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  • @CatfishedOnline
    @CatfishedOnline4 ай бұрын

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  • @TEpScin

    @TEpScin

    22 күн бұрын

    Has this woman ever been to a real bank before? They don't charge you 40k to resolve an issue? Cone on lady!

  • @whateverchannel22
    @whateverchannel22 Жыл бұрын

    They usually start by saying they're "not easily fooled," then proceed to tell the most outrageous story of being unspeakably foolish.

  • @thethe4665

    @thethe4665

    Жыл бұрын

    If you listen to her story, she was in a stage of grief and exhaustion. Her brain at that point was so hungry for happiness it would be like quitting heroin while holding the needle.

  • @mariaevans5793

    @mariaevans5793

    Жыл бұрын

    Both are good points ,but you have to be aware things are not want they seem,what's wrong with being on your own!!!!!😁

  • @purplesatin8160

    @purplesatin8160

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah she said she’s not easily fooled, looks like she was fooled.

  • @cdenisewilkerson

    @cdenisewilkerson

    Жыл бұрын

    And end with “I couldn’t be that naive”

  • @xyz12345457

    @xyz12345457

    Жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, she did not seem completely convinced that these guys were fake. I think she will be taken in again, given half a chance.

  • @samnsadie
    @samnsadie Жыл бұрын

    I'm widowed, and I get countless Facebook and Twitter requests. They're all middle-aged, handsome men,usually widowers. I delete and block every single one of them. My late husband worked hard to make sure I'd be okay after he was gone, and none of those bastards will ever get a dime from me.

  • @deelite5176

    @deelite5176

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!!!! Very smart!!

  • @marthas.4456

    @marthas.4456

    Жыл бұрын

    You don't have to delete them. Just string them along.... but make sure they never get money from you... It's a fun too !!!!

  • @kristinhazell3840

    @kristinhazell3840

    Жыл бұрын

    I would totally make it my hobby to fool around with them and make them waste their time with me. "But I've sent the money! You just have to check again!" Then send them badly photoshopped transfer receipts XD

  • @aliciamerline4787

    @aliciamerline4787

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kristinhazell3840 you should join the community of scambaiters

  • @borleyboo5613

    @borleyboo5613

    Жыл бұрын

    I get friend requests on FB. Usually they are in the US army with medals and stripes galore. Lol. Not a chance. I tell em to eff off. But it would be fun to string them along for a while.

  • @dogmonday
    @dogmonday6 ай бұрын

    The best thing to say to a scammer is “wow I was just about to ask you the same thing. I need money”

  • @afritunez4422

    @afritunez4422

    4 ай бұрын

    But Have u eaten today my queen?

  • @dracojensei1141

    @dracojensei1141

    4 ай бұрын

    No i starved wanna buy me food​@@afritunez4422

  • @MAFTV10

    @MAFTV10

    3 ай бұрын

    I use to love playin' with them like that 🤣🤣

  • @eardrummed

    @eardrummed

    3 ай бұрын

    I did that lol😅

  • @Elenapnt21

    @Elenapnt21

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@eardrummedwhat did they say? 😂

  • @caroll9650
    @caroll96504 ай бұрын

    If someone is out of your league , that should be a clue

  • @nadogrl

    @nadogrl

    4 ай бұрын

    Not an issue for narcissists.

  • @vickitrotter3404

    @vickitrotter3404

    2 ай бұрын

    She's in deep denial...Like so deep she's at the bottom of the effing ocean.

  • @3l3llala13

    @3l3llala13

    2 ай бұрын

    But if you don’t go for it then how will you know? I’d say have fun flirting but once the conversation turns to him requesting financial help the you have to cut it off.

  • @allisonblair6254

    @allisonblair6254

    2 ай бұрын

    LOL that's for sure .. there's no way he's going to be interested

  • @maffieduran

    @maffieduran

    Ай бұрын

    Out of all the rotten people here, she is the only one who is actually good looking

  • @starling5188
    @starling5188 Жыл бұрын

    A kid asks their parent for money, they get a hard no. But a total stranger asks for money.... "Oh here's $35,000 my king!"

  • @ruthcain2937

    @ruthcain2937

    Жыл бұрын

    This is the bit I really can't fathom lol

  • @ladiesroom6758

    @ladiesroom6758

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Xanaphia

    @Xanaphia

    Жыл бұрын

    Honestly this is my mom right now. She owes my brother money and I think she forgot about it as he's not hounding her. Yet sent almost 60k to a stranger! Something she can't pay back as she's on disability. I've been trying to convince her with articles and videos but she just yells at me and ignores me. I fear we're losing the house and she won't admit it. She probably won't sell the house to me so we don't end up homeless. I don't know how to ask her on this topic to sell me the house with her attitude and personality change.

  • @kaireenaraj3010

    @kaireenaraj3010

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahaha 😂

  • @ladiesroom6758

    @ladiesroom6758

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Xanaphia you better get on it asap and not ask her ... You tell her .. she'll thank you later. Because dude will stop all communication when the money is gone.

  • @A13eautiful1
    @A13eautiful1 Жыл бұрын

    "He had the kind of voice that would make you melt!" Yeah, In fear. He sounds like a serial killer

  • @sharonjojo

    @sharonjojo

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣😂👍

  • @tundrawomansays694

    @tundrawomansays694

    Жыл бұрын

    Besides, fire melts stuff too and so does hydrochloric acid as murderers have demonstrated.

  • @1224w

    @1224w

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like the villain from Saw

  • @Eddie-tn2om

    @Eddie-tn2om

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn you took the words right out of my mouth 😂😂😂😂

  • @femtey4452

    @femtey4452

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @user-os1gd9xi3z
    @user-os1gd9xi3z5 ай бұрын

    These women are so incredibly gullible. It completely baffles me.

  • @jesussamurai8433

    @jesussamurai8433

    20 күн бұрын

    Most women are gullible they have trouble accepting that after a certain age they are no longer relevant. Their whole life they are told they are “queens” “beautiful” “everyone is a 10/10” so they live their whole life believing that.

  • @user-go2gq4hc2u
    @user-go2gq4hc2u2 ай бұрын

    WHY would anyone send thousands of dollars to someone they never met?

  • @ashleyw.6702

    @ashleyw.6702

    10 күн бұрын

    Desperation. And tomfoolery.

  • @koalabear3427
    @koalabear3427 Жыл бұрын

    Who in their right mind would think a bank would demand $75,000 to access your own money? At this point, people are deliberately ignoring common sense.

  • @PinoyVisuals

    @PinoyVisuals

    Жыл бұрын

    My fiance Chelsea warned me about these scam.. told her not to worry as these type of scams are blatantly obvious🙄 anyways me and Chelsea have been engaged for 3 years and i cant wait to meet her for the first time after her manager Romanov from Russia releases her from her modelling contract. cant wait!❤ #truelove #FREEChelsea

  • @lwscijunkie

    @lwscijunkie

    Жыл бұрын

    Not "deliberately" ignoring so much as subconsciously ignoring? For too many victims reality or "common sense" breaks through their desire to believe in the fantasy when it's too late. These POS catfishes are really, really good at what they do. They know exactly how to pick and cultivate their victims and they take their time. I've been targeted by romance scammers/catfishers even though I've never been on a dating site. I've never been victimized but that might be because I'm definitely NOT looking for love. What if I were looking for love? I'd like to think I'd spot the creeps right away, but let me tell you how I WAS scammed...I needed a sort-of emergency house-cleaning and arranged for the work to be done over a local company's website. They looked legit online and I needed the job done the next day. I agreed to pay $600.00 the late afternoon and they were to clean the following morning. A very nice young man showed up to collect the payment ahead of time because, he said, they had been burned by people who hired them but left town before paying. I handed over the $600.00 and they never showed up. The police couldn't do anything. I was absolutely scammed. Infuriating.

  • @blueneptune825

    @blueneptune825

    Жыл бұрын

    The (dangerous) power of making choices/decisions using emotional thinking. It's sad but it's true.

