this day wish I had said, "over 200 million people in Nigeria and no one has yet figured out how to build grocery stores. Everybody living off of oxygen and dust as well as dragging yall behinds on the grass like dogs. That's amazing". 😂 He really assumed I was going to send him money because of that "sad story". I did tell him off after being sick of him sending me messages about marriage and deleted him from my page.

@Chitownhomestead

Жыл бұрын

Ya I swear all these peo have mental issues

@sofie1724

Жыл бұрын

I agree. Its puzzling for me how the women on this show doesnt seem to reflect on this... I am also feeling so uncomfortable by the conversations we are hearing . 0 interest..

Its funny how these people go from "I'm used to getting beautiful people" to literally paying for the full boyfriend/girlfriend experience.

@ChristinaFromYoutube

Жыл бұрын

Old age gets even the most beautiful people in the end. I wouldn't doubt at least 2/3 of her ex-husbands would see this as karma of sorts.

@minarose3193

Жыл бұрын

She’s always been a pick me paying for her men breeding and being their provider

@lisabrightly

Жыл бұрын

​@@ChristinaFromKZreadshe's 38 or so? She's not old

@peekaboots01

Жыл бұрын

​@@minarose3193you think she's a pickme that supported all her husbands and that's why they married her? Even though their faces were blurred they didn't look half bad at all. One of them was a construction guy. Construction guys can be hot.

@junemarshall-kingsley566

Жыл бұрын

They are also delusional about how beautiful they themselves are and about how intelligent they are.

These people need to stop offering up their children to random strangers on the internet 😞

When she says she had lots of attractive men note the inquisitive inflection. Even she don't believe it.

@geraldphillips1450

3 ай бұрын

I am sure it's true, She has no end of attractive men contacting her ...on Facebook. She's just never met any of them because they are all Nigerian scammers.

3 marriages? Boy she’s confused! She needs to figure herself out first!

@outpost206

Жыл бұрын

For real. This woman has more red flags than the scammer.

@haroon4567

Жыл бұрын

@@outpost206 She has more red flags than a Chinese parade.

@otmossampacado1550

Жыл бұрын

I ve lived with internet scam artists for years. One thing most people don't know is that lots of people are alike emotionally, to the extent that some scammers have guild lines like telemarketers. So no matter what u say there is a response, so even non charming, non intelligent people can copy and paste away Ur money. These guidelines are updated routinely n very costly called format

Sure he was looking for an older disheveled woman on line 😏🙄

@elipotter369

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, don't want to be mean and all, but when she flashed on the screen, it was a shock - because these two people are so obviously not a match.

@elainebmack

Жыл бұрын

He found one for sure!

@BrianLG100

Жыл бұрын

Guess she was thinking he was looking for the Gummy experience.

@StarlaBizarre

Жыл бұрын

I love when you hear her voice talking about how she's been with other attractive men and then it quickly flashes to her like JUMP SCARE

@goldengoddess1723

Жыл бұрын

​@@BrianLG100😂😂😂

The dude could barely give her the time of day in the phone call, yet she still pursues him and shells out money. This woman is something else !! 🤣🤣🤣

There is no such thing as "on line dating". If you are not physically going out with someone who is romantically interested in you, it's NOT dating!

@temmiepet4183

5 ай бұрын

And if they dont want to meet you in real life you aren't even friends

@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64

2 ай бұрын

You're right. It's level one delusion.

She failed her daughter miserably and there is absolutely no excuse. She acts so confident but she can’t even put her daughters safety first.

@DJBenito304

Жыл бұрын

💯🎯📠

@lindsaybc2192

Жыл бұрын

Right she acts like this is all "above" her, but she's gross asf

THIS! IS HOW GIRLS GO MISSING! Her daughters are now in contact with traffickers! Protecting children MUST be TOP PRIORITY!

@anthonybonafilia9285

11 ай бұрын

scammers*** this is a money scam not a trafficking scam

@POCKBA

11 ай бұрын

She looks like she have kids who are adults.

@cherrymetha3185

10 ай бұрын

@@anthonybonafilia9285What do you think trafficking is about ! It’s about money . We don’t know what else these scammers are into . We do know that they have no scruples or morals and will do anything for money . They could very well be into child trafficking. He talked to the daughter to gain her mother’s trust but it might be that he might be interested in both her daughters as a commodity . And the naive daughters trust him as they see that their mother trusts him and his mum’s new boyfriend .

