This is why its maddening to know that women choose men over their children especially when they’re small

@TianaThompson90s

3 ай бұрын

My mum did the same thing

@ark198989

3 ай бұрын

I’m sorry. JESUS bless you and keep you.

Your mother CHOSE to not know. SHAME ON HER!!

@apriljoy425

3 ай бұрын

Exactly

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

Oh, some mothers can be Mother,,,,,ers, your mother was one my dear. A person deserving of losing the ability to conceive your mother was. You deserved better! Your dad wimped out some as he should have confronted the monster he married for the sake of the kids. We must step up Black men/brothers our kids are paying the price for our dissipated manhood. So happy to hear you found yourself through the maze you were put into. never ever leave your daughters with a man who was not their father; even there be careful.

The mother knew. Why would she leave her youngest home with a grown man and take the older ones? It almost sounds like it was an agreement between them, because why would she keep “the cousin” in her life even after finding out that he violated her baby? My immediate reaction would be to keep all of my kids with me. This is terrible! I’m sorry you had to go through this

@XSmoochies

3 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@Schrodingers_Kat

3 ай бұрын

She was totally either ingratiating herself with him by offering him her child, or paying some kind of debt.

@fallonrappaport5270

3 ай бұрын

🎯💯

When she mentioned him peeking at her and pretending to be sleep, that creeped my out sooo bad, I can’t even imagine how scared this poor 6 year old baby girl felt when her mom and sisters left the house smh

@PrincessAfrica3

3 ай бұрын

😢😢same...such evil

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

Man, it gave me the GIBIS!

@111JenA

3 ай бұрын

NO CHILD deserves this. God Almighty is watching!

When will parents start protecting their kids? I could never put a man over my kids.

@LateshaRenee

3 ай бұрын

She was an alcoholic. A lot of these people are drug addicts, alcoholics, mentally ill, etc. they have no morals and no heart. Just fucked up all the way around.

Glad your dad found out and defended your family. Can’t believe your mom was so careless. Forgiveness is for you 🙏🏽

She is absolutely gorgeous. I'm so sorry that she wasn't protected.

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

Most of our young Black women aren't as we Black men have fled the scene.

Your mother was the devil himself. You are BEAUTIFUL! God bless you and thank you for sharing your story.

@angellong7970

3 ай бұрын

What about the man that did it?

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

The devil herself indeed!

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

@@angellong7970 He was evil but the devil herself opened that box. Similarly, Selena's story in the "Patch of Blue" please watch this movie Black men. Gordon Ralph would never have allowed his daughters to become prey.

What a beautiful, smart, and strong young lady you are. You deserve the world, sweetheart ❤

Exactly why no man is ever around my daughter and she never goes to sleepovers

Mother knew. Grandma told her and she punished the child by not letting her see her favorite person.So sorry this happened.Very proud of you for not giving up. Your kids are blessed to have you.

@jessicathomas22717

3 ай бұрын

That is control

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

Pure evil her bloody mother, DAMN!!!

It's so scary to think that humans would hurt children in this way. Thank you for sharing your story and for helping others know the signs and understanding of the trauma of the trauma you experience. You are a survivor! Continue to be a great mother.

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

We been hurting children since day memorial, why do you think abuses continue? The abused simply abuse the next batch and the cycle continues. Humanity/societies are sick, something is truly wrong with our wiring. Stay at home Black men and fight to save our kids. There will be no guarantees but at least we would have given our all. Something I repeat to myself on a regular basis.

I’ve went through this and it’s a horrible feeling

@cricket47222

3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you experienced that as well. You didn't deserve a life like that at all. I pray you now have a beautiful life because you deserve it!💝

I told my mother at 15 and got slap in the face 😢 Thank for sharing your story 🙏

Strong, beautiful, and intellectual woman! You are blessed and you’re not alone the Lord is with you.

@JohnDoe-bt9qp

3 ай бұрын

Wigs are not beautiful and she aswell

I pray her dad gets out of prison

@imo1960

3 ай бұрын

I think it was Calvin who went to prison. She said she finally spoke because she didn't want her Dad to go to prison.

@gwenstacy22

3 ай бұрын

Ok thanks cuz I realty couldn't take anymore of this! I just wanted to know did her dad at least try to kill the nigga

@GankTown

3 ай бұрын

He never went

My prayers for your healing.

Sorry this happens to you and so many others. My heart goes out to you 😢

Just wanted you to know that you are truly a beautiful person inside and out and that forgiveness does not mean that you are letting the other person off the hook and that its not for them its for you to heal. God commanded us to forgive so that He may forgive us. You can forgive those awful men and move on so you can begin to truly heal. Prayers and blessings my sister 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

This is so sad and so traumatic for any child at any age. 😢 Be the CHANGE let's change the cycle of our parents.