  • @carolnahigian9518

    @carolnahigian9518

    Жыл бұрын

    lonely& Not Valuing herself & Got fooled

  • @suhooo

    @suhooo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@carolnahigian9518 she overvalues herself. She believes a hot, younger, rich guy would be obsessed with her online.

  • @theoriginalr7310
    @theoriginalr731010 ай бұрын

    I have been married for 23 years. My husband has never called me his "queen". If he ever does, I'm leaving. I would be certain he is just a scammer playing the long game.

  • @theartistcherrypi6454

    @theartistcherrypi6454

    9 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AddaMay

    @AddaMay

    8 ай бұрын

    😂🤣😂🤣

  • @tonyaharman8369

    @tonyaharman8369

    8 ай бұрын

    The best comment!

  • @maryanderson2759

    @maryanderson2759

    8 ай бұрын

    OMG. You win the best comment of the day. Thank you!😂🤣😅

  • @octopus8978

    @octopus8978

    8 ай бұрын

    HAHAHA

  • @user-kk5bz3pf2m
    @user-kk5bz3pf2m8 ай бұрын

    Gosh it’s the same story, over and over! What’s wrong with these people?

  • @ZeldaFreak4by2

    @ZeldaFreak4by2

    2 ай бұрын

    The fact that people are gullible to fall for this is nothing short of a miracle!

  • @colleenadams9696

    @colleenadams9696

    23 күн бұрын

    They're hot!

  • @JeaneGenie
    @JeaneGenie5 ай бұрын

    Jeez, that goodnight voice message she was so impressed with really creeped me out. Would have given me nightmares after hearing that !!

  • @helgafrahmann4201

    @helgafrahmann4201

    3 ай бұрын

    A serialkillervoice😱😱😱🕷️🕷️💥

  • @awxiety

    @awxiety

    2 ай бұрын

    Girls are into that, ever heard of Ted Bundy?

  • @Buttercup84

    @Buttercup84

    6 күн бұрын

    But it's a Spanish Hungarian male voice! Just oh so swoony. Sounds like he's trying his hand at ASMR for serial killers.

  • @ox0cherrybomb0xo
    @ox0cherrybomb0xo Жыл бұрын

    "He has a voice that would make you melt" sounds like a voice changer a kidnapper would use when they make the call to demand a ransom

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol!

  • @alisalurje6939

    @alisalurje6939

    Жыл бұрын

    Rofl

  • @m.m.m531

    @m.m.m531

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😁😁🤣

  • @sheenasmith6634

    @sheenasmith6634

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly that!

  • @peaBaustralia86

    @peaBaustralia86

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup 100%. These people are lonely and wanting to believe 😢

  • @SonjaUnapologetic
    @SonjaUnapologetic Жыл бұрын

    That voice message the scammer left her was the creepiest thing I ever heard. It sounded like a voice changer.

  • @Roxy-ch4gv

    @Roxy-ch4gv

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally not a natural voice

  • @blueladysromancescammers

    @blueladysromancescammers

    Жыл бұрын

    Nigerian accent!

  • @crazycanuckmick

    @crazycanuckmick

    Жыл бұрын

    Voice changer 100%.

  • @kathrynshields8221

    @kathrynshields8221

    Жыл бұрын

    NIGERIAN ACCENT.....BUT ALTERED.

  • @blueladysromancescammers

    @blueladysromancescammers

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kathrynshields8221 Right.

  • @Diordreams.
    @Diordreams.4 ай бұрын

    *”He had the same earrings and ALMOST the same tattoos”!!!* 🙈 *WOW. SERIOUSLY?!?* *Someone give me this woman’s info, even I want to scam her now!!!!!*

  • @Cdsens

    @Cdsens

    3 ай бұрын

    I have no sympathy for these victims 🙄endless sympathy for their kids and grand kids.

  • @tanyak9349

    @tanyak9349

    2 ай бұрын

  • @christinebrument6851

    @christinebrument6851

    Ай бұрын

    Agree completely. The stupidity is beyond belief . Btw I'm a Nigerian prince who needs money to access my millions of pounds gold reserve.

  • @jan70007

    @jan70007

    Ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @behabtwa

    @behabtwa

    24 күн бұрын

    @@christinebrument6851can i help you by sending you my life savings? 😏

  • @wyt-Emma
    @wyt-Emma8 ай бұрын

    The man trapped in overseas, I would encourage him to seek help from the Embassy there!

  • @Buttercup84

    @Buttercup84

    6 күн бұрын

    And Nova Scotia is literally Canada so I highly doubt there'd be all of these ridiculous problems he incurred.

  • @FreeSpeechisMyRight10
    @FreeSpeechisMyRight10 Жыл бұрын

    Rule #1: NEVER trust anyone who refers to you as their "Queen"

  • @Cleatus546

    @Cleatus546

    Жыл бұрын

    I love you justmyopinion, send money

  • @FreeSpeechisMyRight10

    @FreeSpeechisMyRight10

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Cleatus546 🤣😂

  • @mebutnotme.Khan78

    @mebutnotme.Khan78

    Жыл бұрын

    Anyone who sees that word needs to run. Fast.

  • @annking8633

    @annking8633

    Жыл бұрын

    💯 exactly. Or babe.

  • @mebutnotme.Khan78

    @mebutnotme.Khan78

    Жыл бұрын

    @@annking8633 I don't mind babe I used to call me husband babe a lot. I once had a boyfriend that called me baby girl I quite liked that

  • @TheDoors777
    @TheDoors777 Жыл бұрын

    She's lonely. Blowing $32,000 on someone you've NEVER met is very scary

  • @psims7342

    @psims7342

    Жыл бұрын

    where can i meet a woman like this?

  • @lauraansara5066

    @lauraansara5066

    Жыл бұрын

    Very sad to be that desperately lonely!

  • @TheDoors777

    @TheDoors777

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lauraansara5066 Agreed

  • @PURDY_POISON

    @PURDY_POISON

    Жыл бұрын

    And stupid.

  • @centurione6489

    @centurione6489

    Жыл бұрын

    @@psims7342 🤣

  • @Cpacoaleto
    @Cpacoaleto8 ай бұрын

    Better be heartbroken than bankrupt!😡

  • @frofrofrofro900

    @frofrofrofro900

    3 ай бұрын

    No sometimes heartbroken is killing

  • @alicecobb7763
    @alicecobb77633 ай бұрын

    When you are a 50 + woman, and a man you've never met face to face, calls you are " princess/queen" hellooo REDFLAG🤦🏽🤦🏽

  • @charlieb308
    @charlieb308 Жыл бұрын

    That voice mail he left was super creepy, my dog even looked at the TV thinking it was the devil.

  • @koalabear3427

    @koalabear3427

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-hx7mi7ml8u

    @user-hx7mi7ml8u

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @adc2327

    @adc2327

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like brothers back in the day in the clubs when I was young and clubbing. I knew it wasn't the White, blue eyed guy in the pictures.

  • @Priscilams78

    @Priscilams78

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 so true lol

  • @Canarywharfdebz

    @Canarywharfdebz

    Жыл бұрын

    It was terrifying! He sounded possessed!

  • @Felicia-and-Patricia-comps
    @Felicia-and-Patricia-comps Жыл бұрын

    Listening to that breathy voicemail was like touching wet food in the sink

  • @bribri0786

    @bribri0786

    Жыл бұрын

    😂 omg yes! That’s exactly it

  • @gina3498

    @gina3498

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @aqua-angela

    @aqua-angela

    Жыл бұрын

    Perfect description. I feel like I need a shower after listening to that.

  • @victoriayork9608

    @victoriayork9608

    Жыл бұрын

    SLIMY

  • @nineteenfortyeight6762

    @nineteenfortyeight6762

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @spikeisking007
    @spikeisking0072 ай бұрын

    He "was gorgeous...i aint wearing no make up." She sounds very sophisticated.

  • @citygirl138

    @citygirl138

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @PeterPan-fo6ft

    @PeterPan-fo6ft

    Ай бұрын

    I wonder how her children made it into college.

