Starting to accept this as my future realty as my current relationship is on the rocks. Appreciate you sharing this

@Jaycarbrownie12

18 күн бұрын

Me too girl

@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69

11 күн бұрын

Don’t do it. My mother screwed ne up big time when she turned me away from my father. I just never seen him since I was 10 and I was so messed up. I was angry I actually thought I should have been a woman because I felt so left out when my mom and sister did things together. I was overeating them on on drugs for my teens and 20s. I forgave my mother at age 31 but now I’m stuck looking after her as she’s broke and unable to look after herself. I am so lonely and no woman wants me because I live with my mother . She turned me into her husband . All these drug addicts and violent thugs have their mothers nature because they had no father to protect them from their mother . Girls turn out messed up too without a father, We need to stop promoting the traumatization of children

Great video. More women should share their journey into single motherhood as this is happening nowadays waaay more than people think. And it's an amazing choice!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

3 ай бұрын

Thank you! ❤️

@zaebos0079

2 ай бұрын

It's a choice, not more , not less.

@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69

11 күн бұрын

Evil selfish choice. I am stuck being my mothers husband still at age 32 because she didn’t need no man, She destroyed me

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

11 күн бұрын

I’m sorry that was your experience.

All the best with your journey to motherhood! It's the best choice I ever made. I'm also a SMBC, and I had my little girl at 33, my baby boy at 35, and I've just turned 36 and already in the process of having baby #3 ❤ Wishing you all the very best! As for the trolls, and negative comments, don't listen to them! There's always going to be some asshole trying to put you down no matter what you do. Best of luck ❤

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

@ReadThis_

21 күн бұрын

Wow so it's a collection now !! That's AMAZING, YOU GO GIRL!!!

@carlylouise5042

20 күн бұрын

@ReadThis_ it's not a collection. I'm giving my children siblings, I always wanted 3+ children and siblings are a blessing!

@ReadThis_

20 күн бұрын

@@carlylouise5042 you re right ! The absence of a father is a blessing too ! Mainly for the psychologists!! You go girl !!!

@themagicalcupcakeunicorn5755

5 күн бұрын

How do you go about childcare alone? Do you have family to help or if you take them to a center how do you afford the rates?

Just found this video! I'm 31 (32 later this year) and planning on starting the journey next year (need to wait for a surgery first) and hopefully start trying around my 33rd birthday (bc there's a long wait period in my country). I'm going to be watching through your videos now! I completely agree with not wanting to wait until 40s, my mom had me when she was 40 and she was so much older so much earlier in my life... and I don't want that. All these feelings that you talk about, YES edit: I'm also planning on IUI bc AFAIK I've heard my ovaries etc are in really good health, but that was a while ago... but so scary haha

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

Good luck with your surgery and your journey!

Thank you for sharing your story, seeing others travel this path and normalising this way of having a family is so inspiring. Wishing you all the very best for what is to come!!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

3 ай бұрын

Thank you!

SOLO BY CHOICE with a toddler. I love him to bits and I know the SD. However, he literally just asked me if I want to send him pictures of my toddler and honestly, I said no. I wanted to please him or encourage him and thought orginally to agree to meet up and share his photo but now, nah. If he wants to keep up with my toddler, he will accept our request for a photo of him and a phone call to update him on my toddler. I say, my, because he has nothing to do with him.

Thank you for talking about the grieving process...grieving for the family I imagined... Im glad Im not alone

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

19 сағат бұрын

You are definitely not alone! ❤️

Hi saw your channel and decided to subscribe to it that's awesome you doing this I wish you nothing but the best. You going to make a amazing mom I just believe that. You have a beautiful soul and I look forward to watching your journey and process to become a mom🙂

Im 26 and i found a donor. I start next week and im excited❤. Ik my family and other people is going to judge me but i dont care. I tried waiting for the "one" but im getting impatient

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

Ай бұрын

Good luck!

Thank you for beginning to share your journey with us. ❤ it’s so important for us women to talk about our journeys in order to empower eachother. Sending you lots of love and baby dust !!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I exactly looked to be a SMBC last april of 2023, with 34 yo, turned 35 in May, started the treatment and IVF in July, thankfully got pregnant that first time 🎉 , now I am 34 weeks pregnant, never felt better and full of love of my family, everyone is waiting for my baby in my family and friends circle! You are going to be fine! I wish you luck!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! That helps a lot. Congrats on your little one!

Congratulations on making this decision! Hope it turns out well for you, I froze my eggs twice but I'm intending to pursue solo motherhood this fall, shortly after I turn 35. You definitely have to mourn what you thought your life would look like but once you have your baby im sure you'll feel nothing but love.

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

3 ай бұрын

Thank you! Good luck to you on your journey as well!!

@oneman3587

3 ай бұрын

Felon makers unite

@nkoppa5332

2 ай бұрын

Why?

I fully support you on your journey and you inspire me❤

Im 27. For over a year now the only thing im thinking is having a baby. Its not something i crave. Im PREPARED for motherhood. I had so many disappointing relationships and the current one is going down the hill(he is incredibly childish and toxic). The only thing literally stopping me from going to a clinic and having a IUI procedure is my parents. HOW DO I TELL MY PARENTS. Im greek and they are the average conservative greek orthodox parents who want their daughter to get married...im emotionally tired of trying to find the right man and then imagining me and him being a family and children and then disappointed. Most of them dont want children they only wish to travel the world and go after money.The clock is ticking within me and every day is even more frustrating. I want children so bad😢

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

Hi there, thank you for sharing all of this. You are still so young! I don’t doubt that you want kids and are prepare for motherhood but you do still have time. Maybe start having the conversation with your family now. If they see how bad you want this I am sure they will be supportive in time. It may just take them a little bit of time to warm up to the idea. I think my dad is still warming up to the idea but I know that when I’m pregnant he will be so excited to be a grandfather. The other idea is that you can maybe to look to freeze eggs now to give yourself more options down the road.