You are not only a Survivor, you are a true Superhero! Your bravery is amazing! ❤

I’m so sorry you endured such a horrific experience. I DO understand, unfortunately. Thank you for being strong enough to share your story. Godspeed healing journey to you.❤❤❤

Her mother was brutish and wicked. Dad was her saviour. But God ... He is able to help her heal ... Dear Heavenly Father PLEASE BLESS her and heal her .

@Schrodingers_Kat

3 ай бұрын

God will help her NOW? Not when she was being r8ped as a little kid? Really? What about when she was r8ped by her “friend” some time later? No, no God then? What about after that with all the trauma being inflicted? No? Not even then? Ah, but yes, he surely will help NOW, right? Gtfoh. Have you considered there is no God. Gave you considered that if there is one surely he must not give one single fraction of a fuk. Which one do you think it is?

@gloriajose3088

3 ай бұрын

Don’t forget the molester how evil and demonic he is

Sounds like your mother knew im so sorry this happened to you

@jessicathomas22717

3 ай бұрын

Oh she know how he was. Any time a child is fearful to be alone with adult that is a sign of abuse.

You're such a warrior. I'm sure at times you probably felt like you weren't but you are. You still have a voice and it's never too late. God will find a way to rectify your abuser's wrong doings. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

It’s absolutely okay to NOT forgive, some people truly do not deserve your forgiveness . You can still move on with your life without forgiving someone who is still doing wrong to others or hurting you

@angelaholmes8888

3 ай бұрын

Yes exactly I know this so well

Im so glad, you found some peace. Youre such a strong inspirational woman. You deserve all the good things that come your way. Thank you for sharing. Peace and love xx❤

I'm proud of you for sharing your story. I don't understand why some mothers including my own don't believe their children over a fly by night man.

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

3 ай бұрын

Sick mothers Nuggy, bloody sick mothers. Including my mother and wife too Nuggy; but I stood as tall as I could to protect my kids.

Your mother probably gave you to him. My sister could barely talk when my mom use to leave my sister with her boyfriend. My mom will always take me and my older sister with her and leave my younger sister, and when we came back my sister was always crying. BTW, why didn't they give you to your dad?

@PrincessAfrica3

3 ай бұрын

oh no your poor sister 😢😢😢😢😢 im so heartbroken for her😢😢 may Jesus Christ heal and comfort her

So sorry she had to endure this 😢😢😢

Sorry this happened to you, praying for you sista. Glad that you're talking about it ,it helps you. Kudo's to you.❤

Mother deliberately left her alone in house with boyfriend.

@enigmaticladypisces3169

3 ай бұрын

😢😢😢💔💔💔💔🙏🏾

@111JenA

3 ай бұрын

This is so heartbreaking. No child deserves this.God be with you and yours always. @@enigmaticladypisces3169

@ark198989

3 ай бұрын

She knew. Sad. Wicked. JESUS PLEASE COME!

Smh sick

Thanks for sharing your story. As this not only helps others, but it helps us to heal ❤.

Thank you for sharing your story. I know how hard it is. You have helped me more than you know. I can relate to so much you have said. For me, I never had a voice until I was very much older. I still to this day, find that the men that seem to come into my life only want to take advantage, so therefore I have been on my own for many many years. I enjoy my life by going on holidays every year. People who have never experience such horrendous trauma as a child could to me, never understand. For me, my whole being changed. I am so glad you have found peace in your life. Your a beautiful, brave, strong young woman. I pray continuous love, light, peace and blessings into your life❤💜🙏🏾

You’re still blaming yourself, but you are so amazing. I had a great childhood and I wish I was half the woman you are today! No offense, but your mom didn’t deserve you 😢

You are incredibly strong, incredibly smart, very beautiful and you are a survivor. You are very well spoken, and I wish you the very best you deserve it. Most people would not survive all that you did. Feel proud.

You deserved so much better. Your children have a great mom.

I'm so sorry you had to endure any of that. I wish you peace and joy throughout the rest of your life. God bless 💞

Gosh,your mother should ever be called a mother, something that I always be thankful with a great loving father God blessed me with for my gorgeous twin girls now just finished Uni and ahead to their best future 🙏 stay strong darling and get yourself ahead ❤️ ♥️

Thank you sharing ❤

Bless your heart!! You are a strong, smart & beautiful woman. Thank you so much for sharing your story. You will help sooo many people and I wish you nothing but love and happiness. Sending you big hugs, sweetheart. I am so sorry you had to go through that. 🩷🩷

Thank God you’ve reclaimed your voice. We‘re blessed to hear your story of overcoming. God bless you 🙏🏿❤️

Thank you very much for sharing your story. I am so sorry you had to endure all that trauma!! But you are very articulate and brave to share you story.

Thank you for sharing your story! It's freeing & helps others. You're beautiful & wish you the best life! ❤

You told your story very well.sorry for that nightmare.i hope things turned out right for you.

So prould of you. Sorry you had to go through this. You don't have to stay silent! Love and blesssings for your bravery. God bless you.

Some mothers don't deserve to be called mothers, i hope she finally heals completely.