  • @Followwingyou

    @Followwingyou

    3 күн бұрын

    This is another trump voter

  • @mediaworldwide9848
    @mediaworldwide98482 ай бұрын

    “I’m not wearing no makeup.” Oh, so then you’re wearing makeup?

  • @cplmpcocptcl6306

    @cplmpcocptcl6306

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @jujujupiter

    @jujujupiter

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate a fellow pedant.

  • @garyf4912

    @garyf4912

    Ай бұрын

    The use of double negatives makes me absolutely crazy! Lmao.

  • @bonniefarrar9347

    @bonniefarrar9347

    28 күн бұрын

    Thank you. I feel like I’m the only one

  • @innabulgakova

    @innabulgakova

    10 күн бұрын

    @@garyf4912 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Sarahlee358
    @Sarahlee358 Жыл бұрын

    She is so silly “I am going to call him out”. He probably talks to 30 other women. He could care less. She is just part of his job.

  • @tundrawomansays694

    @tundrawomansays694

    Жыл бұрын

    Wait until she realizes it’s a robocall…..

  • @HodajuciParadoks

    @HodajuciParadoks

    Жыл бұрын

    Best she can do is ...just stop and block and never do this again. She can call him out, she is not going to get closure , he is not going to feel bad, she is going to feel worse when she gets that...that he just do not care, he will do it again and again. Why do people even believe strangers want them...that is weird thinking.

  • @mscarolynnigro

    @mscarolynnigro

    Жыл бұрын

    $32, 000 . What a mess

  • @childfreegamer8840

    @childfreegamer8840

    Жыл бұрын

    Couldn’t*

  • @UnexpectedTurnOfEvents

    @UnexpectedTurnOfEvents

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@HodajuciParadoks Every husband was a stranger at some point, unless you grew up together. 😂. I met mine online. I guess he wasn't from Nigeria.

  • @isrulius
    @isrulius Жыл бұрын

    “He has a voice that can make your heart melt” A deep Nigerian accent 😂😂😂

  • @roxieoliver5523

    @roxieoliver5523

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds just like my Nigerian friend.

  • @loiscassels8966

    @loiscassels8966

    Жыл бұрын

    His voice made my skin crawl. And that kiss! 🤮

  • @sneakerfreak2002

    @sneakerfreak2002

    Жыл бұрын

    Holy Buffalo Bill voice!!!!😅

  • @diddsdaddiddsdad6865

    @diddsdaddiddsdad6865

    Жыл бұрын

    You know it, I know it . She’s stupid enough to believe it

  • @LemonThyme1933

    @LemonThyme1933

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@JaimeMesChiens It is not about them being Nigerian, or having that accent. The implication is associated with the Nigerian prince scammers 2 or 3 decades ago.

  • @Loaded4Bear-gi8yt
    @Loaded4Bear-gi8yt2 ай бұрын

    I've never heard of a bank requiring you give them money to get the money that's already in your account. How can anyone fall for this?

  • @alison__16
    @alison__168 ай бұрын

    Oh come on lady!! One look at that photo and you can see he's not batting for your team 🤦🤦🤦

  • @Sashazur

    @Sashazur

    3 ай бұрын

    They always steal gay guys photos. Compared to straight guys - especially older ones - we dress better, watch our weight, work out, moisturize, spend more $ on haircuts, and most important of all, we take a lot more selfies!

  • @alison__16

    @alison__16

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Sashazur Exactly

  • @junefoster924

    @junefoster924

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤😊​@@Sashazur

  • @agnesr.6151

    @agnesr.6151

    2 ай бұрын

    @@SashazurTrue 🥰

  • @micahbailey77

    @micahbailey77

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@Sashazur I'm gay and fat. 😂

  • @Tardisbabe92
    @Tardisbabe92 Жыл бұрын

    He has a voice that will make you melt.... No. No he didn't.

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    Жыл бұрын

    The only thing that melted was her bank account.

  • @No1reallydies

    @No1reallydies

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like his mouth is full of food lmfao😂

  • @bekkes7923

    @bekkes7923

    Жыл бұрын

    I read this comment early on and then put my phone aside and just listened to the video. Imagine my GD SURPRISE when that voice came out of my speaker behind me. I almost pooped my pants 😱😂

  • @PaulAllen786

    @PaulAllen786

    Жыл бұрын

    “You know I still got IT. I’m 56, but I still got IT.” No Ma’am, the only thing you have is delusion and a side of debt 💸

  • @ninairish763

    @ninairish763

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha!!!! I was like what????? When I heard that voice ha! That was straight up mr Nigerian man using a crappy voice changer!

  • @AllAboutElle
    @AllAboutElle Жыл бұрын

    If a guy were to ask me for a dollar we're done.

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    Жыл бұрын

    Can I borrow 50 cents haha

  • @domicar.smiles

    @domicar.smiles

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marknewton6984 I’ll send it to you 😂 only because you’re a millionaire (with frozen accounts) and I know you’ll pay it back as soon as you can. 😂😂😂

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey, I work on an oil rig in the military and you are my Queen. I also plan on going to jail. But I am a millionaire. Are you interested? Please send $$$$ haha!

  • @therealwilfreddierkes9980

    @therealwilfreddierkes9980

    Жыл бұрын

    If my husband asked me for a dollar, we’re done. 😂

  • @Dazarabia522

    @Dazarabia522

    Жыл бұрын

    Girl, same

  • @RC-mt8om
    @RC-mt8om5 ай бұрын

    "I'm not a person that gets easily fooled, I just happen to believe every stupid story strangers on the internet say."

  • @Boredchinchilla

    @Boredchinchilla

    23 күн бұрын

    They all say how smart they are. Every single woman on the channel, video after video. “I’m a very intelligent person. I’m well educated. Here’s the PIN to my bank account…..”🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @calgal5752
    @calgal57523 ай бұрын

    I will never understand how this qualifies as a “relationship “!

  • @danheboy
    @danheboy9 ай бұрын

    "He had the kind of voice that would make you melt!" Girl, that is Jigsaw

  • @flakeiana5885

    @flakeiana5885

    3 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @SunshinePip

    @SunshinePip

    2 ай бұрын

    LMAO

  • @jerrynadler2883

    @jerrynadler2883

    2 ай бұрын

    melt in fear

  • @BG-nm5xt

    @BG-nm5xt

    2 ай бұрын

    Another guy with west African accent, that's pretty clear.

  • @kay_red1156

    @kay_red1156

    2 ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @Itried20takennames
    @Itried20takennames Жыл бұрын

    As others scam shows mention, the nicknames (Princess, cupcake, etc) are not just trying to show there is a “relationship,” but that the scammers are texting many people at once, and so they don’t slip and call anyone the wrong name.

  • @carolbedrosian4650

    @carolbedrosian4650

    Жыл бұрын

    I was just going to say this same thing....think of how many people they can be scamming at one time, on the same day, simply but copying/pasting the same messages over & over. And so sad that the human beings on the other end of the phone are grasping at & believing that what they're hearing is someone who loves and adores them. A friend who had just recently retired from a successful career (and who had never married) suddenly told me this story about a guy who she met online (through a very sketchy Facebook con, BTW, whereby he "mistakenly" messaged her "thinking that she was someone else")...he had no family, was American but overseas in the Armed Services (which limited, naturally, his ability to speak with her...they mostly texted, but when he did call her, it was always rushed), so they never met but "were madly in love, he wants to build me my dream home & take care of me for the rest of our lives, I'm his Queen". I was immediately worried for her & asked "I'm sorry to ask this, and I'm happy for you if all of this is true, but some of the things you've said seem like red flags to me...has he asked you for $$??" She was immediately annoyed with me, said no, but shortly afterwards she admitted that he HAD asked her for money "only until he can access his American bank accounts & reimburse me"...and she emptied her retirement accounts to "loan" him money. I think it was around $100,000 and now she has none of that, AND she owes taxes/withdrawal penalties. Uggh. She's had to go back to work & isn't sure of her future. I (and her accountant) begged her to go to the police, but I don't think she ever did. These are crimes that feed on vulnerabilities, and then the victims are torn between not wanting to accept the truth, and not wanting to admit the truth. It's embarrassing.