@glitterbomb7896

9 ай бұрын

@@anthonybonafilia9285 organized crime is called that for a reason... mostly all are connected one to another.

@sunnydaysdown

9 ай бұрын

​@@anthonybonafilia9285you never know. People catfish and get them to meet up to kidnap them. It happens

If someone tells you to leave them alone, do so.

She’s too old to be this naive. And she seems like a overall intelligent woman who lived life.

@war.neverchanges

5 ай бұрын

Intelligent?… looking the way she looks she thought a man like that wanted her. Mind you she was really bitter to degrade her exes aswell degrading the person on the photos by “not being impressed” while talking about his body explaining no conventional flaws, for 2 minutes straight. A narcissist can believe they “deserve” more based on nothing by their own beliefs except for their own worldly wants. She’s not a nice lady💀

@user-gj1me4mf5c

4 ай бұрын

She's "lived life" by lying on her back only. 🤢

@_olskool

3 ай бұрын

SEEMS is right

If you have kids, make sure their college funds are fully funded before you waste your money on a "MAN".

Girl, it’s not about narcissism…. This is a career for a romance scammer. They can copy and paste for this just like a data entry position. Period.

@web3free

Жыл бұрын

You took the words out of my mouth.

@TyGosketch

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU! Its like they think everything is narcisim. He's a freaking scammer. None of this is real to him. He had 40 other you's to finess

@tressaeleby

Жыл бұрын

@@TyGosketch probably 100 others . I don’t know why they need “closure”. They just trying to eat. They don’t care about people’s “feelings”.

@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living

Жыл бұрын

This is definitely a career for romance scammers. They see it as a business, and they don’t care if they hurt any feelings because it’s just business.

@JustineBrownsBookshelf

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. This isn’t a “relationship with a narcissist”. Just a professional thief

Given that in the original myth Hercules killed Megara, I don’t think that’s the most reassuring nickname

Even if he is not a scammer or fraud but a real guy.. still ..does she wants such a boyfriend ? If a real guy kept asking her money isn’t it worse when it is a online boyfriend

I cannot understand how you can “fall in love” with someone who only provides BASIC juvenile conversation! They talk like a pair of 15 y/o 🤦🏾‍♀️

@uniqueEnergy83

Жыл бұрын

Just hearing them speak on the phone had me nauseous 🤦🏾‍♀️

@annepollock8306

8 ай бұрын

🤢🤢🤢

Hold on...married and divorced 3 times!!! WOW Maybe she should work on herself to really know what she is looking for in a partner.

@diamondsparkle9967

Жыл бұрын

Fr...

@oldbastard2149

Жыл бұрын

Hey Catfished Team let's interview her ex-husbands. ( joke ) 😂

@Mr.Willis6388

Жыл бұрын

As soon as she started listing off all her ex husbands and boyfriends, I knew this was gonna be a good one.

"narcissist" ,,, she thinks the guy wants attention,,,, then asks "who could keep this up with straight stories for so long", she doesnt get it. So many people trying to empathize saying "this scamming could happen to anyone". No her answer proves exactly whats wrong. Insanely gullible people with absolute inability to critically assess anything

@kavi212

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely no critical thinking skills

@SonjaElizabethTeal

4 ай бұрын

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamen👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Any man who brings NOTHING to my table......He doesn't eat!!

They use the "If you're a Christian you will trust me" line. RUN from that!

@ChristinaFromYoutube

Жыл бұрын

And its literally the opposite of the truth. Jesus told us he sends us out as sheep amongst wolves so "therefore you must wise as serpents and innocent as doves." Innocent meaning "not guilty of wrongdoing." Not meaning "a naive pushover." We are told "test every spirit." So the reason i don't trust you, buddy, is because I'm Christian. Jesus told me not to.

@renb6133

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, when she said he’s “God fearing,” I knew where this was going. People see what they want to see!

@BadTV1993

Жыл бұрын

lol some of the worst behaving people Ive ever met grew up as Christians

Dude has an “account manager” but can’t pay his phone bill. 🙄

@elipotter369

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that was so ridiculous. Red huge banner right there!

Dude on the phone didn't even sound like he even likes her 😂

Red flags popping off like fireworks how do these folks not see them? He's a civil engineer and has a clothing brand but can't pay a phone bill like the other person said and how do they not hear the accent???