Thanks for your video. I’m going to the same process

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations and good luck on your journey!

There are no good men queen! Have your kid and find Mr Right. I know he is there fof you! Ready to love, respect and be willing to do anything for you!

What’s the name of the podcast you mentioned and where can I listen to it? Thank you and thanks for sharing your story ❤

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

3 ай бұрын

Single Greatest Choice 😀

@oneman3587

3 ай бұрын

Worst choice for society!

"The fairytale is not over" made me think of Angelina Jolie. What a profound thought to leave people with.😊

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

It’s not over. It may be different but it’s just beginning 😊

Thank you for sharing your SMBC story. I'm 34 and started the SMBC process last April. I'm currently in my tww, for my 6th IUI, so hoping this one works. If unsuccessful, I'll be moving onto IVF so your egg retrieval videos provided good insight for if/when I get to that point. Wishing you the best and I look forward to following your story!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

Good luck getting through your TWW! Sending all of the positive vibes your way. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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I know this is old I work for a mom who made the same decision as you. She bought a house, her career began to boom so then she got a sperm donor. I have helped nanny for her on several occasions. Congratulations, she has also joined a group of moms who've done the same

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

17 күн бұрын

That’s awesome!

How long does the viles of sperm stay alive? Or is it frozen like eggs are?

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

6 сағат бұрын

It is frozen

Alot of American men seem really intimidated by this. xx

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

18 күн бұрын

For sure! They have egos and are insecure with themselves.

Do you ever think about if you have more than one and you still have not found mr right then you will have multiple baby daddies that arnt in their life and they will ask eventually and may be made fun of in school

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

24 күн бұрын

I actually have thought about that and that’s why i bought enough sperm so if i do have multiples they can be full biological siblings. Even if a kid comes from a traditional family, they can still be bullied in school. I was. A traditional family doesn’t make your kid less likely to be bullied or have a better overall life every family is different. The important thing is that the kid knows that they are loved and they have a support system that cares about them.

By Choosing, denying the child the Dad experience.

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

Ай бұрын

Unfortunately there are plenty of people that have a baby the natural way and have a very dysfunctional household. Just because they have 2 parents doesn’t mean anything. My child will have a strong male role model in there life with family that loves them. That’s what matters.

@sararedbride9728

28 күн бұрын

​@@KaitlynMarie-ug3pomy father was present the whole time but he was a sh**ty person and emotionally unavailable

@southernbelle2478

24 күн бұрын

​@@KaitlynMarie-ug3pojust because that may happen doesnt mean you just have a kid alone because you just want a kid that is a big deal a kid isnt just a babydoll they are a human they need both their parents in their life

@carlylouise5042

20 күн бұрын

@southernbelle2478 cut it out! My dad was a total asshole growing up!! My brother and I were ALWAYS happier without him! As long as a child has love and other family members in their life, that's all that matters. My father has done some serious damage to me, so don't you tell me every child needs a father!!! My brother killed himself, and he had a father!!! Im so sick of hearing you "do gooders" put us down!!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

20 күн бұрын

@carlylouise5042 you are so strong and brave! Thank you for sharing. You are 100% correct live and support is all anyone needs in this world.

If you're a single mother by choice, you shouldn't get ANY help from we the tax payers!!! Stop this cash COW before it starts !!

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

28 күн бұрын

I pay my taxes and probably more than taxes than most. Definitely not looking for help. Don’t need financial help.

@carlylouise5042

20 күн бұрын

I've always paid my taxes! Stop looking for a reason to put us down. Men are just pissed off that women now days don't need them to start a family. I had a mother and a father growing up, and my dad was an asshole!!!

@Jaycarbrownie12

18 күн бұрын

You’re terrible ! You need to go to hell telling her something like that .

@KayEmJaye

18 күн бұрын

There are literally millions of people spending their lives scamming and killing others and here you are spending yours pathetically bullying a woman wanting to fulfill the most natural human role of parenting offspring. Get your own life buddy.

@Rene-cn4jc

17 күн бұрын

Your comment displays a lot of ignorance. As a person working in OBGYN/fertility field, let me share some information. Couples and women usually pay out of pocket for most testing, treatments, medications, and procedures performed. The average total cost is to go through everything once is $5k-$10k. Many people have to go through multiple rounds. The couples/women who go through this process are not likely to need the assistance you speak of. You can disagree with her choice but, at very least, educate yourself before making baseless comments.

Finding a man was that difficult?

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

3 ай бұрын

Not a man but the “right” man. Yes

@kimberlysinardi3476

2 ай бұрын

Yes it is aha

@nkoppa5332

2 ай бұрын

@@KaitlynMarie-ug3pohave you ever considered the possibility that finding a partner to be with as well as be a decent father to provide the necessary psychological needs for children would require a bit of compromise? And perhaps you and many women would have to learn to love a man over time slowly, as well as temper your own expectations? Or do you think you deserve the perfect man? Is your mental process that of “I want the perfect man, 6’3, richer than me, business owner, handsome, and wants to be with me only”

@KaitlynMarie-ug3po

2 ай бұрын

You can judge me and other woman all that you want but with all do respect, you don’t know me, my preferences in relationships, what I personally have been through, or anything about me.

@GhyRat

2 ай бұрын

It is.

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