  • @caroleluetkemeyer6998

    @caroleluetkemeyer6998

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes Queen is the red flag of Nigeria

  • @marciathehooligan9967

    @marciathehooligan9967

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I once knew a guy who fancied himself a notorious ladies man. He said "I always call em Baby so I don't accidentally say the wrong name".

  • @SevenEllen

    @SevenEllen

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marciathehooligan9967 ugh! What a pig.

  • @maryholt3758

    @maryholt3758

    Жыл бұрын

    Queen was the best word

  • @MissJennjenn
    @MissJennjenn5 ай бұрын

    He said "can you take off your make-up" and saying "atleast your real"...there's the con right there. I caught that right away. Dude thinks he's slick🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @susanlett9632

    @susanlett9632

    5 ай бұрын

    Same here. The fact ahe didn't is astonishing

  • @tmusa2002

    @tmusa2002

    3 ай бұрын

    He is slick… she fell for it 💯 and was so flattered she told us the story.

  • @cortneyrens

    @cortneyrens

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol, she doesn’t know the definition of “slick” if she thinks scammer is. Also she is using filters in this video

  • @vickitrotter3404

    @vickitrotter3404

    2 ай бұрын

    And knows she's a dumbass

  • @vickitrotter3404

    @vickitrotter3404

    2 ай бұрын

    And knows she's a dumbass......

  • @bugsy2902
    @bugsy29022 ай бұрын

    I was a nurse, worked with so many fellow nurses that would put up with deadbeat guys, some out of prison, etc just to have someone. But at least they were a real warm-blooded flesh and blood guy, not a fantasy facebook pic with scammers begging for money. That has taken things to a new low! So sad that people are so desperate and so afraid of meeting in real life that they are willing to settle for fake crumbs like this! It all reconfirms my life as a happily single person! Just get a loving dog or cat from the animal shelter. They will give you all the unconditional love you need and bring you endless joy and cost a lot less in the long run!

  • @bugsy2902

    @bugsy2902

    2 ай бұрын

    I know a retired coworker who is very gullible, and I can just see her falling for this as she lives in dreamland, but lucky for her she didn't save any money so only has her social security and pension so any scammer would move on quick when they realized she didn't have any money to give them!

  • @luvthisoldhome
    @luvthisoldhome Жыл бұрын

    Anyone who asks for money should be an immediate NO! Run immediately, man or woman.

  • @dzjoneshauser

    @dzjoneshauser

    Жыл бұрын

    This stuff happens all the time on Instagram. I had a nice looking lady ask me how I was. She had 1 follower but, was following many. I told her I was fine and then proceeded to ask her which scam center she worked for in Nigeria. She (he, whoever) told me to 'f' off so, I told them, okay - f'ing off and I never heard back, again.

  • @louistournas120

    @louistournas120

    Жыл бұрын

    United statians are very trusting it seems. They trust their priests, those teleevangelists. Look up Jimmy Swaggert, Creflo Dollar, Peter Popoff, Robert Tilton, Jim Jones (Jonestown), William Lane Craig, Ron Wyatt, Ray “The Bananaman” Comfort, Kirk Cameron, Ken Ham, Kent Hovind, W.V. Grant, Kenneth Copeland, Ken Ham, Jim Baker. They send these guys 10,000$ and more and these priests are super rich.

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    Жыл бұрын

    Give them the bank's number. Run if the bank won't loan them any money.

  • @rhondamohninger4311

    @rhondamohninger4311

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @polinagoldenberg9655

    @polinagoldenberg9655

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely.

  • @thevikingchannel8117
    @thevikingchannel8117 Жыл бұрын

    "He has the voice that will make you melt" sounds like a voice that is distorted in an FBI confession tape

  • @Stephaniewashere

    @Stephaniewashere

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmfao 💯

  • @dockaren

    @dockaren

    Жыл бұрын

    That voice that "made her melt" totally creeped me out. I immediately went around my house to make sure all my doors and windows were locked!

  • @tundrawomansays694

    @tundrawomansays694

    Жыл бұрын

    Fire makes things melt too and who the hell willingly wants to get burned?! It’s sad but apparently these people like to fry.

  • @bigwhiteheron

    @bigwhiteheron

    Жыл бұрын

    I know!.creepiest voice, sure wasn't melting my heart!

  • @Gurra88

    @Gurra88

    Жыл бұрын

    He sounds like he wants to play a game 😂

  • @risk5riskmks93
    @risk5riskmks938 ай бұрын

    You know what I wonder? As A.I. gets better, will people be willing to knowingly pay for an A.I. relationship? Like an A.I. who texts you, calls you, with all the boxes checked in terms of what you want to be called, etc. Could it be a way to avoid these scams?

  • @desertrose1226

    @desertrose1226

    7 ай бұрын

    I definitely wouldn’t. Nothing beats real!!

  • @DeeDee-zu2pv

    @DeeDee-zu2pv

    6 ай бұрын

    They already have. With AI in it's rudimentary state people are paying for AI relationships.

  • @aldoalf

    @aldoalf

    5 ай бұрын

    And send in game money

  • @jlow7569

    @jlow7569

    5 ай бұрын

    Isnt there an app u pay subcriptopnto tat does tat!! It will “chat” Wif u

  • @hollystump1

    @hollystump1

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes! Satire AI video kzread.info/dash/bejne/aoqop8uBnKacd8o.htmlsi=E5y3WSBgZNMv_k-E

  • @spikeisking007
    @spikeisking0072 ай бұрын

    If they ever ask for money...just send all your savings immediately. You can save so much time.

  • @maryperry1773

    @maryperry1773

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @HandbagDiva
    @HandbagDiva Жыл бұрын

    How someone doesn’t know that’s a black man speaking is beyond me!

  • @Crackpot_Astronaut

    @Crackpot_Astronaut

    Жыл бұрын

    That was my first thought 😆 The resonance in that deep ass voice is not coming from that white guy in the photos. Come on now. Even if it's got a voice changer on it, there's a very specific sound in that voice that you can tell is coming from a black man.

  • @keishatheauthentic3475

    @keishatheauthentic3475

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😂🤦‍♀️same thing I just said

  • @northernwarrior7177

    @northernwarrior7177

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounded like Barry White

  • @carolethorn3211

    @carolethorn3211

    Жыл бұрын

    If she doesnt recognize Barry White's voice, damn...

  • @coachempress

    @coachempress

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @jenniehughes6927
    @jenniehughes6927 Жыл бұрын

    "I'm not a person who gets easily fooled". Girl , you are the easiest. Just stroking your ego turns you into putty.

  • @BlaqueDNA

    @BlaqueDNA

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @mitchhedberg4415

    @mitchhedberg4415

    Жыл бұрын

    The reason why Putin loves Trump. Say "you look less fat today" and he will say how great your plan to invade Ukraine is.

  • @vickimartim176

    @vickimartim176

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel sorry for women like this!

  • @jenniehughes6927

    @jenniehughes6927

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vickimartim176 She's pathetic but I don't feel sorry for her.

  • @neoplasma1

    @neoplasma1

    Жыл бұрын

    I scroll down to this comment at exactly the same time she said it lol

  • @linabudryte7650
    @linabudryte76506 ай бұрын

    Sad thing, they all go for handsome man, when they know that this kind of man would not choose her, ever in real life.

  • @tostamixtabifana97

    @tostamixtabifana97

    3 күн бұрын

    That baffles me too. As if most men will waste their time messaging when they tend to go for something more immediate in the vicinity. I look at these photos of scam wo/men and picture them with 30-something stunners with an active and full life. Not with aging, slovenly saddos from Buttknuckle, AK who seem to live on their keyboards. This lady is not as dire as some of the older men who get scammed but still, obviously, not in the same league as the guy in the photos.

  • @dugout4530
    @dugout45307 ай бұрын

    These people always seem to only give the physical description when asked what the catfish is like, it's never anything substantial, just looks

  • @FrenchMartini
    @FrenchMartini Жыл бұрын

    "I'm not a person who is easily fooled." Uh, okay...