You are to be commended for your bravery to tell your truth. May you and your family stay safe & well❣️

I don’t understand how that man is still around children. He would be a registered sex offender. I suppose he’s lying and sneaky.

You are amazing, beautiful and so courageous. Thank you for sharing your candid truth! May you continue to heal and be filled with peace and happiness.

He will do it again until he is stop

I wish you nothing but the best. God bless

Kenyata i am so sorry that you struggled with so much in your life for so many years you are truly a survivor your mother truly failed you

So glad things have worked out.youre going to do very well in life if you hold on to your positive attitude. May the blessings be.

I'm praying for you. God bless and keep you! Be the best mother you can be and continue to break generational curses! Keep motivating others! What the devil meant for evil, God will use it for our good!!!

❤to you

You too, experienced foster-careless-homes as I did. There was no love, no childhood fun, just plain no childhood and I (as well as you) did not get to visit our loving parent (in my case, loving parents).

Happens all the time.

Stay strong sis peace be

*That’s so sad*

God bless you❤❤❤

BRAVE SO❤L

You’re so brave and strong. Thank you for sharing your story with us ❤️ please give your life to Jesus Christ!! He can heal and transform you. He loves you and wants a relationship with you. Praying for you girl!

You look 17! So blessed! JESUS keep you, heal you, and make HIS face shine upon you! 🌻🙏 Stay strong!! JESUS LOVES YOU! 🌻🌹

The new husband didn’t like your dad so you wasn’t allowed to go visit? That’s unheard of.

❤❤❤❤❤

At the time my daughter was like 13-14 and my bf took us to the store. I did not leave my daughter in the car with him while I went to the store cuz I don’t trust no one!

That recently happened being drugged up in my adult years

Best wishes, beautiful lady. U and family stay safe 🙏

My problem is that even if i wanted to speak about it, i can't. I remember a lot of violence , but molestation i don't remember directly. A lot of events happened that triggered me to think that i was being molested, but i don't remember direcly. So there is nothing i can do. I don't know why i don't remember, i just don't. But there was my grandfather involved, mama's boyfriend, my grandmother, and i think her sister too. The only think i do remember, was when i was close to twenties that i was raped twice by some men i didn't knew. Aàaaah crazy

She knew because why she only leave you but took all the other children no mother is leaving her 5/6 year old child with a grown man.

My mom was a acholic my mom failed me she pass her boyfriend was shot 6 times for trying to mess with me I forgive her she pass it sent me in a depression I can't seem to get out of not working mean to everyone very rude I been a bad person

My mother used to beat us all the time wen we where kids, she’s not the worst but I just think we were all tough kids because that didn’t stop us from doing whatever we please though we know we would be brutalized, just so you know I’m in Africa and I still love my mom and about the beating she actually stopped when she knew we have gotten use to the beating to the point I pretend not to feel pain if beaten 😂 because I thought that would make her feel she’s wasting her time 😅 my apologies if you find my comment annoying

I will never understand how these " mothers " can be so careless. How tf are you comfortable enough leaving your daughter with a grown man that's not her father. All of my kids are coming with me or I'm not going anywhere, period. I truly believe the mama knew what was up.. thank God for her dad 🙏🏾✨

@daiharper8590

3 ай бұрын

Also how could you not believe your DAUGHTER. THEN, keep in contact with her alleged abuser.

@daiharper8590

3 ай бұрын

& YES I'm judging idc, that's just sad.

@ark198989

3 ай бұрын

Wicked world we live in sis. Can’t wait for KING JESUS to come and rescue us! 😭😢

Man I wish you had got the closure you needed from your mom before she pass😢

This is terrible 😞

🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌

The Mother ( or lack there of ) did left her with that animal on purpose!!!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬💔

God loves u and he cares about u. Don't allow men and past to control ur life. Take what happen to u and help others that was tramatized just as much as u. Forgive all them because at the end u will be found righteous by God.

You are beautiful and strong.

I didn’t deserved to be drugged up on meth last year

I want to go to another state to have a better life

🎉🎉🎉🎉

Not your fault sweet girl

Ur conversation telling men ur past make most take advantage of u. So sorry that happened

You keep saying you done “calm down” what did you do or rather how did you act out?

I was homeless

These monster

Everyone has a conscience, for and let God deal with their conscience. When God does it, they will not be able to deal with themselves. God purpose is to redeem, all people back to him. True healing only comes through Jesus for he knows the pain, disappointment and hurt we all have experienced in life. Read Isaiah 53.

@PrincessAfrica3

3 ай бұрын

amen

She's so pretty

@toigo-dn7on

3 ай бұрын

You probably think this about most other bitch's but not me and that's not fair.

Yall r very beautiful young women

@toigo-dn7on

3 ай бұрын

You probably think this about most other bitch's but not me. That's not fair.

For god sake….SAY HIS NAME!

Mom was a piece of work! And she walked all over your dad!!