  • @LoLYouSayWhat

    @LoLYouSayWhat

    Жыл бұрын

    Fools always says that 🤠😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cam5807

    @cam5807

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol 😂

  • @lwscijunkie

    @lwscijunkie

    Жыл бұрын

    The belief that they can't be fooled is what makes them vulnerable. And you hear some version of it from almost all of these victims..."I'm educated...I'm intelligent...I'm nobody's fool..."

  • @kerry1979

    @kerry1979

    Жыл бұрын

    Yet she just got fooled. Look at me I am special needs & Even I know better then to buy these bull shit stories. & Send my money to complete strangers. My Money, is mine alone & not for some scammers or anyone else to take. A grown person would not need help from you a Total stranger help with their bank accounts, Ect & other things They are taken care of too if they are on a oil rig. People need to use Logic thinking instead of with their hearts.I do not feel sorry for her.

  • @boxesbinslidsllc

    @boxesbinslidsllc

    Жыл бұрын

    What people fail to realize is that she suffered in an abusive relationship, she lost her significant other and dealt with him being on dialysis and then raising children alone and working. This lady never stopped to take care of herself. She was too busy being oxygen for everyone else except herself. This man poured into her with the 'love bombing', she was vulnerable and he took advantage of her.

  • @BuckScrotumn
    @BuckScrotumn9 ай бұрын

    They call each other kings and queens in EVERY SINGLE EPISODE!

  • @m_b_s_l

    @m_b_s_l

    3 ай бұрын

    It’s the highest compliment in Nigeria 🤭

  • @somerking7040

    @somerking7040

    3 ай бұрын

    They ask if u have eaten today too. I haven't been feeling well and my daughter asked me if I've been eating ( after I binge watched these all weekend) 😂I said "HEY ,ARE U SCAMMING ME"😂😅 ...

  • @georgecyp.4581

    @georgecyp.4581

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah, I m tired of that ! How about " enough king and queen stuff. We are a democracy here,lol

  • @tanyak9349

    @tanyak9349

    2 ай бұрын

    @@m_b_s_l not only in nigeria

  • @juliesarahderba7281

    @juliesarahderba7281

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes ! Why is that something you want ?

  • @tailung5913
    @tailung59138 ай бұрын

    I know a lady being scammed right now. See won't listen to family , has borrowed $2000 from her ex husband, she lied about what the money is for, he found out & won't give anymore. She says " he loves me" . She's on the pension, rents & no savings. . Hope now she cannot give him anymore money he disappears.

  • @Rumpelstiltskinsdaughter
    @Rumpelstiltskinsdaughter7 ай бұрын

    I don’t get these woman! If you are middle aged and a man is asking for money, that’s a huge turn off!

  • @blueladysromancescammers
    @blueladysromancescammers Жыл бұрын

    A hansome man like this one,will never search for love on the internet! A real man will never ask for money from a woman!

  • @lisabrightly

    @lisabrightly

    Жыл бұрын

    There's plenty of hot scammers online. I used to do online dating. There's soooo many hot f*ckboys online. They hang out all day waiting for fresh meat.

  • @SweetyD2023

    @SweetyD2023

    Жыл бұрын

    When I saw he wore an earring in his right ear, I knew he was gay. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪

  • @markfrost2707

    @markfrost2707

    Жыл бұрын

    Im a handsome older man and I have met women on the internet. Not by seeking for THAT though--so, that's true but no MAN would take a DIME from a woman. EVER. Agreed

  • @karadodge7118

    @karadodge7118

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly...........never met a real man that does either. And they don't call you Queen and Cupcake when they've only known you for 2.2 seconds!

  • @blueladysromancescammers

    @blueladysromancescammers

    Жыл бұрын

    @@markmike7933 Yeah,sure....haha,I was nice....'ok,I'll say then...very good looking guys as you say,will not like a lady like this one in the video! Do you get it now?

  • @citychicken9949
    @citychicken9949 Жыл бұрын

    Every single time they play a recording from a scammer they sound like a serial killer trying to be seductive. It's so creepy. That would be an immediate turn off for me LOL.

  • @karmentolable

    @karmentolable

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly omggggg

  • @CJ-yt1bd

    @CJ-yt1bd

    11 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @helenagackowska8398

    @helenagackowska8398

    11 ай бұрын

    LITERALLY lool

  • @nihilistcipher

    @nihilistcipher

    10 ай бұрын

    @@ericrivera8410 right??? Exactly

  • @Buttercup84

    @Buttercup84

    6 күн бұрын

    ASMR for serial killers. That's what it sounds like to me.

  • @babycakes8434
    @babycakes84344 ай бұрын

    Their script is easy: 1. Hook the victim by lovebombing 2. Scammers life falls apart, and he is out of money, so the victim needs to support them financially. 3. Victim sends money, sometimes less, sometimes more, sometimes victim tries to or sell their house, sometimes victim becomes a money mule unknowingly. 4. Victim realizes that they were scammed and are now out of money, out of life savings, and with a lot of additional debt....

  • @georgiamoyse1857
    @georgiamoyse18575 ай бұрын

    I told the guy I need to talk to my attorney first, never heard from him again.

  • @bluevioletandlilac
    @bluevioletandlilac9 ай бұрын

    "His name is Giege!" Think that's enough right there.

  • @lydiasyear

    @lydiasyear

    3 ай бұрын

    💀💀💀

  • @Littlepocketrocket81

    @Littlepocketrocket81

    3 ай бұрын

    True

  • @AndeLikeTheMint

    @AndeLikeTheMint

    2 ай бұрын

    His name is Max Moose Advisor, that's how you know he's real

  • @NatblidaAscende
    @NatblidaAscende Жыл бұрын

    I have an aunt who fell for this. It's gotten so bad that she won't pay her own rent or medical bills. She says "he needs it!". And yet she is homeless. Very delusional. 😞

  • @allisonjames2923

    @allisonjames2923

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow. That is so sad.

  • @ingridakerblom7577

    @ingridakerblom7577

    Жыл бұрын

    They prey on empathy & give you none back.

  • @char7945

    @char7945

    Жыл бұрын

    Shes financing a young African man

  • @ingridakerblom7577

    @ingridakerblom7577

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GuacamoleyNacho how do they not? I need money bcs - some random story made to make theese women feel guilt if they dont pay.. The "my mom/sister/dad or other close family" is sick i need money fpr operation" thats a common one.. Women dont work like men.. .

  • @locabynature

    @locabynature

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@GuacamoleyNachoit's both. they con their way into your life with romance and then give you all kinds of sad stories about why they need money.

  • @vickitrotter8025
    @vickitrotter80256 ай бұрын

    How delusional can she possibly be???? That woman thinks this gorgeous man LOVES her? Poor lady....it's pitiful!

  • @jacquelinemillward4641
    @jacquelinemillward46413 ай бұрын

    Sounds like Giege is whispering so his partner doesn’t hear him cheating!

  • @Boredchinchilla

    @Boredchinchilla

    23 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately, she’s not talking to the real Giege, so there is no partner for him to be cheating on. He probably just doesn’t want her to be able to tell that she’s is talking to several different people, and it’s harder to recognize a voice if it’s a whisper. Poor Giege is some random guy living his life with no idea that some scammer is using his photo. There are whole teams of people in call centers somewhere in Nigeria or Ghana, working on scamming hundreds of people at once- it’s a wildly successful business.

  • @tinydream
    @tinydream Жыл бұрын

    She went from “queen” to “cupcake” bc the next scammer on shift for the day mixed up her nickname with nickname of someone else they were all scamming.

  • @m.m.m531

    @m.m.m531

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg yes that’s right 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣 nice one eh!!

  • @shonii119

    @shonii119

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah that's what I thought too.

  • @fiona-lyons

    @fiona-lyons

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @eeeriebrilliance

    @eeeriebrilliance

    Жыл бұрын

    Wait - so are you picturing a roomful of scammers all talking to the same women in like, sceduled shifts? Ha! I never looked at it that way. So, one guy is calling her 'queen' from six am to noon and when he punches out, the next guy puts on his headset and takes over but he blows off reading the case notes, so he accidently calls her 'cupcake' from noon to six pm. Hahaha! I LOVE it!

  • @tinydream

    @tinydream

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eeeriebrilliance yeah, as crazy as it sounds. It’s a business with staff, managers, etc. That’s how they’re always available to talk to these women 24/7. Usually they just stick with “queen” to keep it easy, that’s why it’s so common, but I’m guessing some women don’t vibe with that so they come up with a new nickname for them and then get them mixed up sometimes.

  • @iamlegend68
    @iamlegend689 ай бұрын

    "He had the voice that could make you melt" - I got chills listening to that voice message. Sounds like a serial killer no joke ☠

  • @jimmyzhao2673

    @jimmyzhao2673

    5 ай бұрын

    🤢

  • @LuckyUSA7

    @LuckyUSA7

    4 ай бұрын

    Yessss

  • @marymccartor9373

    @marymccartor9373

    4 ай бұрын

    Me too!

  • @ismaelrodriguez365

    @ismaelrodriguez365

    3 ай бұрын

    🤮

  • @robinsmith4958

    @robinsmith4958

    3 ай бұрын

    I was scared when I heard that voice!!! 😣

  • @BelleWhittington
    @BelleWhittington6 ай бұрын

    "They didn't have an accent at all." Is she even hearing the voice that I heard on that recording?

  • @lisavolk200
    @lisavolk2007 ай бұрын

    These scammers are evil and find vulnerable people to victimize. It’s heartbreaking.

  • @VladmirPoopN

    @VladmirPoopN

    4 ай бұрын

    "vulnerable" is different to "obviously seeing and ignoring red flags"

  • @alidabotes6264
    @alidabotes6264 Жыл бұрын

    I am a South African & I immediately recognized his voice as a Nigerian. The Nigerians are very good at scams. I have a very intelligent friend who was also caught.

  • @edwinadaguno9229

    @edwinadaguno9229

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes Nigerian scAmmmer are pathetic liars i also became their victims but I blocked him for few we are talking asking money with lots of alibis but he doesn’t want vc but I know his a Nigerian cause one time he called me he forget to off his camera then i click my camera and I happened saw him I found him in a dating site

  • @marissaguevara-diaz2196

    @marissaguevara-diaz2196

    Жыл бұрын

    As soon as i heard the voice i could have identify its nigerian

  • @wailingrachel9274

    @wailingrachel9274

    Жыл бұрын

    Ye same!

  • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv

    @DebbiePotter-xh7kv

    Жыл бұрын

    No they aren’t good. Far from it actually

  • @omzy8700

    @omzy8700

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DebbiePotter-xh7kvthey seem pretty successful at it ,the are able to make people pay thousands of dollar on average per victims ,some people even send $500k+

  • @lwscijunkie
    @lwscijunkie Жыл бұрын

    Believing that you are "not easily fooled" makes you vulnerable to cons, liars, fraudsters and BSrs.

  • @YS92651

    @YS92651

    Жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily if you are more sophisticated than the scammers. I have a really good bs and scammer detector.

  • @lwscijunkie

    @lwscijunkie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YS92651 Hope so.

  • @Momo-po5tn

    @Momo-po5tn

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@YS92651 famous last words

  • @anesidora3084

    @anesidora3084

    Жыл бұрын

    Good point actually. In lot of these videos people say they are smart or not easily fooled which means it's hard for them to face it if they make choices that doesn't align with those beliefs.

  • @PammyP

    @PammyP

    Жыл бұрын

    That might of been one of the biggest mistakes I have made. I haven't been romance scammed, but we are each in different ways being scammed, whether it is the media, your kid that wants something. Question everything, believe in your innate wisdom and use common sense. Not scam proof, but it helps. None of us, not one should believe we are too smart to be scammed.

  • @elatheone4530
    @elatheone45308 ай бұрын

    Every year i receive 2 or 3 friend invitations on fb from widowed, veteran men. Only once i accepted. The story was that his children have moved out of the house and he has a lot of money.He is bored alone and wants me to move in with him, so we van enjoy the life together. He said,he will take care of everything. But if I have a house under my name, I should sell it. I blocked him. I guess the next thing would have been after i sold my house, to transfer the money to his account. That profile picture looked a lot like the person in this video.

  • @LAnthonyE
    @LAnthonyE6 ай бұрын

    The voicemail recording of the guy talking with a deep voice had me cracking up 😂😂😂😂!

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 Жыл бұрын

    When I heard “You’re my queen” that told me all I needed to know. These love 💕 bombing tactics really work especially to someone who’s had a traumatic experience. People like that should really distance themselves from online dating as they tend to miss the obvious red flags 🚩

  • @demolazer

    @demolazer

    Жыл бұрын

    Dating sites should have a warning and report button if anyone calls you queen in a message. Would save so many people.

  • @fibbs6533

    @fibbs6533

    Жыл бұрын

    @@demolazer That is so true. It is the ultimate red flag. I wish more people knew that it is a term African scammers use.

  • @debbielucia3453

    @debbielucia3453

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought the same thing, scammers ALWAYS use that phrase. HUGE red flag. I don't know one normal man who says that lol.

  • @ninjanana8730

    @ninjanana8730

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly...that is the very first clue along with them being in love with the person.Then the asking for money starts.Also,are they always engineers LOL.

  • @rover5788

    @rover5788

    Жыл бұрын

    And...BABE!!! Lol !!!!

  • @maryneyhard5899
    @maryneyhard589911 ай бұрын

    The MINUTE a stranger you never met asks for money - regardless of the circumstances- BLOCK THEM! It's up to you to not get taken for granted!!!

  • @miker3875

    @miker3875

    7 ай бұрын

    Mary, amen. I've gotten now when someone IM's me I don't know, within about 3 minutes, I beg their pardon for being direct, but tell them they need to know there is no situation, emergency, tragedy, or scenario under which I will give them money. I also say I don't want anyone feeling awkward, but if we start chatting much, I'm going to want a video chat or video send to confirm they are who their profile picture portrays. Scammers scatter like cockroaches when you mention video chat.

  • @Nickelodeon81

    @Nickelodeon81

    7 ай бұрын

    Can I have $2?

  • @miker3875

    @miker3875

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Nickelodeon81 Yes, but the transfer fee is $5.

  • @Nickelodeon81

    @Nickelodeon81

    7 ай бұрын

    @@miker3875 That's fine you can send me $7 no problems babe.

  • @lorettabolton9463

    @lorettabolton9463

    6 ай бұрын

    Well said. Be smart, not so lonely and desperate to open yourself to be scammed!

  • @loriwhiston1587
    @loriwhiston15875 ай бұрын

    It's obvious the man in the photos would not be interested in dating a woman.

  • @ogamiitto8056
    @ogamiitto80566 ай бұрын

    In every one of these I’ve seen thus far, the scammers never put in crazy effort to flatter the victim. Just “how are you? What did you eat today?” The basics 😂

  • @RahShanProductionsMTU
    @RahShanProductionsMTU Жыл бұрын

    “My queen” straight out the Nigeria/Ghana scammer handbook 💀

  • @Tawny593
    @Tawny593 Жыл бұрын

    You can't "date" someone online. You can only date someone in person.

  • @ditzygypsy

    @ditzygypsy

    Жыл бұрын

    YES! I say that online “dating” is the ultimate oxymoron!

  • @atlaslex

    @atlaslex

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ditzygypsy I think online dating just refers finding people to date by using the internet instead of bars etc. people who think they’re ‘dating’ someone they’ve never met are just delusional.

  • @CatMom63
    @CatMom63Ай бұрын

    THAT voice made her melt?? UGH... it made my SKIN CRAWL.

  • @concettadevincentis
    @concettadevincentis4 ай бұрын

    Oh goodness! This is exactly what happened to a friend. I kept telling her it was a scam! She said, I was just jealous. So sad!

  • @amywalker3647
    @amywalker3647 Жыл бұрын

    I love how they say, “I’m not a person who is easily fooled,” and then goes on to tell you how easily fooled they were.

  • @mer101010

    @mer101010

    Жыл бұрын

    hahahHajahahahHahahaha!!! yesss!

  • @Aryantics

    @Aryantics

    Жыл бұрын

    Love makes you do crazy things and being lonely doesn’t help either.

  • @Ashleymalone2000

    @Ashleymalone2000

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Aryantics agreed! This is heartbreaking. I feel so bad for her.

  • @Bongwater33

    @Bongwater33

    Жыл бұрын

    its probably human nature to think you are hard to fool no matter what!

  • @lezbnlvr2051

    @lezbnlvr2051

    Жыл бұрын

    Love how you stole that comment

  • @bribri0786
    @bribri0786 Жыл бұрын

    Why would you believe a bank would hold your money hostage for unpaid fees rather than just absorbing the funds and requesting the balance? Furthermore, why would you ever believe this was YOUR problem? Let him call the “bank” and figure it out himself. He’s grown.

  • @junopierre2988

    @junopierre2988

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. The bank immediately pulls funds from your account when you owe

  • @LoLYouSayWhat

    @LoLYouSayWhat

    Жыл бұрын

    Greed....

  • @hoosierbaddy3052

    @hoosierbaddy3052

    Жыл бұрын

    Frozen accounts are part of the story for most of these people.

  • @hoosierbaddy3052

    @hoosierbaddy3052

    Жыл бұрын

    @@junopierre2988 I think that it’s illegal for a bank to seize personal funds. Example. I owe BofA close to 10k in credit card debt. I currently have more than that amount in my account. I was concerned that they’d take it to pay off my debt. But no. Which led me to believe that it’s illegal to freeze someone’s account bc of past balances, nor take it arbitrarily.

  • @Sofia-ge5wu

    @Sofia-ge5wu

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@hoosierbaddy3052 a credit card is a separate account to your current account though. If fees were owed on an everyday account it'd come out of that account or push the account further into overdraft etc

  • @elizabethgoetz8040
    @elizabethgoetz80406 ай бұрын

    She sent that much money and he wants 75,000.00 to UNLOCK his bank acct???? HUGE RED FLAG!!!!!!

  • @cecileroy557

    @cecileroy557

    4 ай бұрын

    Last night I saw another poor soul who was scammed. In what world does a person have to pay ANYTHING to unlock their account - let only $75,000! Yet the woman last night fell for that as well.

  • @roxanneandrew530

    @roxanneandrew530

    2 ай бұрын

    He sounds Nigerian to me

  • @roxanneandrew530

    @roxanneandrew530

    2 ай бұрын

    She did cough up 32k

  • @jackiesicilian5720
    @jackiesicilian57202 ай бұрын

    People fall in love, so they think, and their mind just goes out the window. Sad, nice people getting hurt so badly 😢

  • @shethingsd
    @shethingsd Жыл бұрын

    The Nigerians are getting good at imitating a non-Nigerian accent. But the deepness of his voice and how quiet he is definitely sends the red flags

  • @catslove3884

    @catslove3884

    Жыл бұрын

    Still sounds like a 19 year old Nigerian.

  • @cindysumners5403

    @cindysumners5403

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes still sounds Nigerian

  • @Ast151

    @Ast151

    Жыл бұрын

    it is not imitation, it's a voice changing app

  • @COMPUTER.SCIENCE.

    @COMPUTER.SCIENCE.

    Жыл бұрын

    I think they just cut it out of some audio, an African or Indian would for sure have strong a** accents 😂 If you're scammed, usually it's from either of these 2 places 😂

  • @bixou22002

    @bixou22002

    Жыл бұрын

    @@catslove3884 Of course...

  • @cas5324
    @cas5324 Жыл бұрын

    My mother, who passed in 2020, had dementia. She met a scumbag with a criminal record at the local senior center that she let move in with her. He and his family bilked her for thousands, never paid a dime in rent, and bailed when she could no longer care for herself. I couldn't get the authorities to do anything about this because...it's her choice! So, my point is, they don't have to be from Nigeria to be a scammer.

  • @kdp8133

    @kdp8133

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry to read this. It's the same here in the UK; it's very difficult to prove a person no longer has 'capacity' as they also have the right to make 'choices' until it's proved they don't. I worked with adults with MH issues and it's a very difficult one to balance.

  • @sjordan7085

    @sjordan7085

    Жыл бұрын

    Senior Centers are full of scam artists searching for lonely wealthy widows to take advantage of. The women are so naive they share all sorts of personal information a wise person would keep private. Instead, they share information about the value of their homes and lifestyles. Asian women are especially uncomfortable complaining about unwanted sexual advances, Many had husbands who helped them maintain sheltered existances, so when the husbands die, they have no clue how to take care of themselves, or even take reasonable precautions to be safe.

  • @SR71GIRL

    @SR71GIRL

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry to hear that predators hurt your mother & ultimately the family. I can't believe how low some humans will go. I'm glad your mother is free from her illness & those hateful humans. I pray your family can rest & move on. 🙏

  • @MicIsaSopBre

    @MicIsaSopBre

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry your dear mother fell for that. My she rest in peace.

  • @mariel5209

    @mariel5209

    Жыл бұрын

    My father fell for the bitcoin scam. He wasted all of his money and their pensions. My parents went from well off to have nothing. We couldn't stop him - he never asked for advice before it was too late. I will never be able to comprehend the people who can cheat and lie and have no scruples.

  • @eileenmcmahon2373
    @eileenmcmahon23736 ай бұрын

    When a guy ask you for money thats a red flag..And no one would give you there bank infomation.

  • @aylinlin1290
    @aylinlin12905 ай бұрын

    He is a 10, she is a 3. And she thinks this is real

  • @vickitrotter3404

    @vickitrotter3404

    2 ай бұрын

    IMO..he's a 10+ and she's a 2

  • @rodrigobonzanini8235

    @rodrigobonzanini8235

    Ай бұрын

    This classification of people by numbers is so ridiculous! Beauty is on the eyes!

  • @crystaljordan1632

    @crystaljordan1632

    Ай бұрын

    @@rodrigobonzanini8235she’s still a 2 & that’s being generous ..🙄

  • @rodrigobonzanini8235

    @rodrigobonzanini8235

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@crystaljordan1632 ...this scale "from 1 to 10" does not exist... attraction is a personal thing...someone can be a 10 for me and a 1 for you, and vice versa...

  • @rodrigobonzanini8235

    @rodrigobonzanini8235

    Ай бұрын

    @@crystaljordan1632 ​ ... attraction is a personal thing...someone can be a "10" for me and a "1" for you, and vice versa...

  • @FrenchMartini
    @FrenchMartini Жыл бұрын

    PRO TIP: if you are locked out of your accounts, call the bank!

  • @kerry1979

    @kerry1979

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly A normal person does not need Help from a Total stranger online. To resolve their banking issues. Most would call the bank themselves. If they can't then they are pretty incapable of taking care of themselves. Also As well as you. A person does not need someone if they can't handle their own banking issues.

  • @NoseyFloridaGirl
    @NoseyFloridaGirl Жыл бұрын

    Red flags : they call you Queen They want to private chat They need money now They’re otherwise wealthy They love you almost instantly A real love would not ask for money Don’t send money to someone you NEVER MET

  • @oneofthosecreativetypes24

    @oneofthosecreativetypes24

    Жыл бұрын

    CJ, what does 'private chat' mean ? Chatting in the dating app? emailing? texting? I'm asking because I had a guy want my email address and I didn't want him to know my last name, so I said no, and he got mad and was suddenly no longer interested.

  • @og6920

    @og6920

    Жыл бұрын

    @@oneofthosecreativetypes24 You did the right thing. Honestly, trust no one online. I think private chat may mean they ask you to go onto Whatsapp or Kik or Snapchat (if those still exist)...platforms where you cannot see their name or number...

  • @deckydeckstar825

    @deckydeckstar825

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm even scared to send money to a friend who lives in another province.

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    Жыл бұрын

    Never send money period.

  • @WillChil466

    @WillChil466

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@oneofthosecreativetypes24. Chating off the site.

  • @HOTSHOTNYC
    @HOTSHOTNYC3 ай бұрын

    This scam is so common. Poor thing. She seems like a total sweetheart. What a beautiful person she is. May all good things come her way

  • @freshfalcon3996
    @freshfalcon39964 ай бұрын

    I'm in the wrong business.

  • @Maya-vs7mv
    @Maya-vs7mv Жыл бұрын

    "Can you take your makeup off?" That's a good one, and I'm sure many more women will fall for it 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨.

  • @Maria-0017

    @Maria-0017

    Жыл бұрын

    I know oh dear 🤦‍♀️

  • @katieanderson1040

    @katieanderson1040

    Жыл бұрын

    New line to the script.

  • @TheKim369

    @TheKim369

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha, ha, will easily replace "do you model?"

  • @thesexynun1749

    @thesexynun1749

    Жыл бұрын

    First time I heard that one!

  • @m.m.m531

    @m.m.m531

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

  • @AigleNoir12
    @AigleNoir12 Жыл бұрын

    Why ignore all blatant red flags, spend so much money before trying to find answers? Scammers are evil but these victims have to take the blame for stubbornly enabling this insanity.

  • @lwscijunkie

    @lwscijunkie

    Жыл бұрын

    I think it's because they are so desperate for it to be real...And they also usually mention that they are very intelligent and "not easily fooled". I suspect that the victims are good people who wouldn't dream of exploiting someone that way and therefore find it hard to imagine someone who would...The very moment anyone believes they are too intelligent to be fooled they make themselves vulnerable to being taken advantage of. Desperation and the belief they can't be fooled seems to be a disastrous combination...I hate victim-blaming, especially because these victims seem to be trusting, loving, kind and generous, but it is very, very difficult NOT to blame them on some level.

  • @AigleNoir12

    @AigleNoir12

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lwscijunkie Well articulated. I hope these videos and comments help somebody avoid falling victim to romance scams.

  • @demolazer

    @demolazer

    Жыл бұрын

    They are so lonely and vulnerable that they cling to the fantasy despite all rationality saying otherwise. That's why many victims are widows and/or abuse survivors. It's so sad.

  • @garyish

    @garyish

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lwscijunkie yes they are good people… too good in fact. To the extent of being naive / gullible.

  • @corgigirl305

    @corgigirl305

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't understand. A lot of these victims do seem educated. So that tells me they spend a lot of time on a computer. I'm not some secretary, or super good with computers, but I could spot a romance scammer immediately. They don't even bother me.

  • @Gidget-bh3rm
    @Gidget-bh3rm4 ай бұрын

    This poor, gullible woman.

  • @requiem744
    @requiem7445 ай бұрын

    "I'm not a person that gets easily fooled...but" LOL

  • @bonnie_gail

    @bonnie_gail

    Ай бұрын

    lol

  • @samhanson6671
    @samhanson667110 ай бұрын

    ‘You’re my Queen’ is a total red flag 😮

  • @studiosinger

    @studiosinger

    4 ай бұрын

    Intelligent women cut it off there.

  • @jaymuller1369

    @jaymuller1369

    Ай бұрын

    It’s such an African thing to say Queen

  • @abbylane2718
    @abbylane2718 Жыл бұрын

    We need to give some credit to some of the small retailers that stop the elderly from purchasing these "GIFT CRARDS"and help the people whom are being scammed.

  • @lesha1492

    @lesha1492

    Жыл бұрын

    Great point. An elderly lady was in line at a Dollar Store buying a bunch of gift cards. I convinced her to talk with her daughter before purchasing them. It was a scam.

  • @skontheroad

    @skontheroad

    Жыл бұрын

    YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!! My father in law went to CVS in Florida to buy gift cards and luckily the 19 year old teen behind the register said "Are you sure you want to do that? Who are you buying these for, if I may ask?" And he asked enough questions that my father in law snapped back into attention, realizing this was a scam! He spent 40 years working in telecom security and INVENTED some of the first lines of telecom defense!!! It is scary getting old! And shocking how quickly tech changes and advances... But you are 💯 right! People should give those kids an award! I actually said that already to him--I hope that CVS and Walgreens, etc., gives those kids employee of the YEAR!!

  • @magita1991

    @magita1991

    Жыл бұрын

    ⁠@@lesha1492you are awesome!! You saved her !

  • @Neophema

    @Neophema

    11 ай бұрын

    I wish I could do that. I work in retail, and elderly people keep coming in to buy Apple gift cards. Once, a woman came in and bought $1400 worth of Apple gift cards. I'm not allowed to say anything, but we do plan on putting up posters to inform people.

  • @lesha1492

    @lesha1492

    11 ай бұрын

    @@magita1991 thanks Magita1991...nice getting replies. You have a great day 🙂

  • @lorrainegriffin1443
    @lorrainegriffin14437 ай бұрын

    They all seem to be offshore!

  • @rickdb8480
    @rickdb84809 ай бұрын

    She’s a nice lady but highly, highly naive and inexperienced. I say she should stay away from any form of online dating full stop.

  • @michelehemlokhexwhite4310
    @michelehemlokhexwhite4310 Жыл бұрын

    How can anyone believe a BANK is asking for 40k then 75k just to access their own money. Like wtf?????,

  • @karlataylor7003
    @karlataylor70038 ай бұрын

    I start to notice that most of these people are older, and their women whose husbands have passed and their lonely, and they pray on the same type of people. Do you ever find that someone who’s young and attractive gets scam like this?

  • @desertrose1226

    @desertrose1226

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes, the woman scammed online by a Nigerian posing as actor Dacre Montgomery (Billy in Stranger Things) is young. Late twenties. An ordinary looking lady but young..

  • @TheJat36
    @TheJat365 ай бұрын

    someone to me: "what are you doing cupcake" me: "blocking you for calling me 'cupcake'"

  • @allysonleavitt6858
    @allysonleavitt6858 Жыл бұрын

    If she is an animal lover, she should just get a dog instead of online dating. A dog can fill your heart with 💕

  • @plicketyplunk

    @plicketyplunk

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely ❤

  • @BlaqueDNA

    @BlaqueDNA

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes exactly! ❤❤❤

  • @Nocturnalux

    @Nocturnalux

    Жыл бұрын

    And she can meet fellow dog lovers- as in, real people who love dogs- through events and the like.

  • @lisamcdonald2877

    @lisamcdonald2877

    Жыл бұрын

    Could not agree more. We do not need a relationship with a man (or woman) to have a life we can enjoy.

  • @StarchildSixx

    @StarchildSixx

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lisamcdonald2877 yes. I agree completely with you. I’m a single 40 year old mom of one and I’m HAPPY. I have a pup, he’s a year old and brings absolute love and joy to our lives. All he wants to do is nap with us, snuggle and maybe sneak a bite of our “people food” 😂 (he thinks he’s a people, not a dog) the dating pool where I live sucks and I’m a tad jaded on the whole dating gig anyway.

  • @Rebecca-ci3zc
    @Rebecca-ci3zc Жыл бұрын

    The photos are of a man that could get just about anyone he wanted. That’s a big clue ladies!

  • @bladerubber

    @bladerubber

    Жыл бұрын

    Gay man pics also

  • @lepiaf6452

    @lepiaf6452

    Жыл бұрын

    *I follow this ORIGINAL guy on instagram.*

  • @YeshuaKingMessiah

    @YeshuaKingMessiah

    Жыл бұрын

    The guy n guy pics Duh

  • @YeshuaKingMessiah

    @YeshuaKingMessiah

    Жыл бұрын

    And a man looking like that is not online looking He’s running from women lol he may enjoy himself with them but that’s it. Unless he wants marraige.

  • @Shastasnow

    @Shastasnow

    Жыл бұрын

    True but stetting your bar heigh is good. Don’t settle for someone who can’t even shave properly.

  • @user-gr1zi2gz1v
    @user-gr1zi2gz1v6 ай бұрын

    as soon as a man calls the woman a queen in the beginning i already know where this is going

  • @virginiasanchis1717
    @virginiasanchis17172 ай бұрын

    I hate the scammers but the delusional victims make me nervous 😱